印度网友:印度女孩觉得身高有多重要?
2022-03-01 碧波荡漾恒河水 17076
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I want to ask mainly the girls of this subreddit that how much does height seriously matter to you..

我主要想问reddit这个版块的女孩们,身高对你来说有多重要?

Like if you get a genuinely good person but he is 5'3 will he do.

比如,如果你找到一个真正的好人,但他只有5英尺3英寸(160cm),你会接受他吗?

And have you ever dated a short boy and how was it

你有没有和矮个男生约会过,感觉怎么样?

And as an Indian Girl What's your height.

作为一个印度女孩你的身高是多少?

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kacoethes
The question is will YOU date a tall girl? I’m 182cm and I am the one that’s rejected, lol. Most short guys don’t want to date me because they’re afraid of what other people will say.

问题是你会和高个女孩约会吗?我182,而且我是那个被拒绝的人,哈哈。大多数矮个男生都不想和我约会,因为他们害怕别人会说什么。

As long as you’re confident and don’t worry about what other people say, I doubt you’ll have problems dating most girls.

只要你自信,不担心别人说什么,我觉得你和大多数女孩约会都没问题。

Fri1ction
We guys will date a tree if it responds to our texts..

即便是一棵树,如果它回我们短信,我们男生也会跟它约会的……
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desi_cr33p
The question is will YOU date a tall girl?

问题是你会和高个女孩约会吗?

I mean I absolutely would, and I'm like 160cm. There are no doubt men who feel insecure in the presence of taller women and wouldn't want to date them because of that, but I doubt men's preference for shorter women is anywhere near as ubiquitous as women's preference for taller men. I'm not judging anyone here, both preferences are completely valid. But out of 10 taller women that I might want to date, 9 wouldn't want to date me because I was shorter than them. That's just how it is.

我的意思是我绝对会的,我的身高大概有160厘米。毫无疑问,男人在高个女人面前会感到不安全,因此不想和她们约会,但我怀疑男人对矮个女人的偏爱是否像女人对高个男人的偏爱一样普遍。我不是在评判任何人,这两种偏好都是完全正确的。但是我想约会的10个高个子女人中,有9个不想和我约会,因为我比她们矮。事情就是这样。

ProfessorAnie
Both of you saying other one doesn't date.
Why don't u two give it a shot lol

你们俩都说对方不会和你约会。
为什么你们两个不试一试呢,哈哈。

Fri1ction
Society is a complex fabric ..:(

社会很复杂……

lxearning
For real 182 cm girls look so much more scarier than 182 cm men.

真的,182厘米的女孩看起来要比182厘米的男人可怕得多。
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Thoushallnoteatme
I’m 5’5 and I used to date girls taller than me. In my experience, height shouldn’t matter as long as you are open minded and have a sense of humour. But there will always be a few girls who want their guy to be a certain height.

我是165cm,以前约会过比我高的女孩。根据我的经验,只要你心胸开阔,有幽默感,身高并不重要。但总有一些女孩希望她们的男人有一定的身高。

vanthewall
I’m 5ft 5 too and definitely wouldn’t mind dating girls taller than me. If only most taller girls were cool with dating shorter guys.

我也是165cm,绝对不介意和比我高的女孩约会。要是大多数高个女孩能和矮个男孩约会就好了。

Thoushallnoteatme
Yeah that’s true lol

是的,确实。

penguin_chacha
few girls.
Let's be honest, it's most girls

“一些女孩”
老实说,大多数女孩都是这样。

Thoushallnoteatme
Sure lol

当然,哈哈。

RandomisedSim
That's true. Most girls don't mind height as long as you're funny and kind.

这是真的。只要你风趣善良,大多数女孩都不介意你的身高。

desi_cr33p
Some certainly don't, but most wouldn't date a man shorter than them, regardless of how funny/kind he was. Not saying there's anything wrong with that, it's just the truth. Hats off to you if you can look past the height of a man.

有些人当然不会,但大多数人不会和比自己矮的男人约会,不管他有多有趣/善良。我不是说这有什么错,这就是事实。如果你能超越一个人的身高,我向你致敬。
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Thoushallnoteatme
Yeah, that’s what I have experienced.

是的,这就是我所经历的。

amanderrated
That's untrue. I've very rarely seen a woman date/marry a guy shorter than her. Probably in 5% of the cases, and that's being liberal.

并不是这样。我很少看到有女人和比她矮的男人约会/结婚。可能有5%,都算是自由了。

amrit-9037
Aadeiyan utha kar unse milte hain
Kad kuch ucha hai mere pyaar ka

(叽里咕噜)

Thoushallnoteatme
English bro

兄弟请用英语。

amrit-9037
I meet them with raised ankles
Since my love has higher heights

我踮起脚尖迎接他们,
因为我的爱更高。

Thoushallnoteatme
Niceeeee

奈斯。
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devvraut
error: cannot assign value to null obxt "girls_of_this_subreddit" - app.js 1 : 25

错误:无法赋值,因为“本版的女孩”是个空对象。

NecrophiliaLover69
Man fuck this shit

天,太艹了吧。

Natural_Friendship11
I am 5’1 and most people are taller than me anyway.

我155,大多数人都比我高。

chikoomilkshake
4' 11" here and EVERYONE is taller than me

我140cm,每个人都比我高。

Misslittlepotato
I’m 5’8” and I honestly couldn’t care less about height. As do most of the women i know. It’s only a problem if the guy is insecure about it, which is the case more often than not.

我172cm,老实说,我根本不在乎身高。我认识的大多数女人也是。只有当男人对此没有安全感时,这才会成为一个问题,而通常情况下正是如此。

opencho
boys are insecure about:
height
lulli size
income

男生没有安全感的地方:
身高
那啥的大小
收入

girls are insecure about:
boob size
color of their skin
teeth
nails
hair
wrinkles
weight
nose shape
feet
eyebrows
ears
ten other things
HTH

女生没有安全感的地方:
熊的大小
肤色
牙齿
指甲
头发
皱纹
体重
鼻子形状

眉毛
耳朵
几十种其他东西
等等

4k3R
Add "how much they make" as well. Common complaint I have heard from my female friends regarding their boyfriends.

还要加上“他们收入多少”。我经常从我的女性朋友那里听到对她们男朋友的抱怨。

opencho
I’m 5’8” and I honestly couldn’t care less about height. As do most of the women i know."
If women truly couldn't care less about height, we would see a measurable percentage of indian married couples comprising a tall woman and a short man. We don't.

如果女性真的不关心身高,我们会看到由一个高个女人和一个矮个男人组成的夫妇在印度夫妇中占据一个可观的比例。但是并没有。

blobby3278654
Because boys are naturally taller than girls most of the time. Not to mention its embarrassing for some boys to be with a girl taller than them, especially when certain family members comment on it

因为大多数时候男孩天生就比女孩高。更不用说对一些男孩来说,和一个比他们高的女孩在一起是很尴尬的,特别是当某些家庭成员对此评头论足的时候。

opencho
Yeah we're all in the combo death grip of public perceptions and our own insecurities. I never dated a tall girl because "ek to meri lulli chhoti, upar se lambi ladki ki vag bhi thodi badi hogi, it's not going to work out..." Ridic but true. I have matured since then but now that maturity is irrelevant for my life.

是的,我们都被公众的看法和我们自己的不安全感牢牢地控制着。我从来没有和高个女孩约会过,因为“……因为我们不会有结果的。”可笑但真实。从那时起,我成熟了,但现在成熟与我的生活无关。

Misslittlepotato
Because it goes both ways! Many men too don’t want to marry taller women.
I’ve dated only one guy and he was shorter than me, but not at all insecure about it. Being comfortable with yourself and indifferent to other peoples opinions is something very few people are able to do.

因为这是双向的!很多男人也不想娶个子更高的女人。
我只和一个男生约会过,他比我矮,但我对此一点都不担心。只需要自己感到舒适,对别人的意见漠不关心,但是很少有人能够做到。

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opencho
Agreed. If I am raised in a "conventional, traditional" Indian household, my viewpoint is going to be subconsciously influenced by it. "I will marry somebody my parents/friends/society will approve of". I may realize my folly later on in life but by that point, the damage is already done.

同意。如果我在一个“传统、旧式的”印度家庭长大,我的观点会在潜意识里受到影响。“我会和我父母/朋友/社会认可的人结婚”。我可能会在以后的生活中意识到这种愚蠢,但到那时,伤害已经造成了。
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pratsarolkar
I am 6ft and built like hulk with a pandemic belly and I hardly get any attention even before my pandemic belly. Lesson learned - We cannot control our height but certainly can control our weight, so trying to be lean which is in these days (and failing miserably as well)

我身高182cm,有个大肚子,但即便在我发福之前,我也几乎没有受到任何关注。教训就是:我们不能控制我们的身高,但可以控制我们的体重,所以努力保持苗条,这在当今是很流行的(但我在这方面也悲惨地失败了)。

RandomisedSim
As long as you're comfortable/secure with your own height, we're good.
Sincerely, a 5'7" girl

只要你对自己的身高感到舒适/安全,我们就可以。
真诚的说,我是个170cm的女孩。

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huey_dubois
I'm taller than you

我比你高。

Rottenidly
Hey i am an indian girl who is 5 feet 5.5 inches i am considered tall according to indian standards. I wouldn't mind the height of a guy if we genuinely vibe. :) Edit- no i have never dated a guy who is shorter than me and i haven't met any guy my age 24 who is shorter than me.

嘿,我是一个166cm的印度女孩,按照印度的标准,我被认为是高的。我不介意一个男人的身高,如果我们真的有感觉的话。编辑:不,我从来没有和比我矮的男人约会过,我24岁时也没有遇到过比我矮的男人。
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exquisiteSun89
Doubt that genuine vibe is ever going to happen with a shorter guy

我怀疑你和一个矮个男人之间是否会有真正的感情。
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Rottenidly
I am curious to know as well i hope i meet those guys soon.

我也很想知道,我希望能尽快见到他们。

KapClaw
Maybe try looking down sometimes.

也许你可以试着低下头看看。

gin_pls
don't look down on people
it be rude

别俯视别人,
这不礼貌。

[dexed]
I'm 5'6, I don't mind dating shorter guys

我167cm,我不介意跟比我矮的男生约会。

drb97
Everything boils down to confidence man. There's this PG in my college, he's probably 5'4 at best. He's kind, incredibly smart and really nice. Brilliant. Intimidatingly so. And he knows it. He doesn't look very nice, but he's a really good person. Every intern who's ever worked with him has had a crush on him. Including me. Unfortunately he's off limits because he's already dating someone else. Lot many stories like these. The only difference being that they're really confident about themselves.

自信对每个男生都很重要。我大学就有个这样的家伙,他可能至多有162。他很善良,非常聪明,人也很好。很有才。很强势。他也知道这一点。他看起来不太好,但他真是个好人。每个和他一起工作的实习生都对他有好感,包括我。不幸的是,我们不能和他约会,因为他已经和别人约会了。很多这样的故事。唯一的区别是他们对自己很有信心。

Dragonode
I'm here to collect data

我来这里是为了收集数据的。

lolhmmk
Drop girls who mention things that cant be controlled as a criteria to date. Me and my bf have same height and it was never a problem. I want to be taller coz everyone in my family is tall but I never really cared about height of my partner.

放弃那些把无法控制的事情作为约会标准的女孩。我和我男朋友一样高,这从来都不是问题。我想长得更高,因为我家里的每个人都很高,但我从不关心我伴侣的身高。

Go-0D_Saynik
Hard to say or judged

很难说或判断。

jmxt
In a population of over a billion heads, one will find all sorts of opinions. Statistically, it would likely follow a normal distribution.

在超过十亿的人口中,人们会发现各种各样的意见。统计上,它可能服从正态分布。

frenchbleu
I'm 5'5". I've dated a guy who's same height as me. We had a lot in common and he is super good looking.

我165。我曾经和一个和我一样高的男人约会过。我们有很多共同点,而且他长得超级帅。

exquisiteSun89
Keyword is "super good looking"

关键字是“超级帅”

urge_kiya_hai
Thats rule number 1 & 2 bruh..

噗,帅和高是一而二的问题。

frenchbleu
Yup and had a lot in common too.. so there you go buddy.

是的,他们还有很多共同之处。所以麻溜的,伙计。
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Kourushzad
I never saw any kind of heightism or whatsoever, I'm 5'11, but i have friends who are 5'6-5'7 and they get dates or have girlfriends.

我从来没有见过任何身高歧视之类的,我身高180,但我有身高167-170的朋友,他们也有约会或有女朋友。
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Tess_James
I'd say guys should be at least as tall as me. I'm 5'3".
That said, I'm open to dating guys who are slightly shorter than me as well, provided the vibe or rapport is good.

我觉得男人至少应该和我一样高。我160。
也就是说,我也愿意和比我略矮的男人约会,只要气氛或关系融洽。

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OverallTension1
I'm fairly tall compared to Indian perpestive i come around 175 Cm or 5'9. If the person is good the height basically won't matter. Boys usually get intimidated with my height and don't approach me! Never dated a short guy but my ex was around same height as me, as I live outside India other men i have dated were tall.

与印度人相比,我相当高,大约175厘米或5'9。如果一个人很好,身高基本上就不重要了。男孩们通常会因为我的身高而害怕,不敢接近我!我从来没有和一个矮个男人约会过,但我的前男友和我差不多高,因为我住在印度以外,我约会过的其他男人都很高。

thereisnosuch
There are definitely some girls that care a lot about height. Particularly if men are shorter than them. Those def exist
However there are girls who don't mind. have no idea the ratio.

确实有一些女孩很在意身高。尤其是如果男人比她们矮的话。确实有这种笨蛋。
然而,也有不介意的女孩。不知道比例。

paperrolls
Im 5'1 everyone is taller than me hahaha. And height is not that important to me either way

我154,每个人都比我高哈哈哈。而且身高对我来说也没那么重要。
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serLundry
I am a guy whos 5' 5". It mostly didn't matter. Even dated a girl who was same height as me and always wore heels so effectively always taller than me. But yes I won't say never. it did hinder me a couple of times.
Having said that, I had more success than my taller friends. So height was definitely not high on priority list lol

我是一个165的男人。这一点基本上不重要。甚至和一个和我一样高,总是穿高跟鞋——所以实际上总是比我高——的女孩约会过。但我不会说永远不会。它确实阻碍了我几次。
话虽如此,我比那些高个子朋友更成功。所以身高绝对不是优先考虑的问题,哈哈。

potatomafia69
Hardly matters at all. 5'7 and have been asked out many a times. Although deep down in my mind I had insecurities about my height I never let anyone sense these insecurities I had. The major deal breaker when it comes to dating is insecurities. The more insecure you are the less confident you look. Had to fake my confidence a lot to actually be confident.

这根本不重要。我身高170,被邀请过很多次。虽然在内心深处,我对自己的身高感到不安,但我从不让任何人感觉到我的这种不安。一谈到约会,最大的障碍就是缺乏安全感。你越没有安全感,你看起来就越不自信。我得装出一副很自信的样子。

If you whine about your height, hair, skin tone, weight or whatever it is to a potential date you're ruining your chances with that person. You could be 10/10 in the looks department but if you act like an insecure little bitch no one's going to date you.

如果你对潜在的约会对象抱怨自己的身高、头发、肤色、体重或其他任何东西,你就毁了和他在一起的机会。你的长相可能是10/10,但如果你表现得像个没有安全感的小贱人,没人会和你约会的。
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Ayu0700
I am almost a 6'3", 22yr old guy but never really got compliment about my height except from known ones and family members.. Everyone is like 'Aww your height is just like Amitabh Bachchan' and 'You will have problem finding a girl with your height'.Nothing other than that,let leave alone compliments from girls particularly. So I think that being tall is somewhat a advantage for a guy but not to that extent..

我几乎有190,22岁,但是除了熟人和家人之外,我的身高从来没有得到过别人的赞美。每个人都在说“哇,你的身高真像阿米塔布·巴克强”,并说“你很难找到一个和你这么高的女孩”。再没有别的了,更不要说女孩子的赞美了。所以我认为个子高对男人来说是一种优势,但没有那么大。

11_supreme
5'3 so I don't prefer super tall guys. I'm not picky about heights because it's not something I actively look for. Reasonably attractive with a good personality is the most imp criteria.

160,所以我不喜欢超高的男人。我对身高并不挑剔,因为这不是我想要的。最重要的标准是有吸引力且性格好。

Lordtyr2504
I mean people have preferences , could be height, weight, dressing style , sporty, workout , music , movies and some billion other things. All of these things matter to some , to some I guess none. Put yourself out there, be kind and respectful, show some personality. The bar for men is low, lol

我的意思是人们有偏好,可以是身高,体重,穿衣风格,运动,锻炼,音乐,电影和其他无数的东西。所有这些事情对一些人来说都很重要,对一些人来说,我想并不重要。应该放开自己,表现友善、尊重,展现一些个性。男人的标准很低,哈哈。
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BrokennnGlass
Never faced it i m 5'8 that's above average height in india so that maybe the reason or i just grew around girls who weren't idiots

从来没有遇到过这种问题,我身高172,高于印度的平均身高,这可能是原因,或者说在我成长过程中,周围没有愚蠢的女孩。

ScientificialBot
Most girls that I've met were generous and kind. They didn't act like bitches nor downplay your personality. The harshest they'd do is ignore you/treat you as a stranger. But they surely don't shame me for my average height. I'm 5'7 and most of my friends are 5'9 or taller. I even shorter than a few girls in my friends group but all of us are like-minded and behave neutral regarding these issues. So, that must be your case as well.

我见过的大多数女孩都很慷慨善良。她们没有表现得像个婊子,也没有贬低你的个性。她们会做的最严厉的事就是无视你/把你当陌生人对待。但她们肯定不会因为我的平均身高而羞辱我。我身高170,我的大多数朋友身高176或更高。我甚至比我朋友圈里的一些女孩还矮,但我们都有相同的想法,在这些问题上表现中立。所以,你一定也是这种情况。

mew_UwU_12
As long as he is taller than me it's good (I am 167 cm

只要他比我高,就可以,我167。

Next_Foundation68
I'm 5'3" so i definitely prefer people who are closer to my height because i used to have a crush on the tallest dude in class and the conversation was not fun. Only hurt my heart and neck in the process lmaooo

我160,所以我当然更喜欢和我身高相近的人,因为我曾经迷恋过班上最高的男生,但那场谈话一点也不有趣。只伤到了我的心和脖子。

pripo007
I’m 5’9”, I prefer to date guys taller than me

我164,我更喜欢跟比我高的男生约会。

ihaveaproblemdaily
Or atleast equal

或者至少一般高。

anonman369
Flowers in the mouth, plastic flowers in the mind.
Even you know the reality dude, which is gonna be the case with the majority. Just 'Not all'. So any answer on Reddit wouldn't really be what would be in the mind because it can easily be voted.

嘴里是鲜花,心里是塑料花。
即便你也知道现实,伙计,这是大多数人的情况。只是并不是所有的。所以Reddit上的任何答案都不是我们想的那样,因为它很容易被投票左右。

alphaqu2twice
First rule of asking girls for their opinion, is that what they say they want and what they actually want are almost never the same things.

询问女孩意见的第一原则是,她们说的和她们实际想要的几乎永远不会是一样的。

amanderrated
I don't think these women are lying, but most of the women who'd prefer a taller dude (which is an overwhelming majority) are staying mum for fear of being judged.

我不认为这些女人在撒谎,但大多数喜欢高个男人的女人(这是压倒性的多数)都保持沉默,因为害怕被评判。

Stifmeister11
Look at aamir khan or sachin tendulkar dont worry

看看阿米尔汗或者 沙奇·德鲁卡,别担心。

LampardFanAlways
This is a loaded question with an expected answer like “no we don’t mind”.
Say “mummy kasam, downvote nahi karunga” to get real answers.

这是一个带有预设答案的问题,比如“不,我们不介意”。
说“???”才能得到真正的答案。

ArsenicWolf3374
I'm 6 feet at 14 years old (Male)
i do get a lot of attention
and yet so do my 5"7 friends
height doesnt matter, the person does

我14岁就有192了,男性。
我确实很受关注。
但我170的朋友也一样。
身高不重要,重要的是人。

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danyxoxox
Guys with good high paying job and smartness will get any girl.

有高薪工作和聪明的男人能得到任何女孩。

idozedoffagn
Girls do like tall guys but , if you are a genuinely decent guy I don't think a sane person would not like you just because of your height
I'm 5'8

女孩确实喜欢高个子,但是,如果你是一个真正正派的男人,我想一个理智的人不会因为你的身高而不喜欢你。
我172。

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Sweet_Yam
I'm just 5'4" and had dated a girl who was 4'9" and another who was 5'10". I am not very good looking but I was comfortable in my skin and did well in my studies and also got a good paying job. Truth be told,I had been hit on by 5 or 6 women,if I remember correctly.

我只有162,和一个145以及一个177的女孩约会过。我长得不是很好看,但是我对自己的肤色很自在,学习很好,而且还找到了一份薪水不错的工作。说实话,如果我没记错的话,曾经有五六个女人向我献殷勤。

Don_corleone10
Dude it's either 6' and above or its all the same (for girls on dating apps mostly).
I'm 5'10 and i feel im a bit on the shorter side. Definitely average in height.

哥们,要么182以上,要么都一样(对于约会应用上的大多数女孩而言)。
我身高177,我觉得自己有点矮。绝对是平均身高。

charismaticEVIL
I think I've seen 5.5 guys who have gf. Below that in my experience I haven't seen

我见过165的男人都有女朋友。在我的经验中,还没见过比这还矮的。

0n3moretimeplease
5'3" I think it's just a matter of preference, like tits or ass. I'd go for a shorter guy, given he doesn't have cooties :)

我160,我觉得这只是个人喜好的问题,就像喜欢熊还是屁股一样。我会选矮一点的,因为他没有虱子。

fa7al25
Quite a few girls complain and wish I were taller. But, they were still interested.
Honestly, I want my gf to be shorter than me. I am not insecure, but just my preference. I would still date someone, but it's just not the same. I feel like I am judgemental sometimes. At the same time, I would rather date a sweet tall girl instead of a hot short girl who is a b.

相当多的女孩抱怨说希望我再高一点。但是,她们仍然对我很感兴趣。
老实说,我希望我的女朋友比我矮。我不是没有安全感,只是我的偏好。我还是会跟人约会,只是感觉不一样。我有时觉得自己太爱评判别人了。与此同时,我宁愿和一个甜美的高个女孩约会,而不是一个性感却婊里婊气的矮个女孩约会。

desi_cr33p
Not an 'Indian Girl' but an 'Indian Boy' who's the same height as you. At this height, a lot of women will rule you out as a potential partner. It is what it is. But that shouldn't really matter because you don't need all the women in the country to be attracted to you, you just need a few. I haven't faced issues in dating because of my height, but that's probably because I only dated women I knew IRL. Personality goes a long way IRL. Dating apps would be a whole different ball game.

我不是“印度女孩”,而是一个和你一样高的“印度男孩”。在这个高度,很多女人会把你排除在潜在伴侣之外。就是这样。但这并不重要,因为你并不需要这个国家所有的女人都被你吸引,只需要几个。我没有因为身高而在约会中遇到问题,但这可能是因为我只和我在现实生活中认识的女人约会。个性在现实生活中大有裨益。约会应用则是一个完全不同的游戏。

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