印度网友：虽然我已经25岁了，但我仍然不觉得自己是个成年人
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I have a great job and great salary and help my parents financially with major part of my salary. And like most Indians I've never been in any relationship so far.
我有一份很好的工作，薪水也很高，我的大部分薪水都用来资助我的父母。和大多数印度人一样，我到目前为止还没有谈过恋爱。
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I have a great job and great salary and help my parents financially with major part of my salary. And like most Indians I've never been in any relationship so far.
我有一份很好的工作，薪水也很高，我的大部分薪水都用来资助我的父母。和大多数印度人一样，我到目前为止还没有谈过恋爱。
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I see some of my friends getting married or being in relationships or even have Kids.
我看到我的一些朋友结婚了，或者正在谈恋爱，甚至有了孩子。
我看到我的一些朋友结婚了，或者正在谈恋爱，甚至有了孩子。
And it all feels like a grownup thing for me which I won't be able to handle atleast in near future.
对我来说，这一切都像是成年人的事情，至少在不久的将来，我是无法应付这些的。
对我来说，这一切都像是成年人的事情，至少在不久的将来，我是无法应付这些的。
Does anyone feel like this
有人有这种感觉吗？
有人有这种感觉吗？
Edit I am the youngest of my family.
编辑：我是我们家最小的。
编辑：我是我们家最小的。
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pungentcunt
It is fine, there is a non grown up in all of us, to varying degrees, given an opportunity many of us would go back in time to actually relive those non grown up days.
没事的，我们每个人都有不成熟的一面，只是程度不同，如果有机会，我们中的许多人都会回到过去，真正地重温那些不成熟的日子。
It is fine, there is a non grown up in all of us, to varying degrees, given an opportunity many of us would go back in time to actually relive those non grown up days.
没事的，我们每个人都有不成熟的一面，只是程度不同，如果有机会，我们中的许多人都会回到过去，真正地重温那些不成熟的日子。
Quieter22
True. I want to go back to time when I used to watch non-stop Cartoons on TV and gaming on computer.
确实。我想回到过去，那时我在电视上不停地看卡通片，在电脑上玩游戏。
True. I want to go back to time when I used to watch non-stop Cartoons on TV and gaming on computer.
确实。我想回到过去，那时我在电视上不停地看卡通片，在电脑上玩游戏。
I never thought I grow to feel bored of these things. May be I can count it as one of grownup things.
那时候我从没想过将来我会对这些东西感到厌倦。也许我可以把它看成是成年的一个标志。
那时候我从没想过将来我会对这些东西感到厌倦。也许我可以把它看成是成年的一个标志。
pungentcunt
Given the content on Television, overall quality of movies and an over kill of streaming services, I prefer going back to watching Tom an Jerry, Donald Duck, and, He Man, may be even Thunder Cats.
考虑到电视上的内容、电影的整体质量和流媒体服务的过犹不及，我更喜欢看当年的《猫和老鼠》、《唐老鸭》、《希曼》，甚至是《雷猫》。
Given the content on Television, overall quality of movies and an over kill of streaming services, I prefer going back to watching Tom an Jerry, Donald Duck, and, He Man, may be even Thunder Cats.
考虑到电视上的内容、电影的整体质量和流媒体服务的过犹不及，我更喜欢看当年的《猫和老鼠》、《唐老鸭》、《希曼》，甚至是《雷猫》。
SHRELPX
Ducktales 2017 was great, as good as the1987 one, watch that if you haven't :D
2017版的《鸭子故事》很棒，和1987年版的一样好，如果你还没看过的话就看看吧。
Ducktales 2017 was great, as good as the1987 one, watch that if you haven't :D
2017版的《鸭子故事》很棒，和1987年版的一样好，如果你还没看过的话就看看吧。
pungentcunt
Yes, Uncle Scrooge and his crew, amazing as always.
是的，斯克罗吉舅舅和他的船员们，一如既往地令人惊叹。
Yes, Uncle Scrooge and his crew, amazing as always.
是的，斯克罗吉舅舅和他的船员们，一如既往地令人惊叹。
craig_v4
Bro, I'm 27, I am married, I take care of my parents, I have a job as well! I do all things that grownups do!
And yet I don't feel like a grownup and trust me it's a good thing in a way! Not feeling the age is alright! You're still young, so don't stress about these things and enjoy life as much as possible! Don't rush behind responsibilities, take your time and let it be...
兄弟，我27岁，我结婚了，我要照顾我的父母，我还有一份工作!大人做的事我都做!
但我还是觉得自己不像个成年人，相信我，这在某种程度上是一件好事!感觉不到年龄的没关系!你还年轻，所以不要为这些事情感到有压力，尽可能地享受生活吧!不要急于追赶责任，慢慢来，顺其自然。
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Bro, I'm 27, I am married, I take care of my parents, I have a job as well! I do all things that grownups do!
And yet I don't feel like a grownup and trust me it's a good thing in a way! Not feeling the age is alright! You're still young, so don't stress about these things and enjoy life as much as possible! Don't rush behind responsibilities, take your time and let it be...
兄弟，我27岁，我结婚了，我要照顾我的父母，我还有一份工作!大人做的事我都做!
但我还是觉得自己不像个成年人，相信我，这在某种程度上是一件好事!感觉不到年龄的没关系!你还年轻，所以不要为这些事情感到有压力，尽可能地享受生活吧!不要急于追赶责任，慢慢来，顺其自然。
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Quieter22
Agreed. But, though I want to get married, I feel like I won't be ready for something like Marriage, it feels like a lot of responsibility.
同意。但是，虽然我想结婚，但我觉得我还没有准备好结婚，这感觉像是一种责任。
Agreed. But, though I want to get married, I feel like I won't be ready for something like Marriage, it feels like a lot of responsibility.
同意。但是，虽然我想结婚，但我觉得我还没有准备好结婚，这感觉像是一种责任。
I can barely take care of myself, how can I be responsible for someone else.
我连自己都照顾不好，怎么能对别人负责呢。
我连自己都照顾不好，怎么能对别人负责呢。
For an instance, sometimes even though I am craving something to eat, I feel lazy to go out eat whatever is available at home. (I know it's a silly example)
例如，有时即使我很想吃点东西，但却懒得出去吃，家里有什么就吃什么。(我知道这是个愚蠢的例子)
例如，有时即使我很想吃点东西，但却懒得出去吃，家里有什么就吃什么。(我知道这是个愚蠢的例子)
Did you feel ready before getting married? How is life different before and after getting married?
结婚前你准备好了吗?结婚前后的生活有什么不同?
结婚前你准备好了吗?结婚前后的生活有什么不同?
amrit-9037
But do you get sax daily? Grown-ups get sax daily.
但是你每天都能玩萨克斯（sex）吗?成年人每天都可以玩萨克斯。
But do you get sax daily? Grown-ups get sax daily.
但是你每天都能玩萨克斯（sex）吗?成年人每天都可以玩萨克斯。
crazyoverthinker
It's a myth
这是秘密。
It's a myth
这是秘密。
Sand_drifter
rolls on the floor laughing
笑到地板上。
rolls on the floor laughing
笑到地板上。
AchuBacchu
*ROFL.
哈哈哈哈。
*ROFL.
哈哈哈哈。
iShivamz
So you want to feel Old..
所以你想获得老年人的感觉……
So you want to feel Old..
所以你想获得老年人的感觉……
Once you cross the 30 year line, your body won't let you feel young, just wait for it..
一旦你过了30岁，你的身体就不会让你觉得年轻了，等着瞧吧。
一旦你过了30岁，你的身体就不会让你觉得年轻了，等着瞧吧。
Quieter22
Haha. I'm pretty sure feeling Old is different from feeling like a Grownup.
哈哈。我很确定老年人的感觉和觉得自己是个成年人是不一样的。
Haha. I'm pretty sure feeling Old is different from feeling like a Grownup.
哈哈。我很确定老年人的感觉和觉得自己是个成年人是不一样的。
pungentcunt
It depends on how one maintains one's body, I can show you fifty plus people who are fitter than thirty something people (people other than Milind Soman ).
这取决于一个人如何保持自己的身体，我见过一些人明明50多了，却比30多岁的人还健康(除了米林德·索曼）。
It depends on how one maintains one's body, I can show you fifty plus people who are fitter than thirty something people (people other than Milind Soman ).
这取决于一个人如何保持自己的身体，我见过一些人明明50多了，却比30多岁的人还健康(除了米林德·索曼）。
Quieter22
Agreed on Milind Soman part. It's amazing how he manage to do that, I sweat and breath like crazy just after skipping rope for few mins
同意米林德·索曼那部分。他是如何做到这一点的，真是令人惊讶，我只是跳了几分钟的绳，就疯狂冒汗，气喘如牛。
Agreed on Milind Soman part. It's amazing how he manage to do that, I sweat and breath like crazy just after skipping rope for few mins
同意米林德·索曼那部分。他是如何做到这一点的，真是令人惊讶，我只是跳了几分钟的绳，就疯狂冒汗，气喘如牛。
bootpalishAgain
Hangovers hit different bruh.
宿醉的感觉不一样。
Hangovers hit different bruh.
宿醉的感觉不一样。
Ambitious_Jello
Things to do to feel like a grownup:
让自己感觉像个成年人的事情有:
Things to do to feel like a grownup:
让自己感觉像个成年人的事情有:
sext and haggle with three or more vendors while buying vegetables
在购买蔬菜时，挑挑拣拣，跟三个或三个以上的摊贩讨价还价；
在购买蔬菜时，挑挑拣拣，跟三个或三个以上的摊贩讨价还价；
Opening a bank account in person at the bank or applying for a loan or filing a claim for reimbursement without assistance
亲自到银行开立银行帐户，或在无人协助的情况下申请贷款或申请还款；
亲自到银行开立银行帐户，或在无人协助的情况下申请贷款或申请还款；
Feeling cringe while talking to a teenager or going through an Instagram feed
与青少年交谈或浏览Instagram时感到尴尬；
与青少年交谈或浏览Instagram时感到尴尬；
Not feeling grossed out when a toddler pukes or shits or pees on you and cleaning them up after
当一个小孩在你身上呕吐或拉屎或尿尿时，你不会感到恶心，之后还要清理他们；
当一个小孩在你身上呕吐或拉屎或尿尿时，你不会感到恶心，之后还要清理他们；
Adding an actually relevant second page to your cv
在简历中增加一页真正重要的内容；
在简历中增加一页真正重要的内容；
Booking a hotel room on the phone
打电话订酒店房间；
打电话订酒店房间；
Accompanying a dependent loved one to a doctor
陪着自己的爱人去看医生；
陪着自己的爱人去看医生；
Being the designated driver
当专人司机；
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当专人司机；
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Talking to the cops for a traffic infraction
因为交通违规向警察说好话；
因为交通违规向警察说好话；
Having regret over something that you could have done while you were young
对那些年轻时本可以做的事情感到后悔；
对那些年轻时本可以做的事情感到后悔；
Having a vehicle breakdown alone or with dependents
独自或与家人一起遭遇汽车故障。
独自或与家人一起遭遇汽车故障。
Sand_drifter
This is grown up approved.
这是成年人的认可条件。
This is grown up approved.
这是成年人的认可条件。
amrit-9037
Same here man. My job is to teach teenagers and even when I am older it makes me feel like I am also a teenager.
我也一样。我的工作是教青少年，即使当我长大了，这件事也让我觉得我也是一个青少年。
Same here man. My job is to teach teenagers and even when I am older it makes me feel like I am also a teenager.
我也一样。我的工作是教青少年，即使当我长大了，这件事也让我觉得我也是一个青少年。
TheRadiantAxe
Try taking up other responsibilities like paying bills, buying groceries, making investments etc.
试着承担一些其他的责任，比如付账单，买杂货，投资等等。
Try taking up other responsibilities like paying bills, buying groceries, making investments etc.
试着承担一些其他的责任，比如付账单，买杂货，投资等等。
If all of that doesn't work, start filing taxes yourself and you'll definitely start feeling like a grownup.
如果所有这些都不起作用，那就开始自己报税吧，你肯定会开始觉得自己像个大人了。
如果所有这些都不起作用，那就开始自己报税吧，你肯定会开始觉得自己像个大人了。
craig_v4
I do all this and I'm 27 and married, still doesn't feel like a grownup
这一切我都做，虽然我27岁，结婚了，但还是觉得自己不像个成年人。
I do all this and I'm 27 and married, still doesn't feel like a grownup
这一切我都做，虽然我27岁，结婚了，但还是觉得自己不像个成年人。
TheRadiantAxe
Maybe part of it is realizing all grownups are pretending... until they aren't :)
也许是意识到所有的成年人都在假装……结果他们不是。
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Maybe part of it is realizing all grownups are pretending... until they aren't :)
也许是意识到所有的成年人都在假装……结果他们不是。
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Fake it till you make it like they say.
就像人们说的，不亲身经历，不知道真假。
就像人们说的，不亲身经历，不知道真假。
Quieter22
I do pay bills and recently started making investments, I don't buy groceries though. I will be filing taxes for the first time and thinking of doing it on my own.
我确实会付账单，最近开始投资，但我不买杂货。我将第一次报税，并考虑自己做这件事。
I do pay bills and recently started making investments, I don't buy groceries though. I will be filing taxes for the first time and thinking of doing it on my own.
我确实会付账单，最近开始投资，但我不买杂货。我将第一次报税，并考虑自己做这件事。
But none of these had much effect on feeling like grownup.
但这些都没有对感觉自己像成年人有多大影响。
但这些都没有对感觉自己像成年人有多大影响。
TheRadiantAxe
It's not going to be an overnight transition, but don't worry about it too much and enjoy the ride. Best of luck!
这个转变不会是一夜之间发生，但不要太担心，享受这个过程。祝你好运!
It's not going to be an overnight transition, but don't worry about it too much and enjoy the ride. Best of luck!
这个转变不会是一夜之间发生，但不要太担心，享受这个过程。祝你好运!
pickle16
I did all of those things and lived away from parents for 7 years until march 2020. Still don’t feel like a grown up lol
我做了所有这些事情，并离开父母生活了7年，直到2020年3月。我还是觉得不像个成年人，哈哈。
I did all of those things and lived away from parents for 7 years until march 2020. Still don’t feel like a grown up lol
我做了所有这些事情，并离开父母生活了7年，直到2020年3月。我还是觉得不像个成年人，哈哈。
Pomy_Momy
Lol I am in my 40s and I still don’t feel Like grown up adults , the only adult thing I do is pay my bills
哈哈，我已经40多岁了，但我仍然不觉得自己是成年人，我做的唯一一件成年人的事就是付账单。
Lol I am in my 40s and I still don’t feel Like grown up adults , the only adult thing I do is pay my bills
哈哈，我已经40多岁了，但我仍然不觉得自己是成年人，我做的唯一一件成年人的事就是付账单。
sarthak_ganguly
Enjoy this feeling, please. :)
请享受这种感觉。
Enjoy this feeling, please. :)
请享受这种感觉。
You don't HAVE to be 'feel' grown up. Since you are already gradually taking up responsibilities, you are fine. Keep your comfort level in mind before embarking on anything. Don't jump into anything due to peer pressure.
你不必“觉得”自己长大了。因为你已经逐渐承担起了责任，所以你很好。在开始任何事情之前，记住你的舒适度。不要因为同伴的压力而贸然投入任何事情。
你不必“觉得”自己长大了。因为你已经逐渐承担起了责任，所以你很好。在开始任何事情之前，记住你的舒适度。不要因为同伴的压力而贸然投入任何事情。
lolhmmk
Hey its chill. If you are doing everything properly, thats good. Have fun! Dont stress about am I a grown up or not? Meet people. Maybe trying new things will give you new experiences. I dont even care about this term grown up, it kinda makes me feel that I should not have fun and take everything seriously even when I do alot of things responsibly.
嘿，很不错。如果你每件事都做得很好，那就很好。好好享受!不要为“我是不是成年人”而感到有压力。与人结交。也许尝试新事物会给你新的体验。我根本不关心长大这个术语，它有点让我觉得我不应该充满乐趣和认真的对待每一件事，即使我做了很多负责任的事情。
Hey its chill. If you are doing everything properly, thats good. Have fun! Dont stress about am I a grown up or not? Meet people. Maybe trying new things will give you new experiences. I dont even care about this term grown up, it kinda makes me feel that I should not have fun and take everything seriously even when I do alot of things responsibly.
嘿，很不错。如果你每件事都做得很好，那就很好。好好享受!不要为“我是不是成年人”而感到有压力。与人结交。也许尝试新事物会给你新的体验。我根本不关心长大这个术语，它有点让我觉得我不应该充满乐趣和认真的对待每一件事，即使我做了很多负责任的事情。
Sand_drifter
That is a good thing. The grown up feel like they want to kill themselves every few minutes. I'm 21 and feel like a grown up it sucks a lot.
这是一件好事。成年人每过几分钟就会想要自杀。我21岁了，感觉自己长大了，这太糟糕了。
That is a good thing. The grown up feel like they want to kill themselves every few minutes. I'm 21 and feel like a grown up it sucks a lot.
这是一件好事。成年人每过几分钟就会想要自杀。我21岁了，感觉自己长大了，这太糟糕了。
negrochatterjee
like most Indians I've never been in any relationship so far.
“像大多数印度人一样，我到目前为止还没有谈过恋爱。”
like most Indians I've never been in any relationship so far.
“像大多数印度人一样，我到目前为止还没有谈过恋爱。”
I... have some bad news for you. By this age most poor/rural Indians are married, and middle class urban Indians have been in at least one relationship. I would say you're in the bottom 20%.
我……有个坏消息要告诉你。到这个年龄，大多数穷人/农村印度人都结婚了，中产阶级城市印度人至少有过一段恋情。我觉得你是倒数20%的人。
我……有个坏消息要告诉你。到这个年龄，大多数穷人/农村印度人都结婚了，中产阶级城市印度人至少有过一段恋情。我觉得你是倒数20%的人。
Source- I am in the same boat lol, so it's not pulling someone down as much as shining the mirror of reality.
来源：我也在同一条船上，哈哈，所以这并不是在拖别人的后腿，而是在照亮现实的镜子。
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来源：我也在同一条船上，哈哈，所以这并不是在拖别人的后腿，而是在照亮现实的镜子。
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Quieter22
My bad, I meant romantic relationships not including Marriage. I seriously doubt if it's just 20%. Atleast 40-50% of guys I know are / weren't in relationships belonging to urban / semi urban locations AFAIK. (Hope you are not counting crushes or one sided stuff).
我的错，我指的是不包括婚姻在内的恋爱关系。我非常怀疑是否只有20%。如果我没记错，我认识的城市/半城市的人中，至少有40-50%正在经历/没有过恋爱关系。(希望你没有算暗恋或单恋)。
My bad, I meant romantic relationships not including Marriage. I seriously doubt if it's just 20%. Atleast 40-50% of guys I know are / weren't in relationships belonging to urban / semi urban locations AFAIK. (Hope you are not counting crushes or one sided stuff).
我的错，我指的是不包括婚姻在内的恋爱关系。我非常怀疑是否只有20%。如果我没记错，我认识的城市/半城市的人中，至少有40-50%正在经历/没有过恋爱关系。(希望你没有算暗恋或单恋)。
negrochatterjee
Hope you are not counting crushes or one sided stuff)
Of course not, then it would be <1%!
当然没有，那样的话连1%都不到。
Hope you are not counting crushes or one sided stuff)
Of course not, then it would be <1%!
当然没有，那样的话连1%都不到。
I admit, my perspective is a bit skewed being from Mumbai. Maybe in smaller places, it could be different.
我承认，作为孟买人，我的观点有点偏颇。也许在小地方，情况会有所不同。
我承认，作为孟买人，我的观点有点偏颇。也许在小地方，情况会有所不同。
In my college, it would have been around 40-50%, but given that it was a college famous for producing socially awkward nerds, that too in a small town (IITK), I would assume scenario outside is somewhat different.
在我的大学，这个比例大约是40-50%，但考虑到这是一所以培养不善社交的书呆子而闻名的大学，而且位于一个小镇(印度理工学院)，我猜想外面的情况会有所不同。
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在我的大学，这个比例大约是40-50%，但考虑到这是一所以培养不善社交的书呆子而闻名的大学，而且位于一个小镇(印度理工学院)，我猜想外面的情况会有所不同。
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craftybeaver27777779
25 is still very young imo! Yes you are an official adult but come on you are only 6 years out of your teens! Spoiler alx! You won’t feel like a full blown adult until your well into your 30s and that’s totally fine. Enjoy your 20s to the most! It’s the best age imo. It’s like being a child but with the added benefit of earning your own monies!
我觉得25岁还很年轻!是的，你是一个正式的成年人，但拜托，你才成年了6年！剧透！直到30多岁，你才会觉得自己是个成熟的成年人，这完全没有关系。尽情享受你的20岁年华吧!我觉得这是最好的年龄。这就像一个孩子，但有额外的好处，可以给自己赚钱!
25 is still very young imo! Yes you are an official adult but come on you are only 6 years out of your teens! Spoiler alx! You won’t feel like a full blown adult until your well into your 30s and that’s totally fine. Enjoy your 20s to the most! It’s the best age imo. It’s like being a child but with the added benefit of earning your own monies!
我觉得25岁还很年轻!是的，你是一个正式的成年人，但拜托，你才成年了6年！剧透！直到30多岁，你才会觉得自己是个成熟的成年人，这完全没有关系。尽情享受你的20岁年华吧!我觉得这是最好的年龄。这就像一个孩子，但有额外的好处，可以给自己赚钱!
Ok-Tumbleweed-1448
Your time will come
不用着急。
Your time will come
不用着急。
Batwoman_2017
You can have 1000 kids and still feel like you're not grown up enough
你可以生1000个孩子，但仍然觉得自己不够成熟。
You can have 1000 kids and still feel like you're not grown up enough
你可以生1000个孩子，但仍然觉得自己不够成熟。
im_on_the_downeaster
I'm 24 and I feel exactly the same. Other than the relationship part I'm pretty much okay with everything else.
我24岁了，我也有同样的感觉。除了感情这部分，我对其他一切都很满意。
I'm 24 and I feel exactly the same. Other than the relationship part I'm pretty much okay with everything else.
我24岁了，我也有同样的感觉。除了感情这部分，我对其他一切都很满意。
dr_death47
I ask myself this everyday lol. 25M, pay good enough to buy a house for my parents but the realization that I'm a grown up has not hit me yet. My dad had by brother and was raising a sound family by this time, but I look and feel like I'm still a 15 yo. No girlfriend since 10 years and spend everyday waking hour thinking about either work or some stupid fucking side project. Hang in there man...thinking about creating a Bumble account and see how it goes. Tell me if you get out of this rut and how.
哈哈，我每天都在问自己这个问题。25岁，我赚的钱足够给父母买房子了，但我依然没有“我已经长大了”的感觉。我父亲有了一个哥哥，那时他已经有了一个健全的家庭，但我觉得自己依然只有15岁。10年没交女朋友，每天一醒来，想着的东西要么是工作，要么是一些业余的玩意。这种感觉挥之不去……我正在考虑创建一个Bumble账户，看看效果如何。如果你摆脱了这种生活，请告诉我是如何做到的。
I ask myself this everyday lol. 25M, pay good enough to buy a house for my parents but the realization that I'm a grown up has not hit me yet. My dad had by brother and was raising a sound family by this time, but I look and feel like I'm still a 15 yo. No girlfriend since 10 years and spend everyday waking hour thinking about either work or some stupid fucking side project. Hang in there man...thinking about creating a Bumble account and see how it goes. Tell me if you get out of this rut and how.
哈哈，我每天都在问自己这个问题。25岁，我赚的钱足够给父母买房子了，但我依然没有“我已经长大了”的感觉。我父亲有了一个哥哥，那时他已经有了一个健全的家庭，但我觉得自己依然只有15岁。10年没交女朋友，每天一醒来，想着的东西要么是工作，要么是一些业余的玩意。这种感觉挥之不去……我正在考虑创建一个Bumble账户，看看效果如何。如果你摆脱了这种生活，请告诉我是如何做到的。
Shikhar2604
It's okay. I'm 26, engaged and about to start my medical residency yet I don't feel like a grown up. You'll find me having the stupidest and most immature kind of fun most of the time. What you need to be is mature and responsible when the need arises eg you must know how to deal with work, money, conflicts with family or partner, colleagues etc. And this has nothing to do with 'feeling like a grown up'. You can do all that WHILE being child-like. And it's good this way...you'll enjoy life longer.
没关系。我26岁，订婚了，即将开始住院医师实习，但我觉得自己还不像个成年人。你会发现我大部分时间都在找最愚蠢最幼稚的乐子。你需要做的是成熟和负责任，当需要时，如你必须知道如何处理工作，金钱，与家人、伴侣、同事等的冲突。而且这和“感觉像个成年人”一点关系都没有。你可以像孩子一样做这些事。这样很好……你会享受更长的生活。
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It's okay. I'm 26, engaged and about to start my medical residency yet I don't feel like a grown up. You'll find me having the stupidest and most immature kind of fun most of the time. What you need to be is mature and responsible when the need arises eg you must know how to deal with work, money, conflicts with family or partner, colleagues etc. And this has nothing to do with 'feeling like a grown up'. You can do all that WHILE being child-like. And it's good this way...you'll enjoy life longer.
没关系。我26岁，订婚了，即将开始住院医师实习，但我觉得自己还不像个成年人。你会发现我大部分时间都在找最愚蠢最幼稚的乐子。你需要做的是成熟和负责任，当需要时，如你必须知道如何处理工作，金钱，与家人、伴侣、同事等的冲突。而且这和“感觉像个成年人”一点关系都没有。你可以像孩子一样做这些事。这样很好……你会享受更长的生活。
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pranay414
I have these thoughts everyday. I feel like I've no other purpose left in life as I've done everything I wanted to do. I want to go back to those school days when people made me feel special during my birthdays.
我每天都有这样的想法。我觉得我的人生没有其他目标了，因为我已经做了所有我想做的事。我想回到学生时代，那时大家在我生日时，会让我觉得自己很特别。
I have these thoughts everyday. I feel like I've no other purpose left in life as I've done everything I wanted to do. I want to go back to those school days when people made me feel special during my birthdays.
我每天都有这样的想法。我觉得我的人生没有其他目标了，因为我已经做了所有我想做的事。我想回到学生时代，那时大家在我生日时，会让我觉得自己很特别。
parthpalta
Been there.
我曾经也一样。
Been there.
我曾经也一样。
I've realised it takes adversity to "grow up"
我意识到“成长”需要逆境。
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我意识到“成长”需要逆境。
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Not saying you have not faced it, but maybe you haven't faced enough for your own capabilities.
不是说你没有面对过，而是也许你没有面对超出你能力上限的逆境。
不是说你没有面对过，而是也许你没有面对超出你能力上限的逆境。
Maybe you're capable of handling a stress level 8 and you've only ever had to deal with stress level 6. Not your fault. And not something to want anyway. I would much rather not have faced adversity, but I'm better because of it.
也许你有能力处理8级的压力，而你只需要处理6级的压力。这不是你的错。反正也不是你想要的。我宁愿没有面对逆境，但我会因为逆境变得更好。
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也许你有能力处理8级的压力，而你只需要处理6级的压力。这不是你的错。反正也不是你想要的。我宁愿没有面对逆境，但我会因为逆境变得更好。
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Put yourself out there. Talk to people. Understand their problems, try to empathise.
走出去。与人交谈。理解他们的问题，试着同情他们。
走出去。与人交谈。理解他们的问题，试着同情他们。
Try to THINK. But also spend time doin stuff. Think things out for more than 3-5 cycles. Learn actions and their consequences. Pay attention.
试着去思考。但也要花时间做一些事情。思考超过3-5个周期。学习行为及其后果。集中注意。
试着去思考。但也要花时间做一些事情。思考超过3-5个周期。学习行为及其后果。集中注意。
As someone who has felt this in a very specific way, since I've had a rather challenging life suddenly after a ridiculously cosy life, I learnt I could handle a lot more (just had to break down completely first).
作为一个有这种特殊感受的人，我在经历了一段荒谬的舒适生活之后，突然经历了一段相当有挑战性的生活，我意识到我可以处理更多的事情(只是必须先彻底崩溃)。
作为一个有这种特殊感受的人，我在经历了一段荒谬的舒适生活之后，突然经历了一段相当有挑战性的生活，我意识到我可以处理更多的事情(只是必须先彻底崩溃)。
You'd be surprised the amount of shit you thought you can't live thru, you can survive.
你会惊讶地发现，有很多你曾经认为自己无法度过的事情，你都能走过去。
你会惊讶地发现，有很多你曾经认为自己无法度过的事情，你都能走过去。
And it just makes you a better person who understands that everyone is going thru their own struggles, and that's why extending niceness > being a bitch; always.
当你理解每个人都在经历着自己的挣扎时，你会成为一个更好的人，这就是为什么培育善意好过为人刻薄；总是这样。
当你理解每个人都在经历着自己的挣扎时，你会成为一个更好的人，这就是为什么培育善意好过为人刻薄；总是这样。
iamprateekpandey
It feels like i have written this post, exact same situation
感觉就像我也写过这篇帖子，情况完全相同。
It feels like i have written this post, exact same situation
感觉就像我也写过这篇帖子，情况完全相同。
electr0de07
Don't think about others, they are just as immature as you are. We all are, we all will always be.
不要想别人，他们和你一样不成熟。我们都是，永远都是。
Don't think about others, they are just as immature as you are. We all are, we all will always be.
不要想别人，他们和你一样不成熟。我们都是，永远都是。
PolashNarayan
I still don't feel like a grown up even though I'm 28. Also I am pursuing MBA right now and have left my job, which makes me sad since I am not bringing any money and have given tremendous boost to my anxiety.
虽然我已经28岁了，但我仍然不觉得自己是个成年人。另外，我现在正在攻读MBA，脱离了工作——这让我很难过，因为我没有带来任何钱，这极大地增加了我的焦虑。
I still don't feel like a grown up even though I'm 28. Also I am pursuing MBA right now and have left my job, which makes me sad since I am not bringing any money and have given tremendous boost to my anxiety.
虽然我已经28岁了，但我仍然不觉得自己是个成年人。另外，我现在正在攻读MBA，脱离了工作——这让我很难过，因为我没有带来任何钱，这极大地增加了我的焦虑。
shaanigi
I am 32 and still not married , the very idea of marriage give a chilling thought. I think I am not made to handle family .
我32岁了，还没结婚，结婚的想法让人心寒。我觉得我不适合处理家庭事务。
I am 32 and still not married , the very idea of marriage give a chilling thought. I think I am not made to handle family .
我32岁了，还没结婚，结婚的想法让人心寒。我觉得我不适合处理家庭事务。
allenbruce262
I am also going through the same feeling right now especially now days where i am back home with my parents, my mom takes care of my everything, from food to clothes, she treats me like a teenager boy. I go out asking her permission, some time she shout at me when I go out in late evening during these winter days. She has very controlling nature, and she wants everything is done according to her, and because of that my anger of being not treated as adult or independent person is stacking up daily, and i am afraid it will blast some days.
我现在也有同样的感觉，尤其是现在，当我回到家里，我的父母，我的妈妈照顾我的一切，从食物到衣服，她对待我像对待一个十几岁的男孩。我出门会征求她的同意，有时当我在冬天晚上外出时，她会对我大喊大叫。她有很强的控制欲，她希望一切都按照她的意愿去做，正因为如此，我因没有自己被当作成年人或独立的人对待而感到愤怒，这种愤怒每天都在累积，我担心有一天会爆发。
I am also going through the same feeling right now especially now days where i am back home with my parents, my mom takes care of my everything, from food to clothes, she treats me like a teenager boy. I go out asking her permission, some time she shout at me when I go out in late evening during these winter days. She has very controlling nature, and she wants everything is done according to her, and because of that my anger of being not treated as adult or independent person is stacking up daily, and i am afraid it will blast some days.
我现在也有同样的感觉，尤其是现在，当我回到家里，我的父母，我的妈妈照顾我的一切，从食物到衣服，她对待我像对待一个十几岁的男孩。我出门会征求她的同意，有时当我在冬天晚上外出时，她会对我大喊大叫。她有很强的控制欲，她希望一切都按照她的意愿去做，正因为如此，我因没有自己被当作成年人或独立的人对待而感到愤怒，这种愤怒每天都在累积，我担心有一天会爆发。
I don't know why i have so much anger, or i am so much afraid of her, may be because she was the one who beat the shit out of me or shouted so much to me in childhood, that subconsciously the fear got stuck in brain.
我不知道为什么我有这么多的愤怒，或者我为什么这么害怕她，可能是因为她曾经把我打得屁滚尿流，或者是在童年对我大喊大叫，所以潜意识里的恐惧在我的大脑里根深蒂固。
我不知道为什么我有这么多的愤怒，或者我为什么这么害怕她，可能是因为她曾经把我打得屁滚尿流，或者是在童年对我大喊大叫，所以潜意识里的恐惧在我的大脑里根深蒂固。
When I go to internet like instagram, i see people younger than me buying some car, accessories, going to holidays with friends, having good physique and if I open lixedIn there are so many people achieving so many things it's just break my heart. I constantly think of dying, and just wish i just don't exit simply.
当我上网时，比如在instagram上，我看到比我年轻的人买一些汽车、配件、和朋友去度假、拥有良好的体格，如果我打开lixedIn，看到这么多人实现了这么多的事情，这真让我心碎。我经常想到死，却又希望我不不会简单的离开这个世界。
当我上网时，比如在instagram上，我看到比我年轻的人买一些汽车、配件、和朋友去度假、拥有良好的体格，如果我打开lixedIn，看到这么多人实现了这么多的事情，这真让我心碎。我经常想到死，却又希望我不不会简单的离开这个世界。
divyad
live young, live free
年轻的生活，自由的生活。
live young, live free
年轻的生活，自由的生活。
there are 60y olds, acting like kids and you're just 25 so don't worry everyone is different, you need not 'do' grown up stuffs just for the sake of it. you're free do do whatever you want!
有60岁的老人行为就像孩子一样，而你才25岁，所以不用担心，每个人都是不同的，你不需要为了长大而“做”一些事情。你是自由的，想做什么就做什么!
有60岁的老人行为就像孩子一样，而你才25岁，所以不用担心，每个人都是不同的，你不需要为了长大而“做”一些事情。你是自由的，想做什么就做什么!
ooops_i_did_it_again
Only if choosing "salad" instead or "Lays" and dark over milk chocolate can be counted be counted under growing up?
只有选择“沙拉”而不是“乐事”，选择黑巧克力而不是牛奶巧克力才算成长?
Only if choosing "salad" instead or "Lays" and dark over milk chocolate can be counted be counted under growing up?
只有选择“沙拉”而不是“乐事”，选择黑巧克力而不是牛奶巧克力才算成长?
varnanrav
Subtle way to say you are single & ready to mingle. Reddit becoming like dating and matrimonial sites.
这是一种微妙的方式，告诉你是单身，并且准备好谈恋爱了。Reddit变成了约会和婚恋网站。
Subtle way to say you are single & ready to mingle. Reddit becoming like dating and matrimonial sites.
这是一种微妙的方式，告诉你是单身，并且准备好谈恋爱了。Reddit变成了约会和婚恋网站。
irahulldubey
Going through the same. One of my friends got married today and I feel so weird. I’m also 25 btw. I think it is okay to feel that way. I do all the grownup stuff. Live alone abroad, have a great job, pay my bills and support my family but inside I feel like a college student only. I do not associate with grownups who talk boomer things but I do participate in grownup conversations.
我正在经历同样的事情。我的一个朋友今天结婚了，我觉得很奇怪。顺便说一下，我也25岁了。我觉得有这种感觉是可以的。成年人的事我都做。独自在国外生活，有一份好工作，支付账单，支援家人，但在内心深处，我感觉自己只是一个大学生。我不与那些谈论婴儿潮时期事情的成年人交往，但我确实参与成年人的谈话。
Going through the same. One of my friends got married today and I feel so weird. I’m also 25 btw. I think it is okay to feel that way. I do all the grownup stuff. Live alone abroad, have a great job, pay my bills and support my family but inside I feel like a college student only. I do not associate with grownups who talk boomer things but I do participate in grownup conversations.
我正在经历同样的事情。我的一个朋友今天结婚了，我觉得很奇怪。顺便说一下，我也25岁了。我觉得有这种感觉是可以的。成年人的事我都做。独自在国外生活，有一份好工作，支付账单，支援家人，但在内心深处，我感觉自己只是一个大学生。我不与那些谈论婴儿潮时期事情的成年人交往，但我确实参与成年人的谈话。
I still act like a teenager around the people I’m comfortable with. Like my girlfriend and family and friends. Specially my girlfriend, I never have to pretend like I’m grownup while talking to her.
在我觉得舒服的人周围，我仍然表现得像个青少年。比如我的女朋友，家人和朋友。特别是我的女朋友，在和她说话的时候，我从来不用假装我是成年人。
在我觉得舒服的人周围，我仍然表现得像个青少年。比如我的女朋友，家人和朋友。特别是我的女朋友，在和她说话的时候，我从来不用假装我是成年人。
shitzoo027
r/nevergrewup
“永远别长大”
r/nevergrewup
“永远别长大”
odiab
Dude , there are like two actual grown ups in the world. The rest are just pretending !
老兄，世界上有两个真正的成年人。其他人只是在假装!
Dude , there are like two actual grown ups in the world. The rest are just pretending !
老兄，世界上有两个真正的成年人。其他人只是在假装!
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