QA话题：我已经30岁了，仍然找不到生活的激情，随波逐流，如何发现自己的激情？
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Edwin Trench
Congratulations. you have already taken the first step…you understand you have to something with your life! That is a great first step, many people just live their lives and never question themselves what they want to do or where they are going, they just let life lead them wherever it takes them!
So…what do you do? Well chose a nice sunny relaxed day just for yourself, no obligations, no work, no worries, no commitments and no timetable, and take a walk in the park, sit by the seashore or go boating in a lake. Bottom line find a place where you can be by yourself with no interruptions or distractions and ask yourself what it is that you want to do with your life. Ask yourself the following questions to kick off the process:
恭喜你。你已经迈出了第一步......
你明白你的生活必须有所作为！这是伟大的第一步，许多人只是过着自己的生活，从不问自己想做什么或要去哪里，他们任凭生活带着他们去任何地方 !
那么......你要怎么做呢？好吧，选择一个阳光明媚的、只属于你自己的轻松日子，没有义务，没有工作，没有烦恼，没有承诺，没有时间表，在公园里散步，坐在海边或去湖里划个船，总之要找一个你可以自己呆着的地方，没有干扰，不会分心，问问自己你想在生活中做些什么，问问自己以下问题来启动这个过程：
Congratulations. you have already taken the first step…you understand you have to something with your life! That is a great first step, many people just live their lives and never question themselves what they want to do or where they are going, they just let life lead them wherever it takes them!
So…what do you do? Well chose a nice sunny relaxed day just for yourself, no obligations, no work, no worries, no commitments and no timetable, and take a walk in the park, sit by the seashore or go boating in a lake. Bottom line find a place where you can be by yourself with no interruptions or distractions and ask yourself what it is that you want to do with your life. Ask yourself the following questions to kick off the process:
恭喜你。你已经迈出了第一步......
你明白你的生活必须有所作为！这是伟大的第一步，许多人只是过着自己的生活，从不问自己想做什么或要去哪里，他们任凭生活带着他们去任何地方 !
那么......你要怎么做呢？好吧，选择一个阳光明媚的、只属于你自己的轻松日子，没有义务，没有工作，没有烦恼，没有承诺，没有时间表，在公园里散步，坐在海边或去湖里划个船，总之要找一个你可以自己呆着的地方，没有干扰，不会分心，问问自己你想在生活中做些什么，问问自己以下问题来启动这个过程：
- What is my obxtive in life? Is it to be happy, to have a family, to excel in a given field, to become an artist, etc.? Hopefully chose something not necessarily material like becoming rich, unless that is what really rocks your boat! Really try and define an obxtive that will still drive you inside of 20, 30 or 40 years more.
- Ask yourself what are the things you really like to do? Do you like physical chores, creation, intellectual challenges, music, art, numbers, words, etc?
- Question yourself if you like to work with people or are you more of a loner?
- Define if you like changes or are you more of a routine type of person?
- Etc, etc.
- 我的生活目标是什么？
是快乐，是拥有一个家庭，是在某一领域出类拔萃，还是成为一名艺术家，等等。希望你选择的东西不一定是物质上的，如成为富人，而是那是真正震撼你的东西！你的目标是什么？真正尝试并确定一个目标，这个目标在未来20年、30年或40年后仍将推动你。
- 问问自己，你真正喜欢做的事情是什么？你是否喜欢体力活、创作、智力挑战、音乐、艺术、数字、文字等等？
- 问问自己，你是喜欢与人合作还是更喜欢独来独往？
- 你是喜欢变化还是更喜欢常规行事？
- 等等，等等。
- Ask yourself what are the things you really like to do? Do you like physical chores, creation, intellectual challenges, music, art, numbers, words, etc?
- Question yourself if you like to work with people or are you more of a loner?
- Define if you like changes or are you more of a routine type of person?
- Etc, etc.
- 我的生活目标是什么？
是快乐，是拥有一个家庭，是在某一领域出类拔萃，还是成为一名艺术家，等等。希望你选择的东西不一定是物质上的，如成为富人，而是那是真正震撼你的东西！你的目标是什么？真正尝试并确定一个目标，这个目标在未来20年、30年或40年后仍将推动你。
- 问问自己，你真正喜欢做的事情是什么？你是否喜欢体力活、创作、智力挑战、音乐、艺术、数字、文字等等？
- 问问自己，你是喜欢与人合作还是更喜欢独来独往？
- 你是喜欢变化还是更喜欢常规行事？
- 等等，等等。
The idea is to question yourself regarding what you are, who you are, what you like, what you don't like, what are your passions, abilities and capabilities.Once you have asked and answered all these questions, your mind should have built an internal matrix with this Q&A process. Don't worry about seeing it, it will be there. If you are more of a hands-on type of person, well then write everything down before you take the next step.
Once you have finished the process above (you have to do it honestly, seriously and in depth), let your thoughts mature a bit, give yourself a day or two before you come back and let your brain work for you (believe me, your brain is a great problem solver!) before you tackle the final answer.
Once you have given it time, you can now ask yourself what you want to do with your life, and you should come up with some very clear options from which to chose from...Good Luck!
这个主意就是询问自己，你是什么，你是谁，你喜欢什么，你不喜欢什么，你的激情，能力是什么。
一旦你问过并回答了这些问题，你的头脑应该已经通过这个问答过程建立了一个内部矩阵，不要担心会看不看得到，它会在那里，如果你是一个比较喜欢动手的人，那么在你进行下一步之前，把所有的东西都写下来。
一旦你完成了上述过程（你必须诚实、认真、深入地去做），让你的想法成熟一些，给自己一两天的时间，然后再回来，让你的大脑发挥作用（相信我，你的大脑是一个牛鼻的问题解决者！）。
一切交给时间，现在你可以问自己，你想在你的生活中做什么，你应该能获得一些非常明确的想法并从中选择......祝好运!
Once you have finished the process above (you have to do it honestly, seriously and in depth), let your thoughts mature a bit, give yourself a day or two before you come back and let your brain work for you (believe me, your brain is a great problem solver!) before you tackle the final answer.
Once you have given it time, you can now ask yourself what you want to do with your life, and you should come up with some very clear options from which to chose from...Good Luck!
这个主意就是询问自己，你是什么，你是谁，你喜欢什么，你不喜欢什么，你的激情，能力是什么。
一旦你问过并回答了这些问题，你的头脑应该已经通过这个问答过程建立了一个内部矩阵，不要担心会看不看得到，它会在那里，如果你是一个比较喜欢动手的人，那么在你进行下一步之前，把所有的东西都写下来。
一旦你完成了上述过程（你必须诚实、认真、深入地去做），让你的想法成熟一些，给自己一两天的时间，然后再回来，让你的大脑发挥作用（相信我，你的大脑是一个牛鼻的问题解决者！）。
一切交给时间，现在你可以问自己，你想在你的生活中做什么，你应该能获得一些非常明确的想法并从中选择......祝好运!
Michael Airton
I was where you are right now at around your age. And honestly, I’m not completely past it, though I have made definite progress.
As a starting point, it’s important to assess what you want out of your “passion” when you discover it. Do you want your passion to simply be something that makes you happy on an emotional/psychological level? Does your passion also have to be somehow connected to what you do for a living, in order for you to consider it a passion? Does your passion have to be “your life’s work” in order for it to be worthwhile?
When I was in my early thirties, I remember being pretty bummed out by the realization that I didn’t have a “passion”. I could look to my closest friends and identify what their passions were, and I wanted that too. Around about that time my first marriage fell apart, and I was left with the realization that I’d allowed myself to become defined as “Michael, married guy”. Which was fine up to that point, except that when the marriage ended, I felt like I had no identity.There’s no sure path that will uncover your passion. The best advice I can give you is “try new things”. It doesn’t matter what they are. Tired of your job? Consider switching to a new job within your current field, or switching fields completely. If that seems like too much of an upheaval (we all have to eat, after all), try new things in your spare time. Take up a recreational sport. Volunteer for something. Sign up for some athletic endeavour that requires you to work towards a goal. Listen to some new music. Read some different books.
在你这个年纪的时候，我也和你一样。说实话，我并没有完全放弃，尽管我已经取得了明显的进步。
作为一个起点，当你发现你想从你的“激情”中得到什么时，评估它是很重要的，你是否希望你的激情仅仅是在情感/心理层面上让你快乐的东西？你的激情是否也必须以某种方式与你谋生的工作联系在一起，才能让你认为它是一种“激情”？你的激情是否必须是“你一生的工作”才能有价值？
我三十出头的时候，我记得当我意识到自己没有“激情”的时候，我非常沮丧，我从我最亲密的朋友那里了解他们的兴趣所在，我也希望如此，大约在那个时候，我的第一次婚姻破裂了，我意识到我给自己的定义是“迈克尔，某已婚男人”，不过一切都还好，只是当婚姻结束时，我觉得我没有了身份。
没有一条确定的道路可以发现你的激情，我能给你的最好建议就是“尝试新事物”，它们是什么并不重要，厌倦了你的工作？你可以考虑换一个当前领域的新工作，或者彻底换一个领域，如果看起来变动剧烈 (毕竟我们都要吃饭的) ，你可以在你的业余时间尝试新事物，参加一项娱乐性的运动，做做志愿者，报名参加一些需要你朝着一个目标努力的运动项目，听一些新的音乐，读一些不同的书。
I was where you are right now at around your age. And honestly, I’m not completely past it, though I have made definite progress.
As a starting point, it’s important to assess what you want out of your “passion” when you discover it. Do you want your passion to simply be something that makes you happy on an emotional/psychological level? Does your passion also have to be somehow connected to what you do for a living, in order for you to consider it a passion? Does your passion have to be “your life’s work” in order for it to be worthwhile?
When I was in my early thirties, I remember being pretty bummed out by the realization that I didn’t have a “passion”. I could look to my closest friends and identify what their passions were, and I wanted that too. Around about that time my first marriage fell apart, and I was left with the realization that I’d allowed myself to become defined as “Michael, married guy”. Which was fine up to that point, except that when the marriage ended, I felt like I had no identity.There’s no sure path that will uncover your passion. The best advice I can give you is “try new things”. It doesn’t matter what they are. Tired of your job? Consider switching to a new job within your current field, or switching fields completely. If that seems like too much of an upheaval (we all have to eat, after all), try new things in your spare time. Take up a recreational sport. Volunteer for something. Sign up for some athletic endeavour that requires you to work towards a goal. Listen to some new music. Read some different books.
在你这个年纪的时候，我也和你一样。说实话，我并没有完全放弃，尽管我已经取得了明显的进步。
作为一个起点，当你发现你想从你的“激情”中得到什么时，评估它是很重要的，你是否希望你的激情仅仅是在情感/心理层面上让你快乐的东西？你的激情是否也必须以某种方式与你谋生的工作联系在一起，才能让你认为它是一种“激情”？你的激情是否必须是“你一生的工作”才能有价值？
我三十出头的时候，我记得当我意识到自己没有“激情”的时候，我非常沮丧，我从我最亲密的朋友那里了解他们的兴趣所在，我也希望如此，大约在那个时候，我的第一次婚姻破裂了，我意识到我给自己的定义是“迈克尔，某已婚男人”，不过一切都还好，只是当婚姻结束时，我觉得我没有了身份。
没有一条确定的道路可以发现你的激情，我能给你的最好建议就是“尝试新事物”，它们是什么并不重要，厌倦了你的工作？你可以考虑换一个当前领域的新工作，或者彻底换一个领域，如果看起来变动剧烈 (毕竟我们都要吃饭的) ，你可以在你的业余时间尝试新事物，参加一项娱乐性的运动，做做志愿者，报名参加一些需要你朝着一个目标努力的运动项目，听一些新的音乐，读一些不同的书。
A lot of the new stuff you try won’t resonate with you, but something somewhere will. And your life will be richer for having at least tried something before discarding it. This has certainly been true for me; I’ve unlocked several passions this way (none of them are jobs), and my life is much better for it.The passion you uncover might be a career, but it certainly doesn’t have to be — it can just be something that really interests you, that you are happy to dive into and spend hours blissfully absorbed in without noticing the passage of hours. That’s about the best definition of a “passion” that I can come up with.I’ll leave you with a suggestion. Go to YouTube and look up “Tim Minchin graduation”. It’s a ten minute speech given a few years ago by comedian Tim Minchin to the graduating class of the University of Western Australia. He’s got some truly wonderful things to say on the subject of living a fulfilling life, and the summation he offers at the end is truly great.
你所尝试的很多新东西都不会引起你的共鸣，但有些东西会，如果你至少尝试过一些东西，然后再抛弃它，你的生活会更加丰富，这对我来说显然非常真实，我用这种方式释放了几种激情 (没有一种是工作) ，我的生活因此变得更好。
你所尝试的很多新东西都不会引起你的共鸣，但有些东西会，如果你至少尝试过一些东西，然后再抛弃它，你的生活会更加丰富，这对我来说显然非常真实，我用这种方式释放了几种激情 (没有一种是工作) ，我的生活因此变得更好。
你所发现的激情可能是某种职业，但它当然不一定是ーー它可能只是你真正感兴趣的东西，你很乐意投入其中，无需注意时间的流逝，就能快乐地投入数小时。这是我能想到的对“激情”最好的定义。
我给你提个建议，上 YouTube 搜下“蒂姆 · 明钦的毕业典礼”这个视频，这是喜剧演员蒂姆 · 明钦几年前在西澳大利亚大学毕业典礼上发表的一个十分钟的演讲，他对过上充实的生活这一主题有一些非常精彩的说法，最后所做的总结也非常的棒。
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我给你提个建议，上 YouTube 搜下“蒂姆 · 明钦的毕业典礼”这个视频，这是喜剧演员蒂姆 · 明钦几年前在西澳大利亚大学毕业典礼上发表的一个十分钟的演讲，他对过上充实的生活这一主题有一些非常精彩的说法，最后所做的总结也非常的棒。
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Sharanjeet Sandhu
"Follow your passion" has become a well-worn phrase these days. It feels like your life is waste if you don't know what your passion is, when all you can see around on social media is people posting their journey towards their goals with all the cool hashtags. It makes you want to do something different than what you have been doing all these years.
I know of so many people who are bored of their 9–5 jobs and want to do something different. Some who have quit their job in pursuit of their passion. Some have been successful, others are still struggling. Finding passion is an issue for everyone these days, for those who are just starting their career journey, as well as for those who are stuck in jobs that they don't enjoy.
But one thing that I observe people doing these days is considering passion a way of earning money. They look at 9–5 job as something worthless. Something that prevents them from fulfilling their passion. I do believe in passion but I also believe that passion is not only limited to your job profile. Passion is beyond this race of cool hashtags and proving to be more successful than others. It's about your inner happiness, when you're at peace with your mind and body, your life, the people around you. It's a lot more.
Passion is not always about making more money, leading an enviable life. I If you're among those people who feel that you should find a passion that makes you earn more money than you're earning right now, then can you make sure it will remain your passion forever? What if you're bored a few years down the line, and you want to pursue another passion. Passion is not about money, its about inner peace. Something that can allow you to be yourself even when the world is crashing. Something that can make you smile even in the darkest times. Something that you want to do happily anytime.
"追随你的激情 "如今已成为一句老生常谈的话，如果你不知道自己的激情所在，那么你的生活就是一种浪费，你在社交媒体上看到的都是人们用各种很酷的标签发布他们通往目标的旅程，这让你想做一些与你这些年一直在做的事情不同的事情。
我知道有很多人厌倦了朝九晚五的工作，想做点不一样的事情，有些人为了追求自己的激情而辞去工作，有些人成功了，有些人还在挣扎，如今，如今，对于那些刚刚开始职业生涯的人，以及那些被困在自己不喜欢的工作中的人来说，找到激情是每个人都面临的问题。
但是，我观察到现在人们在做的是，将激情视为一种赚钱的方式，他们把朝九晚五的工作看成是毫无价值的东西，阻止他们实现自己的激情，我确实相信激情，但我也相信，激情不仅仅局限于你的工作内容，激情超越了这种酷炫的标签式比拼和证明自己比别人更成功，激情在于你内心的幸福，尤其当你与你的身心、你的生活、你周围的人和谐相处时，它还有很多内容。
激情并不总是关于赚更多的钱，过一种令人羡慕的生活，如果你属于那种认为你应该找到一种能让你赚到比现在更多钱的激情的人之一，那么请问你能确保它永远是你的激情所在吗？如果几年后你觉得无聊，想追求另一种激情，怎么办？激情不是关于钱的，而是关于内心的平静，一些能让你做自己的东西，即使世界崩溃，即使在最黑暗的时候也能让你微笑的事情，一些你随时都想快乐地做的事情。
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"Follow your passion" has become a well-worn phrase these days. It feels like your life is waste if you don't know what your passion is, when all you can see around on social media is people posting their journey towards their goals with all the cool hashtags. It makes you want to do something different than what you have been doing all these years.
I know of so many people who are bored of their 9–5 jobs and want to do something different. Some who have quit their job in pursuit of their passion. Some have been successful, others are still struggling. Finding passion is an issue for everyone these days, for those who are just starting their career journey, as well as for those who are stuck in jobs that they don't enjoy.
But one thing that I observe people doing these days is considering passion a way of earning money. They look at 9–5 job as something worthless. Something that prevents them from fulfilling their passion. I do believe in passion but I also believe that passion is not only limited to your job profile. Passion is beyond this race of cool hashtags and proving to be more successful than others. It's about your inner happiness, when you're at peace with your mind and body, your life, the people around you. It's a lot more.
Passion is not always about making more money, leading an enviable life. I If you're among those people who feel that you should find a passion that makes you earn more money than you're earning right now, then can you make sure it will remain your passion forever? What if you're bored a few years down the line, and you want to pursue another passion. Passion is not about money, its about inner peace. Something that can allow you to be yourself even when the world is crashing. Something that can make you smile even in the darkest times. Something that you want to do happily anytime.
"追随你的激情 "如今已成为一句老生常谈的话，如果你不知道自己的激情所在，那么你的生活就是一种浪费，你在社交媒体上看到的都是人们用各种很酷的标签发布他们通往目标的旅程，这让你想做一些与你这些年一直在做的事情不同的事情。
我知道有很多人厌倦了朝九晚五的工作，想做点不一样的事情，有些人为了追求自己的激情而辞去工作，有些人成功了，有些人还在挣扎，如今，如今，对于那些刚刚开始职业生涯的人，以及那些被困在自己不喜欢的工作中的人来说，找到激情是每个人都面临的问题。
但是，我观察到现在人们在做的是，将激情视为一种赚钱的方式，他们把朝九晚五的工作看成是毫无价值的东西，阻止他们实现自己的激情，我确实相信激情，但我也相信，激情不仅仅局限于你的工作内容，激情超越了这种酷炫的标签式比拼和证明自己比别人更成功，激情在于你内心的幸福，尤其当你与你的身心、你的生活、你周围的人和谐相处时，它还有很多内容。
激情并不总是关于赚更多的钱，过一种令人羡慕的生活，如果你属于那种认为你应该找到一种能让你赚到比现在更多钱的激情的人之一，那么请问你能确保它永远是你的激情所在吗？如果几年后你觉得无聊，想追求另一种激情，怎么办？激情不是关于钱的，而是关于内心的平静，一些能让你做自己的东西，即使世界崩溃，即使在最黑暗的时候也能让你微笑的事情，一些你随时都想快乐地做的事情。
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I know some people have interests that pay off their bills as well. But this is not always the case. What about the people who work in community centers, NGOs that don't make them famous and don't give them a lot of money. Are you going to say that they're not passionate enough?
If you are sure that for you finding passion is not about more money, but about adding purpose to your life, then look within yourself. Ask yourself, what is it that you can keep doing rest of your life and not get bored. What are the things that make you happy even if you don't earn so much fame and money. Will it make you at peace. Is it something that you always wanted to do as a child, or is it something that you’ve observed recently and want to follow it.
It doesn't matter if you're not good at it. If you're ambitious enough to keep up with your whole life, then you can definitely try to be good at it. This shouldn’t stop you. You need to face your fear and be transparent with yourself. Because pursuing passion is about you, it's not for the sake of others. I know, this isn’t going to come automatically, you need to think deeply about it. Spare sometime in your everyday life to think about it. Who knows you will find your passion or you may even realize that where your life is taking you is where you actually wanted to be. May be you were just lost and life has taken you on the right path.
I really hope you do find your passion. Its there in you, you just need to keep looking.
我知道有些人有兴趣，也能付清账单，但情况并非总是如此，那些在社区中心、非政府组织工作的人呢，这样的事不会让他们出名，也不会给他们带来多少钱，但你会说他们不够激情吗？
如果你确定对你来说，寻找激情不是为了更多的钱，而是为了给你的生活增加目标，那么就看看自己的内心，问问自己，什么是你可以在余生中一直做而不感到厌倦的事情，哪些事情能让你快乐，即使你不会因此赚取多少金钱，收获多少名声，它是否会让你感到平静，它是你小时候一直想做的事情，还是你最近观察到的并想去做的事。
如果你不擅长，这并不重要，如果你有足够的雄心壮志，可以坚持一辈子，那么你肯定可以去尝试，去擅长它，这不应该阻止你。你需要面对你的恐惧，对自己坦诚，因为追求激情是为了你自己，而不是为了别人，我知道，这不会自动出现，这需要深入地思考，在你的日常生活中抽出一些时间来思考这个问题，说不行你就能找到你的激情所在，或者你可能意识到你的生活正带你到一个你真正想去的地方——也许你只是迷失了方向，而生活却把你带到了正确的道路上。
我真心希望你能找到你的激情——它就在你心里，你只需要继续寻找。
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If you are sure that for you finding passion is not about more money, but about adding purpose to your life, then look within yourself. Ask yourself, what is it that you can keep doing rest of your life and not get bored. What are the things that make you happy even if you don't earn so much fame and money. Will it make you at peace. Is it something that you always wanted to do as a child, or is it something that you’ve observed recently and want to follow it.
It doesn't matter if you're not good at it. If you're ambitious enough to keep up with your whole life, then you can definitely try to be good at it. This shouldn’t stop you. You need to face your fear and be transparent with yourself. Because pursuing passion is about you, it's not for the sake of others. I know, this isn’t going to come automatically, you need to think deeply about it. Spare sometime in your everyday life to think about it. Who knows you will find your passion or you may even realize that where your life is taking you is where you actually wanted to be. May be you were just lost and life has taken you on the right path.
I really hope you do find your passion. Its there in you, you just need to keep looking.
我知道有些人有兴趣，也能付清账单，但情况并非总是如此，那些在社区中心、非政府组织工作的人呢，这样的事不会让他们出名，也不会给他们带来多少钱，但你会说他们不够激情吗？
如果你确定对你来说，寻找激情不是为了更多的钱，而是为了给你的生活增加目标，那么就看看自己的内心，问问自己，什么是你可以在余生中一直做而不感到厌倦的事情，哪些事情能让你快乐，即使你不会因此赚取多少金钱，收获多少名声，它是否会让你感到平静，它是你小时候一直想做的事情，还是你最近观察到的并想去做的事。
如果你不擅长，这并不重要，如果你有足够的雄心壮志，可以坚持一辈子，那么你肯定可以去尝试，去擅长它，这不应该阻止你。你需要面对你的恐惧，对自己坦诚，因为追求激情是为了你自己，而不是为了别人，我知道，这不会自动出现，这需要深入地思考，在你的日常生活中抽出一些时间来思考这个问题，说不行你就能找到你的激情所在，或者你可能意识到你的生活正带你到一个你真正想去的地方——也许你只是迷失了方向，而生活却把你带到了正确的道路上。
我真心希望你能找到你的激情——它就在你心里，你只需要继续寻找。
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Anjali Chaurasia
Passion.?
On an average how many have discovered the answer to this early and at the right time.?
A very few.Yes just a few people around us. It's okay that some are willing to earn their living no matter how difficult their path is while rest of us choose comfort and certified path to live their life upon.Their only motive is to earn money well no matter what work has been assigned to them.Money is the ultimate motivation.
Trust the fact that some figure's it out early in their life while some takes too longer than expected.
Be hopeful!
As of now,you have to decide what category you fit in. Is it doing what you love or it's just the motive of earning income well through a common well known path.
What is it what matters to you the most.?
You are well and truly capable of living of your choice.
If you Do or you Don't that's upto You!
Take your time,work on thing's you have been once excited for.
激情 ?
平均而言，有多少人在早期和正确的时间发现了这个问题的答案？
很少，是的，我们身边只有少数几个人能找到答案，有些人不管生活道路有多困难都愿意自己谋生，而我们其他人选择舒适和经过验证的道路来生活，不管分配给他们什么工作，他们唯一的动机就是好好赚钱，金钱是终极动力。
要相信这样一个事实：有些人在人生早期就明白了，而有些人花的时间比预期的要长。
要有希望！
到现在为止，你必须决定你属于哪一类，是做你喜欢的事，还是只是通过一个常见的众所周知的途径来赚取收入的动机。
对你来说最重要的是什么？
你完全有能力很好地、真正地能够按照你的选择生活。
你做或不做，都取决于你！
慢慢来，在你曾为之兴奋的事情上努力。
Passion.?
On an average how many have discovered the answer to this early and at the right time.?
A very few.Yes just a few people around us. It's okay that some are willing to earn their living no matter how difficult their path is while rest of us choose comfort and certified path to live their life upon.Their only motive is to earn money well no matter what work has been assigned to them.Money is the ultimate motivation.
Trust the fact that some figure's it out early in their life while some takes too longer than expected.
Be hopeful!
As of now,you have to decide what category you fit in. Is it doing what you love or it's just the motive of earning income well through a common well known path.
What is it what matters to you the most.?
You are well and truly capable of living of your choice.
If you Do or you Don't that's upto You!
Take your time,work on thing's you have been once excited for.
激情 ?
平均而言，有多少人在早期和正确的时间发现了这个问题的答案？
很少，是的，我们身边只有少数几个人能找到答案，有些人不管生活道路有多困难都愿意自己谋生，而我们其他人选择舒适和经过验证的道路来生活，不管分配给他们什么工作，他们唯一的动机就是好好赚钱，金钱是终极动力。
要相信这样一个事实：有些人在人生早期就明白了，而有些人花的时间比预期的要长。
要有希望！
到现在为止，你必须决定你属于哪一类，是做你喜欢的事，还是只是通过一个常见的众所周知的途径来赚取收入的动机。
对你来说最重要的是什么？
你完全有能力很好地、真正地能够按照你的选择生活。
你做或不做，都取决于你！
慢慢来，在你曾为之兴奋的事情上努力。
Ask Yourself. Am I happy with my life exactly as it is now.? Am I happy staying where I am? If you don't like the answer.Get to Work.Start writing all of your interests on a paper,do it practically,keep reviewing it and if you feel happy and excited of what ever your doing you are soon gonna figure out the work you love.
I have come across people who are passionate enough to take a lot of risks before they made it to big and other's who aren't are still struggling with their daily monotonous routine.
Aahaa,let me tell you my story.I am in my 20's.I am pursuing Hotel Management and I have a least interest in it.
What do you think has led me into this situation.?
A WRONG DECISION.
Why is it so difficult to find the purpose of your life.?
问问自己，我对我现在的生活满意吗？我对留在原地感到高兴吗？如果你不喜欢这个答案，那就开始动起来吧！开始在纸上写下你所有的兴趣爱好，切实地去做，不断地回顾，如果你对你所做的事情感到高兴和兴奋，你很快就会找到你喜欢的工作。
我曾遇到过这样的人，他们有足够的激情，在成功之前冒了很多风险，而另一些人则没有，他们仍然在每天单调的工作中挣扎。
啊哈，让我告诉你我的故事，我现在20多岁，我正在学习酒店管理，我对它没有一点兴趣。
你认为是什么使我陷入这种境地？
一个错误的决定。
为什么找到自己的人生目标如此困难？
I have come across people who are passionate enough to take a lot of risks before they made it to big and other's who aren't are still struggling with their daily monotonous routine.
Aahaa,let me tell you my story.I am in my 20's.I am pursuing Hotel Management and I have a least interest in it.
What do you think has led me into this situation.?
A WRONG DECISION.
Why is it so difficult to find the purpose of your life.?
问问自己，我对我现在的生活满意吗？我对留在原地感到高兴吗？如果你不喜欢这个答案，那就开始动起来吧！开始在纸上写下你所有的兴趣爱好，切实地去做，不断地回顾，如果你对你所做的事情感到高兴和兴奋，你很快就会找到你喜欢的工作。
我曾遇到过这样的人，他们有足够的激情，在成功之前冒了很多风险，而另一些人则没有，他们仍然在每天单调的工作中挣扎。
啊哈，让我告诉你我的故事，我现在20多岁，我正在学习酒店管理，我对它没有一点兴趣。
你认为是什么使我陷入这种境地？
一个错误的决定。
为什么找到自己的人生目标如此困难？
After stepping out of school I had no Idea what to do with my life.Though I had a lot of interests like Paintings,Speaking,Helping and But I had no idea of how to make that as my profession which earns me well.
So whatever just came in my way,I grabbed it thinking I will figure out something in the course of 3 year's of what I am really gonna do in my life.
Now I am in my final year of graduation still hustling with my life figuring out of what I actually like and will love and continue doing it for the rest of my life.
For months now,I have been working on so many interests of mine to see which excites me a lot.Believe me,finding once so called passion is so soo difficult and frustrating.Our interests fluctuates more than the weather out there.
I have been watching a lot of YouTube video's,reading a bunch of article's on internet.And trust me the more I read and watch the more I become confused.Hell,yaa it's a tough time for me now.
P.S- Since I have spent so much alone time with me figuring out thing's I actually love doing I have so far succeeded in just minimalising my bunch of interests to 3–4 from more than 15+ list.
Hope life reverts back to me with a positive note!
虽然我有很多兴趣，比如绘画、演讲、帮助别人，但我不知道如何让这些成为我的职业，让我赚到钱。
因此，无论什么东西出现在我面前，我都会抓住它，认为我会在3年的时间里弄清楚我的生活中真正要做的事情。
现在我已经是即将毕业的最后一年了，我仍然在为我的生活忙碌着，想知道我到底喜欢什么，会喜欢什么，并在我的余生中继续做下去。
几个月来，我一直在研究我的众多兴趣，看看哪一个让我很兴奋，相信我，找到一次所谓的激情是如此困难和令人沮丧。
我一直在看很多YouTube视频，在网上读了很多文章，相信我，我读得越多，看得越多，我就越困惑。
PS：由于我花了这么多时间独自思考，找出我真正喜欢做的事情，到目前为止，我已经成功地将我的一堆兴趣从15个以上减至3-4个。
希望生活能以积极的方式回到我身边！
So whatever just came in my way,I grabbed it thinking I will figure out something in the course of 3 year's of what I am really gonna do in my life.
Now I am in my final year of graduation still hustling with my life figuring out of what I actually like and will love and continue doing it for the rest of my life.
For months now,I have been working on so many interests of mine to see which excites me a lot.Believe me,finding once so called passion is so soo difficult and frustrating.Our interests fluctuates more than the weather out there.
I have been watching a lot of YouTube video's,reading a bunch of article's on internet.And trust me the more I read and watch the more I become confused.Hell,yaa it's a tough time for me now.
P.S- Since I have spent so much alone time with me figuring out thing's I actually love doing I have so far succeeded in just minimalising my bunch of interests to 3–4 from more than 15+ list.
Hope life reverts back to me with a positive note!
虽然我有很多兴趣，比如绘画、演讲、帮助别人，但我不知道如何让这些成为我的职业，让我赚到钱。
因此，无论什么东西出现在我面前，我都会抓住它，认为我会在3年的时间里弄清楚我的生活中真正要做的事情。
现在我已经是即将毕业的最后一年了，我仍然在为我的生活忙碌着，想知道我到底喜欢什么，会喜欢什么，并在我的余生中继续做下去。
几个月来，我一直在研究我的众多兴趣，看看哪一个让我很兴奋，相信我，找到一次所谓的激情是如此困难和令人沮丧。
我一直在看很多YouTube视频，在网上读了很多文章，相信我，我读得越多，看得越多，我就越困惑。
PS：由于我花了这么多时间独自思考，找出我真正喜欢做的事情，到目前为止，我已经成功地将我的一堆兴趣从15个以上减至3-4个。
希望生活能以积极的方式回到我身边！
Vivek Slaria
This is a tough question and int he process, i ended up starting my own firm (www....).
First why do we feel lost:
Essentially because the society forces upon us a model of success that is some one else's creation. So there is a certain definition of success and failure, of right and wrong. This forces us to live a life of some one else's creation and not our own. Hence even when you get all that is considered success in traditional definition, a feeling of emptiness remains inside.
What can we do about it:
Know that it is OK to be lost and that in itself is a progress forward. At least you are not living in a false, artificially created world of others. It now gives you the power to create your own.
Second, get back in touch with yourself. I have personally found mediation to be a great tool for this. An other alternate may be to break free from your immediate environment. Travel is a great tool to achieve this. Take a sabbatial, travel for six months and let the world come to you. Be carefull that you do not carry your existing world with you in your travels for example live only in resorts or in luxury, instead be earthed and stay close to ground. You may also choose to be close to nature, that allows the natural rythmn of universe to come to you. Read, read read....It helps open you to a whole new world out there. Remeber you dont open a book, you open a mnd.
If all else fails, get a drink and remember this to shall pass :)
这是一个艰难的问题，在这个过程中，我最终创办了自己的公司( www.xxx..) 。
首先，我们为什么感到迷茫：
本质上是因为社会强迫我们接受一种成功的模式，而这种模式是由其他人创造的，所以成功和失败，对与错，都有一个确定的定义，这迫使我们过着别人创造的生活，而不是我们自己的，因此，即使你得到了传统意义上的成功，内心仍然存在着一种空虚感。
我们能做些什么：
要知道，迷茫也是可以接受的，迷茫本身就是一种进步，至少你没有生活在一个虚假的、人为创造的他人的世界里，它现在给了你创造自己的力量。
第二，重新和自我联系
我个人认为，调解是解决这个问题的一个很好的工具，另一个替代方法是从你所处的环境中解放出来，旅行是实现这一目标的一个很好的工具，利用休假时间，旅行个半年时间，让世界来到你身边，小心不要在旅途中带入你现有的世界，例如住宿就一定要接地气，而不是非要在度假村或某些奢华的地方，你也可以选择接近大自然，让宇宙的自然律动来到你身边。另外，阅读，阅读，阅读...它可以帮助你打开一个全新的世界，记住不要只是打开一本书，而要打开思想。
如果这些都失败了，那就喝上一杯，记住这一切都将过去 : )
This is a tough question and int he process, i ended up starting my own firm (www....).
First why do we feel lost:
Essentially because the society forces upon us a model of success that is some one else's creation. So there is a certain definition of success and failure, of right and wrong. This forces us to live a life of some one else's creation and not our own. Hence even when you get all that is considered success in traditional definition, a feeling of emptiness remains inside.
What can we do about it:
Know that it is OK to be lost and that in itself is a progress forward. At least you are not living in a false, artificially created world of others. It now gives you the power to create your own.
Second, get back in touch with yourself. I have personally found mediation to be a great tool for this. An other alternate may be to break free from your immediate environment. Travel is a great tool to achieve this. Take a sabbatial, travel for six months and let the world come to you. Be carefull that you do not carry your existing world with you in your travels for example live only in resorts or in luxury, instead be earthed and stay close to ground. You may also choose to be close to nature, that allows the natural rythmn of universe to come to you. Read, read read....It helps open you to a whole new world out there. Remeber you dont open a book, you open a mnd.
If all else fails, get a drink and remember this to shall pass :)
这是一个艰难的问题，在这个过程中，我最终创办了自己的公司( www.xxx..) 。
首先，我们为什么感到迷茫：
本质上是因为社会强迫我们接受一种成功的模式，而这种模式是由其他人创造的，所以成功和失败，对与错，都有一个确定的定义，这迫使我们过着别人创造的生活，而不是我们自己的，因此，即使你得到了传统意义上的成功，内心仍然存在着一种空虚感。
我们能做些什么：
要知道，迷茫也是可以接受的，迷茫本身就是一种进步，至少你没有生活在一个虚假的、人为创造的他人的世界里，它现在给了你创造自己的力量。
第二，重新和自我联系
我个人认为，调解是解决这个问题的一个很好的工具，另一个替代方法是从你所处的环境中解放出来，旅行是实现这一目标的一个很好的工具，利用休假时间，旅行个半年时间，让世界来到你身边，小心不要在旅途中带入你现有的世界，例如住宿就一定要接地气，而不是非要在度假村或某些奢华的地方，你也可以选择接近大自然，让宇宙的自然律动来到你身边。另外，阅读，阅读，阅读...它可以帮助你打开一个全新的世界，记住不要只是打开一本书，而要打开思想。
如果这些都失败了，那就喝上一杯，记住这一切都将过去 : )
Jordan Allen
Passion is a funny thing.
It seems that people too often to look for their passion as if it is hidden deep in the jungles of South America, instead of finding passion in what it is that they do.
My brother is an electrician and has been for over 15 years. I guarantee electricity is not his passion. But there is pride and passion in what he does. He takes his work seriously, takes pride in doing work well, and never complains about what he's doing.
He never talks about how he hasn't found what he’d love to do with his life because he puts love into what he does in his life.
He is passionate about side projects that he helps our family with for no reward aside from a “thank you” and dinner.
He's passionate about his dog, raising his kids right, putting pride into his work and spending time with his family. He's passionate about concepts and ideals he believes in.
All too often we worry about not getting certain things out of life:
Passion for our work
Love from people around us
Value from our interactions with others
But we forget to give and put out there what we hope to receive. We don't put passion into what we do or show love for those around us or bring value to the people we interact with.
I certainly don't have life figured out yet, but if there's one thing I've seen time and time again, it's that the people who genuinely put passion into what they do and bring love to the people they interact with always receive it back tenfold.
激情是一个有趣的东西。
人们似乎太过频繁地寻找他们的激情，仿佛它深藏在南美洲的丛林中，而不是在他们所做的事情中去找到激情。
我哥是一名电工，干了15年多了，我敢肯定做电工不是他的激情所在，但是他对自己的工作充满了自豪和激情，他认真对待自己的工作，以做好工作为荣，而且从不抱怨自己的工作。
他从不谈论有没有找到他喜欢的生活方式，因为他把爱投入到他生活中的一切。
他热衷于帮助我们全家的副业，除了一句 "谢谢 "和一顿晚餐之外，他没有任何回报。
他对他的狗充满热情，正确地抚养他的孩子，为他的工作感到自豪，并花时间与他的家人在一起，他对他所相信的概念和理想充满激情。
我们常常担心无法从生活中获得某些东西：
对工作的激情
我们身边人的爱
我们与他人的互动中获得的价值
但我们忘记了付出，只希望得到想要东西，我们没有把激情投入到我们的工作中，也没有对我们周围的人表现出爱，也没有给我们交往的人带来价值。
我的人生我还没想好，但有一件事我一再看到，那就是，那些真正对自己的工作投入激情，并把爱带给与自己交往的人的人，总是能得到十倍的回报。
Passion is a funny thing.
It seems that people too often to look for their passion as if it is hidden deep in the jungles of South America, instead of finding passion in what it is that they do.
My brother is an electrician and has been for over 15 years. I guarantee electricity is not his passion. But there is pride and passion in what he does. He takes his work seriously, takes pride in doing work well, and never complains about what he's doing.
He never talks about how he hasn't found what he’d love to do with his life because he puts love into what he does in his life.
He is passionate about side projects that he helps our family with for no reward aside from a “thank you” and dinner.
He's passionate about his dog, raising his kids right, putting pride into his work and spending time with his family. He's passionate about concepts and ideals he believes in.
All too often we worry about not getting certain things out of life:
Passion for our work
Love from people around us
Value from our interactions with others
But we forget to give and put out there what we hope to receive. We don't put passion into what we do or show love for those around us or bring value to the people we interact with.
I certainly don't have life figured out yet, but if there's one thing I've seen time and time again, it's that the people who genuinely put passion into what they do and bring love to the people they interact with always receive it back tenfold.
激情是一个有趣的东西。
人们似乎太过频繁地寻找他们的激情，仿佛它深藏在南美洲的丛林中，而不是在他们所做的事情中去找到激情。
我哥是一名电工，干了15年多了，我敢肯定做电工不是他的激情所在，但是他对自己的工作充满了自豪和激情，他认真对待自己的工作，以做好工作为荣，而且从不抱怨自己的工作。
他从不谈论有没有找到他喜欢的生活方式，因为他把爱投入到他生活中的一切。
他热衷于帮助我们全家的副业，除了一句 "谢谢 "和一顿晚餐之外，他没有任何回报。
他对他的狗充满热情，正确地抚养他的孩子，为他的工作感到自豪，并花时间与他的家人在一起，他对他所相信的概念和理想充满激情。
我们常常担心无法从生活中获得某些东西：
对工作的激情
我们身边人的爱
我们与他人的互动中获得的价值
但我们忘记了付出，只希望得到想要东西，我们没有把激情投入到我们的工作中，也没有对我们周围的人表现出爱，也没有给我们交往的人带来价值。
我的人生我还没想好，但有一件事我一再看到，那就是，那些真正对自己的工作投入激情，并把爱带给与自己交往的人的人，总是能得到十倍的回报。
Anubhav Jain
Either you are born with passion, or you create passion.
Some people are born loving certain things; they have inherent and inborn abilities to perform in the field.
While most people are born normal, to live a simple life dedicated to every ordinary thing.
If you want to have a passion in life which becomes your support system or charm, which you can look upon each day, you need to create it.
Each one of us has specific interests, explore them, find the one which fascinates you the most, get deep inside it.
If you like eating, learn cooking, then practice preparing innovative dishes, learn more, start a youtube channel.
If you like reading, start writing, write more, improve, publish books, write articles.
If you like studies, pick the subject which interests you, do a doctorate in it, do research.
If music fascinates you, learn music, learn to play instruments, practise playing them, start a channel, or join groups, or teach.
If you like driving, join driving enthusiasts, go on long drives, participate in competitions.
I can give countless more examples.
Age and qualifications are no bar; you can start at sixteen or sixty or even later than that.
要么你生来就充满激情，要么你就创造激情。
有些人生来就热爱某些事情；他们有与生俱来、天生就有能力混某一领域。
而大多数人生来平凡，过着简单的生活，致力于每一件平凡的事情。
如果你想在生活中拥有一种激情，这种激情可以成为你的支持系统或魅力，让你可以每天看着它，你就需要创造它。
我们每个人都有特定的兴趣，探索它们，找到最吸引你的那个，深入其中。
如果你喜欢吃，就学烹饪，然后练习准备创新的菜肴，学习更多，开始搞一个Youtube频道。
如果你喜欢阅读，就开始写作，多写，改进，出版书籍，写文章。
如果你喜欢研究，就选择你感兴趣的主题，读博士，做研究。
如果音乐让你着迷，就学习音乐，学习演奏乐器，练习演奏，开设频道，或加入团体，或教学。
如果你喜欢驾驶，就加入驾驶爱好者俱乐部，去长途驾驶，去参加比赛。
我还可以举出无数的例子。
年龄和资历都不是障碍，无论是16岁还是60岁，你都可以开始，甚至可以比这更晚。
原创翻译：龙腾网 https://www.ltaaa.cn 转载请注明出处
Either you are born with passion, or you create passion.
Some people are born loving certain things; they have inherent and inborn abilities to perform in the field.
While most people are born normal, to live a simple life dedicated to every ordinary thing.
If you want to have a passion in life which becomes your support system or charm, which you can look upon each day, you need to create it.
Each one of us has specific interests, explore them, find the one which fascinates you the most, get deep inside it.
If you like eating, learn cooking, then practice preparing innovative dishes, learn more, start a youtube channel.
If you like reading, start writing, write more, improve, publish books, write articles.
If you like studies, pick the subject which interests you, do a doctorate in it, do research.
If music fascinates you, learn music, learn to play instruments, practise playing them, start a channel, or join groups, or teach.
If you like driving, join driving enthusiasts, go on long drives, participate in competitions.
I can give countless more examples.
Age and qualifications are no bar; you can start at sixteen or sixty or even later than that.
要么你生来就充满激情，要么你就创造激情。
有些人生来就热爱某些事情；他们有与生俱来、天生就有能力混某一领域。
而大多数人生来平凡，过着简单的生活，致力于每一件平凡的事情。
如果你想在生活中拥有一种激情，这种激情可以成为你的支持系统或魅力，让你可以每天看着它，你就需要创造它。
我们每个人都有特定的兴趣，探索它们，找到最吸引你的那个，深入其中。
如果你喜欢吃，就学烹饪，然后练习准备创新的菜肴，学习更多，开始搞一个Youtube频道。
如果你喜欢阅读，就开始写作，多写，改进，出版书籍，写文章。
如果你喜欢研究，就选择你感兴趣的主题，读博士，做研究。
如果音乐让你着迷，就学习音乐，学习演奏乐器，练习演奏，开设频道，或加入团体，或教学。
如果你喜欢驾驶，就加入驾驶爱好者俱乐部，去长途驾驶，去参加比赛。
我还可以举出无数的例子。
年龄和资历都不是障碍，无论是16岁还是60岁，你都可以开始，甚至可以比这更晚。
原创翻译：龙腾网 https://www.ltaaa.cn 转载请注明出处
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