对于即将步入20多岁的年轻人，最好的建议是什么？（一）
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Anas Ansari, BCA from University of Lucknow
I live on the 9th floor.
A floor below me, lives a small family of three; father, mother and their beautiful, kind-hearted, 15-yo daughter, Alina. I don't know her personally or have ever talked to her. But everyone in the building knows her. Even our watchman calls her by name. That's how I came to know her. She greets everyone. She loves planting flowers. She plays with every kid in the building. She is the kind of girl who will not have enemies, ever ! I hope so.
Usually, I return home by 8 and I always see her, in school dress, in the lift. Always Upbeat!
Yesterday, after doing a long, boring night-shift, I came home at around 11 in the morning. I entered the lift. I realized I won't be seeing her today. Smiling, I went to my room. Slept.
An hour later, the cook, came hurriedly, woke me up in shock, saying, “Bhaiyya, wo 8th floor waali ladki balcony se gir gayi!!”. ( Sir, the girl on 8th floor fell from her balcony. )
I ran towards the lift. In the lift, I was praying, “Please, God !! Let that news be false!!” I was begging.
As I reached ground floor, there was a huge crowd. My heart sank. They were taking her to the hospital. I just got a glimpse of her 'Pooh’ hair clip. It was swinging down on her hair end. I was devastated.
After an hour, her body came, as she had lost a lot of blood. Her mother was in shock-silence. Her father was crying like a baby. He would try to stand but couldn't and collapsed on the floor. I had never seen anyone cry like that in my life.
我住在九楼。
在我楼下，住着一个三口之家，父亲、母亲和他们美丽善良的15岁女儿艾莉娜。
我不认识她，也从来没有和她说过话，但是大楼里的每个人都认识她，甚至我们的看门人也会叫她的名字，所以我才认识她，她向每个人问好，她喜欢种花，她和这栋楼里的每个孩子玩，她是那种永远不会有敌人的女孩！我希望她继续如此。
通常，我八点回家，我总能看到她，穿着校服，乘着电梯，总是很开心！
昨天，在一个漫长又无聊的夜班之后，我上午11点左右才回到家，我走进电梯，我意识到我今天见不到她了，我微笑着回到我的房间，睡觉。
一个小时以后，厨师匆匆赶来，惊醒了我，他说 : “Bhaiyya, wo 8th floor waali ladki balcony se gir gayi!!
( 先生，8楼的女孩从阳台上摔了下来！！ )
我朝电梯跑去，在电梯里，我祈祷着，“ 求求你，上帝！告诉我这个消息是假的 ! ”我当时在恳求着。
当我到达一楼时，周围一大群人，我的心沉了下去。
他们正送她去医院，我只瞥见了一眼她的发卡，发卡在她的发梢上荡来荡去。
我崩溃了。
一个小时后，回来的是她的尸体，她因失血过多而死。
她母亲震惊得一声不吭，她父亲哭得像个婴儿，他想站起来，但站不起来，倒在地板上。
我这辈子从没见过有人哭成这样。
I live on the 9th floor.
A floor below me, lives a small family of three; father, mother and their beautiful, kind-hearted, 15-yo daughter, Alina. I don't know her personally or have ever talked to her. But everyone in the building knows her. Even our watchman calls her by name. That's how I came to know her. She greets everyone. She loves planting flowers. She plays with every kid in the building. She is the kind of girl who will not have enemies, ever ! I hope so.
Usually, I return home by 8 and I always see her, in school dress, in the lift. Always Upbeat!
Yesterday, after doing a long, boring night-shift, I came home at around 11 in the morning. I entered the lift. I realized I won't be seeing her today. Smiling, I went to my room. Slept.
An hour later, the cook, came hurriedly, woke me up in shock, saying, “Bhaiyya, wo 8th floor waali ladki balcony se gir gayi!!”. ( Sir, the girl on 8th floor fell from her balcony. )
I ran towards the lift. In the lift, I was praying, “Please, God !! Let that news be false!!” I was begging.
As I reached ground floor, there was a huge crowd. My heart sank. They were taking her to the hospital. I just got a glimpse of her 'Pooh’ hair clip. It was swinging down on her hair end. I was devastated.
After an hour, her body came, as she had lost a lot of blood. Her mother was in shock-silence. Her father was crying like a baby. He would try to stand but couldn't and collapsed on the floor. I had never seen anyone cry like that in my life.
我住在九楼。
在我楼下，住着一个三口之家，父亲、母亲和他们美丽善良的15岁女儿艾莉娜。
我不认识她，也从来没有和她说过话，但是大楼里的每个人都认识她，甚至我们的看门人也会叫她的名字，所以我才认识她，她向每个人问好，她喜欢种花，她和这栋楼里的每个孩子玩，她是那种永远不会有敌人的女孩！我希望她继续如此。
通常，我八点回家，我总能看到她，穿着校服，乘着电梯，总是很开心！
昨天，在一个漫长又无聊的夜班之后，我上午11点左右才回到家，我走进电梯，我意识到我今天见不到她了，我微笑着回到我的房间，睡觉。
一个小时以后，厨师匆匆赶来，惊醒了我，他说 : “Bhaiyya, wo 8th floor waali ladki balcony se gir gayi!!
( 先生，8楼的女孩从阳台上摔了下来！！ )
我朝电梯跑去，在电梯里，我祈祷着，“ 求求你，上帝！告诉我这个消息是假的 ! ”我当时在恳求着。
当我到达一楼时，周围一大群人，我的心沉了下去。
他们正送她去医院，我只瞥见了一眼她的发卡，发卡在她的发梢上荡来荡去。
我崩溃了。
一个小时后，回来的是她的尸体，她因失血过多而死。
她母亲震惊得一声不吭，她父亲哭得像个婴儿，他想站起来，但站不起来，倒在地板上。
我这辈子从没见过有人哭成这样。
In the evening, I came to know the saddest part:
She hadn't fallen.
Someone had seen her jump from the balcony.
Then came the whole story.
She wasn't good in one of the subjects. Her parents used to scold her. She had failed in her exams. Her teacher had punished her. He used to insult her in front of class. She was told that she wasn't the child her parents were expecting as they both were well educated and always a step up on path of life . She had ruined her family's reputation. The day she died, her parent (I'm not sure if mom or dad) didn't speak to her at all.
She was getting emotionally tortured by her loved ones and teachers, everyday. She couldn't cope with that. She found it easier to end her life.
At night, I went to their home. People were there in silence. The only voice I heard was of her father. He was asking for her forgiveness. Repeatedly. His wife was consoling him to get up from there.
He said, “ Nahi. Aaj baat kar lene do meri gudia se. Kal chali jayegi. Uth jao, beta. Please uth jao. Alina. Alina!”. ( No. Let me talk to my doll, today. Tomorrow she'll be gone. Please get up, my princess. Please get up. Alina. Alina ! )
He started crying as if he had lost his world. And I knew he had. I couldn't control my tears any longer and came outside.
. . .
到了晚上，我才知道最悲哀的部分：
她并不是摔下去的。
有人看到她从阳台上跳了下来。
然后就有了整个故事。
她有一门功课学得不好，她的父母经常责骂她，她在考试中失败了，她的老师惩罚她，经常在班级面前侮辱她，她被告知，她不是她父母所期望的孩子，因为父母都受过良好的教育，在生活的道路上总能更上一层楼，她毁了她家的声誉。
她死的那天，她的父母（我不确定是妈妈还是爸爸）根本没有和她说过一句话。
她每天都被她的亲人和老师折磨得情绪低落，她无法承受这些，她发现结束自己的生命更容易一些。
晚上，我去了他们家。
大家都沉默不语，我听到的唯一声音是她父亲，他在请求她的原谅，一遍又一遍.....
他的妻子在安慰他，让他从那里起来。
他说："Nahi Aaj baat kar lene do meri gudia se. Kal chali jayegi. Uth jao, beta.！"
( 不，让我和我的娃娃说说话，就今天，明天她就要离开了，请起来啊，我的公主，请起来吧，阿琳娜，阿琳娜！)
他开始哭，仿佛他失去了整个世界。
而我知道他的确失去了世界，我再也无法控制我的眼泪，我走到了外面。
She hadn't fallen.
Someone had seen her jump from the balcony.
Then came the whole story.
She wasn't good in one of the subjects. Her parents used to scold her. She had failed in her exams. Her teacher had punished her. He used to insult her in front of class. She was told that she wasn't the child her parents were expecting as they both were well educated and always a step up on path of life . She had ruined her family's reputation. The day she died, her parent (I'm not sure if mom or dad) didn't speak to her at all.
She was getting emotionally tortured by her loved ones and teachers, everyday. She couldn't cope with that. She found it easier to end her life.
At night, I went to their home. People were there in silence. The only voice I heard was of her father. He was asking for her forgiveness. Repeatedly. His wife was consoling him to get up from there.
He said, “ Nahi. Aaj baat kar lene do meri gudia se. Kal chali jayegi. Uth jao, beta. Please uth jao. Alina. Alina!”. ( No. Let me talk to my doll, today. Tomorrow she'll be gone. Please get up, my princess. Please get up. Alina. Alina ! )
He started crying as if he had lost his world. And I knew he had. I couldn't control my tears any longer and came outside.
. . .
到了晚上，我才知道最悲哀的部分：
她并不是摔下去的。
有人看到她从阳台上跳了下来。
然后就有了整个故事。
她有一门功课学得不好，她的父母经常责骂她，她在考试中失败了，她的老师惩罚她，经常在班级面前侮辱她，她被告知，她不是她父母所期望的孩子，因为父母都受过良好的教育，在生活的道路上总能更上一层楼，她毁了她家的声誉。
她死的那天，她的父母（我不确定是妈妈还是爸爸）根本没有和她说过一句话。
她每天都被她的亲人和老师折磨得情绪低落，她无法承受这些，她发现结束自己的生命更容易一些。
晚上，我去了他们家。
大家都沉默不语，我听到的唯一声音是她父亲，他在请求她的原谅，一遍又一遍.....
他的妻子在安慰他，让他从那里起来。
他说："Nahi Aaj baat kar lene do meri gudia se. Kal chali jayegi. Uth jao, beta.！"
( 不，让我和我的娃娃说说话，就今天，明天她就要离开了，请起来啊，我的公主，请起来吧，阿琳娜，阿琳娜！)
他开始哭，仿佛他失去了整个世界。
而我知道他的确失去了世界，我再也无法控制我的眼泪，我走到了外面。
......
If you're a teenager,
Please do not end your life just because someone scolds you. Just because you failed in one subject. Forget one subject. If you have never passed a single exam. Its still not worth ending your life. Your parents love you. Its just that they sometimes cannot understand that Failure is also a step towards success.
Please. Please. Please. I beg you. Never end your life. Whatever the reason is. Talk to someone you can share. Come online there will be many people to help you. Come to me. I'll be happy to help you. Everyone will. Trust me. Oh please, Trust me!
Please don't end your life. I will not be able to bear losing any other Alina.
Your parents will love to hear “I love you, mom/dad” from you.
. . .
如果你是一个青少年。
请不要因为有人责骂你就结束你的生命，不要仅仅因为你有一门课不及格就结束你的生命，忘掉这门课，哪怕你从来没有一次考试及格，它仍然不值得结束你的生命。
你的父母爱你，只是他们有时不能理解，失败也是走向成功的一步。
求你了/ 求你了/求你了，我请求你，永远不要结束你的生命，无论原因是什么。
和你可以分享的人谈谈，到网上来，会有很多人帮助你。
来找我吧，我很乐意帮助你，每个人都会的，相信我，请相信我 ！
请不要结束你的生命。
我无法忍受再失去一个阿琳娜。
你的父母会喜欢听到你说 "我爱你，妈妈/爸爸"。
If you're a teenager,
Please do not end your life just because someone scolds you. Just because you failed in one subject. Forget one subject. If you have never passed a single exam. Its still not worth ending your life. Your parents love you. Its just that they sometimes cannot understand that Failure is also a step towards success.
Please. Please. Please. I beg you. Never end your life. Whatever the reason is. Talk to someone you can share. Come online there will be many people to help you. Come to me. I'll be happy to help you. Everyone will. Trust me. Oh please, Trust me!
Please don't end your life. I will not be able to bear losing any other Alina.
Your parents will love to hear “I love you, mom/dad” from you.
. . .
如果你是一个青少年。
请不要因为有人责骂你就结束你的生命，不要仅仅因为你有一门课不及格就结束你的生命，忘掉这门课，哪怕你从来没有一次考试及格，它仍然不值得结束你的生命。
你的父母爱你，只是他们有时不能理解，失败也是走向成功的一步。
求你了/ 求你了/求你了，我请求你，永远不要结束你的生命，无论原因是什么。
和你可以分享的人谈谈，到网上来，会有很多人帮助你。
来找我吧，我很乐意帮助你，每个人都会的，相信我，请相信我 ！
请不要结束你的生命。
我无法忍受再失去一个阿琳娜。
你的父母会喜欢听到你说 "我爱你，妈妈/爸爸"。
......
If you're a parent,
Why ? Why would you do something like this to your beloved one, your prince(ss). What would be the need of high, esteemed qualifications when there will be no one to celebrate with ?
Don’t you know that a child understands more when you talk or explain them something, lovingly ?
Then why would you do this ?
Talk to them in the purest form of love. They will understand everything.
If you have to show them anger, just do it in limits. But its your duty to talk to your child and explain, in as much warmness as you can, why you scolded them. And an apology would take you places. Trust me.
Please be warm and calm with your kids.
Your kids will love to hear “I love you, my child” from you.
Marks are not everything. They are nothing, actually, as compared to your life.
. . .
如果你是父母。
为什么？你为什么要对你心爱的人，你的宝贝做这样的事，当没有人与你一起庆祝的时候，你要受人尊敬的高学历又有何用？
难道你不知道，当你充满爱意地与孩子交谈或向他们解释时，孩子会更容易理解？
那么，为什么你要这样做？
以最纯粹的爱的形式与他们交谈，他们会理解的。
如果你必须向他们表示愤怒，就必须做到有限度，而你有责任与你的孩子交谈，并尽可能温暖地解释你为什么责骂他们。道声歉会很有作用，相信我。
请对你的孩子保持温暖和冷静。
你的孩子会喜欢听你说 "我爱你，我的孩子"。
分数不代表一切，事实上，与你的生活相比，它们不算什么。
If you're a parent,
Why ? Why would you do something like this to your beloved one, your prince(ss). What would be the need of high, esteemed qualifications when there will be no one to celebrate with ?
Don’t you know that a child understands more when you talk or explain them something, lovingly ?
Then why would you do this ?
Talk to them in the purest form of love. They will understand everything.
If you have to show them anger, just do it in limits. But its your duty to talk to your child and explain, in as much warmness as you can, why you scolded them. And an apology would take you places. Trust me.
Please be warm and calm with your kids.
Your kids will love to hear “I love you, my child” from you.
Marks are not everything. They are nothing, actually, as compared to your life.
. . .
如果你是父母。
为什么？你为什么要对你心爱的人，你的宝贝做这样的事，当没有人与你一起庆祝的时候，你要受人尊敬的高学历又有何用？
难道你不知道，当你充满爱意地与孩子交谈或向他们解释时，孩子会更容易理解？
那么，为什么你要这样做？
以最纯粹的爱的形式与他们交谈，他们会理解的。
如果你必须向他们表示愤怒，就必须做到有限度，而你有责任与你的孩子交谈，并尽可能温暖地解释你为什么责骂他们。道声歉会很有作用，相信我。
请对你的孩子保持温暖和冷静。
你的孩子会喜欢听你说 "我爱你，我的孩子"。
分数不代表一切，事实上，与你的生活相比，它们不算什么。
If you're a teacher,
“A child's brain is like an unbaked clay, you can mould it in whichever direction you want”.
Do you know that you're second after their parents, to get a child's most time and attention ?
Your presence, your words, your values get instilled in a child's mind easily.
You're worshipped almost as equal to God. Can't you be at least humane, then ?
You torture then. You abuse them. A lot of times, you'd realize that its not even the children's fault. It's your anger that you're passing on to them.
Just ignite a conversation with them, they will open up to you. They might even tell you the things their parents had asked them not to share.
I read somewhere, that everything bad, can be rooted back to the cause being negligence of education. And education and teacher are often synonymous.
Be that. Be a teacher the world willingly needs. Be a teacher that makes a difference. Be a teacher who is liberal. Be a teacher who inspires the world.
Yoy might know, a doctor fixes lives. A teacher, souls.
. . .
I wish I had talked to her more.
. . .
如果你是一个老师，
“孩子的大脑就像一块未经烘烤的粘土，你可以随心所欲地塑造它。”
你知道吗，在孩子的时间和关注里，你是仅次于他们父母的第二位？
你的存在，你的话语，你的价值观很容易被灌输到孩子的头脑中。
你几乎和上帝一样被崇拜，那么你能不能至少仁慈一点？
你折磨你们，你虐待他们，很多时候，你会意识到这甚至不是孩子们的错，是你的愤怒，你把它传递给了他们。
只要和他们对话，他们就会向你敞开心扉，他们甚至可能告诉你他们父母不让他们分享的事情。
我曾经读到过这么一句话，一切不好，都可根源于对教育的忽视
——“教育”和“教师”通常是同义词。
做到这些，做一个世界乐意需要的老师，做一个有所作为的老师，做一个开明的教师，做一个能够激励世界的老师。
你或许知道，医生可以拯救生命，而教师，可以拯救灵魂。
“A child's brain is like an unbaked clay, you can mould it in whichever direction you want”.
Do you know that you're second after their parents, to get a child's most time and attention ?
Your presence, your words, your values get instilled in a child's mind easily.
You're worshipped almost as equal to God. Can't you be at least humane, then ?
You torture then. You abuse them. A lot of times, you'd realize that its not even the children's fault. It's your anger that you're passing on to them.
Just ignite a conversation with them, they will open up to you. They might even tell you the things their parents had asked them not to share.
I read somewhere, that everything bad, can be rooted back to the cause being negligence of education. And education and teacher are often synonymous.
Be that. Be a teacher the world willingly needs. Be a teacher that makes a difference. Be a teacher who is liberal. Be a teacher who inspires the world.
Yoy might know, a doctor fixes lives. A teacher, souls.
. . .
I wish I had talked to her more.
. . .
如果你是一个老师，
“孩子的大脑就像一块未经烘烤的粘土，你可以随心所欲地塑造它。”
你知道吗，在孩子的时间和关注里，你是仅次于他们父母的第二位？
你的存在，你的话语，你的价值观很容易被灌输到孩子的头脑中。
你几乎和上帝一样被崇拜，那么你能不能至少仁慈一点？
你折磨你们，你虐待他们，很多时候，你会意识到这甚至不是孩子们的错，是你的愤怒，你把它传递给了他们。
只要和他们对话，他们就会向你敞开心扉，他们甚至可能告诉你他们父母不让他们分享的事情。
我曾经读到过这么一句话，一切不好，都可根源于对教育的忽视
——“教育”和“教师”通常是同义词。
做到这些，做一个世界乐意需要的老师，做一个有所作为的老师，做一个开明的教师，做一个能够激励世界的老师。
你或许知道，医生可以拯救生命，而教师，可以拯救灵魂。
. . .
我多希望我能多和她谈谈。
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我多希望我能多和她谈谈。
原创翻译：龙腾网 https://www.ltaaa.cn 转载请注明出处
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upxe (1–3–2019) — I'm thankful to each one of you, for nurturing this answer. I am overwhelmed by the response I got through this answer.
Thank you so much for reading, sharing this message, or talking to me.
. . .
By the time of this incident, I didn't know the depth of the problem I was pointing out.
I'm sad to say but Alina was not the only one who went through this. There are many more than you can imagine! My inbox is full of hundreds of conversations in which it is written “Please Help!”. And every message makes me cry inside.
Many are so afraid to share their stories that they start the conversation by sending just a blank message. And then I have to convince them nothing will happen if they share with me. Many teenagers broke on the phone while talking to me. There were two incidents where I had rush to their city, to their home to calm them down, to talk to them (I have taken their permission to share).
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我感谢你们每一个人，感谢你们对这个回答认可，这个答案收到的回应让我的私信爆了。
非常感谢你们阅读、分享这条信息，或与我交谈。
这件事发生的时候，我还不知道我所指出的问题有多严重。
我很遗憾地说，阿琳娜不是唯一经历过这种情况的人，很多人有类似经历，比你想象的还要多！
我的收件箱里装满了数以百计的信息，有数百条对话，写着 "请帮帮我！"，而每一条信息都让我内心哭泣。
许多人如此害怕分享他们的故事，以至于他们在开始交谈时只发送了一条空白信息，然后我不得不说服他们，如果他们与我分享，不会发生什么事，许多青少年在与我交谈时在电话中崩溃，其中有两起事，我不得不赶到他们所在的城市，赶到他们的家，让他们平静下来，与他们交谈（ 注：我的分享已征得他们的同意）。
upxe (1–3–2019) — I'm thankful to each one of you, for nurturing this answer. I am overwhelmed by the response I got through this answer.
Thank you so much for reading, sharing this message, or talking to me.
. . .
By the time of this incident, I didn't know the depth of the problem I was pointing out.
I'm sad to say but Alina was not the only one who went through this. There are many more than you can imagine! My inbox is full of hundreds of conversations in which it is written “Please Help!”. And every message makes me cry inside.
Many are so afraid to share their stories that they start the conversation by sending just a blank message. And then I have to convince them nothing will happen if they share with me. Many teenagers broke on the phone while talking to me. There were two incidents where I had rush to their city, to their home to calm them down, to talk to them (I have taken their permission to share).
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我感谢你们每一个人，感谢你们对这个回答认可，这个答案收到的回应让我的私信爆了。
非常感谢你们阅读、分享这条信息，或与我交谈。
这件事发生的时候，我还不知道我所指出的问题有多严重。
我很遗憾地说，阿琳娜不是唯一经历过这种情况的人，很多人有类似经历，比你想象的还要多！
我的收件箱里装满了数以百计的信息，有数百条对话，写着 "请帮帮我！"，而每一条信息都让我内心哭泣。
许多人如此害怕分享他们的故事，以至于他们在开始交谈时只发送了一条空白信息，然后我不得不说服他们，如果他们与我分享，不会发生什么事，许多青少年在与我交谈时在电话中崩溃，其中有两起事，我不得不赶到他们所在的城市，赶到他们的家，让他们平静下来，与他们交谈（ 注：我的分享已征得他们的同意）。
Not just teenagers, many of my age, are also suffering from somewhat same thing. They have slightly different problems though, they are broke, they don't have money, they have broken up, tortured for dowry , they are lonely, their family has disowned them. Believe me, the problem is a little bit more serious than you think.
So I would request you all to please try talk to the person if they are looking a little bit into trauma or at least smile. It makes a huge impact.
I met some beautiful minds, met people who understood that it is useless to end your life. How priceless life is ! Some are going to be Elon Musk, soon. Some of them are already Steve Jobs. Some are mathematicians (to be). Some write so well that you'd love to read their creativity. Some are born artists. I kid you not.
I can't tell you how happy I'm that I'm able to help them.
不仅仅是青少年，我这个年龄段的很多人也在遭受着类似的问题。
他们的问题略有不同，他们破产了，没有钱，分手了，为了嫁妆而备受折磨，他们很孤独，他们的家人与他们断绝了关系。
相信我，问题比你想象的要严重得多。
所以，我请求你们所有人，如果某个人看起来有点创伤，请试着和他谈谈，或者至少微笑一下，这会产生了巨大的影响。
我也遇到了一些美丽的心灵，遇到了一些明白结束生命是没有用的人，生命是多么的无价 ! 有些人很快就会成为埃隆 · 马斯克，有些人已经是史蒂夫 · 乔布斯了，有些人将来会是数学家，有些人精于写作，你会喜欢读他们的创意，有些人是天生的艺术家，我不骗你。
我无法用言语来表达，能帮助到他们我有多高兴。
So I would request you all to please try talk to the person if they are looking a little bit into trauma or at least smile. It makes a huge impact.
I met some beautiful minds, met people who understood that it is useless to end your life. How priceless life is ! Some are going to be Elon Musk, soon. Some of them are already Steve Jobs. Some are mathematicians (to be). Some write so well that you'd love to read their creativity. Some are born artists. I kid you not.
I can't tell you how happy I'm that I'm able to help them.
不仅仅是青少年，我这个年龄段的很多人也在遭受着类似的问题。
他们的问题略有不同，他们破产了，没有钱，分手了，为了嫁妆而备受折磨，他们很孤独，他们的家人与他们断绝了关系。
相信我，问题比你想象的要严重得多。
所以，我请求你们所有人，如果某个人看起来有点创伤，请试着和他谈谈，或者至少微笑一下，这会产生了巨大的影响。
我也遇到了一些美丽的心灵，遇到了一些明白结束生命是没有用的人，生命是多么的无价 ! 有些人很快就会成为埃隆 · 马斯克，有些人已经是史蒂夫 · 乔布斯了，有些人将来会是数学家，有些人精于写作，你会喜欢读他们的创意，有些人是天生的艺术家，我不骗你。
我无法用言语来表达，能帮助到他们我有多高兴。
I'm proud of my generation. This generation is going to think according to logic not just emotions.
While all this was happening, I met a pure heart I can't tell you how happy I'm meeting her. She is the kind of girl who will cheer you up no matter what in no time. She is such a cuteness, sweetness !! She was also one of the victims of life. About to end her life. But didn't.
. . .
I've said it earlier, and saying it again
If you need any help, please come to me. Want to share something, wanna talk to someone ? Feeling lonely ? Whatever the problem is.
May be I can't solve your problem. But what if, what if, I can ?
I don't know.
One thing is for sure, anyone turning to me, I'm not going to let them go on the path on which Alina went. I'll try my best.
Kindly, share this answer so that it reaches to the people in need..
我为我这一代人感到骄傲，这一代人根据逻辑而不是仅仅根据情感来思考。
在这一切发生的时候，我遇到了一颗纯洁的心灵，我无法告诉你我遇到她有多高兴，她是那种无论如何都会让你马上振作起来的女孩，她是如此的可爱，甜美！！她也是生活的受害者之一，即将结束她的生命，但是最后却没有。
While all this was happening, I met a pure heart I can't tell you how happy I'm meeting her. She is the kind of girl who will cheer you up no matter what in no time. She is such a cuteness, sweetness !! She was also one of the victims of life. About to end her life. But didn't.
. . .
I've said it earlier, and saying it again
If you need any help, please come to me. Want to share something, wanna talk to someone ? Feeling lonely ? Whatever the problem is.
May be I can't solve your problem. But what if, what if, I can ?
I don't know.
One thing is for sure, anyone turning to me, I'm not going to let them go on the path on which Alina went. I'll try my best.
Kindly, share this answer so that it reaches to the people in need..
我为我这一代人感到骄傲，这一代人根据逻辑而不是仅仅根据情感来思考。
在这一切发生的时候，我遇到了一颗纯洁的心灵，我无法告诉你我遇到她有多高兴，她是那种无论如何都会让你马上振作起来的女孩，她是如此的可爱，甜美！！她也是生活的受害者之一，即将结束她的生命，但是最后却没有。
.....
我之前说过了，现在再说一遍，
如果你需要任何帮助，请来找我。想分享一些东西，想找人谈谈？感到孤独？都可以，不管是什么问题。
可能我不能解决你的问题，但如果，如果，我可以呢？
我也不知道。
有一点是肯定的，任何转向我的人，我都不会让他们走上阿琳娜走过的路，我将竭尽全力。
请分享这个答案，让它转达到需要的人手中。
我之前说过了，现在再说一遍，
如果你需要任何帮助，请来找我。想分享一些东西，想找人谈谈？感到孤独？都可以，不管是什么问题。
可能我不能解决你的问题，但如果，如果，我可以呢？
我也不知道。
有一点是肯定的，任何转向我的人，我都不会让他们走上阿琳娜走过的路，我将竭尽全力。
请分享这个答案，让它转达到需要的人手中。
William Beteet III, Standup Comic, Powerlifter and Law Student
Ask for Life Changing Opportunities Everyday - If you make it your goal to ask for a life changing opportunity everyday for you entire twenties, you will be years ahead of where you should be by age thirty.
Get Amazing at Something - Whether it’s coding, graphic design, writing, etc. Spend everyday getting really good at something. This will give you a highly valuable skill by the end of your twenties which will give you a lot of career capital making negotiating with your boss a lot easier.
Get Rid of Your TV - I got rid of my TV three years ago because I didn’t want to spend my twenties watching other people live.
Listen to Audiobooks While You Walk - Turn your daily commute into a classroom.
Stay Single - Date around, have flings, have relationships, but retain your freedom, you want to be able to make the best decisions for you in your twenties.
Learn Sales and Build a Network - By building a powerful network you will know people who can help/teach you how to get where you want to go. Learning sales will help you frx things in a way that will get people to buy into your vision.
每天寻找改变生活的机会
——如果你把在整个二十几岁期间每天寻找一个改变生活的机会作为你的目标，那么到了30岁，你将提前好几年达到目标。
在某方面取得惊人成就
——每天都做一些真正擅长的事情，不管是编程、平面设计，还是写作等等，这会在你二十几岁的时候给你一个非常有价值的技能，这会给你带来大量的职业资本，会让你与老板的谈判变得容易得多。
扔掉你的电视
——三年前我扔掉了我的电视，因为我不想在二十几岁的时候看别人的现场直播。
边走路边听有声读物
——把你日常通勤的地方变成教室。
保持单身
——约会，寻欢，交往，但要保持自由，20多岁的时候，你是无法为自己做出最好的决定的。
学习销售和建立网络
——通过建立一个强大的网络，你会认识一些人，他们可以帮助/教导你如何达到你想要的目标，学习销售将帮助你以一种能让人们接受你愿景的方式构建事物。
Ask for Life Changing Opportunities Everyday - If you make it your goal to ask for a life changing opportunity everyday for you entire twenties, you will be years ahead of where you should be by age thirty.
Get Amazing at Something - Whether it’s coding, graphic design, writing, etc. Spend everyday getting really good at something. This will give you a highly valuable skill by the end of your twenties which will give you a lot of career capital making negotiating with your boss a lot easier.
Get Rid of Your TV - I got rid of my TV three years ago because I didn’t want to spend my twenties watching other people live.
Listen to Audiobooks While You Walk - Turn your daily commute into a classroom.
Stay Single - Date around, have flings, have relationships, but retain your freedom, you want to be able to make the best decisions for you in your twenties.
Learn Sales and Build a Network - By building a powerful network you will know people who can help/teach you how to get where you want to go. Learning sales will help you frx things in a way that will get people to buy into your vision.
每天寻找改变生活的机会
——如果你把在整个二十几岁期间每天寻找一个改变生活的机会作为你的目标，那么到了30岁，你将提前好几年达到目标。
在某方面取得惊人成就
——每天都做一些真正擅长的事情，不管是编程、平面设计，还是写作等等，这会在你二十几岁的时候给你一个非常有价值的技能，这会给你带来大量的职业资本，会让你与老板的谈判变得容易得多。
扔掉你的电视
——三年前我扔掉了我的电视，因为我不想在二十几岁的时候看别人的现场直播。
边走路边听有声读物
——把你日常通勤的地方变成教室。
保持单身
——约会，寻欢，交往，但要保持自由，20多岁的时候，你是无法为自己做出最好的决定的。
学习销售和建立网络
——通过建立一个强大的网络，你会认识一些人，他们可以帮助/教导你如何达到你想要的目标，学习销售将帮助你以一种能让人们接受你愿景的方式构建事物。
Understand the Compound Effect - The cost of an average cup of coffee from Starbucks is $2.45 if you order that everyday for a year you would have spent $894.25, a round trip ticket from Chicago to Copenhagen cost $506. Understand that the unconscious decisions you make everyday are keeping you from living the life you dream of living.
Find/Create a Tribe of People who Have Similar Aspirations - A community of likeminded people will accelerate your growth and help keep you focused on achieving your goals.
Build an Online Following - Whether it’s a blog, podcast, Quora, Twitter, find some place to offer a large group of people value. You never know what kind of opportunities could become available from having a large social media following.
Keep Raising Your Standards - People’s lives stagnate because they stop raising the standard they hold themselves to.
Work Out, Dress Stylish, Eat Well - Being good looking is a social passport that can get you access to life changing opportunities.
Go on an Adventure - Make sure at least once in your twenties you go for a trip that’s long and rough, instead of hotels stay in hostels and sleep on couches. The more difficult the journey the more it will change you.
了解复合效应
—— 一杯星巴克咖啡平均花费是2.45美元，如果你每天点一杯，一年的花费是894.25美元，而从芝加哥到哥本哈根的往返机票是506美元，要明白，你每天做出的无意识决定正在阻碍你过上你梦想的生活。
找到/创建一个志趣相投的群
—— 一个由志趣相投者组成的社区将加速你的成长，帮助你专注于实现你的目标。
拥有在线追随者
——无论是博客、播客、 Quora 还是推特，找到一个可以为一大群人提供价值的地方，你永远不知道拥有一大批社交媒体追随者会带来什么样的机会。
不断提高自己的标准
——人们的生活停滞不前，因为他们不再提高自己的标准。
健身，穿着时尚，健康饮食
—— 美貌是一本社会通行证，可以让你获得改变生活的机会。
去冒险
——确保在你二十几岁的时候，至少有一次漫长而艰难的旅行，而不是住在旅馆或者躺平在沙发上，旅途越艰难，它就越能改变你。
Find/Create a Tribe of People who Have Similar Aspirations - A community of likeminded people will accelerate your growth and help keep you focused on achieving your goals.
Build an Online Following - Whether it’s a blog, podcast, Quora, Twitter, find some place to offer a large group of people value. You never know what kind of opportunities could become available from having a large social media following.
Keep Raising Your Standards - People’s lives stagnate because they stop raising the standard they hold themselves to.
Work Out, Dress Stylish, Eat Well - Being good looking is a social passport that can get you access to life changing opportunities.
Go on an Adventure - Make sure at least once in your twenties you go for a trip that’s long and rough, instead of hotels stay in hostels and sleep on couches. The more difficult the journey the more it will change you.
了解复合效应
—— 一杯星巴克咖啡平均花费是2.45美元，如果你每天点一杯，一年的花费是894.25美元，而从芝加哥到哥本哈根的往返机票是506美元，要明白，你每天做出的无意识决定正在阻碍你过上你梦想的生活。
找到/创建一个志趣相投的群
—— 一个由志趣相投者组成的社区将加速你的成长，帮助你专注于实现你的目标。
拥有在线追随者
——无论是博客、播客、 Quora 还是推特，找到一个可以为一大群人提供价值的地方，你永远不知道拥有一大批社交媒体追随者会带来什么样的机会。
不断提高自己的标准
——人们的生活停滞不前，因为他们不再提高自己的标准。
健身，穿着时尚，健康饮食
—— 美貌是一本社会通行证，可以让你获得改变生活的机会。
去冒险
——确保在你二十几岁的时候，至少有一次漫长而艰难的旅行，而不是住在旅馆或者躺平在沙发上，旅途越艰难，它就越能改变你。
Rohan Jain
Late teens or early 20s are the formative years of your life, and set the pace for the remaining part of your life to a very large extent. I have just one advice to give to anyone in this age group.
Make your studies and career your top priority, especially at this age. Everything else can wait, but your career cannot wait. There is a right time for everything. Give your 100% to your career right now, and you will soon find yourself closer to achieving your goals.
People might tell you that you should enjoy your life at this age. You should, but definitely not at the cost of your career. Just give your full dedication to your ambitions, and something great will come out of it.
Work extra hard to learn the ropes of your career early on. Keep challenging yourself every now and then, and keep pushing yourself as much as you can. Be so good that the world simply cannot ignore you.
The world is yours. Explore your interests, aim high, work hard and never give up!
十几岁或二十岁出头是你生命中的成长期，并在很大程度上为你生命的其余部分设定了步调。
对于这个年龄段的人，我只有一个建议：
让你的学业和事业成为你的首要任务，尤其是在这个年龄段。
其他一切都可以等待，但你的事业不能等待，凡事都有一个适当的时机，现在，为你的事业付出100%的努力，你很快就会发现自己离你要实现的目标更近了。
人们可能会告诉你，你应该在这个年龄段享受生活，是，你应该享受生活，但绝对不能以你的事业为代价，你只有全部精力投入到你的雄心壮志中，才会有好的结果。
要加倍努力，尽早了解你的职业道路，时不时地挑战自己，并尽可能地逼迫自己，要做到优秀，这个世界才无法忽视你。
世界是你的。
探索你的兴趣，志存高远，努力拼搏，永不言弃！
Late teens or early 20s are the formative years of your life, and set the pace for the remaining part of your life to a very large extent. I have just one advice to give to anyone in this age group.
Make your studies and career your top priority, especially at this age. Everything else can wait, but your career cannot wait. There is a right time for everything. Give your 100% to your career right now, and you will soon find yourself closer to achieving your goals.
People might tell you that you should enjoy your life at this age. You should, but definitely not at the cost of your career. Just give your full dedication to your ambitions, and something great will come out of it.
Work extra hard to learn the ropes of your career early on. Keep challenging yourself every now and then, and keep pushing yourself as much as you can. Be so good that the world simply cannot ignore you.
The world is yours. Explore your interests, aim high, work hard and never give up!
十几岁或二十岁出头是你生命中的成长期，并在很大程度上为你生命的其余部分设定了步调。
对于这个年龄段的人，我只有一个建议：
让你的学业和事业成为你的首要任务，尤其是在这个年龄段。
其他一切都可以等待，但你的事业不能等待，凡事都有一个适当的时机，现在，为你的事业付出100%的努力，你很快就会发现自己离你要实现的目标更近了。
人们可能会告诉你，你应该在这个年龄段享受生活，是，你应该享受生活，但绝对不能以你的事业为代价，你只有全部精力投入到你的雄心壮志中，才会有好的结果。
要加倍努力，尽早了解你的职业道路，时不时地挑战自己，并尽可能地逼迫自己，要做到优秀，这个世界才无法忽视你。
世界是你的。
探索你的兴趣，志存高远，努力拼搏，永不言弃！
Kyle Hayashi
Stop playing video games
I’m going to offend a lot of people here, but this is solely from my experiences that I don’t take lightly myself so take it all with a grain of salt.
Video games no doubt are harmless pastimes that are enjoyable and fun, but you’re hitting 20 soon, so it’s really time to uate all your pastimes.
During my university years, I’ve spent an unhealthy amount of time playing tons of games like League of Legend and the sort, so much so that although I’ve passed my degree, I feel like I’ve lost a lot of time I could be doing something else.
别再玩游戏了。
我可能会冒犯到这里的很多人，但这完全是我的经验之谈，我自己也不会掉以轻心，所以我对这件事持保留态度。
毫无疑问，电子游戏是无害的消遣，是令人愉快和有趣的，但你很快就要到20岁了，所以确实是时候评估一下你的消遣了。
在我上大学期间，我花了大量时间玩英雄联盟之类的游戏，以至于尽管我通过了学位考试，但我还是觉得自己失去了很多可以做其他事情的时间。
Stop playing video games
I’m going to offend a lot of people here, but this is solely from my experiences that I don’t take lightly myself so take it all with a grain of salt.
Video games no doubt are harmless pastimes that are enjoyable and fun, but you’re hitting 20 soon, so it’s really time to uate all your pastimes.
During my university years, I’ve spent an unhealthy amount of time playing tons of games like League of Legend and the sort, so much so that although I’ve passed my degree, I feel like I’ve lost a lot of time I could be doing something else.
别再玩游戏了。
我可能会冒犯到这里的很多人，但这完全是我的经验之谈，我自己也不会掉以轻心，所以我对这件事持保留态度。
毫无疑问，电子游戏是无害的消遣，是令人愉快和有趣的，但你很快就要到20岁了，所以确实是时候评估一下你的消遣了。
在我上大学期间，我花了大量时间玩英雄联盟之类的游戏，以至于尽管我通过了学位考试，但我还是觉得自己失去了很多可以做其他事情的时间。
Here’s why.
It takes up the only time you have
Let’s think about your work life for a minute, whether you’ll be a 9–6 or an entrepreneur.
You have 24 hours a day: 8 hours for sleeping; 8–9 hours at work; let’s say 5 hours for commute & chores & food & wash; give or take 1 hour of procrastination (Facebook and texting and such…)
And now you only have ~2 hours left to do something that means something to yourself.
It does not add lasting value to yourself
eSports is now a booming industry, one day it might become as huge as the traditional sports industry.
Youtube celebrities such as Pewdewpie and Markiplier owe their fame to video games, people can definitely earn a living through games.
Today more than ever, video games CAN make a decent living if you play your cards right.
But nobody praises Pewdiepie or Markiplier for how well they play games.
以下是原因。
· 它占用了你仅有的时间
让我们花一分钟思考一下你的工作、生活，无论你是一个朝九晚六的上班族还是一个企业家。
你每天有24小时，8小时睡觉，8-9小时工作，5小时通勤、做家务、吃饭和洗漱，再加上1小时的拖延时间（刷非死不可和发短信之类的...）
而现在你只剩下大约2个小时来做对自己有意义的事情。
· 它不能给你带来持久的价值
电子竞技现在是一个蓬勃发展的产业，有一天它可能会成为像传统体育产业一样巨大的产业。
Pewdewpie 和 Markiplier 等Youtube网红的成名归功于电子游戏，人们绝对可以通过游戏谋生。
今天，视频游戏比以往任何时候都能让人过上体面的生活——如果你玩的好的话。
但是没有人会因为 Pewdiepie 或者 Markiplier 的游戏玩的好而称赞他们。
原创翻译：龙腾网 https://www.ltaaa.cn 转载请注明出处
It takes up the only time you have
Let’s think about your work life for a minute, whether you’ll be a 9–6 or an entrepreneur.
You have 24 hours a day: 8 hours for sleeping; 8–9 hours at work; let’s say 5 hours for commute & chores & food & wash; give or take 1 hour of procrastination (Facebook and texting and such…)
And now you only have ~2 hours left to do something that means something to yourself.
It does not add lasting value to yourself
eSports is now a booming industry, one day it might become as huge as the traditional sports industry.
Youtube celebrities such as Pewdewpie and Markiplier owe their fame to video games, people can definitely earn a living through games.
Today more than ever, video games CAN make a decent living if you play your cards right.
But nobody praises Pewdiepie or Markiplier for how well they play games.
以下是原因。
· 它占用了你仅有的时间
让我们花一分钟思考一下你的工作、生活，无论你是一个朝九晚六的上班族还是一个企业家。
你每天有24小时，8小时睡觉，8-9小时工作，5小时通勤、做家务、吃饭和洗漱，再加上1小时的拖延时间（刷非死不可和发短信之类的...）
而现在你只剩下大约2个小时来做对自己有意义的事情。
· 它不能给你带来持久的价值
电子竞技现在是一个蓬勃发展的产业，有一天它可能会成为像传统体育产业一样巨大的产业。
Pewdewpie 和 Markiplier 等Youtube网红的成名归功于电子游戏，人们绝对可以通过游戏谋生。
今天，视频游戏比以往任何时候都能让人过上体面的生活——如果你玩的好的话。
但是没有人会因为 Pewdiepie 或者 Markiplier 的游戏玩的好而称赞他们。
原创翻译：龙腾网 https://www.ltaaa.cn 转载请注明出处
People you know come and go
No doubt, sometimes I meet people from games that eventually I do become actual friends with.
At least… as long as that game is still relevant to us, when the game ceases being that for one of us, we stop talking very quickly because that game was all we ever talked about.
It’s better to talk about games after you got to know a person.
You know what? If you play games and you don’t think you are wasting any time, fine. Some games are fun yet also indeed add value to yourself, I acknowledge that.
Just remember why you are playing games in the first place. There are thousands of pastimes and video games are one of them, but if you’re spending 5 hours a day everyday playing video games aside from work and eating, then something seem wrong.
· 你所认识的人来去无踪
毫无疑问，有时我在游戏中遇到的人，最终确实会成为真正的朋友。
顶多在这个游戏还和我们有关的时候是这样，但当游我们中的一个人不再玩这个游戏的时候，我们很快就会停止谈论，因为这个游戏是我们交谈的全部。
最好是在你了解一个人之后再去谈论游戏。
你知道吗？如果你玩游戏，你而且不认为你在浪费任何时间，那很好，我承认，有些游戏很有趣，但同时也确实为自己增加了价值，但要记住你玩游戏的初衷，这个世界上有成千上万的娱乐活动，电子游戏只是其中之一，但是如果你每天除了工作和吃饭之外，还要花5个小时玩电子游戏，那么有些事情显然是不对劲的。
No doubt, sometimes I meet people from games that eventually I do become actual friends with.
At least… as long as that game is still relevant to us, when the game ceases being that for one of us, we stop talking very quickly because that game was all we ever talked about.
It’s better to talk about games after you got to know a person.
You know what? If you play games and you don’t think you are wasting any time, fine. Some games are fun yet also indeed add value to yourself, I acknowledge that.
Just remember why you are playing games in the first place. There are thousands of pastimes and video games are one of them, but if you’re spending 5 hours a day everyday playing video games aside from work and eating, then something seem wrong.
· 你所认识的人来去无踪
毫无疑问，有时我在游戏中遇到的人，最终确实会成为真正的朋友。
顶多在这个游戏还和我们有关的时候是这样，但当游我们中的一个人不再玩这个游戏的时候，我们很快就会停止谈论，因为这个游戏是我们交谈的全部。
最好是在你了解一个人之后再去谈论游戏。
你知道吗？如果你玩游戏，你而且不认为你在浪费任何时间，那很好，我承认，有些游戏很有趣，但同时也确实为自己增加了价值，但要记住你玩游戏的初衷，这个世界上有成千上万的娱乐活动，电子游戏只是其中之一，但是如果你每天除了工作和吃饭之外，还要花5个小时玩电子游戏，那么有些事情显然是不对劲的。
Sarfraz Ahmed
There is a thin line between Love and Lust.
Never give up. As you grow up, life will throw up many challenges towards you.
Be true to yourself and be confident always.
Be respectful to others. Have manners.
Doing Masturbation is not cool. If you are an addict just try to minimize it and after that stop doing it.
Don't chase girls.
Porn is just a big lie. In porn, everything is fake. Stop watching it. Stop being an addict to porn. It will lead to sexual frustration.
You'll come across to many temporary people. Don't get attached to them.
Always listen to your parents.
Don't do anything under peer pressure.
Don't be sad if you get failed. Failure is the key to success.
Showing off is not cool remember it.
Never stare a girl inappropriately. I know you are going through lots of hormonal changes. Just control yourself.
Don't waste your time on useless stuff.
Playing games and making videos is not bad but don't get addicted to it.
In this answer few thing are copied from other sources as well
keep following if you like the advices.
· 爱和欲望只有一线之隔。
· 永远不要放弃，随着你的成长，生活会向你抛出许多挑战。
· 做真实的自己，时刻保持自信。
· 尊重他人，有礼貌。
· 手淫一点都不酷，如果你上瘾了，就尽量减少，然后停止。
· 不要[刻意]追女孩子。
· 色情只是一个大谎言，色情片里的一切都是假的，别再看了，别再沉迷于色情片，它会导致性挫败。
· 你会接触到许多临时一遇的人，不要依附于他们。
· 永远听父母的话。
· 不要在同伴的压力下做任何事。
· 如果你失败了，不要难过，失败是成功之母。
· 炫耀不酷，记住。
· 永远不要不当地盯着一个女孩看，我知道你正在经历很多荷尔蒙的暴涨，控制一下你自己。
· 不要把时间浪费在无用的东西上。
· 玩游戏、拍视频并不是坏事，但是不要沉溺其中。
· 这个回答中，有几条也是从其他来源抄来的。
· 如果你喜欢这些建议，请继续关注。
There is a thin line between Love and Lust.
Never give up. As you grow up, life will throw up many challenges towards you.
Be true to yourself and be confident always.
Be respectful to others. Have manners.
Doing Masturbation is not cool. If you are an addict just try to minimize it and after that stop doing it.
Don't chase girls.
Porn is just a big lie. In porn, everything is fake. Stop watching it. Stop being an addict to porn. It will lead to sexual frustration.
You'll come across to many temporary people. Don't get attached to them.
Always listen to your parents.
Don't do anything under peer pressure.
Don't be sad if you get failed. Failure is the key to success.
Showing off is not cool remember it.
Never stare a girl inappropriately. I know you are going through lots of hormonal changes. Just control yourself.
Don't waste your time on useless stuff.
Playing games and making videos is not bad but don't get addicted to it.
In this answer few thing are copied from other sources as well
keep following if you like the advices.
· 爱和欲望只有一线之隔。
· 永远不要放弃，随着你的成长，生活会向你抛出许多挑战。
· 做真实的自己，时刻保持自信。
· 尊重他人，有礼貌。
· 手淫一点都不酷，如果你上瘾了，就尽量减少，然后停止。
· 不要[刻意]追女孩子。
· 色情只是一个大谎言，色情片里的一切都是假的，别再看了，别再沉迷于色情片，它会导致性挫败。
· 你会接触到许多临时一遇的人，不要依附于他们。
· 永远听父母的话。
· 不要在同伴的压力下做任何事。
· 如果你失败了，不要难过，失败是成功之母。
· 炫耀不酷，记住。
· 永远不要不当地盯着一个女孩看，我知道你正在经历很多荷尔蒙的暴涨，控制一下你自己。
· 不要把时间浪费在无用的东西上。
· 玩游戏、拍视频并不是坏事，但是不要沉溺其中。
· 这个回答中，有几条也是从其他来源抄来的。
· 如果你喜欢这些建议，请继续关注。
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