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Karan Koirala
Firstly, I would like to appreciate that you admit you know nothing. The majority of guys can’t admit this. This is a trait inbuilt, I surmise.
Now let’s come to the point. As you’re open to learning, it will be easier for you to grasp. Willingness and curiosity is something that builds geniuses.
We evolved and could survive because we were curious.
What you need to do is read books. Books are written after years of research and experience.
This will give you a head start. If you choose the right books, it can even change your life.
And one thing, you’ll never know until you try and experience. The one who regrets are the ones who didn’t try.
People who try come up with ideas, skills or mistakes and lessons.
This is a simple thing yet people knowingly ignore.
Reading helps and it doesn’t have to be books too. You are on a great platform- Quora. You can read here as well.
Cheers!! I pray that you all change into a great human being.

首先，我想对你承认自己一无所知表示赞赏，大多数人都不能承认这一点，我猜想，这是一种与生俱来的特质。
现在我们进入正题，当你对学习持开放态度时，你就会更容易掌握它，意愿和好奇心是造就天才。
我们之所以进化并得以生存，是因为我们有好奇心。
你需要做的是阅读书籍，书籍是经过多年的研究和经验写就的，这会给你一个好的开始，如果你选择正确的书籍，甚至可以彻底改变你的生活。
还有一点，在你尝试和体验之前，你永远不会知道，后悔的是那些没有尝试的人。
尝试的人就会有想法、技能或错误和教训，这是一件简单的事情，但人们却有意无意地忽略了。
阅读有帮助，而且不一定非得是书，Quora就是一个很棒的平台，你也可以在这里阅读。
干杯！! 我祈祷你们都能变成一个伟大的人。

Prerika Gupta
Hey,
I can totally understand you because this is exactly what I was going though a few years back. To be precise, when I was 23 Years old. I didn’t know anything, literally nothing. I was depressed like hell because I thought I have wasted all the time in my life. But that isn’t true at all, age is no parameter to know what you are capable of.
So, I decided to shut the doors of past and do everything, step by step. Bit by bit. I started writing journal on daily basis, just the routine things in a diary. And by the six months, I was writing really good- poems, proses etc…I made my friends read that and some of them appreciated and said I have potential to be a good writer. I didn’t believe them at all. So, I just kept doing it as a hobby for a very very long time.
And then after a year n half, I was shifted to Delhi for my training. And one day, I attended an event and performed there. Guess what! I won! Yes!
And since then, there has been no looking back. I have been part of a lot of pages related to literature on FB and have started my own now, The Art Galore.
As I am a CS by qualification but wanted to be a writer. So, I switched to full time writing and everyone around said that It wouldn’t work. But, guess what! It did! I have a great job and quite a few good freelancing projects by my side. Everything works as long as you do.
Since, I was always keen to learn dance, I said why not give it a try. I have started learning dancing last year and am doing pretty good at it too. Still learning.
So, within these past 3 years, I have learn pretty good things in life and they are:
Writing- poetries, stories, blogging.
Reading- read almost 70–80 books (PS: I didn’t read even a single book before 2015)
Cooking: Yes, I make sure that I learn at least 2 dishes
every month
Art and Craft: I consider waste no waste, so try my best to make something useful with that. Made quiet a few good stuff. :)
Dancing: Learning contemporary
Fought public fear: Performed in many platforms to beat the public fear out of me. Still working on it.
Started using Quora: Been following Quora from a very very long time. Now, have started answering too. So, this is my first ever answer on Quora.
Thanks. Hope this helps.

嘿。
我完全可以理解你，因为这正是我几年前所经历的，准确地说，在我23岁的时候，我也什么都不知道，堪称一无所知，我沮丧得要命，因为我认为我浪费了生命，浪费了时间，但事实并非如此——年龄并非衡量你能力的参数。
因此，我决定关闭过去的大门，一步一步地做所有事情，一点一点地做。我开始每天写日记，在日记中记录一些日常的事情，六个月后，我已经写出了很好的诗歌，散文等等.....我让我的朋友们看，他们中的一些人很欣赏我，说我有潜力成为一名好作家，我根本不相信他们，所以，在很长一段时间里，我只是把它作为一种业余爱好。
一年半之后，我被调到德里接受培训，有一天，我参加了一个活动并在那里表演，你猜怎么着？我赢了! 是的！我赢了。
从那时起，就再也没有回头了，我在非死不可上加入了很多与文学有关的群组，现在也开始了创建自己的页面，名叫《丰富的艺术》。
我是一名合格的CS，但我想成为一名作家，因此，我转而从事全职写作，周围的人都说这行不通，但是，你猜怎么着？我成功了! 我有一份很好的工作，身边也有不少好的自由职业项目，只要你努力，一切都会成功。
我一直热衷于学习舞蹈，我说为什么不试一试，我从去年开始学习舞蹈，现在也做得很好，我还在学习。
在过去的3年里，我在生活中学到了不少好东西：写作-写诗歌、写故事、写博客。
阅读-我读了差不多70-80本书（PS：2015年之前我连一本书都没读过）
烹饪-是的，我确保我每个月至少学会两道菜
艺术和手工艺-我认为这不是浪费时间，所以我尽力用它来做一些有用的东西，我做了一些好东西 : )
舞蹈-学习现代舞
战胜面对公众的恐惧: 在许多平台上表演，以战胜这种恐惧，我仍在努力中。
开始使用Quora：我很久以前就开始关注Quora，现在，我也开始回答问题了，这是我第一次在Quora上回答问题。
谢谢，希望这能对你有所帮助。

Julie Kelemen
This is an excellent discovery! Congratulations!
My father (a now retired electrical engineering professor) once told me something wise about this decades ago. I'd been complaining about my struggles in graduate school. I was about your age. I whined, "The more I learn the more stupid I feel!"
"Good!" he declared. "That means you're getting smart!"
upxe: This answer has gotten more up votes than any other I've given on Quora since I joined a few years ago. Thanks everyone!
2nd upxe: Found this quote today, 4/7/15: "In seeking wisdom thou art wise; in imagining that thou hast attained it, thou art a fool." ~ Rabbi Ben-Azzal
3rd upxe: More backup from Bertrand Russell: “The whole problem with the world is that fools and fanatics are always so certain of themselves, and wise people are full of doubts.”

这是一个极好的发现! 恭喜！
我父亲(现已退休的电子工程学教授) 几十年前曾经告诉我一些关于这个问题的明智解答，我一直在抱怨我在研究生院挣扎度日，那时的我和你差不多大，我抱怨道，“我学得越多，就越觉得自己愚蠢!”
“ 这很好! ”他说，“这意味着你变聪明了!”
更新： 自从我几年前加入 Quora 以来，这个答案获得了比其他任何答案都多的赞，谢谢大家！
二更: 今天发现了这句名言: “在寻求智慧的过程中，你是聪明的; 在想象你已经获得智慧的过程中，你是一个傻瓜。”~ 拉比本-阿扎尔
三更: 伯特兰·罗素: “这个世界的全部问题在于，傻瓜和狂热者总是对自己极其自信，而智者则充满怀疑。”

Harsh Bhanushali
I don’t know whether am I eligible to write this answer because I am too of this age right now. Well, I do feel the same and I think all of us at this particular age feel the same. Well to share my experience what I personally do is I don’t try to get this thing on my head but use this as a chance to experience different things.
Writing is one of them. I could have never thought that I would start writing but here I am, writing stuff consistently and helping people out.
I have never read any books apart from those academic ones, but now I use this as an opportunity to read books and what I found is that I love reading books. It can be self-help books, novels, or any book which would make me learn something.
I started learning multiple things through online courses. I know that you have to be stable and be good at one particular thing but I don’t feel that this is the perfect age to be stable in life if your family is not dependent on you. Rather try to experiment with different things. A lot of people at this age don’t know what they exactly want to do in their life and it's OKAY! Try out different things, fail, learn but don’t stop.
Hope It Helps! Thanks For Reading.

我不知道我是否有资格写这个答案，因为我现在也是这个年龄。好吧，我确实有同样的感觉，我想我们所有人在这个特定的年龄段都有这样的感觉，分享一下我的经验，我个人所做的是，我不试图把这件事放在心上，而是把它当成一个机会来体验不同的事物。
写作就是其中之一，我从来没有想过我会开始写作，但现在的确在写作，我不断地写东西，帮助别人。
除了那些学术性的书，我从来没有读过任何书，但现在我把这当成一个机会，我阅读书籍，我发现我喜欢看书，可以是自助书类籍，小说，或任何能让我学到东西的书。
我开始通过在线课程学习多种东西，我的看法是，你必须保持稳定并擅长某一件事，但如果你的家庭并不依赖你，我不认为眼下是稳定生活的最佳年龄，相反，你应该去尝试不同的事情，很多人在这个年龄段不知道他们在生活中到底想做什么，这没关系！尝试不同的事情，失败，学习，不要停。
希望对您有所帮助! 谢谢你的阅读。

Josh Otusanya
Read Books - This is a step I’m currently doing myself. It’s not always convenient to carry a book around so I download audiobooks onto my phone and listen to them on the go. Definitely worth the investment.
Watch YouTube Videos - Let’s be honest. YouTube has a video for everything these days. I wanted to learn how to dance like Usher when I was in high school so I checked out this video haha - “How To Dance Like Usher” . Take advantage of this awesome resource to learn more about topics you aren’t familiar with. It’s great because YouTube creators are super creative at delivering beautiful visual content that’s easy to digest.
Talk To People - I can’t count how many times I’ve learned just by having an intelligent conversation with someone. It’s even more beneficial when you speak with someone that has more knowledge or experience than you (parents, professors, counselors, etc.). The more information you soak up, the more you’ll be able to offer in future intellectual conversations.
Take Notes - Whenever you take in information make sure you take notes. Taking notes that you can review later helps you remember more of the books you read or the videos you watch.
Seek New Experiences - Break your routine habits and go on new adventures. Travel if you can. Having new life experiences expands your worldview and increases your overall knowledge about the world we live in.

读书
——这是我自己目前正在做的一件事，随时携带一本书往往不是很方便，所以我把有声书下载到手机上，在路上听，这绝对值得投资。
观看YouTube视频
——说实话，如今，YouTube上什么都有视频，我在高中时想学习像Usher那样跳舞，所以我看了这个视频--"如何像Usher那样跳舞" ，你可以利用YT这一资源，了解更多你不熟悉的事物，这很好，因为YouTube的创作者们在提供美丽的视觉内容方面具有超强的创造力，而且很容易消化。
与人交谈
——我数不清有多少次是通过与人进行智慧的交谈来学习的，当你与比你有更多知识或经验的人（父母、教授、辅导员等）交谈时这种方式更有益处，你吸收的信息越多，你就越能在未来的智慧对话中提供更多的信息。
做笔记
——每当你吸收信息时，一定要做笔记，做好笔记，供以后复习，这有助于你记住更多你所读的书或你所看的视频。
寻求新的体验
——打破你的日常习惯，开始进行新的冒险，如果可以的话，去旅行，拥有新的生活体验可以扩大你的视野，增加你对我们生活的世界的整体知识。

Jody LeBlanc
Welcome to adulthood! You've finally breached the know it all attitude that appeared in your youth. And now, your eyes are wide open.
We become educated by learning, and it takes time. I'm not talking about being taught, either - I'm talking about reflecting on your experience versus your expectations and adapting your thinking. Even the most intelligent people feel uneducated, and that's what drives many of us to continue learning.
When I was your age, I felt the same way. I launched my first company at 22, and by 23 it was nearly dead. I thought I knew everything about business and that I could do it better than everyone else... And then I got curb stomped.
Instead of sitting around feeling sorry for myself (okay, I lie, I did for 4 months) I used the experience for fuel to examine everything about the errors of my ways. I reflected and uated my experience - and I determined the cause of my errors and what I didn't know. By the way, that's the first step of learning: know what you don't know.
Anyways, long story short, from the inter reflection, I became a business process analyst and entered the sales system design field. I built my processes into systems that forced me to follow them, and now I teach my clients how to do that too.
So how do you start feeling intelligent? It has nothing to do with your IQ. I know a ton of village idiots that feel intelligent.
Instead, accept that no one really knows everything about anything - and learn one subject incredibly well. Then you'll be an expert in something, which will make you valuable.
When you offer people value in what you say, people will listen; and that feels a lot better than feeling intelligent.

欢迎来到成人世界！你终于打破了年轻时那种无所不知的态度，而现在，你的眼睛已经睁开了。
我们通过学习来接受教育，这需要时间，我说的也不是被教育——我说的是反思你的经历和你的期望，调整你的思维，即使是最聪明的人也会觉得自己接受的教育太少，而这正是驱使我们许多人继续学习的动力。
当我像你这么大的时候，我也有同样的感觉，我22岁的时候创办了自己的第一家公司，到23岁的时候，这家公司已经濒临倒闭，我以为我对生意了如指掌，我可以比别人做得更好...... 然后我就被现实狠狠的打脸了。
我没有坐在那里自怨自艾 (好吧，我撒谎了，足有4个月我都是这种状态) ，而是用这段经历作为动力，来审视我行为方式中的错误，我反思和评估了我的经历——我确定了我错误的原因和我所不知道的东西，顺便说一下，这是学习的第一步: 知道你不知道。
总之，长话短说，从反思中，我成为了一名业务流程分析师，并进入了销售系统设计领域，我把我的流程建立在系统中，迫使我遵循它们，现在我也教我的客户如何这样做。
那么，你是如何开始感觉自己聪明的呢？这和你的智商没有关系，我认识很多自以为聪明的白痴，相反，接受没有人真正知道所有事情这一事实——并且开始好好地学习一个科目，然后你就会成为某方面的专家，这会让你变得有价值。
当你为人们提供有价值的东西时，人们会倾听，这种感觉比自我感觉聪明要好得多。

Bill Cordingley
I SO understand your question because I had a very similar realization at your age.
I graduated from a fine college thinking it had it made and then realized I had no real direction or understanding about life or about myself or about working or women or even what brought me real joy. I felt lost and directionless.
But now I’m considerably older (in my 60’s) and in retrospect realize how life works. That was an appropriate place for me to be at that age (23 for me too).
The short answer to your question is: Don’t worry about it. Just engage with life’s experiences as they arise and you’ll invariably “improve” yourself and learn.
But I bet you want more of an answer. So here’s a longer, perhaps more helpful/illuminating answer :
Congratulations. You have already discovered something very significant: You don’t know much yet. (You DO but you don’t have enough experience and perspective yet that you feel you have anything valuable, if that makes sense.) That’s a big, important realization! We have to realize the truth of who we are and what we know—in other words, we have to recognize we have a need and be open to satisfying it—before we can develop a desire that is strong enough to help us move forward in our lives and be truly open to discovering more for ourselves.
Keep your mind open! You don’t know what you don’t know. Never think for a second that you know everything or even a lot about yourself, about life, about how the world works, etc. As you’ve said, you don’t. There is always more to know. And until you’re deep into something you’re learning about/experiencing, it’ll be hard for you to have a very useful perspective on it.
The more open you are, the more experiences and opportunities will show up for you, and the more you’ll learn how to do, and the more you’ll “improve.” You’ll also grow more confident and grounded so you feel even better about yourself and your life. Your life will get to a point where it feels like it’s rolling along with some momentum and direction. Until it doesn’t feel that way. And we all have those times too.

我非常理解你的问题，因为我在你这个年纪时也有过类似的认识。
我从一所很好的大学毕业，以为自己已经成功了，然后发现我对生活、对自己、对工作、对女人，甚至是什么带给我真正的快乐没有真正的方向或理解，我感到迷失，没有方向。
但现在我的年龄已经够大了（60多岁），回想起来，我意识到生活是如何运转的，在那一个年龄段它就是合理的（对我来说也是23岁）。
对你的问题的简短回答是: 无需担心。只要在生活经历出现的时候参与其中，你就会毫无例外地“提高”自己并去学习。
但我敢打赌，你想要更多的答案，因此，这里有一个更长、或许更有帮助、更具启发性的答案：
恭喜你。

你已经发现了一些非常重要的事情： 你知道的还不多。(你有一定认知，但是你没有足够的经验和观点，以至于你觉得自己没有任何有价值的东西) 这是一个非常重要的认识！我们必须认识到我们是谁以及我们知道什么的真相ーー换句话说，我们必须认识到我们有一种需要，并愿意去满足它ーー然后我们才能培养出一种强烈的愿望，这种愿望足以帮助我们在生活中向前迈进，并真正愿意为自己发现更多的东西。

敞开你的心扉！你不知道你不知道的事情，千万不要认为你知道自己的一切，甚至是很多关于自己的事情，关于生活，关于世界如何运转等等，就像你说的，你什么都不知道，总是有更多的东西需要去“知道”，除非你深入到你正在学习或经历的事情中，否则你很难对它有一个非常有用的观点。
你越开放，就会有越多的经验和机会出现在你面前，你学到的越多，你就会越“进步”你也会变得更加自信和脚踏实地，这样你会对自己和你的生活感觉更好，你的生活将会到达一个点，感觉它随着某种动力和方向滚动发展，直到感觉不再是这样，我们也都有过这样的时光。

Focus on your strengths. Trust yourself. It may not seem like it but you have a lot to offer right now, no matter who you are. We humans tend to judge and doubt ourselves mercilessly. We focus on our supposed flaws while we could be celebrating our strengths and gifts. So let go of your self-judgment and forgive yourself often, just as you would have others forgive you, and then dive into life and notice what you like and how well you do and where/when you find yourself feeling excited, interested, passionate, even empowered. Those will be times you’re uncovering and/or using your strengths and assets and talents. Then, the more you recognize and use those the better you’ll feel about yourself and your life experience.
If you trust yourself you’ll be less likely to hide out from life. You'll want to experience more things, whether it’s trying out different jobs, dating more, traveling to more exotic places, etc. And hidden in each of those experiences is the opportunity for more self-development (improvement) that you’re looking for.
Don’t suppress or deny or overlook your fears. Face them. Breathe and feel the fear and then move through it. It’s not easy for most of us to do that (certainly myself included—I spent decades avoiding my fears). But until you can do that you’ll be hiding out from life trying to stay safe and severely limiting your experience.
Learn to breathe properly, from your gut. This is really, really important so I suggest you read my many other Quora posts on this subject. Because when you breathe properly, you become more present in the moment and you experience the moment more completely and you have a much richer experience of life. While my words here may not make much sense, if you start breathing properly more of the time you will experience this and discover the significance of my statement.
If you focus on these principles and ideas you’ll open yourself up to a wonderful life full of experiences, many of which you might never expect you’d have. In that process you’ll grow and change and learn and really live.
Helpful? I certainly hope so!

专注于你的长处，相信自己。也许看起来不像，但是无论你是谁，你现在都有很多东西可以提供，我们人类倾向于无情地判断和怀疑自己，我们专注于我们所谓的缺陷，而同时我们也可以庆幸于我们的优势和天赋，因此，放下你的自我判断，经常原谅自己，就像让别人原谅你一样，然后投入到生活中，注意自己喜欢什么，做得怎么样，以及在哪里/什么时候你发现自己感到兴奋、感兴趣、充满激情，甚至有力量，这将是你发掘和/或使用你的优势和天赋的时候，然后，你越是认识和使用这些，你就会对自己和你的生活经历感觉越好。
如果你信任自己，你就不太可能躲避生活，你会想要体验更多的事情，无论是尝试不同的工作，更多的约会，更多的去异国他乡旅行，等等，而这些经历中的每一个都隐藏着你所寻找的更多自我发展（改善）的机会。
不要压制或否认或忽视你的恐惧，面对它们，深呼吸，感受恐惧，然后跨越它，对我们大多数人来说，要做到这一点并不容易（当然也包括我自己，我花了几十年时间回避我的恐惧），你将体验到这一点，并发现我上面所言的意义，如果你专注于这些原则和想法，你就会打开自己的心扉，让自己拥有一个充满经历的美好生活，其中许多经历你可能从来没有想到过，在这个过程中，你会成长，改变，学习，会真正地生活。
以上有帮助吗 ? 我希望如此!
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Jaafar Bendriss
You see, I think you just made the deepest and impactful insight about yourself.
I can divide it into two observations:
I don't know anything
I can learn to reduce my ignorance
First, all human knowledge including all digital and physical libraries count for less than 5% of what we consider the potential knowledgeable universe(Insight from astrophysic). So you will, in a way, be always ignorant. This remark is important for you to stay humble and to always seek to know more.
Paradoxically, it is the previous observation that will unleash your learning potential. So lets talk about how you can improve yourself and learn more:
I will just present here a non-exhaustive list
Reading. My advice before reading a book or an article is to read about the author or the organization. It is really helpful.
Watching (interesting) videos on Youtube Platform for example.
Thinking. Just indulge yourself few hours to understand ideas and think about them.
Discussing. Specially with people who do not share your opinions
Creating with your hands. it can be software craftsmanship or performing an experiment (or thought experiment).
Writing. Writing is the best way to think, and to organize your thoughts. I recommend that you start your own blog.
Hope It was helpful.

你看，我认为你刚刚对自己做出了最深刻和最有影响力的洞察。
我可以把它分为两个看法：
我什么都不知道。
我可以学习减少自己的无知
首先，所有的人类知识，包括所有的数字和物理，只占我们认为潜在的知识性宇宙的不到5%（来自天体物理学的洞察），因此，在某种程度上，你将永远是无知的，这句话对你保持谦虚和不断寻求更多知识很重要。
矛盾的是，正是前面的观察将释放出你的学习潜力，因此，让我们来谈谈如何提高自己，学习更多知识。
在此我提出一个谈不上详尽的清单：
阅读：我的建议是在阅读一本书或一篇文章之前，先阅读一下作者或组织的背景，这真的很有帮助。
例如，在Youtube平台上观看（有趣的）视频。
思考：让自己沉浸在几个小时的理解和思考中。
讨论：特别是与那些与你意见不一致的人。
用你的双手去创造：可以是虚拟平台或进行实验（或思想实验）。
写作：写作是思考的最好方式，也是组织你的想法的最好方式，我建议你建立自己的博客。
希望这对你有帮助。

Dan Hunt
Improve in 8 Steps:
1) Be more observant, and less judgmental
2) Learn to find everything and anyone interesting
3) Question everything around you.
4) Travel
5) Talk to people.
6) Read
7) Write
8) Apply what you learned in 1-7 to the creation of meaningful projects
While going through this process you can use the iteration cycle to continuously increase self awareness and understand at a deeper level what you are doing, why you are doing it, and what you could be doing better. I recommend writing in a journal everyday, it will change your life.
Watch – What happening? What’s working and what’s not?
Ideate – What could you improve? What are your options?
Guess – Based on what you’ve learned so far, which of your ideas do you think will make the biggest impact?
Which? – Decide which change to make.
Act – Actually make that change
Measure – What happened? Was the change positive or negative? Should you keep the change, or go back to how things were before this iteration?

通过以下8个步骤改善自己：
1) 多观察，少判断
2) 学会对任何事物和任何人充满兴趣
3) 质疑你周围的一切
4) 旅行
5) 与人交谈
6) 阅读
7) 写作
8) 将你在1-7中所学到的东西应用于创建有意义的项目
在经历这个过程的同时，你可以利用迭代循环不断提高自我意识，在更深层次上了解你在做什么，为什么要做，以及你可以做得更好。我建议每天写日记，它将改变你的生活。
观察 - 发生了什么？哪些是有效的，哪些是无效的？
想法 - 你可以改进什么？你有哪些选择？
猜测-根据你到目前为止所学到的，你认为你的哪个想法会产生最大的影响？
哪一个？- 决定做哪种改变。
行动--真正做出改变
测量--发生了什么？这个变化是积极的还是消极的？你应该保留这个变化，还是回到这次重复之前的状态？