如果你没有结婚，没有孩子，生活的意义是什么？
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What is the point of life, if you are not married and do not have children?
如果你没有结婚，没有孩子，生活的意义是什么？
What is the point of life, if you are not married and do not have children?
如果你没有结婚，没有孩子，生活的意义是什么？
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Desmond Delce, MBA from University of Hawaii at Manoa (2017)
You could make the argument that the only reason humans are around are to procreate to pass on DNA to the next generation.
There are people (I am one of them) that believes life can and does have different meaning to different people.
You can live a successful life without being married or not having children.
The meaning of life really comes down to the individual and what they value.
It could be having a certain career, making a certain amount of money, being praised for doing something good, etc.
In the end, our time on earth is limited and gone in a blx of an eye. I don’t think we should care what others think of us especially whether we are single or have kids. It’s a waste of precious time.
你可能会说人类存在的唯一原因就是繁衍后代, 把DNA传给下一代。
有些人 (我就是其中之一) 相信生活对不同的人有不同的意义。
你可以在没有结婚或没有孩子的情况下过着成功的生活。
生命的意义实际上取决于个人及其价值。
它可以是有一个特定的职业，赚一定的钱，因为做了好事而被表扬，等等。
最后，我们在地球上的时间是有限的，我们转眼之间就消失了。我认为我们不应该在意别人对我们的看法，尤其是我们是单身还是有孩子。这是浪费宝贵的时间。
You could make the argument that the only reason humans are around are to procreate to pass on DNA to the next generation.
There are people (I am one of them) that believes life can and does have different meaning to different people.
You can live a successful life without being married or not having children.
The meaning of life really comes down to the individual and what they value.
It could be having a certain career, making a certain amount of money, being praised for doing something good, etc.
In the end, our time on earth is limited and gone in a blx of an eye. I don’t think we should care what others think of us especially whether we are single or have kids. It’s a waste of precious time.
你可能会说人类存在的唯一原因就是繁衍后代, 把DNA传给下一代。
有些人 (我就是其中之一) 相信生活对不同的人有不同的意义。
你可以在没有结婚或没有孩子的情况下过着成功的生活。
生命的意义实际上取决于个人及其价值。
它可以是有一个特定的职业，赚一定的钱，因为做了好事而被表扬，等等。
最后，我们在地球上的时间是有限的，我们转眼之间就消失了。我认为我们不应该在意别人对我们的看法，尤其是我们是单身还是有孩子。这是浪费宝贵的时间。
Jeff Edwards, Extrovert married to an introvert.
Which of the following is pointless if you don’t have children?
Finding the cure for a crippling disease.
Writing a brilliant novel.
Painting a masterpiece that will outlast you by centuries.
Touching the lives of other people.
Exploring and enjoying the wonder of existence.
Louis Braille invented the tactile alphabet that has enabled generations of blind people to read. He never married and had children. Are we supposed to accept that his life had no point?
Reproduction is part of life. It is not the purpose of life.
如果你没有孩子，下面哪个选项是无意义的?
寻找一种致残疾病的治疗方法。
写一部精彩的小说。
画一幅比你的寿命长几个世纪的杰作。
影响别人的生活。
探索和享受存在的奇迹。
路易斯·布莱叶发明了触觉字母表，使几代盲人能够阅读。他从未结婚，也没有孩子。我们应该认为他的生命毫无意义吗？
繁殖是生命的一部分。这不是生活的目的。
Which of the following is pointless if you don’t have children?
Finding the cure for a crippling disease.
Writing a brilliant novel.
Painting a masterpiece that will outlast you by centuries.
Touching the lives of other people.
Exploring and enjoying the wonder of existence.
Louis Braille invented the tactile alphabet that has enabled generations of blind people to read. He never married and had children. Are we supposed to accept that his life had no point?
Reproduction is part of life. It is not the purpose of life.
如果你没有孩子，下面哪个选项是无意义的?
寻找一种致残疾病的治疗方法。
写一部精彩的小说。
画一幅比你的寿命长几个世纪的杰作。
影响别人的生活。
探索和享受存在的奇迹。
路易斯·布莱叶发明了触觉字母表，使几代盲人能够阅读。他从未结婚，也没有孩子。我们应该认为他的生命毫无意义吗？
繁殖是生命的一部分。这不是生活的目的。
Jennifer Ogletree, Multi-faceted Manager (2017-present)
I am trying to think the best way to tackle this question. I am unmarried and childless and my life has purpose. You can't use others to justify your own life. I have passions in my life that I love dearly. I have friends and family that keep me busy. I travel and spend time fostering different hobbies and such.
Life is what you make it, but you don't have to have any certain thing to make you happy.
我正在努力思考解决这个问题的最佳方法。我未婚，没有孩子，我有生活目标。你不能用别人来证明你自己的生活。我对生活充满激情。我的朋友和家人让我很忙。我旅行，花时间培养不同的爱好等等。
生活是由你自己创造的，但你不需要有什么特定的东西让你快乐。
I am trying to think the best way to tackle this question. I am unmarried and childless and my life has purpose. You can't use others to justify your own life. I have passions in my life that I love dearly. I have friends and family that keep me busy. I travel and spend time fostering different hobbies and such.
Life is what you make it, but you don't have to have any certain thing to make you happy.
我正在努力思考解决这个问题的最佳方法。我未婚，没有孩子，我有生活目标。你不能用别人来证明你自己的生活。我对生活充满激情。我的朋友和家人让我很忙。我旅行，花时间培养不同的爱好等等。
生活是由你自己创造的，但你不需要有什么特定的东西让你快乐。
Terry Dossey, Author of Various Published Scientific Papers
In case you’ve not noticed, humanity is in trouble. Some trouble we were born into (disease, aging, natural disasters, famine, etc) but quite of a bit of the trouble we bring upon ourselves (war, poverty, murder, rape, theft, global warming, resource depletion, destruction of the environment, rising / polluted oceans, etc).
I’m a scientist. I spend my life focusing on some of those troubles, whether natural or man-made, attempting to understand them and reduce them so that the world after me is (slightly) better than the one I was born into. I work to put my little bricks of knowledge into the big wall of civilization, the wall of information, wisdom, and technology that will (hopefully) make the generations that come after mine better - just as scientists before me did. I want my little bricks to be sound so that no one has to tear down part of the wall and fix my bricks.
In 1900 the leading causes of death were influenza, diarrhea, and tuberculosis. Now it’s heart disease, cancer, and stroke. That’s serious progress because the new causes occur later in life, and they’re highly preventable / delayable by healthy diet and exercise choices, or, failing that, statins to reduce cholesterol and early treatments for cancer.
A whole lot of people gave their lives learning how to do those things so that we, their descendants, could have better, longer lives. One day, if we don’t screw it all up, there will be no disease and even death may not be inevitable.
Marriage? Kids? There’s no shortage of children, or of people. In fact there’s a huge excess of people under current conditions causing war, pollution, destruction of the environment, exhaustion of resources, famine, disease, poverty and many other severe problems.
Not only do I choose to contribute to the humanity by research, but also by not having children.
你可能没注意到，人类正陷入困境。我们生来就遇到了一些麻烦（疾病、老龄化、自然灾害、饥荒等），但我们也给自己带来了不少麻烦（战争、贫困、谋杀、强奸、盗窃、全球变暖、资源枯竭、环境破坏、海洋上升/污染等）。
我是科学家。我一生都在关注其中的一些问题，无论是自然的还是人为的，试图理解它们并减少它们，这样我身后的世界（稍微）比我出生时的世界更好。我致力于把我的知识之砖头放进文明之墙，信息、智慧和技术之墙，（希望）让我的后代变得更好——就像我之前的科学家那样。我希望我的小砖是完好的，这样就没有人需要拆掉墙的一部分来修理我的砖头。
1900年，主要死因是流感、腹泻和肺结核。现在是心脏病、癌症和中风。这是一个重大的进步，因为新的病因发生在生命的后期，通过健康的饮食和运动选择，或者通过他汀类药物降低胆固醇和癌症的早期治疗，它们是高度可预防/延迟的。
很多人为了学习如何做这些事情而献出了自己的生命，这样我们，他们的后代，就能拥有更好、更长的生命。总有一天，如果我们不把一切搞砸，就不会有疾病，甚至死亡也不是不可避免的。
结婚？孩子？这里不缺孩子，也不缺人。事实上，在目前的情况下，人口过剩造成了战争、污染、环境破坏、资源枯竭、饥荒、疾病、贫困和许多其他严重的问题。
我不仅选择通过研究为人类做出贡献，而且选择不生孩子。
In case you’ve not noticed, humanity is in trouble. Some trouble we were born into (disease, aging, natural disasters, famine, etc) but quite of a bit of the trouble we bring upon ourselves (war, poverty, murder, rape, theft, global warming, resource depletion, destruction of the environment, rising / polluted oceans, etc).
I’m a scientist. I spend my life focusing on some of those troubles, whether natural or man-made, attempting to understand them and reduce them so that the world after me is (slightly) better than the one I was born into. I work to put my little bricks of knowledge into the big wall of civilization, the wall of information, wisdom, and technology that will (hopefully) make the generations that come after mine better - just as scientists before me did. I want my little bricks to be sound so that no one has to tear down part of the wall and fix my bricks.
In 1900 the leading causes of death were influenza, diarrhea, and tuberculosis. Now it’s heart disease, cancer, and stroke. That’s serious progress because the new causes occur later in life, and they’re highly preventable / delayable by healthy diet and exercise choices, or, failing that, statins to reduce cholesterol and early treatments for cancer.
A whole lot of people gave their lives learning how to do those things so that we, their descendants, could have better, longer lives. One day, if we don’t screw it all up, there will be no disease and even death may not be inevitable.
Marriage? Kids? There’s no shortage of children, or of people. In fact there’s a huge excess of people under current conditions causing war, pollution, destruction of the environment, exhaustion of resources, famine, disease, poverty and many other severe problems.
Not only do I choose to contribute to the humanity by research, but also by not having children.
你可能没注意到，人类正陷入困境。我们生来就遇到了一些麻烦（疾病、老龄化、自然灾害、饥荒等），但我们也给自己带来了不少麻烦（战争、贫困、谋杀、强奸、盗窃、全球变暖、资源枯竭、环境破坏、海洋上升/污染等）。
我是科学家。我一生都在关注其中的一些问题，无论是自然的还是人为的，试图理解它们并减少它们，这样我身后的世界（稍微）比我出生时的世界更好。我致力于把我的知识之砖头放进文明之墙，信息、智慧和技术之墙，（希望）让我的后代变得更好——就像我之前的科学家那样。我希望我的小砖是完好的，这样就没有人需要拆掉墙的一部分来修理我的砖头。
1900年，主要死因是流感、腹泻和肺结核。现在是心脏病、癌症和中风。这是一个重大的进步，因为新的病因发生在生命的后期，通过健康的饮食和运动选择，或者通过他汀类药物降低胆固醇和癌症的早期治疗，它们是高度可预防/延迟的。
很多人为了学习如何做这些事情而献出了自己的生命，这样我们，他们的后代，就能拥有更好、更长的生命。总有一天，如果我们不把一切搞砸，就不会有疾病，甚至死亡也不是不可避免的。
结婚？孩子？这里不缺孩子，也不缺人。事实上，在目前的情况下，人口过剩造成了战争、污染、环境破坏、资源枯竭、饥荒、疾病、贫困和许多其他严重的问题。
我不仅选择通过研究为人类做出贡献，而且选择不生孩子。
Ian Morgan, Have lived an interesting, odd, and varied one.
What’s the point if life if you are married and have children? Honestly, that’s a better question. You’ve passed on your genetic material. That’s the scxted, biological imperstive that all organisms strive towards. You’re done. So why still hang around?
My point is, we create the our reasons for existing. Whether those reasons be really really complex, involved ones like a spouse and kids. Or really, really simple ones like a desire to see the next big movie.
Life is, essentially, “pointless.” You exist and then you don’t. That’s it. You’ve contributed a bit to the increase of entropy which will eventually lead to the heat death of the Universe. Beyond that, make your own point, your own reason, your own purpose.
And that’s the point of living regardless of your marital status or number of progeny. Finding a reason or reasons to keep going. It’s the ultimate scavenger hunt.
如果你结婚生子，生活又有什么意义呢？老实说，这是个更好的问题。你已经遗传了你的遗传物质。这是所有生物体都努力追求的既定的生物法则。你已经完成了。那么，为什么还要留在这里呢?
我的观点是，我们创造我们存在的理由。这些原因是否真的很复杂，比如配偶和孩子。或者是非常简单的愿望，比如想看下一部大片。
生活本质上是“毫无意义的”。你存在，然后你消失，就这样。你对熵的增加做出了一点贡献，这最终会导致宇宙的热死亡。除此之外，你要提出自己的观点，自己的理由，自己的目的。
无论你的婚姻状况或后代数量如何，这就是生活的意义所在。找到一个或多个继续下去的理由。这是终极的寻宝游戏。
What’s the point if life if you are married and have children? Honestly, that’s a better question. You’ve passed on your genetic material. That’s the scxted, biological imperstive that all organisms strive towards. You’re done. So why still hang around?
My point is, we create the our reasons for existing. Whether those reasons be really really complex, involved ones like a spouse and kids. Or really, really simple ones like a desire to see the next big movie.
Life is, essentially, “pointless.” You exist and then you don’t. That’s it. You’ve contributed a bit to the increase of entropy which will eventually lead to the heat death of the Universe. Beyond that, make your own point, your own reason, your own purpose.
And that’s the point of living regardless of your marital status or number of progeny. Finding a reason or reasons to keep going. It’s the ultimate scavenger hunt.
如果你结婚生子，生活又有什么意义呢？老实说，这是个更好的问题。你已经遗传了你的遗传物质。这是所有生物体都努力追求的既定的生物法则。你已经完成了。那么，为什么还要留在这里呢?
我的观点是，我们创造我们存在的理由。这些原因是否真的很复杂，比如配偶和孩子。或者是非常简单的愿望，比如想看下一部大片。
生活本质上是“毫无意义的”。你存在，然后你消失，就这样。你对熵的增加做出了一点贡献，这最终会导致宇宙的热死亡。除此之外，你要提出自己的观点，自己的理由，自己的目的。
无论你的婚姻状况或后代数量如何，这就是生活的意义所在。找到一个或多个继续下去的理由。这是终极的寻宝游戏。
Susan DuBray, former Developmental Service Worker (1987-2019)
Huh?? The world doesn't need more people. A wife? Why? There are many things, in life to pursue. Reproduction, isn't necessary, parenthood, can be hell! Being married, can be hell on wheels, look at marriage, and divorce statistics. The grass always looks greener, on the other side. There are tremendous pluses, to every life style. A good marriage is luck!!
嗯? 这个世界不需要更多的人。一个妻子? 为什么? 生活中有很多事情要去追求。生育，是没有必要的，为人父母，简直是地狱! 结婚，可能是地狱之轮，看看婚姻和离婚的统计数据。这山望着那山高。每种生活方式都有巨大的好处。好的婚姻是靠运气的!
Huh?? The world doesn't need more people. A wife? Why? There are many things, in life to pursue. Reproduction, isn't necessary, parenthood, can be hell! Being married, can be hell on wheels, look at marriage, and divorce statistics. The grass always looks greener, on the other side. There are tremendous pluses, to every life style. A good marriage is luck!!
嗯? 这个世界不需要更多的人。一个妻子? 为什么? 生活中有很多事情要去追求。生育，是没有必要的，为人父母，简直是地狱! 结婚，可能是地狱之轮，看看婚姻和离婚的统计数据。这山望着那山高。每种生活方式都有巨大的好处。好的婚姻是靠运气的!
Mister Clam, I'm a giant clam who lives in the deepest depths of the sea!
Whatever you want it to be. You could define your life by having a great career. Or by traveling a lot. Or fixing up a cool car. You could learn how to cook or mix drinks. You could learn anther language. Your life is literally an open highway. There’s far more to it than the traditional nuclear family. Some people believe there’s only one way to live life. They’re wrong. The sky is the limit, unless you become an astronaut…
你想你的生活怎样就怎样。你可以通过拥有伟大的事业来定义你的人生。或者经常旅行。或者修理一辆很酷的车。你可以学习如何烹饪或调酒。你可以学习另一种语言。你的生活就像一条开放的公路。这比传统的核心家庭要复杂得多。有些人认为生活只有一种方式。他们错了。天空才是极限，除非你成为一名宇航员。
Whatever you want it to be. You could define your life by having a great career. Or by traveling a lot. Or fixing up a cool car. You could learn how to cook or mix drinks. You could learn anther language. Your life is literally an open highway. There’s far more to it than the traditional nuclear family. Some people believe there’s only one way to live life. They’re wrong. The sky is the limit, unless you become an astronaut…
你想你的生活怎样就怎样。你可以通过拥有伟大的事业来定义你的人生。或者经常旅行。或者修理一辆很酷的车。你可以学习如何烹饪或调酒。你可以学习另一种语言。你的生活就像一条开放的公路。这比传统的核心家庭要复杂得多。有些人认为生活只有一种方式。他们错了。天空才是极限，除非你成为一名宇航员。
Sathish, Department Manager (2010-present)
You already answered your own question - “What is the point of life” ?
Leave the marriage bit you are referring to. But if everyone decide not to have kids because it is a inconvenience for them to live their life fully(like some modern day women / parents think that way), then life can’t thrive. In 200 years, humans will become extinct.
你已经回答了自己的问题——“生命的意义是什么”?
你是指不结婚吧。但是如果每个人都决定不要孩子，因为这对他们充实的生活来说是一种不便(就像一些现代女性/父母认为的那样)，那么生命就不会繁荣。200年后，人类将灭绝。
You already answered your own question - “What is the point of life” ?
Leave the marriage bit you are referring to. But if everyone decide not to have kids because it is a inconvenience for them to live their life fully(like some modern day women / parents think that way), then life can’t thrive. In 200 years, humans will become extinct.
你已经回答了自己的问题——“生命的意义是什么”?
你是指不结婚吧。但是如果每个人都决定不要孩子，因为这对他们充实的生活来说是一种不便(就像一些现代女性/父母认为的那样)，那么生命就不会繁荣。200年后，人类将灭绝。
Julia Esse, 9 years of parenting experience, 4 wonderful products in the making :)
Well, first, let's make sure we agree on what the point of life is when you DO have a spouse and children.
You know, many people think that marriage is about avoiding loneliness or having someone to share everything with. But we all know that we can avoid loneliness even if we're not married. Marriage really isn't about what we get, at all. It is about what we give. When we love someone we always want to lavish them with our attention, our presence, advice, help anything that will make their lives better.
With children it's similar, yes their cuteness and innocence brings so much joy, but your main concern is providing them with safety, attention, affection, education, guidance. The point is, that the meaning of these familial relationships is what they enable us to be and do for others. it is wonderful to dedicate and commit your life to a spouse and your children. it's not just about what you do, it’s about who you become by serving them. Being useful to others helps us grow and overcome our own limitations.
Love really is a strong, driving force that brings out the best in anyone.
But is it possible only in marriage? Remember, we talked about love as service, what we give, not as what we get. What stops us from loving and committing ourselves to others if we are not married? There are so many orphans. So many fatherless children, so many underprivileged children and families. So many lonely elderly. So many suffering in hospitals or shelters. So many people persecuted, endangered, ensalved. What stops us from saying: I will spend my life serving these people?
Yes, in marriage there's also romance, but that's not where the joy comes from. The joy in marriage comes from dedicating your life to something greater than yourself: the children, the community, the society, the future (as the family is the basic cell of the above).
Why not choose a cause greater than yourself and dedicate your life to it today? There will never be another day of boredom, depression or meaninglessness. There will be many hardships of course, but you will know the point!
首先，让我们确认一下，当你有配偶和孩子时，生活的意义是什么。
你知道吗，很多人认为婚姻是为了避免孤独或者有人可以分享一切。但我们都知道，即使我们没有结婚，我们也可以避免孤独。婚姻根本不在于我们得到什么，关键在于我们给予了什么。当我们爱一个人的时候，我们总是想给予他们我们的关注，我们的存在，建议，帮助，任何能让他们生活得更好的东西。
对孩子来说，这是相似的，是的，他们的可爱和天真带来了很多快乐，但你主要关心的是为他们提供安全、关注、关爱、教育和指导。关键是，这些家庭关系的意义在于它们使我们成为什么样的人，使我们能为别人做什么。把你的生命奉献给你的配偶和你的孩子是美妙的。重要的不是你做了什么，而是你通过服务他们而成为什么样的人。对别人有用能帮助我们成长，克服自己的局限。
爱真的是一种强大的驱动力，能激发出任何人最好的一面。
但这只可能发生在婚姻中吗? 记住，我们谈论的爱是服务，是我们付出的，而不是我们得到的。如果我们没有结婚，是什么阻止我们去爱和承诺别人呢? 有这么多孤儿。那么多没有父亲的孩子，那么多贫困的孩子和家庭。那么多孤独的老人。很多人在医院或收容所受苦。那么多人被迫害，被威胁，被解救。是什么阻止我们说: 我将用我的一生为这些人服务?
是的，婚姻中也有浪漫，但那不是快乐的来源。婚姻的乐趣来自于把你的生命奉献给比你自己更伟大的东西: 孩子、社区、社会、未来(因为家庭是上述这些的基本细胞)。
为什么不选择一个比你自己更伟大的事业，从今天起就为之奉献一生呢? 再也不会有无聊、沮丧或无意义的一天了。当然会有很多困难，但你会知道生活的意义
Well, first, let's make sure we agree on what the point of life is when you DO have a spouse and children.
You know, many people think that marriage is about avoiding loneliness or having someone to share everything with. But we all know that we can avoid loneliness even if we're not married. Marriage really isn't about what we get, at all. It is about what we give. When we love someone we always want to lavish them with our attention, our presence, advice, help anything that will make their lives better.
With children it's similar, yes their cuteness and innocence brings so much joy, but your main concern is providing them with safety, attention, affection, education, guidance. The point is, that the meaning of these familial relationships is what they enable us to be and do for others. it is wonderful to dedicate and commit your life to a spouse and your children. it's not just about what you do, it’s about who you become by serving them. Being useful to others helps us grow and overcome our own limitations.
Love really is a strong, driving force that brings out the best in anyone.
But is it possible only in marriage? Remember, we talked about love as service, what we give, not as what we get. What stops us from loving and committing ourselves to others if we are not married? There are so many orphans. So many fatherless children, so many underprivileged children and families. So many lonely elderly. So many suffering in hospitals or shelters. So many people persecuted, endangered, ensalved. What stops us from saying: I will spend my life serving these people?
Yes, in marriage there's also romance, but that's not where the joy comes from. The joy in marriage comes from dedicating your life to something greater than yourself: the children, the community, the society, the future (as the family is the basic cell of the above).
Why not choose a cause greater than yourself and dedicate your life to it today? There will never be another day of boredom, depression or meaninglessness. There will be many hardships of course, but you will know the point!
首先，让我们确认一下，当你有配偶和孩子时，生活的意义是什么。
你知道吗，很多人认为婚姻是为了避免孤独或者有人可以分享一切。但我们都知道，即使我们没有结婚，我们也可以避免孤独。婚姻根本不在于我们得到什么，关键在于我们给予了什么。当我们爱一个人的时候，我们总是想给予他们我们的关注，我们的存在，建议，帮助，任何能让他们生活得更好的东西。
对孩子来说，这是相似的，是的，他们的可爱和天真带来了很多快乐，但你主要关心的是为他们提供安全、关注、关爱、教育和指导。关键是，这些家庭关系的意义在于它们使我们成为什么样的人，使我们能为别人做什么。把你的生命奉献给你的配偶和你的孩子是美妙的。重要的不是你做了什么，而是你通过服务他们而成为什么样的人。对别人有用能帮助我们成长，克服自己的局限。
爱真的是一种强大的驱动力，能激发出任何人最好的一面。
但这只可能发生在婚姻中吗? 记住，我们谈论的爱是服务，是我们付出的，而不是我们得到的。如果我们没有结婚，是什么阻止我们去爱和承诺别人呢? 有这么多孤儿。那么多没有父亲的孩子，那么多贫困的孩子和家庭。那么多孤独的老人。很多人在医院或收容所受苦。那么多人被迫害，被威胁，被解救。是什么阻止我们说: 我将用我的一生为这些人服务?
是的，婚姻中也有浪漫，但那不是快乐的来源。婚姻的乐趣来自于把你的生命奉献给比你自己更伟大的东西: 孩子、社区、社会、未来(因为家庭是上述这些的基本细胞)。
为什么不选择一个比你自己更伟大的事业，从今天起就为之奉献一生呢? 再也不会有无聊、沮丧或无意义的一天了。当然会有很多困难，但你会知道生活的意义
Melissa Hoy, Been around the block a few times. Maybe I should stop turning left.
My point in life is to live life to its fullest and enjoy the ride.
So I’ve never been married. That does not mean that I have not had meaningful relationships or that I have not suffered the same heartbreak a person within a married couple can suffer or the same joy that a person within a married couple can enjoy.
So I don’t have children. Should I bring children into this world that I do not want just so I can fit a status quo? How do you think those children are treated since they are just a means to an end?
Life is to be enjoyed. Life is to be experienced. Life is to be lived. There is no one ‘right life.’ And I feel very sorry for those who think that there is because they are missing out on so much more.
我的人生目标是充分享受生活，享受生活的过程。
所以我从未结过婚。这并不意味着我没有过有意义的关系，也不意味着我没有经历过已婚夫妇中一个人会经历的心碎，也不意味着我没有经历过已婚夫妇中一个人会享受的快乐。
所以我没有孩子。我应该把我不想要的孩子带到这个世界上，只是为了适应现状吗? 你认为那些孩子是如何被对待的，因为他们只是达到目的的手段?
生活是用来享受的。生活是用来体验的。生活是要过的。没有一个人的生活是正确的。我为那些认为有这种想法的人感到非常难过，因为他们错过了太多。
My point in life is to live life to its fullest and enjoy the ride.
So I’ve never been married. That does not mean that I have not had meaningful relationships or that I have not suffered the same heartbreak a person within a married couple can suffer or the same joy that a person within a married couple can enjoy.
So I don’t have children. Should I bring children into this world that I do not want just so I can fit a status quo? How do you think those children are treated since they are just a means to an end?
Life is to be enjoyed. Life is to be experienced. Life is to be lived. There is no one ‘right life.’ And I feel very sorry for those who think that there is because they are missing out on so much more.
我的人生目标是充分享受生活，享受生活的过程。
所以我从未结过婚。这并不意味着我没有过有意义的关系，也不意味着我没有经历过已婚夫妇中一个人会经历的心碎，也不意味着我没有经历过已婚夫妇中一个人会享受的快乐。
所以我没有孩子。我应该把我不想要的孩子带到这个世界上，只是为了适应现状吗? 你认为那些孩子是如何被对待的，因为他们只是达到目的的手段?
生活是用来享受的。生活是用来体验的。生活是要过的。没有一个人的生活是正确的。我为那些认为有这种想法的人感到非常难过，因为他们错过了太多。
Savvy Noir, Aspiring Writer and Business Owner
Life is what you make it.
For many people, getting married and starting a family isn’t the end all be all.
They seek fulfillment from other avenues.
It could be their career.
Traveling.
Hobbies.
Or chosen family that consists of their most trusted friends.
If you feel marriage and children will bring you contentment, go for it!
生活是你创造的。
对许多人来说，结婚成家并不是一切的结束。
他们从其他途径寻求满足。
这可能是他们的事业。
旅行。
爱好。
或是由他们最信任的朋友组成的家庭。
如果你觉得婚姻和孩子会给你带来满足感，那就去追求它吧!
Life is what you make it.
For many people, getting married and starting a family isn’t the end all be all.
They seek fulfillment from other avenues.
It could be their career.
Traveling.
Hobbies.
Or chosen family that consists of their most trusted friends.
If you feel marriage and children will bring you contentment, go for it!
生活是你创造的。
对许多人来说，结婚成家并不是一切的结束。
他们从其他途径寻求满足。
这可能是他们的事业。
旅行。
爱好。
或是由他们最信任的朋友组成的家庭。
如果你觉得婚姻和孩子会给你带来满足感，那就去追求它吧!
Don Dougherty
Absolute fulfillment intellectually, creatively and productively.
Wife and child are optional. Perhaps nice. Perhaps deeply emotional.
But if you get your “purpose” from others then you are one of the mediocre people that make up ±90% of the population.
Sorry, but that is the truth.
在智力、创造力和生产力上的绝对满足。
妻子和孩子是可选择的。也许不错。也许是非常情绪化的。
但如果你的“目标”来自于他人，那么你就是占人口±90%的平庸者之一。
抱歉，这是事实。
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Absolute fulfillment intellectually, creatively and productively.
Wife and child are optional. Perhaps nice. Perhaps deeply emotional.
But if you get your “purpose” from others then you are one of the mediocre people that make up ±90% of the population.
Sorry, but that is the truth.
在智力、创造力和生产力上的绝对满足。
妻子和孩子是可选择的。也许不错。也许是非常情绪化的。
但如果你的“目标”来自于他人，那么你就是占人口±90%的平庸者之一。
抱歉，这是事实。
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Carol Cotton
It’s not the “children and a wife” that give life meaning—it’s the quality of the connections you make with the people in your life, no matter who they are, even if it’s just the person at the checkout counter. Many, no, I mean MANY people have abusive or indifferent mates and totally uninterested children, if they were the “answer”, it would not be so.
赋予生命意义的不是“孩子和妻子”，而是你与生活中的人建立的联系的质量，不管他们是谁，即使只是在收银台前的那个人。很多人，不，我的意思是很多人有虐待或冷漠的伴侣和完全不感兴趣的孩子，如果他们是“答案”，那就不是这样了。
It’s not the “children and a wife” that give life meaning—it’s the quality of the connections you make with the people in your life, no matter who they are, even if it’s just the person at the checkout counter. Many, no, I mean MANY people have abusive or indifferent mates and totally uninterested children, if they were the “answer”, it would not be so.
赋予生命意义的不是“孩子和妻子”，而是你与生活中的人建立的联系的质量，不管他们是谁，即使只是在收银台前的那个人。很多人，不，我的意思是很多人有虐待或冷漠的伴侣和完全不感兴趣的孩子，如果他们是“答案”，那就不是这样了。
Richard D. Faber, Married 32 years (1989-present)
I believe we have a destiny when it comes to the universe, to play our small part in making it a better place- more ordered, more predictable, and safer for life. It also includes beauty and love. Love begets more life.
我相信，在宇宙中，我们有自己的命运，我们要尽自己的一份绵薄之力，让宇宙变得更美好——更有序、更可预测、更安全。它还包括美和爱。爱带来更多的生命。
I believe we have a destiny when it comes to the universe, to play our small part in making it a better place- more ordered, more predictable, and safer for life. It also includes beauty and love. Love begets more life.
我相信，在宇宙中，我们有自己的命运，我们要尽自己的一份绵薄之力，让宇宙变得更美好——更有序、更可预测、更安全。它还包括美和爱。爱带来更多的生命。
Jeroen Jacobs, knows English
Depends who the wife is and children aren't always good either. Anyway why bother about children if having a good wife is hard enough of a challenge. In my opinion you go for “quality" or nothing at all. Just not worth it otherwise.
这取决于妻子是谁，孩子也不总是好的。不管怎么说，既然娶个好妻子已经够难的了，为什么还要操心孩子呢? 在我看来，你要么追求“质量”，要么什么都不追求。否则就不值得。
Depends who the wife is and children aren't always good either. Anyway why bother about children if having a good wife is hard enough of a challenge. In my opinion you go for “quality" or nothing at all. Just not worth it otherwise.
这取决于妻子是谁，孩子也不总是好的。不管怎么说，既然娶个好妻子已经够难的了，为什么还要操心孩子呢? 在我看来，你要么追求“质量”，要么什么都不追求。否则就不值得。
Andie Spez, B.S. Sociology & English Literature (2012)
It's not your fault.
Perhaps you're meant to transition from Male to Female (or Female to Male) while writing a novel which dismantles Western Civilization.
这不是你的错。
也许你打算在写一部瓦解西方文明的小说时，从男性过渡到女性 (或从女性过渡到男性)。
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It's not your fault.
Perhaps you're meant to transition from Male to Female (or Female to Male) while writing a novel which dismantles Western Civilization.
这不是你的错。
也许你打算在写一部瓦解西方文明的小说时，从男性过渡到女性 (或从女性过渡到男性)。
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Casey Strait, Been happily together for 9 years
There can be many and it can vary by person.
Personally I've never wanted children so having them would make me miserable. Though I am happily married, it was never a life-goal & I'd be just fine without it.
I want to live life to experience new things, improve myself & help make others happy. I want to learn new thing's & skills, I want to see new places & experience new cultures.
There is SO. MUCH. MORE. to life than kids & marriage & it makes me endlessly sad when I hear So Many people say and think that.
可能有很多，因人而异。
就我个人而言，我从来不想要孩子，所以生孩子会让我很痛苦。虽然我的婚姻很幸福，但这从来不是我的人生目标&没有它我也能过得很好。
我想在生活中体验新鲜事物，提高自己，帮助别人快乐。我想学习新的东西和技能，我想去新的地方，体验新的文化。
生活远不止孩子和婚姻，当我听到这么多人这么说和这么想的时候，我会感到无尽的悲伤。
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There can be many and it can vary by person.
Personally I've never wanted children so having them would make me miserable. Though I am happily married, it was never a life-goal & I'd be just fine without it.
I want to live life to experience new things, improve myself & help make others happy. I want to learn new thing's & skills, I want to see new places & experience new cultures.
There is SO. MUCH. MORE. to life than kids & marriage & it makes me endlessly sad when I hear So Many people say and think that.
可能有很多，因人而异。
就我个人而言，我从来不想要孩子，所以生孩子会让我很痛苦。虽然我的婚姻很幸福，但这从来不是我的人生目标&没有它我也能过得很好。
我想在生活中体验新鲜事物，提高自己，帮助别人快乐。我想学习新的东西和技能，我想去新的地方，体验新的文化。
生活远不止孩子和婚姻，当我听到这么多人这么说和这么想的时候，我会感到无尽的悲伤。
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Claude Lambert, I edit, translate and write books
You mean like Jesus Christ? I think he had a point.
We live in a world where we depend on each other. People plant vegetables and transport it to the market for me. They built the house where I live. I once had a fire: firemen came to help. Garbage collectors protect me from plague and cholera. Workers made roads for me, it is a tough and dangerous job.
The point and duty for me is to pay back. Best I can. I do my small part every day.
It did not prevent me to have children, my bit of luck, and it does not prevent me to have fun. I recommend fun as well.
你是说像耶稣基督那样? 我认为他说得有道理。
我们生活在一个相互依赖的世界。人们为我种植蔬菜并将其运到市场。他们在我住的地方盖了房子。有一次我家着火了，消防员来帮忙。垃圾清理工保护我免受瘟疫和霍乱的侵袭。工人们为我修路，这是一项艰苦而危险的工作。
我的重点和责任就是要偿还。尽我所能。我每天都做我的一小部分。
这并没有妨碍我生儿育女，我的一点运气，也没有阻止我玩得开心。我也推荐有趣的东西。
You mean like Jesus Christ? I think he had a point.
We live in a world where we depend on each other. People plant vegetables and transport it to the market for me. They built the house where I live. I once had a fire: firemen came to help. Garbage collectors protect me from plague and cholera. Workers made roads for me, it is a tough and dangerous job.
The point and duty for me is to pay back. Best I can. I do my small part every day.
It did not prevent me to have children, my bit of luck, and it does not prevent me to have fun. I recommend fun as well.
你是说像耶稣基督那样? 我认为他说得有道理。
我们生活在一个相互依赖的世界。人们为我种植蔬菜并将其运到市场。他们在我住的地方盖了房子。有一次我家着火了，消防员来帮忙。垃圾清理工保护我免受瘟疫和霍乱的侵袭。工人们为我修路，这是一项艰苦而危险的工作。
我的重点和责任就是要偿还。尽我所能。我每天都做我的一小部分。
这并没有妨碍我生儿育女，我的一点运气，也没有阻止我玩得开心。我也推荐有趣的东西。
Ernie Dunbar, 40 years old, been around the block a few times.
There have been a number of such people who have completely changed the world.
Isaac Newton was one such person. He never married, and never had kids. Instead he invented Calculus on a dare and used it to derive the motion of planetary bodies, the relationship between mass and gravitational attraction, several laws of motion and mechanics, and a dozen other things in science that I can’t recall off the top of my head.
Nicola Tesla did pretty much the same thing. He’s the guy who invented the entire electrical grid we now use, the AC motor, the electric arc lamp (usually used in spotlights), the incandescent light bulb, and some 300 other patents, mostly related to these fields. Again, he never married or fathered children, he was completely celibate and likely asexual.
I’m certain there’s more people like this throughout history, but those are the two easy ones I can think of right away.
有很多这样的人彻底改变了世界。
艾萨克·牛顿就是这样一个人。他从未结婚，也没有孩子。相反，他大胆地发明了微积分，并用它来推导行星体的运动、质量和引力之间的关系、运动和力学的若干定律，以及其他十几件我一时想不起来的科学事情。
尼古拉·特斯拉也做了同样的事情。他发明了我们现在使用的整个电网，交流电机，电弧灯（通常用于聚光灯），白炽灯泡，以及大约300项其他专利，主要与这些领域有关。同样，他从未结过婚或生过孩子，他完全独身，很可能是无性恋。
我确信历史上有更多这样的人，但这是我能马上想到的两个人。
There have been a number of such people who have completely changed the world.
Isaac Newton was one such person. He never married, and never had kids. Instead he invented Calculus on a dare and used it to derive the motion of planetary bodies, the relationship between mass and gravitational attraction, several laws of motion and mechanics, and a dozen other things in science that I can’t recall off the top of my head.
Nicola Tesla did pretty much the same thing. He’s the guy who invented the entire electrical grid we now use, the AC motor, the electric arc lamp (usually used in spotlights), the incandescent light bulb, and some 300 other patents, mostly related to these fields. Again, he never married or fathered children, he was completely celibate and likely asexual.
I’m certain there’s more people like this throughout history, but those are the two easy ones I can think of right away.
有很多这样的人彻底改变了世界。
艾萨克·牛顿就是这样一个人。他从未结婚，也没有孩子。相反，他大胆地发明了微积分，并用它来推导行星体的运动、质量和引力之间的关系、运动和力学的若干定律，以及其他十几件我一时想不起来的科学事情。
尼古拉·特斯拉也做了同样的事情。他发明了我们现在使用的整个电网，交流电机，电弧灯（通常用于聚光灯），白炽灯泡，以及大约300项其他专利，主要与这些领域有关。同样，他从未结过婚或生过孩子，他完全独身，很可能是无性恋。
我确信历史上有更多这样的人，但这是我能马上想到的两个人。
Joanne Jesko, can tell you who sang almost any song from the 70's
There is more to life than having children in an already overcrowded world. My mom and dad had six daughters and only one of us had children. Part of it was physical and part of it was by choice for us. For me, I firmly believe that there are a lot of people out there that should not be parents and I am one of them. I have a lot of patience and a quirky sense of humor. I have tutored in the past because I love to teach children, but I am also in retail and I watch kids every day tear up my store. They constantly play with toys and leave them wherever they want, they tear them out of the package and don’t pay for them and they run around the store and are a danger to themselves and other people. I know if I had a child, they would not act like that (at least I hope not), but I have seen enough to know that I don’t want kids.
Sorry about the rant, now to answer the question. There are a lot of things to do with your life besides have children. Teaching and training come to mind, as do volunteering at a local animal shelter, or how about reading to seniors at a senior center? If you are a professional, perhaps you could volunteer your services. Whatever you do, it should be something you are passionate about.
在一个已经人满为患的世界里，有比生孩子更重要的事情。我父母有六个女儿，只有一个有孩子。一部分是身体上的，一部分是我们的选择。对我来说，我坚信有很多人不应该成为父母，而我就是其中之一。我很有耐心，也很有幽默感。我过去做过家教，因为我喜欢教孩子，但我也从事零售业，每天看着孩子们拆我的店。他们不停地玩玩具，把它们放在任何他们想要的地方，他们撕下玩具的包装却不付钱，他们在商店里到处跑，对自己和其他人都是一种危险。我知道如果我有一个孩子，他们不会那样做（至少我希望不会），但我已经看到了足够多，知道我不想要孩子。
抱歉，现在回答问题。除了生孩子，你的生活还有很多事情要做。我想到了教学和培训，比如在当地动物收容所做志愿者，或者在老年中心给老年人读书？如果你是一名专业人士，也许你可以自愿提供服务。无论你做什么，都应该是你热爱的事情。
There is more to life than having children in an already overcrowded world. My mom and dad had six daughters and only one of us had children. Part of it was physical and part of it was by choice for us. For me, I firmly believe that there are a lot of people out there that should not be parents and I am one of them. I have a lot of patience and a quirky sense of humor. I have tutored in the past because I love to teach children, but I am also in retail and I watch kids every day tear up my store. They constantly play with toys and leave them wherever they want, they tear them out of the package and don’t pay for them and they run around the store and are a danger to themselves and other people. I know if I had a child, they would not act like that (at least I hope not), but I have seen enough to know that I don’t want kids.
Sorry about the rant, now to answer the question. There are a lot of things to do with your life besides have children. Teaching and training come to mind, as do volunteering at a local animal shelter, or how about reading to seniors at a senior center? If you are a professional, perhaps you could volunteer your services. Whatever you do, it should be something you are passionate about.
在一个已经人满为患的世界里，有比生孩子更重要的事情。我父母有六个女儿，只有一个有孩子。一部分是身体上的，一部分是我们的选择。对我来说，我坚信有很多人不应该成为父母，而我就是其中之一。我很有耐心，也很有幽默感。我过去做过家教，因为我喜欢教孩子，但我也从事零售业，每天看着孩子们拆我的店。他们不停地玩玩具，把它们放在任何他们想要的地方，他们撕下玩具的包装却不付钱，他们在商店里到处跑，对自己和其他人都是一种危险。我知道如果我有一个孩子，他们不会那样做（至少我希望不会），但我已经看到了足够多，知道我不想要孩子。
抱歉，现在回答问题。除了生孩子，你的生活还有很多事情要做。我想到了教学和培训，比如在当地动物收容所做志愿者，或者在老年中心给老年人读书？如果你是一名专业人士，也许你可以自愿提供服务。无论你做什么，都应该是你热爱的事情。
Barry Hampe, Writer & atheist, no longer posting on Quora since 12/31/18
The point to your life is the most important problem you’ll ever work on. Take your time. There’s no hurry.
But do get started.
生命的意义是你将要解决的最重要的问题。慢慢来。不用着急。
但一定要开始。
The point to your life is the most important problem you’ll ever work on. Take your time. There’s no hurry.
But do get started.
生命的意义是你将要解决的最重要的问题。慢慢来。不用着急。
但一定要开始。
Joy Malone
You’re kidding right? If you cannot see a purpose in your life beyond marriage and children I feel sorry for you. There are so many important things in this world beyond those things. There are many many people who choose not to marry and have children and ended up inventing things and making changes in the world that changed everything. People who choose not to marry and have children have more time to focus on other things. they paint a citadel, cure a disease, write a symphony.
你是在开玩笑吧? 如果你看不到婚姻和孩子之外的人生目标，我为你感到难过。除了这些，这个世界上还有很多重要的事情。有很多人选择不结婚，不生孩子，最终发明了一些东西，改变了世界，改变了一切。选择不结婚生子的人有更多的时间去关注其他事情。他们粉刷城堡，治疗疾病，谱写交响乐。
You’re kidding right? If you cannot see a purpose in your life beyond marriage and children I feel sorry for you. There are so many important things in this world beyond those things. There are many many people who choose not to marry and have children and ended up inventing things and making changes in the world that changed everything. People who choose not to marry and have children have more time to focus on other things. they paint a citadel, cure a disease, write a symphony.
你是在开玩笑吧? 如果你看不到婚姻和孩子之外的人生目标，我为你感到难过。除了这些，这个世界上还有很多重要的事情。有很多人选择不结婚，不生孩子，最终发明了一些东西，改变了世界，改变了一切。选择不结婚生子的人有更多的时间去关注其他事情。他们粉刷城堡，治疗疾病，谱写交响乐。
Michael Libman, B.A. from Temple University (1994)
How would a major religious figure like the Pope answer such a question if it were posed to him? Based on your criteria, would you deem his life worthless?
As individuals, we all have different purposes, talents, and skill sets. For example, the gentleman who founded Kodak cameras was never married. James Buchanan, 15th President of the USA, never married. Isaac Newton never married as well. Beethoven also remained a bachelor. Finally, Leonardo da Vinci never married either.
There are many other examples I could cite, but I just wanted to let you know that the value of a successful life is not only measured in marriage and children
如果这样的问题摆在教皇这样的重要宗教人物面前，他会怎么回答呢? 根据你的标准，你会认为他的生命毫无价值吗?
作为个体，我们都有不同的目的、才能和技能。例如，创立柯达相机的那位先生从未结过婚。詹姆斯·布坎南，美国第15任总统，未婚。艾萨克·牛顿也从未结过婚。贝多芬也是单身汉。最后，列奥纳多·达·芬奇也从未结婚。
我还可以举出很多其他的例子，但我只是想让你们知道，成功人生的价值不仅仅是用婚姻和孩子来衡量的。
How would a major religious figure like the Pope answer such a question if it were posed to him? Based on your criteria, would you deem his life worthless?
As individuals, we all have different purposes, talents, and skill sets. For example, the gentleman who founded Kodak cameras was never married. James Buchanan, 15th President of the USA, never married. Isaac Newton never married as well. Beethoven also remained a bachelor. Finally, Leonardo da Vinci never married either.
There are many other examples I could cite, but I just wanted to let you know that the value of a successful life is not only measured in marriage and children
如果这样的问题摆在教皇这样的重要宗教人物面前，他会怎么回答呢? 根据你的标准，你会认为他的生命毫无价值吗?
作为个体，我们都有不同的目的、才能和技能。例如，创立柯达相机的那位先生从未结过婚。詹姆斯·布坎南，美国第15任总统，未婚。艾萨克·牛顿也从未结过婚。贝多芬也是单身汉。最后，列奥纳多·达·芬奇也从未结婚。
我还可以举出很多其他的例子，但我只是想让你们知道，成功人生的价值不仅仅是用婚姻和孩子来衡量的。
Kalee Splashlight, Investor
There's more to life than a spouse and kids. Before I met my husband, I told myself I didn't need a man nor wanted kids. I was very independent & happy. I was focused on my studies & wanted to get exotic pets instead of kids. You'd have to find something else to care about that you hold very dear.
生活中有比配偶和孩子更重要的东西。在我遇到我丈夫之前，我告诉自己我不需要男人，也不想要孩子。我很独立，也很快乐。我专注于我的学习，想要异国情调的宠物，而不是孩子。你必须找点其他你非常珍视的东西来关心。
There's more to life than a spouse and kids. Before I met my husband, I told myself I didn't need a man nor wanted kids. I was very independent & happy. I was focused on my studies & wanted to get exotic pets instead of kids. You'd have to find something else to care about that you hold very dear.
生活中有比配偶和孩子更重要的东西。在我遇到我丈夫之前，我告诉自己我不需要男人，也不想要孩子。我很独立，也很快乐。我专注于我的学习，想要异国情调的宠物，而不是孩子。你必须找点其他你非常珍视的东西来关心。
Tina Goyle, Marketing Director at SpeedUp Marketing (2016-present)
Two separate questions tied here together in one question.
We all come alone in this world and we will leave alone one day. In between what happens is life - where we make families, friends, enemies, love and are loved by someone. Some of us are blessed with beautiful families and loving parents, siblings, friends and relatives. And some of us look for a loving parent to adopt and make us their family. We are human and it's or basic need to be loved. Even pets, many pets are waiting to be adopted and loved. If you have resources then giving some one a chance to live and loving them unconditionally will be a great point for anyone's life.
I was adopted by my fathers elder sister, she was single and decided to make me her life. Even though my biological mother is alive and in the same household. I consider my auntie my parent, she is my mother and I thank her for giving me unconditional love, support, education and making me capable to live this beautiful life.
To have children and reproduce is a very personal choice and depends on personal circumstances but there are many many children and pets who are waiting to be adopted and loved ! Will you consider adopting and making them your life ? To Love and be loved by a child in need or a adopt a pet in need is and will be a priceless gesture !
两个独立的问题在一个问题中联系在一起。
我们都是独自来到这个世界，总有一天我们会独自离开。介于两者之间的是生活——我们的家庭，朋友，敌人，爱和被爱。我们中的一些人拥有美丽的家庭、慈爱的父母、兄弟姐妹、朋友和亲戚。有些人想找个慈爱的父母收养我们，让我们成为他们的家人。我们是人，最基本的需要就是被爱。即使是宠物，许多宠物都在等待被收养和宠爱。如果你有资源，那么给别人一个生活的机会，无条件地爱他们，对任何人的生活都是一个伟大的时刻。
我是被父亲的姐姐收养的，她是单身，决定让我成为她生活的一部分。即使我的生母还活着，而且在同一个家庭里。我认为我的姑姑是我的父母，她是我的母亲，我感谢她给了我无条件的爱，支持，教育，让我有能力过这样美好的生活。
生儿育女是一个非常私人的选择，取决于个人情况，但有很多的孩子和宠物等待被收养和被爱! 你会考虑收养他们，让他们成为你的生活吗? 爱一个需要帮助的孩子或收养一只需要帮助的宠物，并被他们爱，是一种无价的姿态!
Two separate questions tied here together in one question.
We all come alone in this world and we will leave alone one day. In between what happens is life - where we make families, friends, enemies, love and are loved by someone. Some of us are blessed with beautiful families and loving parents, siblings, friends and relatives. And some of us look for a loving parent to adopt and make us their family. We are human and it's or basic need to be loved. Even pets, many pets are waiting to be adopted and loved. If you have resources then giving some one a chance to live and loving them unconditionally will be a great point for anyone's life.
I was adopted by my fathers elder sister, she was single and decided to make me her life. Even though my biological mother is alive and in the same household. I consider my auntie my parent, she is my mother and I thank her for giving me unconditional love, support, education and making me capable to live this beautiful life.
To have children and reproduce is a very personal choice and depends on personal circumstances but there are many many children and pets who are waiting to be adopted and loved ! Will you consider adopting and making them your life ? To Love and be loved by a child in need or a adopt a pet in need is and will be a priceless gesture !
两个独立的问题在一个问题中联系在一起。
我们都是独自来到这个世界，总有一天我们会独自离开。介于两者之间的是生活——我们的家庭，朋友，敌人，爱和被爱。我们中的一些人拥有美丽的家庭、慈爱的父母、兄弟姐妹、朋友和亲戚。有些人想找个慈爱的父母收养我们，让我们成为他们的家人。我们是人，最基本的需要就是被爱。即使是宠物，许多宠物都在等待被收养和宠爱。如果你有资源，那么给别人一个生活的机会，无条件地爱他们，对任何人的生活都是一个伟大的时刻。
我是被父亲的姐姐收养的，她是单身，决定让我成为她生活的一部分。即使我的生母还活着，而且在同一个家庭里。我认为我的姑姑是我的父母，她是我的母亲，我感谢她给了我无条件的爱，支持，教育，让我有能力过这样美好的生活。
生儿育女是一个非常私人的选择，取决于个人情况，但有很多的孩子和宠物等待被收养和被爱! 你会考虑收养他们，让他们成为你的生活吗? 爱一个需要帮助的孩子或收养一只需要帮助的宠物，并被他们爱，是一种无价的姿态!
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