有什么心理学事实是人们不知道的(下)
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What are some psychological facts that people don't know?
有什么心理学事实是人们不知道的
What are some psychological facts that people don't know?
有什么心理学事实是人们不知道的
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Nijanthan Sundaramoorthi, Process Engineer at Technip Energies
Nijanthan Sundaramoorthi,德希尼布能源公司工艺工程师
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Nijanthan Sundaramoorthi,德希尼布能源公司工艺工程师
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90% of people between 10–29 years of age sleep with their phones.
It is possible to die due to a broken heart. This occurrence is called stress cardiomyopathy.
If a person sleeps a lot, then he/she is most likely sad.
Having conversations with a woman gives a man improved mental strength.
Intelligent people are more likely to remain faithful while in a relationship.
You have a favourite song? That's because you are emotionally attached to that song.
1 in 5 people of India are mentally depressed, making India the most depressed country in the world.
Most of us suffer from Phanthom Vibration syndrome. Phantom Vibration Syndrome is the feeling that your phone is vibrating when it's actually not.
There is a gene that can cause you to be negative most of the time.
10-29岁的人 中间90%的人睡觉时都带着手机。
有可能死于心碎。这种情况称为应激性心肌病。
如果一个人经常要睡觉，那么他/她很可能很伤心。
与女人交谈可以增强男人的精神力量。
聪明的人在恋爱中更有可能保持忠诚。
你有最喜欢的歌吗？如果有，那是因为你对那首歌情有独钟。
印度五分之一的人患有精神抑郁症，使印度成为世界上最抑郁的国家。
我们大多数人都患有幻觉振动综合征。幻影振动综合症是指当手机实际上没有振动时，却感觉到手机在振动。
有一种基因会让你大部分时间都是消极的。
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It is possible to die due to a broken heart. This occurrence is called stress cardiomyopathy.
If a person sleeps a lot, then he/she is most likely sad.
Having conversations with a woman gives a man improved mental strength.
Intelligent people are more likely to remain faithful while in a relationship.
You have a favourite song? That's because you are emotionally attached to that song.
1 in 5 people of India are mentally depressed, making India the most depressed country in the world.
Most of us suffer from Phanthom Vibration syndrome. Phantom Vibration Syndrome is the feeling that your phone is vibrating when it's actually not.
There is a gene that can cause you to be negative most of the time.
10-29岁的人 中间90%的人睡觉时都带着手机。
有可能死于心碎。这种情况称为应激性心肌病。
如果一个人经常要睡觉，那么他/她很可能很伤心。
与女人交谈可以增强男人的精神力量。
聪明的人在恋爱中更有可能保持忠诚。
你有最喜欢的歌吗？如果有，那是因为你对那首歌情有独钟。
印度五分之一的人患有精神抑郁症，使印度成为世界上最抑郁的国家。
我们大多数人都患有幻觉振动综合征。幻影振动综合症是指当手机实际上没有振动时，却感觉到手机在振动。
有一种基因会让你大部分时间都是消极的。
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It takes only 4 minutes to fall in love.
People who easily get distracted are more creative and tend to have a higher IQ.
10% of the world’s population is left handed.
The larger your signature, the larger your self esteem.
The smaller your handwriting, the lesser you are open to conversation.
If your crush on someone lasts more than 4 months— it is considered love.
Wearing a red colored dress makes you more desiring to the opposite sex.
Creative people tend to get bored easily.
Eating chocolate reduces stress.
People who give you the best advice are typically the ones with the most problems.
When someone says, “ I hate you,” they really mean, “ you hurt me".
Pardon me (If anything is repetitive)!
坠入爱河只需4分钟。
容易分心的人更有创造力，智商也更高。
世界人口的10%是左撇子。
你的签名字体越大，你的自尊心就越强。
你的笔迹越小，你就越不愿意交谈。
如果你对某人的迷恋持续4个月以上，那就是爱。
穿红色的衣服会让你更渴望得到异性关注。
有创造力的人容易感到无聊。
吃巧克力可以减轻压力。
给你最好建议的人通常是遇到问题最多的人。
当有人说“我恨你”时，他们的真正意思是“你伤害了我”。
对不起（如果有重复的话）！
People who easily get distracted are more creative and tend to have a higher IQ.
10% of the world’s population is left handed.
The larger your signature, the larger your self esteem.
The smaller your handwriting, the lesser you are open to conversation.
If your crush on someone lasts more than 4 months— it is considered love.
Wearing a red colored dress makes you more desiring to the opposite sex.
Creative people tend to get bored easily.
Eating chocolate reduces stress.
People who give you the best advice are typically the ones with the most problems.
When someone says, “ I hate you,” they really mean, “ you hurt me".
Pardon me (If anything is repetitive)!
坠入爱河只需4分钟。
容易分心的人更有创造力，智商也更高。
世界人口的10%是左撇子。
你的签名字体越大，你的自尊心就越强。
你的笔迹越小，你就越不愿意交谈。
如果你对某人的迷恋持续4个月以上，那就是爱。
穿红色的衣服会让你更渴望得到异性关注。
有创造力的人容易感到无聊。
吃巧克力可以减轻压力。
给你最好建议的人通常是遇到问题最多的人。
当有人说“我恨你”时，他们的真正意思是“你伤害了我”。
对不起（如果有重复的话）！
Rakshith Akira, A sensible Writer
Rakshith Akira，一位理智的作家
Rakshith Akira，一位理智的作家
It's my personal experience!
Incident #1
One of my friend was early to the venue and was waiting for me.
He called me and asked how long does it take for me to visit the venue, I replied, “It takes 30 minutes”.
He was like, “Bro, please try to come early. I’m alone here.”
I made it to the venue within 15 minutes, my friend was so happy.
这是我个人的经历！
事件1：
我的一个朋友很早就到了会场，正在等我。
他打电话给我，问我达到场馆需要多长时间，我回答说：“需要30分钟。”。
他说：“兄弟，请早点来，我一个人在这里。”
我在15分钟内到达会场，我的朋友非常高兴。
Incident #1
One of my friend was early to the venue and was waiting for me.
He called me and asked how long does it take for me to visit the venue, I replied, “It takes 30 minutes”.
He was like, “Bro, please try to come early. I’m alone here.”
I made it to the venue within 15 minutes, my friend was so happy.
这是我个人的经历！
事件1：
我的一个朋友很早就到了会场，正在等我。
他打电话给我，问我达到场馆需要多长时间，我回答说：“需要30分钟。”。
他说：“兄弟，请早点来，我一个人在这里。”
我在15分钟内到达会场，我的朋友非常高兴。
Incident #2
I was fed up writing a mail to the internet service provider to solve my issue regarding something. They were telling me that it would take up 10 business days to resolve that.
Luckily I got a mail last night saying that they have resolved my issue, I was elated.
They told it would take up to 10 days and resolved within 5 days.
From the above two incidents, I can conclude that,
Whenever someone replies, visits even before the estimated time, the human mind starts feeling happy and elated.
So, whenever someone asks you about how long does it take?
Tell them, double the time and surprise them within half of the time.
事件2：
我厌倦了给互联网服务提供商写信来解决我的问题，他们告诉我解决这个问题需要10个工作日。
幸运的是，昨晚我收到一封邮件，说他们已经解决了我的问题，我很高兴。
他们说这将需要10天，并在5天内解决。
从以上两起事件中，我可以得出这样的结论：
每当有人在预计的时间之前回复、访问，人类的大脑就会开始感到快乐和兴奋。
所以，每当有人问你需要多长时间？
告诉他们，告诉他们的时间比预算多一倍，然后在一半时间内给他们惊喜。
I was fed up writing a mail to the internet service provider to solve my issue regarding something. They were telling me that it would take up 10 business days to resolve that.
Luckily I got a mail last night saying that they have resolved my issue, I was elated.
They told it would take up to 10 days and resolved within 5 days.
From the above two incidents, I can conclude that,
Whenever someone replies, visits even before the estimated time, the human mind starts feeling happy and elated.
So, whenever someone asks you about how long does it take?
Tell them, double the time and surprise them within half of the time.
事件2：
我厌倦了给互联网服务提供商写信来解决我的问题，他们告诉我解决这个问题需要10个工作日。
幸运的是，昨晚我收到一封邮件，说他们已经解决了我的问题，我很高兴。
他们说这将需要10天，并在5天内解决。
从以上两起事件中，我可以得出这样的结论：
每当有人在预计的时间之前回复、访问，人类的大脑就会开始感到快乐和兴奋。
所以，每当有人问你需要多长时间？
告诉他们，告诉他们的时间比预算多一倍，然后在一半时间内给他们惊喜。
Mukul Chauhan, Software Engineer (2019-present)
Mukul Chauhan，软件工程师（2019年至今）
Mukul Chauhan，软件工程师（2019年至今）
Hugging for 20 seconds releases oxytocin, which can cause you to trust someone more.
Dark chocolate contains a chemical that our bodies convert into phenylethylamine, which soothes mood and reduces the level of your stress.
Writing down negative things and tossing them in a trash can, is a psychological trick that can improve your mood.
Finding love is all about timing. Psychology says that it is possible to find the right person, but at the wrong time.
People with sharp intelligence and high IQ levels are more likely to sleep late at night.
Many studies have shown that on average women cannot keep any secret talk for more than 47 hours and 15 minutes.
If you make your favorite song your alarm then you start disliking it.
拥抱20秒会释放催产素，这会让你更加信任别人。
黑巧克力含有一种化学物质，我们的身体可以将其转化为苯乙胺，它可以舒缓情绪，降低压力。
写下消极的东西并把它们扔进垃圾桶，这是一种可以改善你情绪的心理技巧。
寻找爱情就是把握时机。心理学认为，在错误的时间找到对的人是有可能的。
聪明和智商高的人晚上睡得更晚。
许多研究表明，平均而言，女性保密时间不能超过47小时15分钟。
如果你把你最喜欢的歌当成闹钟，那么你就开始讨厌它了。
Dark chocolate contains a chemical that our bodies convert into phenylethylamine, which soothes mood and reduces the level of your stress.
Writing down negative things and tossing them in a trash can, is a psychological trick that can improve your mood.
Finding love is all about timing. Psychology says that it is possible to find the right person, but at the wrong time.
People with sharp intelligence and high IQ levels are more likely to sleep late at night.
Many studies have shown that on average women cannot keep any secret talk for more than 47 hours and 15 minutes.
If you make your favorite song your alarm then you start disliking it.
拥抱20秒会释放催产素，这会让你更加信任别人。
黑巧克力含有一种化学物质，我们的身体可以将其转化为苯乙胺，它可以舒缓情绪，降低压力。
写下消极的东西并把它们扔进垃圾桶，这是一种可以改善你情绪的心理技巧。
寻找爱情就是把握时机。心理学认为，在错误的时间找到对的人是有可能的。
聪明和智商高的人晚上睡得更晚。
许多研究表明，平均而言，女性保密时间不能超过47小时15分钟。
如果你把你最喜欢的歌当成闹钟，那么你就开始讨厌它了。
S Saleha, Knowledge seeker
萨勒哈，求知者
萨勒哈，求知者
Everyone should know these interesting facts:
Wearing red coloured dress makes you more desirable to opposite gender.
When someone says ‘I hate you’ he really means ‘you hurt me’.
Reading fictions improves social skills because it puts you in various social situations in the perspective of characters.
Most women are attracted to men who possess a strong sense of humour as it indicates heigher intelligence and honesty.
The people who give the best advice are usually the ones with the most problems.
Girls don’t like being stared at, unless they are already staring at you.
The best person in your life is the one who comes first in your mind after reading this sentence.
Haters don't really hate you. In fact, they hate themselves because you’re a reflection of what they wish to be.
Once you have accepted your flaws, no one can use it against you.
People who spend prolonged hours of working on computers or watching TV are likely to suffer from TATT(Tired all the time) syndrome.
Singing reduces feelings of anxiety and depression, just let it all out.
每个人都应该知道这些有趣的事实：
穿红色的衣服会让你对异性更感兴趣。
当有人说“我恨你”时，他的意思是“你伤害了我”。
阅读小说可以提高社交技能，因为它可以从人物的角度让你置身于各种社会情境中。
大多数女性都被具有强烈幽默感的男性所吸引，因为这表明她们更聪明、更诚实。
给出最好建议的人通常是问题最多的人。
女孩不喜欢被盯着看，除非她们已经盯着你看了。
你生命中最好的人是在读过这句话后首先出现在你脑海中的人。
仇恨者并不是真的恨你。事实上，他们恨自己，因为你就是他们希望成为的那种人。
一旦你接受了自己的缺点，没有人可以用它来对付你。
长时间在电脑上工作或看电视的人很可能患上TATT综合症（总感觉疲劳症（Tired All The Time））。
唱歌可以减少焦虑和沮丧的情绪，让一切都发泄出来。
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Wearing red coloured dress makes you more desirable to opposite gender.
When someone says ‘I hate you’ he really means ‘you hurt me’.
Reading fictions improves social skills because it puts you in various social situations in the perspective of characters.
Most women are attracted to men who possess a strong sense of humour as it indicates heigher intelligence and honesty.
The people who give the best advice are usually the ones with the most problems.
Girls don’t like being stared at, unless they are already staring at you.
The best person in your life is the one who comes first in your mind after reading this sentence.
Haters don't really hate you. In fact, they hate themselves because you’re a reflection of what they wish to be.
Once you have accepted your flaws, no one can use it against you.
People who spend prolonged hours of working on computers or watching TV are likely to suffer from TATT(Tired all the time) syndrome.
Singing reduces feelings of anxiety and depression, just let it all out.
每个人都应该知道这些有趣的事实：
穿红色的衣服会让你对异性更感兴趣。
当有人说“我恨你”时，他的意思是“你伤害了我”。
阅读小说可以提高社交技能，因为它可以从人物的角度让你置身于各种社会情境中。
大多数女性都被具有强烈幽默感的男性所吸引，因为这表明她们更聪明、更诚实。
给出最好建议的人通常是问题最多的人。
女孩不喜欢被盯着看，除非她们已经盯着你看了。
你生命中最好的人是在读过这句话后首先出现在你脑海中的人。
仇恨者并不是真的恨你。事实上，他们恨自己，因为你就是他们希望成为的那种人。
一旦你接受了自己的缺点，没有人可以用它来对付你。
长时间在电脑上工作或看电视的人很可能患上TATT综合症（总感觉疲劳症（Tired All The Time））。
唱歌可以减少焦虑和沮丧的情绪，让一切都发泄出来。
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Harsh Kushwaha, MBBS from All Indian Institute of Medical Sciences, Raebareli (2024)
Harsh Kushwaha，全印度医学科学研究所医学学士，拉贝雷利（2024年）
Harsh Kushwaha，全印度医学科学研究所医学学士，拉贝雷利（2024年）
tears of pain start from left eye.
When a person starts crying, he will remember other sad events to increase crying.
Having conversation with a woman gives man improved mental strength .
Studies show that a person who looses a cell phone experiences a panic similar to near death experience.
if you smile even if you're feeling bad mood, it will improve your mood, because muscle involved in smiling can trigger happy chemicals in brain
when someone cries tears of joy, the first teardrop would always come from right eye.
first 3 seconds of wake up, you'll not remember anything.
people who hide their feelings usually care the most.
痛苦的泪水从左眼开始。
当一个人开始哭泣时，他会想起其他悲伤的事情，从而哭得更厉害。
与女人交谈能增强男人的精神力量。
研究表明，一个人松开手机后会经历类似于濒死体验的恐慌。
即使心情不好也要微笑，这会改善你的情绪，因为微笑中时肌肉会在大脑中触发快乐的化学物质
当有人喜极而泣时，第一滴泪总是从右眼流出。
醒来的前3秒钟，你什么都不记得了。
隐藏自己感情的人通常最在意别人。
When a person starts crying, he will remember other sad events to increase crying.
Having conversation with a woman gives man improved mental strength .
Studies show that a person who looses a cell phone experiences a panic similar to near death experience.
if you smile even if you're feeling bad mood, it will improve your mood, because muscle involved in smiling can trigger happy chemicals in brain
when someone cries tears of joy, the first teardrop would always come from right eye.
first 3 seconds of wake up, you'll not remember anything.
people who hide their feelings usually care the most.
痛苦的泪水从左眼开始。
当一个人开始哭泣时，他会想起其他悲伤的事情，从而哭得更厉害。
与女人交谈能增强男人的精神力量。
研究表明，一个人松开手机后会经历类似于濒死体验的恐慌。
即使心情不好也要微笑，这会改善你的情绪，因为微笑中时肌肉会在大脑中触发快乐的化学物质
当有人喜极而泣时，第一滴泪总是从右眼流出。
醒来的前3秒钟，你什么都不记得了。
隐藏自己感情的人通常最在意别人。
it takes 4 minutes to fall in love.
any friendship exceeding 7 years, likely lasts lifetime.
the type of music we listen affects the way we perceive the world
people who over sleep, crave to sleep more.
closing eyes helps remembering things.
70% of our dreams contain a secret message. They carry more meaning than our conscious thoughts.
its impossible to remain angry at someone you truly love. Anger lasting more than 3 days indicate you're not in love.
A liar might unconsciously place obxts like book, coffee cup, etc. between you and themselves while speaking.
Talking about ourselves triggers the same sensation of pleasure in our brain as food or money.
Most of the problems in your life are due to two reasons: you act without thinking, or think without acting.
The human mind can only maintain complete trust once for each person. Once broken, it's never the same.
Words don't have power to hurt you, unless the person means a lot to you.
The way you talk to your children becomes their inner voice.
School doesn't test your intelligence. It tests your memory.
坠入爱河需要4分钟。
任何超过7年的友谊都可能持续一生。
我们听的音乐类型会影响我们感知世界的方式。
睡过头的人渴望睡得更多。
闭上眼睛有助于记忆事物。
我们70%的梦想都包含着秘密信息。它们比我们有意识的想法更有意义。
你不可能对你真正爱的人生气。如果愤怒持续3天以上表明你没有陷入恋爱中。
说谎者说话时可能会无意识地把书、咖啡杯等东西放在你和他们之间。
谈论自己会在我们的大脑中引发与食物或金钱一样的愉悦感。
生活中的大多数问题都是由两个原因造成的：你不思考就行动，或者思考而不行动。
人的头脑只能对每个人保持一次完全的信任。一旦破坏了，它就不一样了。
言语不够力量伤害你，除非那个人对你很重要。
你和孩子说话的方式会成为他们内心的声音。
学校不会测试你的智力。它测试你的记忆力。
any friendship exceeding 7 years, likely lasts lifetime.
the type of music we listen affects the way we perceive the world
people who over sleep, crave to sleep more.
closing eyes helps remembering things.
70% of our dreams contain a secret message. They carry more meaning than our conscious thoughts.
its impossible to remain angry at someone you truly love. Anger lasting more than 3 days indicate you're not in love.
A liar might unconsciously place obxts like book, coffee cup, etc. between you and themselves while speaking.
Talking about ourselves triggers the same sensation of pleasure in our brain as food or money.
Most of the problems in your life are due to two reasons: you act without thinking, or think without acting.
The human mind can only maintain complete trust once for each person. Once broken, it's never the same.
Words don't have power to hurt you, unless the person means a lot to you.
The way you talk to your children becomes their inner voice.
School doesn't test your intelligence. It tests your memory.
坠入爱河需要4分钟。
任何超过7年的友谊都可能持续一生。
我们听的音乐类型会影响我们感知世界的方式。
睡过头的人渴望睡得更多。
闭上眼睛有助于记忆事物。
我们70%的梦想都包含着秘密信息。它们比我们有意识的想法更有意义。
你不可能对你真正爱的人生气。如果愤怒持续3天以上表明你没有陷入恋爱中。
说谎者说话时可能会无意识地把书、咖啡杯等东西放在你和他们之间。
谈论自己会在我们的大脑中引发与食物或金钱一样的愉悦感。
生活中的大多数问题都是由两个原因造成的：你不思考就行动，或者思考而不行动。
人的头脑只能对每个人保持一次完全的信任。一旦破坏了，它就不一样了。
言语不够力量伤害你，除非那个人对你很重要。
你和孩子说话的方式会成为他们内心的声音。
学校不会测试你的智力。它测试你的记忆力。
Amandeep Litt, Fact teller
阿曼迪普·利特，事实讲述者
阿曼迪普·利特，事实讲述者
When someone gives you any suggestion or advice, respond by saying “ you're right” rather than saying “ I know”. You'll sound nicer and diplomatic.
People who listen to more than one genre of music tend to be smarter and more creative .
Emotional pain lasts for 10–20 minutes, what continues is just the state caused by Overthinking.
Insomnia is more common in those who have a higher IQ
Once you fall in love, there is no going back to being friends again.
To gain a little trust , be neutral to both sides of the argument
When people in love stare into each other's eyes, their heart beat syncs together
Unhappy people tend to watch more TV
Too many people are trying to find the right person instead of being the right person themselves.
Meditation can change brain structure in just 8 weeks . It also increases grey matter in parts of the brain associated with learning.
当有人给你任何建议或意见时，回答时说“你是对的”，而不是说“我知道”。这让人听起来更和蔼可亲，更得体。
听一种以上音乐类型的人往往更聪明、更有创造力。
情绪痛苦持续10-20分钟，持续的只是过度思考造成的状态。
失眠症在智商较高的人中更为常见。
一旦你坠入爱河，就再也不能做朋友了。
为了获得一点信任，对争论双方保持中立。
当相爱的人凝视对方的眼睛时，他们的心跳同步。
不快乐的人倾向于看更多的电视。
太多的人试图找到合适的人，而不是自己成为合适的人。
冥想可以在8周内改变大脑结构，它还增加了大脑中与学习有关的部分的灰质。
People who listen to more than one genre of music tend to be smarter and more creative .
Emotional pain lasts for 10–20 minutes, what continues is just the state caused by Overthinking.
Insomnia is more common in those who have a higher IQ
Once you fall in love, there is no going back to being friends again.
To gain a little trust , be neutral to both sides of the argument
When people in love stare into each other's eyes, their heart beat syncs together
Unhappy people tend to watch more TV
Too many people are trying to find the right person instead of being the right person themselves.
Meditation can change brain structure in just 8 weeks . It also increases grey matter in parts of the brain associated with learning.
当有人给你任何建议或意见时，回答时说“你是对的”，而不是说“我知道”。这让人听起来更和蔼可亲，更得体。
听一种以上音乐类型的人往往更聪明、更有创造力。
情绪痛苦持续10-20分钟，持续的只是过度思考造成的状态。
失眠症在智商较高的人中更为常见。
一旦你坠入爱河，就再也不能做朋友了。
为了获得一点信任，对争论双方保持中立。
当相爱的人凝视对方的眼睛时，他们的心跳同步。
不快乐的人倾向于看更多的电视。
太多的人试图找到合适的人，而不是自己成为合适的人。
冥想可以在8周内改变大脑结构，它还增加了大脑中与学习有关的部分的灰质。
Mattie Mcdonalid
If you make eye contact with a woman, it is USUALLY a good sign if she looks down after instead of looking up or looking away by turning to the side. This is a submissive state and indicates nervousness/shyness (Which is a good indicator of her finding you attractive).
When a person is attempting to establish their dominance on you by giving a backhanded insult, the easiest and one of the most effective response is to AGREE AND AMPLIFY. This means to agree (usually sarcastically) and amplify their insult to expose its absurdity.
Example:
Hey Edward, that’s a nice tight shirt your wearing, does it come in men’s sizes ?
Me: Nope. All of my shirts are only sold at Victoria’s Secret; in case you haven’t noticed, all clothes I wear come exclusively in women’s sizes.
I agreed with his insult, then amplified it to make it sound stupid; disarming the insult and displaying that I do not really care much for mind games and am smart enough to dispose of them.
如果你和一个女人目光接触，如果她向下看，而不是向上看或转向一边看，这通常是一个好迹象。这是一种顺从的状态，表示紧张/害羞（这是她发现你有吸引力的一个很好的指标）。
当一个人试图通过间接侮辱来确立他们对你的支配地位时，最简单也是最有效的回应之一就是同意和放大。这意味着同意（通常是讽刺）并扩大他们的侮辱以揭露其荒谬性。
例子：
嘿，爱德华，你穿的那件紧身衬衫很好看，有男式尺码吗？
我：没有，我所有的衬衫只在维多利亚的秘密商店出售；如果你没注意到，我穿的所有衣服都是女式的。
我接受他的侮辱，然后把它放大，让它听起来很愚蠢；消除侮辱，表明我并不太在乎心理游戏，我足够聪明地处理它们。
If you make eye contact with a woman, it is USUALLY a good sign if she looks down after instead of looking up or looking away by turning to the side. This is a submissive state and indicates nervousness/shyness (Which is a good indicator of her finding you attractive).
When a person is attempting to establish their dominance on you by giving a backhanded insult, the easiest and one of the most effective response is to AGREE AND AMPLIFY. This means to agree (usually sarcastically) and amplify their insult to expose its absurdity.
Example:
Hey Edward, that’s a nice tight shirt your wearing, does it come in men’s sizes ?
Me: Nope. All of my shirts are only sold at Victoria’s Secret; in case you haven’t noticed, all clothes I wear come exclusively in women’s sizes.
I agreed with his insult, then amplified it to make it sound stupid; disarming the insult and displaying that I do not really care much for mind games and am smart enough to dispose of them.
如果你和一个女人目光接触，如果她向下看，而不是向上看或转向一边看，这通常是一个好迹象。这是一种顺从的状态，表示紧张/害羞（这是她发现你有吸引力的一个很好的指标）。
当一个人试图通过间接侮辱来确立他们对你的支配地位时，最简单也是最有效的回应之一就是同意和放大。这意味着同意（通常是讽刺）并扩大他们的侮辱以揭露其荒谬性。
例子：
嘿，爱德华，你穿的那件紧身衬衫很好看，有男式尺码吗？
我：没有，我所有的衬衫只在维多利亚的秘密商店出售；如果你没注意到，我穿的所有衣服都是女式的。
我接受他的侮辱，然后把它放大，让它听起来很愚蠢；消除侮辱，表明我并不太在乎心理游戏，我足够聪明地处理它们。
When your girlfriend is trying to make you jealous by flirting with other guys in front of you, the best thing to keep in mind is that girls that do this tend to be very insecure and are easy to beat at their own mind games by doing the following:
A) begin flirting with her friends or speaking about just how attractive they truly are.
B) entirely dismiss it; making her desperate attempts at catching your attention therefore irrelevant so it does not even deserve a reply away from you.
The WORST thing you can do is get angry and show that fury.
当你的女朋友试图通过与你面前的其他男人调情来让你嫉妒时，最好记住，这样做的女孩往往非常不安全，并且很容易在自己的心理游戏中被击败，方法如下：
A、开始和她的朋友调情或者谈论他们到底有多迷人。
B、完全抛弃它；因此，让她不顾一切地试图引起你的注意是无关紧要的，所以这甚至不值得你回答。
你能做的最糟糕的事情就是生气并表现出愤怒。
A) begin flirting with her friends or speaking about just how attractive they truly are.
B) entirely dismiss it; making her desperate attempts at catching your attention therefore irrelevant so it does not even deserve a reply away from you.
The WORST thing you can do is get angry and show that fury.
当你的女朋友试图通过与你面前的其他男人调情来让你嫉妒时，最好记住，这样做的女孩往往非常不安全，并且很容易在自己的心理游戏中被击败，方法如下：
A、开始和她的朋友调情或者谈论他们到底有多迷人。
B、完全抛弃它；因此，让她不顾一切地试图引起你的注意是无关紧要的，所以这甚至不值得你回答。
你能做的最糟糕的事情就是生气并表现出愤怒。
Ritu Singh, M.sc from Panjab University, Chandigarh
Ritu Singh，昌迪加尔旁遮普大学理学硕士
Ritu Singh，昌迪加尔旁遮普大学理学硕士
When a person turns 60, it’s safe to say they’ve spent about 20 years sleeping.
It seems that disorders such as schizophrenia occur less frequently in people living in rural areas than in people living in cities. It seems that stress has something to do with it…
If you announce your goals to others, you are less likely to make them happen because you lose motivation, studies confirmed.
The key to happiness is spending your money on experiences rather than possessions, according to studies.
Research shows that just thinking about a Plan B can make it less likely that you'll achieve Plan A.
Usually thinking of a successful outcome will reduce our motivation rather than increase it.
Deep breathing gives you health benefits similar to aerobics!
People who spend more time in the sun are likely to be happier and happy people are more likely to fall in love because their happiness is contagious.
Unhappy people watch more TV.
People read faster with longer lines but prefer shorter ones.
London taxi drivers, who have to remember every street in London, have an enlarged hippocampus suggesting that this area grows as you memorize more information.
当一个人60岁时，可以说他们已经睡了大约20年了。
似乎生活在农村地区的人比生活在城市的人发生精神分裂症等疾病的频率要低，似乎与压力有关。
研究证实，如果你向别人宣布你的目标，你就不太可能实现它们，因为你失去了动力。
研究表明，幸福的关键是把钱花在体验上，而不是财产上。
研究表明，仅仅考虑一个B计划就能降低你实现a计划的可能性。
通常，想到一个成功的结果会减少而不是增加我们的动机。
深呼吸给你的健康带来的好处类似于有氧运动！
花更多时间在阳光下的人可能会更快乐，而快乐的人更容易坠入爱河，因为他们的快乐是有传染性的。
不快乐的人通常看更多的电视。
长行内容的句子阅读起来更快，但更喜欢短句子。
伦敦出租车司机必须记住伦敦的每一条街道，他们的海马体变大了，这表明这一区域随着你记忆更多信息而增长。
It seems that disorders such as schizophrenia occur less frequently in people living in rural areas than in people living in cities. It seems that stress has something to do with it…
If you announce your goals to others, you are less likely to make them happen because you lose motivation, studies confirmed.
The key to happiness is spending your money on experiences rather than possessions, according to studies.
Research shows that just thinking about a Plan B can make it less likely that you'll achieve Plan A.
Usually thinking of a successful outcome will reduce our motivation rather than increase it.
Deep breathing gives you health benefits similar to aerobics!
People who spend more time in the sun are likely to be happier and happy people are more likely to fall in love because their happiness is contagious.
Unhappy people watch more TV.
People read faster with longer lines but prefer shorter ones.
London taxi drivers, who have to remember every street in London, have an enlarged hippocampus suggesting that this area grows as you memorize more information.
当一个人60岁时，可以说他们已经睡了大约20年了。
似乎生活在农村地区的人比生活在城市的人发生精神分裂症等疾病的频率要低，似乎与压力有关。
研究证实，如果你向别人宣布你的目标，你就不太可能实现它们，因为你失去了动力。
研究表明，幸福的关键是把钱花在体验上，而不是财产上。
研究表明，仅仅考虑一个B计划就能降低你实现a计划的可能性。
通常，想到一个成功的结果会减少而不是增加我们的动机。
深呼吸给你的健康带来的好处类似于有氧运动！
花更多时间在阳光下的人可能会更快乐，而快乐的人更容易坠入爱河，因为他们的快乐是有传染性的。
不快乐的人通常看更多的电视。
长行内容的句子阅读起来更快，但更喜欢短句子。
伦敦出租车司机必须记住伦敦的每一条街道，他们的海马体变大了，这表明这一区域随着你记忆更多信息而增长。
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