生活中最可悲的事实是什么(三)
正文翻译
What is the saddest truth about life?
生活中最可悲的事实是什么?
What is the saddest truth about life?
生活中最可悲的事实是什么?
评论翻译
Alesha
What are brutal truths everyone should realize earlier in life?
1. Nobody cares. I repeat, nobody. But exceptions are always there.
2. You quit, you lose, you fail. There is nothing in between.
3. Luck works if hard work runs.
4. Listen to learn.
5. You don't have to impress anyone.
6. Everything is going to be forgotten one day. So, live your life to the fullest.
7. Don't take the easy road always.
8. Nobody is interested in what happened to you or how was your past like. Your success is the only thing that will speak volumes on your behalf.
9. You can't change others. It's not your job.
10. And yeah, life doesn't get any easier.
有哪些残酷的事实是每个人都应该在小时候意识到的?
1.没人会在乎你。我重复一遍，没人。但例外总是存在的。
2.你放弃，你就输了、就失败。不存在介于两者之间的状态。
3.如果努力工作，运气会起作用。
4.从倾听中学习。
5.你不必给任何人留下深刻印象。
6.总有一天，一切都会被遗忘。所以，尽情地生活吧。
7.不要总是选择容易走的路。
8.没有人对“你发生过什么？”或对“你的过去是怎么样?”感兴趣。你的成功是唯一能代表你的东西。
9.你无法改变他人，这不是你要做的事。
10.是的，生活并没有变得更容易。
What are brutal truths everyone should realize earlier in life?
1. Nobody cares. I repeat, nobody. But exceptions are always there.
2. You quit, you lose, you fail. There is nothing in between.
3. Luck works if hard work runs.
4. Listen to learn.
5. You don't have to impress anyone.
6. Everything is going to be forgotten one day. So, live your life to the fullest.
7. Don't take the easy road always.
8. Nobody is interested in what happened to you or how was your past like. Your success is the only thing that will speak volumes on your behalf.
9. You can't change others. It's not your job.
10. And yeah, life doesn't get any easier.
有哪些残酷的事实是每个人都应该在小时候意识到的?
1.没人会在乎你。我重复一遍，没人。但例外总是存在的。
2.你放弃，你就输了、就失败。不存在介于两者之间的状态。
3.如果努力工作，运气会起作用。
4.从倾听中学习。
5.你不必给任何人留下深刻印象。
6.总有一天，一切都会被遗忘。所以，尽情地生活吧。
7.不要总是选择容易走的路。
8.没有人对“你发生过什么？”或对“你的过去是怎么样?”感兴趣。你的成功是唯一能代表你的东西。
9.你无法改变他人，这不是你要做的事。
10.是的，生活并没有变得更容易。
Mansur Larry
What are some hard truths about life that people don't talk about enough?
1. You get to know the true character of people, when you’re not in best terms with them
2. Bad and toxic people will do bad things to you and convince people you were the cause
3. Sometimes the people you call your best friends, are your worst enemies
4. The people you confide your secrets in may one day use it against you
5. Whether you are good or not, people will judge you nevertheless. Do whatever makes you happy and don’t listen to opinions of others
6. Be mindful of what people say when they’re angry at you. Never take those words lightly
7. The people who you trust may be the people who will abandon you when you need them the most
8. Nobody owes you anything.
9. Sometimes you have to cut off some people so you can heal. It’s going to be difficult but you have to prioritize your mental health.
10. Don’t think that people who treat others bad won’t do the same to you one day. Be quick to realize these red flag and put boundaries between you and such people
关于生活，有哪些残酷的事实是人们谈论得不够多的?
1.当你与他人关系不好时，你会了解他们的真实性格
2.坏人和令人极不愉快的人会对你做糟糕的事，并让人们相信你是罪魁祸首。
3.有时你称之为最好的朋友的人是你最可怕的敌人
4.你倾诉秘密的人可能有一天会利用你的秘密来对付你
5.不管你好不好，人们还是会评判你的。做任何让你开心的事，不要听别人的意见
6.当人们对你生气时，要注意他们说的话。千万不要轻视这些话
7.你信任的人可能是在你最需要的时候会抛弃你的人
8.没有人欠你什么。
9.有时候你必须切断某些人的联系，这样你才能痊愈。这会很困难，但你必须优先考虑你的心理健康。
10.不要以为早某个时候对别人不好的人不会对你不好。迅速意识到这些危险，并在你和这些人之间划定界限
What are some hard truths about life that people don't talk about enough?
1. You get to know the true character of people, when you’re not in best terms with them
2. Bad and toxic people will do bad things to you and convince people you were the cause
3. Sometimes the people you call your best friends, are your worst enemies
4. The people you confide your secrets in may one day use it against you
5. Whether you are good or not, people will judge you nevertheless. Do whatever makes you happy and don’t listen to opinions of others
6. Be mindful of what people say when they’re angry at you. Never take those words lightly
7. The people who you trust may be the people who will abandon you when you need them the most
8. Nobody owes you anything.
9. Sometimes you have to cut off some people so you can heal. It’s going to be difficult but you have to prioritize your mental health.
10. Don’t think that people who treat others bad won’t do the same to you one day. Be quick to realize these red flag and put boundaries between you and such people
关于生活，有哪些残酷的事实是人们谈论得不够多的?
1.当你与他人关系不好时，你会了解他们的真实性格
2.坏人和令人极不愉快的人会对你做糟糕的事，并让人们相信你是罪魁祸首。
3.有时你称之为最好的朋友的人是你最可怕的敌人
4.你倾诉秘密的人可能有一天会利用你的秘密来对付你
5.不管你好不好，人们还是会评判你的。做任何让你开心的事，不要听别人的意见
6.当人们对你生气时，要注意他们说的话。千万不要轻视这些话
7.你信任的人可能是在你最需要的时候会抛弃你的人
8.没有人欠你什么。
9.有时候你必须切断某些人的联系，这样你才能痊愈。这会很困难，但你必须优先考虑你的心理健康。
10.不要以为早某个时候对别人不好的人不会对你不好。迅速意识到这些危险，并在你和这些人之间划定界限
Carol Vachon
What is the saddest thing that happened to you that you never shared with others before?
My parents were married for 66 years. A few days after my mom died, we were scheduled for her funeral mass and burial. Before the funeral mass, we were supposed to meet other family members at the funeral home, but when my dad woke up, he was not sure where my mom was. We showed up 15 minutes late to the funeral home because I had to re-explain to my dad that my mom was gone. My dad had spent so many years waking up to my mom next to him that her passing was something that he never go used to. [My dad died about 3 months after my mom. It turned out that waking up next to my mom was a matter of life and death.]
[edit: I'm overwhelmed by the response to this story. I had always thought that my dad would die first of congestive heart failure and that my mom's brain tumor would have grown slowly so that she would have been the survivor. My mom was on oxygen and a feeding tube, but she loved every minute of life and would have been a much better survivor than my dad. My dad didn't really see much purpose in going on without mom.
发生在你身上而你从未与他人分享过的最悲伤的事情是什么?
我父母结婚66年了。在我妈妈去世几天后，我们被安排去给她举办葬礼。在葬礼弥撒之前，我们应该在殡仪馆和其他家庭成员见面，但当我爸爸醒来时，他不确定我妈妈在哪里。我们去殡仪馆迟到了15分钟，因为我不得不向我父亲重新解释我妈妈不在了。这么多年来，每当父亲醒来时，母亲就在他身边，以至于他一直无法习惯母亲的去世。我爸爸在我妈妈去世3个月后也去世了。事实证明，在妈妈身边醒来是一件生死攸关的事情。
编辑：大家对这个故事的反应让我很感动。我一直以为我父亲会先死于充血性心力衰竭，而我母亲的脑瘤会慢慢生长，这样她才会活下来。我的母亲需要吸氧和喂食管，但她热爱生命的每一分钟，她会比我父亲活得更好。
What is the saddest thing that happened to you that you never shared with others before?
My parents were married for 66 years. A few days after my mom died, we were scheduled for her funeral mass and burial. Before the funeral mass, we were supposed to meet other family members at the funeral home, but when my dad woke up, he was not sure where my mom was. We showed up 15 minutes late to the funeral home because I had to re-explain to my dad that my mom was gone. My dad had spent so many years waking up to my mom next to him that her passing was something that he never go used to. [My dad died about 3 months after my mom. It turned out that waking up next to my mom was a matter of life and death.]
[edit: I'm overwhelmed by the response to this story. I had always thought that my dad would die first of congestive heart failure and that my mom's brain tumor would have grown slowly so that she would have been the survivor. My mom was on oxygen and a feeding tube, but she loved every minute of life and would have been a much better survivor than my dad. My dad didn't really see much purpose in going on without mom.
发生在你身上而你从未与他人分享过的最悲伤的事情是什么?
我父母结婚66年了。在我妈妈去世几天后，我们被安排去给她举办葬礼。在葬礼弥撒之前，我们应该在殡仪馆和其他家庭成员见面，但当我爸爸醒来时，他不确定我妈妈在哪里。我们去殡仪馆迟到了15分钟，因为我不得不向我父亲重新解释我妈妈不在了。这么多年来，每当父亲醒来时，母亲就在他身边，以至于他一直无法习惯母亲的去世。我爸爸在我妈妈去世3个月后也去世了。事实证明，在妈妈身边醒来是一件生死攸关的事情。
编辑：大家对这个故事的反应让我很感动。我一直以为我父亲会先死于充血性心力衰竭，而我母亲的脑瘤会慢慢生长，这样她才会活下来。我的母亲需要吸氧和喂食管，但她热爱生命的每一分钟，她会比我父亲活得更好。
Jean-Marie Valheur
Which person in history has had the saddest life?
I think the little boy in this photograph takes the cake. His name? Henk Heithuis. And I am warning you ahead of time, his story is absolutely gruesome and terrifying. Heithuis was born in the Netherlands in 1935 and placed in the foster system, to be cared for by Catholic priests. Now priests had a tendency of abusing young children under their care, there have been many such cases… but Heithuis was not like most victims… he was about to go public.
Usually, the abuse was quietly pushed aside, shrugged off, swept under the rug. It’s been that way for centuries. Victims stayed quiet out of shame and fear. Not Henk Heithuis. He decided to make a stand. For himself and for all those others he had known who were abused, molested, raped. So he went to the police, and officially accused the priests of sexual abuse. This was revolutionary, and absolutely unheard of in the 1950s!
历史上谁的一生最悲伤?
我认为是这张照片里的小男孩，照片中他拿着蛋糕。他的名字是亨克·海瑟斯（Henk Heithuis）。我提前警告你，他的故事绝对可怕。海瑟斯于1935年出生于荷兰，被寄养制度安置，由天主教神父照顾。现在牧师们有虐待他们照顾下的幼童的倾向，有很多这样的案例，但海瑟斯不像大多数受害者，他将这些事情给公开了。
通常情况下，那些施虐者默默地推脱掉指责，耸耸肩，避而不谈。这种方式已经持续了几个世纪。受害者出于羞耻和恐惧而保持沉默。亨克·海瑟斯（Henk Heithuis）决定进行抵抗。为了他自己，也为了他认识的所有其他被虐待、骚扰、强奸的人。于是他去了警察局，正式指控神父们搞性虐待。这是革命性的事情，在20世纪50年代绝对闻所未闻！
Which person in history has had the saddest life?
I think the little boy in this photograph takes the cake. His name? Henk Heithuis. And I am warning you ahead of time, his story is absolutely gruesome and terrifying. Heithuis was born in the Netherlands in 1935 and placed in the foster system, to be cared for by Catholic priests. Now priests had a tendency of abusing young children under their care, there have been many such cases… but Heithuis was not like most victims… he was about to go public.
Usually, the abuse was quietly pushed aside, shrugged off, swept under the rug. It’s been that way for centuries. Victims stayed quiet out of shame and fear. Not Henk Heithuis. He decided to make a stand. For himself and for all those others he had known who were abused, molested, raped. So he went to the police, and officially accused the priests of sexual abuse. This was revolutionary, and absolutely unheard of in the 1950s!
历史上谁的一生最悲伤?
我认为是这张照片里的小男孩，照片中他拿着蛋糕。他的名字是亨克·海瑟斯（Henk Heithuis）。我提前警告你，他的故事绝对可怕。海瑟斯于1935年出生于荷兰，被寄养制度安置，由天主教神父照顾。现在牧师们有虐待他们照顾下的幼童的倾向，有很多这样的案例，但海瑟斯不像大多数受害者，他将这些事情给公开了。
通常情况下，那些施虐者默默地推脱掉指责，耸耸肩，避而不谈。这种方式已经持续了几个世纪。受害者出于羞耻和恐惧而保持沉默。亨克·海瑟斯（Henk Heithuis）决定进行抵抗。为了他自己，也为了他认识的所有其他被虐待、骚扰、强奸的人。于是他去了警察局，正式指控神父们搞性虐待。这是革命性的事情，在20世纪50年代绝对闻所未闻！
What Heithuis had not anticipated, is the absolute cruelty and the far-reaching power of the institution he was about to face. Since he was still legally a minor at the time of the abuse, and at the time he made his accusation, Heithuis was still a ward of the state, unable to make his own decisions, the court argued.
He insisted, however, that he was raped. The priests then came forward and denied this. Instead, they instead, Heithuis was a homosexual boy who had “seduced the priests”, can you imagine their audacity? The young victim vehemently denied the accusations, maintained he had been raped and that he was, in fact, heterosexual — he even had a girlfriend he hoped to marry as soon as he reached the age of maturity.
The church, however, had quite a bit of influence with the courts. They convinced them that Heithuis was, in fact, homosexual. And in the 1950s, homosexuality was still illegal in the now-so-liberal Netherlands. The treatment consisted of either years in an institution, chemical castration, or physical castration… with Heithuis, no rebuttal was allowed, no second opinion considered and no option given — he was to be castrated immediately. Which he was.
修斯没有预料到的，是十足的残酷事实，他即将面对的机构的影响深远的权力。法院认为，由于在虐待发生时，他在法律上仍然是未成年人，而且在他提出指控时，海瑟斯黑特斯仍受国家监护，不能自己做决定。
然而，他坚称自己被强奸了。牧师们随后否认了这一点。他们反而指出，海瑟斯是一个同性恋男孩，他“勾引了牧师”，你能想象他们的大胆吗？这位年轻的受害者强烈否认指控，坚称自己被强奸，事实上他是异性恋者——他甚至有一个女友，希望在他成年后能与之尽快结婚。
然而，教会对法庭有相当大的影响力。教会说服他们，海瑟斯事实上是同性恋。20世纪50年代，同性恋在现在如此自由的荷兰仍然是非法的。治疗方法包括在机构里待几年、化学阉割或物理阉割，对于海瑟斯来说，这是不允许反驳，不考虑第二种意见，也不给出任何选择——他将立即被阉割，他确实被阉割了。
He insisted, however, that he was raped. The priests then came forward and denied this. Instead, they instead, Heithuis was a homosexual boy who had “seduced the priests”, can you imagine their audacity? The young victim vehemently denied the accusations, maintained he had been raped and that he was, in fact, heterosexual — he even had a girlfriend he hoped to marry as soon as he reached the age of maturity.
The church, however, had quite a bit of influence with the courts. They convinced them that Heithuis was, in fact, homosexual. And in the 1950s, homosexuality was still illegal in the now-so-liberal Netherlands. The treatment consisted of either years in an institution, chemical castration, or physical castration… with Heithuis, no rebuttal was allowed, no second opinion considered and no option given — he was to be castrated immediately. Which he was.
修斯没有预料到的，是十足的残酷事实，他即将面对的机构的影响深远的权力。法院认为，由于在虐待发生时，他在法律上仍然是未成年人，而且在他提出指控时，海瑟斯黑特斯仍受国家监护，不能自己做决定。
然而，他坚称自己被强奸了。牧师们随后否认了这一点。他们反而指出，海瑟斯是一个同性恋男孩，他“勾引了牧师”，你能想象他们的大胆吗？这位年轻的受害者强烈否认指控，坚称自己被强奸，事实上他是异性恋者——他甚至有一个女友，希望在他成年后能与之尽快结婚。
然而，教会对法庭有相当大的影响力。教会说服他们，海瑟斯事实上是同性恋。20世纪50年代，同性恋在现在如此自由的荷兰仍然是非法的。治疗方法包括在机构里待几年、化学阉割或物理阉割，对于海瑟斯来说，这是不允许反驳，不考虑第二种意见，也不给出任何选择——他将立即被阉割，他确实被阉割了。
They drugged the teenaged abuse victim, drove him to a clinic down South and strapped him to a table where they surgically gelded him. After the operation they kicked him to the curb… Heithuis was broken. Mentally. Physically. He abandoned his friends and his fiancée and became a sailor. He made it as far as Japan, when he broke down and, when on shore leave, found his way to the Dutch embassy. Here, he told his story to a diplomat who took pity on his fate. He even showed his scars, and explained how his hormones were now out of control, his body no longer felt like his and he was suicidal.
“Please tell my story…” Heithuis insisted, “make notes, remember it. They may come for me. They may kill me.”
Surely it wouldn’t be so bad, his friend, Cornelius Rogge, assured him. Surely they would not have him killed. How could they? But Heithuis was sure of it. Arrangements were made with the shipping company to have him brought back home to his country.
When he returned, Heithuis, helped by his friends who knew his story, once again pressed charges. This time for forcible castration, lying about his sexuality and mental health problems as well as slandering his good name. Still refusing to surrender, he wanted justice, he wanted his good name restored.
But in 1958, shortly after pressing charges? Henk Heithuis got into a car accident and died on the spot. The police conviscated all his personal belongings and material provided to them by the deceased. All material was destroyed on the day of his death.
他们给这名遭受性虐待的青少年受害者下药，开车把他送到南部的一家诊所，把他绑在一张桌子上，给他做了阉割手术。手术后，他们把他踢到了路边，不管精神还是身体上，海瑟斯变得不完整了。他放弃了朋友和未婚妻，成为了一名水手。他最远到达了日本，后来身体出了毛病，上岸休假时，他找到了荷兰大使馆。在这里，他向一位同情自己命运的外交官讲述了自己的故事。他甚至展示了他的伤疤，并解释说他的荷尔蒙现在失控了，他的身体感觉不再像他自己的了，他想自杀。
“请把我的故事告诉他人……”海瑟伊斯坚持说，“做笔记，记住它。他们可能会来找我，可能会杀了我。”
他的朋友康奈利·罗格（ Cornelius Rogge）向他保证，情况肯定不会那么糟。他们肯定不会杀了他。他们怎么可能？但海瑟斯对此很确定。他们与船运公司配合，把他接回国。
当他回国后，海瑟斯在了解他的故事的朋友的帮助下，再次提出指控。这一次，他被强制阉割，并诽谤他在性取向和精神健康问题上撒谎。他仍然拒绝投降，他想要正义，他想要恢复他的好名声。
但在1958年，在提出指控后不久，亨克·海瑟斯（Henk Heithuis）遭遇车祸，当场死亡。警方没收了死者提供给他们的所有私人物品和材料，所有材料在他死的那天都被销毁了。
“Please tell my story…” Heithuis insisted, “make notes, remember it. They may come for me. They may kill me.”
Surely it wouldn’t be so bad, his friend, Cornelius Rogge, assured him. Surely they would not have him killed. How could they? But Heithuis was sure of it. Arrangements were made with the shipping company to have him brought back home to his country.
When he returned, Heithuis, helped by his friends who knew his story, once again pressed charges. This time for forcible castration, lying about his sexuality and mental health problems as well as slandering his good name. Still refusing to surrender, he wanted justice, he wanted his good name restored.
But in 1958, shortly after pressing charges? Henk Heithuis got into a car accident and died on the spot. The police conviscated all his personal belongings and material provided to them by the deceased. All material was destroyed on the day of his death.
他们给这名遭受性虐待的青少年受害者下药，开车把他送到南部的一家诊所，把他绑在一张桌子上，给他做了阉割手术。手术后，他们把他踢到了路边，不管精神还是身体上，海瑟斯变得不完整了。他放弃了朋友和未婚妻，成为了一名水手。他最远到达了日本，后来身体出了毛病，上岸休假时，他找到了荷兰大使馆。在这里，他向一位同情自己命运的外交官讲述了自己的故事。他甚至展示了他的伤疤，并解释说他的荷尔蒙现在失控了，他的身体感觉不再像他自己的了，他想自杀。
“请把我的故事告诉他人……”海瑟伊斯坚持说，“做笔记，记住它。他们可能会来找我，可能会杀了我。”
他的朋友康奈利·罗格（ Cornelius Rogge）向他保证，情况肯定不会那么糟。他们肯定不会杀了他。他们怎么可能？但海瑟斯对此很确定。他们与船运公司配合，把他接回国。
当他回国后，海瑟斯在了解他的故事的朋友的帮助下，再次提出指控。这一次，他被强制阉割，并诽谤他在性取向和精神健康问题上撒谎。他仍然拒绝投降，他想要正义，他想要恢复他的好名声。
但在1958年，在提出指控后不久，亨克·海瑟斯（Henk Heithuis）遭遇车祸，当场死亡。警方没收了死者提供给他们的所有私人物品和材料，所有材料在他死的那天都被销毁了。
Dodi Zaku
What are ten truths everyone should accept in life?
A smoker knows that nicotine kills but they don’t quit smoking.
People tell you good things because they know what you want to hear.
Good-looking couples usually have daughters.
Expensive and impractical things you buy signify that you are poor.
Everybody can go on with their lives without you. The least they can do is miss you.
You’ll have some haters no matter how good you are.
There is always someone better.
The world will never quit poking you.
You only get stronger by doing hard things.
Money can really make you happy.
人生中每个人都应该接受的十个真理是什么？
吸烟者知道尼古丁会致命，但他们不会戒烟。
长得好看的夫妇通常都有女儿
你买的昂贵而不切实际的东西意味着你很穷。
没有你，每个人都可以继续自己的生活。他们能做的仅仅是还能想念你。
无论你多么优秀，都会有一些仇恨者。
总有更好的人。
世界永远不会停止戳你。
你只有通过做艰难的事情才能变得更强。
钱真的能让你快乐。
What are ten truths everyone should accept in life?
A smoker knows that nicotine kills but they don’t quit smoking.
People tell you good things because they know what you want to hear.
Good-looking couples usually have daughters.
Expensive and impractical things you buy signify that you are poor.
Everybody can go on with their lives without you. The least they can do is miss you.
You’ll have some haters no matter how good you are.
There is always someone better.
The world will never quit poking you.
You only get stronger by doing hard things.
Money can really make you happy.
人生中每个人都应该接受的十个真理是什么？
吸烟者知道尼古丁会致命，但他们不会戒烟。
长得好看的夫妇通常都有女儿
你买的昂贵而不切实际的东西意味着你很穷。
没有你，每个人都可以继续自己的生活。他们能做的仅仅是还能想念你。
无论你多么优秀，都会有一些仇恨者。
总有更好的人。
世界永远不会停止戳你。
你只有通过做艰难的事情才能变得更强。
钱真的能让你快乐。
Mukul Royy
What are some undeniable facts about life?
Gentlemen , nobody gives a f*ck about your problems, maybe your mom does . The point is , you’ve to train yourself to the point where nothing can penetrate you ,
Women don’t mistreat you. You mistreat yourself through her. Read that twice ,
Staying loyal to your disloyal partner doesn’t make you a lover . It makes you a loser,
Intelligence isn’t measured in college degrees , jobs that sound good on paper , books you’ve read or fancy words you use . Intelligence is being self-made rich , no job , in shape , emulated by other men & surrounded by important people ,
“Money doesn’t buy happiness “ doesn’t mean people shouldn’t worry about having enough money to pay bills ,
生活中有哪些不可否认的事实？
先生们，没人在乎你们的问题，也许你妈妈会在乎。关键是，你必须训练自己，让任何东西都无法看穿你
女人不会虐待你，你通过她虐待自己（来虐待你）—读两遍，
对不忠的伴侣保持忠诚并不会让你成为爱人。这会让你成为失败者
聪明不是用大学学位、理论上不错的工作、读过的书或用过的华丽词语来衡量的。聪明就是白手起家致富，没有工作，身材好，被其他人模仿，身边都是重要人物，“金钱买不到幸福”并不是说人们不应该担心是否有足够的钱来支付账单。
What are some undeniable facts about life?
Gentlemen , nobody gives a f*ck about your problems, maybe your mom does . The point is , you’ve to train yourself to the point where nothing can penetrate you ,
Women don’t mistreat you. You mistreat yourself through her. Read that twice ,
Staying loyal to your disloyal partner doesn’t make you a lover . It makes you a loser,
Intelligence isn’t measured in college degrees , jobs that sound good on paper , books you’ve read or fancy words you use . Intelligence is being self-made rich , no job , in shape , emulated by other men & surrounded by important people ,
“Money doesn’t buy happiness “ doesn’t mean people shouldn’t worry about having enough money to pay bills ,
生活中有哪些不可否认的事实？
先生们，没人在乎你们的问题，也许你妈妈会在乎。关键是，你必须训练自己，让任何东西都无法看穿你
女人不会虐待你，你通过她虐待自己（来虐待你）—读两遍，
对不忠的伴侣保持忠诚并不会让你成为爱人。这会让你成为失败者
聪明不是用大学学位、理论上不错的工作、读过的书或用过的华丽词语来衡量的。聪明就是白手起家致富，没有工作，身材好，被其他人模仿，身边都是重要人物，“金钱买不到幸福”并不是说人们不应该担心是否有足够的钱来支付账单。
There’s a huge difference between : Education & intelligence , Knowledge & information , learning & studying , Ignorance & stupidity,
Money & influence are interchangeable,
One of the most underrated skills is the ability to “Ignore “ ,
Our failure quickly gets to our heart but success goes to our head . Our true character is revealed at our highs & lows ,
Equality is not real. Some people are smarter , richer & more competitive than you . Accept it ,
Just Chill.!!
教育与智力、知识与信息、学习与研究、无知与愚蠢、它们之间有巨大的差异。
金钱和影响力是可互换的，
最被低估的技能之一是“忽略”的能力，
失败会很快进入我们的内心，而成功会进入我们的头脑。我们的真实性格会在人生的高潮和低谷时显露出来。
接受这一点吧：平等不是真的。有些人比你更聪明、更富有、更有竞争力。
冷静一下。
Money & influence are interchangeable,
One of the most underrated skills is the ability to “Ignore “ ,
Our failure quickly gets to our heart but success goes to our head . Our true character is revealed at our highs & lows ,
Equality is not real. Some people are smarter , richer & more competitive than you . Accept it ,
Just Chill.!!
教育与智力、知识与信息、学习与研究、无知与愚蠢、它们之间有巨大的差异。
金钱和影响力是可互换的，
最被低估的技能之一是“忽略”的能力，
失败会很快进入我们的内心，而成功会进入我们的头脑。我们的真实性格会在人生的高潮和低谷时显露出来。
接受这一点吧：平等不是真的。有些人比你更聪明、更富有、更有竞争力。
冷静一下。
Debabrata Nath
Last year (2022) a very close friend of mine did scam with me and I lost almost 100K he was that close to me, I used to stay at his house, vice versa!! Incident took place in the month of Feb
I had a very close friend of mine since 2019 to me she was like my sister & to her I was like her brother!! Yeah I was like her brother just because when her boyfriend left her I was there for her at that time I used to get calls from her at 1:00 AM - 2:00 AM…We are from different cities!! I gave my notes by travelling to her city because she didn’t collect notes because she was going through the trauma of breakup…last year (2022) She took a minimal amount from me to give birthday treat to her friends but that minimal amount was too much at that time for me because in the month of Feb I lost a huge amount…She was very close to me so I gave her the money this incident took place in the month of March. She invited me to attend her birthday party but I was ill that time so I said her that I’ll ne unable to come & moreover she was taking money from me to give treat to her friends so I thought it’s better to not be burden on her!! She said me she will return my money within 3 4 days!!
去年（2022年），我的一个非常亲密的朋友欺骗了我，我损失了近10万，他和我过去是很亲密的关系，我以前住在他家，他也住我家!事件发生在二月吧：
自2019年以来，我有了一个非常亲密的朋友，对我来说她就像我的妹妹，对她来说我就像她的哥哥!是的，我就像她哥哥一样，因为当她男朋友离开她的时候，我在她身边，我经常在凌晨1点到2点接到她的电话，我们来自不同的城市！我去她的城市旅行，做了记录，因为她正在经历分手的创伤而没有做记录，去年(2022年)，她从我这里拿了“一笔小钱”给她的朋友们买生日礼物，但那“一笔小钱”在当时对我来说是“一笔大钱”，因为在2月份我损失过一大笔钱……她和我很亲近，所以我把钱给了她，这件事发生在3月份。她邀请我参加她的生日聚会，但那一次我生病了，所以我告诉她我去不了，而且她从我那里拿钱去请她的朋友，所以我觉得最好不要给她带来负担！她说她会在3到4天内还我钱！
Last year (2022) a very close friend of mine did scam with me and I lost almost 100K he was that close to me, I used to stay at his house, vice versa!! Incident took place in the month of Feb
I had a very close friend of mine since 2019 to me she was like my sister & to her I was like her brother!! Yeah I was like her brother just because when her boyfriend left her I was there for her at that time I used to get calls from her at 1:00 AM - 2:00 AM…We are from different cities!! I gave my notes by travelling to her city because she didn’t collect notes because she was going through the trauma of breakup…last year (2022) She took a minimal amount from me to give birthday treat to her friends but that minimal amount was too much at that time for me because in the month of Feb I lost a huge amount…She was very close to me so I gave her the money this incident took place in the month of March. She invited me to attend her birthday party but I was ill that time so I said her that I’ll ne unable to come & moreover she was taking money from me to give treat to her friends so I thought it’s better to not be burden on her!! She said me she will return my money within 3 4 days!!
去年（2022年），我的一个非常亲密的朋友欺骗了我，我损失了近10万，他和我过去是很亲密的关系，我以前住在他家，他也住我家!事件发生在二月吧：
自2019年以来，我有了一个非常亲密的朋友，对我来说她就像我的妹妹，对她来说我就像她的哥哥!是的，我就像她哥哥一样，因为当她男朋友离开她的时候，我在她身边，我经常在凌晨1点到2点接到她的电话，我们来自不同的城市！我去她的城市旅行，做了记录，因为她正在经历分手的创伤而没有做记录，去年(2022年)，她从我这里拿了“一笔小钱”给她的朋友们买生日礼物，但那“一笔小钱”在当时对我来说是“一笔大钱”，因为在2月份我损失过一大笔钱……她和我很亲近，所以我把钱给了她，这件事发生在3月份。她邀请我参加她的生日聚会，但那一次我生病了，所以我告诉她我去不了，而且她从我那里拿钱去请她的朋友，所以我觉得最好不要给她带来负担！她说她会在3到4天内还我钱！
But I never take my money back from girls!! So I didn’t ask for it and she didn’t return aswell…In the month of May I was in a serious loss because of my nonsense investments!! I messaged her to return my money if she can? She said yeah she will return tomorrow!! After another week I messaged her again but I didn’t get respond from her till date now!! I was like her own (blood) brother but she changed her no. and till now I don’t have her contact no.
In the month of May I lost another huge amount of money!! And my birthday is also in the month of May but still I managed to give treat to my friends thrice without borrowing money!!
但我没有从女孩那里拿回我的钱！所以我也没有问，她也没有还，在五月份，我因为我的无厘头投资而严重亏损！我给她发了信息，如果她方便的话，请她还我的钱？她说好的，明天就回来！又过了一个星期，我又给她发了一条短信，但直到现在我才收到她的回复！我曾像她的亲哥哥，但她换了电话号码，直到现在我还没有她的联系方式。
在五月份，我又损失了一大笔钱！我的生日也在五月，但我还是在没有借钱的情况下，成功招待了我的朋友三次!
In the month of May I lost another huge amount of money!! And my birthday is also in the month of May but still I managed to give treat to my friends thrice without borrowing money!!
但我没有从女孩那里拿回我的钱！所以我也没有问，她也没有还，在五月份，我因为我的无厘头投资而严重亏损！我给她发了信息，如果她方便的话，请她还我的钱？她说好的，明天就回来！又过了一个星期，我又给她发了一条短信，但直到现在我才收到她的回复！我曾像她的亲哥哥，但她换了电话号码，直到现在我还没有她的联系方式。
在五月份，我又损失了一大笔钱！我的生日也在五月，但我还是在没有借钱的情况下，成功招待了我的朋友三次!
Moreover I was in relationship with a girl when I was in 10th grade!! She lost her father when she was very young!! We met on fb we started chatting…exchanged no…..I went to her city met with her & we were in love!! She never got her fathers love & even her mothers because her mother used to work as a nurse at a hospital!! At that time she used to cry every single night and was unable to sleep & she said me that I look like her father and she really loves me a lot lol….from 2019 to 2022 we had a lot’s of ups & downs we stopped talking with each other but I used to love her idk about her!!
此外，我在十年级的时候和一个女孩交往过！她很小的时候就失去了父亲！我们是在脸书上认识的，我们开始聊天，交换了联系方式。我去了她的城市和她见面，我们相爱了！她从来没有得到父亲的爱，甚至没有得到母亲的爱，因为她的母亲曾经在医院当护士！那时候，她每天晚上都会哭，睡不着觉，她对我说，我长得像她爸爸，她真的很爱我，哈哈，从2019年到2022年，我们有很多酸甜苦辣，如今我们彼此都不说话了，但我曾经很爱她!
此外，我在十年级的时候和一个女孩交往过！她很小的时候就失去了父亲！我们是在脸书上认识的，我们开始聊天，交换了联系方式。我去了她的城市和她见面，我们相爱了！她从来没有得到父亲的爱，甚至没有得到母亲的爱，因为她的母亲曾经在医院当护士！那时候，她每天晚上都会哭，睡不着觉，她对我说，我长得像她爸爸，她真的很爱我，哈哈，从2019年到2022年，我们有很多酸甜苦辣，如今我们彼此都不说话了，但我曾经很爱她!
When I moved to Bangalore in the month of July 2022 she messaged me and we started talking again and yeah we were a bit mature now as compared to 16 years old!! I thought o giving our relation a new fresh start!! But as I moved from my hometown I used to feel very lonely & sad I used to suffer from heath issues very regularly and still now I’m unable to sleep at night ( it’s 02:10 AM now ) I used to talk with her only as because I was that close to her and moreover talking with her gave me peace!! But she now used to ignore me and behave rudely and so on and on!! After a month or two she too moved to another city for her degree she got new friends and now I’m nothing for her!! I never cried but now I got so emotional and frustrated I started crying every night!!
当我在2022年7月搬到班加罗尔时，她给我发了短信，我们又开始聊天了，是的，我们现在比16岁的时候成熟了！我想给我们的关系一个新的开始！但当我从家乡搬来时，我曾经感到非常孤独和悲伤，我曾经经常受到健康问题的困扰，现在晚上我仍然无法入睡（现在是凌晨02:10），我曾经和她交谈，因为我离她那么近，而且和她聊天让我我平静！但她现在习惯性无视我，举止粗鲁等！一两个月后，她也搬到了另一个城市攻读学位，结识了新朋友，现在我对她来说一无是处！我从未哭过，但现在我变得非常情绪化和沮丧，我每晚哭泣！
当我在2022年7月搬到班加罗尔时，她给我发了短信，我们又开始聊天了，是的，我们现在比16岁的时候成熟了！我想给我们的关系一个新的开始！但当我从家乡搬来时，我曾经感到非常孤独和悲伤，我曾经经常受到健康问题的困扰，现在晚上我仍然无法入睡（现在是凌晨02:10），我曾经和她交谈，因为我离她那么近，而且和她聊天让我我平静！但她现在习惯性无视我，举止粗鲁等！一两个月后，她也搬到了另一个城市攻读学位，结识了新朋友，现在我对她来说一无是处！我从未哭过，但现在我变得非常情绪化和沮丧，我每晚哭泣！
One day I was suffering from sever fever and headache that I had my dinner at 7 PM in the evening unfortunately I got fainted and fell on the bed I wokeup at 11 PM and I called her she received my call and said she don’t have time for my nonsense…I called her many times but she ignored!! Even I tried calling her till Dec 2022 and she ignored!! When she was suffearing I was there for her & when I was suffearing I was there only for myself lesson learned now I don’t give a fuck!!
有一天，我患上了严重的发烧和头痛，在晚上7点吃晚饭。不幸的是，我晕倒在床上。我在晚上11点醒来，我打电话给她，她接了我的电话，说她没有时间听我胡说八道，我打了她很多次电话，但她没有理会！甚至在2022年12月之前，我都试着给她打电话，但她没有理会！当她曾遇到困难时，我在她身边；当我遇到困难时，只有我自己。现在我得到了教训，我才不管呢。
有一天，我患上了严重的发烧和头痛，在晚上7点吃晚饭。不幸的是，我晕倒在床上。我在晚上11点醒来，我打电话给她，她接了我的电话，说她没有时间听我胡说八道，我打了她很多次电话，但她没有理会！甚至在2022年12月之前，我都试着给她打电话，但她没有理会！当她曾遇到困难时，我在她身边；当我遇到困难时，只有我自己。现在我得到了教训，我才不管呢。
I had another so called sister!! We met on social media she was alone because she don’t have friends because she changef her school and she don’t have any siblings too!! So, she made me her brother and she used to have a crush since her childhood!! They got into relationship and they brokeup with each other within a year!! After that she used to call me very frequently and she used to talk with me via whatsapp messages 24/7 After few months she got new boyfriend and now she used to talk with me very rarely and few months back I tried contacting her and because of my mental health I used some slang and cheap words and she blocked me everywhere…I got a call from her bf he was saying that I don’t deserve to become her brother!! Same her I was there in her hard times and in my hard times I was there only for myself!! lesson learned
我还有一个所谓的妹妹！我们在社交媒体上认识，因为她没有朋友，换了学校，而且她也没有兄弟姐妹！所以，她让我做她哥哥，她从小就有过暗恋!他们恋爱了一年之内就分手！在那之后，她经常给我打电话，她经常通过whatsapp与我发消息，并且是全天候交谈。几个月后，她有了新男友，现在她很少与我交谈。几个月后，我尝试与她联系，因为我的心理健康，我使用了一些俚语和甜言蜜语，她把我拒之门外，我接到了她男朋友打来的电话，他说我不配成为她的哥哥！和那个女孩一样，在她困难的时候，我在她身边，在我困难的时候，我只有自己，这是教训啊。
我还有一个所谓的妹妹！我们在社交媒体上认识，因为她没有朋友，换了学校，而且她也没有兄弟姐妹！所以，她让我做她哥哥，她从小就有过暗恋!他们恋爱了一年之内就分手！在那之后，她经常给我打电话，她经常通过whatsapp与我发消息，并且是全天候交谈。几个月后，她有了新男友，现在她很少与我交谈。几个月后，我尝试与她联系，因为我的心理健康，我使用了一些俚语和甜言蜜语，她把我拒之门外，我接到了她男朋友打来的电话，他说我不配成为她的哥哥！和那个女孩一样，在她困难的时候，我在她身边，在我困难的时候，我只有自己，这是教训啊。
Last year a girl fall in love with me she is 4 years younger to me at that time though I was single I was in complicated relationship with my EX so, I didn’t accept her but idk we became really good friends we were like bestfriends as I did a lot of mistakes in my life regarding studies money and so on and on I used to give her life lessons and that’s the reason our bond got strong we used to talk daily she was like my younger sis…and then comes her bff and she too became my good friend but she fall in love with me…and to me she was like a best friend!! She had a really bad relationship with her father & her mom is also very strict she used to be depressed those days she used to just talk with me I was her peace and love of life!!
She brokeup with her bf & fall in love with me!! When things went wrong she stopped talking with me and got new crush now her crush doesn’t talks with her so she talks with me!! Yeah I love talking with her even I developed feelings for her but now she doesn’t love me!! And talks with me only in her free time and I cried a lot just to talk with her…moreover I thought I’ll never get feelings for anyone after my ex…but now I love her & I think this is not love this is attraction as because I don’t have anyone to talk with if she talks with me I feel so good….
去年，一个女孩爱上了我，她比我小4岁，虽然我还是单身，但我和前任的关系很复杂，我没有接受她，但我知道我们成为了真正的好朋友，我们就像是最好的朋友，因为我在学习、金钱等方面犯了很多错误，我曾经给她上过生活课，这就是我们的关系变得牢固的原因，我们每天都聊天，她就像我的妹妹，然后她有了男朋友，其男朋友也成为了我的好朋友，但她爱上了我，不过对我来说她就像一个最好的朋友!她和她父亲的关系很糟糕，她的母亲也很严厉，她过去常常很沮丧，那些天她只是和我聊天，我是她生命中的和平与爱!!
她和男朋友分手了，爱上了我！当事情出错时，她不再和我说话了，后来有了新欢，现在她的新欢不和她说话了，所以她找我说话！我是喜欢和她聊天，甚至我对她产生了感情，但现在她不爱我了！她只在空闲时间和我说话，我为了和她说话哭了很多次，此外，我以为经历前任之后，我永远不会对任何人产生感情，但现在我爱她，我觉得这不是爱，这是吸引，因为因为我没有人可以说话，如果她和我说话，我会感觉很好。
She brokeup with her bf & fall in love with me!! When things went wrong she stopped talking with me and got new crush now her crush doesn’t talks with her so she talks with me!! Yeah I love talking with her even I developed feelings for her but now she doesn’t love me!! And talks with me only in her free time and I cried a lot just to talk with her…moreover I thought I’ll never get feelings for anyone after my ex…but now I love her & I think this is not love this is attraction as because I don’t have anyone to talk with if she talks with me I feel so good….
去年，一个女孩爱上了我，她比我小4岁，虽然我还是单身，但我和前任的关系很复杂，我没有接受她，但我知道我们成为了真正的好朋友，我们就像是最好的朋友，因为我在学习、金钱等方面犯了很多错误，我曾经给她上过生活课，这就是我们的关系变得牢固的原因，我们每天都聊天，她就像我的妹妹，然后她有了男朋友，其男朋友也成为了我的好朋友，但她爱上了我，不过对我来说她就像一个最好的朋友!她和她父亲的关系很糟糕，她的母亲也很严厉，她过去常常很沮丧，那些天她只是和我聊天，我是她生命中的和平与爱!!
她和男朋友分手了，爱上了我！当事情出错时，她不再和我说话了，后来有了新欢，现在她的新欢不和她说话了，所以她找我说话！我是喜欢和她聊天，甚至我对她产生了感情，但现在她不爱我了！她只在空闲时间和我说话，我为了和她说话哭了很多次，此外，我以为经历前任之后，我永远不会对任何人产生感情，但现在我爱她，我觉得这不是爱，这是吸引，因为因为我没有人可以说话，如果她和我说话，我会感觉很好。
Now I have decided not to talk with anyone not a dingle person she is the only person I talk to but from now I’ll not talk with her aswell!!
The only thing I need in my life is
“MONEY MONEY & MONEY”
I can live without friends, partners and even without my family ??
I hardly got 10 calls within 6 months from my family…yeah because my father is a business owner and so he is always very busy with his works he just calls me once a month and ask for my account no. to send money and I didn’t talked with my mom from last 6 months a single day because she don’t use mobile phone & rarely talks over phone call with anyone
Thanks for reading ?? & sorry for spelling mistakes!!
现在我已经决定不和任何人说话，她是我唯一说话的人，但从现在开始我也不和她说话!
我生命中唯一需要的就是“搞钱”
我可以没有朋友、伴侣甚至没有家人
我在6个月内接到来自我家人的电话的次数几乎没有10个，因为我父亲是一个企业主，所以他总是忙于他的工作，他只是每个月打次电话给我，然后问账号和寄钱。从过去的6个月起，我都没有和我妈妈通过电话，因为她不用手机，也很少和任何人打电话。
感谢阅读，不过对不起哈，存在拼写错误！
The only thing I need in my life is
“MONEY MONEY & MONEY”
I can live without friends, partners and even without my family ??
I hardly got 10 calls within 6 months from my family…yeah because my father is a business owner and so he is always very busy with his works he just calls me once a month and ask for my account no. to send money and I didn’t talked with my mom from last 6 months a single day because she don’t use mobile phone & rarely talks over phone call with anyone
Thanks for reading ?? & sorry for spelling mistakes!!
现在我已经决定不和任何人说话，她是我唯一说话的人，但从现在开始我也不和她说话!
我生命中唯一需要的就是“搞钱”
我可以没有朋友、伴侣甚至没有家人
我在6个月内接到来自我家人的电话的次数几乎没有10个，因为我父亲是一个企业主，所以他总是忙于他的工作，他只是每个月打次电话给我，然后问账号和寄钱。从过去的6个月起，我都没有和我妈妈通过电话，因为她不用手机，也很少和任何人打电话。
感谢阅读，不过对不起哈，存在拼写错误！
很赞 0
收藏