成功的秘诀是什么（二）
正文翻译
What are some tips for becoming successful?
成功的秘诀是什么?
What are some tips for becoming successful?
成功的秘诀是什么?
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Chris Wojcik
Everyone wants to be successful, no one wants to be boring.
Well, I’ve got some news for you: it doesn’t work like that.
Success is not that complicated, but it’s very challenging.
Not everyone can win or be successful. Not everyone is willing to do what the best of the best have to do to achieve their goals. Not everyone has the ability to succeed in high-level competition in sports, business, or any other competitive endeavor.
I’ve spent my entire life (literally since I was 5) studying, competing, and obsessing over the pursuit of athletic glory. Truthfully, being an athlete is all I’ve ever known. This writing/storytelling thing I do is still very new for me.
But behind every champion athlete or successful CEO, there is a story. However, the story isn’t what you might think it is. It’s not exciting. It’s not super inspiring. If anything it’s boring.
每个人都想成功，没有人想要没劲的人生。
好吧，我有个消息要告诉你：事情不是那样的。
成功并没有那么复杂，但它很有挑战性。
不是每个人都能赢或成功。不是每个人都愿意做最好的人必须做的事情来实现他们的目标。并非每个人都有能力在体育、商业或任何其他竞争领域的高水平竞争中取得成功。
我的整个人生（从5岁开始）都在学习、比赛，并痴迷于追求运动荣耀。说实话，我只知道做运动员。我所做的这种写作/讲故事的工作对我来说还是很新鲜的。
但在每一位冠军运动员或成功的首席执行官背后，都有一个故事。然而，这个故事并不是你想象的那样，它并不令人兴奋。这不是很鼓舞人心。如果说有什么，那就是无聊。
Everyone wants to be successful, no one wants to be boring.
Well, I’ve got some news for you: it doesn’t work like that.
Success is not that complicated, but it’s very challenging.
Not everyone can win or be successful. Not everyone is willing to do what the best of the best have to do to achieve their goals. Not everyone has the ability to succeed in high-level competition in sports, business, or any other competitive endeavor.
I’ve spent my entire life (literally since I was 5) studying, competing, and obsessing over the pursuit of athletic glory. Truthfully, being an athlete is all I’ve ever known. This writing/storytelling thing I do is still very new for me.
But behind every champion athlete or successful CEO, there is a story. However, the story isn’t what you might think it is. It’s not exciting. It’s not super inspiring. If anything it’s boring.
每个人都想成功，没有人想要没劲的人生。
好吧，我有个消息要告诉你：事情不是那样的。
成功并没有那么复杂，但它很有挑战性。
不是每个人都能赢或成功。不是每个人都愿意做最好的人必须做的事情来实现他们的目标。并非每个人都有能力在体育、商业或任何其他竞争领域的高水平竞争中取得成功。
我的整个人生（从5岁开始）都在学习、比赛，并痴迷于追求运动荣耀。说实话，我只知道做运动员。我所做的这种写作/讲故事的工作对我来说还是很新鲜的。
但在每一位冠军运动员或成功的首席执行官背后，都有一个故事。然而，这个故事并不是你想象的那样，它并不令人兴奋。这不是很鼓舞人心。如果说有什么，那就是无聊。
It’s obnoxiously boring.
The story of a champion is thousands of pages long, and nearly every page looks the same. You’d probably put the story down after just a few minutes.
Or, you’d just skip the exciting part.
The part with all the drama.
What separates people who achieve long-term goals from people who don’t is that high-achievers are more interested in the boring pages than the exciting ones.
Successful people are boring.
I’ve had a pretty “exciting” personal life.
One of my toxic traits over the past few years has been engaging in relationships with people who are absolutely horrible for me.
I’m anxious by nature, and my last 3 relationships have all led me to feel strung out and exhausted, all the time. My entire adult life has comprised of codependent relationships and burnout and sleep deprivation.
这令人讨厌的无聊。
冠军的故事长达数千页，几乎每一页看起来都一样。你可能会在几分钟后把故事写下来。
或者，你可以跳过激动人心的部分。
所有戏剧中的角色。
实现长期目标的人与没有实现目标的人的区别在于，富有成就者对枯燥乏味的页面比激动人心的页面更感兴趣。
成功的人很没劲。
我的个人生活相当“令人兴奋”。
在过去几年里，我的一个有害特征就是与那些对我来说绝对可怕的人交往。
我生性焦虑，我最近的三段恋情一直让我感到紧张和疲惫。我的整个成年生活都是由相互依赖的关系、精疲力竭和睡眠不足组成的。
The story of a champion is thousands of pages long, and nearly every page looks the same. You’d probably put the story down after just a few minutes.
Or, you’d just skip the exciting part.
The part with all the drama.
What separates people who achieve long-term goals from people who don’t is that high-achievers are more interested in the boring pages than the exciting ones.
Successful people are boring.
I’ve had a pretty “exciting” personal life.
One of my toxic traits over the past few years has been engaging in relationships with people who are absolutely horrible for me.
I’m anxious by nature, and my last 3 relationships have all led me to feel strung out and exhausted, all the time. My entire adult life has comprised of codependent relationships and burnout and sleep deprivation.
这令人讨厌的无聊。
冠军的故事长达数千页，几乎每一页看起来都一样。你可能会在几分钟后把故事写下来。
或者，你可以跳过激动人心的部分。
所有戏剧中的角色。
实现长期目标的人与没有实现目标的人的区别在于，富有成就者对枯燥乏味的页面比激动人心的页面更感兴趣。
成功的人很没劲。
我的个人生活相当“令人兴奋”。
在过去几年里，我的一个有害特征就是与那些对我来说绝对可怕的人交往。
我生性焦虑，我最近的三段恋情一直让我感到紧张和疲惫。我的整个成年生活都是由相互依赖的关系、精疲力竭和睡眠不足组成的。
Drama.
This year, for example, just 3 days before I won double gold at a Jiu-Jitsu tournament in Houston, I had a ridiculous 4-hour argument with my ex-girlfriend (I can’t get into specifics, at least not right now) that resulted in me driving myself home from her apartment at 1 in the morning.
Not exactly a great way to spend the week before you compete, especially when you know that your opponents are resting and getting focused.
The problem was that I was a masochist for emotional manipulation and drama. My ADHD brain loved the drama and the excitement. It kept me stimulated up until the point that it broke me down. For a while, I was dependent on it.
I thought that I needed the drama to succeed. I thought that drama kept me going. I didn’t understand how I could be effective at what I did without putting myself through constant pain.
However, the painful truth is that my success has never been because of the drama but despite the drama.
刺激事件
例如，今年，就在我在休斯顿的柔术锦标赛上获得双金牌的3天前，我和我的前女友发生了一场荒唐的4个小时的争吵(我不能说细节，至少现在不能说)，结果导致我在凌晨1点从她的公寓开车回家。
在比赛前的一周，尤其是当你知道对手正在休息和集中注意力时，这不是一个很好的消遣方式。
问题是我是一个情感操纵和戏剧性事件的受虐狂。我的多动症大脑喜欢戏剧性事件和刺激。它让我兴奋不已，直到我崩溃为止。有一段时间，我依赖它。
我认为我需要刺激事件才能成功。我以为那场刺激事件让我继续前进。我不明白我怎么能在不让自己持续痛苦的情况下有效地完成我的工作。
然而，痛苦的事实是，我的成功从来不是因为刺激事件，而是因为刺激事件之外。
This year, for example, just 3 days before I won double gold at a Jiu-Jitsu tournament in Houston, I had a ridiculous 4-hour argument with my ex-girlfriend (I can’t get into specifics, at least not right now) that resulted in me driving myself home from her apartment at 1 in the morning.
Not exactly a great way to spend the week before you compete, especially when you know that your opponents are resting and getting focused.
The problem was that I was a masochist for emotional manipulation and drama. My ADHD brain loved the drama and the excitement. It kept me stimulated up until the point that it broke me down. For a while, I was dependent on it.
I thought that I needed the drama to succeed. I thought that drama kept me going. I didn’t understand how I could be effective at what I did without putting myself through constant pain.
However, the painful truth is that my success has never been because of the drama but despite the drama.
刺激事件
例如，今年，就在我在休斯顿的柔术锦标赛上获得双金牌的3天前，我和我的前女友发生了一场荒唐的4个小时的争吵(我不能说细节，至少现在不能说)，结果导致我在凌晨1点从她的公寓开车回家。
在比赛前的一周，尤其是当你知道对手正在休息和集中注意力时，这不是一个很好的消遣方式。
问题是我是一个情感操纵和戏剧性事件的受虐狂。我的多动症大脑喜欢戏剧性事件和刺激。它让我兴奋不已，直到我崩溃为止。有一段时间，我依赖它。
我认为我需要刺激事件才能成功。我以为那场刺激事件让我继续前进。我不明白我怎么能在不让自己持续痛苦的情况下有效地完成我的工作。
然而，痛苦的事实是，我的成功从来不是因为刺激事件，而是因为刺激事件之外。
Now, I’m trying to be boring.
In the last year, I feel as if I’ve aged a decade.
A year ago, I was in an intense relationship that sucked the life out of me. We were in love, but we couldn’t coexist. I thought that that was just how relationships were.
I had always thought that “love” was just having sex with someone until you were bored of spending time with them, and then cutting them out of your life. I thought emotional issues were best left unaddressed.
I had absolutely no conception of what a healthy relationship looked like, and it was mostly because I hadn’t done the internal work that was required to cultivate healthy relationships. I was just a self-aware douchebag who’d read a few too many philosophy books.
I was like the Walmart brand Alan Watts. I talked a good game and I used lots of big words that made me seem smart, but I was really a person who was acting off of his impulses.
I was a child.
I cheated on girls because I wanted excitement.
现在，我试着变得无聊。
在过去的一年里，我感觉自己好像老了十岁。
一年前，我处于一段紧张的感情中，这段感情把我的生活都吸光了。我们相爱，但我们不能共存。我以为这就是关系的本质。
我一直认为“爱”只是和某人发生性关系，直到你厌倦了和她们在一起，然后把她们从你的生活中剔除。我认为情绪问题最好不处理。
我完全不知道健康的关系是什么样子的，这主要是因为我没有完成培养健康关系所需的内部工作。我只是一个自知之明的笨蛋，读了太多哲学书。
我就像沃尔玛品牌艾伦·沃茨。我讲了一场精彩的比赛，我用了很多大话，这让我看起来很聪明，但我真的是一个凭冲动行事的人。
我还是个孩子。
我欺骗女孩是因为我想要刺激。
原创翻译：龙腾网 https://www.ltaaa.cn 转载请注明出处
In the last year, I feel as if I’ve aged a decade.
A year ago, I was in an intense relationship that sucked the life out of me. We were in love, but we couldn’t coexist. I thought that that was just how relationships were.
I had always thought that “love” was just having sex with someone until you were bored of spending time with them, and then cutting them out of your life. I thought emotional issues were best left unaddressed.
I had absolutely no conception of what a healthy relationship looked like, and it was mostly because I hadn’t done the internal work that was required to cultivate healthy relationships. I was just a self-aware douchebag who’d read a few too many philosophy books.
I was like the Walmart brand Alan Watts. I talked a good game and I used lots of big words that made me seem smart, but I was really a person who was acting off of his impulses.
I was a child.
I cheated on girls because I wanted excitement.
现在，我试着变得无聊。
在过去的一年里，我感觉自己好像老了十岁。
一年前，我处于一段紧张的感情中，这段感情把我的生活都吸光了。我们相爱，但我们不能共存。我以为这就是关系的本质。
我一直认为“爱”只是和某人发生性关系，直到你厌倦了和她们在一起，然后把她们从你的生活中剔除。我认为情绪问题最好不处理。
我完全不知道健康的关系是什么样子的，这主要是因为我没有完成培养健康关系所需的内部工作。我只是一个自知之明的笨蛋，读了太多哲学书。
我就像沃尔玛品牌艾伦·沃茨。我讲了一场精彩的比赛，我用了很多大话，这让我看起来很聪明，但我真的是一个凭冲动行事的人。
我还是个孩子。
我欺骗女孩是因为我想要刺激。
原创翻译：龙腾网 https://www.ltaaa.cn 转载请注明出处
I chased people who didn’t want me because the chase was exciting. I tried to do everything and more because I thought that it would make me interesting.
I tried to be everything because when you’re everything, you have options.
However, when you try for everything, you usually end up with nothing but a heaping scoop of regret.
I burned myself to the ground in the pursuit of cheap thrills and easy dopamine. I didn’t understand why I was sad and tired. I thought I just wasn’t cut out for life because I couldn't my own unhealthy lifestyle.
Now? At 24, I’m pretty tired.
我追逐那些不想做我女朋友的人，因为追逐很刺激。我尝试做任何事，甚至更多，因为我认为这会让我变得有趣。
我试图无所不能，因为当你无所不能时，你就有选择。
然而，当你试着做每件事的时候，通常你只会留下一堆遗憾。
为了追求廉价的刺激和简单的多巴胺，我把自己烧成了灰烬。我不明白我为什么悲伤和疲惫。我想我只是不适合生活，因为我不能改变自己不健康的生活方式。
现在24岁的我很累。
I tried to be everything because when you’re everything, you have options.
However, when you try for everything, you usually end up with nothing but a heaping scoop of regret.
I burned myself to the ground in the pursuit of cheap thrills and easy dopamine. I didn’t understand why I was sad and tired. I thought I just wasn’t cut out for life because I couldn't my own unhealthy lifestyle.
Now? At 24, I’m pretty tired.
我追逐那些不想做我女朋友的人，因为追逐很刺激。我尝试做任何事，甚至更多，因为我认为这会让我变得有趣。
我试图无所不能，因为当你无所不能时，你就有选择。
然而，当你试着做每件事的时候，通常你只会留下一堆遗憾。
为了追求廉价的刺激和简单的多巴胺，我把自己烧成了灰烬。我不明白我为什么悲伤和疲惫。我想我只是不适合生活，因为我不能改变自己不健康的生活方式。
现在24岁的我很累。
I don’t want “options”. I just want to live.
I’ve competed in martial arts at the highest levels, and I’m still climbing the ladder.
What I’ve realized is that competing in the sport I do at the level that I compete at is too difficult to do when you’re constantly battling personal demons.
Successful people are boring because they’ve figured their shit out.
Successful people are boring because being boring is what it takes to get shit done. If you want to do things that matter in the long term, you have to be a little boring in the short term.
Being boring eases my internal chaos.
我不想要“选项”。我只想活下去。
我参加过最高级别的武术比赛，但我仍在攀登阶梯。
我意识到的是，当你不断地与个人恶魔作斗争时，在我所从事的运动中以我的水平去竞争是太难了。
成功的人很无聊，因为他们已经想通了。
成功人士很无趣，因为无趣是把事情办好的必要条件。如果你想做一些有长远意义的事情，你必须在短期内有点无聊。
无聊可以缓解我内心的无秩序状态。
I’ve competed in martial arts at the highest levels, and I’m still climbing the ladder.
What I’ve realized is that competing in the sport I do at the level that I compete at is too difficult to do when you’re constantly battling personal demons.
Successful people are boring because they’ve figured their shit out.
Successful people are boring because being boring is what it takes to get shit done. If you want to do things that matter in the long term, you have to be a little boring in the short term.
Being boring eases my internal chaos.
我不想要“选项”。我只想活下去。
我参加过最高级别的武术比赛，但我仍在攀登阶梯。
我意识到的是，当你不断地与个人恶魔作斗争时，在我所从事的运动中以我的水平去竞争是太难了。
成功的人很无聊，因为他们已经想通了。
成功人士很无趣，因为无趣是把事情办好的必要条件。如果你想做一些有长远意义的事情，你必须在短期内有点无聊。
无聊可以缓解我内心的无秩序状态。
I’m not the most successful guy by any means, but I’ve accomplished a few things in my life that are pretty important.
I’ve made more money from my personal writing viewed by more people than I probably should have at this stage in my career, and I’ve done pretty well in some fairly competitive martial arts tournaments too.
I can’t tell you what drove Michael Jordan to 6 NBA championships and I can’t tell you what got Michael Phelps out of bed to train for 5 Olympics over 20 years, but I can tell you what drives little ole’ me to keep competing in Jiu-Jitsu after all these years, even if I haven’t “made it” yet.
Part of it is a genuine love for the pursuits I have in my life, but it goes deeper than that.
What drives me is passion, but what keeps me going is the confidence that the focus required to achieve my long-term goals forces me to live every aspect of my life in a better way. When I lose my structure, everything else in life becomes a slippery slope to depression, drinking, bad relationships, and even mild agoraphobia.
无论如何，我不是最成功的人，但我在生活中完成了一些非常重要的事情。
我从我的个人写作中赚到的钱比我在职业生涯的这个阶段应该得到的更多，我在一些竞争性很强的武术比赛中也很出色。
我无法告诉你是什么驱使迈克尔·乔丹获得6次NBA总冠军，我也无法告诉你，是什么驱让迈克尔·菲尔普斯在20年里从床上爬起来参加5届奥运会的训练，但我可以告诉你，在这么多年之后，是什么促使我继续参加柔术比赛—即使我还没有“成功”。
部分原因是对我生活中所追求的东西的真挚热爱，但它比这更深。
激励我的是激情，但让我继续前进的是自信，实现长期目标所需的专注力迫使我以更好的方式生活在生活的各个方面。当我没做计划，生活中的其他一切都会滑向抑郁、酗酒、糟糕的人际关系，甚至是轻微的广场恐惧症。
I’ve made more money from my personal writing viewed by more people than I probably should have at this stage in my career, and I’ve done pretty well in some fairly competitive martial arts tournaments too.
I can’t tell you what drove Michael Jordan to 6 NBA championships and I can’t tell you what got Michael Phelps out of bed to train for 5 Olympics over 20 years, but I can tell you what drives little ole’ me to keep competing in Jiu-Jitsu after all these years, even if I haven’t “made it” yet.
Part of it is a genuine love for the pursuits I have in my life, but it goes deeper than that.
What drives me is passion, but what keeps me going is the confidence that the focus required to achieve my long-term goals forces me to live every aspect of my life in a better way. When I lose my structure, everything else in life becomes a slippery slope to depression, drinking, bad relationships, and even mild agoraphobia.
无论如何，我不是最成功的人，但我在生活中完成了一些非常重要的事情。
我从我的个人写作中赚到的钱比我在职业生涯的这个阶段应该得到的更多，我在一些竞争性很强的武术比赛中也很出色。
我无法告诉你是什么驱使迈克尔·乔丹获得6次NBA总冠军，我也无法告诉你，是什么驱让迈克尔·菲尔普斯在20年里从床上爬起来参加5届奥运会的训练，但我可以告诉你，在这么多年之后，是什么促使我继续参加柔术比赛—即使我还没有“成功”。
部分原因是对我生活中所追求的东西的真挚热爱，但它比这更深。
激励我的是激情，但让我继续前进的是自信，实现长期目标所需的专注力迫使我以更好的方式生活在生活的各个方面。当我没做计划，生活中的其他一切都会滑向抑郁、酗酒、糟糕的人际关系，甚至是轻微的广场恐惧症。
I know what it looks like.
By living a boring short-term existence, I live a healthier long-term existence. Longevity and sustainability are the tough pills to becoming more successful that most people aren’t ready to swallow.
People want to be successful, but they’re scared of being boring.
Getting over the personal obsession of appearing interesting is the most valuable success tip that exists.
Don’t let external bullshit drag you down.
In time, you’ll be more successful than you can fathom.
我知道它是什么样子的。
通过过一种无聊的短期生活，我可以过一种更健康的长期生活。长寿和可持续性是大多数人都不愿意吞下的更成功的药丸。
人们想要成功，但他们又害怕无聊。
克服对个人对而言显得有趣的执念是现存最有价值的成功秘诀。
不要让外界的废话拖累你。
假以时日，你会获得超乎想象的成功。
By living a boring short-term existence, I live a healthier long-term existence. Longevity and sustainability are the tough pills to becoming more successful that most people aren’t ready to swallow.
People want to be successful, but they’re scared of being boring.
Getting over the personal obsession of appearing interesting is the most valuable success tip that exists.
Don’t let external bullshit drag you down.
In time, you’ll be more successful than you can fathom.
我知道它是什么样子的。
通过过一种无聊的短期生活，我可以过一种更健康的长期生活。长寿和可持续性是大多数人都不愿意吞下的更成功的药丸。
人们想要成功，但他们又害怕无聊。
克服对个人对而言显得有趣的执念是现存最有价值的成功秘诀。
不要让外界的废话拖累你。
假以时日，你会获得超乎想象的成功。
Kalpit Veerwal
I have met a lot of knowledgable, wealthy (read billionaires), happy individuals and even read about many I am yet to meet. I aspire to achieve a lot more than I have, but some of my past “successes” follow a similar pattern. I think the following works:
Stop lying to yourself: We all try to fool ourselves by setting low standards for success - starting a family, graduating, having a happy relationship, getting a good grade in class 10, having a 1 job. You have to realize that this happens with A LOT OF PEOPLE. If you see this as success, either you don’t want to be successful, or you are lying to yourself. See what the TOP people in the world at your age are doing. Then you will realize how unsuccessful you are.
Realization: Now that you know you are an imposter and have been fooling yourself and you are nowhere near being successful - take a chill pill. You are still in the top 10% or 1%. Time to go to 1% or 0.1% - elevating your level. This imposter feeling is important for growth - the moment you feel you are successful is when you stop growing.
Figuring out what you want to be successful in: Do you want to be a famous rapper? Then Eminem is your target (or Slim Shady, or Marshall Mathers - whichever you like more). Do you want to be rich? Then Bill Gates is your target. Do you want to be a cricketer? Then Sachin Tendulkar is your target. By “target” I mean who you want to be better/equal to. If you set your targets low, you will likely underplay your potential.
我遇到过很多知识渊博的、富有的(比如亿万富翁)、快乐的人，甚至还读过很多我还没有遇到的人。我渴望取得比现在更多的成就，但我过去的一些“成功”也遵循着类似的模式，我认为以下方法是有效的：
不要自欺欺人：我们都试图通过为成功设定低标准来欺骗自己——组建家庭、毕业，拥有一段幸福的恋情，在10年级取得好成绩，有一份1份工作。你必须意识到，这发生在很多人身上。如果你认为这是成功，要么你不想成功，要么就是在骗自己。看看你这个年纪的世界顶尖人物在做什么。然后你会意识到你是多么的不成功。
意识到：既然你知道自己是一个冒名顶替者，一直在欺骗自己，而且你离成功还差得很远，那就吃点感冒药吧。你仍然处于前10%或1%的位置。是时候达到前1%或0.1%了—提高你的水平。这种冒名顶替的感觉对成长很重要——你觉得自己成功的那一刻就是你停止成长的时候。
弄清楚你想在什么方面取得成功：你想成为一名著名的说唱歌手吗？那么Eminem就是你的目标（或者斯利姆·沙迪，或者马歇尔·马瑟斯——你更喜欢哪个）。你想发财吗？那么比尔·盖茨就是你的目标。你想成为一名板球运动员吗？那么沙奇·德鲁卡就是你的目标。我所说的“目标”是指你想成为更好/更平等的人。如果你把目标设定得很低，你可能会低估你的潜力。
I have met a lot of knowledgable, wealthy (read billionaires), happy individuals and even read about many I am yet to meet. I aspire to achieve a lot more than I have, but some of my past “successes” follow a similar pattern. I think the following works:
Stop lying to yourself: We all try to fool ourselves by setting low standards for success - starting a family, graduating, having a happy relationship, getting a good grade in class 10, having a 1 job. You have to realize that this happens with A LOT OF PEOPLE. If you see this as success, either you don’t want to be successful, or you are lying to yourself. See what the TOP people in the world at your age are doing. Then you will realize how unsuccessful you are.
Realization: Now that you know you are an imposter and have been fooling yourself and you are nowhere near being successful - take a chill pill. You are still in the top 10% or 1%. Time to go to 1% or 0.1% - elevating your level. This imposter feeling is important for growth - the moment you feel you are successful is when you stop growing.
Figuring out what you want to be successful in: Do you want to be a famous rapper? Then Eminem is your target (or Slim Shady, or Marshall Mathers - whichever you like more). Do you want to be rich? Then Bill Gates is your target. Do you want to be a cricketer? Then Sachin Tendulkar is your target. By “target” I mean who you want to be better/equal to. If you set your targets low, you will likely underplay your potential.
我遇到过很多知识渊博的、富有的(比如亿万富翁)、快乐的人，甚至还读过很多我还没有遇到的人。我渴望取得比现在更多的成就，但我过去的一些“成功”也遵循着类似的模式，我认为以下方法是有效的：
不要自欺欺人：我们都试图通过为成功设定低标准来欺骗自己——组建家庭、毕业，拥有一段幸福的恋情，在10年级取得好成绩，有一份1份工作。你必须意识到，这发生在很多人身上。如果你认为这是成功，要么你不想成功，要么就是在骗自己。看看你这个年纪的世界顶尖人物在做什么。然后你会意识到你是多么的不成功。
意识到：既然你知道自己是一个冒名顶替者，一直在欺骗自己，而且你离成功还差得很远，那就吃点感冒药吧。你仍然处于前10%或1%的位置。是时候达到前1%或0.1%了—提高你的水平。这种冒名顶替的感觉对成长很重要——你觉得自己成功的那一刻就是你停止成长的时候。
弄清楚你想在什么方面取得成功：你想成为一名著名的说唱歌手吗？那么Eminem就是你的目标（或者斯利姆·沙迪，或者马歇尔·马瑟斯——你更喜欢哪个）。你想发财吗？那么比尔·盖茨就是你的目标。你想成为一名板球运动员吗？那么沙奇·德鲁卡就是你的目标。我所说的“目标”是指你想成为更好/更平等的人。如果你把目标设定得很低，你可能会低估你的潜力。
Learning from others: Observe people better than you - including the targets. Obviously, the targets won’t be accessible to you right now. But there are minor targets - say people 10x better than you who are your friends/acquaintances. Learn from them. Figure what what works for them and how are they 10x better than you. You cannot replicate them, but you have your strengths which are others’ weaknesses. Use them to your advantage and try to become like the minor target. Set another one who is 10x better now.
Using your time & leverage wisely: Use your time wisely. Don’t waste it in stupid shit (like menial jobs you don’t like - you are making your boss richer). Increase your leverage (people who fill YOUR pockets - customers/team members/software) - note that leverage is not bad - two people can team up and fill each others’ pockets/learn/grow/whatever more than they individually could. Successful people have HUGE leverages (large companies with huge number of employees, huge number of fans for singers who appreciate and motivate the singer, etc).
向他人学习：观察比你更好的人——包括观察目标。显然，你现在无法接近目标。但也有一些小目标——比如比你强10倍的朋友或熟人。向他们学习。弄清楚什么对他们有效，他们如何比你优秀10倍。你不能复制它们，但你有你的优点，而别人也有缺点。利用它们对你有利，试着成为次要目标。再找一个比现在好10倍的人。
明智地利用时间和杠杆：明智地利用你的时间。不要把它浪费在愚蠢的事情上（比如你不喜欢的卑鄙工作——你正在让你的老板更富有）。增加你的杠杆（塞满你口袋的人——客户/团队成员/软件）请注意，杠杆并不坏——两个人可以合作，互相填满对方的口袋/学习/成长/任何比他们单独工作更多的东西。成功人士拥有巨大的影响力（拥有大量员工的大公司，欣赏和激励歌手的歌手拥有大量粉丝，等等）。
Using your time & leverage wisely: Use your time wisely. Don’t waste it in stupid shit (like menial jobs you don’t like - you are making your boss richer). Increase your leverage (people who fill YOUR pockets - customers/team members/software) - note that leverage is not bad - two people can team up and fill each others’ pockets/learn/grow/whatever more than they individually could. Successful people have HUGE leverages (large companies with huge number of employees, huge number of fans for singers who appreciate and motivate the singer, etc).
向他人学习：观察比你更好的人——包括观察目标。显然，你现在无法接近目标。但也有一些小目标——比如比你强10倍的朋友或熟人。向他们学习。弄清楚什么对他们有效，他们如何比你优秀10倍。你不能复制它们，但你有你的优点，而别人也有缺点。利用它们对你有利，试着成为次要目标。再找一个比现在好10倍的人。
明智地利用时间和杠杆：明智地利用你的时间。不要把它浪费在愚蠢的事情上（比如你不喜欢的卑鄙工作——你正在让你的老板更富有）。增加你的杠杆（塞满你口袋的人——客户/团队成员/软件）请注意，杠杆并不坏——两个人可以合作，互相填满对方的口袋/学习/成长/任何比他们单独工作更多的东西。成功人士拥有巨大的影响力（拥有大量员工的大公司，欣赏和激励歌手的歌手拥有大量粉丝，等等）。
Start ASAP and be patient: “Most people overestimate what they can do in 1 year and underestimate what they can in 10 years” - I love this quote from Bill Gates. Be patient - and keep on building skills and leverage in your field. Give yourself 5–10 years. But for that, START TODAY. Don’t wait for tomorrow. If your dream is to make $100M per day, every day wasted today is a day away from those $100M - would you want that cash today or tomorrow, right? (this is another quote from Elon Musk which I love).
Don’t lose ground: Ambition and humanity are not disjoint. Make time for your loved ones. Have hobbies. Relax a bit at time. Don’t lose yourself in your ambition - and stay grounded. Every super successful person I know is really down to earth and NOT flashy.
Speaking of myself, my ambition is to build huge companies which make a drastic change in the civilization. I started my first company at 19, called AcadBoost. We want to change the Education system by introducing innovation in it.
We plan to innovate and change the entire education and knowledge acquiring process!
What is your ambition? What do you want to be and what’s your plan? Let me know in the comments!
尽快开始并保持耐心：“大多数人高估了他们在1年内能做的事情，而低估了他们在10年内能做到的事情”——我喜欢比尔·盖茨的这句话。保持耐心，并在你的领域中不断培养技能和影响力。给自己5-10年的时间。但为此，从今天开始。不要等到明天。如果你的梦想是每天赚1亿美元，那么今天浪费的每一天都离这1亿美元还有一天——你是今天还是明天想要这笔钱，对吗？（这是我喜欢的埃隆·马斯克的另一句话）。
不要迷失方向：:野心和人性并不是分离的。为你的爱人腾出时间。有爱好。偶尔放松一下。不要迷失在你的野心中——脚踏实地。我认识的每一个超级成功人士都很接地气，不浮夸。
说到我自己，我的雄心壮志是建立能使文明发生巨大变化的大公司。我19岁创办了第一家公司，名为AcadBoost。我们想通过引入创新来改变教育体系。
我们计划创新和改变整个教育和知识获取过程！
你的野心是什么？你想成为什么样的人，你的计划是什么？请在评论中告诉我!
Don’t lose ground: Ambition and humanity are not disjoint. Make time for your loved ones. Have hobbies. Relax a bit at time. Don’t lose yourself in your ambition - and stay grounded. Every super successful person I know is really down to earth and NOT flashy.
Speaking of myself, my ambition is to build huge companies which make a drastic change in the civilization. I started my first company at 19, called AcadBoost. We want to change the Education system by introducing innovation in it.
We plan to innovate and change the entire education and knowledge acquiring process!
What is your ambition? What do you want to be and what’s your plan? Let me know in the comments!
尽快开始并保持耐心：“大多数人高估了他们在1年内能做的事情，而低估了他们在10年内能做到的事情”——我喜欢比尔·盖茨的这句话。保持耐心，并在你的领域中不断培养技能和影响力。给自己5-10年的时间。但为此，从今天开始。不要等到明天。如果你的梦想是每天赚1亿美元，那么今天浪费的每一天都离这1亿美元还有一天——你是今天还是明天想要这笔钱，对吗？（这是我喜欢的埃隆·马斯克的另一句话）。
不要迷失方向：:野心和人性并不是分离的。为你的爱人腾出时间。有爱好。偶尔放松一下。不要迷失在你的野心中——脚踏实地。我认识的每一个超级成功人士都很接地气，不浮夸。
说到我自己，我的雄心壮志是建立能使文明发生巨大变化的大公司。我19岁创办了第一家公司，名为AcadBoost。我们想通过引入创新来改变教育体系。
我们计划创新和改变整个教育和知识获取过程！
你的野心是什么？你想成为什么样的人，你的计划是什么？请在评论中告诉我!
Shovan Chowdhury
What is the key to success in life?
Bill Gates did not follow conventional business tycoons and entrepreneurs. He came up with an amazing and user friendly windows operating system which has now been dominating 49.2% of the PC market. He was the world’s richest man for several years consecutively. He founded Bill and Melinda Gates Foundation and spends millions of dollar to reach the light education for poor children.
Steve Jobs never pursued Bill Gates. He worked to implement his visionary ideas. Steve Jobs and his team created a mind-blowing, innovative and stylish touch smartphone. The iPhone - that truly is a smartphone. Steve jobs changed the concept of the smartphone business and brought revolutionary change. Still today, he is considered one of the most innovative CEO in tech industry.
人生成功的关键是什么？
比尔·盖茨不像传统的商业大亨和企业家那样。他弄出了一个惊人的和用户友好的windows操作系统，现在统治了49.2%的个人电脑市场。他连续几年成为世界首富。他创立了比尔和梅琳达·盖茨基金会，并花费数百万美元为贫困儿童提供轻工教育。
史蒂夫·乔布斯从未追逐比尔·盖茨的脚步。他努力实现他的远见卓识。史蒂夫·乔布斯和他的团队创造了一款令人惊叹的、创新的、时尚的触屏智能手机。iPhone——这真的是一部智能手机。史蒂夫·乔布斯改变了智能手机业务的概念，带来了革命性的变化。时至今日，他仍被认为是科技行业最具创新力的CEO之一。
What is the key to success in life?
Bill Gates did not follow conventional business tycoons and entrepreneurs. He came up with an amazing and user friendly windows operating system which has now been dominating 49.2% of the PC market. He was the world’s richest man for several years consecutively. He founded Bill and Melinda Gates Foundation and spends millions of dollar to reach the light education for poor children.
Steve Jobs never pursued Bill Gates. He worked to implement his visionary ideas. Steve Jobs and his team created a mind-blowing, innovative and stylish touch smartphone. The iPhone - that truly is a smartphone. Steve jobs changed the concept of the smartphone business and brought revolutionary change. Still today, he is considered one of the most innovative CEO in tech industry.
人生成功的关键是什么？
比尔·盖茨不像传统的商业大亨和企业家那样。他弄出了一个惊人的和用户友好的windows操作系统，现在统治了49.2%的个人电脑市场。他连续几年成为世界首富。他创立了比尔和梅琳达·盖茨基金会，并花费数百万美元为贫困儿童提供轻工教育。
史蒂夫·乔布斯从未追逐比尔·盖茨的脚步。他努力实现他的远见卓识。史蒂夫·乔布斯和他的团队创造了一款令人惊叹的、创新的、时尚的触屏智能手机。iPhone——这真的是一部智能手机。史蒂夫·乔布斯改变了智能手机业务的概念，带来了革命性的变化。时至今日，他仍被认为是科技行业最具创新力的CEO之一。
Sergey Brin and Larry Page business strategy was different than Steve Jobs. They launched the world's best search engine Google where anyone can search anything and get a fast and accurate results simply through a single click. Besides, their Gmail, Android operating software and Google Maps system, YouTube has made them highly successful and legend in tech business.
Jeff Bezos mission was unique and never chased Sergey Brin and Larry Page. He focused on his niche sectors where he has expertise. He made online buying easy, comfortable and flexible for people through Amazon.com. Amazon directly sell to customers through an online marketplace. Amazon is the largest internet retailer in terms of revenue and market capitalization. Today, Jeff Bezos is the world's richest man.
谢尔盖·布林和拉里·佩奇的商业策略与史蒂夫·乔布斯不同。他们推出了世界上最好的搜索引擎—谷歌，任何人都可以搜索任何东西，并通过简单的点击得到快速和准确的结果。此外，他们的Gmail、Android操作软件和谷歌地图系统和油管让他们在科技行业取得了巨大的成功和成为传奇。
杰夫·贝佐斯的使命是独特的，他从不追逐谢尔盖·布林和拉里·佩奇。他专注于自己有专长的细分领域。他通过亚马逊网站使网上购物变得简单、舒适和灵活。亚马逊通过在线市场直接向客户销售产品。就营收和市值而言，亚马逊是最大的互联网零售商。
Jeff Bezos mission was unique and never chased Sergey Brin and Larry Page. He focused on his niche sectors where he has expertise. He made online buying easy, comfortable and flexible for people through Amazon.com. Amazon directly sell to customers through an online marketplace. Amazon is the largest internet retailer in terms of revenue and market capitalization. Today, Jeff Bezos is the world's richest man.
谢尔盖·布林和拉里·佩奇的商业策略与史蒂夫·乔布斯不同。他们推出了世界上最好的搜索引擎—谷歌，任何人都可以搜索任何东西，并通过简单的点击得到快速和准确的结果。此外，他们的Gmail、Android操作软件和谷歌地图系统和油管让他们在科技行业取得了巨大的成功和成为传奇。
杰夫·贝佐斯的使命是独特的，他从不追逐谢尔盖·布林和拉里·佩奇。他专注于自己有专长的细分领域。他通过亚马逊网站使网上购物变得简单、舒适和灵活。亚马逊通过在线市场直接向客户销售产品。就营收和市值而言，亚马逊是最大的互联网零售商。
Jack Ma had visionary goal which was quite different in comparison with Jeff Bezos. Alibaba is an e-commerce, retail and technology conglomerate and leading online payment platform in China. Jack Ma follows a different approach and business model than Amazon. Alibaba acts as a middleman between buyers and sellers. Jack Ma got success through his unique business model and obviously smart work. Now Alibaba.com is the number one e-commerce company in china. Moreover, at present Alibaba is the world’s sixth largest retailer and Jack Ma is china’s richest man.
Mark Zuckerberg did not follow blindly either Bill Gates, Sergey Brin, Larry Page, or social website MySpace. He invented Facebook with dazzling design which made the social media more popular among all class of people. Now Facebook is the world's largest social media platform where people love to spend their time. Today Facebook has more than 2 billion monthly active users.
马云有远见卓识的目标，这与杰夫·贝佐斯截然不同。阿里巴巴是一家电子商务、零售和科技综合企业，也是中国领先的在线支付平台。马云采用了与亚马逊不同的方法和商业模式。阿里巴巴是买家和卖家之间的中间人。马云通过他独特的商业模式和聪明的工作获得了成功。现在阿里巴巴是中国第一大电子商务公司。此外，目前阿里巴巴是世界第六大零售商，马云是中国首富。
马克·扎克伯格没有盲目追随比尔·盖茨、谢尔盖·布林、拉里·佩奇或社交网站“我的空间”（MySpace）。他以耀眼的设计发明了脸书（Facebook），使社交媒体在所有阶层的人中更受欢迎。现在，脸书是世界上最大的社交媒体平台，人们喜欢在这里消磨时间。如今，脸书的月活跃用户超过20亿。
Mark Zuckerberg did not follow blindly either Bill Gates, Sergey Brin, Larry Page, or social website MySpace. He invented Facebook with dazzling design which made the social media more popular among all class of people. Now Facebook is the world's largest social media platform where people love to spend their time. Today Facebook has more than 2 billion monthly active users.
马云有远见卓识的目标，这与杰夫·贝佐斯截然不同。阿里巴巴是一家电子商务、零售和科技综合企业，也是中国领先的在线支付平台。马云采用了与亚马逊不同的方法和商业模式。阿里巴巴是买家和卖家之间的中间人。马云通过他独特的商业模式和聪明的工作获得了成功。现在阿里巴巴是中国第一大电子商务公司。此外，目前阿里巴巴是世界第六大零售商，马云是中国首富。
马克·扎克伯格没有盲目追随比尔·盖茨、谢尔盖·布林、拉里·佩奇或社交网站“我的空间”（MySpace）。他以耀眼的设计发明了脸书（Facebook），使社交媒体在所有阶层的人中更受欢迎。现在，脸书是世界上最大的社交媒体平台，人们喜欢在这里消磨时间。如今，脸书的月活跃用户超过20亿。
Evan Spiegel did not imitate Mark Zukerberg completely. He changed the style of social media and focused on a different niche, a distinct group of target customer and built it more flexible to teens for texting and uploading pictures. Interestingly, Snapchat pictures and videos disappear within few seconds when the recipient closes out of them or move onto the next one. Snapchat got a huge popularity amongst teenagers. In 2015, Spiegel was named the world's youngest billionaire in the world and now his net worth is of US$ 3.10 billion.
Elon Musk never run after neither Henry Ford nor Steve Jobs. He however runs SpaceX, Tesla motors, Solarcity, Neuralix and OpenAI which are amazing and innovative inventions, astonishing ideas as well as environment friendly projects that are truly commendable. In 2016, the drive, a division of time, considered Musk the most influential person in the car business and in 2017, UK based company Richtopia listed Musk number 3 in the list of 200 Most Influential Philanthropists and Social Entrepreneurs.
埃文·斯皮格尔并没有完全模仿扎克伯格。他改变了社交媒体的风格，专注于一个不同的利基市场，一个独特的目标客户群体，并为青少年提供了更灵活的短信和上传图片的方式。有趣的是，阅后即焚 （Snapchat）图片和视频在接收者关闭或转到下一个时，几秒钟内就会消失。阅后即焚软件在青少年中广受欢迎。2015年，《明镜周刊》被评为世界上最年轻的亿万富翁，现在他的净资产为31亿美元。
埃隆·马斯克从未盲目追随亨利·福特和史蒂夫·乔布斯。然而，他经营着SpaceX、特斯拉汽车、太阳城、神经链接和OpenAI，这些都是令人惊叹的创新发明、令人惊讶的想法以及真正值得称赞的环保项目。2016年，该组织认为马斯克是汽车行业最具影响力的人。2017年，总部位于英国的Richtopia公司将马斯克列为200位最具影响力的慈善家和社会企业家榜单的第三位。
Elon Musk never run after neither Henry Ford nor Steve Jobs. He however runs SpaceX, Tesla motors, Solarcity, Neuralix and OpenAI which are amazing and innovative inventions, astonishing ideas as well as environment friendly projects that are truly commendable. In 2016, the drive, a division of time, considered Musk the most influential person in the car business and in 2017, UK based company Richtopia listed Musk number 3 in the list of 200 Most Influential Philanthropists and Social Entrepreneurs.
埃文·斯皮格尔并没有完全模仿扎克伯格。他改变了社交媒体的风格，专注于一个不同的利基市场，一个独特的目标客户群体，并为青少年提供了更灵活的短信和上传图片的方式。有趣的是，阅后即焚 （Snapchat）图片和视频在接收者关闭或转到下一个时，几秒钟内就会消失。阅后即焚软件在青少年中广受欢迎。2015年，《明镜周刊》被评为世界上最年轻的亿万富翁，现在他的净资产为31亿美元。
埃隆·马斯克从未盲目追随亨利·福特和史蒂夫·乔布斯。然而，他经营着SpaceX、特斯拉汽车、太阳城、神经链接和OpenAI，这些都是令人惊叹的创新发明、令人惊讶的想法以及真正值得称赞的环保项目。2016年，该组织认为马斯克是汽车行业最具影响力的人。2017年，总部位于英国的Richtopia公司将马斯克列为200位最具影响力的慈善家和社会企业家榜单的第三位。
You don't need to follow Elon Musk or Steve Jobs or other successful people because you have potentiality to be another legend. You should always follow your own dream and passion. Literally read the story of successful and failed people, learn from them, choose your own path, master your skill, believe in yourself, enhance your patience level like Mount Everest and be the expert in your field.
Think out of the box, take calculated risk, work in a smart way, take the right decisions at the right time and try to be a world-class. That, ladies and gentlemen, is the key to success in life.
你不需要追随埃隆·马斯克、史蒂夫·乔布斯或其他成功人士，因为你有潜力成为另一个传奇人物。你应该永远追随自己的梦想和激情。从字面上阅读成功和失败的人的故事，从他们身上学习，选择自己的道路，掌握自己的技能，相信自己，像珠穆朗玛峰一样提高自己的耐心，成为自己领域的专家。
跳出思维定势，承担可计算的风险，以聪明的方式工作，在正确的时间做出正确的决定，努力成为世界级的企业。女士们先生们，这就是人生成功的关键。
Think out of the box, take calculated risk, work in a smart way, take the right decisions at the right time and try to be a world-class. That, ladies and gentlemen, is the key to success in life.
你不需要追随埃隆·马斯克、史蒂夫·乔布斯或其他成功人士，因为你有潜力成为另一个传奇人物。你应该永远追随自己的梦想和激情。从字面上阅读成功和失败的人的故事，从他们身上学习，选择自己的道路，掌握自己的技能，相信自己，像珠穆朗玛峰一样提高自己的耐心，成为自己领域的专家。
跳出思维定势，承担可计算的风险，以聪明的方式工作，在正确的时间做出正确的决定，努力成为世界级的企业。女士们先生们，这就是人生成功的关键。
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