你现在为什么不想找一个对象？
正文翻译
What is stopping you from getting a partner right now?
你现在为什么不想找一个对象？
What is stopping you from getting a partner right now?
你现在为什么不想找一个对象？
评论翻译
thomas4004
Being a 62-year-old dishwasher with no money.
因为我是个62岁的洗碗工，还没有钱。
Being a 62-year-old dishwasher with no money.
因为我是个62岁的洗碗工，还没有钱。
Shortshriveledpeepee
Porcelain inspector
瓷器检查员
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Porcelain inspector
瓷器检查员
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notyourbutthead
Underwater ceramics technician
水下瓷器技师
Underwater ceramics technician
水下瓷器技师
Nahna_
Food safety inspection specialist
食品安全检查专员
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Food safety inspection specialist
食品安全检查专员
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ReplyNo7464
Head of bacteria elimination department
细菌消杀部门主任
Head of bacteria elimination department
细菌消杀部门主任
Dusty99999
Yea, you are an essential part of the business. People would literally starve without you
没错，你确实是这个行业里不可分割的一部分。要是没有你，人们真的会饿肚子。
Yea, you are an essential part of the business. People would literally starve without you
没错，你确实是这个行业里不可分割的一部分。要是没有你，人们真的会饿肚子。
hotrod237
Once, a whole ass Applebee's had to close 2 hours early because the dishwasher dissapeared early somewhere. It was my brother's birthday. Dishwashers are no joke.
有一次，一整家苹果蜂餐厅都不得不提前两个小时关门，因为他们家的洗碗工消失了，不知道去了哪，那天是我哥哥的生日。洗碗工不是跟你开玩笑的。
Once, a whole ass Applebee's had to close 2 hours early because the dishwasher dissapeared early somewhere. It was my brother's birthday. Dishwashers are no joke.
有一次，一整家苹果蜂餐厅都不得不提前两个小时关门，因为他们家的洗碗工消失了，不知道去了哪，那天是我哥哥的生日。洗碗工不是跟你开玩笑的。
PEEWUN
I'm just not ready for one. Biggest reason is laziness, probably.
我只是还没准备好。可能最大的原因是我比较懒吧。
I'm just not ready for one. Biggest reason is laziness, probably.
我只是还没准备好。可能最大的原因是我比较懒吧。
The idea of being in one is way more appealing then the actual responsibilities involved in my current stage. Relationships take work, and I'm not gonna just half-ass it like an asshole when I can't guarantee that I'd fully commit. I'd just be wasting somebody's time and that's not fair to them. Plus, there are plenty of things that I'm already not putting enough time into that are way more pressing.
对于我现在所在的人生阶段来说，进入一段亲密关系的这个念头，要比真正承担起相关的责任有吸引力得多。关系需要费心思，所以如果我无法保证自己能全心全意地投入的话，那我可不想像个混蛋一样把一段感情给糊弄过去。那样的话我就是在浪费别人的时间，这对于他们来说一点也不公平。此外，我的生活中已经有很多的事情了，这些事情的压力更大，并且我也没有把足够多的时间放进去。
对于我现在所在的人生阶段来说，进入一段亲密关系的这个念头，要比真正承担起相关的责任有吸引力得多。关系需要费心思，所以如果我无法保证自己能全心全意地投入的话，那我可不想像个混蛋一样把一段感情给糊弄过去。那样的话我就是在浪费别人的时间，这对于他们来说一点也不公平。此外，我的生活中已经有很多的事情了，这些事情的压力更大，并且我也没有把足够多的时间放进去。
Blacksheepoftheworld
Yeah. I hear this.
没错，我很有同感。
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Yeah. I hear this.
没错，我很有同感。
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It’s not necessarily that I’m lazy to get into a relationship and be with someone. Instead, after 6 months I start becoming “lazy” and want to do my own things by myself waaaaay more frequently and it’s pushed every girl I’ve been with away.
我倒不是懒得与别人建立亲密关系，去陪伴在别人身旁。我是在过了差不多6个月之后，才开始“变懒”的，因此我会更加频繁地想要自己做自己的事情，这种想法把每一个曾经陪过我的女孩都赶走了。
我倒不是懒得与别人建立亲密关系，去陪伴在别人身旁。我是在过了差不多6个月之后，才开始“变懒”的，因此我会更加频繁地想要自己做自己的事情，这种想法把每一个曾经陪过我的女孩都赶走了。
I’m probably destined to remain single, however I’ve become entirely content with that. Sometimes I do miss having a partner and the advantages of having a partner, however those reasons are purely selfish on my own part.
可能我这辈子就注定要单身吧，然而我对此也没有什么不满意的。有时我确实想念有对象时的感觉，以及有对象时的各种好处，但是这些原因全都是出于我自私的心理。
可能我这辈子就注定要单身吧，然而我对此也没有什么不满意的。有时我确实想念有对象时的感觉，以及有对象时的各种好处，但是这些原因全都是出于我自私的心理。
Partly blame being an only child with parents that both worked 60+ hours a week. I’m far from upset by it though, instead I cherish the fact that I can be nearly 100% content being alone
可能部分原因来自于我是一个独生子，而我的父母每个星期都要工作六十多个小时。我当然远不至于为此生气，反而我会觉得自己可以在独处时几乎100%开心这件事很不错。
可能部分原因来自于我是一个独生子，而我的父母每个星期都要工作六十多个小时。我当然远不至于为此生气，反而我会觉得自己可以在独处时几乎100%开心这件事很不错。
Aquilalobos
Just summarized my own life.
你刚刚总结了我的一生。
Just summarized my own life.
你刚刚总结了我的一生。
25sittinon25cents
Agree with everything you and the person you replied to said. To add my own take, I also have enough friends in my city that there's never a shortage of fun stuff to do, whether it's a full night on the town, or just a chill night with weed and movies.
我同意你和你回复的那个人说的每一句话。补充一点我个人的看法，我在这座城市里也有很多朋友，所以我永远都不会缺少好玩的事情可以做，不论是进城里玩一晚上，还是一边吸大麻一边看电影放松一晚上。
Agree with everything you and the person you replied to said. To add my own take, I also have enough friends in my city that there's never a shortage of fun stuff to do, whether it's a full night on the town, or just a chill night with weed and movies.
我同意你和你回复的那个人说的每一句话。补充一点我个人的看法，我在这座城市里也有很多朋友，所以我永远都不会缺少好玩的事情可以做，不论是进城里玩一晚上，还是一边吸大麻一边看电影放松一晚上。
Being spoiled with a variety of friends who you can pick to do whatever you're in the mood for makes being single much easier. If I want to be alone and chill, great. if I wanna party, I have my people for that; if I wanna watch sports, I have my people for that etc etc.
我有一群三教九流的朋友们，无论我现在是什么心情都可以叫几个朋友一起去玩，这让我的单身生活轻松了很多。如果我想一个人放松，可以。如果我想开派对，我能找到人；如果我想看球，也能找到看球的人，等等。
我有一群三教九流的朋友们，无论我现在是什么心情都可以叫几个朋友一起去玩，这让我的单身生活轻松了很多。如果我想一个人放松，可以。如果我想开派对，我能找到人；如果我想看球，也能找到看球的人，等等。
Having a partner requires a lot more compromising, and with the amount of work and responsibilities I am dominated by throughout M-F, I'd rather focus on me for the weekend
找个对象需要更多的妥协，考虑到我从周一到周五要做的那么多工作、负的那么多责任，我宁愿把周末的时间花在自己身上。
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找个对象需要更多的妥协，考虑到我从周一到周五要做的那么多工作、负的那么多责任，我宁愿把周末的时间花在自己身上。
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Radiant_Fondant_4097
Actually been dating someone for over a month and starting to get this feeling...
在和别人约会一个多月之后，我也开始有这种感觉了……
Actually been dating someone for over a month and starting to get this feeling...
在和别人约会一个多月之后，我也开始有这种感觉了……
Having those thoughts in the back of my head that maybe I'm just not into them as much as I thought, and have been really missing my alone time to myself (Phone calls are sweet, but when they take up the entire evening and happen regularly it starts to grate).
我的脑海深处也会产生这些想法，或许我只是没有像自己以为的那样喜欢她们，并且我真的特别怀念自己独处的时光（电话虽然很甜蜜，但是如果每次都要打一整晚，并且经常打的话，那就有点恶心了。）
我的脑海深处也会产生这些想法，或许我只是没有像自己以为的那样喜欢她们，并且我真的特别怀念自己独处的时光（电话虽然很甜蜜，但是如果每次都要打一整晚，并且经常打的话，那就有点恶心了。）
gtnair
I just lost my wife after years of illness have no desire for another relationship.
我的妻子在经历了几年的病痛之后刚刚离我而去，我没有再开始一段感情的欲望了。
I just lost my wife after years of illness have no desire for another relationship.
我的妻子在经历了几年的病痛之后刚刚离我而去，我没有再开始一段感情的欲望了。
Anunnaki2522
Same boat man, it's been 4 years now since her death after a 3 1/2 year fight she put up. We spent 12 years together and I still just can't bring myself to really go out there again when all I want is her back
我也一样，哥们。她在经历了一段三年半的斗争之后，已经去世四年了。我们在一起的时间共有12年，我现在还没办法让自己重新开始，我只是想要她回来。
Same boat man, it's been 4 years now since her death after a 3 1/2 year fight she put up. We spent 12 years together and I still just can't bring myself to really go out there again when all I want is her back
我也一样，哥们。她在经历了一段三年半的斗争之后，已经去世四年了。我们在一起的时间共有12年，我现在还没办法让自己重新开始，我只是想要她回来。
JessicaCaraSummers
Social anxiety
社交焦虑
Social anxiety
社交焦虑
spudds96
Yeah this or social awkwardness, the inability to just have a normal conversation with people
没错，或者是社交尴尬，根本没有能力和别人进行一段正常的对话。
Yeah this or social awkwardness, the inability to just have a normal conversation with people
没错，或者是社交尴尬，根本没有能力和别人进行一段正常的对话。
murdertoothbrush
Plenty of ladies also feel like this. Rest assured it's not just you!
其实有不少女士们也有这种感觉。放心，不止你一个有这样的问题！
Plenty of ladies also feel like this. Rest assured it's not just you!
其实有不少女士们也有这种感觉。放心，不止你一个有这样的问题！
Jimmy-TinkerBull
That makes it even worse. Now two groups too shy and awkward to talk to each other are crammed up in their respective corners.
那难道不是更糟糕了吗。现在有两群又害羞又尴尬不愿意跟对方聊天的人，要缩在各自的角落里了。
That makes it even worse. Now two groups too shy and awkward to talk to each other are crammed up in their respective corners.
那难道不是更糟糕了吗。现在有两群又害羞又尴尬不愿意跟对方聊天的人，要缩在各自的角落里了。
owen__wilsons__nose
Is there a dating app for people with social anxiety ? If not there should be!
有没有给社交焦虑的人设计的约会app啊？没有的话就整一个呀！
Is there a dating app for people with social anxiety ? If not there should be!
有没有给社交焦虑的人设计的约会app啊？没有的话就整一个呀！
VanWinkel
There was but no one signed up
曾经有过，但是结果没人注册。
There was but no one signed up
曾经有过，但是结果没人注册。
TwoChaptersIn
It kinda seems like everyone I meet and am interested in is already dating/in a situation with someone. I get plenty of connections on dating apps but they usually just stop replying.
我感觉好像我遇见过的所有人，我感兴趣的所有人，都已经和别人在约会了。我在约会软件上也有不少联系，但是他们通常都直接就不再回复我了。
It kinda seems like everyone I meet and am interested in is already dating/in a situation with someone. I get plenty of connections on dating apps but they usually just stop replying.
我感觉好像我遇见过的所有人，我感兴趣的所有人，都已经和别人在约会了。我在约会软件上也有不少联系，但是他们通常都直接就不再回复我了。
Green-Background-359
Fear
恐惧。
Fear
恐惧。
waitforit1234567
Fear leads to Anger. Anger leads to Hate. Hate leads to the Dark Side
恐惧带来愤怒。愤怒带来仇恨。而仇恨会把你引向原力的黑暗面。
Fear leads to Anger. Anger leads to Hate. Hate leads to the Dark Side
恐惧带来愤怒。愤怒带来仇恨。而仇恨会把你引向原力的黑暗面。
ChickensPickins
Divorced with a 3yo boy in my mid 30s. It’s a minefield out here and my threshold for nonsense is way lower than my threshold for loneliness.
30多岁，带着3岁的儿子离婚了。这是一片雷区，并且我对于废话的忍受能力比对于孤独的忍受能力要低得多。
Divorced with a 3yo boy in my mid 30s. It’s a minefield out here and my threshold for nonsense is way lower than my threshold for loneliness.
30多岁，带着3岁的儿子离婚了。这是一片雷区，并且我对于废话的忍受能力比对于孤独的忍受能力要低得多。
scienceforbid
I'm working on myself. I'm in no position to date anybody and have nothing substantial to give another person right now. I need everything I have to fix me.
我还在努力提升自己。我现在还没有资格去约别人，并且我也没有什么可以给予别人的东西。我现在需要手头的一切资源来把我自己给弄明白。
I'm working on myself. I'm in no position to date anybody and have nothing substantial to give another person right now. I need everything I have to fix me.
我还在努力提升自己。我现在还没有资格去约别人，并且我也没有什么可以给予别人的东西。我现在需要手头的一切资源来把我自己给弄明白。
funkme1ster
I'm sure you already know this and have been told this by other people, but I still want to say it because it's worth repeating:
我知道你肯定已经明白这个道理了，别人可能也都跟你讲过了，但是我还是想要说一遍，因为这个道理值得反复说：
I'm sure you already know this and have been told this by other people, but I still want to say it because it's worth repeating:
我知道你肯定已经明白这个道理了，别人可能也都跟你讲过了，但是我还是想要说一遍，因为这个道理值得反复说：
Everyone is a work in progress right up to the day they die.
每个人直到他去世的那天为止，都是个半成品。
每个人直到他去世的那天为止，都是个半成品。
If you need everything you have to work on yourself right now, that's perfectly fine and a healthy attitude to have. Wanting to be a better version of yourself is respectful to yourself and potential future partners. Just remember that you're allowed to be imperfect, and what you provide to others is more than you consciously realize.
如果你需要手头的一切来提升自己，那完全没问题，并且这也是一种健康的态度。想要成为更好的你自己，不论对于你自己来说，还是对于你潜在的未来伴侣来说，都是一种尊重。只是需要记住，你也完全可以不完美，并且你给其他人带来的东西往往比你能意识到的还要多。
如果你需要手头的一切来提升自己，那完全没问题，并且这也是一种健康的态度。想要成为更好的你自己，不论对于你自己来说，还是对于你潜在的未来伴侣来说，都是一种尊重。只是需要记住，你也完全可以不完美，并且你给其他人带来的东西往往比你能意识到的还要多。
It's one of those things we know, and we'll say we know, but it's still helpful and validating to be reminded of.
这个道理我们都知道，并且我们总是说自己知道，但是经常提醒一下还是很有价值的。
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这个道理我们都知道，并且我们总是说自己知道，但是经常提醒一下还是很有价值的。
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Bhanghai
can't find anyone with low enough standards
找不到标准这么低的人。
can't find anyone with low enough standards
找不到标准这么低的人。
mythrilcrafter
Pragmatically speaking? Nothing really, maybe some internalised form of procrastination?
从实际的角度来说吗？实际上也没什么，或许是某种已经被内化的拖延症？
Pragmatically speaking? Nothing really, maybe some internalised form of procrastination?
从实际的角度来说吗？实际上也没什么，或许是某种已经被内化的拖延症？
I keep myself decently well maintained mentally, emotionally, and physically. Career-wise/professionally, I've built myself up as a pretty well rounded person and although I've still got a ways to go, I'm decently stable with my currently established work-life balance. And I'm also a decently well socialised person who interacts well with the public, can hold a conversation, and decent at paying attention to social-queues and body language.
我在心理上、情感上和身体上，都主动保持着非常不错的状态。从职业生涯的角度来说，我已经把自己打造成了一个十分全面的人，尽管我仍然有很长的路要走，但是对于我当前的工作-生活平衡来说，我认为自己非常稳定。我也是一个社交能力出色的人，可以在公共场合与别人良好地交际，可以掌控一场对话，并且也很擅长关注社会队列和肢体语言。
我在心理上、情感上和身体上，都主动保持着非常不错的状态。从职业生涯的角度来说，我已经把自己打造成了一个十分全面的人，尽管我仍然有很长的路要走，但是对于我当前的工作-生活平衡来说，我认为自己非常稳定。我也是一个社交能力出色的人，可以在公共场合与别人良好地交际，可以掌控一场对话，并且也很擅长关注社会队列和肢体语言。
If I actually tried to get into the dating game, I'm decently confident that I could do okay for myself and my partner; but I guess I just haven't had a reason to actually take that initiative step...
如果我真的尝试一下约会的游戏，我很确定我可以为自己和伴侣都带来不错的体验，但是我猜我可能暂时还找不到理由迈出这最初的一步……
如果我真的尝试一下约会的游戏，我很确定我可以为自己和伴侣都带来不错的体验，但是我猜我可能暂时还找不到理由迈出这最初的一步……
DocShaayy
My wheelchair. I’m completely self sufficient and independent. I’m a moderately attractive 29 year old male, I’m in good shape and have a very active and athletic background. Girls simply won’t look past it and treat me like a human. I don’t identify as a wheelchair or as disabled, I identify as human, treat me like one..
我的轮椅。我是一个完全能够自给自足的独立的人。我是一个吸引力尚可的29岁男性，我的身材不错，有非常活跃的体育运动背景。但是女孩们根本就不会观察我的过去，把我当成一个人类去看待。我不认为我自己是个轮椅，或者是个残疾人。我认为我是个人类，所以请像对待人类那样对待我。
My wheelchair. I’m completely self sufficient and independent. I’m a moderately attractive 29 year old male, I’m in good shape and have a very active and athletic background. Girls simply won’t look past it and treat me like a human. I don’t identify as a wheelchair or as disabled, I identify as human, treat me like one..
我的轮椅。我是一个完全能够自给自足的独立的人。我是一个吸引力尚可的29岁男性，我的身材不错，有非常活跃的体育运动背景。但是女孩们根本就不会观察我的过去，把我当成一个人类去看待。我不认为我自己是个轮椅，或者是个残疾人。我认为我是个人类，所以请像对待人类那样对待我。
Arcofly
I’m too shy and don’t meet new people, my life is a cycle of wake up university sleep and when I get opportunities I don’t take them
我太害羞了，并且我也不会遇见新的人，我的生活就是醒来，上学，睡觉的循环，就算我遇到了机会，我也抓不住。
I’m too shy and don’t meet new people, my life is a cycle of wake up university sleep and when I get opportunities I don’t take them
我太害羞了，并且我也不会遇见新的人，我的生活就是醒来，上学，睡觉的循环，就算我遇到了机会，我也抓不住。
fkalicous
Yeah, i often realise i had a chance the next day....
没错，我总是等到第二天才想起来自己当时有过机会……
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Yeah, i often realise i had a chance the next day....
没错，我总是等到第二天才想起来自己当时有过机会……
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Kaskazee
I'm incredibly content with my life being single, i have zero interest in having children or being around children, and dating now a days isn't particularly fun or interesting and it hasn't been for a long time now for me anymore.
我对于单身的生活简直不能再满足了，我对于有孩子或者被孩子围绕着的生活没有任何兴趣，约会放到今天并不算是什么特别有趣或者好玩的事情，并且很长时间以来对我来说都一直如此。
I'm incredibly content with my life being single, i have zero interest in having children or being around children, and dating now a days isn't particularly fun or interesting and it hasn't been for a long time now for me anymore.
我对于单身的生活简直不能再满足了，我对于有孩子或者被孩子围绕着的生活没有任何兴趣，约会放到今天并不算是什么特别有趣或者好玩的事情，并且很长时间以来对我来说都一直如此。
MrStealYoBichonFrise
I am a high functioning autistic and have issues interacting with strangers. My looks are good enough to get dates with women I find attractive, but they are generally put off with my lack of eye contact and I'm unable to tell if they like me or not. I've actually botched quite a few dates where I thought they weren't into me, but I thought we'd make good friends so I stated so. They stopped talking to me after that.
我是一名高功能性自闭症，并且我和陌生人交往的时候也会有问题。我的外貌不错，足以让我和那些我觉得有吸引力的女人约上，但是她们最终都因为我和她们缺乏眼神交流而离我而去，并且我也没办法分辨她们喜不喜欢我。有几段约会里，我觉得她们没有那么喜欢我，但是我觉得我们可以当好朋友，所以我就这么跟他们说了。但是此后她们就不再和我说话了。
I am a high functioning autistic and have issues interacting with strangers. My looks are good enough to get dates with women I find attractive, but they are generally put off with my lack of eye contact and I'm unable to tell if they like me or not. I've actually botched quite a few dates where I thought they weren't into me, but I thought we'd make good friends so I stated so. They stopped talking to me after that.
我是一名高功能性自闭症，并且我和陌生人交往的时候也会有问题。我的外貌不错，足以让我和那些我觉得有吸引力的女人约上，但是她们最终都因为我和她们缺乏眼神交流而离我而去，并且我也没办法分辨她们喜不喜欢我。有几段约会里，我觉得她们没有那么喜欢我，但是我觉得我们可以当好朋友，所以我就这么跟他们说了。但是此后她们就不再和我说话了。
uknnownvoid
I don’t want one. I might get lonely sometimes, but being single at this point in my life is healthier for me, I think. There’s always time to find somebody new, but I’m not ready for it now.
我根本不想要。有时候我可能会觉得有点孤独，但是我觉得在人生的这个时间段，单身对我来说更加健康一些。总是有时间找一个新的人的，但我现在还没有准备好。
I don’t want one. I might get lonely sometimes, but being single at this point in my life is healthier for me, I think. There’s always time to find somebody new, but I’m not ready for it now.
我根本不想要。有时候我可能会觉得有点孤独，但是我觉得在人生的这个时间段，单身对我来说更加健康一些。总是有时间找一个新的人的，但我现在还没有准备好。
hollow_walker
being ugly, weird, socially awkward also not having lots of money and in general being unsuccessful no matter what I try
因为我又丑，又怪，在社交场合又很尴尬，也没什么钱，并且不论我做什么事，总地来说我都挺失败的。
being ugly, weird, socially awkward also not having lots of money and in general being unsuccessful no matter what I try
因为我又丑，又怪，在社交场合又很尴尬，也没什么钱，并且不论我做什么事，总地来说我都挺失败的。
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