为什么生活如此艰难(上)
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Why is life so hard?
为什么生活如此艰难？
Why is life so hard?
为什么生活如此艰难？
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Olowu Olumide Ayodeji, lives in Lagos, Nigeria
How difficult life is? If critically looked at, that's a question in the class of the likes of asking about what life is. But I don't want to go into that sole direction.
Life is what it is, because we don't have something to compare to it at its level of ideal applicable contexts. Life is simply what it is. The question could have been easily answered if we know something else that is quite analogous to life itself. OK, I don't want to go into this direction too.
Another realistic perspective… Life is actually implicitly difficult, and it has nothing to do with what we individually did, good nor bad, right nor wrong.
Focusing on humans… We are born in the form of babies that without help won't most likely make it alive further than the first few hours (or days?) after birth. That's a perspective.
Every human needs to continually renew the energy needed to stay alive. We all get hungry. For example, without having done good nor bad, right nor wrong, we wake up, after a usual night sleep, mostly feeling hungry. That's a perspective. This same hunger is mostly at the base of the reasons people try to make a living. It's also the reason some people go out of the way of the law to cause other humans unpleasant experiences in the form of armed robbery and so on.
Let no one console you that the difficulties you experience in your own life are caused by your past and current choices. Life's difficulties are not implicitly due to having been a victim of circumstances. Life is just what it is, but we should still try to make choices that are for the collective good of humanity.
IDEALLY, life cannot be said to be difficult or not. Life is simply what it is. Life wouldn't be life if it is not the way it is. We all need to eat, and that essentially and naturally involves killing another life form (even if you are a vegetarian, because plants are living things too) for food, which is the natural order, unless otherwise improvised upon, and etc.
Life is not the most comforting experience. We don't know if there is a reason for life or not. It is just what it is. My answer doesn't consider religion (because that would be bias against certain people) but common sense.
So, humanly speaking, as a particular layer of abstraction, life can be between being extremely difficult to being extremely pleasing.
Life is simply what it is. It's up to us all to make it more pleasing.
奥洛乌·奥卢米德·阿约德吉，住在尼日利亚的拉各斯。
生活有多艰难？如果用批判性的眼光来看，这就像在课堂上（老师）喜欢问生活是什么的。但我不想让这个问题变成那种感觉。
生活就是这样，在理想的适用环境水平上，我们没有什么东西可以与它进行比较。生活就是这样。如果我们知道一些与生命本身非常相似的东西，这个问题本可以很容易地得到回答。好吧，但是我不想让问题进入到这个方向。
另一个现实的观点是：生活实际上隐含着困难，（不管我们个人所做的事情是）好还是坏，对还是错，它都与我们所做的事情无关，。
以人类为例，我们以婴儿的形式出生，如果没有（其他人的）帮助，我们很可能活不过出生后的最初几个小时（或几天？）。这是一个角度。
每个人都需要不断更新来维持生存所需的能量。我们都会饿。例如，撇开我们做过的好事或坏事、对的事或错的事，我们在夜晚睡着正常醒来后，大多数时候感都会到饥饿。这是一个角度。同样的，饥饿也是人们试图谋生的基本原因。这也是一些人不受法律约束，以持械抢劫等形式去给其他人带来不愉快经历的原因。
不要让任何人安慰你，你自己在生活中经历的困难是由你过去和现在的选择造成的。生活中面临困难的并不一定是环境中的受害者。生活就是这样，但我们仍应努力做出有利于人类集体利益的选择。
理想情况下，生活不能说是艰难的，也不能说不是艰难的。生活就是这样。如果生活不这样的话，它就不会是生活。我们都需要吃饭，这就和为了食物而杀死另一种生命形式自然地牵扯到了一起（因为植物也是生物，所以即使你是素食主义者，你也符合这一点），这是自然规律，除非有一些突发状况，等等。
生活不是最令人舒服的经历。我们不知道生命的存在是否有原因。事情就是这样。我的回答没有考虑到宗教（因为那是对某些人的偏见），而是立足于常识方面。
所以，从人的角度来说，作为一种特殊的抽象层次，生活可能介于极度困难和极度愉悦之间。
但生活就是这样。我们大家都有责任使它更令人愉快。
How difficult life is? If critically looked at, that's a question in the class of the likes of asking about what life is. But I don't want to go into that sole direction.
Life is what it is, because we don't have something to compare to it at its level of ideal applicable contexts. Life is simply what it is. The question could have been easily answered if we know something else that is quite analogous to life itself. OK, I don't want to go into this direction too.
Another realistic perspective… Life is actually implicitly difficult, and it has nothing to do with what we individually did, good nor bad, right nor wrong.
Focusing on humans… We are born in the form of babies that without help won't most likely make it alive further than the first few hours (or days?) after birth. That's a perspective.
Every human needs to continually renew the energy needed to stay alive. We all get hungry. For example, without having done good nor bad, right nor wrong, we wake up, after a usual night sleep, mostly feeling hungry. That's a perspective. This same hunger is mostly at the base of the reasons people try to make a living. It's also the reason some people go out of the way of the law to cause other humans unpleasant experiences in the form of armed robbery and so on.
Let no one console you that the difficulties you experience in your own life are caused by your past and current choices. Life's difficulties are not implicitly due to having been a victim of circumstances. Life is just what it is, but we should still try to make choices that are for the collective good of humanity.
IDEALLY, life cannot be said to be difficult or not. Life is simply what it is. Life wouldn't be life if it is not the way it is. We all need to eat, and that essentially and naturally involves killing another life form (even if you are a vegetarian, because plants are living things too) for food, which is the natural order, unless otherwise improvised upon, and etc.
Life is not the most comforting experience. We don't know if there is a reason for life or not. It is just what it is. My answer doesn't consider religion (because that would be bias against certain people) but common sense.
So, humanly speaking, as a particular layer of abstraction, life can be between being extremely difficult to being extremely pleasing.
Life is simply what it is. It's up to us all to make it more pleasing.
奥洛乌·奥卢米德·阿约德吉，住在尼日利亚的拉各斯。
生活有多艰难？如果用批判性的眼光来看，这就像在课堂上（老师）喜欢问生活是什么的。但我不想让这个问题变成那种感觉。
生活就是这样，在理想的适用环境水平上，我们没有什么东西可以与它进行比较。生活就是这样。如果我们知道一些与生命本身非常相似的东西，这个问题本可以很容易地得到回答。好吧，但是我不想让问题进入到这个方向。
另一个现实的观点是：生活实际上隐含着困难，（不管我们个人所做的事情是）好还是坏，对还是错，它都与我们所做的事情无关，。
以人类为例，我们以婴儿的形式出生，如果没有（其他人的）帮助，我们很可能活不过出生后的最初几个小时（或几天？）。这是一个角度。
每个人都需要不断更新来维持生存所需的能量。我们都会饿。例如，撇开我们做过的好事或坏事、对的事或错的事，我们在夜晚睡着正常醒来后，大多数时候感都会到饥饿。这是一个角度。同样的，饥饿也是人们试图谋生的基本原因。这也是一些人不受法律约束，以持械抢劫等形式去给其他人带来不愉快经历的原因。
不要让任何人安慰你，你自己在生活中经历的困难是由你过去和现在的选择造成的。生活中面临困难的并不一定是环境中的受害者。生活就是这样，但我们仍应努力做出有利于人类集体利益的选择。
理想情况下，生活不能说是艰难的，也不能说不是艰难的。生活就是这样。如果生活不这样的话，它就不会是生活。我们都需要吃饭，这就和为了食物而杀死另一种生命形式自然地牵扯到了一起（因为植物也是生物，所以即使你是素食主义者，你也符合这一点），这是自然规律，除非有一些突发状况，等等。
生活不是最令人舒服的经历。我们不知道生命的存在是否有原因。事情就是这样。我的回答没有考虑到宗教（因为那是对某些人的偏见），而是立足于常识方面。
所以，从人的角度来说，作为一种特殊的抽象层次，生活可能介于极度困难和极度愉悦之间。
但生活就是这样。我们大家都有责任使它更令人愉快。
Philip Terry, I enjoy solving complex problems by consistently feeding my imagination.
Bad education systems - most of what I learned at school was useless. Not enough education on practical life skills - needed everyday like finances, relationship building, health/ nutrition, negotiation, career paths etc... Instead I was fed useless information like learning latin and deconstructing atoms which has had zero value for me in the real world. On top of that my parents had to pay extortionate fees for it.
Bad government. When I see David Cameron on twitter messing around attending loads of open days and ceremonies instead of tackling real issues that impact people's lives on a day to day basis it makes me realize why life is still hard for some people...
Too many people flooding the system. In my town there is a massive shortage of housing due to the amount of immigrants pouring in. The governments answer is to keep laying down more and more concrete - 5000 new homes being built on top of the beautiful countryside in my town. They never seem to set a limit.
Inefficient transport networks and traffic systems. Too much time is spent waiting in traffic jams. I don't understand why little innovation is being made to solve this - particularly in London. It takes one slow driver to cause a knock on effect throughout the whole road network. I've seen pedestrian crossing's where one person stops literally hundreds of cars for minutes at a time stopping the flow of the entire road network. I used to spend 4 hours a day driving in heavy traffic. There must be a better more efficient way.
Parking is scarce/ cramped especially in Greater London. I've had about 5 parking tickets in the last 6 months... Many times out of frustration after spending too long searching for a space when I've had to attend important meetings.
Pollution due to greed driven car manufacturers. I've read the commentary from some Directors in these companies who still champion the use of petrol/ diesel instead of electric. That's fucking irresponsible in my opinion. My Mum suffers from asthma particularly in Summer months when pollution in London is high so I am all for electric. I'm all for backing Elon Musk's mission to make all cars electric. Sadly some people don't give a shit about other people's health - so long as they're making plenty of turnover. Elon Musk at least thinks about the greater good of humanity.
菲利普·特里，我喜欢通过不断激发想象力来解决复杂的问题。
糟糕的教育体系——我在学校学到的大部分东西都是无用的。并没有学到每天都需要用到的足够的实际生活技能教育，如财务管理、关系建立、健康/营养知识、谈判技巧、职业道路的选择等等。相反，我被灌输了许多无用的信息，比如学习拉丁语和解构原子，这些在现实世界中对我来说毫无价值。除此之外，我父母还为此支付了高昂的费用。
糟糕的政府——当我在推特上看到大卫·卡梅伦在参加各种开放日和仪式，而不是处理影响人们日常生活的实际问题时，我才意识到了为什么有些人的生活仍然很艰难。
太多人涌入我们的国家——在我们镇上，由于大量移民的涌入，住房严重短缺。政府的答案是继续铺设越来越多的混凝土建筑，在我们美丽的乡村城镇上建造5000座新房子。他们似乎从来没有设定过房屋建造方面的限制条件。
运输网络和交通系统效率低下——我在交通堵塞这个方面需要花费等待（疏通）的时间太长了。我不明白为什么在这个问题上几乎没有创新的解决办法，特别是在伦敦。一个慢行的司机会对整个道路网络产生连锁反应。我见过在人行横道上（因为）一个人而导致数百辆车都被迫停下几分钟，阻断了整个道路网络的流动。我过去开车时，每天要在交通拥挤的地方花上4个小时。一定有更好更有效的方法来解决这个问题。
停车场很少或者说很拥挤，尤其是在大伦敦。在过去的6个月里，我收到了大约5张停车罚单。在我不得不参加重要会议的时候，我要花很长时间去找一个停车位，这让我觉得很沮丧。
由贪婪的汽车制造商造成的污染。我读过这些公司一些董事的评论，他们仍然支持使用汽油/柴油而不是电力。在我看来，这太不负责任了。我妈妈患有哮喘，尤其是在夏季。因为伦敦的污染很严重，所以我完全支持使用电力。我完全支持埃隆·马斯克让所有汽车都变成电力驱动的使命。可悲的是，有些人根本不关心别人的健康——只要他们有足够的营业额就够了。埃隆·马斯克至少考虑到了人类更大的利益。
Bad education systems - most of what I learned at school was useless. Not enough education on practical life skills - needed everyday like finances, relationship building, health/ nutrition, negotiation, career paths etc... Instead I was fed useless information like learning latin and deconstructing atoms which has had zero value for me in the real world. On top of that my parents had to pay extortionate fees for it.
Bad government. When I see David Cameron on twitter messing around attending loads of open days and ceremonies instead of tackling real issues that impact people's lives on a day to day basis it makes me realize why life is still hard for some people...
Too many people flooding the system. In my town there is a massive shortage of housing due to the amount of immigrants pouring in. The governments answer is to keep laying down more and more concrete - 5000 new homes being built on top of the beautiful countryside in my town. They never seem to set a limit.
Inefficient transport networks and traffic systems. Too much time is spent waiting in traffic jams. I don't understand why little innovation is being made to solve this - particularly in London. It takes one slow driver to cause a knock on effect throughout the whole road network. I've seen pedestrian crossing's where one person stops literally hundreds of cars for minutes at a time stopping the flow of the entire road network. I used to spend 4 hours a day driving in heavy traffic. There must be a better more efficient way.
Parking is scarce/ cramped especially in Greater London. I've had about 5 parking tickets in the last 6 months... Many times out of frustration after spending too long searching for a space when I've had to attend important meetings.
Pollution due to greed driven car manufacturers. I've read the commentary from some Directors in these companies who still champion the use of petrol/ diesel instead of electric. That's fucking irresponsible in my opinion. My Mum suffers from asthma particularly in Summer months when pollution in London is high so I am all for electric. I'm all for backing Elon Musk's mission to make all cars electric. Sadly some people don't give a shit about other people's health - so long as they're making plenty of turnover. Elon Musk at least thinks about the greater good of humanity.
菲利普·特里，我喜欢通过不断激发想象力来解决复杂的问题。
糟糕的教育体系——我在学校学到的大部分东西都是无用的。并没有学到每天都需要用到的足够的实际生活技能教育，如财务管理、关系建立、健康/营养知识、谈判技巧、职业道路的选择等等。相反，我被灌输了许多无用的信息，比如学习拉丁语和解构原子，这些在现实世界中对我来说毫无价值。除此之外，我父母还为此支付了高昂的费用。
糟糕的政府——当我在推特上看到大卫·卡梅伦在参加各种开放日和仪式，而不是处理影响人们日常生活的实际问题时，我才意识到了为什么有些人的生活仍然很艰难。
太多人涌入我们的国家——在我们镇上，由于大量移民的涌入，住房严重短缺。政府的答案是继续铺设越来越多的混凝土建筑，在我们美丽的乡村城镇上建造5000座新房子。他们似乎从来没有设定过房屋建造方面的限制条件。
运输网络和交通系统效率低下——我在交通堵塞这个方面需要花费等待（疏通）的时间太长了。我不明白为什么在这个问题上几乎没有创新的解决办法，特别是在伦敦。一个慢行的司机会对整个道路网络产生连锁反应。我见过在人行横道上（因为）一个人而导致数百辆车都被迫停下几分钟，阻断了整个道路网络的流动。我过去开车时，每天要在交通拥挤的地方花上4个小时。一定有更好更有效的方法来解决这个问题。
停车场很少或者说很拥挤，尤其是在大伦敦。在过去的6个月里，我收到了大约5张停车罚单。在我不得不参加重要会议的时候，我要花很长时间去找一个停车位，这让我觉得很沮丧。
由贪婪的汽车制造商造成的污染。我读过这些公司一些董事的评论，他们仍然支持使用汽油/柴油而不是电力。在我看来，这太不负责任了。我妈妈患有哮喘，尤其是在夏季。因为伦敦的污染很严重，所以我完全支持使用电力。我完全支持埃隆·马斯克让所有汽车都变成电力驱动的使命。可悲的是，有些人根本不关心别人的健康——只要他们有足够的营业额就够了。埃隆·马斯克至少考虑到了人类更大的利益。
Loretta B DeLoggio, 70 years of asking why
If you think that life is difficult, and this thought isn't the result of some horrible accident or tragedy, you probably fail to understand the basic premise of life: kinetic energy.
The basic laws of physics dictate that for anything in the world to move or change, energy must be put into it in some form. In order for you to go from lying in your bed to sitting up, you must expend energy. To get dressed and move your body into the kitchen for breakfast, you must use energy. To prepare your breakfast, eat it, etc.…
Every moment of the day, your body is using energy, and the only way this can happen is if you do something to put energy into your body. Otherwise you will starve to death, or lie in one place in your own bodily wastes and die of the infections you get.
Life IS a form of work. Anytime you stop working, you start dying. Most people who think that life itself is difficult fail to understand this simple concept. You cannot sit still, watch television, and insert popcorn into mouth, without having some additional process in which you create the energy to turn on the television and move your hand; and before that to create the energy to get the money to buy the television and the popcorn. Even as an infant, you have to create the energy to scream and cry until some adult notices that you need attention.
Life is a reward earned for work – for accumulating energy. Life is only hard for people who are unwilling to accumulate energy.
Of course, there are other things that make life harder for some people than others; there are illnesses, catastrophes, forms of discrimination and violence bestowed on people sometimes for a reason and sometimes utterly randomly. Illnesses and unfair treatment don't always distribute the rewards of work equally. But the basic premise that life is the reward of work is immutable.
I find it ironic that the people who have to overcome many obstacles and invest an inordinate amount of energy in order to obtain the benefits of dinner on the table and a roof over their heads are much less often the people who complain about this being unfair. The people who think that they deserve food, shelter, clothing, and delightful entertainment simply because they exist and breathe most often think that life is unfair, simply because it requires them to do more than exist and breathe.
If this isn't the kind of unfairness of life you're talking about, perhaps you could ask a more specific question.
洛雷塔·B·德洛吉奥，70岁的人来回答这个问题。
如果你认为生活是艰难的，而这种想法不是由某个可怕的事故或悲剧的结果造成的，那么你可能无法理解生活的基本前提：动能。
物理学的基本定律规定，世界上任何东西若要移动或改变，都必须以某种形式向其中注入能量。为了让你从躺在床上到坐起来，你必须消耗能量。要穿好衣服，把身体挪到厨房去吃早餐，你必须消耗能量。准备早餐、吃早餐等（都需要消耗能量）。
每天每时每刻，你的身体都在消耗能量，而唯一能满足这一点的方法就是你做一些事，使你能把能量注入身体中。否则你会饿死，或者躺在自己身体的排泄物里，然后死于感染。
生活是一种工作。只要你停止工作，你就会开始走向死亡。大多数认为生活本身很艰难的人都无法理解这个简单的概念。你不能坐着不动，只是看着电视，然后把爆米花塞进嘴里，而不进行一些额外的过程（比如消耗一些能量去打开电视和移动你的手）；而在这之前，我们要也创造能量来赚钱买电视和爆米花。即使是婴儿，你也必须创造尖叫和哭泣的能量，直到一些成年人注意到你需要被关注。
生命是工作的回报，是积累能量的回报。只有那些不愿积聚能量的人，生活才会艰难。
当然，有些人的生活比其他人更艰难；有些疾病、灾难、各种形式的歧视和暴力有时是出于某种原因，有时又是完全随机的。疾病和不公平待遇导致生活中并不会公平地分配工作报酬。但生活是工作的回报这一基本前提是不变的。
我觉得具有讽刺意味的是，那些不得不克服许多障碍、投入过多精力以获得餐桌上的晚餐和有房可住的人，却很少抱怨这是不公平的。那些仅仅因为他们存在和会呼吸就认为他们应该得到食物、住所、衣服和愉快的娱乐的人通常认为生活是不公平的，正是 因为生活要求他们在满足生存和呼吸之外做更多的事情。
如果（我说的这些）不是你正在谈论的那种不公平的生活，也许你可以问一个更具体的问题。
If you think that life is difficult, and this thought isn't the result of some horrible accident or tragedy, you probably fail to understand the basic premise of life: kinetic energy.
The basic laws of physics dictate that for anything in the world to move or change, energy must be put into it in some form. In order for you to go from lying in your bed to sitting up, you must expend energy. To get dressed and move your body into the kitchen for breakfast, you must use energy. To prepare your breakfast, eat it, etc.…
Every moment of the day, your body is using energy, and the only way this can happen is if you do something to put energy into your body. Otherwise you will starve to death, or lie in one place in your own bodily wastes and die of the infections you get.
Life IS a form of work. Anytime you stop working, you start dying. Most people who think that life itself is difficult fail to understand this simple concept. You cannot sit still, watch television, and insert popcorn into mouth, without having some additional process in which you create the energy to turn on the television and move your hand; and before that to create the energy to get the money to buy the television and the popcorn. Even as an infant, you have to create the energy to scream and cry until some adult notices that you need attention.
Life is a reward earned for work – for accumulating energy. Life is only hard for people who are unwilling to accumulate energy.
Of course, there are other things that make life harder for some people than others; there are illnesses, catastrophes, forms of discrimination and violence bestowed on people sometimes for a reason and sometimes utterly randomly. Illnesses and unfair treatment don't always distribute the rewards of work equally. But the basic premise that life is the reward of work is immutable.
I find it ironic that the people who have to overcome many obstacles and invest an inordinate amount of energy in order to obtain the benefits of dinner on the table and a roof over their heads are much less often the people who complain about this being unfair. The people who think that they deserve food, shelter, clothing, and delightful entertainment simply because they exist and breathe most often think that life is unfair, simply because it requires them to do more than exist and breathe.
If this isn't the kind of unfairness of life you're talking about, perhaps you could ask a more specific question.
洛雷塔·B·德洛吉奥，70岁的人来回答这个问题。
如果你认为生活是艰难的，而这种想法不是由某个可怕的事故或悲剧的结果造成的，那么你可能无法理解生活的基本前提：动能。
物理学的基本定律规定，世界上任何东西若要移动或改变，都必须以某种形式向其中注入能量。为了让你从躺在床上到坐起来，你必须消耗能量。要穿好衣服，把身体挪到厨房去吃早餐，你必须消耗能量。准备早餐、吃早餐等（都需要消耗能量）。
每天每时每刻，你的身体都在消耗能量，而唯一能满足这一点的方法就是你做一些事，使你能把能量注入身体中。否则你会饿死，或者躺在自己身体的排泄物里，然后死于感染。
生活是一种工作。只要你停止工作，你就会开始走向死亡。大多数认为生活本身很艰难的人都无法理解这个简单的概念。你不能坐着不动，只是看着电视，然后把爆米花塞进嘴里，而不进行一些额外的过程（比如消耗一些能量去打开电视和移动你的手）；而在这之前，我们要也创造能量来赚钱买电视和爆米花。即使是婴儿，你也必须创造尖叫和哭泣的能量，直到一些成年人注意到你需要被关注。
生命是工作的回报，是积累能量的回报。只有那些不愿积聚能量的人，生活才会艰难。
当然，有些人的生活比其他人更艰难；有些疾病、灾难、各种形式的歧视和暴力有时是出于某种原因，有时又是完全随机的。疾病和不公平待遇导致生活中并不会公平地分配工作报酬。但生活是工作的回报这一基本前提是不变的。
我觉得具有讽刺意味的是，那些不得不克服许多障碍、投入过多精力以获得餐桌上的晚餐和有房可住的人，却很少抱怨这是不公平的。那些仅仅因为他们存在和会呼吸就认为他们应该得到食物、住所、衣服和愉快的娱乐的人通常认为生活是不公平的，正是 因为生活要求他们在满足生存和呼吸之外做更多的事情。
如果（我说的这些）不是你正在谈论的那种不公平的生活，也许你可以问一个更具体的问题。
Janice Tripi
I find the more intelligent one is, the more questions one has, and the more caring one is, compassionate, the more things matter,that happen to others in society. Its impossible to be selfish.
Its a natural progression to a more complicated life. You seek more. You research more. You strive more. You help more. You involve yourself more. The less you care, the happier you'll be.
Financially, its cut throat as those with money hold on to it as if they will be buried with it, and those without struggle in ways others can't even fathom. Generally speaking of course. Its become so obvious wherever I go that there are struggling towns and cities and wealthy outskirts of millionaires and streets of mansion like abodes. Five minutes away, poverty.
There is no more middle class. Pay attention to what's going on economically, politically and in the American families.
Learn to view the bigger picture, break it down, prioritize. Choose your friends instead of falling into people. When you're feeling overwhelmed, your mind and body will automatically tune out all but what is most important. The human mind is self preserving.
Take care of yourself, seek God, journal or find joy in music, art, etc. It is imperative that you find your peaceful place. Try water. Water over rocks. The sound and smell is calming. Build a room or corner in a room with all that brings you peace, all that you love.
Make a vision board. I'm thinking of developing a class that helps people become their authentic selves, find a sense of balance and peace in chaos, and culminate the class with the development of their own vision board. What do you think of that?
珍妮丝·特里皮
我发现一个人越聪明，他的问题就越多，他越有爱心、越有同情心，社会上发生在别人身上的事情对他而言就更重要。所以他是不可能自私的。
这是向更复杂生活的自然过渡。你寻求得更多。你研究得更多。你就要更加努力。你帮的忙就要更多。你也会更多地参与其中。你在乎的越少，你就会越快乐。
从经济上来讲，就像那些有钱的人紧紧地抓住了它，恨不得一起被埋葬，而那些没有钱的人则以其他人无法理解的方式挣扎着。当然，一般来说。无论我走到哪里，这一点都表现得很明显，城镇和城市中到处都是苦苦挣扎的人、百万富翁的富裕郊区和豪宅般的街道。（而它们之间只有）五分钟的路程，就让我们看见了从贫穷到富裕的转变。
不会再有中产阶级了。去关注经济、政治和美国家庭中正在发生的事情。
学会从更大的角度看问题，分解问题，分清事情的轻重缓急。主动选择你的朋友，而不要去成为别人的附庸。当你感到不知所措时，你的思想和身体会自动忽略一切，除了最重要的东西。人类的头脑是会自我保护的。
照顾好你自己，寻求上帝（的帮助）、写日记或者在音乐、艺术等方面中去找到快乐。你必须找到能让你平静的地方。体验下水流的感觉。水漫过岩石的声音和气味会让人平静下来。用所有能带给你平静的东西、所有你爱的东西去布置一个房间或者房间的一角。
做一个愿景板。我正在考虑开展一门课程，帮助人们成为真实的自我，在混乱中找到平衡与平静的感觉，并通过开发他们自己的愿景板来达到课程的最终目的。你觉得怎么样？
I find the more intelligent one is, the more questions one has, and the more caring one is, compassionate, the more things matter,that happen to others in society. Its impossible to be selfish.
Its a natural progression to a more complicated life. You seek more. You research more. You strive more. You help more. You involve yourself more. The less you care, the happier you'll be.
Financially, its cut throat as those with money hold on to it as if they will be buried with it, and those without struggle in ways others can't even fathom. Generally speaking of course. Its become so obvious wherever I go that there are struggling towns and cities and wealthy outskirts of millionaires and streets of mansion like abodes. Five minutes away, poverty.
There is no more middle class. Pay attention to what's going on economically, politically and in the American families.
Learn to view the bigger picture, break it down, prioritize. Choose your friends instead of falling into people. When you're feeling overwhelmed, your mind and body will automatically tune out all but what is most important. The human mind is self preserving.
Take care of yourself, seek God, journal or find joy in music, art, etc. It is imperative that you find your peaceful place. Try water. Water over rocks. The sound and smell is calming. Build a room or corner in a room with all that brings you peace, all that you love.
Make a vision board. I'm thinking of developing a class that helps people become their authentic selves, find a sense of balance and peace in chaos, and culminate the class with the development of their own vision board. What do you think of that?
珍妮丝·特里皮
我发现一个人越聪明，他的问题就越多，他越有爱心、越有同情心，社会上发生在别人身上的事情对他而言就更重要。所以他是不可能自私的。
这是向更复杂生活的自然过渡。你寻求得更多。你研究得更多。你就要更加努力。你帮的忙就要更多。你也会更多地参与其中。你在乎的越少，你就会越快乐。
从经济上来讲，就像那些有钱的人紧紧地抓住了它，恨不得一起被埋葬，而那些没有钱的人则以其他人无法理解的方式挣扎着。当然，一般来说。无论我走到哪里，这一点都表现得很明显，城镇和城市中到处都是苦苦挣扎的人、百万富翁的富裕郊区和豪宅般的街道。（而它们之间只有）五分钟的路程，就让我们看见了从贫穷到富裕的转变。
不会再有中产阶级了。去关注经济、政治和美国家庭中正在发生的事情。
学会从更大的角度看问题，分解问题，分清事情的轻重缓急。主动选择你的朋友，而不要去成为别人的附庸。当你感到不知所措时，你的思想和身体会自动忽略一切，除了最重要的东西。人类的头脑是会自我保护的。
照顾好你自己，寻求上帝（的帮助）、写日记或者在音乐、艺术等方面中去找到快乐。你必须找到能让你平静的地方。体验下水流的感觉。水漫过岩石的声音和气味会让人平静下来。用所有能带给你平静的东西、所有你爱的东西去布置一个房间或者房间的一角。
做一个愿景板。我正在考虑开展一门课程，帮助人们成为真实的自我，在混乱中找到平衡与平静的感觉，并通过开发他们自己的愿景板来达到课程的最终目的。你觉得怎么样？
Akshya Kumar, Constable at Delhi Police
Simply because, you are not understanding life, life is so hard because you design to make it in your way, you have prejudice for happiness such as my wife like this,job like this,friend like this,then only be happy, you have given happiness some terms and conditions,which are never going to be in your way, so, first of all erase conditions, expectations, prejudice and focus on what is your purpose of life in 70000000000000 people where do you stand,
Okay , in simple terms I would like to answer your question, you take apple eat it , do it again and again, you would found it has lost its taste and utility, why excess of everything is bad, it is a simple law, just share with others, you are on quora because your basic needs are complete and now you have full of leisure time with immense powerful brain ,living in the life of imagination of things that are never going to happen and no existential value but repeating it again and again you are causing pain to yourself,
You are a human and in broader sense you are god if you realise that because you have conscience that no other creature have, ethics is not teach to any human it is inbuilt ,everyone has a sense of good and bad, it is our ignorance that we ignore this voice so many times , ultimately we stop realizing it, we all humans have to realize that each and every creature is same,I.e energy and energy cannot be destroyed and it can only be transformed….
阿克希亚·库马尔，德里警察局的警官。
（你觉得生活很艰难）只是因为你不了解生活，生活之所以如此艰难，是因为你想按自己的方式生活，你对幸福有偏见，比如（抱怨）我的妻子这样，工作这样，朋友这样，然后只有在你会幸福的一些条款和条件下，你才会感到幸福和快乐，这些条款和条件永远不会妨碍你（对幸福的标准评判），所以，首先，消除这些条件、期望和偏见，关注地球上70多亿人的生活目标。
好的，简单地说，你拿着苹果，一口又一口吃，你会发现它已经失去了它的味道，为什么过多的东西是不好的，这是一个简单的规律，只要与别人分享（你就又会尝到它的味道了），你玩quora是因为你的基本需求已经被满足了，现在你有了充分的闲暇时间，拥有强大的大脑，生活在想象之中，想象那些永远不会发生、没有存在价值的事情，但是因为你一次又一次重复地想象，你给自己带来了痛苦。
你是一个人，从更广泛的意义上说，你是上帝，你能意识到这一点，是因为你有其他生物没有的良知，道德不是教给任何人的，它是天生的，每个人都有好与坏的感觉，是我们的无知导致我们多次忽视了这个声音，最终我们会停止意识到它，我们所有人都必须认识到每一种生物都是一样的，即能量不能被摧毁，只能被转化。
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Simply because, you are not understanding life, life is so hard because you design to make it in your way, you have prejudice for happiness such as my wife like this,job like this,friend like this,then only be happy, you have given happiness some terms and conditions,which are never going to be in your way, so, first of all erase conditions, expectations, prejudice and focus on what is your purpose of life in 70000000000000 people where do you stand,
Okay , in simple terms I would like to answer your question, you take apple eat it , do it again and again, you would found it has lost its taste and utility, why excess of everything is bad, it is a simple law, just share with others, you are on quora because your basic needs are complete and now you have full of leisure time with immense powerful brain ,living in the life of imagination of things that are never going to happen and no existential value but repeating it again and again you are causing pain to yourself,
You are a human and in broader sense you are god if you realise that because you have conscience that no other creature have, ethics is not teach to any human it is inbuilt ,everyone has a sense of good and bad, it is our ignorance that we ignore this voice so many times , ultimately we stop realizing it, we all humans have to realize that each and every creature is same,I.e energy and energy cannot be destroyed and it can only be transformed….
阿克希亚·库马尔，德里警察局的警官。
（你觉得生活很艰难）只是因为你不了解生活，生活之所以如此艰难，是因为你想按自己的方式生活，你对幸福有偏见，比如（抱怨）我的妻子这样，工作这样，朋友这样，然后只有在你会幸福的一些条款和条件下，你才会感到幸福和快乐，这些条款和条件永远不会妨碍你（对幸福的标准评判），所以，首先，消除这些条件、期望和偏见，关注地球上70多亿人的生活目标。
好的，简单地说，你拿着苹果，一口又一口吃，你会发现它已经失去了它的味道，为什么过多的东西是不好的，这是一个简单的规律，只要与别人分享（你就又会尝到它的味道了），你玩quora是因为你的基本需求已经被满足了，现在你有了充分的闲暇时间，拥有强大的大脑，生活在想象之中，想象那些永远不会发生、没有存在价值的事情，但是因为你一次又一次重复地想象，你给自己带来了痛苦。
你是一个人，从更广泛的意义上说，你是上帝，你能意识到这一点，是因为你有其他生物没有的良知，道德不是教给任何人的，它是天生的，每个人都有好与坏的感觉，是我们的无知导致我们多次忽视了这个声音，最终我们会停止意识到它，我们所有人都必须认识到每一种生物都是一样的，即能量不能被摧毁，只能被转化。
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You want to be happy then develop a vision of your life and relate it to need of the society and work for it decode what you are doing, we are born to involve with society not to run away from it and if you want then you are going to suffer, you have to realize that you are apart of society and you are contributing something to it. Often we fear from uncertainty for future and some even fear from what after death ,to secure a place at heaven they are investing in temple and devoting , candles and shawls.
uncertainity about is reason behind insurance,banking, and capitalism.
Today social media is manifestation of selfishness for ex~how many likes on photo,people are dying because of selfies, how many comments,
This individualstic model is basic for comparison and jealous, we are considering our so much important but pleaSe know a simple thing my friend your important to no one except yourself,take it lightly,Don't set conditions for happiness ,everybody wants world in his way that is not going to happen, why don't we become what the world needs, why don't we start loving each and every one on this planet without self-interest,
If you are true devotee of God and want it live happily then work hard upon your vision and if that doesn't not goes your way then change the route.
STRUGGLE IS THE MAINFESTATION OF EGO, IT ALWAYS LOVES TO STRUGGLE AND SURVIVE,IT US THE REASON WE ARE NOT ACCEPTING THE REALITY AND STRUGGLE WITH IT WHICH CAUSES PAIN, STAY HAPPY HELPING EACH OTHER,LOOK AT THOSE WHO ARE SUCCESFULL,
IS NOT IT STRANGE,THAT WE HAVE NO PROBLEM WITH SOME ANOYMOUS PERSON COME FIRST WOULD NOT HURT US BuT OUR FRIEND DOES THE SAME HURT US. IT IS NOT NORMAL EVEN IF IT HAPPENS TO MOST OF PERSON BECAUSE IT IS NOT UNIVERSAL TO ALL, IF ALL PAITENT are I'll DOES NOT MEAN THINGS ARE NORMAL,
PLEASE BE HAPPY FOR OTHERS AND FOR YOURSELF TOO.80YEARS OF LIFE AND PLEASE INVOVLE WITH IT EACH AND EVERYTHING EXPERIENCE ALL EMOTIONS AND FORMS OF LIFE.
CHEER UP BROTHERS AND SISTERS,PLEASE……
你们想要快乐，然后你们会对自己的生活许下一个愿景，把它和社会的需要联系起来，并为之努力工作，我们生来就要和社会打交道，而不是去逃避它，若你们想要快乐，那么你们一定将遭受痛苦，你们必须意识到你们是社会的一份子，你们正在为社会做出贡献。我们常常会担心未来的不确定性，有些人甚至担心死后会发生什么，为了死后能去天堂，他们投资建造寺庙，供奉香火和袈裟。
不确定性是保险、银行和资本主义存在的背后原因。
今天的社交媒体是自私的表现，比如照片有多少人点赞，有多少人因为自私而死，这些事情有多少评论，
这种个性的模式是比较和嫉妒的基础，我们认为自己非常重要，但请知道一件简单的事情，我的朋友，你对于除了你自己以外的任何人都不重要，不要太在意这些，不要为幸福设定条件，每个人都想以自己的方式生活，但这是不可能发生的，我们为什么不成为世界所需要的人呢，为什么我们不开始爱这个星球上的每一个人，而不仅仅是关心自己的利益呢。
如果你是上帝的真正信徒，并且希望快乐地生活，那么就努力实现你的愿景，如果你现在做的事情不符合你的意愿，那么就及时改变你的路线。
奋斗是自我的主要表现，人们总是喜欢奋斗和生存，这就是我们不接受现实并与之斗争的原因，这会导致痛苦，让我们保持快乐、互相帮助，向那些成功的人看齐。
奇怪的是，我们对陌生人就不那么重要了。他们不会伤害我们，但我们的朋友有时会伤害我们。（但是）这是不正常的，即使它发生在大多数人身上，它不是普遍存在的，如果所有人都是这样，也并不意味着这是正常的，
请为他人和自己感到快乐。80年的生命，请你一定要参与其中，每一件事都能体验到所有情感和生命的形式。
兄弟姐妹们，加油。
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uncertainity about is reason behind insurance,banking, and capitalism.
Today social media is manifestation of selfishness for ex~how many likes on photo,people are dying because of selfies, how many comments,
This individualstic model is basic for comparison and jealous, we are considering our so much important but pleaSe know a simple thing my friend your important to no one except yourself,take it lightly,Don't set conditions for happiness ,everybody wants world in his way that is not going to happen, why don't we become what the world needs, why don't we start loving each and every one on this planet without self-interest,
If you are true devotee of God and want it live happily then work hard upon your vision and if that doesn't not goes your way then change the route.
STRUGGLE IS THE MAINFESTATION OF EGO, IT ALWAYS LOVES TO STRUGGLE AND SURVIVE,IT US THE REASON WE ARE NOT ACCEPTING THE REALITY AND STRUGGLE WITH IT WHICH CAUSES PAIN, STAY HAPPY HELPING EACH OTHER,LOOK AT THOSE WHO ARE SUCCESFULL,
IS NOT IT STRANGE,THAT WE HAVE NO PROBLEM WITH SOME ANOYMOUS PERSON COME FIRST WOULD NOT HURT US BuT OUR FRIEND DOES THE SAME HURT US. IT IS NOT NORMAL EVEN IF IT HAPPENS TO MOST OF PERSON BECAUSE IT IS NOT UNIVERSAL TO ALL, IF ALL PAITENT are I'll DOES NOT MEAN THINGS ARE NORMAL,
PLEASE BE HAPPY FOR OTHERS AND FOR YOURSELF TOO.80YEARS OF LIFE AND PLEASE INVOVLE WITH IT EACH AND EVERYTHING EXPERIENCE ALL EMOTIONS AND FORMS OF LIFE.
CHEER UP BROTHERS AND SISTERS,PLEASE……
你们想要快乐，然后你们会对自己的生活许下一个愿景，把它和社会的需要联系起来，并为之努力工作，我们生来就要和社会打交道，而不是去逃避它，若你们想要快乐，那么你们一定将遭受痛苦，你们必须意识到你们是社会的一份子，你们正在为社会做出贡献。我们常常会担心未来的不确定性，有些人甚至担心死后会发生什么，为了死后能去天堂，他们投资建造寺庙，供奉香火和袈裟。
不确定性是保险、银行和资本主义存在的背后原因。
今天的社交媒体是自私的表现，比如照片有多少人点赞，有多少人因为自私而死，这些事情有多少评论，
这种个性的模式是比较和嫉妒的基础，我们认为自己非常重要，但请知道一件简单的事情，我的朋友，你对于除了你自己以外的任何人都不重要，不要太在意这些，不要为幸福设定条件，每个人都想以自己的方式生活，但这是不可能发生的，我们为什么不成为世界所需要的人呢，为什么我们不开始爱这个星球上的每一个人，而不仅仅是关心自己的利益呢。
如果你是上帝的真正信徒，并且希望快乐地生活，那么就努力实现你的愿景，如果你现在做的事情不符合你的意愿，那么就及时改变你的路线。
奋斗是自我的主要表现，人们总是喜欢奋斗和生存，这就是我们不接受现实并与之斗争的原因，这会导致痛苦，让我们保持快乐、互相帮助，向那些成功的人看齐。
奇怪的是，我们对陌生人就不那么重要了。他们不会伤害我们，但我们的朋友有时会伤害我们。（但是）这是不正常的，即使它发生在大多数人身上，它不是普遍存在的，如果所有人都是这样，也并不意味着这是正常的，
请为他人和自己感到快乐。80年的生命，请你一定要参与其中，每一件事都能体验到所有情感和生命的形式。
兄弟姐妹们，加油。
原创翻译：龙腾网 https://www.ltaaa.cn 转载请注明出处
Lee-Ann Knowles
Most likely, YOU find life hard because you lack specific skills to get the job done.
This sort of lack can come from a number of sources but most consistently and often, these skills are lacked because our circumstances and experiences have failed to facilitate learning opportunities for us.
For example, if your parents are people who lack skills that most would teach their children in early development stages, it is unlikely you will be naturally and spontaneously exposed to another learning dynamic for these skills later in life, unless you purposefully seek out someone (like a coach) to teach them to you.
Some examples of skills (often called 'soft skills') that you may lack, which would make life considerably harder to live (these off the top of my head - I'm sure one could add):
Empathy - the ability to imagine things from someone else's perspective and relate
Conflict management - the ability to successfully navigate conflict situations while minimising psychological and emotional fallout
Self awareness - the extent to which you are aware of your own person, needs, desires, values, expressions, body language, tone, impressions etc
Interpersonal and relational skills - the ability to connect, relate, share and collaborate with others in a harmonious and cooperative way.
Work ethic - the understanding of effort and outcomes and the relationship between the two
Grit & Tenacity - "stick-to-it-ability", determination, drive (not giving up)
Resilience - the ability to 'bounce back' or recover from trauma, emotional upheaval or attack, distress or deviation from the desired path/outcome
All of these skills (and many others) help considerably to make life 'easier to live'.
If you lack these things or others like them, please seek out a coach who can help you attain and apply them.
PS. In most cases, it's not hard to build these skills - do yourself a favour and make the effort.
李安·诺尔斯
最有可能的情况是，你发现生活很艰难，是因为你缺乏完成工作的某项具体技能。
这种缺乏可能有很多原因，但最常见的是，这些技能的缺乏是因为我们的环境和经验未能为我们提供学习的机会。
例如，如果你的父母缺乏大多数人在孩子早期发展阶段会教给孩子的技能，那么你不太可能在以后的生活中自然地、自发地接触到这些技能的其他学习动力，除非你特意去找人（比如教练）教你。
一些你可能缺乏的技能（通常称为“软技能”），这些技能会让你的生活变得相当艰难（这些我现在一时半会脑子里想不出来——我相信有人可以补充）：
换位思考——从他人的角度去想象事物并与之联系的能力。
冲突管理——成功应对冲突局势的能力，同时最大限度地减少心理和情绪的影响。
自我意识——你对自己、自己的需求、欲望、价值观、表情、肢体语言、语气、印象等的了解程度。
人际交往和关系技能——以和谐合作的方式与他人联系、分享和合作的能力。
职业道德——理解努力和结果以及两者之间的关系。
坚韧不拔——“坚持到底的能力”、有决心、有干劲（不放弃）。
韧性——从创伤、情绪动荡或攻击、痛苦或偏离预期路径或结果中“反弹”或恢复的能力。
所有的这些技能（以及许多其他技能）都大大有助于使你的生活变得“更容易生活”。
如果你缺少这些东西或其他类似的东西，请找一位能帮助你实现和应用它们的教练。
在大多数情况下，培养这些技能并不难，帮自己一个忙，然后努力养成这些技能。
原创翻译：龙腾网 https://www.ltaaa.cn 转载请注明出处
Most likely, YOU find life hard because you lack specific skills to get the job done.
This sort of lack can come from a number of sources but most consistently and often, these skills are lacked because our circumstances and experiences have failed to facilitate learning opportunities for us.
For example, if your parents are people who lack skills that most would teach their children in early development stages, it is unlikely you will be naturally and spontaneously exposed to another learning dynamic for these skills later in life, unless you purposefully seek out someone (like a coach) to teach them to you.
Some examples of skills (often called 'soft skills') that you may lack, which would make life considerably harder to live (these off the top of my head - I'm sure one could add):
Empathy - the ability to imagine things from someone else's perspective and relate
Conflict management - the ability to successfully navigate conflict situations while minimising psychological and emotional fallout
Self awareness - the extent to which you are aware of your own person, needs, desires, values, expressions, body language, tone, impressions etc
Interpersonal and relational skills - the ability to connect, relate, share and collaborate with others in a harmonious and cooperative way.
Work ethic - the understanding of effort and outcomes and the relationship between the two
Grit & Tenacity - "stick-to-it-ability", determination, drive (not giving up)
Resilience - the ability to 'bounce back' or recover from trauma, emotional upheaval or attack, distress or deviation from the desired path/outcome
All of these skills (and many others) help considerably to make life 'easier to live'.
If you lack these things or others like them, please seek out a coach who can help you attain and apply them.
PS. In most cases, it's not hard to build these skills - do yourself a favour and make the effort.
李安·诺尔斯
最有可能的情况是，你发现生活很艰难，是因为你缺乏完成工作的某项具体技能。
这种缺乏可能有很多原因，但最常见的是，这些技能的缺乏是因为我们的环境和经验未能为我们提供学习的机会。
例如，如果你的父母缺乏大多数人在孩子早期发展阶段会教给孩子的技能，那么你不太可能在以后的生活中自然地、自发地接触到这些技能的其他学习动力，除非你特意去找人（比如教练）教你。
一些你可能缺乏的技能（通常称为“软技能”），这些技能会让你的生活变得相当艰难（这些我现在一时半会脑子里想不出来——我相信有人可以补充）：
换位思考——从他人的角度去想象事物并与之联系的能力。
冲突管理——成功应对冲突局势的能力，同时最大限度地减少心理和情绪的影响。
自我意识——你对自己、自己的需求、欲望、价值观、表情、肢体语言、语气、印象等的了解程度。
人际交往和关系技能——以和谐合作的方式与他人联系、分享和合作的能力。
职业道德——理解努力和结果以及两者之间的关系。
坚韧不拔——“坚持到底的能力”、有决心、有干劲（不放弃）。
韧性——从创伤、情绪动荡或攻击、痛苦或偏离预期路径或结果中“反弹”或恢复的能力。
所有的这些技能（以及许多其他技能）都大大有助于使你的生活变得“更容易生活”。
如果你缺少这些东西或其他类似的东西，请找一位能帮助你实现和应用它们的教练。
在大多数情况下，培养这些技能并不难，帮自己一个忙，然后努力养成这些技能。
原创翻译：龙腾网 https://www.ltaaa.cn 转载请注明出处
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