我觉得没有任何女孩会喜欢我,这让我分外难过。我是不是会永远都找不到女朋友啊?
2021-06-04 达tothe洋 11527
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I feel upset thinking no girl will ever like me. Will I never have a girl friend?

我觉得没有任何女孩会喜欢我,这让我分外难过。我是不是会永远都找不到女朋友啊?

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Anonymous
Oh man I was in the same situation as you, but now I secretly enjoy girls flirting with me all the time.Well, before anything, being single is not bad at all. In fact, sometimes (or most times) being single is a lot more fun than having a girlfriend that too when you are just 23. If you follow the below rules, girls would be running behind you by the time you are 26 (I guess that is the age you should think about girlfriends).

噢,兄嘚~我也曾经身处你这种情况,但是如今我已经偷偷地爱上了一直和女孩们调情的滋味。首先,单身绝对不是一件坏事。事实上,当你23岁时,单身生活有时候(或者大部分时候)可比有个女朋友要欢乐多了。如果你遵循下面这些规则的话,那么当你26岁时,女孩子们就会跟着你屁股后面跑了。(我想26岁才是你应该去想着找女朋友的年龄)

1. First and foremost rule - NEVER look for a girlfriend. Period. Assume you do not want a girl friend and don't care.

1,第一条,也是最重要的一个原则--那就是永远不要去“找”女朋友。就这么简单。你得假设自己并不想找个女朋友,你得对此不屑一顾。
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Have a lot of guy friends to roam around with. Girls find that attractive as such.

2身边有很多陪你撒欢的男性朋友,女孩们会觉得这点很有吸引力。

Play some sport and become an expert in that. It will make you fit, would be a great distraction and girls find that competitive nature attractive.

3.参加一些运动,并成为这方面的专家。这能让你拥有更好的体型,这是一个能让你分散注意力的好办法,此外女孩子也会觉得你这种充满竞争的天性十分迷人。

Learn to play guitar. It is easy.

4,去学习弹奏吉他,很简单的。

Exercise and/or practice Yoga and become fit.

5 锻炼或者练习瑜伽,保持好你的体型。

Travel (solo or with friends/family) and learn different culture.

6 出门旅游(独自或者和亲戚朋友一起),并学习不同的文化

Again NEVER look for a girlfriend. Just be friendly with girls.

7,再重申一次,永远不要“找”女朋友。对女孩友好就行。

If you do the above, you'll no more be looked upon as a dull and boring guy. You will be an interesting guy with varied talents, not some loser desperate for girlfriends.

如果你做到了以上所有这些的话,那么你便不会再被人们视为一个呆子或者无趣的家伙。你将成为一个多才多艺的有趣的家伙,而非一个饥渴地想找个女朋友的窝囊废。
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But what is more important is - you yourself will no more think you are a boring guy. And that confidence in itself would be super attractive to girls and they'll flock behind you.

不过更为重要地是,你自己也将不再自视为一个无趣的人。这种自信本身就能够吸引女孩,她们会向你蜂拥而至。

You'll rarely find a knowledgeable, confident, guitar playing fit guy without girlfriends.

毕竟一个知识渊博,充满自信,会演奏吉他而且身材又好的人是很难没有女朋友的。
Brandon Lindsay 브랜든 최형배 八郎

Ive done the exact thing played sports took martial arts i did alot of things so called guys that get girlfriends but me no never had a girlfriend never kissed nothing and ive mostly been made fun of by girls idk maybe those girls where just assholes. But yeah i tried dating apps etc never worked i tried my friends to help me out to get a girlfriend they either made a excuse or said i damn near fucking ugly so idk what to do what do you think?

你列表上的所有事情我都做过了,我尝试过武术这样的运动,也做过很多所谓能让男人把到妹子的事情。然而我这辈子从来没有交过女朋友,也从来没有和妹子接吻过。我大多数时候总是会被女孩取笑,我不懂了,大概是因为那些女孩都是混蛋吧。我也尝试过约会软件,但从来没有成功过,我还试着让我的朋友帮我找女朋友,他们要么是找借口推脱,要么就说我长得忒丑了,所以我真不知该如何是好,对此你怎么看?

Ethan Yi Shan Tiew
What if you have all the above qualities, and STILL gte looked upon as some loser?

如果你具备了以上所有的这些品质,但还是被妹子们视为窝囊废的话,又该如何是好呢?

Concept.
dont do this, unless that’s actually you. If you actually want a girlfriend, don’t just pretend to be something that you’re not, that’s stupid.

别照他的方法做,除非那是真正的你。如果你们真的想交个女友的话,不要只是去装成另外一个人,这委实愚蠢。
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Gabriel Goliath
I'm all of those things accept confident and I feel like that's the only point that is important

我符合了你所列举的所有条件,除了自信那部分,而我感觉自信才是唯一重要的一点。

R. Iván Sibher, knows Spanish
man, i don’t know how old are you but if you aren’t 44 yet then don’t lose your expectations about ever find any.i am now too old, too grumpy, too poor, unsure of wanting kids and basically jobless (among other things) at this point, but i can tell you this: i learned (way too late) women do try to flirt with you, but sadly must of us are not paying enough attention or just focus on the ones calling out attention without looking to those willing to get our attention too.Now if you already past 40 and still that way, better focus your efforts in buy a ferrari, it will always cheer you up just looking at it!

兄弟,我不知道你现在多大了,但是如果你还没到44岁的话,那就不该放弃自己的期望。我现在已经太老了,脾气也臭,而且还穷,也不知自己是否想要孩子,而且我基本上还是个无业游民,但我还是得告诉你:我发现很多女人确实会试着和你调情(我发现得太迟了),但不幸的是我们并没有给与其足够的关注,或者我们只是在关注那些吸引了我们的人,而没有去关注那些愿意去吸引我们的人。如果你已经年过40,依然是这副德行的话,那最好把自己的注意力集中在赚钱买一辆法拉利这种事情上吧,因为那玩意儿看上一眼就能让你美滋滋!

Anonymous
I'm a girl and I'm 22. I think I'm very much eligible to write this answer. I'm single too. Never had a boy friend.I don't think there is something wrong in me for not being in a relationship. It is not compulsory that everybody should be in a relationship. Wait for the right person to come into your life.I strongly believe that.. Instead of getting into a wrong relationship in the early stages of life, breaking up, crying over it, trying to move on in life and finding someone else... It's better wait for sometime and welcome the right person into your life and be happy.

我是个22岁的女孩。我认为自己有足够的资格写出这个回答。我也是单身,且从未交过男友。我不认为不谈恋爱是因为我自己有什么问题。并不是每个人都必须身处一段感情,有些人只是在等待合适的人进入他的生活。我坚信这一点...与其在人生的早期阶段陷入一段错误的关系,然后分手,哭泣,试着继续前行,然后再找另一个人...倒不如等上一段时间,然后欢迎那个对的人进入你的生活,然后一起幸福地走下去。

Ankit Goyal, Had one of each..
Hey..You are just 23. It's okay.. Relax.The problem is not "you". Problem is what you are thinking. You think you are boring,geeky or nerdy that's why girls don't pay heed to you.This sounds really ridiculous. Everyone wants to be happy and this goes for girls too. If a girl feels she will find happiness in you, she will be with you. You just have to find comfort in your own skin. Be happy about who you are. Everyone is beautiful . You too are but you are not acknowledging it.

嘿,你才23岁啊,没关系的..放松些...问题并不出在“你”身上,问题出在你的想法。你认为女孩们之所以没有注意到你是因为你很无趣,引人厌烦或者一股书呆子气。这听起来委实荒谬。每个人都想收获快乐,女孩们也同样如此。如果一个女孩觉得她能在你的身上找到幸福的话,那么她便自然会和你在一起。你只需要对自己多宽慰一点,为自己感到高兴。每一个人都是美丽的,你也同样如此,只是你还没有意识到罢了。

Start loving yourself. Pursue your hobby. Have a passion for a thing you love. Have compassion for others. And for God sake please just stop thinking about just yourself.Appreciate and acknowledge yourself. If you can't love yourself atleat don't hurt yourself with these stupid thoughts .

开始爱惜你自己吧。去追逐自己的爱好,对自己喜欢的事情抱有激情。对他人有同情心。看在上帝的份上,别一个劲地在自己身上找问题了。试着去欣赏并承认自己。如果你真的做不到爱自己的话,至少不要让那些愚蠢的想法伤害到自己。

Mahesh Chavan, Soft Engg,traveler,foodie,poet,writer,optimist,romantic,positive
I've one friend who thinks just the same way like you... Being natural is the only thing which will give you confidence to talk to any girl.. And until n unless you talk to any girl you won't know what they like, how they like things and things about them.. N until you know what, how n when they like those things you won't get a girlfriend!! So be natural and frankly talk to girls.. Try to understand them.. You will surely find a perfect girlfriend for you.. :)

我有一个朋友的想法和你一样...自然不做作是唯一能让你有自信和任何女孩说话的品质。而且除非你和一个女孩子交谈,否则你永远无法知道他们喜欢什么。而且只有在你搞明白她们喜欢什么以后你才能找到一个女朋友!所以自然坦率地和妹子交流吧,试着去理解她们。你一定能够找到一个对你而言完美的女友。

Pavlov Pepno
Forget what others say here about reverse psychology — pretend you don’t need then and then they’ll chase you. If you have a high libido you’ll never be able to pull it off.

别去理会其他人说的那些什么逆反心理--假装自己不需要女友。然后她们就会追着你跑。如果你性欲满满的话,那么这一招你根本没法用好。

What you really need is to reduce your libido; then rejection will no longer wreak havoc with your self-esteem. And it will be a lot easier to develop social skills, develop a hobby, exercise, cut out the self-pity, educate yourself … and all the other things that one should do.

你真正需要做的是降低自己的性欲;这样一来,妹子们的拒绝便再也无法伤害到你的自尊了。此外你还需要培养社交能力,培养爱好,锻炼身体,停止自怨自艾,做好自我教育...以及其他那些生而为人就应该去做的事情。

I, after a life of endless suffering because of universal rejection from women, took the medication to reduce libido (sex drive). And that’s the one thing that gave me some measure of relief. Forget the platitudes like time heals and someone for everyone.

我经历了无数次被女性拒绝的悲痛之后,开始服用药物来降低自己的性欲。而此举确实让我放松了一些。忘记“时间会治愈一切”,“每个人都能找到属于自己的另一半"这类陈词滥调吧。

Jepson Jholline, Anime critic
Girls are Overrated…….girlfriends too are overrated……as a guy been in a relationship for a few years…..its just a waste of time…..enjoy what you have and flirt with many girls

女孩们被高估了,女朋友也被高估了...作为一个身处一段感情数年之久的男人,我认为谈恋爱纯粹就是在浪费时间...你应该享受自己所拥有的一切,很尽可能多的妹子们打情骂俏

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