对于即将步入20多岁的年轻人，最好的建议是什么？（三）
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Vishnu H Prasad
These are the 9 things that I have to tell to someone who is going to their 20’s.
Have a long term plan: Believe me, before you know it, you will be 30. So have a long term plan for this decade. I would say you should etch this in your mind, rather than in a paper. Keep this in mind during every action of yours. For example you can plan to read 500 books by the time you are 30. Slowly, slowly you can inch forward towards this aim. Execute long term goals through this planning.
Read a lot: Your 20s are the best time that you can cultivate your reading. It helps you internalise the experience of others without actually having to live through those. You will be able to know more about the world, areas which you should explore, widen your perspective, think logically, learn to deal with emotions etc. Reading will help you evolve it a good human being.
Financial Literacy: Your 20’s will be the age where you start to earn. Make sure that you actively pursue financial literacy during this age. Understand Compounding and you will know why should plan your investments as early as you can. Becoming financially free will substantially help you in making sound decisions.
以下是我必须告诉那些即将步入20多岁的年轻人的9件事：
1. 有一个长期的计划：
相信我，在你意识到之前，你就30岁了，所以要对这十年有一个长期的计划。
我想说的是，你应该把它刻在你的脑海里，而不是写在纸上，在你的每一个行动中都要牢记它，例如，你可以计划在你30岁前读500本书，慢慢地，慢慢地，你可以向这个目标迈进，你可以通过这样的规划来执行长期目标。
2. 大量阅读：
20多岁是你培养阅读习惯的最佳时期，它可以帮助你内化他人的经验，而不必真正经历这些，你将能够更多地了解这个世界，了解你探索的领域，拓宽你的视野，有逻辑地思考，学会处理情绪等等，阅读将帮助你发展成为一个优秀的人。
3. 理财知识：
20多岁将是你开始赚钱的年龄，确保你在这个年龄段积极追求金融知识，了解复利，你就会知道为什么要尽可能早地计划你的投资，成为一个财务自由的人将大大有助于你做出正确的决定。
These are the 9 things that I have to tell to someone who is going to their 20’s.
Have a long term plan: Believe me, before you know it, you will be 30. So have a long term plan for this decade. I would say you should etch this in your mind, rather than in a paper. Keep this in mind during every action of yours. For example you can plan to read 500 books by the time you are 30. Slowly, slowly you can inch forward towards this aim. Execute long term goals through this planning.
Read a lot: Your 20s are the best time that you can cultivate your reading. It helps you internalise the experience of others without actually having to live through those. You will be able to know more about the world, areas which you should explore, widen your perspective, think logically, learn to deal with emotions etc. Reading will help you evolve it a good human being.
Financial Literacy: Your 20’s will be the age where you start to earn. Make sure that you actively pursue financial literacy during this age. Understand Compounding and you will know why should plan your investments as early as you can. Becoming financially free will substantially help you in making sound decisions.
以下是我必须告诉那些即将步入20多岁的年轻人的9件事：
1. 有一个长期的计划：
相信我，在你意识到之前，你就30岁了，所以要对这十年有一个长期的计划。
我想说的是，你应该把它刻在你的脑海里，而不是写在纸上，在你的每一个行动中都要牢记它，例如，你可以计划在你30岁前读500本书，慢慢地，慢慢地，你可以向这个目标迈进，你可以通过这样的规划来执行长期目标。
2. 大量阅读：
20多岁是你培养阅读习惯的最佳时期，它可以帮助你内化他人的经验，而不必真正经历这些，你将能够更多地了解这个世界，了解你探索的领域，拓宽你的视野，有逻辑地思考，学会处理情绪等等，阅读将帮助你发展成为一个优秀的人。
3. 理财知识：
20多岁将是你开始赚钱的年龄，确保你在这个年龄段积极追求金融知识，了解复利，你就会知道为什么要尽可能早地计划你的投资，成为一个财务自由的人将大大有助于你做出正确的决定。
Take risks: This is a time when you can afford to take risks because you have time on your right side. You can always bounce back even if you make mistakes. So start up, or back pack or volunteer for a NGO. Travel the unconventional paths and explore different facets of the world. You will be young and all that energy of youth will help you all along. I would slightly modify Coelho and say that the Universe will conspire for you to succeed in things that you try in your 20’s.
Find out what kind of person you are: People would tell you that you should stay single/marry etc during your 20’s. I think this is too wide a generalisation. Marriage or Bachelorhood are conditions that suit certain people. Find out what kind of person you are. Whether you would love sharing your life with someone, and celebrate every moment with that person. Or you are a person who enjoys your company more than anyone else’. 20’s will be the time you can experiment with relations and people more than any other time.
Know your family: Typically, until you reach your 20’s your life would have been very self centred. You would have your parents running behind you, making every wish of yours come true, getting you the best of what they can provide etc. In your 20’s it will all slow down and you would also start to seek independence. However, remember your roots at all times. Try to find out more about you parents and your family. What was your mother and father like when they were young? What was their thought process when they were young? Did their blood also boil at the injustice they saw around them? How did they meet? Have all these questions and ask them more about it. This is an age where they will be able to share their life more comfortably and truly with you.
冒险：
这是一个你可以承担风险的年龄段，因为时间站在你这边，即使你犯了错误，你也总是可以东山再起，所以开始吧，或者背上背包，或者去做志愿者，走一条不同寻常的路，探索世界的不同，你很年轻，你的青春活力会一直帮助你，我这里稍微修改一下科埃略说过的话，“只要你在20多岁时尝试过，老天都会助你成功。”
找出你是什么样的人:
人们会告诉你在你20多岁的时候你应该保持单身或者结婚等等，我认为这是一个过于宽泛的概括，结婚或单身都只适合某一部分条件合适人，找出你是什么样的人，你是否愿意和某人分享你的生活，并和这个人一起庆祝每一刻，或者你是一个比任何人都更享受陪伴的人，20多岁，你可以比其他任何时间更多地尝试人和人的关系。
了解你的家庭：
通常情况下，在你20岁之前，你的生活会非常以自我为中心，你会让你的父母在你身后奔跑，实现你的每个愿望，让你得到他们能提供的最好的东西等等。
在你20多岁的时候，一切都会放缓，你也会开始寻求独立，然而，在任何时候都要记住你的根，试着多了解你的父母和你的家庭，你的母亲和父亲年轻时是什么样的？他们年轻时的思想历程如何？他们看到周围的不公正现象时是否也会热血沸腾？他们是如何相遇的？了解这些问题，并向他们询问更多的情况，在这个年龄段，他们可以更舒适、更真实地与你分享他们的生活。
原创翻译：龙腾网 https://www.ltaaa.cn 转载请注明出处
Find out what kind of person you are: People would tell you that you should stay single/marry etc during your 20’s. I think this is too wide a generalisation. Marriage or Bachelorhood are conditions that suit certain people. Find out what kind of person you are. Whether you would love sharing your life with someone, and celebrate every moment with that person. Or you are a person who enjoys your company more than anyone else’. 20’s will be the time you can experiment with relations and people more than any other time.
Know your family: Typically, until you reach your 20’s your life would have been very self centred. You would have your parents running behind you, making every wish of yours come true, getting you the best of what they can provide etc. In your 20’s it will all slow down and you would also start to seek independence. However, remember your roots at all times. Try to find out more about you parents and your family. What was your mother and father like when they were young? What was their thought process when they were young? Did their blood also boil at the injustice they saw around them? How did they meet? Have all these questions and ask them more about it. This is an age where they will be able to share their life more comfortably and truly with you.
冒险：
这是一个你可以承担风险的年龄段，因为时间站在你这边，即使你犯了错误，你也总是可以东山再起，所以开始吧，或者背上背包，或者去做志愿者，走一条不同寻常的路，探索世界的不同，你很年轻，你的青春活力会一直帮助你，我这里稍微修改一下科埃略说过的话，“只要你在20多岁时尝试过，老天都会助你成功。”
找出你是什么样的人:
人们会告诉你在你20多岁的时候你应该保持单身或者结婚等等，我认为这是一个过于宽泛的概括，结婚或单身都只适合某一部分条件合适人，找出你是什么样的人，你是否愿意和某人分享你的生活，并和这个人一起庆祝每一刻，或者你是一个比任何人都更享受陪伴的人，20多岁，你可以比其他任何时间更多地尝试人和人的关系。
了解你的家庭：
通常情况下，在你20岁之前，你的生活会非常以自我为中心，你会让你的父母在你身后奔跑，实现你的每个愿望，让你得到他们能提供的最好的东西等等。
在你20多岁的时候，一切都会放缓，你也会开始寻求独立，然而，在任何时候都要记住你的根，试着多了解你的父母和你的家庭，你的母亲和父亲年轻时是什么样的？他们年轻时的思想历程如何？他们看到周围的不公正现象时是否也会热血沸腾？他们是如何相遇的？了解这些问题，并向他们询问更多的情况，在这个年龄段，他们可以更舒适、更真实地与你分享他们的生活。
原创翻译：龙腾网 https://www.ltaaa.cn 转载请注明出处
Find out what you are good at: This is also a time where you can explore different things and develop tastes in certain areas. Find out what things will interest you. In what capacity do you want to contribute to the world? Do you want to be an entrepreneur, civil servant, doctor, engineer, traveller, writer or something else. Experiment, Explore and then start contributing.
Cultivate good habits: In your teens many things come to you naturally. For example, your reflexes will be uber fast, your metabolism very high, your energy would be sky high. It will all start to slowly slow down. This is why you should cultivate good habits during your 20’s. Start to exercise. Actively interact with people. Take challenging engagements at your workplace. Swim. Run. Make love. Stay young.
Quality over Quanity: Your friend circle will peak somewhere around 20–22 and then afterwards, typically it will slow down. This is a good time to nurture quality friendships. It doesn't matter having 1000 friends if there is no-one who will support you like a rock even if it means taking on the world. Find that person and preserve that bond to the end of your life. It is not just your lover whom you should grow old with. You should have friends too with whom you can grow old and enjoy your life.
Finally, enjoy this time of your life and in the process also make the world a better place to live in.
找出你擅长什么：
这也是一个可以探索不同事物并在某些领域培养品味的时期，找出哪些事情会让你感兴趣，你想以什么身份对世界做出贡献？你想成为一个企业家、公务员、医生、工程师、旅行者、作家，还是其他什么，去实验、探索，然后开始贡献。
培养良好的习惯：
在你十几岁的时候，很多事情都会自然而然地发生，例如，你的反应会非常快，你的新陈代谢非常活跃，你的能量会很高，这一切都将开始慢慢放缓，这就是为什么你应该在20多岁时培养良好的习惯，开始锻炼，积极与人交流，参加具有挑战性的活动，游泳、跑步、做#，保持年轻。
质量大于数量：
你的朋友圈会在20-22岁左右达到顶峰，之后，通常会放缓。
这是一个培养高质量友谊的好时机，如果没有人会像坚石一样支持你，就意味着你要面对世界，那么有1000个朋友也毫无用处，找到那个人，并将这种联系保持到你生命的最后一刻，这不仅仅是指你的爱人，你也应该有朋友，你可以和他们一起变老，享受生活。
最后，享受你生命中的这段时间，并在这个过程中使世界成为一个更好的地方。
Cultivate good habits: In your teens many things come to you naturally. For example, your reflexes will be uber fast, your metabolism very high, your energy would be sky high. It will all start to slowly slow down. This is why you should cultivate good habits during your 20’s. Start to exercise. Actively interact with people. Take challenging engagements at your workplace. Swim. Run. Make love. Stay young.
Quality over Quanity: Your friend circle will peak somewhere around 20–22 and then afterwards, typically it will slow down. This is a good time to nurture quality friendships. It doesn't matter having 1000 friends if there is no-one who will support you like a rock even if it means taking on the world. Find that person and preserve that bond to the end of your life. It is not just your lover whom you should grow old with. You should have friends too with whom you can grow old and enjoy your life.
Finally, enjoy this time of your life and in the process also make the world a better place to live in.
找出你擅长什么：
这也是一个可以探索不同事物并在某些领域培养品味的时期，找出哪些事情会让你感兴趣，你想以什么身份对世界做出贡献？你想成为一个企业家、公务员、医生、工程师、旅行者、作家，还是其他什么，去实验、探索，然后开始贡献。
培养良好的习惯：
在你十几岁的时候，很多事情都会自然而然地发生，例如，你的反应会非常快，你的新陈代谢非常活跃，你的能量会很高，这一切都将开始慢慢放缓，这就是为什么你应该在20多岁时培养良好的习惯，开始锻炼，积极与人交流，参加具有挑战性的活动，游泳、跑步、做#，保持年轻。
质量大于数量：
你的朋友圈会在20-22岁左右达到顶峰，之后，通常会放缓。
这是一个培养高质量友谊的好时机，如果没有人会像坚石一样支持你，就意味着你要面对世界，那么有1000个朋友也毫无用处，找到那个人，并将这种联系保持到你生命的最后一刻，这不仅仅是指你的爱人，你也应该有朋友，你可以和他们一起变老，享受生活。
最后，享受你生命中的这段时间，并在这个过程中使世界成为一个更好的地方。
Shafiul Alam, 33 years old, failed, learnt, explored, experienced many things, still learning.
I'm 33 years old and this is what I would have done if I can go back in time.
Finish education on time: I didn't finish my education on time. It took me a long time to complete my studies. I should have completed my bachelors and masters by the age of 24. Because of my arrogance and ignorance, I procrastinated. (Applies if you want to study)
Do something productive: I would have spent time doing something productive rather than playing games all day, watching movies and tv serials for hours.
Improve system skills:
Learn Excel very well v-lookup/macros/Index/Match/3D Sum,if function,etc.
Learn PowerPoint very well.
Learn Word very well.
Believe me, they will ALWAYS pay you back and advance your career.
Read: Read, Read and Read. It's so important to read anything and everything that you have interests and self-help personal development books. Believe me, you will be well ahead of those who hasn't read those books you may have.
A Short History of Nearly Everything
Freakonomics
You can, if you think you can
The power of habit
Talk like TED
The little book of mindfulness
How to Think Like a CEO
The power of your subconscious mind
How to Win Friends and Influence People
Chicken soup for the soul
The seven spiritual laws of success
Rich dad, poor dad
Awaken the giant within
Think and grow rich
These are some of my favourite books that I can think of at the moment. You may not like all of them but take a look at the synopsis and read those you may find of your interests.
Shafiul Alam，33岁，失败过，学习过，探索过，经历过许多事情，仍在学习中。
我已经33岁了，如果能回到过去，我会这样做：
· 按时完成学业
我没有按时完成我的学业，我花了很长时间才完成学业，我本应该在24岁之前完成我的本科和硕士学业，由于我的傲慢和无知，我拖延了( 适用于你想学习的情况 )
· 做一些有意义的事
我本可以花时间做一些有意义的事情，而不是整天玩游戏，每天看几个小时的电影和电视剧。
· 提高系统技能
学好Excel 的 V-lookup/Macros/Index/Match/3D Sum,if function等
学好 PowerPoint
学好 Word
相信我，它们总能给你带来回报，并推动你的职业生涯。
· 阅读
阅读、阅读、阅读，阅读任何你有兴趣的东西和自我提升的书籍是非常重要的，相信我，你会比那些没有读过这些书的人领先很多。
《万物简史》《怪诞经济学》《你可以，如果你认为你可以》《习惯的力量》《跟TED学表达》《正念小书》《如何像CEO一样思考》《潜意识的力量》《如何赢得朋友和影响他人》《心灵鸡汤》《成功的七大精神法则》《富爸爸，穷爸爸》《唤醒内心的巨人》《思考致富》
这些是我目前能想到的一些我最喜欢的书，你可能不会所有的书都喜欢，但请看一下书的提要，并阅读那些你可能感兴趣的书。
I'm 33 years old and this is what I would have done if I can go back in time.
Finish education on time: I didn't finish my education on time. It took me a long time to complete my studies. I should have completed my bachelors and masters by the age of 24. Because of my arrogance and ignorance, I procrastinated. (Applies if you want to study)
Do something productive: I would have spent time doing something productive rather than playing games all day, watching movies and tv serials for hours.
Improve system skills:
Learn Excel very well v-lookup/macros/Index/Match/3D Sum,if function,etc.
Learn PowerPoint very well.
Learn Word very well.
Believe me, they will ALWAYS pay you back and advance your career.
Read: Read, Read and Read. It's so important to read anything and everything that you have interests and self-help personal development books. Believe me, you will be well ahead of those who hasn't read those books you may have.
A Short History of Nearly Everything
Freakonomics
You can, if you think you can
The power of habit
Talk like TED
The little book of mindfulness
How to Think Like a CEO
The power of your subconscious mind
How to Win Friends and Influence People
Chicken soup for the soul
The seven spiritual laws of success
Rich dad, poor dad
Awaken the giant within
Think and grow rich
These are some of my favourite books that I can think of at the moment. You may not like all of them but take a look at the synopsis and read those you may find of your interests.
Shafiul Alam，33岁，失败过，学习过，探索过，经历过许多事情，仍在学习中。
我已经33岁了，如果能回到过去，我会这样做：
· 按时完成学业
我没有按时完成我的学业，我花了很长时间才完成学业，我本应该在24岁之前完成我的本科和硕士学业，由于我的傲慢和无知，我拖延了( 适用于你想学习的情况 )
· 做一些有意义的事
我本可以花时间做一些有意义的事情，而不是整天玩游戏，每天看几个小时的电影和电视剧。
· 提高系统技能
学好Excel 的 V-lookup/Macros/Index/Match/3D Sum,if function等
学好 PowerPoint
学好 Word
相信我，它们总能给你带来回报，并推动你的职业生涯。
· 阅读
阅读、阅读、阅读，阅读任何你有兴趣的东西和自我提升的书籍是非常重要的，相信我，你会比那些没有读过这些书的人领先很多。
《万物简史》《怪诞经济学》《你可以，如果你认为你可以》《习惯的力量》《跟TED学表达》《正念小书》《如何像CEO一样思考》《潜意识的力量》《如何赢得朋友和影响他人》《心灵鸡汤》《成功的七大精神法则》《富爸爸，穷爸爸》《唤醒内心的巨人》《思考致富》
这些是我目前能想到的一些我最喜欢的书，你可能不会所有的书都喜欢，但请看一下书的提要，并阅读那些你可能感兴趣的书。
Listen more, speak less: There's a saying, “you should only speak if your words are better than your silence”. Believe it or not, you will only grow listening to others who has better knowledge and life experiences than you do.
Exercise: Spend 40 minutes to an hour on jogging, sit ups, push ups, swimming, etc. Basically, anything you feel like but make sure you do. It's so important to be fit and healthy. Some say, everything starts from your body. If you feel good, everything will be different.
Travel: Make time for travelling to a new city or a new country. Believe it or not, you don't know what's on the other side of the world unless you physically experience it. It makes you strong, teaches you about other cultures, life, etc
Family matters: When I was 20, I never thought how important it was to spend time with the family. I was too arrogant and I used to think my friends were more important because they always said things that I wanted to hear. Parents say things you may not like but the majority of times they are right and they say things for their children's well-being. There will be a day when your loved ones will not be around you, you won't be able to spend quality time even if you want to. Don't leave it for late, tell them how much you love them.
Adventures: Be adventurous, find something that thrills you, makes you happy, makes you feel good. Skiing, hiking, deep sea fishing, diving..anything.
Take control of your life: Take absolute control of your life, don't do things to make someone else happy. Because, if you choose to live somewhere to make someone happy or do a job to make someone happy, you will regret it after some time.
Be yourself: Don't copy your friend or your father, they are who they are. You may think it's really cool to be them. When I was a teenager, I always wanted to be like someone else, it's cool to be like that guy who you think smarter than you are. Believe me, it doesn't help. Be authentic, you are who you are.
Fail early: If you want to do a business or something, do it. If you fail at it, fail early, learn from it.
That's all I can think of now, find something you love, working hard comes with it.
· 多听少说
有句谚语说: “只有当你的话语比你的沉默更好时，你才应该说话”信不信由你，你只会听那些比你有更有知识和生活经验的人说话。
· 锻炼
花40分钟到一个小时慢跑，仰卧起坐，俯卧撑，游泳等，基本上，你想做什么就做什么，但一定要做到，保持身体健康是非常重要的，身体是革命的本钱，如果你感觉良好，一切都会不同。
· 旅行
腾出时间去一个新的城市或国家旅行，信不信由你，你不知道世界的另一边是什么样子，除非你亲身经历过，它使你变得强大，教你了解其他文化和生活等等
· 家庭
当我20岁的时候，我从来没有想过花时间和家人在一起是多么重要，我太傲慢了，我过去常常认为我的朋友更重要，因为他们总是说我想听的话，父母说的话你可能不喜欢，但大多数时候他们是正确的，他们说的都是为自己的孩子的幸福，总有一天，你的亲人会不在你身边，即使你想，你也无法再经历这种宝贵的时光，不要留到很晚，才告诉他们你是多么爱他们。
· 冒险
要敢于冒险，找到让你兴奋，让你快乐，让你感觉良好的事情，滑雪，徒步旅行，深海垂钓，潜水，任何事都行。
· 掌控自己的生活
完全掌控自己的生活，不要为了让别人高兴而活，因为，如果你选择住在某个地方来让别人开心，或者做一份工作来让别人开心，过一段时间后你就会后悔。
· 做你自己
不要模仿你的朋友或父亲，他们是他们，你就是，你可能认为成为他们真的很酷，当我还是个青少年的时候，我总是想成为别人，成为某个你认为比你自己聪明的人，这很酷，但是相信我，这并没有什么帮助，做真实的自己，你就是你。
· 尽早经历失败
如果你想做生意或者其他什么，那就去做，如果你失败了，尽早失败，从中吸取教训。
这就是我现在能想到的全部，找到你喜欢的东西，努力就会有收获。
Exercise: Spend 40 minutes to an hour on jogging, sit ups, push ups, swimming, etc. Basically, anything you feel like but make sure you do. It's so important to be fit and healthy. Some say, everything starts from your body. If you feel good, everything will be different.
Travel: Make time for travelling to a new city or a new country. Believe it or not, you don't know what's on the other side of the world unless you physically experience it. It makes you strong, teaches you about other cultures, life, etc
Family matters: When I was 20, I never thought how important it was to spend time with the family. I was too arrogant and I used to think my friends were more important because they always said things that I wanted to hear. Parents say things you may not like but the majority of times they are right and they say things for their children's well-being. There will be a day when your loved ones will not be around you, you won't be able to spend quality time even if you want to. Don't leave it for late, tell them how much you love them.
Adventures: Be adventurous, find something that thrills you, makes you happy, makes you feel good. Skiing, hiking, deep sea fishing, diving..anything.
Take control of your life: Take absolute control of your life, don't do things to make someone else happy. Because, if you choose to live somewhere to make someone happy or do a job to make someone happy, you will regret it after some time.
Be yourself: Don't copy your friend or your father, they are who they are. You may think it's really cool to be them. When I was a teenager, I always wanted to be like someone else, it's cool to be like that guy who you think smarter than you are. Believe me, it doesn't help. Be authentic, you are who you are.
Fail early: If you want to do a business or something, do it. If you fail at it, fail early, learn from it.
That's all I can think of now, find something you love, working hard comes with it.
· 多听少说
有句谚语说: “只有当你的话语比你的沉默更好时，你才应该说话”信不信由你，你只会听那些比你有更有知识和生活经验的人说话。
· 锻炼
花40分钟到一个小时慢跑，仰卧起坐，俯卧撑，游泳等，基本上，你想做什么就做什么，但一定要做到，保持身体健康是非常重要的，身体是革命的本钱，如果你感觉良好，一切都会不同。
· 旅行
腾出时间去一个新的城市或国家旅行，信不信由你，你不知道世界的另一边是什么样子，除非你亲身经历过，它使你变得强大，教你了解其他文化和生活等等
· 家庭
当我20岁的时候，我从来没有想过花时间和家人在一起是多么重要，我太傲慢了，我过去常常认为我的朋友更重要，因为他们总是说我想听的话，父母说的话你可能不喜欢，但大多数时候他们是正确的，他们说的都是为自己的孩子的幸福，总有一天，你的亲人会不在你身边，即使你想，你也无法再经历这种宝贵的时光，不要留到很晚，才告诉他们你是多么爱他们。
· 冒险
要敢于冒险，找到让你兴奋，让你快乐，让你感觉良好的事情，滑雪，徒步旅行，深海垂钓，潜水，任何事都行。
· 掌控自己的生活
完全掌控自己的生活，不要为了让别人高兴而活，因为，如果你选择住在某个地方来让别人开心，或者做一份工作来让别人开心，过一段时间后你就会后悔。
· 做你自己
不要模仿你的朋友或父亲，他们是他们，你就是，你可能认为成为他们真的很酷，当我还是个青少年的时候，我总是想成为别人，成为某个你认为比你自己聪明的人，这很酷，但是相信我，这并没有什么帮助，做真实的自己，你就是你。
· 尽早经历失败
如果你想做生意或者其他什么，那就去做，如果你失败了，尽早失败，从中吸取教训。
这就是我现在能想到的全部，找到你喜欢的东西，努力就会有收获。
Dean Beirne
These are my personal advice. My lessons come from my life experiences. Yours may differ. I’m a big believer of having as many life experiences as possible. Good and bad. So take them as you see fit.
Relationships:
Do not think that a romantic relationship at 20 is going to last forever. Serious relationships take a lot of commitment and a shit ton more sacrifices. I’m not sure being in something so serious this early in life is in any way, healthy. My roommate in college had been with a girl since he was 19. They lasted almost 8 years. He missed hanging out with us, vacationing with friends, missed a lot of classes [in mechanical engineering, that’s a really, REALLY bad thing!!!], and even took a year off to make some money. It took him 2-3 years more to graduate. Sure, he used to make fun of us for hanging out, playing video games, hitting on anybody with 2 legs and 2 boobs when we were drunk; because he was getting laid regularly. We had the time of our lives, and moved on. He was still in college. We reconnected recently. By then, they had broken up. He told me that his relationship, while it was fun for years, was the worst mistake of his life; that he missed out on things we had done; that he wanted to go back and do it again. The lesson is, at 20, if you think she/he is your soulmate, most likely you are wrong, and the relationship is gonna cost you a lot of fun things in life.
这是我个人的一些建议。
我的经验来自我的生活，你的看法可能不同，我非常相信要有尽可能多的生活经历，无论是好的和坏的，显然，不是汉尼拔那么坏，所以，按照你认为合适的方式去做。
恋爱 ：
不要认为20岁的浪漫关系会永远持续下去，认真的恋爱关系需要许多承诺和大量的牺牲。
我不确定这么早就开始这么严肃的生活是否有益于健康，我大学的室友从19岁起就和一个女孩在一起了，他们的关系持续了将近8年，他错过了和我们一起出去游玩，和朋友一起度假，错过了很多课程 ( 机械工程专业，这可是一件非常非常糟糕的事情! ! !)，甚至休学一年去赚钱，他多花了2-3年才毕业，当然，他常常取笑我们在外面闲逛，玩游戏，喝醉的时候和任何有两条腿和两个乳房的生物调情，因为他可以经常xx。
我们度过了生命中最美好的时光，然后继续生活，他还在上大学，最近我们又联系上了，他们已经分手了，他告诉我，他们的关系虽然多年来一直很有趣，但却是他一生中最大的错误，他错过了我们曾经做过的事情，他想回到过去，重新选择一次。
这里的教训是，20多岁的时候，如果你认为她/他是你的灵魂伴侣，最有可能你错了，这种关系会让你失去生活中很多乐趣。
These are my personal advice. My lessons come from my life experiences. Yours may differ. I’m a big believer of having as many life experiences as possible. Good and bad. So take them as you see fit.
Relationships:
Do not think that a romantic relationship at 20 is going to last forever. Serious relationships take a lot of commitment and a shit ton more sacrifices. I’m not sure being in something so serious this early in life is in any way, healthy. My roommate in college had been with a girl since he was 19. They lasted almost 8 years. He missed hanging out with us, vacationing with friends, missed a lot of classes [in mechanical engineering, that’s a really, REALLY bad thing!!!], and even took a year off to make some money. It took him 2-3 years more to graduate. Sure, he used to make fun of us for hanging out, playing video games, hitting on anybody with 2 legs and 2 boobs when we were drunk; because he was getting laid regularly. We had the time of our lives, and moved on. He was still in college. We reconnected recently. By then, they had broken up. He told me that his relationship, while it was fun for years, was the worst mistake of his life; that he missed out on things we had done; that he wanted to go back and do it again. The lesson is, at 20, if you think she/he is your soulmate, most likely you are wrong, and the relationship is gonna cost you a lot of fun things in life.
这是我个人的一些建议。
我的经验来自我的生活，你的看法可能不同，我非常相信要有尽可能多的生活经历，无论是好的和坏的，显然，不是汉尼拔那么坏，所以，按照你认为合适的方式去做。
恋爱 ：
不要认为20岁的浪漫关系会永远持续下去，认真的恋爱关系需要许多承诺和大量的牺牲。
我不确定这么早就开始这么严肃的生活是否有益于健康，我大学的室友从19岁起就和一个女孩在一起了，他们的关系持续了将近8年，他错过了和我们一起出去游玩，和朋友一起度假，错过了很多课程 ( 机械工程专业，这可是一件非常非常糟糕的事情! ! !)，甚至休学一年去赚钱，他多花了2-3年才毕业，当然，他常常取笑我们在外面闲逛，玩游戏，喝醉的时候和任何有两条腿和两个乳房的生物调情，因为他可以经常xx。
我们度过了生命中最美好的时光，然后继续生活，他还在上大学，最近我们又联系上了，他们已经分手了，他告诉我，他们的关系虽然多年来一直很有趣，但却是他一生中最大的错误，他错过了我们曾经做过的事情，他想回到过去，重新选择一次。
这里的教训是，20多岁的时候，如果你认为她/他是你的灵魂伴侣，最有可能你错了，这种关系会让你失去生活中很多乐趣。
College and Friends:
If you are in, or plan to go to college, LEARN. Learn your heart out, and make good friends in the process. While we learn throughout our lives, those constructive years will shape you as the person you are to become. Take whatever classes you find interesting. Don’t get hung up on graduating too early, or best job option afterwards. 98% of the students misses out on really learning in college. They don’t develop a healthy variety of interests. Money is only a part of life, not everything. Volunteer to a cause your heart resonates with. But don’t ever forget to have fun with your friends. Really good friends are hard to find in life, and the only way to figure out who gets to stay in your life, is to make a lot of friends while you can. Ones who are true will stay friends forever. They are the ones who will throw you into the pool, comfort you when you are down, bail you out when you are arrested for public urination, or when family time gets rough, from a bad date, plan your birthdays, help you get the girl/boy of your dreams, throw your bachelor/ette party, and their kids will play with yours.
大学和朋友：
如果你正在上大学，或计划上大学，就得好好学习，用心学习，并在这个过程中结交好朋友。
虽然我们一生都在学习，但这段建设性的岁月将塑造你成为一个真正的人。
选修你认为有趣的任何课程，不要过早地毕业，或者过早地做最佳工作选择，98%的学生在大学里错过了真正的学习，他们没有发展出健康的各种兴趣。
金钱只是生活的一部分，不是全部，做个志愿者，志愿参加一项你心中有共鸣的事业，但千万不要忘记和你的朋友们一起玩耍，真正的好朋友在生活中是很难找到的，要想知道谁能留在你的生活中，唯一的办法就是在你可以的时候交很多朋友，那些真正的朋友将永远是你的朋友，他们会把你扔进游泳池，在你失意时安慰你，在你因随地小便被捕时保释你，在糟糕的约会后为你安排生日，帮助你得到你梦想的女孩/男孩，为你举办单身派对，他们的孩子会和你的孩子一起玩耍。
If you are in, or plan to go to college, LEARN. Learn your heart out, and make good friends in the process. While we learn throughout our lives, those constructive years will shape you as the person you are to become. Take whatever classes you find interesting. Don’t get hung up on graduating too early, or best job option afterwards. 98% of the students misses out on really learning in college. They don’t develop a healthy variety of interests. Money is only a part of life, not everything. Volunteer to a cause your heart resonates with. But don’t ever forget to have fun with your friends. Really good friends are hard to find in life, and the only way to figure out who gets to stay in your life, is to make a lot of friends while you can. Ones who are true will stay friends forever. They are the ones who will throw you into the pool, comfort you when you are down, bail you out when you are arrested for public urination, or when family time gets rough, from a bad date, plan your birthdays, help you get the girl/boy of your dreams, throw your bachelor/ette party, and their kids will play with yours.
大学和朋友：
如果你正在上大学，或计划上大学，就得好好学习，用心学习，并在这个过程中结交好朋友。
虽然我们一生都在学习，但这段建设性的岁月将塑造你成为一个真正的人。
选修你认为有趣的任何课程，不要过早地毕业，或者过早地做最佳工作选择，98%的学生在大学里错过了真正的学习，他们没有发展出健康的各种兴趣。
金钱只是生活的一部分，不是全部，做个志愿者，志愿参加一项你心中有共鸣的事业，但千万不要忘记和你的朋友们一起玩耍，真正的好朋友在生活中是很难找到的，要想知道谁能留在你的生活中，唯一的办法就是在你可以的时候交很多朋友，那些真正的朋友将永远是你的朋友，他们会把你扔进游泳池，在你失意时安慰你，在你因随地小便被捕时保释你，在糟糕的约会后为你安排生日，帮助你得到你梦想的女孩/男孩，为你举办单身派对，他们的孩子会和你的孩子一起玩耍。
Sim Camp
This piece of advice is, in my opinion, very central to other pieces of advice you’ll receive. It may very well change your life and I wish that I had been told this advice when I was your age.
Most people spend 95% of their days in a fog of self-centered thoughts.
Like an Irish morning, this fog is thick.
Occasionally, the average person will have an experience that rolls away that fog for a bit, so they can see the true nature of reality.
In Zen, this is called satori or “Enlightenment”.
It’s rare for this experience to last, but when it does - you are free.
For many people though, this is short lived. The fog rolls back in with a quickness and we go back to having reality obscured from our vision.
Many moons ago when humankind had a closer connection to the land, this fog was not as thick.
Everyone had a deeper grasp on the “rules of the game”, so to speak.
Here’s one rule:
A farmer drops a seed in the ground, tends it for a while, months later comes out with a robust plant. Cause and effect.
The farmer is not delusional about what it takes to get from A to B. If you want the end result, you must work for the end result. The end result isn’t just given to you.
In today’s world? Cause and effect? What’s that? We just go to the store and voila! Fresh produce. It just magically appears!
Right?
在我看来，这条建议对你接受的其他建议非常重要。
它很可能会改变你的生活，我希望我在你这个年纪的时候就被告知这个建议。
大多数人每天95% 的时间都是在以自我为中心的思想迷雾中度过的。
就像爱尔兰的早晨一样，浓雾弥漫。
偶尔，普通人会有一段经历，将那片雾气卷走一下，让他们看到现实的真实本质。
在禅宗，这被称为禅悟或“开悟”。
这种体验很少能持续下去，但一旦持续下去，你就自由了。
然而，对于许多人来说，这种情况是短暂的，雾气迅速地卷了回来，我们我们又回到了被现实遮蔽的状态。
许久以前，当人类与土地有更紧密的联系时，这种雾气还没有那么浓。
可以说，每个人都对 "游戏规则 "有了更深的把握。
这里有一条规则：
一个农民把一粒种子撒在地里，照料它一段时间，几个月后就长出了一棵茁壮的植物，这是“因果”。
农民对于从A到B所需要付出的代价并不抱有什么幻想，如果你想要最终的结果，你必须为最终的结果而努力，最终的结果不是直接给你的。
在当今世界呢？因果？因果是什么？我们只要去商店，瞧！新鲜农产品，它奇迹般地就出现了！
对吧？
This piece of advice is, in my opinion, very central to other pieces of advice you’ll receive. It may very well change your life and I wish that I had been told this advice when I was your age.
Most people spend 95% of their days in a fog of self-centered thoughts.
Like an Irish morning, this fog is thick.
Occasionally, the average person will have an experience that rolls away that fog for a bit, so they can see the true nature of reality.
In Zen, this is called satori or “Enlightenment”.
It’s rare for this experience to last, but when it does - you are free.
For many people though, this is short lived. The fog rolls back in with a quickness and we go back to having reality obscured from our vision.
Many moons ago when humankind had a closer connection to the land, this fog was not as thick.
Everyone had a deeper grasp on the “rules of the game”, so to speak.
Here’s one rule:
A farmer drops a seed in the ground, tends it for a while, months later comes out with a robust plant. Cause and effect.
The farmer is not delusional about what it takes to get from A to B. If you want the end result, you must work for the end result. The end result isn’t just given to you.
In today’s world? Cause and effect? What’s that? We just go to the store and voila! Fresh produce. It just magically appears!
Right?
在我看来，这条建议对你接受的其他建议非常重要。
它很可能会改变你的生活，我希望我在你这个年纪的时候就被告知这个建议。
大多数人每天95% 的时间都是在以自我为中心的思想迷雾中度过的。
就像爱尔兰的早晨一样，浓雾弥漫。
偶尔，普通人会有一段经历，将那片雾气卷走一下，让他们看到现实的真实本质。
在禅宗，这被称为禅悟或“开悟”。
这种体验很少能持续下去，但一旦持续下去，你就自由了。
然而，对于许多人来说，这种情况是短暂的，雾气迅速地卷了回来，我们我们又回到了被现实遮蔽的状态。
许久以前，当人类与土地有更紧密的联系时，这种雾气还没有那么浓。
可以说，每个人都对 "游戏规则 "有了更深的把握。
这里有一条规则：
一个农民把一粒种子撒在地里，照料它一段时间，几个月后就长出了一棵茁壮的植物，这是“因果”。
农民对于从A到B所需要付出的代价并不抱有什么幻想，如果你想要最终的结果，你必须为最终的结果而努力，最终的结果不是直接给你的。
在当今世界呢？因果？因果是什么？我们只要去商店，瞧！新鲜农产品，它奇迹般地就出现了！
对吧？
But here’s the thing:
It’s easy to lie to others, but it’s hard to lie to yourself.
Because of this ability to essentially create illusions, we have millions of people walking around thinking they’re God because they’re able to play a good game of pretend.
We see someone like Bill Gates or Mark Zuckerberg drop out and say “I can do that! I can drop out of college and become rich too!”
In reality, no you can’t and no you shouldn’t.
The fact that these two got into and dropped out of one of the world’s best universities and still managed succeed speaks volumes in and of itself.
You’re probably just an average person going to an average college who would be screwed without a degree and that’s just fine.
You can say you’re a “senior project manager” on lixedIn or Facebook but in reality you’re just an errand boy for your boss.
You can say you’re “growing up” because you have your first apartment and it’s a nice place, but in reality it’s being paid for by your parents. In fact, your entire life is being subsidized by mom and dad.
You can say you “bench 225 bro” but it’s only for one rep…minus 50 or so pounds.
And we all have that gnawing feeling when we aren’t being true to ourselves.
We all know.
但问题是:
欺骗别人很容易，但欺骗自己却很难。
因为这种本质上创造幻觉的能力，我们中无数人开始认为他们是上帝，因为他们能够玩一个很好的假装游戏。
我们看到像比尔 · 盖茨或者马克 · 扎克伯格这样的人辍学，说: “ 我也能做到！我可以从大学辍学，也可以变得富有!”
事实上，不，你不能，也不应该。
事实上，这两个人进入并退出了世界上最好的大学之一，并仍然设法成功，这一事实本身就说明了问题。
你可能只是一个上普通大学的普通人，没有学位你就毁掉了。
你可以在 lixedIn 或 Facebook 上说自己是“高级项目经理”，但实际上你只是老板的跑腿小弟。
你可以说自己“长大了”，因为你有了第一套公寓，那是个不错的地方，但实际上是你父母付的钱，事实上，你的整个生活都靠着父母的补贴。
你可以说你 "卧推225磅"，但这只能用来吹牛....真实的情况得减去50磅甚至更多磅。
当我们对自己不真实的时候，我们都会有那种咬牙切齿的感觉。
事实上，我们都很清楚。
It’s easy to lie to others, but it’s hard to lie to yourself.
Because of this ability to essentially create illusions, we have millions of people walking around thinking they’re God because they’re able to play a good game of pretend.
We see someone like Bill Gates or Mark Zuckerberg drop out and say “I can do that! I can drop out of college and become rich too!”
In reality, no you can’t and no you shouldn’t.
The fact that these two got into and dropped out of one of the world’s best universities and still managed succeed speaks volumes in and of itself.
You’re probably just an average person going to an average college who would be screwed without a degree and that’s just fine.
You can say you’re a “senior project manager” on lixedIn or Facebook but in reality you’re just an errand boy for your boss.
You can say you’re “growing up” because you have your first apartment and it’s a nice place, but in reality it’s being paid for by your parents. In fact, your entire life is being subsidized by mom and dad.
You can say you “bench 225 bro” but it’s only for one rep…minus 50 or so pounds.
And we all have that gnawing feeling when we aren’t being true to ourselves.
We all know.
但问题是:
欺骗别人很容易，但欺骗自己却很难。
因为这种本质上创造幻觉的能力，我们中无数人开始认为他们是上帝，因为他们能够玩一个很好的假装游戏。
我们看到像比尔 · 盖茨或者马克 · 扎克伯格这样的人辍学，说: “ 我也能做到！我可以从大学辍学，也可以变得富有!”
事实上，不，你不能，也不应该。
事实上，这两个人进入并退出了世界上最好的大学之一，并仍然设法成功，这一事实本身就说明了问题。
你可能只是一个上普通大学的普通人，没有学位你就毁掉了。
你可以在 lixedIn 或 Facebook 上说自己是“高级项目经理”，但实际上你只是老板的跑腿小弟。
你可以说自己“长大了”，因为你有了第一套公寓，那是个不错的地方，但实际上是你父母付的钱，事实上，你的整个生活都靠着父母的补贴。
你可以说你 "卧推225磅"，但这只能用来吹牛....真实的情况得减去50磅甚至更多磅。
当我们对自己不真实的时候，我们都会有那种咬牙切齿的感觉。
事实上，我们都很清楚。
And the difference between being impressive on paper vs. actually being an impressive person is the difference between Little League baseball and the World Series.
It’s the difference between being an intern for an intern in the White House vs. actually being head of a government department.
It’s that big of a deal.
I know a person who has convinced people he’s a big timer who’s good with girls, with a top paying job, a ritzy high rise, jet-setting without a care across the world, living this grand Poobah life.
But what is it like in reality?
He has virtually no close friends, he works at a grocery store (no offense to those who do, I used to as well), he hasn’t been on a date since college, and he lives with his mother.
You want to know what the worse part is?
He has convinced himself that all of this Adventureland stuff is actually real.
He has convinced himself that all of the likes, comments, and whatever else are giving validation to something that’s real.
He has created this complex in his head where he is this messiah-like figure and everyone else is just a pawn to use in his quest to create more validation.
I don’t know about you…but to me that’s some scary shit, man.
You know what they used to call that?
Insanity.
They’d throw you in a looney bin and call it a day.
在表面上给人留下深刻印象和真正成为一个令人印象深刻的人之间的区别，就像是少年棒球联盟赛和世界职业棒球大赛之间的区别，像是白宫实习生和政府部门负责人的区别。
这中间的区别很大。
我认识一个人，他让人们相信他是一个很会泡妞的大佬，有一份高薪的工作，有一幢豪华的高楼，无忧无虑地在世界各地潇洒，过着富丽堂皇的高贵生活。
但现实是什么样的呢？
他几乎没有亲密的朋友，他在一家杂货店工作 (无意冒犯，我以前也在杂货店打过工) ，他自从大学以来就没有约会过，他和他妈妈住在一起。
你想知道最糟糕的是什么吗？
他说服自己，所有这些冒险乐园式的东西都是真的。
他说服自己，所有的赞、评论和其他任何东西都是对真实事物的肯定。
他在自己的头脑中创造了这种情结，他是一个像救世主一样的人物，而其他人只是他寻求更多认可的棋子。
你知道人们怎么称呼这种人吗？
精神错乱的神经病。
他们会把你扔进疯人院。
It’s the difference between being an intern for an intern in the White House vs. actually being head of a government department.
It’s that big of a deal.
I know a person who has convinced people he’s a big timer who’s good with girls, with a top paying job, a ritzy high rise, jet-setting without a care across the world, living this grand Poobah life.
But what is it like in reality?
He has virtually no close friends, he works at a grocery store (no offense to those who do, I used to as well), he hasn’t been on a date since college, and he lives with his mother.
You want to know what the worse part is?
He has convinced himself that all of this Adventureland stuff is actually real.
He has convinced himself that all of the likes, comments, and whatever else are giving validation to something that’s real.
He has created this complex in his head where he is this messiah-like figure and everyone else is just a pawn to use in his quest to create more validation.
I don’t know about you…but to me that’s some scary shit, man.
You know what they used to call that?
Insanity.
They’d throw you in a looney bin and call it a day.
在表面上给人留下深刻印象和真正成为一个令人印象深刻的人之间的区别，就像是少年棒球联盟赛和世界职业棒球大赛之间的区别，像是白宫实习生和政府部门负责人的区别。
这中间的区别很大。
我认识一个人，他让人们相信他是一个很会泡妞的大佬，有一份高薪的工作，有一幢豪华的高楼，无忧无虑地在世界各地潇洒，过着富丽堂皇的高贵生活。
但现实是什么样的呢？
他几乎没有亲密的朋友，他在一家杂货店工作 (无意冒犯，我以前也在杂货店打过工) ，他自从大学以来就没有约会过，他和他妈妈住在一起。
你想知道最糟糕的是什么吗？
他说服自己，所有这些冒险乐园式的东西都是真的。
他说服自己，所有的赞、评论和其他任何东西都是对真实事物的肯定。
他在自己的头脑中创造了这种情结，他是一个像救世主一样的人物，而其他人只是他寻求更多认可的棋子。
你知道人们怎么称呼这种人吗？
精神错乱的神经病。
他们会把你扔进疯人院。
Now, this behavior is just “normal”.
Multiply this by millions of people and you can see how destructive this can be on a global scale.
Being well-adjusted to a maladjusted society is nothing to be proud of.
Simply put, don’t get sucked into narcissistic self-delusion.
Bring yourself as close to reality as possible. Keep rolling away the fog on a daily basis. You’ll never get a complete view but you can get close.
How do you do this? Meditation is one. Doing really hard things another. So is constantly getting the shit knocked out of you by life.
These things bring you back to reality again and again and again.
You’re probably still in college.
Buckle up.
Because there are tons of people people with a vendetta against themselves, life, their boss, anyone they can take it out on - who would love to kick your ass from here to Afghanistan just because they can.
And they will do that when it comes time for you to enter the workforce, trust me.
Even when you’re a veteran, you should never act like you have it “made”. Once you do, you’re finished.
You’re never as good as you think you are and there’s always room for improvement.
Is there anything wrong with healthy self-esteem? No. Not at all.
But it’s a fine line between confidence and arrogance.
It’s a fine line between pride and delusion.
Walk that line as best as you can.
Keep your ambition in space but your feet on the ground.
那么现在呢，这种行为都“正常化”了。
把这个数字乘以数百万人，你就可以看到它在全球范围内的破坏性有多大。
能够很好地适应一个不适宜的社会并不值得骄傲。
简单地说，不要被自恋的自我欺骗所迷惑。
让自己尽可能地接近现实，坚持每天驱散雾气，你可能永远不会得到一个完整的视野，但你可以接近。
如何做到这一点？沉思就是其中之一，还有一种方式是，做一些真正困难的事情，尝试不断被生活击倒也是其中一种方式。
这些事情让你一次又一次地回到现实。
你可能还在上大学。
你可得小心了。
因为有很多人对自己、对生活、对老板、对任何他们可以发泄的人充满憎恨，他们会乐意把你从这儿踢到阿富汗，只因为他们可以。
当你进入职场的时候，他们也会这么做的，相信我。
即使你是个老油条了，你也不应该表现得好像你已经 "成功 "了，一旦你这样做，你就完了。
你永远不会像你想象的那么好，总是有提高的空间。
健康的自尊有什么问题吗? 没有，一点问题也没有。
但自信和傲慢之间仅有一条细微的界限。
骄傲和妄想之间只有一线之隔。
尽你最大的努力避开那条线。
雄心壮志心可以远在天际，但你的脚必须踏在实地上。
Multiply this by millions of people and you can see how destructive this can be on a global scale.
Being well-adjusted to a maladjusted society is nothing to be proud of.
Simply put, don’t get sucked into narcissistic self-delusion.
Bring yourself as close to reality as possible. Keep rolling away the fog on a daily basis. You’ll never get a complete view but you can get close.
How do you do this? Meditation is one. Doing really hard things another. So is constantly getting the shit knocked out of you by life.
These things bring you back to reality again and again and again.
You’re probably still in college.
Buckle up.
Because there are tons of people people with a vendetta against themselves, life, their boss, anyone they can take it out on - who would love to kick your ass from here to Afghanistan just because they can.
And they will do that when it comes time for you to enter the workforce, trust me.
Even when you’re a veteran, you should never act like you have it “made”. Once you do, you’re finished.
You’re never as good as you think you are and there’s always room for improvement.
Is there anything wrong with healthy self-esteem? No. Not at all.
But it’s a fine line between confidence and arrogance.
It’s a fine line between pride and delusion.
Walk that line as best as you can.
Keep your ambition in space but your feet on the ground.
那么现在呢，这种行为都“正常化”了。
把这个数字乘以数百万人，你就可以看到它在全球范围内的破坏性有多大。
能够很好地适应一个不适宜的社会并不值得骄傲。
简单地说，不要被自恋的自我欺骗所迷惑。
让自己尽可能地接近现实，坚持每天驱散雾气，你可能永远不会得到一个完整的视野，但你可以接近。
如何做到这一点？沉思就是其中之一，还有一种方式是，做一些真正困难的事情，尝试不断被生活击倒也是其中一种方式。
这些事情让你一次又一次地回到现实。
你可能还在上大学。
你可得小心了。
因为有很多人对自己、对生活、对老板、对任何他们可以发泄的人充满憎恨，他们会乐意把你从这儿踢到阿富汗，只因为他们可以。
当你进入职场的时候，他们也会这么做的，相信我。
即使你是个老油条了，你也不应该表现得好像你已经 "成功 "了，一旦你这样做，你就完了。
你永远不会像你想象的那么好，总是有提高的空间。
健康的自尊有什么问题吗? 没有，一点问题也没有。
但自信和傲慢之间仅有一条细微的界限。
骄傲和妄想之间只有一线之隔。
尽你最大的努力避开那条线。
雄心壮志心可以远在天际，但你的脚必须踏在实地上。
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