QA问答：有哪些事情永远不要去做？
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Rajdeep Chakraborty
Two days back Manish had an heavy argument with his parents , his parents scolded him and he got very angry. He locked himself in his room out of anger ! He felt very bad.
“My parents don't care for me” he thought. He was in his room that whole day ,in night time his sister came to him and handed him a plate of Roti and Sabji , but Manish simply refused.
That night Manish cried under the blanket , thinking that he shouldn't have reacted that much and he should say sorry to his parents, but his inner self somehow denied him !
The next day morning also he was in his room , neither he said sorry to parents nor he talked with them.
Later that evening his Mum and Dad went to Big Bazaar for buying commodities by their car, while on their way back home , Suddenly a truck came from forward and they collided
People gathered and took them to the hospital only to found that they were spot dead.
Eventually when Manish got the news he was in utter disbelief ,he just couldn't believe what had happened,he was shattered and disappointed filled with tons of self regret for fighting with his parents and not evening saying sorry to them.
“I shouldn't have reacted that way”.
“I should've said sorry to them”.
“I wasn't even able to talk with them because of my little Ego.”
This is what he kept thinking ,but ,It's was no use now as his parents will never come back again , Now he will be burning inside due to self regret but he won't be able to tell anyone.
What things should I never do ?
Never left anything unsaid which can make you regret later.
Life is unpredictable you never know what will happen next,so never ever hesitate to say anything which will not do your bad.
Never keep any chance for regret as self regret is the most unbearable pain, which can haunt you forever.
两天前，马尼什与他的父母发生了激烈的争吵，他的父母责骂了他，他非常生气，他愤怒地把自己锁在房间里！他感到非常难过。
他想："我的父母并不关心我"，他在房间里呆了一整天，到了晚上，他的姐姐来找他，递给他一盘烤肉和蔬菜，但马尼什干脆的拒绝了。
那天晚上，马尼什躲在被子里哭了，他想他不应该有那么大的反应，他应该向他的父母说声对不起，但是他的内心却不知怎么的拒绝行动！
第二天早上，他还在自己的房间里，既没有向父母说对不起，也没有和他们交谈。
当天晚上，他的妈妈和爸爸开车去大巴扎买东西，在回家的路上，突然一辆卡车从前方驶来，两车相撞了。
人们聚集起来，要把他们送到医院，却发现他们已经当场死亡。
最终，当马尼什得到这个消息时，他完全不敢相信，他不相信会发生这种事，他很震惊，也很失望，对与父母争吵和没有在晚上向他们说对不起充满了自责。
" 我不应该有这样的反应 "。
" 我应该跟他们说对不起 "。
" 由于我脆弱的自尊心，我甚至没有和他们说话"。
这是他一直在想的，但是现在说什么都没有用了，因为他的父母再也回不来了，现在他将因为后悔而内心焦灼，但他不能告诉任何人。
哪些事情永远不要做？
永远不要忘记说出任何可能让你以后后悔的话。
生活是不可预测的，你永远不知道接下来会发生什么，所以永远不要犹豫，说出来，哪怕让你不舒服。
永远不要留下后悔的机会，因为后悔是最无法忍受的痛苦，它会困扰你一辈子。
原创翻译：龙腾网 https://www.ltaaa.cn 转载请注明出处
Two days back Manish had an heavy argument with his parents , his parents scolded him and he got very angry. He locked himself in his room out of anger ! He felt very bad.
“My parents don't care for me” he thought. He was in his room that whole day ,in night time his sister came to him and handed him a plate of Roti and Sabji , but Manish simply refused.
That night Manish cried under the blanket , thinking that he shouldn't have reacted that much and he should say sorry to his parents, but his inner self somehow denied him !
The next day morning also he was in his room , neither he said sorry to parents nor he talked with them.
Later that evening his Mum and Dad went to Big Bazaar for buying commodities by their car, while on their way back home , Suddenly a truck came from forward and they collided
People gathered and took them to the hospital only to found that they were spot dead.
Eventually when Manish got the news he was in utter disbelief ,he just couldn't believe what had happened,he was shattered and disappointed filled with tons of self regret for fighting with his parents and not evening saying sorry to them.
“I shouldn't have reacted that way”.
“I should've said sorry to them”.
“I wasn't even able to talk with them because of my little Ego.”
This is what he kept thinking ,but ,It's was no use now as his parents will never come back again , Now he will be burning inside due to self regret but he won't be able to tell anyone.
What things should I never do ?
Never left anything unsaid which can make you regret later.
Life is unpredictable you never know what will happen next,so never ever hesitate to say anything which will not do your bad.
Never keep any chance for regret as self regret is the most unbearable pain, which can haunt you forever.
两天前，马尼什与他的父母发生了激烈的争吵，他的父母责骂了他，他非常生气，他愤怒地把自己锁在房间里！他感到非常难过。
他想："我的父母并不关心我"，他在房间里呆了一整天，到了晚上，他的姐姐来找他，递给他一盘烤肉和蔬菜，但马尼什干脆的拒绝了。
那天晚上，马尼什躲在被子里哭了，他想他不应该有那么大的反应，他应该向他的父母说声对不起，但是他的内心却不知怎么的拒绝行动！
第二天早上，他还在自己的房间里，既没有向父母说对不起，也没有和他们交谈。
当天晚上，他的妈妈和爸爸开车去大巴扎买东西，在回家的路上，突然一辆卡车从前方驶来，两车相撞了。
人们聚集起来，要把他们送到医院，却发现他们已经当场死亡。
最终，当马尼什得到这个消息时，他完全不敢相信，他不相信会发生这种事，他很震惊，也很失望，对与父母争吵和没有在晚上向他们说对不起充满了自责。
" 我不应该有这样的反应 "。
" 我应该跟他们说对不起 "。
" 由于我脆弱的自尊心，我甚至没有和他们说话"。
这是他一直在想的，但是现在说什么都没有用了，因为他的父母再也回不来了，现在他将因为后悔而内心焦灼，但他不能告诉任何人。
哪些事情永远不要做？
永远不要忘记说出任何可能让你以后后悔的话。
生活是不可预测的，你永远不知道接下来会发生什么，所以永远不要犹豫，说出来，哪怕让你不舒服。
永远不要留下后悔的机会，因为后悔是最无法忍受的痛苦，它会困扰你一辈子。
原创翻译：龙腾网 https://www.ltaaa.cn 转载请注明出处
Priyanka Gandhi
Never work in an IT firm when you hate coding or do a job that you don't like.
Never be scared to make the first move on someone you like.
Never Google about your health issues (according to Google you may die tomorrow).
Never be dull and gloomy unnecessarily.
Never smoke or drink under peer pressure.
Never stop wearing clothes that you like and people don't.
Never hurt your parents.
Never save too much (live a little).
Never be scared to love again.
Never and I repeat never ask questions on Quora to feel good about yourself or seek validations from strangers ( No one in this world except you can teach you to love yourself)
Edit 1 : Thank you so much for the response for an answer that was typed in five minutes venting out a frustration of months. Thank you for soooooo many valuable comments/suggestions/appreciation lines :)
(Also this is purely from my opinion)
如果你讨厌编程或者做你不喜欢的工作，千万不要在 IT 公司工作。
永远不要害怕对你喜欢的人采取主动。
永远不要在谷歌上搜索你的健康问题 (要按谷歌搜索结果，你可能明天就会死去)。
永远不要在不必要的时候变得沉闷和忧郁。
永远不要在同龄人的压力下抽烟或喝酒。
永远不要停止穿那些你喜欢而别人不喜欢的衣服。
永远不要伤害你的父母。
永远不要存太多钱( 而花的太少)。
永远不要害怕再去爱。
我再次重申，永远不要通过在Quora 上问问题来让自己感觉良好或者从陌生人那里寻求认可 ( 除了你自己，这个世界上没有人能教你如何爱自己 )
以上纯粹是我个人的观点
原创翻译：龙腾网 https://www.ltaaa.cn 转载请注明出处
Never work in an IT firm when you hate coding or do a job that you don't like.
Never be scared to make the first move on someone you like.
Never Google about your health issues (according to Google you may die tomorrow).
Never be dull and gloomy unnecessarily.
Never smoke or drink under peer pressure.
Never stop wearing clothes that you like and people don't.
Never hurt your parents.
Never save too much (live a little).
Never be scared to love again.
Never and I repeat never ask questions on Quora to feel good about yourself or seek validations from strangers ( No one in this world except you can teach you to love yourself)
Edit 1 : Thank you so much for the response for an answer that was typed in five minutes venting out a frustration of months. Thank you for soooooo many valuable comments/suggestions/appreciation lines :)
(Also this is purely from my opinion)
如果你讨厌编程或者做你不喜欢的工作，千万不要在 IT 公司工作。
永远不要害怕对你喜欢的人采取主动。
永远不要在谷歌上搜索你的健康问题 (要按谷歌搜索结果，你可能明天就会死去)。
永远不要在不必要的时候变得沉闷和忧郁。
永远不要在同龄人的压力下抽烟或喝酒。
永远不要停止穿那些你喜欢而别人不喜欢的衣服。
永远不要伤害你的父母。
永远不要存太多钱( 而花的太少)。
永远不要害怕再去爱。
我再次重申，永远不要通过在Quora 上问问题来让自己感觉良好或者从陌生人那里寻求认可 ( 除了你自己，这个世界上没有人能教你如何爱自己 )
以上纯粹是我个人的观点
原创翻译：龙腾网 https://www.ltaaa.cn 转载请注明出处
Tejal Bagul
Don't be in a secret relationship with anyone. It should be private but never a secret. Otherwise the consequences are waiting for you.
Don't hide anything from your parents and best friends. These are the only people who will take you out of any bad situation.
Don't take drugs or drink alcohol or smoke when feeling depressed. These actions will never help you,rather it will push you in dark.
Don't make any call to your ex if they have warned you not to. You have your self respect and remember they have left you or you have left them for a reason. Remember that.
Don't give free advices to people unless you are asked. They will not take it seriously, speak when it is asked.
Don't gossip about anyone or anything even if you know much about it. People are always observing you. If you keep passing comments on others they will lose respect for you too.
Don't discuss your past with anyone. Just move on.
Don't say "I love you" to anyone if you don't mean it. These 3 words can be a whole world for someone. Don't fake it if you don't mean it.
Don't upload your personal photos on social media.
Don't judge people by their clothes, skin or money. This world is changing with every single second, you never know who will reach where. Nothing is permanent.
Don't leave your parents. It is your duty to take care of them. Because they have introduced you to this world.
Don't use vehicles for short distances. Save our Mother Earth.
Don't think about your weaknesses. Think how to be strong at that.
Don't beg for money. You are always capable to earn your own. Respect yourself by not begging but by taking care of your own.
"Words mean nothing, when your actions contradict."
不要和任何人保持秘密关系，它应该是私人的，但绝不是秘密的，否则必有后果。
不要对你的父母和好朋友隐瞒任何事情，这些人是唯一会带你走出困境的人。
当感到沮丧时，不要吸毒、喝酒或吸烟，这些行动将永远不会帮助你，而是将你推入黑暗。
如果你的前任警告你不要打电话，就不要打，你是有自尊的，记住他们离开你或者你离开他们是有原因的，牢记这一点。
除非别人要求，否则不要给别人免费的建议，他们不会把它当回事，当被问到的时候才说。
不要八卦任何人或任何事，即使你知道很多，人们总是在观察你，如果你总是对别人评头论足，他们也会对你失去尊重。
不要和任何人谈论你的过去，只管向前看。
如果你不是认真的，就不要对任何人说“我爱你”，这三个词对某人来说可能意味着整个世界，如果你不是认真的，就不要假装说爱你。
不要把你的个人照片上传到社交媒体上。
不要以衣着、肤色或金钱来评价一个人，这个世界每一秒都在变化，你永远不知道谁未来会怎么样，没有什么是永久的。
不要离开你的父母，照顾他们是你的责任，因为是他们把你带到这个世界。
不要短途距离也使用车辆，拯救我们地球母亲。
不要在意自己的弱点，想想如何在这方面变得强大。
不要乞求金钱，你总是有能力赚取属于自己的那份，尊重自己，不要乞求，照顾好自己。
"当你的行动与之相悖时，言语毫无意义"。
Don't be in a secret relationship with anyone. It should be private but never a secret. Otherwise the consequences are waiting for you.
Don't hide anything from your parents and best friends. These are the only people who will take you out of any bad situation.
Don't take drugs or drink alcohol or smoke when feeling depressed. These actions will never help you,rather it will push you in dark.
Don't make any call to your ex if they have warned you not to. You have your self respect and remember they have left you or you have left them for a reason. Remember that.
Don't give free advices to people unless you are asked. They will not take it seriously, speak when it is asked.
Don't gossip about anyone or anything even if you know much about it. People are always observing you. If you keep passing comments on others they will lose respect for you too.
Don't discuss your past with anyone. Just move on.
Don't say "I love you" to anyone if you don't mean it. These 3 words can be a whole world for someone. Don't fake it if you don't mean it.
Don't upload your personal photos on social media.
Don't judge people by their clothes, skin or money. This world is changing with every single second, you never know who will reach where. Nothing is permanent.
Don't leave your parents. It is your duty to take care of them. Because they have introduced you to this world.
Don't use vehicles for short distances. Save our Mother Earth.
Don't think about your weaknesses. Think how to be strong at that.
Don't beg for money. You are always capable to earn your own. Respect yourself by not begging but by taking care of your own.
"Words mean nothing, when your actions contradict."
不要和任何人保持秘密关系，它应该是私人的，但绝不是秘密的，否则必有后果。
不要对你的父母和好朋友隐瞒任何事情，这些人是唯一会带你走出困境的人。
当感到沮丧时，不要吸毒、喝酒或吸烟，这些行动将永远不会帮助你，而是将你推入黑暗。
如果你的前任警告你不要打电话，就不要打，你是有自尊的，记住他们离开你或者你离开他们是有原因的，牢记这一点。
除非别人要求，否则不要给别人免费的建议，他们不会把它当回事，当被问到的时候才说。
不要八卦任何人或任何事，即使你知道很多，人们总是在观察你，如果你总是对别人评头论足，他们也会对你失去尊重。
不要和任何人谈论你的过去，只管向前看。
如果你不是认真的，就不要对任何人说“我爱你”，这三个词对某人来说可能意味着整个世界，如果你不是认真的，就不要假装说爱你。
不要把你的个人照片上传到社交媒体上。
不要以衣着、肤色或金钱来评价一个人，这个世界每一秒都在变化，你永远不知道谁未来会怎么样，没有什么是永久的。
不要离开你的父母，照顾他们是你的责任，因为是他们把你带到这个世界。
不要短途距离也使用车辆，拯救我们地球母亲。
不要在意自己的弱点，想想如何在这方面变得强大。
不要乞求金钱，你总是有能力赚取属于自己的那份，尊重自己，不要乞求，照顾好自己。
"当你的行动与之相悖时，言语毫无意义"。
Shankaranand Reddy
24 years of my life and there are the things I learnt through the hardest way.
On, my 25th birthday which was celebrated few days back, I decided not to do the following things in my life:
[Edit 4: BEWARE!! Answer is lengthy. You can skip to specific side headings if you are not interested in others. Though, you won't regret reading the entire answer]
On career:
Never see someone’s success and follow them :Please listen to your own heart and get a purpose for the life. Then connect it to your work. Happiness is knowing what you want and diverting your whole energy towards it-as said by Robin Sharma
Don’t listen to your heart blindly: Don’t forget to do extensive research on the market of your job industry. For ex, your heart may say to work and have a career in playing Sitar. But, no one likes to listen to it. Then, don’t do it.
Don't dream but work on it: 'Idealization without execution is a delusion”.-Robin Sharma Start working harder on your dreams.
24年的人生中，有一些事情是我通过最艰难的方式学到的。
在我25岁生日的前几天，我决定在我的生活中不做以下事情：
关于职业:
永远不要看到别人的成功就去追随他们: 请听从自己的内心，为自己的生活找到目标，然后把它和你的工作联系起来。
幸福就是知道自己想要什么，并将全部精力投入到上面——正如罗宾 · 夏尔马所说的那样
不要盲目地听从自己的内心: 不要忘记对你所在行业的市场进行广泛的研究，例如，你的内心可能会说，你应该玩西塔尔琴方，并以此为职业，但是，没有人喜欢听它，那就别这么做。
不要只做梦，而是努力实现它：“没有执行力的理想是一种错觉”——罗宾 · 夏尔马 《开始努力实现梦想》
24 years of my life and there are the things I learnt through the hardest way.
On, my 25th birthday which was celebrated few days back, I decided not to do the following things in my life:
[Edit 4: BEWARE!! Answer is lengthy. You can skip to specific side headings if you are not interested in others. Though, you won't regret reading the entire answer]
On career:
Never see someone’s success and follow them :Please listen to your own heart and get a purpose for the life. Then connect it to your work. Happiness is knowing what you want and diverting your whole energy towards it-as said by Robin Sharma
Don’t listen to your heart blindly: Don’t forget to do extensive research on the market of your job industry. For ex, your heart may say to work and have a career in playing Sitar. But, no one likes to listen to it. Then, don’t do it.
Don't dream but work on it: 'Idealization without execution is a delusion”.-Robin Sharma Start working harder on your dreams.
24年的人生中，有一些事情是我通过最艰难的方式学到的。
在我25岁生日的前几天，我决定在我的生活中不做以下事情：
关于职业:
永远不要看到别人的成功就去追随他们: 请听从自己的内心，为自己的生活找到目标，然后把它和你的工作联系起来。
幸福就是知道自己想要什么，并将全部精力投入到上面——正如罗宾 · 夏尔马所说的那样
不要盲目地听从自己的内心: 不要忘记对你所在行业的市场进行广泛的研究，例如，你的内心可能会说，你应该玩西塔尔琴方，并以此为职业，但是，没有人喜欢听它，那就别这么做。
不要只做梦，而是努力实现它：“没有执行力的理想是一种错觉”——罗宾 · 夏尔马 《开始努力实现梦想》
On friendship:
Never spend on your friends heavily at the cost of your parent’s money. If your parents cannot afford an iPhone , don’t ask them. Its ohk, if you cannot throw a party on your birthday in a good restaurant. Just, know your parents affordability.
Never give your valued belongings to your friends: They definitely, don’t know their value. I spoiled my bike, phone and also my laptop because of this. Give them only if they desperately need them
Don’t make friendship for status or for others: Don’t try to talk or make friendship just because someone is famous in college. Friendship is about trusting and sharing. Find a person whom you trust and can share your feelings.
Don’t maintain groups: Don’t maintain any groups. For ex: people belonging to particular region, religion, caste, sex, class, college etc., maintain groups. Be open minded, don’t judge the person by color of the skin but judge him/her by the content of character-as said by Martin Luther.
Don’t try to desperately make friends: Friends just happen. You don’t have to search for them. During the path of your career, project, assignment, tours, volunteering etc., you can make friends. Don’t try desperately
关于友谊：
永远不要拿父母的钱在朋友关系上花费太多，如果你的父母买不起 iPhone，不要问他们，如果你不能在你生日那天在一家好餐厅举办一个生日聚会，也没关系，你要知道你父母的负担能力。
不要把你珍贵的东西给你的朋友: 他们肯定不知道它们的价值，我的自行车、手机和笔记本电脑都因为这个原因坏掉了，这些东西只有在他们迫切需要的时候才给他们。
不要为了地位或他人而建立友谊: 不要仅仅因为某人在大学里很出名就试图去与之交谈或建立友谊，友谊是信任和分享，找一个你信任并且能分享你感受的人。
不要维持团队: 不要维持任何团队，例如，属于特定地区、宗教、种姓、性别、阶级、大学等群体，保持开放的心态，不要根据肤色来判断一个人，而要根据性格来判断他/她——就像马丁 · 路德说的那样。
不要拼命地去交朋友: 朋友只是碰巧而已，你不需要去寻找朋友，在你的职业生涯，项目，任务，旅行，志愿服务等过程中，你可以交到朋友，不要拼命地去尝试。
Never spend on your friends heavily at the cost of your parent’s money. If your parents cannot afford an iPhone , don’t ask them. Its ohk, if you cannot throw a party on your birthday in a good restaurant. Just, know your parents affordability.
Never give your valued belongings to your friends: They definitely, don’t know their value. I spoiled my bike, phone and also my laptop because of this. Give them only if they desperately need them
Don’t make friendship for status or for others: Don’t try to talk or make friendship just because someone is famous in college. Friendship is about trusting and sharing. Find a person whom you trust and can share your feelings.
Don’t maintain groups: Don’t maintain any groups. For ex: people belonging to particular region, religion, caste, sex, class, college etc., maintain groups. Be open minded, don’t judge the person by color of the skin but judge him/her by the content of character-as said by Martin Luther.
Don’t try to desperately make friends: Friends just happen. You don’t have to search for them. During the path of your career, project, assignment, tours, volunteering etc., you can make friends. Don’t try desperately
关于友谊：
永远不要拿父母的钱在朋友关系上花费太多，如果你的父母买不起 iPhone，不要问他们，如果你不能在你生日那天在一家好餐厅举办一个生日聚会，也没关系，你要知道你父母的负担能力。
不要把你珍贵的东西给你的朋友: 他们肯定不知道它们的价值，我的自行车、手机和笔记本电脑都因为这个原因坏掉了，这些东西只有在他们迫切需要的时候才给他们。
不要为了地位或他人而建立友谊: 不要仅仅因为某人在大学里很出名就试图去与之交谈或建立友谊，友谊是信任和分享，找一个你信任并且能分享你感受的人。
不要维持团队: 不要维持任何团队，例如，属于特定地区、宗教、种姓、性别、阶级、大学等群体，保持开放的心态，不要根据肤色来判断一个人，而要根据性格来判断他/她——就像马丁 · 路德说的那样。
不要拼命地去交朋友: 朋友只是碰巧而已，你不需要去寻找朋友，在你的职业生涯，项目，任务，旅行，志愿服务等过程中，你可以交到朋友，不要拼命地去尝试。
On social work
Don’t donate but work: I’m serious. Many of the NGOs are fake. I donated lot of my money which I could have saved.Never donate your hard earned money. If you are a doctor, then organize health camps. If you are a software engineer, organize and teach computer skills to students. If you are a marketer, then freely market for small companies. Work on your expertise.
Donate blood but don’t forget to track it: Ask the hospital or the NGO, how your blood was utilized. Beware, blood is being sold for huge price.
Love children but don’t give them valuable belongings: Don’t make kids in the orphanage get used to a lifestyle which they cannot enjoy at their place. Just share love. Mother Theresa just loved but never gave costly clothes to kids
On house
Think of maintenance before building a house. Don’t just build a duplex just because you can afford it. My relative built the finest house in the city and they are now suffering a lot because of their decision. Couldn’t maintain it. Abdul Kalam owned a small house but he made crores of homes in people’s heart
On car
Just because your friend has an expensive car, don’t buy it. See the cost of maintenance and affordability. You may like going for a holiday in Switzerland while your friend visits local streets in Mumbai by his Audi. Know what you want.
关于社会服务
不要去捐献，而是投身于工作，我没开玩笑，许多非政府组织都是假的，我捐了很多钱，而这些钱我本来是可以省下来的。不要捐出你辛苦赚来的钱，如果你是一个医生，那就组织健康营，如果你是一名软件工程师，那就组织并向学生传授计算机技能，如果你是一个营销人员，那就为小公司免费营销，在你的专长上下功夫。
献血，但不要忘了追踪，询问医院或非政府组织，你的血液是如何被使用的，小心，血液会被高价出售。
爱孩子，但不要给他们宝贵的物品，不要让孤儿院的孩子们习惯于在他们那里无法享受的生活方式，分享爱，特蕾莎修女献出爱，但从不给孩子买昂贵的衣服。
关于房子
在建房前要考虑维护问题，不要因为你能负担得起就建一个复式楼，我的亲戚在城里建了最好的房子，他们现在因为自己的决定而遭受了很多痛苦，他们无法维护这套房子，阿卜杜勒-卡拉姆只有一个小房子，但他在人们心中创造了数不清的家园。
关于汽车
不要因为你的朋友有一辆昂贵的汽车，就去跟着买一辆，这要看维护成本和你的承受能力，你可能喜欢去瑞士度假，而你的朋友却喜欢开着他的奥迪车去孟买的本地街道，你要知道你想要的是什么。
Don’t donate but work: I’m serious. Many of the NGOs are fake. I donated lot of my money which I could have saved.Never donate your hard earned money. If you are a doctor, then organize health camps. If you are a software engineer, organize and teach computer skills to students. If you are a marketer, then freely market for small companies. Work on your expertise.
Donate blood but don’t forget to track it: Ask the hospital or the NGO, how your blood was utilized. Beware, blood is being sold for huge price.
Love children but don’t give them valuable belongings: Don’t make kids in the orphanage get used to a lifestyle which they cannot enjoy at their place. Just share love. Mother Theresa just loved but never gave costly clothes to kids
On house
Think of maintenance before building a house. Don’t just build a duplex just because you can afford it. My relative built the finest house in the city and they are now suffering a lot because of their decision. Couldn’t maintain it. Abdul Kalam owned a small house but he made crores of homes in people’s heart
On car
Just because your friend has an expensive car, don’t buy it. See the cost of maintenance and affordability. You may like going for a holiday in Switzerland while your friend visits local streets in Mumbai by his Audi. Know what you want.
关于社会服务
不要去捐献，而是投身于工作，我没开玩笑，许多非政府组织都是假的，我捐了很多钱，而这些钱我本来是可以省下来的。不要捐出你辛苦赚来的钱，如果你是一个医生，那就组织健康营，如果你是一名软件工程师，那就组织并向学生传授计算机技能，如果你是一个营销人员，那就为小公司免费营销，在你的专长上下功夫。
献血，但不要忘了追踪，询问医院或非政府组织，你的血液是如何被使用的，小心，血液会被高价出售。
爱孩子，但不要给他们宝贵的物品，不要让孤儿院的孩子们习惯于在他们那里无法享受的生活方式，分享爱，特蕾莎修女献出爱，但从不给孩子买昂贵的衣服。
关于房子
在建房前要考虑维护问题，不要因为你能负担得起就建一个复式楼，我的亲戚在城里建了最好的房子，他们现在因为自己的决定而遭受了很多痛苦，他们无法维护这套房子，阿卜杜勒-卡拉姆只有一个小房子，但他在人们心中创造了数不清的家园。
关于汽车
不要因为你的朋友有一辆昂贵的汽车，就去跟着买一辆，这要看维护成本和你的承受能力，你可能喜欢去瑞士度假，而你的朋友却喜欢开着他的奥迪车去孟买的本地街道，你要知道你想要的是什么。
On marriage
Neither take nor give dowry: I know a marriage where Rs250 crore was given as dowry. The marriage broke down in 2 years as the bride has spent Rs 5 crore in the first year for her parties. On the other hand, my brother got married on December 2015 without taking dowry. They are the most beautiful couple I have ever seen. No strings were attached to their marriage. (Edit1: They just completed sky diving in South Africa)
Never leave your parents for your marriage: You have already taken a lot from them. Don’t leave them when you have to give.
On relationship and love:
Don’t commit to a person if you are not independent: The first rule of being dependent on others, is to be independent as said by Stephen R Covey in his book 7 ways of highly effective people.
Don’t love a person from one side: Don’t invest your time and energy in attaching so much value to a person. It never comes back. He/she cannot understand that value. For ex, you may save a month salary to give your lover a gift, it might have been the same gift, her father has given her on her 10th birthday. Proceed, only if both of you like each other.
关于婚姻
不要收也不要给嫁妆：我知道有一桩婚姻，有人送了25亿卢比的嫁妆，这场婚姻在两年内破裂，新娘在第一年就花了5亿卢比用于聚会，另一个例子，我的兄弟2015年12月结婚，没有接受嫁妆，他们夫妻是我见过的最完美的一对，他们的婚姻没有任何附加条件。( 编辑1：他们刚刚在南非完成了高空跳伞)
永远不要为了你的婚姻离开你的父母，你已经从他们那里得到了很多，当你需要付出时，不要离开他们。
关于关系和爱情
如果你不独立，就不要对一个人承诺：史蒂芬柯维在他的《高效能人士的7种方法》一书中说，独立于他人的第一条规则就是要自主。
不要单方面的去爱一个人，不要把你的时间和精力投入到对一个人的重视上，时间和精力永远无法再回来，而他/她可能并不能理解这种付出，例如，你可能会省出一个月的工资来给你的爱人一份礼物，但或许她父亲在她10岁生日时早已经送给她的同样的礼物，只有在你们双方都喜欢对方的情况下，才可以继续。
Neither take nor give dowry: I know a marriage where Rs250 crore was given as dowry. The marriage broke down in 2 years as the bride has spent Rs 5 crore in the first year for her parties. On the other hand, my brother got married on December 2015 without taking dowry. They are the most beautiful couple I have ever seen. No strings were attached to their marriage. (Edit1: They just completed sky diving in South Africa)
Never leave your parents for your marriage: You have already taken a lot from them. Don’t leave them when you have to give.
On relationship and love:
Don’t commit to a person if you are not independent: The first rule of being dependent on others, is to be independent as said by Stephen R Covey in his book 7 ways of highly effective people.
Don’t love a person from one side: Don’t invest your time and energy in attaching so much value to a person. It never comes back. He/she cannot understand that value. For ex, you may save a month salary to give your lover a gift, it might have been the same gift, her father has given her on her 10th birthday. Proceed, only if both of you like each other.
关于婚姻
不要收也不要给嫁妆：我知道有一桩婚姻，有人送了25亿卢比的嫁妆，这场婚姻在两年内破裂，新娘在第一年就花了5亿卢比用于聚会，另一个例子，我的兄弟2015年12月结婚，没有接受嫁妆，他们夫妻是我见过的最完美的一对，他们的婚姻没有任何附加条件。( 编辑1：他们刚刚在南非完成了高空跳伞)
永远不要为了你的婚姻离开你的父母，你已经从他们那里得到了很多，当你需要付出时，不要离开他们。
关于关系和爱情
如果你不独立，就不要对一个人承诺：史蒂芬柯维在他的《高效能人士的7种方法》一书中说，独立于他人的第一条规则就是要自主。
不要单方面的去爱一个人，不要把你的时间和精力投入到对一个人的重视上，时间和精力永远无法再回来，而他/她可能并不能理解这种付出，例如，你可能会省出一个月的工资来给你的爱人一份礼物，但或许她父亲在她10岁生日时早已经送给她的同样的礼物，只有在你们双方都喜欢对方的情况下，才可以继续。
On hobbies
Don’t try to do everything: I love skating, playing basketball & football, cycling, reading books, writing, riding etc., But I cannot do everything. Shorten your hobbies. Focus more on what you can continue after 5 or 10 years. Now, I am just going to gym, reading books and writing. I know I can do this even after 10 years.
Don’t skip Newspaper(online/offline):Its waste of living in the world without knowing what is happening around you. As my psychology professor once said, life is all about knowing the risks, reducing them and moving on
On social networking
Neither like too many pages on Facebook nor read News in it: Facebook was designed to keep in touch with friends. Of late, you a being targeted by the MNCs and other media depending on your place, sex, age, interests and educational background. Beware of what you read,think and act. Don’t waste time on reading non sense
Don’t read more and write less on quora: Do the opposite. Read from standard books. Experience the real life, not virtual. Then, share it on quora. You will be revered and encouraged for your answers.
Text less on Whatsapp: I know everyone of us are in love with it. Use it only if it is mandatory. You are neither deaf nor dumb to text 24/7. Strength of emotional bond increases when you make an eye contact with the person. Later, it is for video call, next for a call and last for texting.
关于爱好
不要试图做所有的事情: 我喜欢滑冰，打篮球、踢足球，骑自行车，读书，写作，骑马等，但我不能做所有的事情。
缩减你的爱好，把更多的注意力放在5到10年后你可以继续做的事情上，现在，我只去健身房，读书和写作，因为我知道即使再过10年这些我也依然能做。
不要不看新闻 ( 线上/离线) : 不如果不知道你周围发生了什么，活在这个世界上是很浪费的，正如我的心理学教授曾经说过的，生活就是知道风险，减少风险，然后继续前进。
关于社交网络
我不喜欢脸书（有太多页面），更不喜欢在其中阅读新闻：脸书的设计初衷是与朋友保持联系，而现在，根据你的地点、性别、年龄、兴趣和教育背景，你成为了跨国公司和其他媒体的目标，要当心你所读的、所想的和所做的，不要把时间浪费在无意义的阅读浏览上。
不要在 quora 上多读少写: 做相反的事情，阅读纸书，体验真实的生活，而不是虚拟的，然后，在 Quora 上分享，你会因为你的回答而受到尊敬和鼓励。
Whatsapp 上少发短信：我知道我们每个人都喜欢它，必要的时候才使用它，你不是聋子也不是哑巴，不要一天24小时都在发短信，当你与对方进行眼神交流时，情感纽带的力量会增强，接下来是视频电话，接下来是电话，最后才是短信。
Don’t try to do everything: I love skating, playing basketball & football, cycling, reading books, writing, riding etc., But I cannot do everything. Shorten your hobbies. Focus more on what you can continue after 5 or 10 years. Now, I am just going to gym, reading books and writing. I know I can do this even after 10 years.
Don’t skip Newspaper(online/offline):Its waste of living in the world without knowing what is happening around you. As my psychology professor once said, life is all about knowing the risks, reducing them and moving on
On social networking
Neither like too many pages on Facebook nor read News in it: Facebook was designed to keep in touch with friends. Of late, you a being targeted by the MNCs and other media depending on your place, sex, age, interests and educational background. Beware of what you read,think and act. Don’t waste time on reading non sense
Don’t read more and write less on quora: Do the opposite. Read from standard books. Experience the real life, not virtual. Then, share it on quora. You will be revered and encouraged for your answers.
Text less on Whatsapp: I know everyone of us are in love with it. Use it only if it is mandatory. You are neither deaf nor dumb to text 24/7. Strength of emotional bond increases when you make an eye contact with the person. Later, it is for video call, next for a call and last for texting.
关于爱好
不要试图做所有的事情: 我喜欢滑冰，打篮球、踢足球，骑自行车，读书，写作，骑马等，但我不能做所有的事情。
缩减你的爱好，把更多的注意力放在5到10年后你可以继续做的事情上，现在，我只去健身房，读书和写作，因为我知道即使再过10年这些我也依然能做。
不要不看新闻 ( 线上/离线) : 不如果不知道你周围发生了什么，活在这个世界上是很浪费的，正如我的心理学教授曾经说过的，生活就是知道风险，减少风险，然后继续前进。
关于社交网络
我不喜欢脸书（有太多页面），更不喜欢在其中阅读新闻：脸书的设计初衷是与朋友保持联系，而现在，根据你的地点、性别、年龄、兴趣和教育背景，你成为了跨国公司和其他媒体的目标，要当心你所读的、所想的和所做的，不要把时间浪费在无意义的阅读浏览上。
不要在 quora 上多读少写: 做相反的事情，阅读纸书，体验真实的生活，而不是虚拟的，然后，在 Quora 上分享，你会因为你的回答而受到尊敬和鼓励。
Whatsapp 上少发短信：我知道我们每个人都喜欢它，必要的时候才使用它，你不是聋子也不是哑巴，不要一天24小时都在发短信，当你与对方进行眼神交流时，情感纽带的力量会增强，接下来是视频电话，接下来是电话，最后才是短信。
Odedra Vijay
Never watch news channels.
Never believe politicians.
Never spoil your relations with your employer when leaving the job, no matter how evil the employer is.
Never beg for love. If someone loves you, they will, even without your continuous begging.
Never ever indulge in any kind of ragging activities.
Never waste your precious time on gathering the courage to propose someone. Be brave, be quick and save your valuable time.
Never ever regret about anything.
Never hurt anyone intentionally in any ways.
Never assume anything about anyone. This is really important in a relationship.
Never break the trust of people who really care for you. Do not lie to them.
Never angrily shout on your partner in front of other people.
Never blame yourself for the mistakes you didn't make.
Never expect anything from anyone, not even your loved ones.
永远不要看新闻频道。
永远不要相信政客。
离职时永远不要破坏你与雇主的关系，不管雇主有多坏。
永远不要乞求爱，如果有人爱你，他们依然会爱你，即使你没有不断的乞求。
永远不要沉迷于任何形式无聊活动。
永远不要把你的宝贵时间浪费在鼓起勇气向人求婚上，要勇敢，要快，要节省你的宝贵时间。
永远不要为任何事情后悔。
永远不要以任何方式故意伤害任何人。
永远不要对任何人作任何假设，这在一段关系中真的很重要。
永远不要破坏那些真正关心你的人的信任，不要对他们撒谎。
永远不要在其他人面前愤怒地对你的伴侣大喊大叫。
永远不要为你没有犯的错而责备自己。
永远不要对任何人有所期待，即使是你的亲人。
Never watch news channels.
Never believe politicians.
Never spoil your relations with your employer when leaving the job, no matter how evil the employer is.
Never beg for love. If someone loves you, they will, even without your continuous begging.
Never ever indulge in any kind of ragging activities.
Never waste your precious time on gathering the courage to propose someone. Be brave, be quick and save your valuable time.
Never ever regret about anything.
Never hurt anyone intentionally in any ways.
Never assume anything about anyone. This is really important in a relationship.
Never break the trust of people who really care for you. Do not lie to them.
Never angrily shout on your partner in front of other people.
Never blame yourself for the mistakes you didn't make.
Never expect anything from anyone, not even your loved ones.
永远不要看新闻频道。
永远不要相信政客。
离职时永远不要破坏你与雇主的关系，不管雇主有多坏。
永远不要乞求爱，如果有人爱你，他们依然会爱你，即使你没有不断的乞求。
永远不要沉迷于任何形式无聊活动。
永远不要把你的宝贵时间浪费在鼓起勇气向人求婚上，要勇敢，要快，要节省你的宝贵时间。
永远不要为任何事情后悔。
永远不要以任何方式故意伤害任何人。
永远不要对任何人作任何假设，这在一段关系中真的很重要。
永远不要破坏那些真正关心你的人的信任，不要对他们撒谎。
永远不要在其他人面前愤怒地对你的伴侣大喊大叫。
永远不要为你没有犯的错而责备自己。
永远不要对任何人有所期待，即使是你的亲人。
Rakshith Akira
Don't send your parents to an old age home. Take care of them.
Never tease someone for their disabilities.
Don't share your dreams with anyone. They may demotivate you.
Don't compare yourself with anyone. You are unique in your own way.
Never forget to wish your friend on his / her success or birthday.
Don't plan your life. Let your life take you on a roller coaster ride.
Don't upxe every move on social networks. Checked in, eating, flying to here and there. It irritates!
Never ignore your partner because of your work tension. He/ she might develop an affair with your neighbor.
Don't share your nudes through an online app. The chances of tracking/ leaking are high.
Never ignore/ forget the one who helped you in your bad days or bad circumstances.
Don't get addicted to Quora! There is a reality outside of Quora.
Never get addicted to anyone. No one stays in your life forever except you.
Don't hesitate to purchase condom. Control population please.
Don't invest your time on someone.
Don't prove your intelligence in comment section. It's easy to pull someone's leg! but it's difficult to stand unique in the crowd.
不要把你的父母送到养老院，照顾好他们。
不要因为某人的残疾而取笑他们。
不要与任何人分享你的梦想，他们可能会打击你的积极性。
不要与任何人比较，你是独一无二的。
永远不要忘记在你的朋友成功或生日时向他/她致意。
不要计划你的生活，让你的生活带你坐过山车。
不要在社交网络上更新每一个动作，什么签到、吃饭、飞到这里和那里，这让人恼火!
不要因为你的工作紧张而忽视你的伴侣，他/她可能会和你的邻居发展出一段恋情。
不要通过在线应用上分享你的果照，被追踪/泄露的几率很高。
不要忽视/忘记在你不好的日子里或不好的情况下帮助过你的人。
不要沉迷于Quora! 在Quora之外还有一个现实世界。
永远不要迷恋任何人，没有人可以永远留在你的生活中，除了你自己。
买避孕套，不要犹豫，控制人口人人有责。
不要把你的时间花在别人身上。
不要在评论区证明你的智商，欺骗别人是很容易的！但要在人群中脱颖而出是很难的。
Don't send your parents to an old age home. Take care of them.
Never tease someone for their disabilities.
Don't share your dreams with anyone. They may demotivate you.
Don't compare yourself with anyone. You are unique in your own way.
Never forget to wish your friend on his / her success or birthday.
Don't plan your life. Let your life take you on a roller coaster ride.
Don't upxe every move on social networks. Checked in, eating, flying to here and there. It irritates!
Never ignore your partner because of your work tension. He/ she might develop an affair with your neighbor.
Don't share your nudes through an online app. The chances of tracking/ leaking are high.
Never ignore/ forget the one who helped you in your bad days or bad circumstances.
Don't get addicted to Quora! There is a reality outside of Quora.
Never get addicted to anyone. No one stays in your life forever except you.
Don't hesitate to purchase condom. Control population please.
Don't invest your time on someone.
Don't prove your intelligence in comment section. It's easy to pull someone's leg! but it's difficult to stand unique in the crowd.
不要把你的父母送到养老院，照顾好他们。
不要因为某人的残疾而取笑他们。
不要与任何人分享你的梦想，他们可能会打击你的积极性。
不要与任何人比较，你是独一无二的。
永远不要忘记在你的朋友成功或生日时向他/她致意。
不要计划你的生活，让你的生活带你坐过山车。
不要在社交网络上更新每一个动作，什么签到、吃饭、飞到这里和那里，这让人恼火!
不要因为你的工作紧张而忽视你的伴侣，他/她可能会和你的邻居发展出一段恋情。
不要通过在线应用上分享你的果照，被追踪/泄露的几率很高。
不要忽视/忘记在你不好的日子里或不好的情况下帮助过你的人。
不要沉迷于Quora! 在Quora之外还有一个现实世界。
永远不要迷恋任何人，没有人可以永远留在你的生活中，除了你自己。
买避孕套，不要犹豫，控制人口人人有责。
不要把你的时间花在别人身上。
不要在评论区证明你的智商，欺骗别人是很容易的！但要在人群中脱颖而出是很难的。
Don't promise when you are happy.
Don’t use credit cards. Spend less than you earn.
Don't share your secret with anyone.
Don't hate anyone. It kills your happiness.
Never fall in love when you are in school or college. Concentrate on your studies.
Never reveal your weaknesses.
Never ignore if someone is asking for your help.
Stop impressing people.
Don't drink/ smoke/ masturbate often.
Stop spending money on things which you don't need.
Don't shout at your parents.
Never call the number written on toilet walls or number on backseat of train/ bus.
Never show off your assets in front of the poor people.
Never blackmail your ex partner with the aid of video/ picture.
Don't use the word “fuck/ fuck off” often. It becomes a habit.
不要在你高兴的时候承诺。
不要使用信用卡，不要花得多赚得少。
不要与任何人分享你的秘密。
不要恨任何人，这会扼杀你的幸福。
当你在学校或大学时，千万不要谈恋爱，专注于你的学习。
永远不要暴露你的弱点。
如果有人向你寻求帮助，千万不要忽视。
不要刻意去给人留下好印象。
不要经常喝酒/抽烟/手淫。
不要花钱买你不需要的东西。
不要对你的父母大喊大叫。
不要拨打写在厕所墙壁上的号码或火车/公共汽车后座上的号码。
不要在穷人面前炫耀你的财富。
不要用视频/图片来勒索你的前任。
不要经常用 "fuck/fuck off "这种词，这会变成一种习惯。
Don’t use credit cards. Spend less than you earn.
Don't share your secret with anyone.
Don't hate anyone. It kills your happiness.
Never fall in love when you are in school or college. Concentrate on your studies.
Never reveal your weaknesses.
Never ignore if someone is asking for your help.
Stop impressing people.
Don't drink/ smoke/ masturbate often.
Stop spending money on things which you don't need.
Don't shout at your parents.
Never call the number written on toilet walls or number on backseat of train/ bus.
Never show off your assets in front of the poor people.
Never blackmail your ex partner with the aid of video/ picture.
Don't use the word “fuck/ fuck off” often. It becomes a habit.
不要在你高兴的时候承诺。
不要使用信用卡，不要花得多赚得少。
不要与任何人分享你的秘密。
不要恨任何人，这会扼杀你的幸福。
当你在学校或大学时，千万不要谈恋爱，专注于你的学习。
永远不要暴露你的弱点。
如果有人向你寻求帮助，千万不要忽视。
不要刻意去给人留下好印象。
不要经常喝酒/抽烟/手淫。
不要花钱买你不需要的东西。
不要对你的父母大喊大叫。
不要拨打写在厕所墙壁上的号码或火车/公共汽车后座上的号码。
不要在穷人面前炫耀你的财富。
不要用视频/图片来勒索你的前任。
不要经常用 "fuck/fuck off "这种词，这会变成一种习惯。
Don't ditch the one who believes in you.
Never pay money to beggars, instead get them food or clothes.
Never settle in your comfort zone.
Never ignore any comments or messages. Your unhappy readers are your great source of learning.
Don't expect anything in return. Expectations always hurt.
Don’t speak when you are angry.
Don't depend on anyone for anything.
Never take anyone for granted.
Don't disrespect your parents’ decision.
Never forget the smile on your lips.
Don’t decide when you are sad.
Never kiss or hug in public places. It irks/ irritates others.
Don't just work hard, work smart.
Don't honk near hospital or school.
Don't watch the film without reading it's review and rating.
Don’t comment idiotic things in the comment section. It irks the writer! Think twice before commenting on someone’s answer.
不要抛弃那些相信你的人。
不要给乞丐钱，而是给他们食物或衣服。
永远不要在安于你的舒适区。
永远不要忽视任何评论或私信，让你不高兴的读者是帮助你学习的重要来源。
不要期待任何回报，期望总是会造成伤害。
生气的时候不要说话。
不要在任何事情上依赖任何人。
永远不要认为任何人或事是理所当然的。
不要不尊重你父母的决定。
永远不要忘记你嘴角的微笑。
伤心时不要做决定。
不要在公共场合亲吻或拥抱，这会激怒别人。
不要只会埋头苦工，要聪明地工作。
不要在医院或学校附近按喇叭。
不要不看评论就看电影。
不要在评论区发愚蠢的评论，这会让作者很不爽! 在评论别人的回答之前请三思。
Never pay money to beggars, instead get them food or clothes.
Never settle in your comfort zone.
Never ignore any comments or messages. Your unhappy readers are your great source of learning.
Don't expect anything in return. Expectations always hurt.
Don’t speak when you are angry.
Don't depend on anyone for anything.
Never take anyone for granted.
Don't disrespect your parents’ decision.
Never forget the smile on your lips.
Don’t decide when you are sad.
Never kiss or hug in public places. It irks/ irritates others.
Don't just work hard, work smart.
Don't honk near hospital or school.
Don't watch the film without reading it's review and rating.
Don’t comment idiotic things in the comment section. It irks the writer! Think twice before commenting on someone’s answer.
不要抛弃那些相信你的人。
不要给乞丐钱，而是给他们食物或衣服。
永远不要在安于你的舒适区。
永远不要忽视任何评论或私信，让你不高兴的读者是帮助你学习的重要来源。
不要期待任何回报，期望总是会造成伤害。
生气的时候不要说话。
不要在任何事情上依赖任何人。
永远不要认为任何人或事是理所当然的。
不要不尊重你父母的决定。
永远不要忘记你嘴角的微笑。
伤心时不要做决定。
不要在公共场合亲吻或拥抱，这会激怒别人。
不要只会埋头苦工，要聪明地工作。
不要在医院或学校附近按喇叭。
不要不看评论就看电影。
不要在评论区发愚蠢的评论，这会让作者很不爽! 在评论别人的回答之前请三思。
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