我怎样才能还清家里的债务呢（二）
正文翻译
How will I be able to clear my family debts?
我怎样才能还清家里的债务呢?
How will I be able to clear my family debts?
我怎样才能还清家里的债务呢?
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Anonymous
You can't start fresh. It's important you know that. Your financial history, just like your romantic past, is never unscathed from traumatizing situations. It's important to recognize this.
But that doesn't mean your situation is hopeless.
We don't know much about your life. Where you live. What you do. How much you make. How much you spend. How much cash you have on hand. Your level of education. What type of debt you have (student loans versus mortgage versus credit card ). We don't know very much, and that makes it hard for us to give you great advice. So, take this, and all answers, with a grain of salt - I'm going off of what I have.
你不能重新开始。你知道这一点很重要。你的财务历史，就像你的浪漫过去一样，从来都不会在精神创伤中毫发无损—认识到这一点很重要。
但这并不意味着你的处境毫无希望。
我们不太了解你的生活：你住在哪里、你做什么、你赚多少钱、你花了多少钱、你手头有多少现金、你的教育水平以及你有什么类型的债务（学生贷款、抵押贷款、信用卡）。我们知道的不多，这使得我们很难给你提供好的建议。所以，接受这个，以及所有的答案，带着怀疑的态度-我要改变我的现状。
You can't start fresh. It's important you know that. Your financial history, just like your romantic past, is never unscathed from traumatizing situations. It's important to recognize this.
But that doesn't mean your situation is hopeless.
We don't know much about your life. Where you live. What you do. How much you make. How much you spend. How much cash you have on hand. Your level of education. What type of debt you have (student loans versus mortgage versus credit card ). We don't know very much, and that makes it hard for us to give you great advice. So, take this, and all answers, with a grain of salt - I'm going off of what I have.
你不能重新开始。你知道这一点很重要。你的财务历史，就像你的浪漫过去一样，从来都不会在精神创伤中毫发无损—认识到这一点很重要。
但这并不意味着你的处境毫无希望。
我们不太了解你的生活：你住在哪里、你做什么、你赚多少钱、你花了多少钱、你手头有多少现金、你的教育水平以及你有什么类型的债务（学生贷款、抵押贷款、信用卡）。我们知道的不多，这使得我们很难给你提供好的建议。所以，接受这个，以及所有的答案，带着怀疑的态度-我要改变我的现状。
DO NOT GAMBLE WITH YOUR MONEY
Yes it sounds appealing. 2,000 can become 16,000. You can pay off a large part of your debt. Except you can't. You'll likely lose it. And really, it doesn't sound like you're in a position to lose another $2,000.
Be Frugal. Ruthlessly Frugal.
Right now you're in survival mode. You need to think that way too. What's essential? What's nonessential? Whatever is nonessential sell it. Whatever you don't need, don't buy it. This is survival mode.
Can't afford your house/apartment? Sell it.
You have cable? Dump it.
Think you need a smartphone with your big plan? You don't.
You buy fancy organic foods? Stop doing that.
I repeat, this is survival mode.
不要用你的钱赌博
没错，赌博听起来很吸引人。2000可以变成16000，于是你就可以偿还大部分债务。不仅不能赚到16000，你很可能会失去2000。实际上，听起来怎么都不像你会再损失2000了。
要节俭，极其节俭。
现在你处于生存模式，你也需要这样想。什么是必要的？什么是不必要的？任何不重要的东西都要卖掉。无任何你不需要的东西，都不要买。这是生存模式。
养不起你的房子/公寓？卖掉它。
你有有线电视吗？停掉它。
你认为你的大计划需要一部智能手机吗？不需要。
你买高级有机食品？别那么做。
我重复一遍，这就是生存模式。
Yes it sounds appealing. 2,000 can become 16,000. You can pay off a large part of your debt. Except you can't. You'll likely lose it. And really, it doesn't sound like you're in a position to lose another $2,000.
Be Frugal. Ruthlessly Frugal.
Right now you're in survival mode. You need to think that way too. What's essential? What's nonessential? Whatever is nonessential sell it. Whatever you don't need, don't buy it. This is survival mode.
Can't afford your house/apartment? Sell it.
You have cable? Dump it.
Think you need a smartphone with your big plan? You don't.
You buy fancy organic foods? Stop doing that.
I repeat, this is survival mode.
不要用你的钱赌博
没错，赌博听起来很吸引人。2000可以变成16000，于是你就可以偿还大部分债务。不仅不能赚到16000，你很可能会失去2000。实际上，听起来怎么都不像你会再损失2000了。
要节俭，极其节俭。
现在你处于生存模式，你也需要这样想。什么是必要的？什么是不必要的？任何不重要的东西都要卖掉。无任何你不需要的东西，都不要买。这是生存模式。
养不起你的房子/公寓？卖掉它。
你有有线电视吗？停掉它。
你认为你的大计划需要一部智能手机吗？不需要。
你买高级有机食品？别那么做。
我重复一遍，这就是生存模式。
Tell Your Loved Ones
However the last point brings me to another important topic. You're going to need to tell your family. Come clean now. I wouldn't ask for loans. But it's important they know. They can lend you clothes. You might have to move back in with them. At least the food will be free.
Start Paying Back Your Debt.
It sucks. Debt sucks. But you have it. You don't have the ability to buy new shit. You don't have the ability to gamble $2,000. Take what you need and use it to pay for the bare minimums you need. The rest should go to paying back your debt. Assuming 5% interest rates, you're paying $2,300 in interest every year. That's a lot of money that's being wasted. Pay back your debt and you'll waste less money. It's very simple. It's also very hard to do.
Get More Income
This may seem like a "no duh" thing. Except it isn't. Most people don't think about getting a second job. Most people don't consider multiple income sources. Depending on how much time you have, what other abilities you have, etc. you might want to consider getting a second source of income. Use it to pay off your debt.
Good Luck
Don't give up. It's hard. But you don't have any other choices. Put your nose to the grindstone and work. Pay off the debt. My parents got married with 45,000 in debt (20 years!). They are both lawyers and today live very comfortably. You never know what the future may hold. However you have to realize that getting to that happy future will involve getting out of this hole.
告诉你的亲人
然而，最后一点引出了另一个重要的话题。你需要告诉你的家人，现在说清楚。我不会要求贷款。但他们知道这一点很重要。他们可以借给你衣服。你可能不得不搬回去和他们一起住，至少食物是免费的。
开始偿还你的债务。
它糟透了，债务糟透了，但是你拥有它。你没有能力买新东西。你没有能力拿2000去冒险。带上你需要的东西，用它来支付你最基本的需求。剩下的应该用来偿还你的债务。假设利率为5%，你每年要支付2300的利息。这么多钱都是浪费掉的。若还清你的债务，你会浪费更少的钱。这很简单，但也很难做到。
获得更多收入
这似乎是一件“不算废话”的事情，但事实并非如此。大多数人都不会考虑找第二份工作。大多数人不考虑多种收入来源。取决于你有多少时间，你还有什么其他能力，等等。你可能需要考虑另找一个收入来源，用它来偿还你的债务。
祝你好运
不要放弃，这很难，但你别无选择。埋头苦干吧，还清债务。我父母结婚时负债4.5万（20年前！）。他们都是律师，现在生活得很舒适。你永远不知道未来会怎样。然而，你必须意识到，要想获得幸福的未来，就必须走出这个坑。
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However the last point brings me to another important topic. You're going to need to tell your family. Come clean now. I wouldn't ask for loans. But it's important they know. They can lend you clothes. You might have to move back in with them. At least the food will be free.
Start Paying Back Your Debt.
It sucks. Debt sucks. But you have it. You don't have the ability to buy new shit. You don't have the ability to gamble $2,000. Take what you need and use it to pay for the bare minimums you need. The rest should go to paying back your debt. Assuming 5% interest rates, you're paying $2,300 in interest every year. That's a lot of money that's being wasted. Pay back your debt and you'll waste less money. It's very simple. It's also very hard to do.
Get More Income
This may seem like a "no duh" thing. Except it isn't. Most people don't think about getting a second job. Most people don't consider multiple income sources. Depending on how much time you have, what other abilities you have, etc. you might want to consider getting a second source of income. Use it to pay off your debt.
Good Luck
Don't give up. It's hard. But you don't have any other choices. Put your nose to the grindstone and work. Pay off the debt. My parents got married with 45,000 in debt (20 years!). They are both lawyers and today live very comfortably. You never know what the future may hold. However you have to realize that getting to that happy future will involve getting out of this hole.
告诉你的亲人
然而，最后一点引出了另一个重要的话题。你需要告诉你的家人，现在说清楚。我不会要求贷款。但他们知道这一点很重要。他们可以借给你衣服。你可能不得不搬回去和他们一起住，至少食物是免费的。
开始偿还你的债务。
它糟透了，债务糟透了，但是你拥有它。你没有能力买新东西。你没有能力拿2000去冒险。带上你需要的东西，用它来支付你最基本的需求。剩下的应该用来偿还你的债务。假设利率为5%，你每年要支付2300的利息。这么多钱都是浪费掉的。若还清你的债务，你会浪费更少的钱。这很简单，但也很难做到。
获得更多收入
这似乎是一件“不算废话”的事情，但事实并非如此。大多数人都不会考虑找第二份工作。大多数人不考虑多种收入来源。取决于你有多少时间，你还有什么其他能力，等等。你可能需要考虑另找一个收入来源，用它来偿还你的债务。
祝你好运
不要放弃，这很难，但你别无选择。埋头苦干吧，还清债务。我父母结婚时负债4.5万（20年前！）。他们都是律师，现在生活得很舒适。你永远不知道未来会怎样。然而，你必须意识到，要想获得幸福的未来，就必须走出这个坑。
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K.S.
It really depends on where you live, laws are different everywhere .
My dad died heavy in medical debt from being sick. We are in the U.S. but not in a community property state so my mom wasn’t responsible for any of his debts. They still had a mortgage on the house so she just continued paying it and remained in the home (the house was in both of their names but the mortgage was just in his). Come pay off time she did run into some issues getting a new deed to the house with just her name… they had to reopen his estate through probate court.
这真的取决于你住在哪里，不过各地的法律不同。
我爸爸死的时候因为生病欠了很多医疗债务。我们在美国，但不是一个讲究共同财产的州，所以我妈妈对他的任何债务都不负责任。他们还有房子的抵押贷款，所以她继续支付，并住在家里（房子是写他们两个的名字，但抵押贷款就在他身上）。还债的时候，她确实遇到了一些问题，因为要给房子换一份只有她名字的新契据，他们不得不通过遗嘱认证让法庭重新重置他的遗产。
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It really depends on where you live, laws are different everywhere .
My dad died heavy in medical debt from being sick. We are in the U.S. but not in a community property state so my mom wasn’t responsible for any of his debts. They still had a mortgage on the house so she just continued paying it and remained in the home (the house was in both of their names but the mortgage was just in his). Come pay off time she did run into some issues getting a new deed to the house with just her name… they had to reopen his estate through probate court.
这真的取决于你住在哪里，不过各地的法律不同。
我爸爸死的时候因为生病欠了很多医疗债务。我们在美国，但不是一个讲究共同财产的州，所以我妈妈对他的任何债务都不负责任。他们还有房子的抵押贷款，所以她继续支付，并住在家里（房子是写他们两个的名字，但抵押贷款就在他身上）。还债的时候，她确实遇到了一些问题，因为要给房子换一份只有她名字的新契据，他们不得不通过遗嘱认证让法庭重新重置他的遗产。
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Joanne Morrison
How do I handle a family member who either pays rent late or doesn't pay at all? I'm trying to teach adulting and responsibility to a 21 year old.
You are failing at teaching her about adulting. Go back to charging her 100 per month and do not cave in. If she is late with the rent, do what any landlord would do and charge her a late fee. If she doesn’t pay it serve her an eviction notice. Make her sign a rental agreement. It is time this woman feels reality. She is getting away with this because you allow her to get away with it. You have taught her how to treat you. You need to say what you mean and mean what you say. If you can’t do this then she needs to move out and learn what being a responsible adult really looks like. You have set her up to abuse you. She is abusing you by not respecting you and taking advantage of your kindness. Tell her she needs to move out on her own and learn about reality. If you do not take a firm stand and regain your power you will continue to be abused and you will be impeding this woman’s ability to ever stand on her own two feet. If you do nothing then don’t complain.
我该如何处理迟交房租或根本不交房租的家庭成员？我想教一个21岁的孩子像成年人一样表现和承担责任。
你没能教会她如何长大成人。每月收100，不要屈服。如如果她拖欠房租，就像所有房东一样，向她收取滞纳金。如果她不付，就给她发驱逐令。让她签一份租房协议。是时候让这个女人感受现实了。她能侥幸逃脱是因为你允许她侥幸逃脱。你教会了她如何对待你。你需要表达你的意思，言出必行。如果你做不到这一点，那她就得搬出去，学习做一个负责任的成年人应该是什么样子。你陷害她虐待你。她利用你的善良虐待你和不尊重你。告诉她，她需要自己搬出去，了解现实。如果你不坚定你的立场，以重新获得你的权力，你将继续被虐待，你将阻碍这个女人获得自立的能力。如果你什么都不做，那就不要抱怨。
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How do I handle a family member who either pays rent late or doesn't pay at all? I'm trying to teach adulting and responsibility to a 21 year old.
You are failing at teaching her about adulting. Go back to charging her 100 per month and do not cave in. If she is late with the rent, do what any landlord would do and charge her a late fee. If she doesn’t pay it serve her an eviction notice. Make her sign a rental agreement. It is time this woman feels reality. She is getting away with this because you allow her to get away with it. You have taught her how to treat you. You need to say what you mean and mean what you say. If you can’t do this then she needs to move out and learn what being a responsible adult really looks like. You have set her up to abuse you. She is abusing you by not respecting you and taking advantage of your kindness. Tell her she needs to move out on her own and learn about reality. If you do not take a firm stand and regain your power you will continue to be abused and you will be impeding this woman’s ability to ever stand on her own two feet. If you do nothing then don’t complain.
我该如何处理迟交房租或根本不交房租的家庭成员？我想教一个21岁的孩子像成年人一样表现和承担责任。
你没能教会她如何长大成人。每月收100，不要屈服。如如果她拖欠房租，就像所有房东一样，向她收取滞纳金。如果她不付，就给她发驱逐令。让她签一份租房协议。是时候让这个女人感受现实了。她能侥幸逃脱是因为你允许她侥幸逃脱。你教会了她如何对待你。你需要表达你的意思，言出必行。如果你做不到这一点，那她就得搬出去，学习做一个负责任的成年人应该是什么样子。你陷害她虐待你。她利用你的善良虐待你和不尊重你。告诉她，她需要自己搬出去，了解现实。如果你不坚定你的立场，以重新获得你的权力，你将继续被虐待，你将阻碍这个女人获得自立的能力。如果你什么都不做，那就不要抱怨。
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Harold
If all debt was suddenly forgiven, the world economy would collapse in such a way to make the Great Depression look like a blip. Actually, probably in such a way that civilization would devolve into rioting.
First off, don't forget that the principal way governments and large corporations borrow money is through bonds. Wiping out the value of those bonds instantly would destroy the savings of literally millions of individuals in a heartbeat. It would also mean that people would almost certainly not flock back to the bond market, meaning that world governments would not only lose the power to deficit spend,[1] but would also lose most of their power in setting monetary policy and interest rates. In other words, that's a lot of wealth gone in an instant, and virtually every tool a government might conceivably use to kickstart an economy gone with it.
Also, banks would be completely destroyed. Not only would every loan the bank made be wiped out in a heartbeat, the deposits (which are just loans depositors make to the bank) would be wiped out as well. In other words, there went everyone's savings accounts and checking accounts. Everyone.
One of the smaller effects would be the complete destruction of any and all internet commerce. Internet commerce is possible only through the use of credit cards, debit cards and bank accounts. We've just destroyed every bank account out there and with it, debit cards. We've also wiped out credit cards, because the credit card companies just took a bath like you wouldn't believe.
There would be no obvious means of recovery from this. Keep in mind, everyone just simultaneously defaulted on their debts, which means that the interest rates that would be charged on any further loans would fall under the US' legal definition of loan sharking - if I have to worry about another spontaneous default, you can bet that I'll charge through the nose for a loan. Economic growth since at least the Roman Empire has been powered by people borrowing money. Without that mechanism, that's it, that's the ball game, we're back to effectively a subsistence economy and the barter system. Which brings me to the big point:
Debt is not necessarily bad.
[1] Which is a key component of several economic schools of thought, most notably Keynesian economics and its derivatives.\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\
如果所有债务突然被免除，世界经济将以这样一种方式崩溃，使大萧条看起来像昙花一现。事实上，文明可能会以这种方式演变成骚乱。
首先，别忘了政府和大公司的主要借贷方式是通过债券。。立即抹去这些债券的价值将在瞬间摧毁无数人的储蓄。这也意味着人们几乎肯定不会再蜂拥回到债券市场，这意味着世界各国政府不仅将失去赤字支出的权力，而且还将失去制定货币政策和利率的大部分权力。我换言之，这意味着一大笔财富在瞬间消失，而政府可能用来启动经济的几乎每一个工具都随之消失。
此外，银行将被彻底摧毁。不仅银行发放的每一笔贷款都会在一瞬间付诸东流，存款（也就是储户向银行发放的贷款）也会付诸东流。换句话说，每个人的储蓄账户和支票账户都消失了。
其中一个较小的影响将是彻底毁灭所有互联网商业。只有通过使用信用卡、借记卡和银行账户，才能实现互联网商务。我们刚刚销毁了那里的所有银行账户和借记卡。我们还淘汰了信用卡，因为信用卡公司刚刚洗了一场你难以置信的澡。
明显没有恢复手段。请记住，每个人都在同时拖欠债务，这意味着以后任何贷款都要收取的利率会被美国法律定义为放高利贷——我还要担心另一种自发违约，你可以打赌我贷款一定会收高额费用钱。至少自罗马帝国以来，经济增长一直由人们借钱推动。如果没有这种机制，这就是球赛，我们实际上回到了自给自足的经济和易货体系，这就引出了重点:
债务不一定是坏事，它是几个经济学派思想的关键组成部分，最著名的是凯恩斯经济学及其衍生品。
If all debt was suddenly forgiven, the world economy would collapse in such a way to make the Great Depression look like a blip. Actually, probably in such a way that civilization would devolve into rioting.
First off, don't forget that the principal way governments and large corporations borrow money is through bonds. Wiping out the value of those bonds instantly would destroy the savings of literally millions of individuals in a heartbeat. It would also mean that people would almost certainly not flock back to the bond market, meaning that world governments would not only lose the power to deficit spend,[1] but would also lose most of their power in setting monetary policy and interest rates. In other words, that's a lot of wealth gone in an instant, and virtually every tool a government might conceivably use to kickstart an economy gone with it.
Also, banks would be completely destroyed. Not only would every loan the bank made be wiped out in a heartbeat, the deposits (which are just loans depositors make to the bank) would be wiped out as well. In other words, there went everyone's savings accounts and checking accounts. Everyone.
One of the smaller effects would be the complete destruction of any and all internet commerce. Internet commerce is possible only through the use of credit cards, debit cards and bank accounts. We've just destroyed every bank account out there and with it, debit cards. We've also wiped out credit cards, because the credit card companies just took a bath like you wouldn't believe.
There would be no obvious means of recovery from this. Keep in mind, everyone just simultaneously defaulted on their debts, which means that the interest rates that would be charged on any further loans would fall under the US' legal definition of loan sharking - if I have to worry about another spontaneous default, you can bet that I'll charge through the nose for a loan. Economic growth since at least the Roman Empire has been powered by people borrowing money. Without that mechanism, that's it, that's the ball game, we're back to effectively a subsistence economy and the barter system. Which brings me to the big point:
Debt is not necessarily bad.
[1] Which is a key component of several economic schools of thought, most notably Keynesian economics and its derivatives.\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\
如果所有债务突然被免除，世界经济将以这样一种方式崩溃，使大萧条看起来像昙花一现。事实上，文明可能会以这种方式演变成骚乱。
首先，别忘了政府和大公司的主要借贷方式是通过债券。。立即抹去这些债券的价值将在瞬间摧毁无数人的储蓄。这也意味着人们几乎肯定不会再蜂拥回到债券市场，这意味着世界各国政府不仅将失去赤字支出的权力，而且还将失去制定货币政策和利率的大部分权力。我换言之，这意味着一大笔财富在瞬间消失，而政府可能用来启动经济的几乎每一个工具都随之消失。
此外，银行将被彻底摧毁。不仅银行发放的每一笔贷款都会在一瞬间付诸东流，存款（也就是储户向银行发放的贷款）也会付诸东流。换句话说，每个人的储蓄账户和支票账户都消失了。
其中一个较小的影响将是彻底毁灭所有互联网商业。只有通过使用信用卡、借记卡和银行账户，才能实现互联网商务。我们刚刚销毁了那里的所有银行账户和借记卡。我们还淘汰了信用卡，因为信用卡公司刚刚洗了一场你难以置信的澡。
明显没有恢复手段。请记住，每个人都在同时拖欠债务，这意味着以后任何贷款都要收取的利率会被美国法律定义为放高利贷——我还要担心另一种自发违约，你可以打赌我贷款一定会收高额费用钱。至少自罗马帝国以来，经济增长一直由人们借钱推动。如果没有这种机制，这就是球赛，我们实际上回到了自给自足的经济和易货体系，这就引出了重点:
债务不一定是坏事，它是几个经济学派思想的关键组成部分，最著名的是凯恩斯经济学及其衍生品。
Alexander Hartdegen Lee
How do you clear debt in Singapore?
As one who managed to rack up a sizable “personal” debt, all I can say is that you just have to reach a payment plan with your debtors.
Your debtors’ final goal is to recover the money you owe them, so they will “try” their best to reach an agreement with you. It is not to their best interest to drive you to suicide or bankruptcy. Mind you, if you are bankrupted, it might take a longer time for them to recover their money.
If your debtors are not banks or some kinds of “evil corporations”, then you should have an easier time to repay. Once you reach an agreement with your debtors, stick to the payment plan and make sure they know in advance if you need to deviate from the plan. If they are reasonable, they will give you some leeways as long as you can finish paying the debts within the agreed timefrxs.
During this period, it would be best to your interest not to damage any goodwill displayed by your debtors. Be in a good relationship with them and get your debt cleared without much hiccup.
你如何清理新加坡的债务？
作为一个设法积累了大量“个人”债务的人，我只能说，你只需要与债务人达成一个付款计划。
你的债务人的最终目标是收回你欠他们的钱，所以他们会“尽力”与你达成协议。把你逼到自杀或破产的地步对他们来说不是最有利的。请注意，如果你破产了，他们可能需要更长的时间才能收回他们的钱。
如果你的债务人不是银行或某种“邪恶的公司”，那么你应该有一个更容易偿还的时间。一旦你与债务人达成协议，坚持付款计划，并确保他们提前知道你是否需要偏离计划。如果他们是讲道理的，他们会给你一些余地，只要你能在约定的时间内还清债务就行。
在此期间，为了你的利益，最好不要破坏你的债务人所表现出的善意。和他们保持良好的关系，还清你的债务。
How do you clear debt in Singapore?
As one who managed to rack up a sizable “personal” debt, all I can say is that you just have to reach a payment plan with your debtors.
Your debtors’ final goal is to recover the money you owe them, so they will “try” their best to reach an agreement with you. It is not to their best interest to drive you to suicide or bankruptcy. Mind you, if you are bankrupted, it might take a longer time for them to recover their money.
If your debtors are not banks or some kinds of “evil corporations”, then you should have an easier time to repay. Once you reach an agreement with your debtors, stick to the payment plan and make sure they know in advance if you need to deviate from the plan. If they are reasonable, they will give you some leeways as long as you can finish paying the debts within the agreed timefrxs.
During this period, it would be best to your interest not to damage any goodwill displayed by your debtors. Be in a good relationship with them and get your debt cleared without much hiccup.
你如何清理新加坡的债务？
作为一个设法积累了大量“个人”债务的人，我只能说，你只需要与债务人达成一个付款计划。
你的债务人的最终目标是收回你欠他们的钱，所以他们会“尽力”与你达成协议。把你逼到自杀或破产的地步对他们来说不是最有利的。请注意，如果你破产了，他们可能需要更长的时间才能收回他们的钱。
如果你的债务人不是银行或某种“邪恶的公司”，那么你应该有一个更容易偿还的时间。一旦你与债务人达成协议，坚持付款计划，并确保他们提前知道你是否需要偏离计划。如果他们是讲道理的，他们会给你一些余地，只要你能在约定的时间内还清债务就行。
在此期间，为了你的利益，最好不要破坏你的债务人所表现出的善意。和他们保持良好的关系，还清你的债务。
Jennifer Ellis
My parents’ lawyer hasn't responded to their calls/emails in two months. Is this normal?
Sometimes there is nothing to say, but even so, no attorney should go so long without communicating with their clients. The fact that the case is pro bono is irrelevant, lawyers should treat all clients with respect. It is, in fact, unethical to fail to communicate timely with one’s clients.
I hear of entirely too many lawyers putting their clients off like this.
I cannot tell you whether to find a lawyer and pay for the service yourself. But I can say, that your parents deserve better.
我父母的律师已经两个月没有回复他们的电话/电子邮件了，这是正常的吗？
有时没有什么可说的，但即便如此，律师也不应该这么长时间不与客户沟通。事实上，这个案件是无偿的是无关紧要的，不过律师应该尊重所有的客户。事实上，未能及时与客户沟通是不道德的。
我听说很多律师都这样拖延客户的时间。
我不能告诉你是否要找律师并自己支付律师费。但我可以说，你的父母应该得到更好的对待。
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My parents’ lawyer hasn't responded to their calls/emails in two months. Is this normal?
Sometimes there is nothing to say, but even so, no attorney should go so long without communicating with their clients. The fact that the case is pro bono is irrelevant, lawyers should treat all clients with respect. It is, in fact, unethical to fail to communicate timely with one’s clients.
I hear of entirely too many lawyers putting their clients off like this.
I cannot tell you whether to find a lawyer and pay for the service yourself. But I can say, that your parents deserve better.
我父母的律师已经两个月没有回复他们的电话/电子邮件了，这是正常的吗？
有时没有什么可说的，但即便如此，律师也不应该这么长时间不与客户沟通。事实上，这个案件是无偿的是无关紧要的，不过律师应该尊重所有的客户。事实上，未能及时与客户沟通是不道德的。
我听说很多律师都这样拖延客户的时间。
我不能告诉你是否要找律师并自己支付律师费。但我可以说，你的父母应该得到更好的对待。
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Larissa Fernand
GET RID OF IT.
Start by taking inventory of all debt. Credit card debt, personal loans, education loans, vehicle loans, home improvement loans. What you can keep away from this list is a home loan since the tenure could span over a decade. In an excel sheet, stack them in order of interest rate, and size (amount of outstanding).
Debt Avalanche Strategy: Pay off your debts in order from the highest interest rate to the lowest, regardless of balance.
Say you have a credit card outstanding bill of Rs 40,000 at 24% per annum interest rate. But your personal loan is 18% per annum. This strategy would need you to pay off your credit card bill with priority as it has a higher cost. Once you clear that, you move on to the next most expensive outstanding.
But it does not imply paying off one loan to the exclusion of another. Make the minimum payment on each loan, while the extra money you have managed to save should be channelized into the one with the highest interest rate.
Debt Snowball Strategy: This time, the size of the debt becomes the focal point, not the cost of it.
Make the minimum payment on each loan, while the extra money you have managed to save should be channelized towards clearing the smallest debt. Once that is paid off, you move to the next one, and the next, until you are debt-free. If you have many loans, this is a good way to clear the clutter.
摆脱它。
从清点所有债务开始：信用卡债务、个人贷款、教育贷款、汽车贷款、家装贷款。你可以从这份清单中去掉的是房屋贷款，因为租期可能超过十年。在excel表格中，将它们按利率和规模(未偿还金额)的顺序堆叠起来。
雪崩式偿还策略：不管余额如何，按利率从高到低的顺序偿还你的债务。
假设你有一张年利率为24%的信用卡未还账单，金额为40000卢比。但是你的个人贷款是每年18%。这个策略需要你优先偿还你的信用卡账单，因为它利息更高。一旦你弄清楚了这一点，你就会转向下一个利息高的未偿贷款。
但这并不意味着以一笔贷款去偿还掉另一笔贷款。对每笔贷款支付最低金额，而你设法存下的额外资金应流入利率最高的那笔贷款。
滚雪球式清债策略：这一次，债务的规模成为焦点，而不是利息的高低。
每笔贷款都要支付最低还款额，而你攒下的额外的钱应该用于偿还规模最小的那笔债务。一旦这些都还清了，你就要去还下一笔，一笔接一笔，直到你没有债务。如果你有很多贷款，这是清除混乱方面很好的方式。
原创翻译：龙腾网 https://www.ltaaa.cn 转载请注明出处
GET RID OF IT.
Start by taking inventory of all debt. Credit card debt, personal loans, education loans, vehicle loans, home improvement loans. What you can keep away from this list is a home loan since the tenure could span over a decade. In an excel sheet, stack them in order of interest rate, and size (amount of outstanding).
Debt Avalanche Strategy: Pay off your debts in order from the highest interest rate to the lowest, regardless of balance.
Say you have a credit card outstanding bill of Rs 40,000 at 24% per annum interest rate. But your personal loan is 18% per annum. This strategy would need you to pay off your credit card bill with priority as it has a higher cost. Once you clear that, you move on to the next most expensive outstanding.
But it does not imply paying off one loan to the exclusion of another. Make the minimum payment on each loan, while the extra money you have managed to save should be channelized into the one with the highest interest rate.
Debt Snowball Strategy: This time, the size of the debt becomes the focal point, not the cost of it.
Make the minimum payment on each loan, while the extra money you have managed to save should be channelized towards clearing the smallest debt. Once that is paid off, you move to the next one, and the next, until you are debt-free. If you have many loans, this is a good way to clear the clutter.
摆脱它。
从清点所有债务开始：信用卡债务、个人贷款、教育贷款、汽车贷款、家装贷款。你可以从这份清单中去掉的是房屋贷款，因为租期可能超过十年。在excel表格中，将它们按利率和规模(未偿还金额)的顺序堆叠起来。
雪崩式偿还策略：不管余额如何，按利率从高到低的顺序偿还你的债务。
假设你有一张年利率为24%的信用卡未还账单，金额为40000卢比。但是你的个人贷款是每年18%。这个策略需要你优先偿还你的信用卡账单，因为它利息更高。一旦你弄清楚了这一点，你就会转向下一个利息高的未偿贷款。
但这并不意味着以一笔贷款去偿还掉另一笔贷款。对每笔贷款支付最低金额，而你设法存下的额外资金应流入利率最高的那笔贷款。
滚雪球式清债策略：这一次，债务的规模成为焦点，而不是利息的高低。
每笔贷款都要支付最低还款额，而你攒下的额外的钱应该用于偿还规模最小的那笔债务。一旦这些都还清了，你就要去还下一笔，一笔接一笔，直到你没有债务。如果你有很多贷款，这是清除混乱方面很好的方式。
原创翻译：龙腾网 https://www.ltaaa.cn 转载请注明出处
Which is the right one?
Pay-the-smallest-debt-first is a straightforward strategy that can provide you with the much-needed motivation you need to get started. The small win can help you stay on track. But it also means that getting rid of the smallest debt entails holding onto the debt with the highest interest rate longer. This translates into paying more in interest.
The math favours this Avalanche Strategy, but if the Snowball Strategy helps you actually achieve the goal of being debt-free, there's value in that, too. The Snowball Strategy helps you take the first small steps and is kind of a behavioural trick, the idea being that taking small steps can lead to a sense of motivation and empowerment. It gives you a sense of control and achievement.
Or, you can try a combination. You can work at eliminating the smallest loan first to keep you motivated. After getting one or two out of the way, you can switch to tackling the most expensive debt. A word of caution here: Have a written plan that you adhere to. Or else you will be switching between the two constantly and not make much progress.
THE BEST STEP TO DEALING WITH DEBT IS TO GET RID OF IT.
哪个策略是正确的？
首先偿还最小规模的债务是一个简单的策略，它可以为你提供动力。这场小胜利可以帮助你保持状态。但这也意味着，摆脱最小的债务需要更长时间去持有利率最高的债务，这意味着支付利息更多。
数学上支持这种雪崩式偿还策略，但如果滚雪球策略能够帮助你真正实现无债务的目标，那么这也有价值。滚雪球策略可以帮助你迈出第一小步，这是一种行为技巧，其思想是每迈出一小步可以给你带来干劲和激励自主的感觉，它给你一种控制感和成就感。
或者，你可以尝试一种组合。你可以先消除最小的贷款，以保持动力。解决一到两笔之后，你可以转而处理利息最高的债务。这里需要注意的是：要有一个坚持的书面计划。否则，你会不断地在两者之间切换，而无法取得多大进展。
处理债务的最佳步骤是摆脱债务。
Pay-the-smallest-debt-first is a straightforward strategy that can provide you with the much-needed motivation you need to get started. The small win can help you stay on track. But it also means that getting rid of the smallest debt entails holding onto the debt with the highest interest rate longer. This translates into paying more in interest.
The math favours this Avalanche Strategy, but if the Snowball Strategy helps you actually achieve the goal of being debt-free, there's value in that, too. The Snowball Strategy helps you take the first small steps and is kind of a behavioural trick, the idea being that taking small steps can lead to a sense of motivation and empowerment. It gives you a sense of control and achievement.
Or, you can try a combination. You can work at eliminating the smallest loan first to keep you motivated. After getting one or two out of the way, you can switch to tackling the most expensive debt. A word of caution here: Have a written plan that you adhere to. Or else you will be switching between the two constantly and not make much progress.
THE BEST STEP TO DEALING WITH DEBT IS TO GET RID OF IT.
哪个策略是正确的？
首先偿还最小规模的债务是一个简单的策略，它可以为你提供动力。这场小胜利可以帮助你保持状态。但这也意味着，摆脱最小的债务需要更长时间去持有利率最高的债务，这意味着支付利息更多。
数学上支持这种雪崩式偿还策略，但如果滚雪球策略能够帮助你真正实现无债务的目标，那么这也有价值。滚雪球策略可以帮助你迈出第一小步，这是一种行为技巧，其思想是每迈出一小步可以给你带来干劲和激励自主的感觉，它给你一种控制感和成就感。
或者，你可以尝试一种组合。你可以先消除最小的贷款，以保持动力。解决一到两笔之后，你可以转而处理利息最高的债务。这里需要注意的是：要有一个坚持的书面计划。否则，你会不断地在两者之间切换，而无法取得多大进展。
处理债务的最佳步骤是摆脱债务。
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