生活中最被高估的事情是什么? 为什么他们被高估了?
2022-11-14 可乐加冰 5245
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What are the most overrated things in life? Why are they overrated?

生活中最被高估的事情是什么? 为什么他们被高估了?

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Swastika Dutt, Moody philosopher.
Being in a relationship.
Physical appearance.
The ability to speak fluent English.
Having a professional qualification.
Having high-end cellphones, gadgets etc.
P.S. - My answer is a little specific to the Indian mentality and the society we live in. These are few things that I feel are extremely overrated and most people are judged on these parameters by friends, family and acquaintances.
Edit 1- This answer became immensely popular. Thanks for all the upvotes. A lot of comments mention that I missed IITs and IIMs in my answer. Well, I missed cause I don't think they are overrated. Being able to get into an IIT or IIM is a matter of pride and needs a lot of hard work. Also, only the best brains can make it into an IIT or an IIM.

处于一段关系中。
外表。
能说流利的英语。
具有专业资格。
拥有高端手机、小工具等。
附注: 我的回答有点针对印度人的心态和我们所处的社会。我觉得这些东西被过分高估了,大多数人的朋友、家人和熟人都是根据这些参数来评价他们的。
编辑: 这个答案非常受欢迎。感谢所有的支持票。很多评论提到在我的回答中我错过了印度理工学院和印度管理学院。我漏掉了,因为我不认为他们被高估了。能够进入印度理工学院或印度管理学院是一件值得骄傲的事情,需要付出很多努力。此外,只有最优秀的人才能够进入印度理工学院或印度管理学院。

Andrew Ferebee
1. Money: After you break $10,000/month net, earning more money won’t really make you that much happier. Sure, you can drive a faster car or own a bigger house, but is it really worth all of the effort? I can tell you from experience that the answer is NO!
2. One Night Stands: Yeah, they’re fun the first few times. But eventually, the emotionless and connectionless sex will become more of a chore than anything else. Do yourself a favor and find someone you actually like.
3. Getting Drunk: Do I really need to say more? When did becoming a slobbery, incoherent idiot become “cool”?
4. College Degrees: Yay! $100,000 in debt, no marketable skills, and 4 years down the drain (unless you want to be a lawyer, doctor, or something in the STEM fields… then you should degree it up!)
5. Being an Entrepreneur: It’s hard thankless work that will stress you out, turn your hairs grey, and make you wonder why the hell you’re doing it. Unless you are HARD WIRED as an entrepreneur (you know if this is you) work for someone else as an intrapreneur and leave the heavy lifting to those of us cursed with entrepreneurial personality types.

1. 金钱:当你每月净赚1万美元后,赚更多的钱并不会让你变得更快乐。当然,你可以开更快的车或拥有更大的房子,但这真的值得所有的努力吗?我可以根据经验告诉你答案是否定的!
2. 一夜情:是的,头几次很有趣。但最终,没有感情和没有联系的性生活将成为一件比任何事情都更烦人的事情。帮自己一个忙,找一个你真正喜欢的人。
3. 喝醉:我真的需要说更多吗?什么时候成为一个流口水、语无伦次的白痴变得“酷”了?
4. 大学学位:耶,10万美元的债务,没有市场技能,4年的时间白白浪费掉了 (除非你想成为律师、医生或STEM领域的什么人……那么你应该提高学历!)
5. 成为一名企业家: 这是一项费力不讨好的工作,会让你压力山大,头发变白,让你怀疑自己到底为什么要做这件事。除非你是一个天生的企业家(如果你是,你会知道的),否则你会以内部创业者的身份为别人工作, 把繁重的工作留给那些被诅咒的企业家性格类型的人。

6. Self Help: This might sound funny coming from someone with a business in the space. But self help should be viewed kind of like a doctor. Use it when you need it (i.e. when something in your life isn’t working) but otherwise enjoy your life.
7. 80+ Hour Work Weeks: Ohhhh look at how hard you work! Now tell me again, is this badge of honor that you’re wearing worth the 3 divorces, 2 children who hate you, broken body, chronic stress, and empty life?
8. New Phones: Remind me again why it was worth half of your paycheck to unlock a new (and likely useless) feature on the device that is stealing your life?
9. Motivation: It doesn’t work. Rely on accountability and discipline instead because you will NEVER feel like putting in all of the work required to live your best life.
10. Getting #jackedaf: Congrats! You have a six pack and 18″ biceps. But you spend 10 hours in the gym a week, 15 more hours cooking and eating your meals, and half of your paycheck on supplements. Gain a bit of muscle and just be healthy. No need to look like Arnold unless that’s how you make your money.

6. 自助: 这句话出自在该领域有业务的人之口,听起来可能很有趣。但自助应该像医生一样看待。当你需要的时候(也就是当你生活中的某件事不起作用的时候)使用它,否则就享受你的生活。
7. 每周工作80小时以上: 哦,看看你工作多努力! 现在再告诉我一次,你戴着的荣誉勋章值得你经历三次离婚,两个讨厌你的孩子,破碎的身体,长期的压力和空虚的生活吗?
8. 新手机:再次提醒我,为什么在窃取你生命的设备上解锁一个新的(可能是无用的)功能值得你一半的薪水?
9. 动机:这行不通。相反,要依靠责任和纪律,因为你永远不会想投入所有的工作来过最好的生活。
10. 获得发达的肌肉: 恭喜! 你有六块腹肌和18英寸的肱二头肌。但你每周花10个小时在健身房,15个小时做饭和吃饭,还有一半的工资花在补品上。长点肌肉,保持健康。没必要看起来像阿诺德,除非这是你赚钱的方式。

11. Name Brand Clothing: Because apparently spending 4x as much for a product that is only 10% better is hip these days.
12. Fast Cars: They cost as much as a mortgage, are expensive as hell to repair, put gas in, and insure and, to be honest… They aren’t all that great. Spend $2,000 and drive your dream car on a track. But don’t waste your time and money owning one.
13. Big Houses: Since when did wasting space and owning things that are completely unnecessary become a sign that you’ve “made it”. I respect people who live within their means and seek to be happy not infamous.
14. Reading a Lot of Books: Sure, information is useful. But it’s only powerful when it’s applied. Read 1–2 GREAT books and take massive action on them instead of reading 365 “ok” books and ignoring them.
15. Kim Kardashian: Do I really need to say more?

11. 名牌服装:显然,花4倍的钱买一件只比原来好10%的产品是现在的潮流。
12. 跑车: 它们的成本和抵押贷款一样高,修理、加油和保险都贵得要命,说实话,它们并没有那么好。花2000美元在赛道上驾驶你梦想中的车。但是不要浪费你的时间和金钱去拥有它。
13. 大房子:从什么时候开始,浪费空间和拥有完全不需要的东西变成了你“成功”的标志。我尊重那些量入为出、追求幸福而不是声名狼藉的人。
14. 阅读大量书籍:当然,信息是有用的。但只有当它被应用时,它才会强大。阅读1-2本好书,并大量应用它,而不是读365本“好”的书,然后忽略它们。
15. 金·卡戴珊:我还需要说更多吗?

Ram Kumar
Beat this!
Ferrero Rocher.
I mean seriously!?
When I first ate, I did not know the price of this. In India it costs ~ INR 25\\\\\\\\- per piece which I believe is way too high considering both the quality and quantity.
I did not find anything appealing except for the Italian name. And really do not understand why people go gaga over this. May be because we can make a pyramid out of this ? 0_O
or perhaps a bouquet?
or a heart?
Other than this, I do not find anything worth the price.
For me, this round piece is really over-hyped and over-priced.

远离这个!
费列罗巧克力。
我是认真的!
当我第一次吃的时候,我不知道这个的价格。在印度,每件要25卢比,考虑到质量和数量,我认为这个价格太高了。
除了这个意大利名字,我没有发现任何吸引我的地方。我真的不明白为什么人们会对此如此狂热。也许是因为我们可以把它做成金字塔?
或者一束花?
还是一颗心?
除此之外,我找不到任何物有所值的东西。
对我来说,这个圆形的东西确实被夸大了,价格也太高了。

Abhi Bavishi,CEO at AutoDeus Technologies Private Limited (2017–present)
A Big Fat Wedding.
I seriously don't get the point of wasting your life savings to impress people who give the least fuck about you.
Because, let's fact it-- no one comes to watch you get married; they all come for the free food and the booze, and to bicker about the one thing that's bound to go wrong.
"The starters were great, but the main course is so dull. Damn!"
"They have ice-cream, but it's not low-fat. Can you believe it?"
From being a ceremony that celebrates togetherness, weddings have become a means of orchestrating extravagance. I feel agitated when people save up for years just to splurge it on an ostentatious ceremony.
Stop being so pretentious, for God sake.

一场盛大的婚礼。
我真的不明白为什么要浪费你毕生的积蓄去打动那些对你毫不关心的人。
因为,事实上,没有人来看你结婚;他们都是为了免费的食物和酒水而来,并为一定会出错的一件事争吵。
“开胃菜很棒,但主菜没味道。该死!”
“他们有冰淇淋,但不是低脂的。你能相信吗?”
婚礼从一种庆祝团聚的仪式,变成了一种策划奢华的手段。当人们积蓄多年,只是为了在一个浮夸的仪式上挥霍时,我感到不安。
看在上帝的份上,别装腔作势了。

You're getting married to a person, not the world. Enjoy this special and intimate moment. I'm not saying don't celebrate it at all. Of course, invite a few close friends over. Throw a nice party. Share your happiness, but limit your circle to people who actually care. No need to call all your long lost relatives for free dinner.
And with the money you save...
Go, travel to the most exotic and romantic places in the world.
Get lost on an island.
Go on a date in a hot air balloon.
Cruise along the most serene and beautiful places.
Realize that weddings are not shows; they're mere beginnings, and beginnings are always humble, not extravagant. Period.

你要嫁给的是一个人,而不是整个世界。享受这特殊而亲密的时刻。我不是说完全不庆祝。当然,请几个好朋友过来, 举办一个不错的聚会。分享你的快乐,但把你的圈子限定在真正关心你的人身上。没有必要打电话给你所有久违的亲人免费晚餐。
用你省下的钱:
去世界上最异国情调和浪漫的地方旅行。
在岛上迷路。
坐热气球去约会。
沿着最宁静、最美丽的地方巡游。
要知道婚礼不是表演;它们只是开始,开始总是谦卑的,而不是奢侈的。就这样。

Radhika Govindarajan,I have Mageirocophobia !!
A safe life
1. Study well in school so that you can get into a good college safely
2.Score well in college so that you can get in a good MNC company with a safe salary
3. Never fall in love as your heart will no longer be secure
4. Do not raise your voice against the hooligan who is creating havoc in the streets as he is bound to harm you
Instead complain safely secured by obscurity
5. Never do things differently. They attract unwarranted attention. Fall back into the safety of routine and practise
6. Get married. Get kids. Get a house. A fixed deposit. Get the kids to a good school/college. Make them engineers , doctors. Retire peacefully. Take holiday trips with family arranged by Travel companies
7. Live a life safely. Without a dent. Without a scratch. With the realisation of having never lived at all.

安稳地生活
1. 在学校好好学习,这样你就能安稳地进入一所好大学
2. 在大学里取得好成绩,这样你就可以进入一个好的跨国公司,有一份稳定的薪水
3. 永远不要坠入爱河,因为你的心将不再安全
4. 不要大声反对在街上造成破坏的流氓,他一定会伤害你。
相反,默默无闻、安全地投诉
5. 永远不要做不同的事情。它们会引起不必要的注意。回到安全的日常生活和练习中去
6. 结婚。生孩子。买房子。定期存款。让孩子们去一所好学校/大学。让他们成为工程师、医生。平静地退休。和家人一起参加旅游公司安排的度假
7.安稳地生活。没有一点伤害。毫发无伤。感觉自己从未生活过。
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Adam Bergen,Writer | Founder Monday Views
Traveling.
Don’t yell at me yet.
Let me start off by saying: everyone always wants to travel. Everyone claims it’s a hobby of theirs (traveling isn’t a hobby…). Everyone associates some sort of “charm” with traveling the world.
And yes, there’s something about a person who’s cultured through world travel. And there’s something charming and sexy about traveling all over.
But here’s where it gets tricky: a lot of people use traveling as an excuse to temporarily get outside of their current situation.
They’re stuck in a miserable job, have a crappy outlook on life, and lead an existence they by all means hate.
What’s the fastest way to leave that all behind and live in the present moment for a few days?

旅行。
别对我大喊大叫。
让我先说:每个人都想旅行。每个人都声称这是他们的爱好(旅行不是爱好)。每个人都把某种“魅力”与环游世界联系在一起。
是的,一个人在周游世界的过程中有某种修养。到处旅行也有一种迷人和性感的感觉。
但这是一个棘手的问题:很多人以旅行为借口暂时摆脱目前的处境。
他们被困在一份痛苦的工作中,有着糟糕的人生观,过着一种他们完全讨厌的生活。
把这些抛在脑后,在当下生活几天,最快的方法是什么?
原创翻译:龙腾网 http://www.ltaaa.cn 转载请注明出处


You guessed it, travel.
There’s a reason it’s called the post-vacation blues: everyone is jerked back to reality when they come back from a trip. And they get temporarily depressed.
Not good. Your every day life should be decent enough that traveling isn’t an escape, it’s a welcome addition.
Your every day life shouldn’t be so miserable that you have to literally leave town to catch a few breaths.
You should strive to make your life awesome enough so that traveling isn’t a necessity to keep your sanity — it’s a necessity to explore the world.

你猜对了,旅行。
这被称为度假后的忧郁症是有原因的:每个人旅行回来后都会回到现实中。他们会暂时抑郁。
不好。你的日常生活应该足够体面,旅行不是一种逃避,它是一个受欢迎的补充。
你的日常生活不应该如此悲惨,以至于你真的要离开小镇去喘口气。
你应该努力让你的生活足够精彩,这样旅行就不是保持理智的必要条件,而是探索世界的必要条件。

Somya Aggarwal,Life in a metro
BIRTHDAYS!!!!
I would say birthdays are the most overrated.
One day and people go crazy. The day when we are born, we should ideally be spending with people who are responsible for our birth.
And we spend it with everyone except our parents. We are running the whole day to feed people who are just more than happy on the day which marks the end of one more year from our lives.
I have seen people getting wasted and smoking every possible drug on their birthdays. People start putting up countdowns on social networking sites for their D day. Then when the day ends they put up an album on facebook containing 100s of pictures of themselves cutting cakes and supposedly having fun. Then they make a big collage of the gifts they got and put it up on Facebook, whatsapp and instagram. Then they thank their friends on social media for making their day wonderful, something which could be done personally in a more effective way.
Edit: Thank you fellow quorans for the views and the upvotes. One of you have commented an interesting thing. That's how people completely change once your birthday is over. :p

生日!
我觉得生日是最被高估的。
这是人们疯狂的一天。我们生日的那一天,我们应该和那些对我们的出生负责的人一起度过。
我们和所有人一起过,除了父母。我们忙了一整天、努力使他们开心,这标志着我们生命中又一年的结束。
我见过有人在生日那天喝得酩酊大醉,吸食各种各样的毒品。人们开始在社交网站上为他们的活动日倒计时。当一天结束时,他们会在脸书发布一个相册,里面有100多张他们切蛋糕的照片,而且应该很开心。然后,他们把收到的礼物拼成一幅大拼贴画,发布在脸书、whatsapp和instagram上。然后,他们会在社交媒体上感谢他们的朋友,感谢他们让自己的一天变得很美好,这可以通过更有效的方式亲自完成。
编辑: 感谢知乎网友的观点和点赞。你们中有人评论了一件有趣的事。你的生日一过,人就完全变了。

Akanksha Kiran,Lives in India
Last year I attended a girl's marriage which was organized at a very esteemed and luxurious hotel of our town.
At first glance I was blown away by the captivating decorations and amazing buffet which had almost every kind of North Indian dishes and lip smacking desserts.
I was drooling over the appetizing meal when I saw the bride walking towards the stage.
She was looking gorgeous in her shimmery red lahenga and the guest were gazing the beautiful bride.
Afterwards I came to know the bride's father has spent a lot for her wedding and gifts (read it dowry) which was quite obvious for an Indian middle class family.

去年,我参加了一个女孩的婚礼,婚礼是在我们镇上一家非常尊贵豪华的酒店举行的。
乍一看,我被迷人的装饰和令人惊叹的自助餐惊呆了,那里几乎有各种北印度菜肴和令人垂涎欲滴的甜点。
当我看到新娘走向舞台时,我正为这顿开胃的饭菜流口水。
她穿着闪闪发光的红色拉亨加裙,看上去很漂亮,客人们目不转睛地盯着这位美丽的新娘。
后来我才知道新娘的父亲为她的婚礼和礼物花费了很多(看看嫁妆),这对于一个印度中产阶级家庭来说是显而易见的。

Now when it's almost a year of her marriage when I came to know her father is currently trapped in debt as he took loan for her marriage.
Not his father's fault - It's a norm set by the society of a Big Fat Indian wedding as there's a lot of stigma attached to a small ceremony.
The more posh and Lavish your wedding is, the more rich, classy and elite you are.
Not offending the ones who spends in dollars for their marriage as it's an obvious fact that it happens only once in a lifetime and there's a lot of memory attached to it.
What are the most overrated things in life-
A big fat Indian wedding!
But I've seen quite a few families earning in penny but spending dollars just to meet the standard set by the society and later suffering with debt trap.
I don't have any right to poke my nose in their matter, but can we get a little lenient while judging someone going for court marriage to save some penny for their future?

现在,当她结婚快一年了,我才知道她的父亲因为为她的婚姻贷款而陷入债务困境。
这不是他父亲的错——这是印度社会对盛大婚礼的一种规范,因为小型婚礼会被贴上很多耻辱的标签。
你的婚礼越豪华,越奢华,你就越富有,越有品位、越精英。
不要冒犯那些为婚姻花大钱的人,因为这是一个显而易见的事实,这一生只有一次,而且会有很多回忆。
生活中最被高估的事情是什么
一场盛大的印度婚礼!
但我看到不少家庭赚小钱花大钱,只为达到社会规定的标准,后来又陷入了债务陷阱。
我没有任何权利在他们的问题上戳鼻子,但是在评判一个人参加法庭婚姻以为未来节省一点钱时,我们能不能宽容一点 ?

Sean Kernan
What is the most overrated thing?
We spent over $20,000 on our wedding.
I spent thousands more on a ring.
I am no longer married.
The wedding party lasted one night. The ring is now useless.
This isn't a knock on my ex. We are cool. I wish her the best.
I'm just pointing out that, in a country with a 50% divorce rate, we probably spend too much on weddings and marriage.

最被高估的是什么?
我们在婚礼上花了两万多美元。
我花了数千英镑买了一枚戒指。
我离婚了。
婚礼持续了一晚。戒指现在已经没用了。
这不是对我前任的打击,我们很好。我祝她一切顺利。
我只是想指出,在一个离婚率高达50%的国家,我们可能在婚礼和婚姻上花费太多了。

Siddharth Bhattacharya
Uploading your life's most precious moments and memories on a social networking website and counting the number of " likes" they receive.

把你生命中最珍贵的时刻和记忆上传到社交网站,然后细数它们收到的“点赞”数。

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