你容易哭吗
2021-06-03 汤沐之邑 7489
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Do you cry easily?

你容易哭吗?

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Erica Duh, Awkward 15 year old girl
No.
I used to cry all the time. I wouldn’t just cry, but I would cry for very long periods of time. Once, when I was in maybe kindergarden, my brother pointed out that me and this other girl had started crying at the same time, but she stopped crying when I was about halfway finished crying. It was weird because I couldn’t stop, and I wasn’t even sure why I was crying anymore.
Now, I only cry when I am extremely frustrated and feel like I do not have any control over my life. This happens very rarely. Usually, I do not show bad emotions, such as anger or sadness. It also only happens when I am alone and when it is late at night, maybe once or twice a year. I occasionally find myself tearing up for emotional reasons or because of physical pain, but this is also rare and my eyes only get sort of wet, no tears.
There are many things that other people cry about that I don’t, so sometimes I wonder if I have feelings. I will occasionally watch movies that are supposed to make me cry, such as Marley and Me or Me Before You, just to make sure that I have feelings. When it doesn’t work I worry. I will also watch YouTube videos that are meant to make people cry, such as really sad commercials in different languages. This can often do the trick. For some reason I also choose to do this late at night, when everyone in the house is asleep and it is just me crying in my dark room.

我不容易哭。
我以前总是哭。我不仅会哭,还会哭很长时间。有一次,也许是在幼儿园,我哥哥告诉我,我和另外一个女孩同时开始哭,但我哭到一半,她就不哭了。很奇怪我停不下来,我甚至不知道自己为什么要哭。
现在,我只有在极度沮丧和感觉无法控制自己生活的时候才会哭。这种情况很少发生。通常情况下,我不会表现出不好的情绪,比如愤怒或悲伤。这种情况也只会发生在我独处的时候,或是深夜的时候,大概一年一两次吧。我偶尔会发现自己因为情感原因或身体疼痛而流泪,但这也是罕见的,我的眼睛只是有点湿润,没有眼泪。
有很多事情别人会为之哭泣,而我却没有,所以有时候我想知道自己是否有感情。我偶尔会看一些让我哭的电影,比如《马利和我》或《我在你面前》,只是为了确保我有感觉。当它不起作用时,我也会看油管上那些让人哭泣的视频,比如用不同语言播放的悲伤广告。这通常可以达到目的。由于某些原因,我也选择在深夜做这件事,当每个人都在家里睡觉,只有我在我黑暗的房间里哭泣。

Dieter Neth, Have lived in Mexico and Switzerland for many years
Yup, I have built near the water, I guess!
Now, I come from a culture that frowns upon men showing emotions and it is common knowledge that “real men don’t cry”. I still remember my father on the phone, back in 1972, having received the news that his Dad had just passed away in Germany,with him being in Switzerland.
I remember the scene se vividly because of the way my father would fight back that little drop of water forming in one of his eyes….
As a man, you never cry, only Italians or other latin folks do so. Not even during funerals. In case you suspect that there might be some rain from your eyes, you wear sunglasses. You do not cry in public, ever.
And that was how I was brought up. I was as cold as ice and as tough as tempered steel when it came to suppress my emotions.

我很容易哭,我想我是在水边出生的!
我从小被灌输男人不该表现出情绪,众所周知:“真正的男人不哭”。我还记得1972年,我父亲在电话里得知他的父亲刚刚在德国去世,当时他在瑞士。
我对这一幕记忆犹新,因为我父亲会用一种方式反击他眼中形成的那一滴泪水…...
作为一个男人,只有意大利人或其他拉丁人才会哭。其余地方男人一般都不哭,即使在葬礼上也不行。万一你怀疑眼睛里可能会有泪水,你就戴墨镜。你永远不在公共场合哭。
我就是这样环境长大的。当我压抑情绪的时候,我像冰一样冰冷,像回火的钢铁一样坚韧。

McKayla Kennedy, Now (and forever) studying psychology because humans are weird
I cry very, very, very easily.
Movies make me cry. I warn people about this when we watch movies together— “I am going to cry if there’s anything remotely sad, touching, or even happy. I’m fine, I don’t need to be comforted, that’s just how I enjoy good movies.” Some of them still freak out. Then I’m cry-laughing, sometimes making a noise that can only be described as snorting.
Books make me cry. I can’t read emotional stories, especially about children, in public places.
Music makes me cry. The right sad song can get me teary in no time at all.
Commercials make me cry.
I already started crying over Supermarket Flowers.

我很容易哭。
电影让我哭。当我们一起看电影的时候,我警告人们这一点——“如果有任何轻微的悲伤,感动,甚至快乐,我都会哭。我很好,我不需要被安慰,这就是我喜欢好电影的方式。然后我会又哭又笑,有时发出的声音都能用鼾声来形容。
书让我哭。我不能在公共场所读感情故事,尤其是关于孩子的。
音乐让我哭泣。一首合适的悲伤的歌能让我立刻流泪。
广告让我哭。
我又开始为超市的花哭泣了。

Sharvani Musandi, Innocent kid
Yes…!!
I'm a cry baby! I have no idea why tears flow down so easily from my eyes. Many times I tried to be strong emotionally but ended up bursting out with tears.
I cry whenever I'm happy, sad, angry, upset, missing someone or something!
Sometimes the reason I cry for are absolutely insane! Lasttime I cried was yesterday and the reason was, I saw a video of one YouTuber where she was exploring Newyork, it was so beautiful that I started crying thinking “when will I visit Newyork?”
And the previous day I cried at my office because my manager rejected my leaves! :(
I cry when I watch any sad ending movies, when my mom yells at me, when my sister doesn't agree to my decisions, when I'm feeling homesick, when I'm feeling lonely, when I'm angry on someone, when I don't get what I want and many more….
I'm the same since my childhood. I still remember the day when I was in 2nd grade, my mom had been to my relatives home for one day, she was about to be back home after few hours I reach home from my school. I cried at my school whole day thinking “why my mom didn't take me with her”
When my friends asked “why are you crying?”
“I’m missing my mom, she went to her relatives home without me”, I said with tears in my eyes.
“How many days she have been?”
“One day, she will be returning today evening itself”
“Then why are you crying?”
“I don't know!” -_-
And specially when someone asks me “Are you crying?” tears start flowing from my eyes!
I actually don't like myself being so sensitive! I hope I'll overcome this someday! :)

是的,我是个爱哭鬼!我不知道为什么眼泪会这么容易地从我的眼睛里流下来。很多次我试图在情感上变得坚强,但最终却以眼泪告终。
每当我高兴、伤心、生气、难过、想念某人或某事时,我都会哭!
有时我哭泣的理由绝对是疯狂的!我最后一次哭是在昨天,原因是我在油管上看到一位网友探索纽约的视频,视频太美了,我不禁哭了起来,心想“我什么时候能去纽约?”
前一天我在办公室哭了,因为我的经理拒绝我的请假!
当我看任何悲情结尾的电影时,当我妈妈对我大喊大叫时,当我姐姐不同意我的决定时,当我想家时,当我感到孤独时,当我对某人生气时,当我没有得到我想要的东西时......
我从小就是这样。我仍然记得在我上二年级的那天,我妈妈去了亲戚家一整天,在我从学校回到家几个小时后,她才回家了。我在学校哭了一整天想着"为什么我妈妈不带我一起去"
当我的朋友问我“你为什么哭?”
“我想念我的妈妈,她去了她的亲戚家没有带我”,我的眼睛含着眼泪说。
“她去了多少天了?”
"她会在今天晚上回来"
“那你为什么哭呢?”
我不知道!
尤其是当有人问我“你在哭吗?”眼泪就开始从我的眼睛里流了出来!
我其实不喜欢自己这么敏感!我希望有一天我能克服这一切!

Fred Shirley, Physics MSc student, amateur photographer
I find it very difficult to cry alone.
In fact, I cannot remember the last time I cried when I wasn’t in the presence of another person. I just can’t do it; it’s as if I need another person there to give me attention or offer me support in order for me to cry.
So if I’m alone, it’s nearly impossible for me to cry.
If I’m with another person? It’s complicated.
Whilst I despise the whole notion of ‘British Stiff-Upper lip,’ I can’t help but admit that it has been ingrained into me somewhat. As such, I find it very difficult to cry as I’m not very good at making myself vulnerable to people.
There are exceptions, of course. I can cry without holding back in front of my parents, for example.
But it isn’t actually that easy to make me cry. I very rarely cry at books or films. I don’t cry when people die.
That’s not to say I’m not emotionally ‘switched-on.’ I’d say I was. But crying is just not my main method of processing things.
I sometimes wish it was. Crying can be such a release.

我发现一个人时很难哭。
事实上,我都不记得上次在没有别人在场的情况下哭泣是什么时候。一个人时候我就是哭不出来,就好像我需要另一个人关心我,支持我,好让我哭。
所以如果我一个人,我几乎不可能哭。
如果我和另一个人在一起?情况也是复杂的。
虽然我鄙视“英国人忍着不哭”这种观念,但我不得不承认这种观念已经在我的内心根深蒂固。因此,我发现很难哭,我不擅长让自己在人们面前脆弱。
当然,也有例外。比如,我可以在父母面前毫不犹豫地哭。
但要让我哭,并不那么容易。我很少对着书或电影哭。当人们死去的时候,我不会哭泣。
这并不是说我没有“情感上的冲动”。(如果你问我)我会说我是没有。但哭泣并不是我处理事情的主要方法。
有时我也希望是这样。哭就是一种情绪的释放。

Vishak Raman, Still living, still learning. More importantly - still growing.
I can’t cry.
Or at least, I haven’t been able to cry in more than four years.
I couldn’t cry when the love of my life broke up with me. I couldn’t cry when my grandfather passed away. I’ve been frustrated to the point of screaming into a pillow when my lab experiments were failing for weeks on end, but I couldn’t cry.
I found it hard to breathe as I got on the flight that would take me away from India indefinitely. There are songs that bring up memories, literature that tugs at my chest, movies that choke me up but still, the tears will simply not run down my cheeks.
People say it’s not good to “bottle things up”, that you should “let things go, let the tears flow” — and they’re right. It is incredibly draining not being able to cry. I used to wonder if I was just a cold person, that the tears weren’t coming because I didn’t feel enough pain, or maybe wasn’t even capable of feeling that sort of pain.
Had I really loved her? Had I loved my grandfather? Did I care about my work? Did I miss India? Did I care about anything? Hard to tell when I couldn’t cry.
I’ve gotten used to it now, now that I’ve realized I’m not alone — a lot of men can’t cry. We grow up with a pressure not to show emotion and it has a lasting effect on many of us.
So no, I don’t cry easily. I wish I could.

我不能哭。
至少,我已经四年多没哭过了。
当我生命中的挚爱和我分手时,我没有哭泣。我祖父去世时,我哭不出来。当我的实验连续几周失败时,我曾沮丧到趴在枕头上尖叫,但我没有哭。
当我登上将带我无限期离开印度的航班时,我发现自己呼吸困难。有些歌曲能勾起我的回忆,有些文学作品能勾起我的心弦,有些电影能让我窒息,但我的眼泪还是不会顺着脸颊流下。
人们说“压抑情绪”不好,你应该“放手,让眼泪流”——他们是对的。不能哭是令人难以置信的痛苦。我曾经想,如果我只是一个冷漠的人,眼泪不会流下来是因为我没有感受到足够的痛苦,或者我甚至没有能力感受到那种痛苦。
我真的爱过她吗?我爱我的祖父吗?我关心我的工作吗?我想念印度了吗?我在乎什么吗?很难说我什么时候哭不出来。
现在我已经习惯了,现在我意识到不止我一个人不会哭——很多男人是不会哭的。我们在不流露情感的压力下长大,这对我们中的许多人产生了持久的影响。
所以,我不容易哭,但我希望我能。

Sharath Joshi, Dreamer, seeker, ambivert, story-teller, a speck of dust!
Although I'm someone who is very sensitive on the inside, I find it extremely uncomfortable when it comes to expressing strong but simple feelings like ecstacy or grief because no words or gestures, at that time, come naturally to me. Just like most of us.
So coming to the question, do I cry easily? No, I don't. In fact I remember almost every instance of crying after I thought I was mature enough, say after the age of 12. Although the reasons and circumstances were very different each time, there was a very disturbing common connection among all those incidents - “helplessness”. I usually get tears in my eyes or I cry when something is happening/happened to someone (usually a dear one) and I can't help. Sure, there could be a lot of other feelings and reasons but the residue that remains is the same everytime. It's been a bitter feeling and subconciously perhaps it has only made it difficult to cry the next time!
On the other hand, when I'm extremely happy I don't do anything crazy to show my happiness and I just give awkward smiles usually which are different from my regular ones I'm told! I'm trying to get off both these habits and try to act normal but hasn't happened so far.

虽然我是一个内心非常敏感的人,但当要表达强烈而简单的感情,如狂喜或悲伤时,我发现它非常不舒服,因为在那个时候,就像我们大多数人一样手足无措。
所以说到这个问题,我容易哭吗?不,我不喜欢。事实上,我几乎记得在我认为自己已经足够成熟之后,比如在12岁之后哭的每一个例子。虽然每一次的原因和情况都非常不同,但在所有这些事件中都有一个非常令人不安的共同联系,那就是“无助”。我通常会热泪盈眶,或者当发生在某人(通常是一个亲爱的人)身上的事情时,我会情不自禁地哭泣。当然,可能有很多其他的感觉和原因,但每次留下的残留物都是一样的。这是一种痛苦的感觉,也许潜意识里它只会让你很难再哭了!
另一方面,当我非常开心的时候,我不会做任何疯狂的事情来表现我的快乐,我只是经常笨拙的笑,这和我通常被告知的方式不同!我正在努力改掉这两个习惯,试着表现得正常些,但到目前为止还没有成功。

Sam Gupta, learning things the hard way
Well, not these days.
I stress easily, though. I get sleepless nights and acne in the morning. I become plump the next day. But that’s okay I guess. You can’t get everything, right?
I still have no peace within. I am an anxious creature. I still freak out easily.
But things are better now, for me, emotionally.
I used to cry super easily until a few months back.
I guess I have now become emotionally stronger? Maybe a little selfish too?
Not to brag, but I have seen so much in life that rarely anything affects me very deeply now. I know I am still extremely sensitive. But I don’t cry.
Or maybe I just don’t get hurt easily?
But maybe, even though I am sensitive and emotional, I am losing my compassion and empathy? Yeah, I know it sounds all paradox. I don’t really know how to explain this.
But honestly, I am liking this change.
In the past, I have cried for stupidest things.
I still “enjoy” crying though. It feels so light after crying. I feel relaxed. Hormones, lol.
Also, I feel I have started giving myself more importance. I put myself first. I have stopped caring about most people in my life and it’s so stressfree. I feel good. Why didn’t I do this sooner?
Most people don’t deserve your care anyway.
I hope I am only getting smarter. Seems like.

好吧,现在不是这样。
不过我很容易晚上失眠,早上长粉刺。第二天我就发胖了。不过我想这没什么。你不可能得到所有的东西,对吧?
我的内心仍然没有平静,我是一个焦虑的人,我还很容易被吓到。
但现在对我来说好多了。
几个月前,我还很容易哭。
我想我现在在情感上变得更坚强了吧?也许也有点自私?
不是吹牛,但我在生活中经历这么多,现在很少有什么能深深影响我。我知道我仍然非常敏感。但是我没有哭。
或者我只是不容易受伤?
但是,也许,即使我是敏感和情绪化的,我正在失去我的同情心和同理心?我知道这听起来很矛盾。我真不知道该怎么解释。
但说实话,我喜欢这种变化。
过去,我为最愚蠢的事情哭过。
但我仍然“享受”哭泣。哭过之后感觉轻松,哈哈。
而且,我觉得我开始更加重视自己了。我把自己放在第一位。我已经不再关心我生活中出现的大多数人了,感觉没有压力。我感觉很好。我为什么不早点做呢?
大多数人都不值得你在乎。
我希望我只会变得更聪明。至少看起来像。

Nic?le Laghuwitz, lives in Rotterdam, South-Holland, Netherlands
I do, and I hate it.
For example, a long time ago I didn’t do my homework, and the teacher gave me a punishment. It meant that I wouldn’t be able to join the class in something fun. I didn’t actually care cause I didn’t like it anyway*. But once I’m out the class, sitting in the hallway, I start crying without knowing why. The tears just came, I didn’t want them to come and I didn’t actually feel sad or happy.
Like that many times after that it happened, I have no clue why there are tears coming out of my eyes and I don’t want them to, but I can’t stop it.
And all that for no reason. While if I have a reason to cry I won’t cry as easily. Like when my grandpa died, I felt very sad but tears didn’t come out.
*The “fun” thing was talking in front of the class for 5 minutes straight without any eh’s and breaks. Then you would be able to pass the round and would head to the next round which meant a new story for 5 minutes. But I’m way too shy to talk to myself for 5 minutes in front of the class. It also was in a circle which you were in the middle. You could say I hated every single time it happened. And you couldn’t say no, you had to participate. It was perfect that I had a reason not to join, because it meant I didn’t pass the round so couldn’t participate in the next rounds either. Lucky me.

我知道,我讨厌这样。
例如,很久以前我没有做作业,老师惩罚了我。这意味着我不能参加一些有趣的课程。其实我并不在乎,因为反正我也不喜欢。但我一出教室,坐在走廊里,我就不知道为什么开始哭了。眼泪就这样流下来了,我不想让它们流下来,实际上我并不感到悲伤或快乐。
在那之后的很多次,我都不知道为什么眼泪会从我的眼睛里流出来,我不想让它们流出来,但我无法阻止。
这一切都是无缘无故的。如果我有理由哭,我就不会那么容易哭了。就像我爷爷去世的时候,我很伤心,但是眼泪没有掉出来。
在全班面前连续讲5分钟“有趣的”事情,没有任何休息。然后你就可以通过这一轮并进入下一轮,这意味着你将获得5分钟的新故事。但我太害羞了,不敢在全班面前说5分钟话。当时同学把握围在中间。你可以说每次发生这种事我都很讨厌,可又不能拒绝,你必须参与其中。我有一个不参加的理由,这很好,因为这意味着我没有通过这一轮,所以也不能参加下一轮。我真幸运。

Ellen Sassani, People are fascinating.
I cry easily as a result of “art”. A sad movie. A happy movie. A sad song. A happy song. Beautiful music without words. Beautiful words without music.
I cry very seldom as a result of “life”. Disappointment. Argument. Criticism. Pain. Even death.
I don’t know why. Maybe an emotional reaction to art is safer and more manageable, whereas an emotional reaction to life can be more dangerous,

因为“艺术”,我很容易哭。一个悲伤的电影。一个快乐的电影。一个悲伤的歌。一个快乐的歌。美妙的音乐,没有语言。没有音乐的美丽话语。
我很少因为“生活”、失望、批评、疼痛、甚至死亡而哭,
我不知道为什么。也许对艺术的情感反应更安全,更易于控制,然而对生活的情感反应可能更迟钝。

Kashi Diehl
It depends on the situation.
My brain is really strange. It seems to have a switch in it. So that when someone else is there or in earshot, I can't cry.
I literally can't, even if I try my very hardest, my body won't let me. I guess is tried not to cry around others so much I simply can't anymore.
However if I'm alone, it's a different story.
When I'm alone I cry so easily.
I cry for every death in a drama I'm watching. I cry when I feel even a little sad. I cry when I hear nice music and sad music both. I can even make myself cry just by thinking something really sad. Sometimes if I have a bad dream, I wake up crying. Which unfortunately happens a lot nowadays.
It's horribly easy to cry for me when nobody is there.
I would say that I used to cry easily in general. Now I don't know whether to classify myself as crying easily or not.

这取决于情况。
我的大脑真的很奇怪。好像里面有开关。所以当别人听到我哭,我就哭不出来了。
我真的不能,即使我尽我最大的努力,我的身体也不会让我哭。我想是不是试着不要在别人身边才去哭泣,我无法再哭了。
但是如果我一个人,那是另一回事。
当我一个人的时候,我哭得那么容易。
我在看的一部戏剧时为每一个死亡而哭泣。当我感到有点难过的时候我哭。当我听到好音乐和悲伤的音乐时,我都哭了。我甚至可以通过想一些真正的悲伤的事情来让自己哭泣。有时候,如果我有一个恶梦,我醒来哭泣。不幸的是,现在发生了很多事。
当没有人在的时候,我是非常容易哭泣的。
我想说,我过去总的来说很容易哭。现在我不知道把自己归类为容易哭还是不哭一类。

Sharmishtha Chaudhari, B.pharm DEPARTMENT OF PHARMACEUTICAL SCIENCES, NAGPUR UNIVERSITY, NAGPUR (2019)
No!! The biggest truth of my life I can't cry easily.. though thousands of factors break me inside I am unable to cry I wish I could cry and vanish my pain.. I do have a very weak heart stuffed with lots of emotions. Sometimes I feel them lucky who cries ,atleast they have weapon to express heartbreaks and get over it (express not to others but self). Many people think I am strong just because I don't cry but I am the one with the most weak heart. I never show this face to anyone and I too assume I am strong as lots of people get inspired by this attitude of mine..

不!我生命中最大的真理是我不能轻易哭泣。虽然有成千上万的因素让我心碎,但我不能哭,我希望我能哭,让我的痛苦消失。我的心确实很脆弱,充满了很多情感。有时我觉得哭的人是幸运的,至少他们有武器来表达心碎并克服它(不是对别人而是对自己)。很多人认为我坚强只是因为我不哭,但我是一个最脆弱的心。我从不向任何人展示出这一面,我也认为我很坚强,因为很多人都被我的这种态度所鼓舞。

Matthew Bates, Teacher (2009-present
No.
I cannot remember the last time I cried for emotional reasons. It might be all the way back to some childhood injury (physical or emotional). That includes crying from both ends of the emotional spectrum. I’ve been at two people’s bedsides as they passed away, lost several friends and family members, and been there for the births of my children. No tears.
Did I have emotions? Yes, of course. But those emotions don’t seem to be connected to my tear ducts for some reason.
This isn’t some attempt to be macho either. I don’t care if people see me getting emotional and crying. There’s nothing wrong with crying. It just never happens for me.
Physical pain doesn’t do it for me either. I wince. I curse. I punch walls. But no tears.
My eyes water a lot for other reasons. I know my tear ducts work. Being outside on a windy day will get some tears from me… the wind blows around my glasses and into my eyes. Cutting an onion will do it too.

不。我记不起上次因为什么感情原因哭了。这可能会一直追溯到童年的伤害(身体或情感上)。我曾在两个人去世的时候守在他们的床边,失去了几个朋友和家人,也在那里见证了我的孩子的出生,没有哭。
我有情绪吗?是的,当然。但这些情绪似乎没有因为某种原因与我的泪管相连。
这也不是想成为男人的企图。我不在乎别人看到我出现情绪化和哭泣。哭我不在乎,但我从来没有这样过。
身体上的疼痛也不能让我哭。我退缩了。我诅咒你。我拍打墙。但没有眼泪。
我的眼睛会因为其他原因而流了很多泪水。我知道我的泪管管用。在外面,大风会让我流下眼泪,风吹在我的眼镜上,吹进我的眼睛。切洋葱对哭也会有好处的。

Guna Raman, former Graduate Apprentice Trainee at Bosch Limited (2018-2019)
No.
I haven’t cried in a while.
Emotion simply doesn’t come to me as easily as it ought to, I guess.
Happy or sad, I simply see it in third person. It’s always from a perspective removed from the situation. As a result, there’s always a feeling that I should be happy/sad, rather than just being happy/sad.
Something happens, my thought process goes “The appropriate response here would be (a) Sadness (b) Happiness”
I never even shed a tear when I saw my grandfather take his last breath in front of me. This was the man who helped raised me and on whose lap I played as child more times than I can count.
On the other hand, I never felt moved (or something like that, you get the idea) when I landed my first job either. I felt more along the lines of “Good job. Now move on to the next thing”.

不,我好久没哭了。
我想我并不像它应该的那么容易出现该情绪。
快乐或悲伤,我只是在第三人称中看到。它总是从一个远离现状的角度出发。因此,总有一种感觉,我应该高兴/悲伤,而不仅仅是内心真的该高兴/悲伤。
有些事情发生了,我的思考过程是“适当的反应应该是(a)悲伤(b)幸福”
当我看到爷爷在我面前只剩一口气时,我甚至没有流下一滴眼泪。就是那个帮助我长大的人,我小时候在他腿上玩耍的次数多得数不清。
另一方面,当我找到第一份工作的时候,我也从来没有被感动过。我感觉更像是“干得好”,现在开始下一件事。

Ramya Annadurai, Language Lover
Yes! I cry easily at every thing.
I cry when I am happy!!!!
also when I am sad!!!
I cried during school and college farewell.
I cried when my grandmother left us on 28.02.2010.
I cried on the emotional scenes in movies and serials.
I cried on the sad stories posted on Facebook and Quora.
I cried when I see my mom and dad getting old day-by-day.
I cried when I left my home to stay in the hostel.
I cried when my son hugged me tight.
I cried when my son had high fever.
I cry when my son says, “Love you amma”.
I cry when I am unable to express my anger and accused falsely.
I cried badly on my vidaai.
I cried the worst during heart break.
I cry when someone insulted me and spoke badly about my character.
I cry when my parents and sister hurts my beliefs.
I cry when I fail in the exam.

对!我做什么都容易哭。
我高兴的时候就哭!
我难过的时候会哭。
我在学校和大学告别时哭了。
2010年2月28日,祖母离开我们时,我哭了。
我在看电影和连续剧的情感场景中哭了。
我在Facebook和Quora上看到那些悲伤的故事哭了。
看到爸爸妈妈一天比一天老,我哭了。
当我离开家呆在旅社时,我哭了。
儿子紧紧抱着我,我哭了。
儿子发高烧时我哭了。
当我儿子说“爱你,安玛”时,我哭了。
当我无法表达我的愤怒和被诬告时,我哭了。
心碎时我哭得最厉害。
当有人侮辱我,说我的坏话时,我哭了。
当我的父母和姐姐伤害了我的信仰时,我哭了。
我考试不及格就哭。

Sydney Jeon, lived in Suwon, South Korea
Yup-
I cry often and easily
One time I cried because food was so good-
I also cry for other people’s problems- even if they have nothing related to me- I still cry for them.
If one thing went wrong and it really bothers me, I cry to sleep- and wake up with puffy eyes-
I just cry at random points for the most random reason

是的,我常常容易哭
有一次因为食物太好吃了,我哭了,
我也为别人的问题哭泣——即使他们与我无关——我仍然为他们哭泣。
如果有一件事出了问题,真的让我很烦恼,我会边睡觉边哭——醒来时眼睛还会浮肿。
我因为最普通的原因都可以哭。

Emlyn, Emotions let us love.
I have a friend, who I feel like I’ve known forever, who moved out of this state for college. He moved to Iowa
A little while ago, he just came to mind.
And I missed him. And I really wanted a hug.
And I started crying, just like that.
(When I told him what happened, he sent me this: “I will give you the biggest hug when I visit, okay?” I love him to death.)

我有一个认识很久的朋友,他搬到了爱荷华州上大学。
不久前,他突然出现在我的脑海里。
我想念他。我真的想要一个拥抱。
我开始哭,就这样。
当我告诉他发生了什么事时,他给我发了这样一封信:“我来的时候会给你一个最大的拥抱,好吗?”我爱死他了。

Evelyn Natalia
Yes. I think i’m an emotional person.
I’m a talkative person and always show the happy side. When i watch sad movies/drama, I cried. When i watch a happy scene i cried also. When i get troubles, sad, or something uncomfortable i’m always keep it for myself. If someone told me my weaknesess i feel sad. My eyes will watery and try to hold my tears. It will end up with crying alone. Its hard for me to look tough.
A lot of little things that made me cry like a baby. I’m easily being hurt. I think its a trouble if i can’t control it for the next few years. How can i be a tough wife or tough mom if I easily to cry ?

我想我是个情绪化的人。
我是个健谈的人,总是表现出快乐的一面。当我看悲伤的电影/戏剧时,我哭了。当我看到一个快乐的场景时,我也哭。当我遇到麻烦、悲伤或是不舒服的时候,我总是把它留给自己。如果有人告诉我我的弱点,我会感到悲伤。我的眼睛会流泪。最后只能独自哭泣。我看起来不坚强。
很多小事可以让我哭得像个婴儿。我很容易受伤。我想如果在接下来的几年里我不能控制它,那将是一个麻烦。如果我很容易哭,我怎么能成为一个坚强的妻子或坚强的母亲?

Lara Novakov (???? ???????), Curious about human behavior.
According to many people, yes.
I don't cry to everything, but the fact that I am an emotional person means that making me cry is definitely easier than making someone who is not.
Do I like that? Definitely not. Generally, I don't cry in front of people and whenever I am among people and feel like I am going to, I just go somewhere where I can cry alone. Or when it is impossible to find such a place, I try extremely hard to prevent myselffrom crying
Nevertheless, that doesn't prevent people from being extremely rude and downright insulting, as if crying automatically means that you are weak or any other ridiculous label you can find today.
I am a human, I have feelings and yes, I cry. There is nothing shameful about that

据许多人说我容易哭。
我不是遇什么事都哭,但事实上,我是一个情绪化的人,这意味着让我哭肯定比让一个不是情绪化的人哭容易。
我喜欢哭吗?绝对不是。一般来说,我不会在别人面前哭,每当我和别人在一起,觉得我要哭的时候,我只会去一个我可以独自哭泣的地方。或者当找不到这样一个地方的时候,我会非常努力地阻止自己哭泣。
尽管如此,这并不能阻止人们非常粗鲁和彻头彻尾的侮辱的对待我,好像哭是意味着你软弱或任何其他可笑的标签。
我是人,有感情,是的,我会哭。这并没有什么可耻的,也没有什么奇怪的。

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