QA：当两个人长时间凝视对方的眼睛会发生什么?
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What will happen when two people stare into each other’s eyes for a long time?
当两个人长时间凝视对方的眼睛会发生什么?
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What will happen when two people stare into each other’s eyes for a long time?
当两个人长时间凝视对方的眼睛会发生什么?
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Anonymous
It happened with me and I regret that it happened.
这件事发生在我身上，我很后悔。
It happened with me and I regret that it happened.
这件事发生在我身上，我很后悔。
I was sitting on the first bench and there she was… She was taking our session and I’ve never seen her that close before that day. I knew nothing about her expect her family history. And was she attractive. Maybe for others, but not for me. I was immune to any kind of sexual attraction, so No.
我坐在第一张长椅上，她就在那儿……她在接受我们治疗的那天之前我从没这么近距离见过她。除了她的家族史，我对她一无所知。她吸引人吗? 也许对其他人来说是这样，但对我来说不是。我对任何形式的性吸引都免疫，所以不行。
我坐在第一张长椅上，她就在那儿……她在接受我们治疗的那天之前我从没这么近距离见过她。除了她的家族史，我对她一无所知。她吸引人吗? 也许对其他人来说是这样，但对我来说不是。我对任何形式的性吸引都免疫，所以不行。
But then something happened. The whole air of the room changed. She was explaining something and then made a comment saying, “You should care about your loved ones, you don’t know when they will be no more with you.” I gazed into her eyes, our eyes met, 1 second, 2 second, 3 second… I don’t know how long, but it turned out to be a staring competition. She was in tears, I can see that. I can feel that, her pain her agony and everything. I drifted my eyes away thinking, “Oh god. She is going through hell.”
但是后来发生了一些事情。整个房间的气氛都变了。她在解释一些事情，然后发表评论说，“你应该关心你爱的人，你不知道他们什么时候会离开你。” 我凝视着她的眼睛，我们的眼睛相遇了，一秒、二秒、三秒……我不知道持续了多久，但结果是一场瞪眼大赛。她泪流满面，我看得出来。我能感觉到，她对她的苦恼和一切都感到痛苦。我把目光移开，想着，“哦,上帝。她正在经受地狱般的煎熬。”
但是后来发生了一些事情。整个房间的气氛都变了。她在解释一些事情，然后发表评论说，“你应该关心你爱的人，你不知道他们什么时候会离开你。” 我凝视着她的眼睛，我们的眼睛相遇了，一秒、二秒、三秒……我不知道持续了多久，但结果是一场瞪眼大赛。她泪流满面，我看得出来。我能感觉到，她对她的苦恼和一切都感到痛苦。我把目光移开，想着，“哦,上帝。她正在经受地狱般的煎熬。”
The moment I drifted my eyes, I remembered that I have read on Quora that if two strangers gaze into each other’s eyes then they are likely to fall in love with each other. I shook the thought away calling it “BullSh**. These things happen only in movies.” And then I focused on the lecture.
当我的目光漂移的那一刻，我想起我在Quora上读到过，如果两个陌生人互相凝视对方的眼睛，那么他们很可能会爱上对方。我打消了这种想法，称其“狗屎”。 这种事只有在电影里才会发生。” 然后我专注于演讲。
当我的目光漂移的那一刻，我想起我在Quora上读到过，如果两个陌生人互相凝视对方的眼睛，那么他们很可能会爱上对方。我打消了这种想法，称其“狗屎”。 这种事只有在电影里才会发生。” 然后我专注于演讲。
The lecture ended, I went to home, everything was normal, except… I was continuously thinking about her and the pain I saw in her eyes. My life changed. I’ve fallen for that lady. I didn’t know how it happened, but it happened. I knew that my feelings for her were not right, I should not be thinking about her, but I can’t control it. She was all over my head, I wanted to talk with her, ask her to tell me her story. Unfortunately, I never got a chance even to strike a conversation. She got married after couple of weeks(it stings), Years have passed, I don’t know if she has children or not, but here I am still thinking about her story.
讲座结束了，我回到家，一切正常，除了……我不断地想起她，想起她眼中的痛苦。我的人生因此改变。我爱上了那位女士。我不知道是怎么发生的，但确实发生了。我知道我对她的感情是不对的，我不应该去想她，但我控制不了。我一直在想她，我想和她谈谈，让她告诉我她的故事。不幸的是，我甚至都没有机会和他交谈。几周后她结婚了(这很痛苦)，几年过去了，我不知道她是否有孩子，但这里我仍然在想她的故事。
讲座结束了，我回到家，一切正常，除了……我不断地想起她，想起她眼中的痛苦。我的人生因此改变。我爱上了那位女士。我不知道是怎么发生的，但确实发生了。我知道我对她的感情是不对的，我不应该去想她，但我控制不了。我一直在想她，我想和她谈谈，让她告诉我她的故事。不幸的是，我甚至都没有机会和他交谈。几周后她结婚了(这很痛苦)，几年过去了，我不知道她是否有孩子，但这里我仍然在想她的故事。
After that day, I’ve set some boundaries. I like to make eye contact and also like to win if it turns into a staring match. Looking into someone’s eyes gives me a better idea of that person, but I avoid the people with sad eyes. If I find some who has these intriguing eyes, I better look somewhere else, just not into that person’s eyes.
从那天起，我设定了一些界限。我喜欢眼神交流，如果它变成了一场瞪眼大赛，我也喜欢赢。看着某人的眼睛能让我更好地了解那个人，但我会避开眼神悲伤的人。如果我发现谁有这样迷人的眼睛，我最好看别的地方，而不是那个人的眼睛。
从那天起，我设定了一些界限。我喜欢眼神交流，如果它变成了一场瞪眼大赛，我也喜欢赢。看着某人的眼睛能让我更好地了解那个人，但我会避开眼神悲伤的人。如果我发现谁有这样迷人的眼睛，我最好看别的地方，而不是那个人的眼睛。
Eliana Andera
I did this once. It was an exercise at a drama camp I did. We were randomly paired up and had to stare into each other’s eyes for 10+ mintutes, just reciting our lines.
我做过一次。那是我在戏剧夏令营做的练习。我们被随机配对，必须盯着对方的眼睛看10分钟以上，背诵我们的台词。
I did this once. It was an exercise at a drama camp I did. We were randomly paired up and had to stare into each other’s eyes for 10+ mintutes, just reciting our lines.
我做过一次。那是我在戏剧夏令营做的练习。我们被随机配对，必须盯着对方的眼睛看10分钟以上，背诵我们的台词。
I was paired up with a boy I had never spoken to before. It was awkward at first, a lot of giggling and looking away. He told me I have pretty eyes. Eventually, we did the exercise. After a while, it stopped feeling awkward and just felt calm and natural. He had kind eyes that I felt very at ease looking into.
我和一个以前从未说过话的男孩配对。一开始很尴尬，很多人在傻笑，移开目光。他说我有一双迷人的眼睛。最后，我们做了这个练习。过了一段时间，感觉就不再尴尬，变得平静而自然。他那双善良的眼睛使我感到很自在。
我和一个以前从未说过话的男孩配对。一开始很尴尬，很多人在傻笑，移开目光。他说我有一双迷人的眼睛。最后，我们做了这个练习。过了一段时间，感觉就不再尴尬，变得平静而自然。他那双善良的眼睛使我感到很自在。
After that, we had a bond for the rest of the camp. Even though we had never spoken before that exercise, we laughed and talked like old friends. On the very last day, after our final performance, the group was saying our goodbyes, and he picked me up and gave me a giant hug!
在那之后，我们和营地的其他人建立了联系。我们像老朋友一样谈笑风生，尽管在那之前我们从未说过话。最后一天，在我们最后一次表演之后，大家正在说再见，他把我抱起来，给了我一个大大的拥抱!
在那之后，我们和营地的其他人建立了联系。我们像老朋友一样谈笑风生，尽管在那之前我们从未说过话。最后一天，在我们最后一次表演之后，大家正在说再见，他把我抱起来，给了我一个大大的拥抱!
I never spoke to him after that though. I didn’t get his name or any contact information.
从那以后我就没跟他说过话了。我没有他的名字和任何联系方式。
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从那以后我就没跟他说过话了。我没有他的名字和任何联系方式。
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So in my experience? Staring into someone’s eyes for a period of time creates trust and some sort of bond.
所以根据我的经验? 盯着某人的眼睛一段时间可以建立信任和某种联系。
所以根据我的经验? 盯着某人的眼睛一段时间可以建立信任和某种联系。
Ben Goresky
If you actually practice this, what you are likely to find is a few or all of the below.
1.The anxiety that arrises when you are being seen directly by another person, without distraction.
2.The need to communicate, fidgit, smile, giggle, or soothe that anxiety. It feels weird at first.
3.If you work hard to be still and non-expressive, you will feel vulnerable, and begin to see the other person’s vulnerability.
4.You realize the other person’s innocence and see them more deeply than you’ve ever seen them. It becomes a point of real connection between you.
5.You realize how often you are not seen for who you are, and how you may be operating at a deficit 99% of the time.
6.Hallucinations - after a few minutes, what you see on the other person’s face begins to distort, black out, and change contrast. At some point you may only see a floating pair of eyeballs in front of you.
如果你真的这么做了，你很可能会感到下面的一些或全部。
1.当你被另一个人直接看到而没有分心时，焦虑感就会上升。
2.需要交流，烦躁，微笑，咯咯笑，或缓解焦虑。刚开始感觉怪怪的。
3.如果你努力保持安静和无表情，你会感到脆弱，并开始看到别人的弱点。
4.你意识到对方是无辜的，并且比以前更深刻地了解他们。它成为你们之间真正的连接点。
5.你知道你经常被人忽视，以及你如何亏损了99%的时间。
6.幻觉,---- 几分钟后，你看到的对方脸上的表情开始扭曲、模糊、对比度变化。在某些情况下，你可能只会看到一对漂浮在你面前的眼球。
If you actually practice this, what you are likely to find is a few or all of the below.
1.The anxiety that arrises when you are being seen directly by another person, without distraction.
2.The need to communicate, fidgit, smile, giggle, or soothe that anxiety. It feels weird at first.
3.If you work hard to be still and non-expressive, you will feel vulnerable, and begin to see the other person’s vulnerability.
4.You realize the other person’s innocence and see them more deeply than you’ve ever seen them. It becomes a point of real connection between you.
5.You realize how often you are not seen for who you are, and how you may be operating at a deficit 99% of the time.
6.Hallucinations - after a few minutes, what you see on the other person’s face begins to distort, black out, and change contrast. At some point you may only see a floating pair of eyeballs in front of you.
如果你真的这么做了，你很可能会感到下面的一些或全部。
1.当你被另一个人直接看到而没有分心时，焦虑感就会上升。
2.需要交流，烦躁，微笑，咯咯笑，或缓解焦虑。刚开始感觉怪怪的。
3.如果你努力保持安静和无表情，你会感到脆弱，并开始看到别人的弱点。
4.你意识到对方是无辜的，并且比以前更深刻地了解他们。它成为你们之间真正的连接点。
5.你知道你经常被人忽视，以及你如何亏损了99%的时间。
6.幻觉,---- 几分钟后，你看到的对方脸上的表情开始扭曲、模糊、对比度变化。在某些情况下，你可能只会看到一对漂浮在你面前的眼球。
Shane Butcher
They will create a time rift that will destroy the time continuum as we know it.
Joking
Seriously though, they must like each other. You can make a connection with them mentally this way, some people can “read you” as in see deep with in your heart and soul. It may even bond you because you need to feel comfortable with this person in order to do this.
Although, I learnt this with a stranger during a parapsychology class. I saw three old trees and felt a deep loneliness. Apparently this woman spent every lunchtime reading under these trees as I described them to her. So you never know what you “pick up” from the other person.
正如我们所知道的那样，他们会制造一个时间裂缝来摧毁时间连续体。
开玩笑的
不过说真的，他们肯定喜欢对方。你可以通过这种方式在精神上与他们建立联系，有些人可以“读懂你”，就像在你的内心和灵魂深处看到的那样。它甚至可能把你联系在一起，因为为了做这件事，你需要和这个人感觉舒适。
不过，我是在灵学课上跟一个陌生人学的。我看到三棵老树，感到深深的寂寞。显然，这个女人每天午饭时间都在树下看书，就像我向她描述的那样。所以你永远不知道你从对方那里“获得”了什么。
They will create a time rift that will destroy the time continuum as we know it.
Joking
Seriously though, they must like each other. You can make a connection with them mentally this way, some people can “read you” as in see deep with in your heart and soul. It may even bond you because you need to feel comfortable with this person in order to do this.
Although, I learnt this with a stranger during a parapsychology class. I saw three old trees and felt a deep loneliness. Apparently this woman spent every lunchtime reading under these trees as I described them to her. So you never know what you “pick up” from the other person.
正如我们所知道的那样，他们会制造一个时间裂缝来摧毁时间连续体。
开玩笑的
不过说真的，他们肯定喜欢对方。你可以通过这种方式在精神上与他们建立联系，有些人可以“读懂你”，就像在你的内心和灵魂深处看到的那样。它甚至可能把你联系在一起，因为为了做这件事，你需要和这个人感觉舒适。
不过，我是在灵学课上跟一个陌生人学的。我看到三棵老树，感到深深的寂寞。显然，这个女人每天午饭时间都在树下看书，就像我向她描述的那样。所以你永远不知道你从对方那里“获得”了什么。
Alex Chaffee
Eventually, one will blx.
最终，一个人会眨眼。
Eventually, one will blx.
最终，一个人会眨眼。
Lily George
We were tasked to do this at university and someone I was developing a friendship with well I was giggly the whole way through and I found it incredibly hard to hold her gaze.
I found her intimidating. After that day I found myself not trusting her. And eventually after a few unfortunate events I left the course to move to another one.
She saw a vulnerability in me and she started taking advantage of it.
I won't lie I've not been the same person since with anyone.
我们在大学的时候就被指派我和一个正在发展友谊的人去做这件事，我一直在傻笑，我发现很难抓住她的目光。
我觉得她令人紧张不安。那天之后，我发现自己不再信任她了。最终，在经历了一些不幸的事件后，我离开了这门课，转到了另一门课上。
她看到了我的弱点就开始利用。
我不会撒谎，自从和某个人在一起以来，我就不是同一个人了。
We were tasked to do this at university and someone I was developing a friendship with well I was giggly the whole way through and I found it incredibly hard to hold her gaze.
I found her intimidating. After that day I found myself not trusting her. And eventually after a few unfortunate events I left the course to move to another one.
She saw a vulnerability in me and she started taking advantage of it.
I won't lie I've not been the same person since with anyone.
我们在大学的时候就被指派我和一个正在发展友谊的人去做这件事，我一直在傻笑，我发现很难抓住她的目光。
我觉得她令人紧张不安。那天之后，我发现自己不再信任她了。最终，在经历了一些不幸的事件后，我离开了这门课，转到了另一门课上。
她看到了我的弱点就开始利用。
我不会撒谎，自从和某个人在一起以来，我就不是同一个人了。
Lourdes M. Cabrera
That could be attraction! Staring into each other's eyes for long time! But of ocurse, not until you or the other person spoke of it you cannot believe yourself or him/ her that there is such. So, could it be that your attraction had seeped through your emotion? Do not believe it yet. You can be misled.
这很有魅力!长久地凝视着彼此的眼睛!但，当然，只有当你或别人谈到这件事时，你才会相信自己或他/她的存在。所以，有没有可能是你的魅力渗透到了你的情感中? 先不要相信。你可能会被误导。
That could be attraction! Staring into each other's eyes for long time! But of ocurse, not until you or the other person spoke of it you cannot believe yourself or him/ her that there is such. So, could it be that your attraction had seeped through your emotion? Do not believe it yet. You can be misled.
这很有魅力!长久地凝视着彼此的眼睛!但，当然，只有当你或别人谈到这件事时，你才会相信自己或他/她的存在。所以，有没有可能是你的魅力渗透到了你的情感中? 先不要相信。你可能会被误导。
Cassiopeia Lancaster
According to research, looking at each other's eyes will make you get used to them. It creates bond and trust. The more time you spend looking at some one, the more you'll like them.
It is one of the ways to create good chemistry with the person. In fact, some actors do it on workshops to easily create chemistry with their co-actors.
研究表明，看着对方的眼睛会让你习惯他们。它创造了纽带和信任。你对一个人注视的时间越长，你就越会喜欢他。
这是和对方产生良好化学反应的方法之一。事实上，一些演员在工作室里这样做，很容易和他们的合作演员产生化学反应。
According to research, looking at each other's eyes will make you get used to them. It creates bond and trust. The more time you spend looking at some one, the more you'll like them.
It is one of the ways to create good chemistry with the person. In fact, some actors do it on workshops to easily create chemistry with their co-actors.
研究表明，看着对方的眼睛会让你习惯他们。它创造了纽带和信任。你对一个人注视的时间越长，你就越会喜欢他。
这是和对方产生良好化学反应的方法之一。事实上，一些演员在工作室里这样做，很容易和他们的合作演员产生化学反应。
Ray Lancaster
As this is an unusual and usually unsettling activity, our fundamental need for consistency soon kicks in. This means that our brain needs to find a justification for staring at someone for so long. Given that the other person isn’t attacking us, the easiest justification is that the person is worth staring it and therefore probably likeable.
由于这是一种不寻常的、通常令人不安的活动，我们对一致性的基本需求很快就会出现。这意味着我们的大脑需要为长时间盯着某人寻找理由。如果对方没有攻击我们，最简单的理由就是这个人值得盯着看，因此可能很讨人喜欢。
As this is an unusual and usually unsettling activity, our fundamental need for consistency soon kicks in. This means that our brain needs to find a justification for staring at someone for so long. Given that the other person isn’t attacking us, the easiest justification is that the person is worth staring it and therefore probably likeable.
由于这是一种不寻常的、通常令人不安的活动，我们对一致性的基本需求很快就会出现。这意味着我们的大脑需要为长时间盯着某人寻找理由。如果对方没有攻击我们，最简单的理由就是这个人值得盯着看，因此可能很讨人喜欢。
Amardeep Singh
Either they will fall asleep or fall in love!
他们要么睡觉，要么坠入爱河!
Either they will fall asleep or fall in love!
他们要么睡觉，要么坠入爱河!
Lori Eddins
There is a meditation retreat where at one point you and your partner GAZE into each other’s eyes. Big difference than staring.
有一个冥想静修，你和你的伴侣凝视对方的眼睛。和盯着看有很大区别。
There is a meditation retreat where at one point you and your partner GAZE into each other’s eyes. Big difference than staring.
有一个冥想静修，你和你的伴侣凝视对方的眼睛。和盯着看有很大区别。
Louis
In most cases, they will laugh together even they are angry at each other at the beginning.
在大多数情况下，他们会一起笑，即使他们开始在生对方的气。
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In most cases, they will laugh together even they are angry at each other at the beginning.
在大多数情况下，他们会一起笑，即使他们开始在生对方的气。
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Anonymous
You explosively combust and die in unimaginable pain.
你会爆炸并在难以想象的痛苦中死去。
You explosively combust and die in unimaginable pain.
你会爆炸并在难以想象的痛苦中死去。
Madison Havesly
Eyes get dry bb
眼干bb
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Eyes get dry bb
眼干bb
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