你喜欢自己什么?(上)
2021-03-15 汤沐之邑 4969
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What do you like about yourself?

你喜欢自己什么?

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Kaila Thomas
Seemingly Average College Student
Huh, it’s funny that I haven’t taken much time to think about this, because it’s so much easier for me to think/talk about the things that I don’t. Here are a few things that I like about me:
I see the best in people, no matter what the circumstances may be. Call me gullible, but I really do see the best in people in the first encounter, as times passes, and even if others say bad things about them. Why? Well, I believe who people are are “bad” seem that way on the outside because we never know the details. Everyone is struggling in their lives, and most of the time, people try to save face, even if it’s in the worst ways. I know that there are times in my own life where I feel so shitty, but how many people know that about me? Not many, outside of my family and a few close friends. Realizing this, I like that I’m not quick to judge others because I don’t know it all.
I’m a listener. While I’m horrible at public speaking and talking about myself aloud, I think I’m a great listener. I’m open to hearing how other people feel, and I can empathize with others, even I haven’t experienced certain things before. There’s something really enjoyable to me with one-on-one conversations where I can lend and open ear to someone who needs it.
One of my favorite songs by BTS lyrically is Magic Shop, and these lyrics are what I try to be to others:
“On days where I hate myself for being me, on days where I want to disappear forever
Let's make a door. It's in your heart Open the door and this place will await Magic Shop”
I always strive to be the Magic Shop for someone else when they’re feeling down.

嗯,有趣的是,我没有花太多的时间来思考这个问题,因为我更容易思考或者谈论那些我不喜欢的事情。下面有一些我喜欢我自己的东西:
无论在什么情况下,我都看得到人们最好的一面。可以说我是容易上当受骗的,但在第一次见面时,即使别人说了他们不好的事情,我确实看得到人们最好的一面。 为什么呢?嗯,我相信那些外表上看起来之所以是“坏”的人,是因为我们从来不知道细节。每个人都在生活中挣扎,很多时候,哪怕是以最坏的方式,人们都在努力挽回面子。我知道在生活中,有很多时候我感觉很糟糕,但是有多少人知道我的感受呢?除了我的家人和几个亲密的朋友之外,人数并不会有很多。意识到这一点后,我一般先不急着去评判别人,因为自己并不了解别人的全部。
我是个倾听者。虽然我不擅长公开演讲,也不擅长大声谈论自己,但我觉得我是个很好的倾听者。我愿意倾听别人的感受,即使我以前没有经历过某些事,也能理解别人的感受。在一对一的谈话中,我可以向需要的人倾诉和倾听,这对我来说是一件非常愉快的事情。
BTS的歌中我最喜欢的是《魔法商店》,这些歌词正是我努力做到的:“在我讨厌自己的日子里,在我想永远消失的日子里,让我们做心里的一扇门,然后打开门等待魔法商店吧”
当别人情绪低落时,我总是努力成为他们的魔法商店。

I prefer experiences over tangible items. While it may seem hard to believe to some people, I live my life for the experiences. I like how I look past physical items, like clothing, wanting to buy the most expensive car, house, and other things like that in my life to something that means more to me. In a society that’s in a state of constant reminder of buying more things to seem happy, I’d rather spend my time and money doing things that make me feel alive, like the long walks at night under the stars, the hikes with my family, or having the time with my friends at school, etc.
I’m determined. If I say I’ll do something, it will be done, no matter what the obstacles are. I’ve always seen myself as a pretty average person. I don’t have any special talent that stands out to me, and because of this, I’m motivated to make things happen for myself. I go into goals thinking, “Just try your best and see what happens”, which really translates to “Grind until you make it”. Believe me, I’ve struggled, failed, cried, and felt stagnant in the process of life, but something that I learn as time passes is that you never think that you could do it until you’ve done it.
I have a resting smiling face. I didn’t know this about myself until my sisters told me, but apparently I always look content to others. It may seem weird, but I like that about myself for some reason. It has allowed me to seem more approachable to others to give me a boost in making more friends, it’s pretty reflective of my demeanor overall, and I’d much rather smile than frown.

比起有形的东西,我更喜欢自己的经验。虽然在某些人看来这很难让人相信,但我的生活就是为了体验。我喜欢我过去的样子,比如衣服,比如想买最贵的车,房子,又比如我生活中其他更重要的东西。在一个不断提醒自己购买更多东西以获得快乐的社会里,我宁愿把时间和金钱花在让我觉得有活力的事情上,比如晚上在星空下散步,比如和家人一起徒步旅行,又或者在学校和朋友们呆一起等等。
我是个有决心的人。如果我说要做什么,那就不管有什么障碍,一定会做到。我一直认为自己是个很普通的人。我没有任何特别的天赋能让我脱颖而出,正因为如此,我才有动力去实现自己的梦想。我在设定目标时会想”尽你所能,看看会发生什么”,这句话的意思就是“磨到你成功为止”。相信我,我挣扎过,失败过,哭过,在生活的过程中感觉停滞不前过,但随着时间的流逝,我学会了一件事,那就是你永远不会认为你能做到,除非你已经做到了。
我有一张平静的笑脸,这都是直到姐妹们告诉我,我才意识到这一点的,但显然我对别人总是很满意。这可能看起来很奇怪,但是出于某种原因我喜欢我自己。它让我在别人面前显得更平易近人,让我更有动力去交更多朋友,它很好地反映了我的整体风度,我宁愿微笑也不愿皱眉。

I’m easily satisfied. Similarly to the things I’ve mentioned previously, it doesn’t take much to make me happy. I don’t need expensive gifts, extravagant parties, or anything unrealistic to satisfy me. I enjoy the little things that illuminate my life, and I’m thankful for being able to recognize that. Listening to my favorite songs, walking outside in the sunshine and under the stars, eating food that my mom cooks for our family, talking to my friends, laughing with my siblings, and more are some of the simple pleasures that make me love my life. They keep me sane and anchor me when I’m feeling at my lowest and become the best version of myself through it all.
I’m introspective. I’m in a constant stand of understanding my limits, my failures, the lessons learn from mistakes, what’s right and wrong to me, and some of the simple but essential nuances to my life. In a buzzing world of tasks, I’ve always liked how I could take a step back from my life and think about just me. I think that it’s important to remember that you’re living for yourself in this world, and life is what you make of it. As time passes and the world is changing, so am I. And I like that I do know myself better that anyone else would.

我很容易感到满意。和我之前提到的事情一样,它不需要多少时间就让我感到开心。我不需要昂贵的礼物、奢侈的派对或任何不现实的东西来满足我自己,我喜欢那些照亮我生活的小东西,我很感谢能认识到这一点。听着我最喜欢的歌曲,走在外面的阳光下,走在星星下,吃着我妈妈为我们的家人做的东西,和我的朋友聊天,和我的兄弟姐妹笑,更多的是一些简单的快乐,使我热爱我的生活。它们让我保持理智,并在我情绪最低落的时候支撑我,让我在这一切中成为最好的自己。
我会自我反省,我一直在理解我的极限,我的失败,从错误中吸取的教训,对我来说什么是对的,什么是错的,以及我生活中一些简单但本质的细微差别。在一个任务繁忙的世界里,我总是喜欢从生活中退一步,只想着我自己。我认为重要的是要记住,在这个世界上,你是为自己而活,而生活就是你自己创造的。随着时间的流逝,世界在改变,我也在改变。我确实比别人更了解我自己。

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Emilia Chan
Thank you for the question. I think it's great that you have asked this as it encourages positive thinking and builds on one's self esteem.
Five things I like about myself:

谢谢你的提问,我认为你这么问是很棒的,因为它鼓励积极的思考且建立在一个人的自尊的基础上。
我喜欢自己的五件事:

1. I come from a mixture of cultures. I like this about myself because I believe this has led me to be open minded about people. I've enjoyed a fusion of things from this culture mix such as food, places, people, traditions etc. This broadens my understanding of people and helps me understand my world.

我来自多种文化的混合体。我喜欢我自己的这一点,因为我相信这使我对别人持开放的态度。我喜欢这种文化融合的东西,比如食物、地方、人、传统等等。这拓宽了我对人的理解,帮助我了解我的世界。

2. I'm smart. I am far from a person that blows her own trumpet - those that know me will tell you that. However, I realize that I am good at understanding a wide range of things. I have a curiosity about the world that I try to learn about. Through my life so far I have had to problem solve many types of things. O believe that if I wasn't blessed to be as intelligent as I am, then many outcomes would've been worst for me.

我很聪明。我绝不是一个自吹自擂的人,那些了解我的人会告诉你这一点的。然而,我意识到我善于理解很多事情。我对这个世界有一种好奇心,我试着去了解它。到目前为止,我不得不解决很多类型的问题。我相信如果我没有这么聪明的话,很多结果一定会很糟糕。

3. I'm a surprise. It has said to many times that I'm not what people have expected me to be. I think my outward appearance and the way I speak leads people into thinking I'm a certain way and like certain things. But, find out that I know about subjects that seem far from the image I present. This tends to be a surprise to people who inevitably become a bit more engaged with me, so I like that.

我是个惊喜。很多次我都说我不是人们所期望的那样。我认为我的外表和说话的方式会让人们认为我有某种方式,喜欢某些东西。但是,我发现我知道的东西似乎与我呈现的形象相去甚远。这往往会让那些不可避免地与我交往的人感到惊讶,所以我喜欢这样。

4. I have a strong sense of morality. Don't get me wrong, I'm no saint, far from perfect. However, it's like I have internal programming where I'm always conscious about my actions. Are they good? Will they would ever effect anyone detrimentally? I suffer guilt terribly if I fall short of doing this. This can only make me a better person right?

我有很强的道德感。不要误解我的意思,我不是圣人,也远远不算一个完美的人。然而,就像我有内部编程一样,我总是意识到我的行为:他们好吗?他们会对其他人产生不利影响吗?如果我做不到这一点,我会感到非常内疚。这只能让我成为更好的人,对吧?

5. I'm stronger and more resilient than I realize. All of us go through our difficult times. Unfortunately some more than others. I've learned that life isn't fair and things that shouldn't ever happen do happen - and sometimes to people that deserve it the least. I too have been through hard times. Many times I have felt that I would never get through it, or hadn't wanted to survive. Every time I have. Not without my scars, but with them comes more learning and understanding. I often don't believe I have strength or resilience, but on the occasional moments of reflection, I see how well I have managed and I'm glad it's there pulling me through.

我比我意识到的更坚强更有韧性。 我们都经历了困难时期。 不幸的是,有些人比其他人经历得更多。 我明白了生活是不公平的,本不应该发生的事情有时在最不值得的人身上确实发生了。 我也经历过困难时期。 很多时候,我觉得我永远也熬不过去,或者根本不想活了。每次都有这种情况出现,随之而来的是更积极的学习和理解。我通常不相信自己有力量或韧性,但偶尔反思一下,我会发现自己做得有多好,我很高兴它能帮助我度过难关。

Anwesha Barua
· I love my name - - that simply means to search something. I am still searching though (if you’re wondering).
· I talk a lot. I do. Like one of my friend got so quiet after seeing me talk so much. I can talk about anything and everything at any point. And If I get comfortable with you and I like you on top of that then god should save you - I can rant non-stop.
· I hellbent insolent about my goals and my agenda. I will make sure I achieve what I want and will fight till the end. I will be dedicated till my last breathe.
· I have too much self-respect and ego. That is something I held onto dearly. Similarly if I do something wrong, I will say sorry first. My ego is at the right place.
· I am strict disciplinarian. I always have an agenda regarding things to do, the way to do it. I like to live by certain routine which has helped me a lot in being punctual, organized and well maintained.
· I excessive thinking a lot. Excessive thinking has helped me a lot in not taking the wrong decisions in life. I grateful for that.

我喜欢我的名字,这仅仅意味着搜索一些东西。 我还在寻找中(如果你想知道的话)。
我知道就像一个朋友在看到我说这么多话后变得很安静一样。我可以在任何时候谈论任何事情。如果我和你相处舒服,我喜欢你,那上帝应该救你吧,我就可以不停地对你咆哮了。
我对我的目标和议程傲慢无礼。我会确保我达到我想要的目标,并会坚持到最后。直到到最后一次呼吸。
我太有自尊心和自我意识了。这是我非常坚持着的东西。同样地,如果我做错了什么,我会先说声抱歉。我的自我是在正确的情况下做好的。
我严格遵守纪律。我总是有一个关于要做的事情和做的方式的议程。我喜欢按照某种规律生活,这种规律让我变得守时、有条理、并保持良好。
我想得很多。 过度的思考帮助我在生活中避免做出错误的决定,对此我很感激。

I can mask my emotions very well. I generally don’t like to show my emotional vulnerability. If I write something heart felt it doesn't mean I am baring my whole and soul to you. I can still put a facade and appear very normal in front of you as if nothing has happened.
· I am a good listener. I like listening to problems, to stories of people. I can be a shrink to you. (so I have been told). Sit in front of me and I will hear you out, I promise.
· I fit like a glove anywhere, in any situation, place, time. I have absolutely NO adjustment issues and I don’t fret about things too often. Rarely you will me complaining.
· I will compliment you straight to your face If I like something about you. There is no buttering involved in it. Similarly If I don’t like it, I will critique you. I like to put forward my opinion.
· I like appreciating even the smallest thing - the flower or the weather or how blue the sky is! That’s the way it is.
· Though I do have insecurities, I have made peace with the way I am. I manifest in a certain way which may not be appreciated by all but I guess I am not here to please you as well.
· I am narcissistic. I love every bit about myself. I love my smile, I love my short height, how weirdly funny I can be or in general how I am.

我可以很好地掩盖我的情绪,我通常不喜欢表现出情感脆弱的一面。 如果我写了一些心里话,那并不意味着我在向你展示我的全部和灵魂。我仍然可以摆出一副在你面前显得很正常的面孔,好像什么都没发生过。
我是个很好的倾听者。 我喜欢听问题,听人们的故事。 我可以做你的心理医生。 (有人告诉我)。 坐在我面前,我保证会听你说完全部内容。
无论在任何地方、任何地点、任何时间,我都像手套一样合身。我完全不需要做调整,我也不太担心事情。 你很少会让我抱怨。
如果我喜欢你的话,我会当面赞美你。 这件事不会有什么麻烦。 同样,如果我不喜欢,我会批评你。 我喜欢提出我的意见。
即使是最小的东西:花或天气,或天空多么蓝,我喜欢欣赏这些!
尽管我确实有不安全感,但我已经平静了。我以一种可能不被所有人欣赏的方式展现出来,但我想我也不是来取悦你的。
我很自恋。我爱自己的每一点。我喜欢我的微笑,我喜欢我的矮个子,或者总的来说我可以变得怎么古怪有趣怎么来。

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Charissa Enget, Mechanical and Energy Engineer. Lived in rural Thailand.

机械部和能源部的总工程师,住在泰国的农村地区。

1. I like that I can have fun everywhere. Take me to a party where I don’t know anyone? I’ll make a lot of friends. Need a friend to come with you to work? I’ll entertain myself. Wanna go to the gym? I’ll get really into it. Take me to a convention I have no interest in? I’ll enjoy the experience. I really do make the most of everything and I like that about myself.
2. I like that I’m a Renaissance woman. I learn everything I can. I body build, I crochet, I play every sport, I paint, I’m an engineer, I’m a certified personal trainer, I travel, I live abroad, and I learn new languages. I’m excited to learn and I know a lot of stuff. I can connect with anyone because I have common interests or experiences with everyone I meet.
3. I’m very in control of my emotions. In a fight, I never lose my temper or say anything I don’t mean. I’m never mean or try to hurt anyone. I don’t let others intimidate me. I’m always rational. It’s taken me far.

我很喜欢一点,那就是我可以在任何地方都玩得开心。带我去一个我谁都不认识的派对?我会交到很多朋友。需要朋友陪你去上班吗?我会自娱自乐。想去健身房吗?我会很投入的。带我去参加一个我不感兴趣的会议?我会享受这段经历的。我真的会充分利用一切,我喜欢我自己。
我喜欢我是一个文艺复兴的女人。我能学到的都学到了。我健身,我钩针,我玩每一项运动,我画画,我是一名工程师,我是一名认证的私人教练,我旅行,我住在国外,我学习新的语言。我对学习很兴奋,我知道很多东西。我可以和任何人联系,因为我和我遇到的每个人都有共同的兴趣或经历。
我很能控制自己的情绪。打架的时候,我从来不发脾气,也不说什么不中听的话。我从来不刻薄或试图伤害其他人。我不让别人胁迫我。我总是很理性。理性带我一路前行。

4. I’m very confident. Sometimes overly confident. Sometimes it embarrasses me when I fail. But my overconfidence means I always do my best, I’m never afraid to try anything, and I always think I have something valuable to add to any situation. I’m always prepared to learn something new by trying and failing. Failing never keeps me from trying again.
5. I listen. My biggest pet peeve is that no one listens anymore, everyone is always talking over each other or waiting for their turn to speak. So, I value it a lot in myself and more when I see it in others. I know how important it is.
6. I’m always trying to improve myself. I analyze the problems in my life and how I could change myself to fix them. I read self-help books for new perspectives. I’m not afraid to ask for advice. I see the life and character I want and I work towards it one step at a time.
7. I like my appearance. I like that I’m almost 6′0 tall. It gave me an advantage in a lot of sports. I think I’m pretty, it gives me a lot of confidence.

我很自信。有时候过于自信,有时候失败了让我很尴尬。但是我的过度自信意味着我总是尽力而为,我从来不害怕尝试任何事情,我总是认为我有一些有价值的东西可以添加到任何情况中。我总是准备通过尝试和失败来学习新的东西,失败从来不会阻止我再试一次。
我会倾听。我最讨厌的是再也没有人听了,每个人都在互相谈论或等待轮到他们发言。所以,我很看重自己,更看重别人。我知道这有多重要。
我一直在努力提升自己。我分析我生活中的问题,以及我如何改变自己来解决它们。我阅读自助书籍,寻找新的视角。我不怕征求意见。我看到了我想要的生活和性格,并一步一步地朝着它努力。
我喜欢我的外表。我喜欢我6尺高的身高。这让我在很多运动项目上都有优势。我觉得我很漂亮,这给了我很多信心。

Tanushri Sharma
1. I love how I'm comfortable with my own skin. I'm always surrounded by girls who are prettier than me. At some point in my life, I had become very conscious about my looks. But slowly I realized, I AM BEAUTIFUL. I don't know if I look beautiful or not, but I'm. Now I don't care if someone criticizes my body, my hair or my braces. I smile and say to myself, you are beautiful anyway.
2. I like the fact that I enjoy my own company. I can go shopping alone, watch movies alone. I can pretty much do anything alone, without feeling lonely.
3. I respect myself because I've got Ethics. I never lose my senses. For me my morals mean a lot.

我喜欢我自己的皮肤,让人感到舒服。我总是被比我漂亮的女孩包围着。在我生命中的某个时刻,我变得非常在意自己的长相。但慢慢地意识到,我是美丽的。我不知道我看起来美不美,但我确实是美的。现在我不在乎有人批评我的身体,我的头发,我的牙套。我微笑着对自己说,反正你很美。
我喜欢有自己的陪伴。我可以一个人去购物,一个人看电影。我几乎可以独自做任何事情,而不会感到孤独。
我尊重我自己,因为我有道德感。我从不会失去理智。对我来说,我的道德观念意义重大。

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4. I love that I've got dreams and ambitions. I strive hard for them. If I fail, I try again. If I fail again, I try again.
5. I like the fact that I'm straightforward. If I don't like anything, I'll tell you that I don't. If I like something, I'll tell you that I do.
6. I love that I don't hesitate to give compliments. I don't do buttering. But when I actually like something, I tell that to the person and I'm always rewarded with warm smiles for that. I feel good, when someone smiles because of my compliments.
7. I love that howsoever hard the situation is, I never let anyone down. I've never done anything that made my parents ashamed. I've never done anything intentionally that hurt people. I care about feelings of people, as much as I do of mine. If someone cries because of me, you'll immediately see tears falling down from my eyes as well.
8. I love the fact that I'm a strong woman. I've been through a lot but never told anyone about it. Cried whole night looking at walls and woke up as if nothing happened. I've held my tears to fall down a thousand times and cried a lot in private thereafter. I never gave up or complained about my miseries to people. I worked for them. I tried to solve the problem instead of weeping because of them.

我喜欢我有梦想和抱负。我为之努力奋斗。如果我失败了,我会再试一次。如果我再次失败,我会再试一次。
我喜欢我的直率。如果我什么都不喜欢,我会告诉你我不喜欢。如果我喜欢什么,我会告诉你我喜欢。
我喜欢毫不犹豫地赞美别人。我不拍马屁。但是当我真的喜欢某样东西的时候,我会告诉那个人,我总会因此得到温暖的微笑。当有人因为我的赞美而微笑时,我感觉很好。
我喜欢不管情况多么艰难,我从不让任何人失望。我从没做过让我父母感到羞耻的事。我从来没有故意做过伤害别人的事。我在乎别人的感受,就像我在乎自己的感受一样。如果有人因为我而哭泣,你会马上看到我的眼泪也从眼睛里流下来。我喜欢我是个坚强的女人。我经历了很多,但从没告诉过任何人。看着墙哭了一整夜,醒来的时候好像什么都没发生。我无数次忍着眼泪,即使在私底下哭了很久也我从来没有放弃过,也没有向别人抱怨过我的痛苦。我试着去解决问题,而不是因为他们而哭泣。

9. I don't take my words back. Never. If I've said YES for anything, there are very less chances that I'll say no for it later on. If I've promised you something, come what may, I'll fulfill it.
10. I love the fact that I've got hobbies and passion. Because of them, I've a lot of back-up plans. I won't ever be dependent upon anyone for money. Because of my hobbies, I'll never get bored in my old times. And I'll always have something to brighten up my bad mood.
11. I love the fact that people consider me a good friend, a good sister and a good daughter. They find me trustworthy. I know a lot of secrets of a lot of people in my life whether they are close to me or not and I've kept their secrets as secrets till date. Whenever someone in my life really needs me, I go to them and try my best to help them or to listen to them. However hurtful the advice is, I say what is right for them, to them.

我不会收回我的话。从来没有。如果我答应了什么事情,那么以后我拒绝的机会就很小了。如果我答应过你什么,不管发生什么,我都会履行的。
我喜欢我的爱好和激情。因为他们,我有很多后备计划。我不会为了钱而依赖任何人。因为我的爱好,我在过去永远不会觉得无聊。而且我总能找到让我心情好起来的东西。
我喜欢人们认为我是一个好朋友,一个好姐姐和一个好女儿。他们觉得我值得信任。在我的生活中,我知道很多人的很多秘密,不管他们是否靠近我,我一直把他们的秘密作为秘密保存至今。每当生活中有人真的需要我的时候,我就去找他们,尽力帮助他们,或者听他们的。不管这个建议有多伤人,我都会告诉他们什么是对的。

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