外国网友辩论:为什么去外国寻找恋情的男人遭到太多指责?
2025-09-13 骑着毛驴到处走 1597
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Meanwhile,eanwhile,a bit of an oversight, no? It seems as though western women are more concerned with men leaving the dating market and finding love elsewhere. Relationships are somewhat transactional. Foreign women offer lower “rates” (keeping with the analogy), which obviously disrupts the local dating market. The generalization of all men who go overseas as weirdos is an outdated stereotype.
I am specifically talking about western men who find genuine love overseas. I am specifically excluding predators who go to seedy underground child brothels in Thailand.
      
人们总是指责“护照兄弟”(拿着护照去海外寻找恋情的西方男人),却无视那些离婚的西方女人们大批跑去牙买加和冈比亚,体验当地文化。我看过一些航班视频,满机舱都是四五十岁的英国女人,她们想找个年轻男人,并以“金钱补偿”为交换。而那些较贫穷的男性也欣然接受。这是不是有点双重标准呢?
看起来,西方女性更在意的是男性退出本地婚恋市场,转而在别处找到爱情。谈恋爱多少带有一些“交易性”,而外国女性的“条件”更低(只是个比喻),自然会扰乱本地的婚恋市场。把所有出国寻找伴侣的男性一概归为“怪人”的说法,其实早已是过时的刻板印象。
声明一下:我这里特指那些真正去海外寻找爱情的西方男性,并不包括那些去肮脏的泰国地下儿童妓院的人渣。
 
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Meanwhile,eanwhile,a bit of an oversight, no? It seems as though western women are more concerned with men leaving the dating market and finding love elsewhere. Relationships are somewhat transactional. Foreign women offer lower “rates” (keeping with the analogy), which obviously disrupts the local dating market. The generalization of all men who go overseas as weirdos is an outdated stereotype.
I am specifically talking about western men who find genuine love overseas. I am specifically excluding predators who go to seedy underground child brothels in Thailand.
      
人们总是指责“护照兄弟”(拿着护照去海外寻找恋情的西方男人),却无视那些离婚的西方女人们大批跑去牙买加和冈比亚,体验当地文化。我看过一些航班视频,满机舱都是四五十岁的英国女人,她们想找个年轻男人,并以“金钱补偿”为交换。而那些较贫穷的男性也欣然接受。这是不是有点双重标准呢?
看起来,西方女性更在意的是男性退出本地婚恋市场,转而在别处找到爱情。谈恋爱多少带有一些“交易性”,而外国女性的“条件”更低(只是个比喻),自然会扰乱本地的婚恋市场。把所有出国寻找伴侣的男性一概归为“怪人”的说法,其实早已是过时的刻板印象。
声明一下:我这里特指那些真正去海外寻找爱情的西方男性,并不包括那些去肮脏的泰国地下儿童妓院的人渣。
 
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