在你的生活中，哪10件事是你不再做的(一)
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What 10 things have you stopped doing in your life?
在你的生活中，哪10件事是你不再做的?
What 10 things have you stopped doing in your life?
在你的生活中，哪10件事是你不再做的?
评论翻译
Omar N., Aviation & Aerospace
I stopped spending money on useless stuff and started saving money for big holidays and long term investments.
I stopped talking to negative people. I would spend my time only with people who are willing to enjoy life.
I stopped locking myself in the comfort zone. I am learning a new language and practicing different sports like snowboarding and hiking in the mountains.
I stopped wasting my time on FB and other social media platforms. Now i use only Quora and lixedIn.
I stopped going to sleep late at night. I am getting myself used to sleep before 10:30 and wake up around 05:30.
I stopped skipping breakfast. I’m having a healthy meal every morning to stay energetic during the day.
I stopped drinking soda and I make sure my bottle is filled with water all over the day.
I stopped discussing problems without giving solutions.
I stopped texting too much on the phone. Wanna talk? Let’s meet in some place and have a nice chat!
I stopped gossiping and judging. People have different personalities and every person has the right to enjoy his/her way of life, as long as no one is getting harmed.
我不再把钱花在无用的东西上，开始攒钱用于重大节假日和长期投资。
我不再和消极的人说话。我只会和愿意享受生活的人在一起。
我不再把自己锁在舒适区。我正在学习一门新的语言，并练习不同的运动，如滑雪板和登山。
我不再在FB和其他社交媒体平台上浪费时间。现在我只使用Quora和领英网（lixedIn）。
我不再熬夜了。我已经习惯了10:30之前睡觉，5:30左右醒来。
我不再不吃早餐了。每天早上都吃健康的一餐，以保持白天的精力。
我停止喝苏打水，我确保我的瓶子一整天都装满普通水。
我不再讨论问题而不给出解决方案。
我不再通过手机上发过多短信了。想谈谈吗？我们找个地方见面，好好聊聊吧！
我不再闲聊和评判。人有不同的个性，每个人都有权享受自己的生活方式，只要没有人受到伤害就行。
I stopped spending money on useless stuff and started saving money for big holidays and long term investments.
I stopped talking to negative people. I would spend my time only with people who are willing to enjoy life.
I stopped locking myself in the comfort zone. I am learning a new language and practicing different sports like snowboarding and hiking in the mountains.
I stopped wasting my time on FB and other social media platforms. Now i use only Quora and lixedIn.
I stopped going to sleep late at night. I am getting myself used to sleep before 10:30 and wake up around 05:30.
I stopped skipping breakfast. I’m having a healthy meal every morning to stay energetic during the day.
I stopped drinking soda and I make sure my bottle is filled with water all over the day.
I stopped discussing problems without giving solutions.
I stopped texting too much on the phone. Wanna talk? Let’s meet in some place and have a nice chat!
I stopped gossiping and judging. People have different personalities and every person has the right to enjoy his/her way of life, as long as no one is getting harmed.
我不再把钱花在无用的东西上，开始攒钱用于重大节假日和长期投资。
我不再和消极的人说话。我只会和愿意享受生活的人在一起。
我不再把自己锁在舒适区。我正在学习一门新的语言，并练习不同的运动，如滑雪板和登山。
我不再在FB和其他社交媒体平台上浪费时间。现在我只使用Quora和领英网（lixedIn）。
我不再熬夜了。我已经习惯了10:30之前睡觉，5:30左右醒来。
我不再不吃早餐了。每天早上都吃健康的一餐，以保持白天的精力。
我停止喝苏打水，我确保我的瓶子一整天都装满普通水。
我不再讨论问题而不给出解决方案。
我不再通过手机上发过多短信了。想谈谈吗？我们找个地方见面，好好聊聊吧！
我不再闲聊和评判。人有不同的个性，每个人都有权享受自己的生活方式，只要没有人受到伤害就行。
Donna Seo, Mother of two sons, Youth meditation instructor
Donna Seo，两个儿子的母亲，青少年冥想教练
Donna Seo，两个儿子的母亲，青少年冥想教练
Thanks to continuous meditation, I gave up bad habits like pulling out a rotten tooth. And I became a better me.
1. FOMO (Fear of Missing Out)
Even if no one recognizes me, I accept and love myself for who I am.
2. Gossiping
I have a habit of listening.
3. The procrastination problem
I started walking for an hour every day.
4. Work-life balance
It's exhausting to uate work-life balance every time.
As soon as I have to do something, I don't think or judge and just do it.
5. Watching YouTube forever
Stopped watching videos of luxury unboxing, bizarre videos, or how to make a lot of money.
Instead, I read and write on Quora
由于不断的冥想，我戒掉了拔蛀牙等坏习惯。我变成了一个更好的自己。
错失恐惧症（FOMG）
即使没有人认出我，我也会接受并爱我自己。
八卦
我有倾听的习惯。
拖延问题
我开始每天步行一小时。
工作与生活的平衡
每次评估工作与生活的平衡都让人筋疲力尽。
一旦我必须做某事，我就不去思考或判断，而是去做。
一直看YouTube
不再看奢侈拆箱的视频、奇怪的视频或如何赚大钱的视频。
相反，我在Quora上阅读和写作
1. FOMO (Fear of Missing Out)
Even if no one recognizes me, I accept and love myself for who I am.
2. Gossiping
I have a habit of listening.
3. The procrastination problem
I started walking for an hour every day.
4. Work-life balance
It's exhausting to uate work-life balance every time.
As soon as I have to do something, I don't think or judge and just do it.
5. Watching YouTube forever
Stopped watching videos of luxury unboxing, bizarre videos, or how to make a lot of money.
Instead, I read and write on Quora
由于不断的冥想，我戒掉了拔蛀牙等坏习惯。我变成了一个更好的自己。
错失恐惧症（FOMG）
即使没有人认出我，我也会接受并爱我自己。
八卦
我有倾听的习惯。
拖延问题
我开始每天步行一小时。
工作与生活的平衡
每次评估工作与生活的平衡都让人筋疲力尽。
一旦我必须做某事，我就不去思考或判断，而是去做。
一直看YouTube
不再看奢侈拆箱的视频、奇怪的视频或如何赚大钱的视频。
相反，我在Quora上阅读和写作
6. Buying lottery tickets
Making a lot of money without working hard is pointless.
I work hard and love what I do.
7. Showing off my knowledge in public to hide my inferiority complex
I don't try to stand out, I try to get good results with my teammates.
8. Worrying about getting old
Live in the present instead of worrying about the future.
9. Cursing at politicians
Knowing that my inner conflict is worse than politicians'
I meditate every day to get rid of my mental conflicts.
10. Binge eating and drinking
It felt good to be light and healthy.
I try to keep my health when I am healthy.
买彩票
不努力工作就能赚很多钱是毫无意义的。
我努力工作，热爱我的工作。
在公共场合炫耀我的知识，隐藏我的自卑情结
我不想脱颖而出，我想和队友一起取得好成绩。
担心变老
活在当下，而不是担心未来。
诅咒政客
知道我内心的矛盾比政客的更严重
我每天冥想以消除我的心理冲突。
大吃大喝
轻松健康的感觉真好。
当我健康的时候，我努力保持健康。
Making a lot of money without working hard is pointless.
I work hard and love what I do.
7. Showing off my knowledge in public to hide my inferiority complex
I don't try to stand out, I try to get good results with my teammates.
8. Worrying about getting old
Live in the present instead of worrying about the future.
9. Cursing at politicians
Knowing that my inner conflict is worse than politicians'
I meditate every day to get rid of my mental conflicts.
10. Binge eating and drinking
It felt good to be light and healthy.
I try to keep my health when I am healthy.
买彩票
不努力工作就能赚很多钱是毫无意义的。
我努力工作，热爱我的工作。
在公共场合炫耀我的知识，隐藏我的自卑情结
我不想脱颖而出，我想和队友一起取得好成绩。
担心变老
活在当下，而不是担心未来。
诅咒政客
知道我内心的矛盾比政客的更严重
我每天冥想以消除我的心理冲突。
大吃大喝
轻松健康的感觉真好。
当我健康的时候，我努力保持健康。
Jasmin Mous, solo-travelled the world when I was 19
贾斯敏·穆丝，19岁时独自环游世界
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贾斯敏·穆丝，19岁时独自环游世界
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I stopped comparing myself to other people. There is no point. Everyone’s living their own lives.
I stopped believing in the perfect life. Everyone experiences highs and lows.
I stopped being negative. You only live life once. There is no point living with negativity in your heart.
I stopped letting other people decide what my life was.
I stopped not caring about my health. Health is everything we have. When it starts fading, that’s when you become aware of just how lucky we are when we’re healthy.
I stopped going after things that weren’t for me.
I stopped wanting to impress people with material success.
I stopped wanting to be perfect.
I stopped being on social media.
I stopped fearing what is ahead of me. Instead I try to stay open to life. Wanting to have a sense of control isn’t on my list anymore.
我不再拿自己和别人比较。没有意义，每个人都过着自己的生活。
我不再相信完美的生活。每个人都经历过高潮和低谷。
我不再消极了。你只活一次，生活在内心的消极中是没有意义的。
我不再让别人决定我的生活是什么。
我不再关心自己的健康。健康是我们拥有的一切。当它开始消退时，你就会意识到我们健康时是多么幸运。
我不再追求不适合我的东西。
我不再想用物质上的成功给人留下深刻印象。
我不再想要完美。
我不再使用社交媒体了。
我不再害怕未来。相反，我试着对生活保持开放的心态。想要有控制感已经不在我的清单上了。
I stopped believing in the perfect life. Everyone experiences highs and lows.
I stopped being negative. You only live life once. There is no point living with negativity in your heart.
I stopped letting other people decide what my life was.
I stopped not caring about my health. Health is everything we have. When it starts fading, that’s when you become aware of just how lucky we are when we’re healthy.
I stopped going after things that weren’t for me.
I stopped wanting to impress people with material success.
I stopped wanting to be perfect.
I stopped being on social media.
I stopped fearing what is ahead of me. Instead I try to stay open to life. Wanting to have a sense of control isn’t on my list anymore.
我不再拿自己和别人比较。没有意义，每个人都过着自己的生活。
我不再相信完美的生活。每个人都经历过高潮和低谷。
我不再消极了。你只活一次，生活在内心的消极中是没有意义的。
我不再让别人决定我的生活是什么。
我不再关心自己的健康。健康是我们拥有的一切。当它开始消退时，你就会意识到我们健康时是多么幸运。
我不再追求不适合我的东西。
我不再想用物质上的成功给人留下深刻印象。
我不再想要完美。
我不再使用社交媒体了。
我不再害怕未来。相反，我试着对生活保持开放的心态。想要有控制感已经不在我的清单上了。
Koushiki Biswas, Preparing for NEET without coaching
1¤ I have stopped my addiction because its harmful for my physical health ig :(
2¤ I have stopped using all social media apps except quora and WhatsApp
3¤ I have stopped feeling ugly [my biggest achievement]
4¤ I have stopped giving damn about everyone's opinion.
5¤ I have stopped procrastinating finally. I have become my own mummy and I just scold myself and study ??
我已经戒掉了毒瘾，因为它对我的身体健康有害
我已经停止使用除quora和WhatsApp之外的所有社交媒体应用
我不再觉得自己丑陋[我最大的成就]
我已经不再在乎每个人的意见了。
我终于不再拖延了。我已经变成了自己的妈妈，我只是责骂自己和学习。
1¤ I have stopped my addiction because its harmful for my physical health ig :(
2¤ I have stopped using all social media apps except quora and WhatsApp
3¤ I have stopped feeling ugly [my biggest achievement]
4¤ I have stopped giving damn about everyone's opinion.
5¤ I have stopped procrastinating finally. I have become my own mummy and I just scold myself and study ??
我已经戒掉了毒瘾，因为它对我的身体健康有害
我已经停止使用除quora和WhatsApp之外的所有社交媒体应用
我不再觉得自己丑陋[我最大的成就]
我已经不再在乎每个人的意见了。
我终于不再拖延了。我已经变成了自己的妈妈，我只是责骂自己和学习。
6¤ I have become an organised person. I like to plan my day and also my room no more looks like a jungle.
7¤ I have stopped skipping my meals. I like to ignore my anorexic thoughts.
8¤ I dont waste time on negative people anymore.
9¤ I don't skip showers during summer anymore. ??
10¤ I don't skip topics if I find it tough rather I try to keep calm and try again.
我已经成为一个办事有条理的人。我喜欢计划我的一天，而且我的房间不再像丛林。
我不再不吃饭了。我喜欢忽略我厌食的想法。
我不再把时间浪费在消极的人身上。
我不再在夏天不洗澡了。
如果我觉得困难，我不会跳过话题，而是尽量保持冷静，再试一次。
7¤ I have stopped skipping my meals. I like to ignore my anorexic thoughts.
8¤ I dont waste time on negative people anymore.
9¤ I don't skip showers during summer anymore. ??
10¤ I don't skip topics if I find it tough rather I try to keep calm and try again.
我已经成为一个办事有条理的人。我喜欢计划我的一天，而且我的房间不再像丛林。
我不再不吃饭了。我喜欢忽略我厌食的想法。
我不再把时间浪费在消极的人身上。
我不再在夏天不洗澡了。
如果我觉得困难，我不会跳过话题，而是尽量保持冷静，再试一次。
Sophie Hwang, former Project manager of developing S/W system
Sophie Hwang，前开发S/W系统的项目经理
Sophie Hwang，前开发S/W系统的项目经理
1. I stopped having dinner.
I eat only two meals a day, breakfast and lunch. I maintain an empty stomach as a 14-hour state of kind of intermittent fasting. I can sleep better when I am hungry.
2. I stopped going to bed late at night.
I turn off the light no later than 11 p.m. The later you sleep, the harder you can't fall asleep.
3. I stopped being tense.
I take a deep breath and let it go.
4. I stopped sitting for over 1 hour in front of the desk.
After an hour, I leave my desk and drink tea or walk around. Concentration is said to last 40 minutes. Rhythmically paying attention and resting is something I enjoy.
5. I stopped procrastination.
As soon as I make a precise plan, I follow the timeline.
我不吃晚饭。
我一天只吃两顿饭，早餐和午餐。我保持空腹状态，持续14小时的间歇性禁食。我饿的时候能睡得更好。
我不再深夜才睡觉。
我晚上不迟于11点关灯。你睡得越晚，就越难入睡。
我不再紧张了。
我深吸一口气，然后放手。
我在桌子前不再坐一个多小时不动。
一个小时后，我离开办公桌，喝茶或四处走走。据说集中注意力可以持续40分钟。我喜欢有节奏地集中注意力和休息。
我不再拖延。
一旦我制定了一个精确的计划，我就会按照时间表行事。
I eat only two meals a day, breakfast and lunch. I maintain an empty stomach as a 14-hour state of kind of intermittent fasting. I can sleep better when I am hungry.
2. I stopped going to bed late at night.
I turn off the light no later than 11 p.m. The later you sleep, the harder you can't fall asleep.
3. I stopped being tense.
I take a deep breath and let it go.
4. I stopped sitting for over 1 hour in front of the desk.
After an hour, I leave my desk and drink tea or walk around. Concentration is said to last 40 minutes. Rhythmically paying attention and resting is something I enjoy.
5. I stopped procrastination.
As soon as I make a precise plan, I follow the timeline.
我不吃晚饭。
我一天只吃两顿饭，早餐和午餐。我保持空腹状态，持续14小时的间歇性禁食。我饿的时候能睡得更好。
我不再深夜才睡觉。
我晚上不迟于11点关灯。你睡得越晚，就越难入睡。
我不再紧张了。
我深吸一口气，然后放手。
我在桌子前不再坐一个多小时不动。
一个小时后，我离开办公桌，喝茶或四处走走。据说集中注意力可以持续40分钟。我喜欢有节奏地集中注意力和休息。
我不再拖延。
一旦我制定了一个精确的计划，我就会按照时间表行事。
6. I stopped thinking about what people think of me.
My life is my own. I follow my heart.
7. I stopped watching YouTube in bed.
The blue light from the device stimulates your brain and prevents you from sleeping. I listen to music or audiobooks.
8. I stopped weeping for myself.
I choose to smile towards the world instead of sobbing for myself.
9. I stopped complaining.
I look back on myself and accept that I am at fault. Find something to be thankful for around me.
10. I stopped sacrificing now for tomorrow
I live in the moment. I grab what I want tightly and make it happen.
Thanks to meditation, I have experienced tremendous changes in my life. My life is getting easier, simpler, and more beautiful now. I appreciate your reading. ??????
我不再考虑人们对我的看法。
我的生活是我自己的。跟随我的心走。
我不再在床上看YouTube了。
设备发出的蓝光刺激你的大脑，阻止你入睡。我听音乐或有声读物。
我不再为自己哭泣。
我选择面对世界微笑，而不是为自己哭泣。
我不再抱怨了。
回顾自己，承认自己有错。在我身边找到一些值得感激的东西。
我不再为明天而牺牲现在
我活在当下。我紧紧抓住我想要的，让它实现。
多亏了冥想，我的生活经历了巨大的变化。我的生活变得越来越简单，越来越美好。谢谢你的阅读
原创翻译：龙腾网 https://www.ltaaa.cn 转载请注明出处
My life is my own. I follow my heart.
7. I stopped watching YouTube in bed.
The blue light from the device stimulates your brain and prevents you from sleeping. I listen to music or audiobooks.
8. I stopped weeping for myself.
I choose to smile towards the world instead of sobbing for myself.
9. I stopped complaining.
I look back on myself and accept that I am at fault. Find something to be thankful for around me.
10. I stopped sacrificing now for tomorrow
I live in the moment. I grab what I want tightly and make it happen.
Thanks to meditation, I have experienced tremendous changes in my life. My life is getting easier, simpler, and more beautiful now. I appreciate your reading. ??????
我不再考虑人们对我的看法。
我的生活是我自己的。跟随我的心走。
我不再在床上看YouTube了。
设备发出的蓝光刺激你的大脑，阻止你入睡。我听音乐或有声读物。
我不再为自己哭泣。
我选择面对世界微笑，而不是为自己哭泣。
我不再抱怨了。
回顾自己，承认自己有错。在我身边找到一些值得感激的东西。
我不再为明天而牺牲现在
我活在当下。我紧紧抓住我想要的，让它实现。
多亏了冥想，我的生活经历了巨大的变化。我的生活变得越来越简单，越来越美好。谢谢你的阅读
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Abhijit Choudhury, Started living simply
Abhijit Choudhury, 开始过简单的生活
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Abhijit Choudhury, 开始过简单的生活
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These are the 10 things I've stopped doing completely:
I've stopped buying unnecessary items. I'm learning the way to not fall into the trap of consumerism. I think a hundred times before buying something and only buy the stuff which serves an important purpose in my life.
I've stopped drinking water while eating. I have been practising this habit for 4 years now. I keep a gap of at least an hour after the meal and 30 min before the meal.
I've stopped eating dinner after 7 pm. If I feel hungry, I drink a glass of cow milk before bed.
I've stopped being perfect. After wasting 23 years of my life pulling off the fake crown of perfectionism, recently I've started practising Wabi-Sabi.
I've stopped bringing my phone while chilling with friends. So that we can express a little outside the digital world.
I've stopped making excuses. I accept my fault and work harder to fix it.
I've stopped arguing. Oh God, it saves a lot of energy.
以下是我已经完全停止做的10件事：
我不再买不必要的东西了。我正在学习避免落入消费主义陷阱的方法。在买东西之前，我想了一百遍，只买那些对我生活有重要意义的东西。
我吃饭的时候已经不喝水了。我已经养成这个习惯四年了。我至少在餐后和餐前有一个小时和30分钟的休息时间。
晚上7点以后我就不吃晚饭了。如果我饿了，我会在睡前喝一杯牛奶。
我不再完美了。在花了23年的时间摆脱完美主义的假象后，最近我开始练习Wabi Sabi。
我和朋友们一起聊天时不再带手机了。这样我们就可以在数字世界之外表达一些东西。
我不再找借口了。我接受我的错误，并更加努力地改正它。
我不再争论了。哦，天哪，它节省了很多能量。
I've stopped buying unnecessary items. I'm learning the way to not fall into the trap of consumerism. I think a hundred times before buying something and only buy the stuff which serves an important purpose in my life.
I've stopped drinking water while eating. I have been practising this habit for 4 years now. I keep a gap of at least an hour after the meal and 30 min before the meal.
I've stopped eating dinner after 7 pm. If I feel hungry, I drink a glass of cow milk before bed.
I've stopped being perfect. After wasting 23 years of my life pulling off the fake crown of perfectionism, recently I've started practising Wabi-Sabi.
I've stopped bringing my phone while chilling with friends. So that we can express a little outside the digital world.
I've stopped making excuses. I accept my fault and work harder to fix it.
I've stopped arguing. Oh God, it saves a lot of energy.
以下是我已经完全停止做的10件事：
我不再买不必要的东西了。我正在学习避免落入消费主义陷阱的方法。在买东西之前，我想了一百遍，只买那些对我生活有重要意义的东西。
我吃饭的时候已经不喝水了。我已经养成这个习惯四年了。我至少在餐后和餐前有一个小时和30分钟的休息时间。
晚上7点以后我就不吃晚饭了。如果我饿了，我会在睡前喝一杯牛奶。
我不再完美了。在花了23年的时间摆脱完美主义的假象后，最近我开始练习Wabi Sabi。
我和朋友们一起聊天时不再带手机了。这样我们就可以在数字世界之外表达一些东西。
我不再找借口了。我接受我的错误，并更加努力地改正它。
我不再争论了。哦，天哪，它节省了很多能量。
I've stopped consuming too much news. I don't watch TV and stopped following news channels on social media. I just follow some current affair compilation videos on YouTube for educational purpose.
I've stopped following celebrities and never followed these so-called influencers. Believe me, they don't care about their fans even they would love to sell poison to you and your family for some silly amount of money.
I want to make sure that I don't smoke and never tried any kind of alcohol in my life. That's why these two important things are missing in my list. And these are the things I'm currently working on:
Reducing screen time.
Mastering the art of saying No.
Managing procrastination.
Developing a healthy sleep habit.
Many people want to know if the turmeric paste makes my teeth yellow. I would say, they don't become yellowish so easily due to the presence of oil and salt. However, I don't use this paste daily. I keep changing it with some homemade powders and twigs.
我已经不再看太多新闻了。我不看电视，也不再关注社交媒体上的新闻频道。我只是为了教育目的在YouTube上观看一些时事视频。
我不再追随名人，也从未追随过这些所谓的影响者。相信我，他们不在乎他们的粉丝，他们只愿意为了一些愚蠢的钱把毒药般的内容卖给你和你的家人。
我想确保我不吸烟，也从来没有尝试过任何酒精。这就是为什么我的清单中没有这两件重要的事情。以下是我目前正在做的事情：
减少眼睛盯着屏幕时间。
掌握说不的艺术。
管理拖延症。
养成健康的睡眠习惯。
原创翻译：龙腾网 https://www.ltaaa.cn 转载请注明出处
I've stopped following celebrities and never followed these so-called influencers. Believe me, they don't care about their fans even they would love to sell poison to you and your family for some silly amount of money.
I want to make sure that I don't smoke and never tried any kind of alcohol in my life. That's why these two important things are missing in my list. And these are the things I'm currently working on:
Reducing screen time.
Mastering the art of saying No.
Managing procrastination.
Developing a healthy sleep habit.
Many people want to know if the turmeric paste makes my teeth yellow. I would say, they don't become yellowish so easily due to the presence of oil and salt. However, I don't use this paste daily. I keep changing it with some homemade powders and twigs.
我已经不再看太多新闻了。我不看电视，也不再关注社交媒体上的新闻频道。我只是为了教育目的在YouTube上观看一些时事视频。
我不再追随名人，也从未追随过这些所谓的影响者。相信我，他们不在乎他们的粉丝，他们只愿意为了一些愚蠢的钱把毒药般的内容卖给你和你的家人。
我想确保我不吸烟，也从来没有尝试过任何酒精。这就是为什么我的清单中没有这两件重要的事情。以下是我目前正在做的事情：
减少眼睛盯着屏幕时间。
掌握说不的艺术。
管理拖延症。
养成健康的睡眠习惯。
原创翻译：龙腾网 https://www.ltaaa.cn 转载请注明出处
Mutoni August, Content Creator
Mutoni August，内容创造者
Mutoni August，内容创造者
I stopped posting my life on social media’s I still post few quotes,memes and sometimes myself but I don’t post every upxe on my life
I stopped taking pictures in my favorite outfits so that I can Wear them anytime anywhere in peace
I stopped using dating apps, after discovering that most men on dating app are more interested in hook ups and it made me feel a little guilt cause I judged most of the guys by their looks than their bio /personalities
I stopped using Facebook cause there isn’t much out there for me
I cut out all my friends that I didn’t feel like we still had any thing in common
I stopped being extra nice
I stopped spending on things that I don’t really need, such as the newest iPhone or upgrading my phone when the one I am using is doing just fine
I stopped gossiping
I stopped judging people or taking sides when people or friends are fighting
I stopped caring about who doesn’t like me or how people gonna think of me, and started asking myself if I am happy With the person I am at the moment
我不再在社交媒体上发布我的生活，我仍然会发布一些引用、表情包，有时也会发布自己，但我不会每次更新我的生活
我不再穿着我最喜欢的衣服拍照，这样我就可以在任何时间任何地点安静地穿着它们
我停止使用约会应用程序，因为我发现约会应用程序上的大多数男人对勾搭更感兴趣，这让我感到有点内疚，因为我根据他们的相貌而不是他们的个人/性格来判断大多数的男人。
我停止使用Facebook是因为我没有太多机会。
我删掉了所有我觉得我们没有共同点的朋友。
我不再那么和蔼可亲了。
我不再把钱花在我并不真正需要的东西上，比如最新的iPhone，或者在我用的手机还不错的时候升级我的手机。
我不再闲聊了、
当人们或朋友吵架时，我不再评判他人或偏袒任何一方。
我不再在乎那些不喜欢我的人或者别人会怎么看我，我开始问自己，现在的我是否幸福。
I stopped taking pictures in my favorite outfits so that I can Wear them anytime anywhere in peace
I stopped using dating apps, after discovering that most men on dating app are more interested in hook ups and it made me feel a little guilt cause I judged most of the guys by their looks than their bio /personalities
I stopped using Facebook cause there isn’t much out there for me
I cut out all my friends that I didn’t feel like we still had any thing in common
I stopped being extra nice
I stopped spending on things that I don’t really need, such as the newest iPhone or upgrading my phone when the one I am using is doing just fine
I stopped gossiping
I stopped judging people or taking sides when people or friends are fighting
I stopped caring about who doesn’t like me or how people gonna think of me, and started asking myself if I am happy With the person I am at the moment
我不再在社交媒体上发布我的生活，我仍然会发布一些引用、表情包，有时也会发布自己，但我不会每次更新我的生活
我不再穿着我最喜欢的衣服拍照，这样我就可以在任何时间任何地点安静地穿着它们
我停止使用约会应用程序，因为我发现约会应用程序上的大多数男人对勾搭更感兴趣，这让我感到有点内疚，因为我根据他们的相貌而不是他们的个人/性格来判断大多数的男人。
我停止使用Facebook是因为我没有太多机会。
我删掉了所有我觉得我们没有共同点的朋友。
我不再那么和蔼可亲了。
我不再把钱花在我并不真正需要的东西上，比如最新的iPhone，或者在我用的手机还不错的时候升级我的手机。
我不再闲聊了、
当人们或朋友吵架时，我不再评判他人或偏袒任何一方。
我不再在乎那些不喜欢我的人或者别人会怎么看我，我开始问自己，现在的我是否幸福。
Flavian Mwasi, Entrepreneur | Life Coach | Mentor at Life and Living
I stopped sharing my plans — People always want to stay ahead of you, although they won’t tell you. People are jealous by nature. For some reason, people will always find a way to sabotage your plans lest you move faster than them.
I stopped sharing my weaknesses — People will use anything to make you stumble so they can laugh at you when you fall, and then mourn you when they see you dying. People will use your weaknesses against you when given the chance.
I stopped revealing my next big move — People are always tracking your next move so they can reach there before you. Always move in silence and shock people with your results.
I stopped revealing my secrets — Even to my best friends. 9 out of your 10 friends that you have are fake. People will use your secrets to tarnish your image.
I stopped sharing my failures with people — People will always bring up your past failures to sabotage your positivity and mindset.
I stopped sharing my family secrets — When it comes to family, this is a no-go zone. Revealing your family secrets is tantamount to stripping yourself naked and walking in the streets.
Complaining — Each time you complain is evidence that you’ve lost control of your life. You’re losing your precious breath as well as your precious time. If you can do anything about it, do it. Otherwise shut up.
Gossip — I’d rather discuss something useful like an idea, or a new opportunity, instead of wasting my valuable time talking about the shortcomings of people.
Sharing my photos on Facebook — I don’t have to remind you how evil people impersonating your profile can start sending insulting messages to your best friends, and telling them how stupid they are. The less photos I have on social media, the more I’m at peace with myself.
Regretting my past — The reason I’m successful today is because of my past mistakes, failures, and successes. If I start regretting them now, then I’m shooting myself in the foot because the past is part of who I am today.
我不再分享我的计划—人们总是想走在你前面，尽管他们不会告诉你，人们天生嫉妒。出于某种原因，人们总会想方设法破坏你的计划，以免你的行动比他们快。
我不再分享我的弱点—人们会用任何东西让你绊倒，这样当你摔倒时，他们可以嘲笑你，当他们看到你死去时，他们会哀悼你。如果有机会，人们会利用你的弱点来对付你。
我不再透露我的下一步行动—人们总是在跟踪你的下一步行动，以便他们能在你之前到达那里。永远保持沉默，用你的结果震惊别人。
我不再泄露我的秘密—即使是对我最好的朋友。你10个朋友中有9个是假的。人们会利用你的秘密玷污你的形象。
我不再和别人分享我的失败—人们总是会提起你过去的失败来破坏你的积极性和心态。
我不再分享我的家庭秘密—说到家庭，这是一个禁区。泄露你的家庭秘密相当于脱光衣服走在街上。
抱怨—你每次抱怨都表明你已经失去了对生活的控制。你正在失去宝贵的呼吸和宝贵的时间。如果你能做点什么，就去做吧。否则就闭嘴。
八卦—我宁愿讨论一些有用的事情，比如一个想法或一个新机会，而不是浪费宝贵的时间谈论别人的缺点。
在Facebook上分享我的照片—我不需要提醒你，假冒你的个人资料的邪恶的人是如何开始向你最好的朋友发送侮辱性的信息，并告诉他们他们有多愚蠢。我在社交媒体上的照片越少，我就越能平静地对待自己。
对过去的后悔—我之所以能取得今天的成功，都是因为我过去的错误、失败和成功。如果我现在开始后悔，那我就是在搬起石头砸自己的脚，因为过去是今天我的一部分。
I stopped sharing my plans — People always want to stay ahead of you, although they won’t tell you. People are jealous by nature. For some reason, people will always find a way to sabotage your plans lest you move faster than them.
I stopped sharing my weaknesses — People will use anything to make you stumble so they can laugh at you when you fall, and then mourn you when they see you dying. People will use your weaknesses against you when given the chance.
I stopped revealing my next big move — People are always tracking your next move so they can reach there before you. Always move in silence and shock people with your results.
I stopped revealing my secrets — Even to my best friends. 9 out of your 10 friends that you have are fake. People will use your secrets to tarnish your image.
I stopped sharing my failures with people — People will always bring up your past failures to sabotage your positivity and mindset.
I stopped sharing my family secrets — When it comes to family, this is a no-go zone. Revealing your family secrets is tantamount to stripping yourself naked and walking in the streets.
Complaining — Each time you complain is evidence that you’ve lost control of your life. You’re losing your precious breath as well as your precious time. If you can do anything about it, do it. Otherwise shut up.
Gossip — I’d rather discuss something useful like an idea, or a new opportunity, instead of wasting my valuable time talking about the shortcomings of people.
Sharing my photos on Facebook — I don’t have to remind you how evil people impersonating your profile can start sending insulting messages to your best friends, and telling them how stupid they are. The less photos I have on social media, the more I’m at peace with myself.
Regretting my past — The reason I’m successful today is because of my past mistakes, failures, and successes. If I start regretting them now, then I’m shooting myself in the foot because the past is part of who I am today.
我不再分享我的计划—人们总是想走在你前面，尽管他们不会告诉你，人们天生嫉妒。出于某种原因，人们总会想方设法破坏你的计划，以免你的行动比他们快。
我不再分享我的弱点—人们会用任何东西让你绊倒，这样当你摔倒时，他们可以嘲笑你，当他们看到你死去时，他们会哀悼你。如果有机会，人们会利用你的弱点来对付你。
我不再透露我的下一步行动—人们总是在跟踪你的下一步行动，以便他们能在你之前到达那里。永远保持沉默，用你的结果震惊别人。
我不再泄露我的秘密—即使是对我最好的朋友。你10个朋友中有9个是假的。人们会利用你的秘密玷污你的形象。
我不再和别人分享我的失败—人们总是会提起你过去的失败来破坏你的积极性和心态。
我不再分享我的家庭秘密—说到家庭，这是一个禁区。泄露你的家庭秘密相当于脱光衣服走在街上。
抱怨—你每次抱怨都表明你已经失去了对生活的控制。你正在失去宝贵的呼吸和宝贵的时间。如果你能做点什么，就去做吧。否则就闭嘴。
八卦—我宁愿讨论一些有用的事情，比如一个想法或一个新机会，而不是浪费宝贵的时间谈论别人的缺点。
在Facebook上分享我的照片—我不需要提醒你，假冒你的个人资料的邪恶的人是如何开始向你最好的朋友发送侮辱性的信息，并告诉他们他们有多愚蠢。我在社交媒体上的照片越少，我就越能平静地对待自己。
对过去的后悔—我之所以能取得今天的成功，都是因为我过去的错误、失败和成功。如果我现在开始后悔，那我就是在搬起石头砸自己的脚，因为过去是今天我的一部分。
Arjun Shankar, lives in New Delhi
Arjun Shankar，住在新德里
Arjun Shankar，住在新德里
Stopped watching po*n and masturb*ting. It is not worth it.
Stopped begging people to stay in my life. If they wanna leave I open the door for them.
Stopped asking people for help more than once. If they wanted to they would have helped in the first place itself.
Stopped talking to people who weren't there in my tough times when I needed them the most.
Stopped watching TV. I've unsubscribed the cable connection long ago.
Stopped eating Sugar and saturated fats. I don't wanna ruin my body this young.
Stopped sleeping late. I sleep around 11–11:30 PM every night. Sleeping at 4 am isn't worth it.
Stopped cursing God for all the bad happenings in my life. If something bad happens it is what it is.
Stopped expecting from people. I just don't care if they don't care.
Stopped celebrating my birthday by going to cafes, drinking and smoking hookah. I just invite friends home to have some chill time.
不再看色情片和手淫了，这不值得。
不再乞求别人留在我的生活中。如果他们想离开，我为他们开门。
不再多次向别人求助。如果他们愿意的话，他们自会自己帮忙的。
不要和那些在我最需要他们的时候却不在我身边的人说话。
我不再看电视了。我很久以前就取消了有线订阅。
停止食用糖和饱和脂肪。我不想这么年轻就毁了我的身体。
我不再睡懒觉了。我每晚大约11-11:30睡觉。凌晨4点睡觉是不值得。
停止为我生命中所有的不幸而诅咒上帝。如果有什么不好的事情发生了，那就顺其自然。
停止对别人的期待。如果他们不在乎，我也不在乎。
我不再去咖啡馆、喝酒、抽水烟来庆祝我的生日了。我只是邀请朋友回家放松一下。
Stopped begging people to stay in my life. If they wanna leave I open the door for them.
Stopped asking people for help more than once. If they wanted to they would have helped in the first place itself.
Stopped talking to people who weren't there in my tough times when I needed them the most.
Stopped watching TV. I've unsubscribed the cable connection long ago.
Stopped eating Sugar and saturated fats. I don't wanna ruin my body this young.
Stopped sleeping late. I sleep around 11–11:30 PM every night. Sleeping at 4 am isn't worth it.
Stopped cursing God for all the bad happenings in my life. If something bad happens it is what it is.
Stopped expecting from people. I just don't care if they don't care.
Stopped celebrating my birthday by going to cafes, drinking and smoking hookah. I just invite friends home to have some chill time.
不再看色情片和手淫了，这不值得。
不再乞求别人留在我的生活中。如果他们想离开，我为他们开门。
不再多次向别人求助。如果他们愿意的话，他们自会自己帮忙的。
不要和那些在我最需要他们的时候却不在我身边的人说话。
我不再看电视了。我很久以前就取消了有线订阅。
停止食用糖和饱和脂肪。我不想这么年轻就毁了我的身体。
我不再睡懒觉了。我每晚大约11-11:30睡觉。凌晨4点睡觉是不值得。
停止为我生命中所有的不幸而诅咒上帝。如果有什么不好的事情发生了，那就顺其自然。
停止对别人的期待。如果他们不在乎，我也不在乎。
我不再去咖啡馆、喝酒、抽水烟来庆祝我的生日了。我只是邀请朋友回家放松一下。
Chris Wojcik, writer, martial artist, entrepreneur
Chris Wojcik，作家，武术家，企业家
Chris Wojcik，作家，武术家，企业家
Learning how to quit intelligently is the superpower most highly successful people are too scared to tell you about.
Here are 10 things I quit that made me happier and more successful:
I stopped giving as much of a shit about what other people thought. My hair is pink and it has a flower in it. If that bugs you, I’m sorry. I think it looks quite nice. I’m not free from external judgment, but I’m sure as hell getting there.
I stopped wasting my limited time on this earth with people who don’t value me. Not everyone cares about you, even if they say they do. Some people don’t have your best interests at heart. Cut them out or limit their space in your head.
I stopped acting like someone I wasn’t. Trying to be tough all the time is exhausting. I like martial arts, watching musicals, reading existential philosophy, writing, and blasting heavy metal/EDM. I wear many hats. You don’t need to understand why. I don’t need to dull myself down for other people to understand.
I stopped attaching my worth to results. Winning martial arts tournaments in my late teens and early 20s made me realize that no success is enough to satisfy the ambitious mind. You cannot build lasting self-confidence when your happiness is solely external.
学习如何明智地戒烟是最成功的人害怕告诉你的超级力量。
以下是我放弃的10件事，从此让我更快乐、更成功：
我不再在乎别人怎么想了。我的头发是粉红色的，上面有一朵花。如果这让你心烦，我很抱歉。我觉得它看起来很不错。我无法摆脱外界的评判，但我很确定我能做到。
我不再把有限的时间浪费在不重视我的人身上。不是每个人都关心你，即使他们说他们关心你。有些人并没有把你的最大利益放在心上。把它们剪掉或者限制它们在你脑子里的空间。
我不再表现得像别人。一直试图强装是很累人的。我喜欢武术，喜欢看音乐剧，喜欢阅读存在主义哲学，喜欢写作，喜欢爆破重金属/电子舞曲。我身兼数职。你不需要知道为什么。我不需要为了让别人理解而把自己变得沉闷。
我不再把自己的价值放在结果上。在我十八九岁和二十几岁的时候赢得武术比赛让我意识到，没有任何成功足以满足雄心勃勃的心灵。当你的快乐仅仅是外在的时候，你不可能建立起持久的自信。
Here are 10 things I quit that made me happier and more successful:
I stopped giving as much of a shit about what other people thought. My hair is pink and it has a flower in it. If that bugs you, I’m sorry. I think it looks quite nice. I’m not free from external judgment, but I’m sure as hell getting there.
I stopped wasting my limited time on this earth with people who don’t value me. Not everyone cares about you, even if they say they do. Some people don’t have your best interests at heart. Cut them out or limit their space in your head.
I stopped acting like someone I wasn’t. Trying to be tough all the time is exhausting. I like martial arts, watching musicals, reading existential philosophy, writing, and blasting heavy metal/EDM. I wear many hats. You don’t need to understand why. I don’t need to dull myself down for other people to understand.
I stopped attaching my worth to results. Winning martial arts tournaments in my late teens and early 20s made me realize that no success is enough to satisfy the ambitious mind. You cannot build lasting self-confidence when your happiness is solely external.
学习如何明智地戒烟是最成功的人害怕告诉你的超级力量。
以下是我放弃的10件事，从此让我更快乐、更成功：
我不再在乎别人怎么想了。我的头发是粉红色的，上面有一朵花。如果这让你心烦，我很抱歉。我觉得它看起来很不错。我无法摆脱外界的评判，但我很确定我能做到。
我不再把有限的时间浪费在不重视我的人身上。不是每个人都关心你，即使他们说他们关心你。有些人并没有把你的最大利益放在心上。把它们剪掉或者限制它们在你脑子里的空间。
我不再表现得像别人。一直试图强装是很累人的。我喜欢武术，喜欢看音乐剧，喜欢阅读存在主义哲学，喜欢写作，喜欢爆破重金属/电子舞曲。我身兼数职。你不需要知道为什么。我不需要为了让别人理解而把自己变得沉闷。
我不再把自己的价值放在结果上。在我十八九岁和二十几岁的时候赢得武术比赛让我意识到，没有任何成功足以满足雄心勃勃的心灵。当你的快乐仅仅是外在的时候，你不可能建立起持久的自信。
I stopped looking for happiness in other people. That girl over there? She’s super cute, but she won’t make you happy. No relationship can give you what you can’t give yourself. Read that again.
I stopped asking for permission to do things. You don’t need permission to quit a job, move to a new city, or begin a new journey. You only need permission from yourself. Stop asking for permission. If anything, ask for forgiveness (generic self-help advice alx, but I don’t care).
I stopped pretending that my mental health was a lie. I have depression and anxiety and ADHD. The triple-whammy. It sucks sometimes, but I can manage it. I’ve learned how. When my mental health is good, I’m very confident in my abilities to do stuff, have an awesome life, and be happy. By validating my mental illness, I can take care of it.
I stopped writing for myself alone. I write to help myself think and grow, but I could do that by writing in my journal. I write and publish because I want to have at least a little bit of an impact on people’s lives. This keeps me going.
I stopped expecting everything to be okay. Guess what! The world is fucked up. Everything is going to end one day (even The Simpsons will air their last episode one day), but that doesn’t mean that we can’t be here now, and be content with the present moment.
I stopped making excuses. Every dream dies because of either a limit or an excuse. You have limits, but most people never reach them. Most people quit because they create stories in their heads that define them more than their dreams. I never want my excuses and doubts to dictate my life. Your doubts ain’t shit.
我不再在别人身上寻找幸福。那边那个女孩？她超级可爱，但她不会让你开心的。没有一段关系能给你你不能给自己的东西，再读一遍。
我不再要求别人允许我做事。辞掉工作、搬到新城市或开始新的旅程都不需要得到他人许可。你只需要得到你自己的许可。别再请求许可了。如果有的话，请求原谅（一般的自助建议，但我不在乎）。
我不再假装我的心理健康是个谎言。我受到了抑郁症、焦虑症和多动症这三重困扰。有时候很糟糕，但我能应付。我学会了怎么做。当我的心理健康状况良好时，我对自己做事的能力非常自信，拥有美好的生活，感到幸福。通过确认我的精神疾病，我可以治疗它。
我不再独自为自己写作。我写作是为了帮助自己思考和成长，但我可以通过写日记来做到这一点。我写作和出版是因为我想至少对人们的生活产生一点影响。这让我继续前进。
我不再期待一切都会好起来。猜猜看！世界一团糟。总有一天一切都会结束（就连辛普森一家也会在某天播出他们的最后一集），但这并不意味着我们现在不能在这里，不能满足于当下。
我不再找借口了。每一个梦想都会因为一个限制或借口而破灭。你有极限，但大多数人永远达不到。大多数人辞职是因为他们在头脑中创造的故事更多地定义了他们，而不是他们的梦想。我从不想让我的借口和怀疑主宰我的生活。你的怀疑不算什么。
原创翻译：龙腾网 https://www.ltaaa.cn 转载请注明出处
I stopped asking for permission to do things. You don’t need permission to quit a job, move to a new city, or begin a new journey. You only need permission from yourself. Stop asking for permission. If anything, ask for forgiveness (generic self-help advice alx, but I don’t care).
I stopped pretending that my mental health was a lie. I have depression and anxiety and ADHD. The triple-whammy. It sucks sometimes, but I can manage it. I’ve learned how. When my mental health is good, I’m very confident in my abilities to do stuff, have an awesome life, and be happy. By validating my mental illness, I can take care of it.
I stopped writing for myself alone. I write to help myself think and grow, but I could do that by writing in my journal. I write and publish because I want to have at least a little bit of an impact on people’s lives. This keeps me going.
I stopped expecting everything to be okay. Guess what! The world is fucked up. Everything is going to end one day (even The Simpsons will air their last episode one day), but that doesn’t mean that we can’t be here now, and be content with the present moment.
I stopped making excuses. Every dream dies because of either a limit or an excuse. You have limits, but most people never reach them. Most people quit because they create stories in their heads that define them more than their dreams. I never want my excuses and doubts to dictate my life. Your doubts ain’t shit.
我不再在别人身上寻找幸福。那边那个女孩？她超级可爱，但她不会让你开心的。没有一段关系能给你你不能给自己的东西，再读一遍。
我不再要求别人允许我做事。辞掉工作、搬到新城市或开始新的旅程都不需要得到他人许可。你只需要得到你自己的许可。别再请求许可了。如果有的话，请求原谅（一般的自助建议，但我不在乎）。
我不再假装我的心理健康是个谎言。我受到了抑郁症、焦虑症和多动症这三重困扰。有时候很糟糕，但我能应付。我学会了怎么做。当我的心理健康状况良好时，我对自己做事的能力非常自信，拥有美好的生活，感到幸福。通过确认我的精神疾病，我可以治疗它。
我不再独自为自己写作。我写作是为了帮助自己思考和成长，但我可以通过写日记来做到这一点。我写作和出版是因为我想至少对人们的生活产生一点影响。这让我继续前进。
我不再期待一切都会好起来。猜猜看！世界一团糟。总有一天一切都会结束（就连辛普森一家也会在某天播出他们的最后一集），但这并不意味着我们现在不能在这里，不能满足于当下。
我不再找借口了。每一个梦想都会因为一个限制或借口而破灭。你有极限，但大多数人永远达不到。大多数人辞职是因为他们在头脑中创造的故事更多地定义了他们，而不是他们的梦想。我从不想让我的借口和怀疑主宰我的生活。你的怀疑不算什么。
原创翻译：龙腾网 https://www.ltaaa.cn 转载请注明出处
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