什么让你感到愤怒（三)
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What makes you feel angry?
什么让你感到愤怒?
What makes you feel angry?
什么让你感到愤怒?
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Mike Tatreau
There was a time while my ex-wife and I were were still married, when she told me that she was seeing another man.
Naturally I was devasted, and I did everything within my power to talk her out of what she was doing. But she was stubborn, and she was bold and brazen.
One evening while I was sitting on the living room floor and playing with our 4 year old son, she was in the bathroom. I didn’t realize it, but she was getting herself ready for a date. She stepped out into the living room looking like a million bucks. Then she walked toward the front door of our apartment and said that she was going out.
“Wait a minute!” I called out to her. “Where are you going?” But she was out the door by that time, and I got up and followed her. I repeated my question as she headed toward the parking lot. “I’m going out with Bill!” was her annoyed reply.
I voiced my obxtion all the way to the parking lot—where she approached the passenger side of a car that was waiting for her. I put my hand on the door to prevent her from opening it, and then the window rolled down…
有一段时间，当时我和前妻还没结婚，她告诉我她正在和另一个男人约会。
很自然地，我被击垮了，我尽我所能说服她放弃她正在做的事。但她很固执，很大胆，而且厚颜无耻。
一天晚上，当我坐在客厅的地板上和我们四岁的儿子玩耍时，她在浴室里。我没意识到，她在为约会做准备。她走进客厅的时候，气色很好。然后她走向我们公寓的前门，说她要出去。
“等一下！”我向她喊道。“你要去哪里？”但那时她已经出门了，我站起来跟着她。她朝停车场走去时，我重复了我的问题。“我要和比尔出去！”这是她恼怒的回答。
我一路表示反对，直到停车场，她走到一辆等着她的车的副驾驶侧。我把手放在门上，不让她打开，然后窗户摇了下来……
There was a time while my ex-wife and I were were still married, when she told me that she was seeing another man.
Naturally I was devasted, and I did everything within my power to talk her out of what she was doing. But she was stubborn, and she was bold and brazen.
One evening while I was sitting on the living room floor and playing with our 4 year old son, she was in the bathroom. I didn’t realize it, but she was getting herself ready for a date. She stepped out into the living room looking like a million bucks. Then she walked toward the front door of our apartment and said that she was going out.
“Wait a minute!” I called out to her. “Where are you going?” But she was out the door by that time, and I got up and followed her. I repeated my question as she headed toward the parking lot. “I’m going out with Bill!” was her annoyed reply.
I voiced my obxtion all the way to the parking lot—where she approached the passenger side of a car that was waiting for her. I put my hand on the door to prevent her from opening it, and then the window rolled down…
有一段时间，当时我和前妻还没结婚，她告诉我她正在和另一个男人约会。
很自然地，我被击垮了，我尽我所能说服她放弃她正在做的事。但她很固执，很大胆，而且厚颜无耻。
一天晚上，当我坐在客厅的地板上和我们四岁的儿子玩耍时，她在浴室里。我没意识到，她在为约会做准备。她走进客厅的时候，气色很好。然后她走向我们公寓的前门，说她要出去。
“等一下！”我向她喊道。“你要去哪里？”但那时她已经出门了，我站起来跟着她。她朝停车场走去时，我重复了我的问题。“我要和比尔出去！”这是她恼怒的回答。
我一路表示反对，直到停车场，她走到一辆等着她的车的副驾驶侧。我把手放在门上，不让她打开，然后窗户摇了下来……
There was Bill; he looked at me and decided to try to lecture me. I heard him say “Mike, Mike, Mike…” with his Southern drawl, and I lost it. It was the one and only time in my life when I had gone into a blind rage.
When I came to me senses, I found myself inside his car—beating his head against the driver’s window with my fist. He eventually pushed his way out of the door and fell onto the ground. I fell on top of him, and I kept pummeling him with my fists. He struggled to his feet, and I followed. He was much bigger than I was, so I kept one hand on his collar while I swung my other arm like a windmill. Every time he tried to protect his face. I hammered his gut, and every time he dropped his guard I pounded his face—until he eventually broke free of my grasp and ran away.
I don’t remember the kind of car that he drove, but it was small and it had a manual transmission. It got knocked into neutral during our altercation, and it rolled down the gentle slope of the parking lot and crashed into a dumpster.
比尔看着我，决定教训我。我听到他用南方口音说“迈克，迈克，迈克…”，我听不懂。这是我一生中唯一一次盲目地发怒。
当我回过神来的时候，我发现自己在他的车里，用拳头把他的头撞在驾驶座的窗户上。他最终从门口挤了出来，摔倒在地上。我压在他身上，不停地用拳头打他。他挣扎着站起来，我跟着他。他比我大得多，所以我一只手放在他的衣领上，另一只胳膊像风车一样挥动着。每次他都想保护自己的脸。我就猛击他的内脏，每当他放松警惕，我就猛击他的脸，直到他最终挣脱我的手而逃走。
我不记得他开的是什么车了，不过那辆车很小，而且是手动挡的。在我们争吵的时候，它被撞到空挡上了，然后它从停车场的缓坡上滚下来，撞上了一个垃圾箱。
When I came to me senses, I found myself inside his car—beating his head against the driver’s window with my fist. He eventually pushed his way out of the door and fell onto the ground. I fell on top of him, and I kept pummeling him with my fists. He struggled to his feet, and I followed. He was much bigger than I was, so I kept one hand on his collar while I swung my other arm like a windmill. Every time he tried to protect his face. I hammered his gut, and every time he dropped his guard I pounded his face—until he eventually broke free of my grasp and ran away.
I don’t remember the kind of car that he drove, but it was small and it had a manual transmission. It got knocked into neutral during our altercation, and it rolled down the gentle slope of the parking lot and crashed into a dumpster.
比尔看着我，决定教训我。我听到他用南方口音说“迈克，迈克，迈克…”，我听不懂。这是我一生中唯一一次盲目地发怒。
当我回过神来的时候，我发现自己在他的车里，用拳头把他的头撞在驾驶座的窗户上。他最终从门口挤了出来，摔倒在地上。我压在他身上，不停地用拳头打他。他挣扎着站起来，我跟着他。他比我大得多，所以我一只手放在他的衣领上，另一只胳膊像风车一样挥动着。每次他都想保护自己的脸。我就猛击他的内脏，每当他放松警惕，我就猛击他的脸，直到他最终挣脱我的手而逃走。
我不记得他开的是什么车了，不过那辆车很小，而且是手动挡的。在我们争吵的时候，它被撞到空挡上了，然后它从停车场的缓坡上滚下来，撞上了一个垃圾箱。
John Allen
My ex-wife accused me of stalking her after our marriage and being physically abusive during it about 8 months after our divorce was final. She filed a protective order against me after she found out I was dating someone new. In fact, the day I the sheriff stopped by to serve the papers to me was right before the weekend I was going to meet my new girlfriend’s parents. She knew I was dating someone because we had both stopped by the Krav Maga gym to see some of the people that I used to take classes with. My ex wasn’t there, and my girlfriend was interested in something that I had been pretty involved in. Apparently, that was enough for my ex to think I was stalking her. That and a mysterious phone call from an unknown number (which wasn’t me).
I never hit her and I was not stalking her. Her claims and evidence were made up. Being accused of something I didn’t do and that I think is a pretty despicable thing to do made me pretty angry.
For the record, I paid for self defense classes for her for several years and bought her a handgun and took her to get a concealed carry license. She started teaching Krav Maga classes while we were married. Why exactly was my 6″ tall, armed, Krav Maga instructor ex-wife scared of me? I don’t know. I didn’t take the classes as seriously as she did and I’m only 5′9″. I’ve never been in any legal trouble. I haven’t even had a speeding ticket in the last 10 years.
我的前妻指控我在婚后跟踪她，并在离婚后的8个月时间里对她施暴。她发现我在和别人约会后申请了保护令。事实上，警长来给我送文件的那天正好是周末前，我要去见我新女友的父母。她知道我在和一个人约会，因为我们都去过近身格斗体育馆看了一些曾经和我一起上课的人。我的前任不在那里，我的女朋友对我曾经很投入的事情很感兴趣。显然，这足以让我的前任认为我在跟踪她。还有一个未知号码(不是我)打来的神秘电话。我从来没有打过她电话，也没有跟踪她。她的说法和证据都是捏造的。被指控做了一些我没有做的事情，我认为这是一件非常卑鄙的事情，这让我非常生气。
声明一下，我给她上了好几年的自卫课还给她买了一把手枪带她去办了隐蔽携带执照。我们结婚时，她开始教近身格斗课程。为什么6英尺高的前妻作为全副武装的近身格斗教练会害怕我？我不知道。我没有像她那样认真上课，而且我身高只有5英尺9英寸。我从来没有遇到过任何法律纠纷，在过去的10年里我甚至没有超速罚单。
My ex-wife accused me of stalking her after our marriage and being physically abusive during it about 8 months after our divorce was final. She filed a protective order against me after she found out I was dating someone new. In fact, the day I the sheriff stopped by to serve the papers to me was right before the weekend I was going to meet my new girlfriend’s parents. She knew I was dating someone because we had both stopped by the Krav Maga gym to see some of the people that I used to take classes with. My ex wasn’t there, and my girlfriend was interested in something that I had been pretty involved in. Apparently, that was enough for my ex to think I was stalking her. That and a mysterious phone call from an unknown number (which wasn’t me).
I never hit her and I was not stalking her. Her claims and evidence were made up. Being accused of something I didn’t do and that I think is a pretty despicable thing to do made me pretty angry.
For the record, I paid for self defense classes for her for several years and bought her a handgun and took her to get a concealed carry license. She started teaching Krav Maga classes while we were married. Why exactly was my 6″ tall, armed, Krav Maga instructor ex-wife scared of me? I don’t know. I didn’t take the classes as seriously as she did and I’m only 5′9″. I’ve never been in any legal trouble. I haven’t even had a speeding ticket in the last 10 years.
我的前妻指控我在婚后跟踪她，并在离婚后的8个月时间里对她施暴。她发现我在和别人约会后申请了保护令。事实上，警长来给我送文件的那天正好是周末前，我要去见我新女友的父母。她知道我在和一个人约会，因为我们都去过近身格斗体育馆看了一些曾经和我一起上课的人。我的前任不在那里，我的女朋友对我曾经很投入的事情很感兴趣。显然，这足以让我的前任认为我在跟踪她。还有一个未知号码(不是我)打来的神秘电话。我从来没有打过她电话，也没有跟踪她。她的说法和证据都是捏造的。被指控做了一些我没有做的事情，我认为这是一件非常卑鄙的事情，这让我非常生气。
声明一下，我给她上了好几年的自卫课还给她买了一把手枪带她去办了隐蔽携带执照。我们结婚时，她开始教近身格斗课程。为什么6英尺高的前妻作为全副武装的近身格斗教练会害怕我？我不知道。我没有像她那样认真上课，而且我身高只有5英尺9英寸。我从来没有遇到过任何法律纠纷，在过去的10年里我甚至没有超速罚单。
My lawyer said that the judge who was hearing my case had a history of making strange decisions, and only recently he heard a case where a man had murdered his wife. He told me that my ex did not have a good case at all, but since the judge had this reputation, it was better to make a deal. I didn’t want to take any chances with a protective order going on my permanent record, so I agreed to a 3 month no fault protective order. It wouldn’t go on my record, and if I left her alone for 3 months, then it would all go away. Of course, I had no intention of contacting her. I had blocked her phone, facebook, everything except email already. I told her via email before the divorce was final that I didn’t want her to contact me ever again because her behavior was very erratic, even though we had been amicable up to that point. We had no children and dividing up our assets was pretty easy since we were both graduate students with no assets to speak of. We had an old jeep, but I sold it for $800 and gave her the money.
After 3 months, I showed up to court, expecting to walk away a free man and to never see my ex-wife again. I was engaged to the same girl I had been seeing before and I was looking forward to my new life with someone who wasn’t controlling and impossible to please. My ex said that she still didn’t feel safe (after being contacted exactly 0 times since the divorce was finalized), so we would have to have another hearing. The court tried to find the records of the last hearing to prove that we had made a deal,but there weren’t any written or audio recordings. I had held up my end of the bargain, my ex was not keeping her part of deal, and it felt like the court was being run by biased monkeys.
I was so angry, I couldn’t see straight and I felt like I was on fire. I am very religious, but I said more curse words in the few hours after that than I have ever said in my life. I drove out to the hills to an isolated spot and punched the spare tire on the back of my car for an hour or so. I guess I should have picked a more isolated spot, because I eventually saw some guys working on a power line. I suppose they may have been a bit worried about this maniac punching his car and yelling obscenities and pacing in circles for an hour.
我的律师说，审理我案件的法官有做出奇怪决定的历史，最近他刚审理了一个男人谋杀妻子的案件。他告诉我，我的前任根本就没有什么好理由，但既然法官有这样的名声，最好还是做个交易。我不想让保护令出现在我的永久档案里，所以我同意了三个月的无过错保护令。如果我让她一个人待三个月，这就不会被记录在案，这一切就会烟消云散。当然，我并不想联系她。我已经屏蔽了她的手机、facebook，以及除电子邮件之外的一切。离婚前我通过电子邮件告诉她，我不想让她再联系我，因为她的行为非常古怪，尽管我们在那之前一直很友好。我们没有孩子，因为我们都是研究生，没有资产可言，所以我们的财产分配非常容易。我们有一辆旧吉普车，但我把它卖了800美元，把钱给了她。
三个月后，我出现在法庭上，希望能自由离开，再也见不到我的前妻。我和我以前交往过的那个女孩订婚了，我期待着和一个没控制欲、能取悦于我的人在一起过新生活。我的前任说她仍然觉得不安全（自从离婚定案以来，我没有联系她一次），所以我们必须再举行一次听证会。法庭试图找到上次听证会的记录来证明我们达成了协议，但没有任何书面或音频记录。我遵守了我的承诺，而我的前任却没有遵守她的承诺，这让人感觉法庭被一群有偏见的猴子操纵着。
我太生气了，看不清东西，感觉就像着火了。我是个虔诚的教徒，但在那之后的几个小时里，我说的脏话比我这辈子说过的都多。我把车开到一个偏僻的地方，在车后的备胎上戳了一个小时左右。我想我应该选择一个更偏僻的地方，因为我看到一些人在电线上工作。我想他们可能有点担心那吧—这个疯子戳自己的车，大喊脏话，绕圈子走一个小时。
After 3 months, I showed up to court, expecting to walk away a free man and to never see my ex-wife again. I was engaged to the same girl I had been seeing before and I was looking forward to my new life with someone who wasn’t controlling and impossible to please. My ex said that she still didn’t feel safe (after being contacted exactly 0 times since the divorce was finalized), so we would have to have another hearing. The court tried to find the records of the last hearing to prove that we had made a deal,but there weren’t any written or audio recordings. I had held up my end of the bargain, my ex was not keeping her part of deal, and it felt like the court was being run by biased monkeys.
I was so angry, I couldn’t see straight and I felt like I was on fire. I am very religious, but I said more curse words in the few hours after that than I have ever said in my life. I drove out to the hills to an isolated spot and punched the spare tire on the back of my car for an hour or so. I guess I should have picked a more isolated spot, because I eventually saw some guys working on a power line. I suppose they may have been a bit worried about this maniac punching his car and yelling obscenities and pacing in circles for an hour.
我的律师说，审理我案件的法官有做出奇怪决定的历史，最近他刚审理了一个男人谋杀妻子的案件。他告诉我，我的前任根本就没有什么好理由，但既然法官有这样的名声，最好还是做个交易。我不想让保护令出现在我的永久档案里，所以我同意了三个月的无过错保护令。如果我让她一个人待三个月，这就不会被记录在案，这一切就会烟消云散。当然，我并不想联系她。我已经屏蔽了她的手机、facebook，以及除电子邮件之外的一切。离婚前我通过电子邮件告诉她，我不想让她再联系我，因为她的行为非常古怪，尽管我们在那之前一直很友好。我们没有孩子，因为我们都是研究生，没有资产可言，所以我们的财产分配非常容易。我们有一辆旧吉普车，但我把它卖了800美元，把钱给了她。
三个月后，我出现在法庭上，希望能自由离开，再也见不到我的前妻。我和我以前交往过的那个女孩订婚了，我期待着和一个没控制欲、能取悦于我的人在一起过新生活。我的前任说她仍然觉得不安全（自从离婚定案以来，我没有联系她一次），所以我们必须再举行一次听证会。法庭试图找到上次听证会的记录来证明我们达成了协议，但没有任何书面或音频记录。我遵守了我的承诺，而我的前任却没有遵守她的承诺，这让人感觉法庭被一群有偏见的猴子操纵着。
我太生气了，看不清东西，感觉就像着火了。我是个虔诚的教徒，但在那之后的几个小时里，我说的脏话比我这辈子说过的都多。我把车开到一个偏僻的地方，在车后的备胎上戳了一个小时左右。我想我应该选择一个更偏僻的地方，因为我看到一些人在电线上工作。我想他们可能有点担心那吧—这个疯子戳自己的车，大喊脏话，绕圈子走一个小时。
In between this court date and the next one, the ex found a new lawyer. This is just my theory, but I believe her old lawyer told her she had no case, so she found a new one. I only have fuzzy memories of this part, but I may have written a letter stating that I would seek damages if we went to court again and I won. I suppose the new lawyer succeeded in convincing her to not go through with the protective order. She contacted my lawyer and said that if I took an anger management class, then she would stop seeking a protective order. I rolled my eyes and spent 10 minutes reading someone’s blog about anger management. Hey, she never specified what kind of class, right?
To this day, I wish that I had not made that deal. I sat down and wrote a long letter to the judge and made a very good case. I explained all the ways that I had sacrificed for her and tried to make things work, all the money I spent and student loans I took out to support her goals, the scholarship that I won and handed over to her. I was going to ask to be compensated for the money I had spent on lawyers and time I missed at work and school from being stressed out. I took the safe road made a deal and I regret it to this day. I never had a chance to tell my ex exactly why I thought our marriage didn’t work and how she had treated me so badly.
To this day, I am still upset about the marriage and getting accused of all those things. I owe a lot of money in student loans and credit cards because of her. I’ll have that debt for a long time to remind me of her. She also took my dog, who had been my best friend for a few long months before the divorce. He went with me to the lab all the time when I had my midnight experiments and slept in my bed, curled up between my legs, that long, lonely winter before the divorce. I’ll never see that dog again.
The dog:
He’s half “lab,” can you tell?
My 2nd wife, stepdaughter, son, and me. I’m glad that I have them:
And because I know some know-it-all joker will say that I must have anger issues because of how I reacted (and because people have said that to me): Thank you for judging my character and entire life based on one very difficult isolated incident. Divorce is one of the hardest things that a person can go through. It is more difficult than the death of a close family member . Being accused of something you didn’t do and having a deal broken is more than just salt in a large wound. It’s more like nitric acid or a nail gun. Until you’ve been there, keep your opinions to yourself.
在这次开庭和下次开庭之间，前任找了个新律师。这只是我的猜测，但我相信她的老律师告诉她她没有理由了，所以她找了个新律师。我对这部分只有模糊的记忆，但我可能已经写了一封信，说明如果我们再次走上法庭，我将寻求损害赔偿，而且我赢了。我想新律师成功地说服了她不要执行保护令。她联系了我的律师，说如果我参加了愤怒管理课程，她将停止寻求保护令。我翻了个白眼，花了10分钟读了一个关于愤怒管理的博客。她从来没说过是哪种班级，对吧。
直到今天，我都希望我没有做那个交易。我坐下来给法官写了一封长信，提出了一个很好的理由。我向她解释了我为她做出的所有牺牲，我努力让一切顺利，我花的所有钱，我为支持她的目标而申请的学生贷款，我赢得奖学金并交给她。我打算要求赔偿我花在律师身上的钱，以及因压力过大而错过的工作和学习时间。我选择了安全的道路，做了一笔交易，对此直到今天我都后悔。我一直没有机会告诉我的前任，我认为我们的婚姻失败的确切原因，以及她是如何糟糕的对待我的。
直到今天，我还在为这段婚姻感到难过，为所有这些事情受到指责。因为她，我欠了很多学生贷款和信用卡的钱。在很长一段时间里，我都要背负这笔债务，让我想起她。她还带走了我的狗，在离婚前的几个月里，狗一直是我最好的朋友。离婚前的那个漫长而孤独的冬天，当我在午夜做实验时，他一直陪我去实验室，蜷缩在我的床上睡觉。我再也见不到那条狗了。
狗：
他有一半的实验室血统，你能看出来吗?
我的第二任妻子，继女，儿子，还有我。我很高兴我拥有它们:
因为我知道一些自以为是的人会说我肯定有愤怒问题，因为我的反应(也因为人们对我这么说)：谢谢你根据一个非常难应对的孤立事件来判断我的性格和整个人生。离婚是一个人能经历的最难的事情之一。这比面对一位亲密家庭成员的死亡要困难得多。被人指责你没有做过的事，破坏了一笔交易，这不仅仅是在伤口上撒盐，更像是硝酸或是射钉枪。在你了解之前，不要发表意见。
To this day, I wish that I had not made that deal. I sat down and wrote a long letter to the judge and made a very good case. I explained all the ways that I had sacrificed for her and tried to make things work, all the money I spent and student loans I took out to support her goals, the scholarship that I won and handed over to her. I was going to ask to be compensated for the money I had spent on lawyers and time I missed at work and school from being stressed out. I took the safe road made a deal and I regret it to this day. I never had a chance to tell my ex exactly why I thought our marriage didn’t work and how she had treated me so badly.
To this day, I am still upset about the marriage and getting accused of all those things. I owe a lot of money in student loans and credit cards because of her. I’ll have that debt for a long time to remind me of her. She also took my dog, who had been my best friend for a few long months before the divorce. He went with me to the lab all the time when I had my midnight experiments and slept in my bed, curled up between my legs, that long, lonely winter before the divorce. I’ll never see that dog again.
The dog:
He’s half “lab,” can you tell?
My 2nd wife, stepdaughter, son, and me. I’m glad that I have them:
And because I know some know-it-all joker will say that I must have anger issues because of how I reacted (and because people have said that to me): Thank you for judging my character and entire life based on one very difficult isolated incident. Divorce is one of the hardest things that a person can go through. It is more difficult than the death of a close family member . Being accused of something you didn’t do and having a deal broken is more than just salt in a large wound. It’s more like nitric acid or a nail gun. Until you’ve been there, keep your opinions to yourself.
在这次开庭和下次开庭之间，前任找了个新律师。这只是我的猜测，但我相信她的老律师告诉她她没有理由了，所以她找了个新律师。我对这部分只有模糊的记忆，但我可能已经写了一封信，说明如果我们再次走上法庭，我将寻求损害赔偿，而且我赢了。我想新律师成功地说服了她不要执行保护令。她联系了我的律师，说如果我参加了愤怒管理课程，她将停止寻求保护令。我翻了个白眼，花了10分钟读了一个关于愤怒管理的博客。她从来没说过是哪种班级，对吧。
直到今天，我都希望我没有做那个交易。我坐下来给法官写了一封长信，提出了一个很好的理由。我向她解释了我为她做出的所有牺牲，我努力让一切顺利，我花的所有钱，我为支持她的目标而申请的学生贷款，我赢得奖学金并交给她。我打算要求赔偿我花在律师身上的钱，以及因压力过大而错过的工作和学习时间。我选择了安全的道路，做了一笔交易，对此直到今天我都后悔。我一直没有机会告诉我的前任，我认为我们的婚姻失败的确切原因，以及她是如何糟糕的对待我的。
直到今天，我还在为这段婚姻感到难过，为所有这些事情受到指责。因为她，我欠了很多学生贷款和信用卡的钱。在很长一段时间里，我都要背负这笔债务，让我想起她。她还带走了我的狗，在离婚前的几个月里，狗一直是我最好的朋友。离婚前的那个漫长而孤独的冬天，当我在午夜做实验时，他一直陪我去实验室，蜷缩在我的床上睡觉。我再也见不到那条狗了。
狗：
他有一半的实验室血统，你能看出来吗?
我的第二任妻子，继女，儿子，还有我。我很高兴我拥有它们:
因为我知道一些自以为是的人会说我肯定有愤怒问题，因为我的反应(也因为人们对我这么说)：谢谢你根据一个非常难应对的孤立事件来判断我的性格和整个人生。离婚是一个人能经历的最难的事情之一。这比面对一位亲密家庭成员的死亡要困难得多。被人指责你没有做过的事，破坏了一笔交易，这不仅仅是在伤口上撒盐，更像是硝酸或是射钉枪。在你了解之前，不要发表意见。
Pratyush S
I wrote my Pharmacognosy Term End Exam yesterday for 2nd year and it was great indeed
But after a while when I was packing my bags up to go home
An attendant comes and inquires about my name
I asked him
Whats the matter all about ??
He says I was called in the admin office
I asked him the reason but he says he doesn’t know about that he was just told to summon me to admin office right away
Now I was completely alienated to the fact that why such a higher authority of the college gave me an immediate call to be present but still I packed up my bag and followed that attendant to the 5th floor admin office
I was told to wait for 2 min…..
昨天我写了二年级生药学期末考试，考得非常好。
但是过了一会儿，当我收拾行李回家的时候，一个服务员来询问我的名字，我问他这到底是怎么回事？
他说有人叫我去行政办公室，我问他原因，但他说他不知道，他只是被告知马上把我叫到行政办公室。
现在，我完全疏远了这样一个事实，那就是为什么学院的一个高级负责人立即给我打电话要求出席，但我还是收拾好行李，跟着那个服务员来到了五楼的行政办公室。
我被告知要等2分钟。
I wrote my Pharmacognosy Term End Exam yesterday for 2nd year and it was great indeed
But after a while when I was packing my bags up to go home
An attendant comes and inquires about my name
I asked him
Whats the matter all about ??
He says I was called in the admin office
I asked him the reason but he says he doesn’t know about that he was just told to summon me to admin office right away
Now I was completely alienated to the fact that why such a higher authority of the college gave me an immediate call to be present but still I packed up my bag and followed that attendant to the 5th floor admin office
I was told to wait for 2 min…..
昨天我写了二年级生药学期末考试，考得非常好。
但是过了一会儿，当我收拾行李回家的时候，一个服务员来询问我的名字，我问他这到底是怎么回事？
他说有人叫我去行政办公室，我问他原因，但他说他不知道，他只是被告知马上把我叫到行政办公室。
现在，我完全疏远了这样一个事实，那就是为什么学院的一个高级负责人立即给我打电话要求出席，但我还是收拾好行李，跟着那个服务员来到了五楼的行政办公室。
我被告知要等2分钟。
2 min changed to 10 min but still I was waiting and then I was called inside
The associate DEAN of the college comes out and directs me to come to her cabin
Following the code of conduct I slightly opened the door to seek permission to enter
Me - Maam may I come in ??
Maam - Yes please
Me - Maam you called me ??
Maam - Ok so you are Pradyumann right ??
Me - Maam Sorry my name is Pratyush
Maam - Ok Pratyush whats that folded piece of paper you are carrying on your hand
2分钟变为10分钟，但我仍然在等待，然后我被叫进了房间，学院副院长走出来，指示我到她的小屋。
按照行为准则，我轻轻地打开门，寻求进入的许可:
我-女士，我可以进来吗？
女士-好的，请
我-女士，你叫我？
女士-是的，那么你是 Pradyumann，对吗？
我-女士，对不起，我叫Pratyush
女士-好的，Pratyush，你手上拿的那张折叠好的纸是什么。
The associate DEAN of the college comes out and directs me to come to her cabin
Following the code of conduct I slightly opened the door to seek permission to enter
Me - Maam may I come in ??
Maam - Yes please
Me - Maam you called me ??
Maam - Ok so you are Pradyumann right ??
Me - Maam Sorry my name is Pratyush
Maam - Ok Pratyush whats that folded piece of paper you are carrying on your hand
2分钟变为10分钟，但我仍然在等待，然后我被叫进了房间，学院副院长走出来，指示我到她的小屋。
按照行为准则，我轻轻地打开门，寻求进入的许可:
我-女士，我可以进来吗？
女士-好的，请
我-女士，你叫我？
女士-是的，那么你是 Pradyumann，对吗？
我-女士，对不起，我叫Pratyush
女士-好的，Pratyush，你手上拿的那张折叠好的纸是什么。
Me - Maam actually I wanted to upxe my address details in college records
Maam - Ok so U are from Mumbai Right ??
Me - Yes maam
Maam - Please have a seat
Me - (Pulls that Office chair on the opposite side of her table and squat down)
Maam - Where do you stay in Mumbai ?
Me - Maam I m from Kalyan
Maam - From Kalyan Okk !!!! So how do you travel everyday ?
我-女士，事实上，我想在大学档案里更新我的详细地址
女士-好的，那么你是孟买人，对吗？
我-是的，女士
女士-请坐
我-（拉着桌子对面的办公椅蹲下）
夫人-你住在孟买的什么地方？
我-女士，我来自格利揚(Kalyan)
Maam-来自格利揚(Kalyan)！那么你每天怎么出行呢？
Maam - Ok so U are from Mumbai Right ??
Me - Yes maam
Maam - Please have a seat
Me - (Pulls that Office chair on the opposite side of her table and squat down)
Maam - Where do you stay in Mumbai ?
Me - Maam I m from Kalyan
Maam - From Kalyan Okk !!!! So how do you travel everyday ?
我-女士，事实上，我想在大学档案里更新我的详细地址
女士-好的，那么你是孟买人，对吗？
我-是的，女士
女士-请坐
我-（拉着桌子对面的办公椅蹲下）
夫人-你住在孟买的什么地方？
我-女士，我来自格利揚(Kalyan)
Maam-来自格利揚(Kalyan)！那么你每天怎么出行呢？
Me - By Train
Maam - So it might be taking you 2 hours everyday to reach till College ?
Me - Yes maam max to max its 2 hours but commonly its 1 hour 30 mins
Maam - Ok So Pratyush Listen to me , We don’t want to get your parents involved in this , its better this issue resolves in the college itself but a few girls of your class have lodged a complaint against u that they don’t feel comfortable in a way you stare them
我-坐火车
女士-所以你每天要花两个小时才能到达大学？
我-是的，夫人，最多2小时，但通常是1小时30分钟
女士-好的，那么Pratyush，听我说，我们不想让你的父母卷入这件事，这件事最好在大学里解决，但你们班上的几个女生对你提出了投诉，说你盯着她们看，这让她们觉得不舒服。
Maam - So it might be taking you 2 hours everyday to reach till College ?
Me - Yes maam max to max its 2 hours but commonly its 1 hour 30 mins
Maam - Ok So Pratyush Listen to me , We don’t want to get your parents involved in this , its better this issue resolves in the college itself but a few girls of your class have lodged a complaint against u that they don’t feel comfortable in a way you stare them
我-坐火车
女士-所以你每天要花两个小时才能到达大学？
我-是的，夫人，最多2小时，但通常是1小时30分钟
女士-好的，那么Pratyush，听我说，我们不想让你的父母卷入这件事，这件事最好在大学里解决，但你们班上的几个女生对你提出了投诉，说你盯着她们看，这让她们觉得不舒服。
Me - Whatttttttttt ?????? (Getting overexcited) I have stared them ???? Maam I m sorry to inform but I haven’t stared anyone
Maam - Well do you recall doing any of such incidents ???
Me - Maam I m literally shocked to hear this from you , I have been into many co ed schools previously its not my first time in NMIMS (College name) to see girls that I m being accused of Eve Teasing
Maam - Calm down Calm down you don’t need to get that excited
Me - I don’t know maam What to say ??? I maintain a good relationship with almost all of my classmates And If I only talk about girls so they wave me and I wave them back its a very intimate kind of Friendship bond I share with everyone and also whoever has accused me of this If she really has some problem with me so she can come and tell it to my face I would never mind
Maam - Ok Calm Down Pratyush …. Its was brought to my notice so as an associate Dean its my Duty to settle the matter
Me - Maam can you just tell me the names of those girls who have accussed me of this ??
我-什么？（刺激过度）我盯着他们看了吗？女士，很抱歉告诉你，我没有盯着任何人看过。
女士-你还记得发生过这样的事情吗？
我-女士，听到你这么说我真的很震惊，我以前去过很多男女同校的学校。这不是我第一次在NMIMS（大学名称）看到我被指控“戏弄夏娃”(Eve-teasing，指各种性侵——从口头性骚扰到性袭击)
女士-冷静，冷静，你不需要那么激动。
我-女士，我不知道夫人该说什么？我几乎和所有的同学都保持着良好的关系，如果谈论女孩，她们就会向我挥手，我也会向她们挥手。这是一种非常亲密的友谊纽带，我与每个人都有这种关系，也与任何指责我的人有这种关系。如果她真的对我有看法，她可以来当着我的面告诉我，我不会介意。
女士-好的，冷静下来，Pratyush。这件事引起了我的注意，所以作为副院长，我有责任解决这件事。
我-女士，你能告诉我那些指控我的女孩的名字吗？
Maam - Well do you recall doing any of such incidents ???
Me - Maam I m literally shocked to hear this from you , I have been into many co ed schools previously its not my first time in NMIMS (College name) to see girls that I m being accused of Eve Teasing
Maam - Calm down Calm down you don’t need to get that excited
Me - I don’t know maam What to say ??? I maintain a good relationship with almost all of my classmates And If I only talk about girls so they wave me and I wave them back its a very intimate kind of Friendship bond I share with everyone and also whoever has accused me of this If she really has some problem with me so she can come and tell it to my face I would never mind
Maam - Ok Calm Down Pratyush …. Its was brought to my notice so as an associate Dean its my Duty to settle the matter
Me - Maam can you just tell me the names of those girls who have accussed me of this ??
我-什么？（刺激过度）我盯着他们看了吗？女士，很抱歉告诉你，我没有盯着任何人看过。
女士-你还记得发生过这样的事情吗？
我-女士，听到你这么说我真的很震惊，我以前去过很多男女同校的学校。这不是我第一次在NMIMS（大学名称）看到我被指控“戏弄夏娃”(Eve-teasing，指各种性侵——从口头性骚扰到性袭击)
女士-冷静，冷静，你不需要那么激动。
我-女士，我不知道夫人该说什么？我几乎和所有的同学都保持着良好的关系，如果谈论女孩，她们就会向我挥手，我也会向她们挥手。这是一种非常亲密的友谊纽带，我与每个人都有这种关系，也与任何指责我的人有这种关系。如果她真的对我有看法，她可以来当着我的面告诉我，我不会介意。
女士-好的，冷静下来，Pratyush。这件事引起了我的注意，所以作为副院长，我有责任解决这件事。
我-女士，你能告诉我那些指控我的女孩的名字吗？
Maam - What do you think who it can be ??
Me - Maam Trust me I M extremely SHOCKED …… I m asking you her name because I can act in accordance to it , just because one girl has some problem with me I can’t spoil my relations with almost all of my female classmates I hope you understand
Maam - See Pratyush I called you here just because I wanted to hear your part of the story I m not accusing you out , U have denied all the charges and thats what I wanted to know , Now don’t pay much heed to it , see this is an age where girls and boys both are walking side by side no one is less than the other So just Calm down and concentrate on your forthcoming exams …
Me - Maam , I have a request can you just confirm if its Girl or girls…. ???
Maam - Sorry Pratyush I can’t reveal that .
Me - Maam I assure you I won’t create a fuss over it in the class I will very silently end all my contacts with her bcz maam I just can’t afford to spoil my relations with all the girls of my class
夫人-你认为会是谁？
我-女士，相信我，我非常震惊，我问你她的名字是因为我可以按照她的要求去行事，但就因为一个女孩对我有看法，我不能破坏与几乎所有女同学的关系，我希望你能理解。
女士-Pratyush，我打电话给你只是因为我想听听你说下情况，我不是在指责你，你否认了所有的指控，这就是我想知道的，现在不要太在意，这是一个女孩和男孩肩并肩走在一起的时代没有谁比谁差，所以冷静下来，专注于你即将到来的考试。
我-女士，我有一个请求你能说下那女孩是谁吗？
女士-对不起，Pratyush。我不能透露。
我-女士，我向你保证，我不会在课堂上大惊小怪。我会非常安静地结束我与她的所有联系。妈妈，我只是不能因此破坏我与班上所有女孩的关系而已。
Me - Maam Trust me I M extremely SHOCKED …… I m asking you her name because I can act in accordance to it , just because one girl has some problem with me I can’t spoil my relations with almost all of my female classmates I hope you understand
Maam - See Pratyush I called you here just because I wanted to hear your part of the story I m not accusing you out , U have denied all the charges and thats what I wanted to know , Now don’t pay much heed to it , see this is an age where girls and boys both are walking side by side no one is less than the other So just Calm down and concentrate on your forthcoming exams …
Me - Maam , I have a request can you just confirm if its Girl or girls…. ???
Maam - Sorry Pratyush I can’t reveal that .
Me - Maam I assure you I won’t create a fuss over it in the class I will very silently end all my contacts with her bcz maam I just can’t afford to spoil my relations with all the girls of my class
夫人-你认为会是谁？
我-女士，相信我，我非常震惊，我问你她的名字是因为我可以按照她的要求去行事，但就因为一个女孩对我有看法，我不能破坏与几乎所有女同学的关系，我希望你能理解。
女士-Pratyush，我打电话给你只是因为我想听听你说下情况，我不是在指责你，你否认了所有的指控，这就是我想知道的，现在不要太在意，这是一个女孩和男孩肩并肩走在一起的时代没有谁比谁差，所以冷静下来，专注于你即将到来的考试。
我-女士，我有一个请求你能说下那女孩是谁吗？
女士-对不起，Pratyush。我不能透露。
我-女士，我向你保证，我不会在课堂上大惊小怪。我会非常安静地结束我与她的所有联系。妈妈，我只是不能因此破坏我与班上所有女孩的关系而已。
Maam - Ok So what I can do at the earliest is I can call both of you to this cabin on the last paper that is on Wednesday and let the matter get sorted in my presence Is it ok for U ???
Me - Yes maam its very fair Thank you soo much maam
Conversation Ends
What makes me feel angry ???
Its my humble request to the womenfolk that If you have some problem with a guy due to some unspecified reasons so make sure to take the audacity to explain the same to him rather than accusing him of False charges …. As a guy its painful for anyone to hear that the opposite gender doesn’t really feel safe around him So please do tell make him realize of the same So that he never looks at your face in future and talks to you
Now whats the immediate effect of this incident on me ???
I have to think 10 times before talking to anyone and my real persona is lost
Ps - After this incident I gave a call to my Girlfriend just to narrate this incident and to tell her How much I actually Love Her ( I wanted someone to hear me out and she did it the Best way )
女士-好的，那么我最早能做的就是，我可以在周三的最后一堂考试后把你们两个都叫到这个小屋，在我面前把事情解决，你觉得可以吗？
我-好的，女士，这很公平。非常感谢你，女士。
对话结束了
是什么让我生气呢？
我恳请各位女士们，如果你们和一个男人因为一些不确定的原因产生了问题，请大胆地向他解释，而不要对他进行错误指控。作为一个男人，听到异性在他身边并不感到安全的说法，任何人都会感到痛苦，所以请告诉他，让他意识到这一点，这样他以后就不会看着你的脸，也不会和你说话。
现在，这件事对我的直接影响是什么呢？
在与任何人交谈之前，我必须思考10次，我真实的表明形象已经消失了。
后记：在这件事发生后，我给女朋友打了个电话叙述一下这个事件，告诉她我有多爱她(我希望有人能听我说完，她用最好的方式做到了)！
Me - Yes maam its very fair Thank you soo much maam
Conversation Ends
What makes me feel angry ???
Its my humble request to the womenfolk that If you have some problem with a guy due to some unspecified reasons so make sure to take the audacity to explain the same to him rather than accusing him of False charges …. As a guy its painful for anyone to hear that the opposite gender doesn’t really feel safe around him So please do tell make him realize of the same So that he never looks at your face in future and talks to you
Now whats the immediate effect of this incident on me ???
I have to think 10 times before talking to anyone and my real persona is lost
Ps - After this incident I gave a call to my Girlfriend just to narrate this incident and to tell her How much I actually Love Her ( I wanted someone to hear me out and she did it the Best way )
女士-好的，那么我最早能做的就是，我可以在周三的最后一堂考试后把你们两个都叫到这个小屋，在我面前把事情解决，你觉得可以吗？
我-好的，女士，这很公平。非常感谢你，女士。
对话结束了
是什么让我生气呢？
我恳请各位女士们，如果你们和一个男人因为一些不确定的原因产生了问题，请大胆地向他解释，而不要对他进行错误指控。作为一个男人，听到异性在他身边并不感到安全的说法，任何人都会感到痛苦，所以请告诉他，让他意识到这一点，这样他以后就不会看着你的脸，也不会和你说话。
现在，这件事对我的直接影响是什么呢？
在与任何人交谈之前，我必须思考10次，我真实的表明形象已经消失了。
后记：在这件事发生后，我给女朋友打了个电话叙述一下这个事件，告诉她我有多爱她(我希望有人能听我说完，她用最好的方式做到了)！
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