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Soggy BuRrItO
They’re not obliged to get you anything that you want, rather just stuff you need, like clothes, shoes, food, etc. They’re teaching you not to depend on other people to get what you want, but to go out in the world and find your own source of income. Things you want are not necessities and what they want you to understand is that you need to work towards things that you want.

他们没有义务给你你想要的东西，只有义务给你必须的东西，比如衣服、鞋子、食物等。他们正在教你：不要依赖别人来得到你想要的东西，而是要走出去，找到自己的收入来源。你想要的东西不是必需品，他们希望你明白：你需要为你想要的东西努力工作。

Lawrence Sonny Baker
If they are first generation millionaires, in the eras of chronic high inflations and deep recessions, then you had better be real good at Praying; than you are at complaining.
However, if you are third or fourth generation millionaire family; then learn their business knowledge and more: because you could well be next !

如果他们是富一代，是在长期高通胀和深度衰退的时代成长起来的，那么你最好擅长祈祷，因为他们比你更擅长抱怨。
然而，如果你的父母是富二代或者富三代，那么，好好学习他们的商业知识和更多别的东西，因为你可能是下一个有钱人。
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Ancienthippie X
Get a job, keep your grades up, graduate high school, attend college, get a better job, save your money, then buy those things for yourself, within reason. I know it's hard to wait, and it would be better if you got to be a child a bit longer. Life isn't always fair. If you can practice willingness to do these things for yourself, you will build skills, knowledge, self confidence and self esteem, not to mention a great life. Try to take your mind off of what you don't have and focus on gratitude that they at least feed you and clothe you and put a roof over your head (assuming they do.) This mindset will help you in every aspect of your life.

找份工作，保持你的成绩，高中毕业，上大学，找到一份更好的工作，存钱，然后在合理的范围内为自己买这些东西。
我知道，等待让人痛苦，做个孩子感觉更好。但生活并不总是公平的。如果你能去培养为自己工作的意愿，你就会培养出技能、知识、自信、自尊，过上美好的生活。
试着把你的注意力，从你没有的东西上移开，把注意力集中在感恩上，因为他们至少为你提供了食物、衣服，为你提供了栖身之所（假设他们这样做了）。这种心态可以在生活中的方方面面帮助到你。

You're just starting a bit earlier than most. I'm 74. If I had my life to live over, I'd do exactly what I'm suggesting you do. I made a series of bad decisions at your age that had lifetime consequences. If I had just decided then to toughen up and assume the mantle of maturity at a younger age, my entire life would have been better. Best wishes as you forge your own path and take mastery of your own life now.

你只是比大多数人更早的开始成人生活。我今年74岁。如果我能重活一次，我会按照我的建议去做。我在你的这个年纪做了一系列糟糕的决定，这些决定对我的一生产生了巨大影响。如果当时的我能够决定坚强起来，在更年轻的时候披上成熟的外衣，我的整个人生会更好。祝福你能够开拓属于自己的道路，掌控自己的生活。

Malcolm Hawthorne
like most of us do get a job save some money and learn how to make the money work for you so 1 day you will be rich. these are obviously your parents money and you have to go get it on your own.

像我们大多数人一样，找份工作，存一些钱，学习如何让钱为你工作，这样总有一天你会变得富有。你父母的钱只是你父母的，你的钱需要你自己去赚。

Tammi Swann Morelock
Thank your lucky stars !!!! You live rent free and don't have to pay for lights and water or property taxes,have access to cable and internet AND you eat their food!!! And then you complain
Why don't you get a job?Then you can buy you what you “need”.
Save your money and set your goal to be as successful as your millionaire parents!!!!!

感谢你的幸运星吧！！！你的生活是免费的，不必支付照明、水费、财务税，可以使用有线电视和互联网，你可以吃他们的食物！！！然后你还抱怨！
你为什么不去找份工作？这样你就可以买你想要买的东西。
省下你的钱，设定你的目标，像你的有钱人父母一样成功！！！！
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Chanda Mulligan
Did or do your parents give you a roof over your head? Have your parents put clothes on your back? Have your parents always made sure you have or had food on the table? I'm pretty sure the answer is yes! What else could you want or ask for!!! Now since you have what you NEED all you have to do now is go get a job and make some money for the things you WANT!!! kids these days I swear!!! There are hundreds of thousands of kids out there that would literally die for a bite to eat or to have a warm sweater or pair of shoes!!! You shouldn't be worrying about what you DON’T have just be greatful for What you DO have!!!!!!

你的父母给了你一个栖身之所了吗？给你衣服穿了吗？确保你的事物了吗？我很确定答案是肯定的！你还想要什么？还想要求什么？
既然你已经有了你需要的东西，你现在要做的就是去找份工作，为你想要的东西赚点钱！！！现在的孩子，我真的是！！！有成千上万的孩子为了一口吃的、一件暖和的衣服、或一双鞋而死！！！你不应该为你没有的东西发愁，而要为你拥有的东西感恩。

Shay
I’m quite sure you have a home, a bed, clothes, food, entertainment items, medical and dental care, attend a decent school, etc. You have everything you need and then probably a lot more on top of that so your parents are doing their parental job. They work for THEIR money. It is not YOUR money. Why do you feel so entitled to it? The extra things you are asking for are probably not appropriate so they don’t buy them for you. No one thinks you have a right to spend their money as you please. You are a child. Do your job - get an education so you can get a job when you’re an adult and buy what you want.

我很确定你有一个家，一张床，衣服，食物，娱乐用品，医疗和牙科护理，上一所像样的学校等等。你有你需要的一切，然后可能还有更多，所以你的父母正在做父母应该做的工作。他们工作是为自己赚钱，那不是你的钱。为什么你觉得你有权利得到它？你要的额外的东西可能不合适，所以他们不会买给你。没有人认为你有权随心所欲的花钱。你是个孩子，做好你自己的事情：接受教育。这样你成年后可以找到工作，买你想买的东西。

Lois Loar
Get a job. Pay for your own car and car insurance. If they let you drive their car, still pay your share of insurance. In fact insist on it. Get a cheap phone from Walmart.
Start saving for a security deposit and first month's rent for a one bedroom apartment or find a roommate and get a 2 bedroom. At 18 you should have enough to move out. At 18, get a full time job. If you don't move out, pay 40% of your income to your parents for rent and utilities and buy your own groceries. Get a good budgetting book to help you organize your bills. Keep your space clean and neat and clean your own bathroom. Save for your own car if you don't already have one.

找份工作。为自己的汽车和汽车保险买单。如果他们让你开他们的车，你也要支付你的保险费。事实上要坚持。从沃尔玛买一部便宜的手机。
开始存一套一居室公寓的押金和第一个月的租金，或者找一个室友租一套两居室。在18岁的时候，你应该有足够的钱搬出去。18岁时，找一份全职工作。如果你不搬出去，就把收入的40%交给父母，用于房租和水电费，并自己买杂货。找一本好的预算书来帮你整理账单。保持你的空间干净整洁，清洁你自己的浴室。如果你还没有自己的车，那就省下钱来买吧。

Thank your parents for having a backbone and encouraging you to be an independent adult instead of a dependent adult child. Too many spoiled rich kids in the world.
Visit at Christmas, their birthdays, and don't waste your money on frivolous things.

感谢你的父母有毅力，鼓励你成为一个独立的成年人，而不是一个只会依赖他们的成年孩子。世界上有太多被宠坏的富家子弟。
在圣诞节和他们的生日拜访他们，不要把钱浪费在无聊的事情上。

Hayden G
It might not make sense right now but they are trying to teach you the value of independence. They want to see that you can mature into a responsible young adult that can create their own worth. That will not only give them the confidence to start trusting you with more financially but will also be invaluable to your success down the road.

他们正试图教会你独立的价值，这事现在可能没有多大意义。他们希望看到你成长为一个负责人的年轻人，创造自己的价值。这可以给予他们信心，让他们在经济上可以更信任你，而且对你未来的成功也是非常宝贵的。
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Angelo Sigler
You should probably make sure you have income to get yourself the things you want, your parents are not obligated to do anything for you anymore, and don't have to give you money.

你可能应该确保你有收入来给自己买你想要的东西，你的父母没有义务再为你做任何事情，也不必给你钱。

Joyce Sanders
Get a job like the rest of us did when we wanted things. Probably why they won’t ‘give’ you money so that you’ll learn to stand on your own two feet.

当我们想要东西的时候，找一份和其他人一样的工作。他们不给你钱的原因，可能是想让你学会自立。

Audrey Starkey
There is nothing you can do but get a job. They aren’t responsible for you anymore. They may be trying to teach you work ethics.

除了找份工作，你别无选择。他们不再对你负责了。他们可能试图教你职业道德。

Tim
Go find a job, your a big man now or so you think…. You want some freedom and independence show some responsibility for your life. Life is hard. Make your parents proud of you. Don’t let them see you’re looking for hand out. Get to know the value of money and how to make it work for your future… Try this and see the smiles on your parent face… You will then know that your parents are proud of you and they have your future secure…

去找份工作吧，你现在是个大人了……所以你要考虑……你需要一些自由和独立，这表明你对自己的生活负有一定的责任。生活很艰难。让你的父母为你感到骄傲。不要让他们看到你在寻求施舍。了解金钱的价值，以及如何让它为你的未来服务……去试试，看看你父母脸上的笑容……然后你就会知道你的父母为你感到骄傲，他们知道你的未来有了保证……

Ross Boehler
You should be very grateful, it sounds like you may have wise parents.
They may want you to learn to appreciate the things you have and those you earn.
Your parents having money does not entitle you to it in any way.
Anything they give you beyond the necessities is a gift.
Ask them if there is something you can do around the house to earn some money.
Go get a job, even under 18 there are plenty of things that can be done to earn money.
The opportunities for a teenager to earn money are often better than for someone 18 years old.

你应该非常感激，听起来你可能有明智的父母。
他们可能希望你学会欣赏你拥有的东西和你赚来的东西。
你父母有钱并不能使你有任何权利得到这笔钱。
除了必需品之外，他们给你的任何东西都是礼物。
问他们你是否可以在房子周围做点什么来赚点钱。
去找份工作吧，即使不到18岁，也有很多事情可以做来赚钱。
青少年赚钱的机会往往比18岁的人多。

Trevor
They’re doing that because they know that, to appreciate what u have, you have to have had nothing before. If you really want those things, you’ll go and get them. Once you have them you’ll appreciate it way more than if it was just given to you. You’ll be happier in the long run! Good parents in my opinion.

他们这样做是因为他们知道，要学会感激你所拥有的，你必须以前什么都没有。如果你真的想要这些东西，你会去想办法获得的。一旦你有了它们，你会比别人给予你的时候更欣赏它。从长远来看，你会更快乐！在我看来他们是好父母。

Leigh Devins
It doesn’t matter how wealthy your parents are, they earned that money, you didn’t. Presumably they are providing you with the necessities of life …. shelter, food, clothing, etc. They are not required to fulfill your “wish list”. You are presumably still in high school, get a part-time job and pay for the things you want yourself. There is a huge difference between what you want and what you need.

你的父母有多富有，并不重要，他们赚了这些钱，而你没有。他们在为你提供生活必需品……住所、食物、衣服等。它们不需要满足你的“愿望清单”。你大概还在上高中，找一份兼职工作，为自己想要的东西买单。你想要什么和你需要什么之间有很大的区别。
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Calvin Mills
Instead of focusing on getting your parents to give you money or buy things you want, consider finding ways to earn money or achieve your goals on your own. This will not only give you a sense of independence and accomplishment but will also show your parents that you are responsible and capable.
You can start by exploring your interests and talents to find potential ways to make money. For example, if you have a passion for photography, you can offer your services as a photographer for events or stock photo websites. Alternatively, you can look for part-time jobs or online freelance work that aligns with your skills.

与其专注于让父母给你钱或买你想要的东西，不如考虑自己赚钱或实现目标的方法。这不仅会给你一种独立感和成就感，还会向你的父母表明你有责任心和能力。
你可以从探索自己的兴趣和才能开始，寻找潜在的赚钱方式。例如，如果你对摄影有热情，你可以作为活动或库存照片网站的摄影师提供服务。或者，你可以寻找与你的技能相匹配的兼职工作或在线自由职业。
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Another approach is to have a conversation with your parents about your financial goals and aspirations. Explain to them why having financial support would be helpful and demonstrate your willingness to work hard and be responsible with the money.
Ultimately, it's important to remember that money and material possessions are not the only markers of success or happiness. Focus on growing as a person, doing what you love, and giving back to your community. The rest will fall into place.

另一种方法是与父母就你的经济目标和抱负进行对话。向他们解释为什么获得财政支持会有所帮助，并表明你愿意努力工作并对钱负责。
归根结底，重要的是要记住，金钱和物质财富并不是成功或幸福的唯一标志。专注于成长，做你热爱的事情，回馈你的社区。剩下的将落实到位。

Badda Bing
Thank your parents in advance for not spoiling you now and ruining your future. Then get a part time job while you continue your education. Your parents probably worked hard when they were younger to achieve their financial success. They just want the same success and satisfaction of achievement for you. History has shown that children of wealthy people who were given everything they asked for often ended up broke, spending their inheritance frivolously - cars, clothes, parties, drugs, etc. - until there was nothing left. And because of their lack of discipline, drive, and purpose in their lives, they suffered from depression, a gaping hole in their souls that all their toys, drugs and fake friends couldn’t fill. Now, when you’re young, is the time you need to learn the value of money. Your parents are providing you with that very important lesson. Thank them!

提前感谢你的父母，因为他们现在没有宠坏你，也没有毁掉你的未来。然后，在你继续接受教育的同时找一份兼职工作。你的父母可能在年轻时努力工作，以获得经济上的成功。他们只想让你获得同样的成功和成就感。历史表明，富人的孩子得到了他们所要求的一切，最终往往会破产，挥霍他们的遗产——汽车、衣服、派对、毒品等——直到一无所有。由于他们在生活中缺乏纪律、动力和目标，他们患上了抑郁症，这是他们灵魂中的一个巨大漏洞，他们所有的玩具、毒品和假朋友都无法填补。现在，当你年轻的时候，正是你需要学习金钱价值的时候。你的父母正在给你上那堂非常重要的课。谢谢他们！

Jon Hesley
If your parents are smart, they will give you nothing even when they die, and pass their money onto your kids rather than you. Then, you do the same - bypass your kids to inherit your grandkids. That is a good way to build generational wealth

如果你的父母很聪明，即使他们死了，他们也不会给你任何东西，而是把钱传给你的孩子，而不是你。然后，你也这样做——绕过你的孩子，让你的孙子来继承。这是世代积累财富的好方法。
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Walter Teague
Do you know how lucky you are? Your parents actually love you. They want the best for you. And they are teaching you the value of a dollar. You are 18. So what will you do with the rest of your life? Sell shoes? Sell drugs? Or go to college and get a degree. Remember, you will be paying for it. You will have that student loan debt hanging around your neck for decades. So a degree in underwater basket weaving won’t bring in the $$. Neither will a “liberal arts” degree. Business or something that will lead to a teaching position. You are going to need a side job to feed yourself while you are in school. Also, members of the opposite sex are distracting and expensive. Best to avoid them for the next 4 years. Work hard, save your money, enjoy ramen. And in 12 years, you might be actually worth something.

你知道自己有多幸运吗？你的父母其实很爱你。他们希望你得到最好的。他们在教你金钱的价值。你已经18岁了。那么，你的余生会做什么呢？卖鞋？卖药品？或者去上大学并获得学位。记住，你会为此付出代价的。你将背负几十年的学生贷款债务。因此，“水下编篮”这样的学位不会给你带来收入。“文科”学位也不会。商业或者别的什么学位可以做一些教学方面的事情。当你在学校的时候，你需要一份副业来养活自己。此外，异性成员会分散注意力，而且费用高昂。最好在接下来的4年里避开他们。努力工作，省钱，享受方便面。12年后，你可能真的很有价值。

Larry Strickling
Get a job and buy your own stuff. Once you show that you can make it maybe then they'll share their money with you if you make an effort to try and take care of yourself. A adult such as yourself has to make their own way in the world.

找份工作，自己买东西。一旦你证明你能成功，如果你努力照顾好自己，他们可能会和你分享他们的钱。像你这样的成年人必须在这个世界上走自己的路。

Laurence Roman
Try and understand that your parents are absolutely correct - you sound like an over-entitled, rather spoilt young person. I hope, for your sake, that your parents’ attempt to curb your acquisitive behaviour might have a salutary and beneficial effect on your outlook.

试着理解你的父母是绝对正确的——你听起来像是一个权利过度、被宠坏的年轻人。为了你，我希望你父母试图遏制你的贪婪行为，这可能会对你的前景产生有益的影响。

David Veilleux
Go to college or get a job and move out. Time to become an adult. They owe you nothing. They paid for everything for 18 years. All your your entertainment, your clothes you car and insurance, a warm, dry place to live and a soft clean bed to sleep in. The fact that you have the audacity to feel entitled to more rather than be grateful for them carrying you for nearly two decades is disgusting. And it speaks volumes about you character.

上大学或者找份工作然后搬出去。是时候成为一个成年人了。他们什么都不欠你。他们支付了18年的一切费用。你所有的娱乐，你的衣服，你的车和保险，一个温暖干燥的地方，一张柔软干净的床。事实上，你竟然厚颜无耻地觉得自己有权得到更多，而不是感激他们带你走了近二十年，这真是令人恶心。它充分说明了你的性格。

Missy Faith
How old are you ? If you're old enough maybe you can find a job. It doesn't matter how much, money your parents have because it's theirs, not yours. Save money for what you want and get it when you can. A lot of celebrities who have kids don't give their kids whatever they want and won't be leaving them anything when they die. They have told their kids that. They want their kids to work for what they want and what they have. It's not being mean, it may seem that way but you should have a job of your own and be responsible. It's important. Even some wealthy people or celebrities can lose every penny they have and your parents want you to have back up plans and learn to be responsible.

你多大了？如果你足够大，也许你可以找到一份工作。你父母有多少钱并不重要，因为这是他们的，而不是你的。为你想要的东西存钱，并在可能的时候得到它。很多有孩子的名人不会给孩子想要的任何东西，也不会在孩子死后给他们留下任何东西。他们已经告诉他们的孩子了。他们希望自己的孩子为自己想要的和拥有的而工作。这并不刻薄，看起来可能是这样，但你应该有一份自己的工作，并负责任。这很重要。即使是一些富人或名人也可能失去他们的每一分钱，你的父母希望你有后备计划，学会负责任。

Robbie Cooper
You do absolutely NOTHING! The money is NOT yours. Your parents have worked hard for that money and are growing THEIR nest egg to be able to retire and live into old age. Then, and ONLY then, when both of your parents have passed away, and if there is any left, it will be in a will and dispersed according to THEIR wishes. Not yours. You are not entitled to any of it, now or later.

你什么都没做！钱不是你的。你的父母为这笔钱辛勤工作，并正在为能够退休并活到老年而积累积蓄。然后，也只有到那时，当你的父母都去世了，如果还有剩下的，它会在遗嘱中，并根据他们的意愿分散。不是你的。无论是现在还是以后，您都无权获得任何权利。

David Davies
Without knowing all of the details of this issue, I can only comment on what facts you have mentioned here. I am assuming you either live in a nice house, according to the fact your parents are Millionaires?
2) That you are well fed, warm and clothed in nice garments?
3) What items is it that you need that they are not buying for you, is it latest gismo’s such as laptops, IPad’s, or iPhones?
Here a news flash your parents don't have to share their fortune with you, it might come as a shock but there it is. They house, feed, keep you warm, and cloth you. You should be grateful for these facts, some kids don't have anything like the life you have right now.

在不了解这个问题的所有细节的情况下，我只能对你在这里提到的事实发表评论。根据你父母都是富翁的事实，我假设：
1、你住在一所漂亮的房子里？
2、你吃饱了，暖和了，穿着漂亮的衣服？
3、你需要什么东西，而他们不为你买，是最新的gismo，比如笔记本电脑、IPad还是iPhone？
一个热知识：你的父母不必和你分享他们的财富，这可能会让人震惊，但事实确实如此。他们为你提供住房、食物、保暖和衣物。你应该感谢这些事实，有些孩子没有你现在的生活。

Tess Lew
Appreciate your parents for teaching you the value of money. I have two sons who have friends that has parents with lots of money and spoiled their kids by giving them anything they wanted. Bikes, cars etc, unfortunately they never learned the value of a dollar and expected their parents to continue this for life. All of them dropped out of college and live with their parents now and do nothing. Parents irritated the almost 40 yr olds live at home and have no motivation. Thus cutting them off financially except for the basics. My son's worked for what they have , finished school are married with excellent jobs. My eldest thanked me a few years ago and said he now understands why I didn't pay his way. Not to say we didn't help. If they worked part time and saved some cash, kept their grades up, would step in and help buying a car (they never expected it). Trying to show that when you apply yourself and work, good things happen. If you expect and demand, forget it. Doesn't teach you anything except laziness and spoiling a person. So be thankful for your parents , you live in obviously a nice house and environment. Kepp your grades up and surly they will help you with college. Show appreciation for what you have not whine about what you don't have .

感谢你的父母试图教会你金钱的价值。
我有两个儿子，他们的朋友的父母很有钱，他们把孩子宠坏了，给了他们想要的任何东西。自行车、汽车等。不幸的是，他们从未了解过一美元的价值，并希望他们的父母能终生如此。他们都从大学退学了，现在和父母住在一起，什么都不做。父母激怒了，快要40岁的孩子，他们住在家里，没有动力。因此，除了基本的东西外，在经济上切断了和他们的联系。
我儿子为他们想要拥有的一切工作，完成了学业，已婚，工作出色。几年前，我的大儿子对我表示感谢，并说他现在明白我为什么不按他想要的方式付款了。并不是说我们没有帮忙。如果他们兼职工作，节省一些现金，保持成绩，我们会介入并帮助买车（他们从未要求过）。
当你努力工作时，好事就会发生。如果你期望和要求别人，那就忘了它吧。除了懒惰和宠坏一个人，它不会教会你任何东西。所以要感谢你的父母，你住的房子和环境都很好。保持你的成绩，他们会帮助你上大学。对你所拥有的表示感激，而不是抱怨你所没有的。

Hellcat
Ask them if you can start your own business or get a job. Try and remember this, you live in there house, under there rules and eat there food.

问他们，你是否可以自己创业或找份工作。试着记住这一点，你住在那里的房子里，遵守那里的规则，吃那里的食物。

KAS
Learn from them how they make their fortunes and go do it yourself. Think of how lucky u are to have mentors at your fingertips

向他们学习他们是如何发财的，然后自己去做。想想你是多么幸运，有导师在你触手可及之处。
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Rongie Calig-Onan
This problem is easy to solve as long as you are open minded and idealistic. Have a strong belief in yourself that you can pass this kind of situation. The first thing you need to do is to search some legit earning applications where you can earn real money. Stay strong and always be patient enough since money are not easy to earn without hard work. After doing the following task, make sure to continue searching part time jobs while earning in one app to another since you are still under 18 years old. After earning , there is no more reason for you to ask you parents some since you are already earning on your own. Using your own earnings is such a relief for it is the fruit of your hard work.

只要你思想开放，有理想，这个问题就很容易解决。对自己有一个坚定的信念，你可以度过这种情况。你需要做的第一件事是搜索一些合法的赚钱应用程序，在那里你可以赚大钱。保持坚强，永远有足够的耐心，因为不努力工作就不容易赚钱。完成以下任务后，由于您还未满18岁，请确保在一个应用程序到另一个应用软件中赚钱的同时继续搜索兼职工作。赚了钱之后，你没有更多的理由问父母要钱，因为你已经在自己挣钱了。使用自己的收入是一种解脱，因为这是你努力工作的成果。