生活中哪些方面明白得太晚（四）
正文翻译
What did you learn too late in life?
生活中哪些方面明白得太晚？
What did you learn too late in life?
生活中哪些方面明白得太晚？
评论翻译
Rishav Singh Chauhan, Self Employed
Rishav Singh Chauhan，个体经营者
Rishav Singh Chauhan，个体经营者
IT’S not late for me , i’m 20 yrs old and it’s never too late until you try but i am glad that i understand on time ..
Grades doesn’t matter.
karma may knock your door anytime.
Money is not everything. Make sure you earn a lot before speaking such nonsense.
There is nothing like best friend forever. It just a myth . only childhood friends and school friends may be real friends.
You are like salt. People will use you according to their taste and need.
If you don’t find a way to make money while you sleep than you will work until you die. (warren buffett)
Never share your weakness and secret even with your shadow .
Reading is important than porn .
If you think money can’t buy happiness than you will regret soon.
Time is more important. Spend your time in reading and writing.
Money matters? IF you don’t have a money than people will kick your ass, but if you have lot of money same people will kiss your ass.
现在对我来说还不算晚，我已经20岁了，在你尝试之前永远都不会太晚，但我很高兴我能及时理解。
成绩不重要。
你可能随时遭遇因果报应。
金钱不是万能的。在你说这些废话之前，确保你赚到很多钱。
没有什么比有个最好的朋友更好的了，这只是一个神话。只有童年的朋友和学校的朋友才可能成为真正的朋友。
你就像盐，人们会根据自己的口味和需要使用你。
如果你找不到在睡觉的时候赚钱的方法，你就会一直工作到死。（沃伦·巴菲特）
永远不要与和你形影不离的人分享你的弱点和秘密。
阅读比看色情内容更重要。
如果你认为金钱买不到幸福，那么你很快就会后悔。
时间更重要，把时间花在阅读和写作上。
金钱很重要，如果你没有钱，人们会踢你的屁股，但如果你有很多钱，人们会亲吻你的屁股。
Grades doesn’t matter.
karma may knock your door anytime.
Money is not everything. Make sure you earn a lot before speaking such nonsense.
There is nothing like best friend forever. It just a myth . only childhood friends and school friends may be real friends.
You are like salt. People will use you according to their taste and need.
If you don’t find a way to make money while you sleep than you will work until you die. (warren buffett)
Never share your weakness and secret even with your shadow .
Reading is important than porn .
If you think money can’t buy happiness than you will regret soon.
Time is more important. Spend your time in reading and writing.
Money matters? IF you don’t have a money than people will kick your ass, but if you have lot of money same people will kiss your ass.
现在对我来说还不算晚，我已经20岁了，在你尝试之前永远都不会太晚，但我很高兴我能及时理解。
成绩不重要。
你可能随时遭遇因果报应。
金钱不是万能的。在你说这些废话之前，确保你赚到很多钱。
没有什么比有个最好的朋友更好的了，这只是一个神话。只有童年的朋友和学校的朋友才可能成为真正的朋友。
你就像盐，人们会根据自己的口味和需要使用你。
如果你找不到在睡觉的时候赚钱的方法，你就会一直工作到死。（沃伦·巴菲特）
永远不要与和你形影不离的人分享你的弱点和秘密。
阅读比看色情内容更重要。
如果你认为金钱买不到幸福，那么你很快就会后悔。
时间更重要，把时间花在阅读和写作上。
金钱很重要，如果你没有钱，人们会踢你的屁股，但如果你有很多钱，人们会亲吻你的屁股。
Thao Thai, DDS. Self-called writer
Nothing matters but yourself
Few weeks ago, I had a chance to work with a senior or, to be more exact, my past teacher but also my current colleague.
In the midst of overloaded work, he revealed a thing which turned out to be the best remedy for my youth’s insecurity.
H: You know, when you’re older, you will understand that nothing, nothing in this world, not your current goal, not your desire, nothing matters that much than yourself
I smiled decently, it had been a while since a acquaintance took the initiative in this kind of topic.
H: … you know, not your husband, not your boyfriend, not your status in life. All you have is your life and being is living.
Think about it. Respect your life. Respect your being. Because there’s nothing in this world that important than your being self.
除了你自己什么都不重要
几周前，我有机会与一位长者共事，或者更确切地说，他是我过去的老师也是我现在的同事。
在超负荷的工作中，他揭露了一件事，结果证明这是解决我年轻时不安全感的最好办法。
H： 你知道，当你长大后，你会明白没有什么，这个世界上没有什么，你当前的目标和你的愿望等，没有什么比你自己更重要
我得体地笑了笑，很久没有一个熟人主动提出这种话题了。
H： 你知道，你所拥有的一切不是你的丈夫，不是你的男朋友，不是你在生活中的地位，你所拥有的一切就是你的生活，存在就是生活。
想想看，尊重你的生命，尊重你的存在。因为这个世界上没有什么比你的自我更重要的了。
Nothing matters but yourself
Few weeks ago, I had a chance to work with a senior or, to be more exact, my past teacher but also my current colleague.
In the midst of overloaded work, he revealed a thing which turned out to be the best remedy for my youth’s insecurity.
H: You know, when you’re older, you will understand that nothing, nothing in this world, not your current goal, not your desire, nothing matters that much than yourself
I smiled decently, it had been a while since a acquaintance took the initiative in this kind of topic.
H: … you know, not your husband, not your boyfriend, not your status in life. All you have is your life and being is living.
Think about it. Respect your life. Respect your being. Because there’s nothing in this world that important than your being self.
除了你自己什么都不重要
几周前，我有机会与一位长者共事，或者更确切地说，他是我过去的老师也是我现在的同事。
在超负荷的工作中，他揭露了一件事，结果证明这是解决我年轻时不安全感的最好办法。
H： 你知道，当你长大后，你会明白没有什么，这个世界上没有什么，你当前的目标和你的愿望等，没有什么比你自己更重要
我得体地笑了笑，很久没有一个熟人主动提出这种话题了。
H： 你知道，你所拥有的一切不是你的丈夫，不是你的男朋友，不是你在生活中的地位，你所拥有的一切就是你的生活，存在就是生活。
想想看，尊重你的生命，尊重你的存在。因为这个世界上没有什么比你的自我更重要的了。
Aarti Murthy, former Freelance Researcher
Aarti Murthy，前自由研究员
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Aarti Murthy，前自由研究员
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Always upgrade yourself.
Never remain stagnant in your comfort zone
Rat race is real like it or hate it
Social media is a colossal waste of time
You can never keep anyone and everyone happy in life
Help others without any ulterior motives
Exercise helps in keeping the body and mind healthy
Negative emotions are the root cause of many illnesses
Practicing gratitude and forgiveness helps in leading a meaningful life
It's easier to live with a diseased body than with a diseased mind
As you grow older, the ability to tolerate fools decreases
Parents and pets will love you unconditionally
Bad experiences are good teachers
Never underestimate the power of Karma
总是提升自己。
永远不要在舒适区停滞不前；
无论你喜不喜欢，激烈的竞争都是真实存在的；
关注社交媒体是对时间的巨大浪费；
你永远无法让任何人和在生活中的每个人都快乐；
帮助别人，不要别有用心
运动有助于保持身心健康
负面情绪是许多疾病的根源
实践感恩和宽恕有助于过上有意义的生活
相比带着病态的思想生活，更容易带着有病的身体去生活。
随着年龄的增长，你对愚人的容忍能力会下降
父母和宠物会无条件地爱你
糟糕的经历是好老师
永远不要低估因果报应的力量
Never remain stagnant in your comfort zone
Rat race is real like it or hate it
Social media is a colossal waste of time
You can never keep anyone and everyone happy in life
Help others without any ulterior motives
Exercise helps in keeping the body and mind healthy
Negative emotions are the root cause of many illnesses
Practicing gratitude and forgiveness helps in leading a meaningful life
It's easier to live with a diseased body than with a diseased mind
As you grow older, the ability to tolerate fools decreases
Parents and pets will love you unconditionally
Bad experiences are good teachers
Never underestimate the power of Karma
总是提升自己。
永远不要在舒适区停滞不前；
无论你喜不喜欢，激烈的竞争都是真实存在的；
关注社交媒体是对时间的巨大浪费；
你永远无法让任何人和在生活中的每个人都快乐；
帮助别人，不要别有用心
运动有助于保持身心健康
负面情绪是许多疾病的根源
实践感恩和宽恕有助于过上有意义的生活
相比带着病态的思想生活，更容易带着有病的身体去生活。
随着年龄的增长，你对愚人的容忍能力会下降
父母和宠物会无条件地爱你
糟糕的经历是好老师
永远不要低估因果报应的力量
Tanjimul Hoque, Youtube Content Creator at YouTube (2015-present)
Tanjimul Hoque, 油管内容创造者(2015年至今)
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Tanjimul Hoque, 油管内容创造者(2015年至今)
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I have learned just three simple things that put me almost in hell.
1. Not to say “No”
2. Trying to be perfect all the time.
3. Trusting everyone
Let me explain a bit , what I gone through for these stupidity–
Not to say “No” :
I don’t remember when I said “No” to anyone or anything last time. So, you may say what’s wrong with it. That’s the point that I want to share. Almost everyone is using me, whether it is workplace or friends or family. I had to do whatever they told me, I almost forget that about my preference. They I missed a lot of opportunity just to do someone’s shitty work but when I asked their support, the real face came to me , they didn’t think twice or a moment to say “ sorry I can’t help you now” . So, now what I really found is, no one ever was my friend or well-wisher they just used me because I let them to do so.
我只学会了三件让我几乎陷入地狱局势的简单事情。
1、不说“不”
2、一直努力做到完美。
3、信任每一个人
让我解释一下，我为这些愚蠢经历了什么——
不要说“不”：
我不记得上次我什么时候对任何人或任何事说了“不”。所以，你可能会说这有什么问题。这就是我想要分享的观点，几乎每个人都在利用我，无论是工作场所、朋友还是家人。我必须照他们说的去做，我几乎忘记了我的偏好。他们让我错过了很多机会，而是去（为他们）做一些糟糕的工作，但当我请求得到他们的支持时，我看到了真正的面孔，他们没有再三想一想，却说“对不起，我现在帮不了你”。所以，现在我真正发现的是，从来没有人是我的朋友或好心人，他们只是利用我，这因为是我让他们这么做。
1. Not to say “No”
2. Trying to be perfect all the time.
3. Trusting everyone
Let me explain a bit , what I gone through for these stupidity–
Not to say “No” :
I don’t remember when I said “No” to anyone or anything last time. So, you may say what’s wrong with it. That’s the point that I want to share. Almost everyone is using me, whether it is workplace or friends or family. I had to do whatever they told me, I almost forget that about my preference. They I missed a lot of opportunity just to do someone’s shitty work but when I asked their support, the real face came to me , they didn’t think twice or a moment to say “ sorry I can’t help you now” . So, now what I really found is, no one ever was my friend or well-wisher they just used me because I let them to do so.
我只学会了三件让我几乎陷入地狱局势的简单事情。
1、不说“不”
2、一直努力做到完美。
3、信任每一个人
让我解释一下，我为这些愚蠢经历了什么——
不要说“不”：
我不记得上次我什么时候对任何人或任何事说了“不”。所以，你可能会说这有什么问题。这就是我想要分享的观点，几乎每个人都在利用我，无论是工作场所、朋友还是家人。我必须照他们说的去做，我几乎忘记了我的偏好。他们让我错过了很多机会，而是去（为他们）做一些糟糕的工作，但当我请求得到他们的支持时，我看到了真正的面孔，他们没有再三想一想，却说“对不起，我现在帮不了你”。所以，现在我真正发现的是，从来没有人是我的朋友或好心人，他们只是利用我，这因为是我让他们这么做。
Trying to be perfect all the time.
This is another major mistake that I badly realizing now. I had too many opportunity but I failed just because I try to be over perfect all the time. Frankly speaking it is nearly impossible to become perfect in all the way and you have to admit it. I ignored the thumb rule and ruined precious opportunity. I took too many times to do or maintain things right. But all the time either I was out of time or lose my strength & energy, motivation or people became board.
Trusting everyone
Trust is the word which can change anything. If you have a deep trust on something, you may get it by hook or by crook. It will give you unbelievable strength or confidence which you never thought before.
But having trust all the time may cause harm, serious harm to you. Once everyone finds it out, your journey toward hell will began instantly. You will be fooled in every way. You will become a part of jokes at their party.
With apology, I want to tell you all these 3 issues made me sick, these may differ with someone’s view. I have overcome these issues and now, I am happy ever.
每时每刻都追求完美。
这是我现在意识到的另一个重大错误。我有太多的机会，但因为我一直试图变得过于完美，导致失败了。坦率地说，要在所有方面都变得完美几乎是不可能的，你必须承认这一点。我忽视了经验法则，浪费了宝贵的机会。我花了太多时间去做或维护工作。但一直以来，要么我没有时间，要么我失去了力量&精力、动力，要么人们成为董事会成员。
信任所有人
信任这个词可以改变一切。如果你对某件事有很深的信任，你可能会不择手段地得到它。它会给你前所未有的力量和信心。
但是，始终保持信任可能会对你造成伤害，而且是严重伤害。一旦每个人都发现了，你的地狱之旅将立即开始。你会在各个方面都被愚弄，你会成为他们聚会上的笑料。
抱歉，我想告诉你这三个让我恼怒的问题，这些可能与某人的观点不同。我已经克服了这些问题，现在，我会一直快乐。
This is another major mistake that I badly realizing now. I had too many opportunity but I failed just because I try to be over perfect all the time. Frankly speaking it is nearly impossible to become perfect in all the way and you have to admit it. I ignored the thumb rule and ruined precious opportunity. I took too many times to do or maintain things right. But all the time either I was out of time or lose my strength & energy, motivation or people became board.
Trusting everyone
Trust is the word which can change anything. If you have a deep trust on something, you may get it by hook or by crook. It will give you unbelievable strength or confidence which you never thought before.
But having trust all the time may cause harm, serious harm to you. Once everyone finds it out, your journey toward hell will began instantly. You will be fooled in every way. You will become a part of jokes at their party.
With apology, I want to tell you all these 3 issues made me sick, these may differ with someone’s view. I have overcome these issues and now, I am happy ever.
每时每刻都追求完美。
这是我现在意识到的另一个重大错误。我有太多的机会，但因为我一直试图变得过于完美，导致失败了。坦率地说，要在所有方面都变得完美几乎是不可能的，你必须承认这一点。我忽视了经验法则，浪费了宝贵的机会。我花了太多时间去做或维护工作。但一直以来，要么我没有时间，要么我失去了力量&精力、动力，要么人们成为董事会成员。
信任所有人
信任这个词可以改变一切。如果你对某件事有很深的信任，你可能会不择手段地得到它。它会给你前所未有的力量和信心。
但是，始终保持信任可能会对你造成伤害，而且是严重伤害。一旦每个人都发现了，你的地狱之旅将立即开始。你会在各个方面都被愚弄，你会成为他们聚会上的笑料。
抱歉，我想告诉你这三个让我恼怒的问题，这些可能与某人的观点不同。我已经克服了这些问题，现在，我会一直快乐。
Chayni Jain, Dreamer since birth
Don’t wait for right time, miracle, karma, the next day or anything. Get up and get shit done, be it anything.
You are a kid who is enjoying his/her new growing up experiences and the next thing that strikes is your parents are growing old too and you gonna lose them one day. And going away from them(study or job) adds more to the grief. Make good memories with them.
Get your priorities and emotions set. The sooner the better.
Self-happiness and inner peace are what you seek at the end of the day. Nothing else matters.
It’s okay to fail, it’s okay you made a terrible mistake, it’s okay you are not what everyone pictures you like, it’s okay to be jealous of your best friend, its okay to cry in public, it’s okay and it will pass. You are what you are, accept your flaws and always try to be better but never feel sorry for yourself.
Have a plan and always be prepared for the worst possible situation.
Whenever feel confused about any decision, make a list of its pros and cons.
For those in school, invest your maximum time and energy for three causes- STUDY, HOBBY, and a SPORT.
Never miss an opportunity of enjoyment just because you are shy or you just had a breakup.
The ‘Block this person’ options on social media are meant to be used. Don’t complain about how so and so a person has troubled you for so and so many days and you couldn’t do anything than suffering.
Just know, Nothing in this World can let your spirit down.
不要等待合适的时间、奇迹和因缘以及等待第二天或其他什么。站起来，把事情做完，不管是什么事
你是一个享受新的成长经历的孩子，接下来发生的事情是你的父母也变老了，总有一天你会失去他们。离开他们（学习或工作）会增加更多的悲伤，和他们一起创造美好的回忆。
确定你的优先事项和情绪，越快越好。
在一天结束的时候，自我快乐和内心平静是你所追求的，没有什么比这个更重要。
失败没关系，你犯了一个可怕的错误没关系，你不是每个人想象中的那样，没关系，嫉妒你最好的朋友没关系，在公共场合哭泣没关系，这一切都会过去的。你就是你，接受你的缺点，永远努力变得更好，但不要为自己感到遗憾。
制定一个计划，并始终为可能出现的最坏情况做好准备。
每当对任何决定感到困惑时，列出其利弊。
对于在校学生来说，把你最大的时间和精力投入到三项事业上——学习、爱好和运动。
永远不要因为害羞或刚刚分手而错过享受的机会。
社交媒体上的“屏蔽此人”选项就是要使用的。不要抱怨某个人如何困扰了你这么多天，而你除了痛苦什么也做不了。
要知道，这个世界上没有什么能让你失望的。
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Don’t wait for right time, miracle, karma, the next day or anything. Get up and get shit done, be it anything.
You are a kid who is enjoying his/her new growing up experiences and the next thing that strikes is your parents are growing old too and you gonna lose them one day. And going away from them(study or job) adds more to the grief. Make good memories with them.
Get your priorities and emotions set. The sooner the better.
Self-happiness and inner peace are what you seek at the end of the day. Nothing else matters.
It’s okay to fail, it’s okay you made a terrible mistake, it’s okay you are not what everyone pictures you like, it’s okay to be jealous of your best friend, its okay to cry in public, it’s okay and it will pass. You are what you are, accept your flaws and always try to be better but never feel sorry for yourself.
Have a plan and always be prepared for the worst possible situation.
Whenever feel confused about any decision, make a list of its pros and cons.
For those in school, invest your maximum time and energy for three causes- STUDY, HOBBY, and a SPORT.
Never miss an opportunity of enjoyment just because you are shy or you just had a breakup.
The ‘Block this person’ options on social media are meant to be used. Don’t complain about how so and so a person has troubled you for so and so many days and you couldn’t do anything than suffering.
Just know, Nothing in this World can let your spirit down.
不要等待合适的时间、奇迹和因缘以及等待第二天或其他什么。站起来，把事情做完，不管是什么事
你是一个享受新的成长经历的孩子，接下来发生的事情是你的父母也变老了，总有一天你会失去他们。离开他们（学习或工作）会增加更多的悲伤，和他们一起创造美好的回忆。
确定你的优先事项和情绪，越快越好。
在一天结束的时候，自我快乐和内心平静是你所追求的，没有什么比这个更重要。
失败没关系，你犯了一个可怕的错误没关系，你不是每个人想象中的那样，没关系，嫉妒你最好的朋友没关系，在公共场合哭泣没关系，这一切都会过去的。你就是你，接受你的缺点，永远努力变得更好，但不要为自己感到遗憾。
制定一个计划，并始终为可能出现的最坏情况做好准备。
每当对任何决定感到困惑时，列出其利弊。
对于在校学生来说，把你最大的时间和精力投入到三项事业上——学习、爱好和运动。
永远不要因为害羞或刚刚分手而错过享受的机会。
社交媒体上的“屏蔽此人”选项就是要使用的。不要抱怨某个人如何困扰了你这么多天，而你除了痛苦什么也做不了。
要知道，这个世界上没有什么能让你失望的。
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Ruhulamin Sande, studied at Bachelor of Engineering in Mechanical Engineering
Ruhulamin Sande，学习机械工程学士学位
Ruhulamin Sande，学习机械工程学士学位
It's never too late in life it's just late beginning and bad experiences are more important than good one they will break your perspective about life and then nothing can surprise you .
Nothing last forever .
People will make promises when it's convenient for them during good times and will definitely leave you during your bad patch .
Bullshit people will find bullshit reasons to justify their bullshit behavior.
You replaceable in ones life , no matter how important you think you are to them .
No one actually hurt you , it's your own mistake of trusting wrong people too much and hoping people will eventually understand you .
No one actually loves you without any expectation except your parents and siblings.
Money doesn't matter in life is bullshit , yes ethics are important but to live upto your ethics you must have sufficient balance .
Love is important in life but more important is self respect .
生活永远不会太迟，只是开始的太晚，糟糕的经历比好的经历更重要，它们会打破你对生活的看法，然后就没有什么能让你惊讶了。
没有什么是永恒的。
在好时候，做出承诺对他们来说很方便，一定会在你糟糕的时候离开你。
扯淡的人会找到扯淡的理由来为他们的扯淡行为辩护。
你在一个人的生活中是可替代的—无论你认为你对他们有多么重要。
没有人真正伤害你，太相信错误的人和希望人们最终会理解你，这些都是你自己的错。
除了你的父母和兄弟姐妹，没有人会毫无期望地爱你。
金钱在生活中是无关紧要的，纯属胡说八道，道德是很重要，但要实现你的道德，你必须有足够的平衡。
爱在生活中很重要，但更重要的是自尊。
Nothing last forever .
People will make promises when it's convenient for them during good times and will definitely leave you during your bad patch .
Bullshit people will find bullshit reasons to justify their bullshit behavior.
You replaceable in ones life , no matter how important you think you are to them .
No one actually hurt you , it's your own mistake of trusting wrong people too much and hoping people will eventually understand you .
No one actually loves you without any expectation except your parents and siblings.
Money doesn't matter in life is bullshit , yes ethics are important but to live upto your ethics you must have sufficient balance .
Love is important in life but more important is self respect .
生活永远不会太迟，只是开始的太晚，糟糕的经历比好的经历更重要，它们会打破你对生活的看法，然后就没有什么能让你惊讶了。
没有什么是永恒的。
在好时候，做出承诺对他们来说很方便，一定会在你糟糕的时候离开你。
扯淡的人会找到扯淡的理由来为他们的扯淡行为辩护。
你在一个人的生活中是可替代的—无论你认为你对他们有多么重要。
没有人真正伤害你，太相信错误的人和希望人们最终会理解你，这些都是你自己的错。
除了你的父母和兄弟姐妹，没有人会毫无期望地爱你。
金钱在生活中是无关紧要的，纯属胡说八道，道德是很重要，但要实现你的道德，你必须有足够的平衡。
爱在生活中很重要，但更重要的是自尊。
Karma is bitch , you can hurt someone ,play with their emotions but time will pay you back with interest .
Instead of fighting the world , fight your inner demons you would make much progress in life .
Dont show your emotions to anyone people will treat it as weakness .
Failure doesn't define you , what define you is ability to never give up it's never late in life always remember this .
因果报应是婊子，你可以伤害别人，玩弄他们的情绪，但时间连本带利还给某人。
与其与世界斗争，不如与内心的恶魔斗争，你会在生活中取得更大的进步。
不要把你的情绪告诉任何人，人们会把它视为软弱。
失败并不能定义你，定义你的是永不放弃的能力，永远记住这一点。
Instead of fighting the world , fight your inner demons you would make much progress in life .
Dont show your emotions to anyone people will treat it as weakness .
Failure doesn't define you , what define you is ability to never give up it's never late in life always remember this .
因果报应是婊子，你可以伤害别人，玩弄他们的情绪，但时间连本带利还给某人。
与其与世界斗争，不如与内心的恶魔斗争，你会在生活中取得更大的进步。
不要把你的情绪告诉任何人，人们会把它视为软弱。
失败并不能定义你，定义你的是永不放弃的能力，永远记住这一点。
Aditya Singh, B.A from University of Delhi
1 . LOVE is slow poison.
2 . LOVE can happen twice.
3 . LOVE is really a serious mental disease.
4 . LOVERS and not LOVE is blind.
5 . Society is a double faced.
6 . Nobody cares for you except you.
7 . Don’t expect anything from anyone.
8 . Learn the art of saying “NO”
9 . Never give up.
10 . Learn till you die .
11 . Be Kind & polite to others.
12 . Everday improve yourself.
13 . Eat Healthy , Be Healthy and have a HEalthy lifestyle.
14 . Your body is your greatest asset.
15 . Self-confidence matters more.
爱情是缓慢的毒药。
爱情可以产生两次。
爱情真的是一种严重的精神疾病。
只有情人而非爱情是盲目的。
社会是一个两面派。
除了你，没有人关心你。
不要对任何人有任何期望。
学习说“不”的艺术
永远不要放弃。
学到老。
善待他人，礼貌待人。
每天提高自己。
健康饮食，保持健康，拥有健康的生活方式。
你的身体是你最大的财富。
自信更重要。
1 . LOVE is slow poison.
2 . LOVE can happen twice.
3 . LOVE is really a serious mental disease.
4 . LOVERS and not LOVE is blind.
5 . Society is a double faced.
6 . Nobody cares for you except you.
7 . Don’t expect anything from anyone.
8 . Learn the art of saying “NO”
9 . Never give up.
10 . Learn till you die .
11 . Be Kind & polite to others.
12 . Everday improve yourself.
13 . Eat Healthy , Be Healthy and have a HEalthy lifestyle.
14 . Your body is your greatest asset.
15 . Self-confidence matters more.
爱情是缓慢的毒药。
爱情可以产生两次。
爱情真的是一种严重的精神疾病。
只有情人而非爱情是盲目的。
社会是一个两面派。
除了你，没有人关心你。
不要对任何人有任何期望。
学习说“不”的艺术
永远不要放弃。
学到老。
善待他人，礼貌待人。
每天提高自己。
健康饮食，保持健康，拥有健康的生活方式。
你的身体是你最大的财富。
自信更重要。
Tiwasha Ware, Sailing through the sea of life, one step at a time :)
Tiwasha Ware, 在人生的大海中航行，一步一个脚印
Tiwasha Ware, 在人生的大海中航行，一步一个脚印
I will be a learner till I die. We all will be.
But I wish I learnt somethings earlier.
I wish I learnt is as an advice rather than as a lesson.
Do not try to change others
Every human being is unique. Even identical twins don't have the same choices thoughts about everything. Individuality is what makes us human! You don't want to be a blind follower like sheeps. So just do not try to change others. The change we are talking here is changing of core values beliefs. Not outer minute change. If you try to do so, you will just ruin the relationship. You have to learn to be accepting. Tolerating. Still if you just aren't able to cope with the differences it's better to leave that relationship. A person who loves you a lot many change for you. But I feel it's just not the right thing to do.
我会一直学习到老，我们都会的。
但我希望我能早点学到一些东西。
我希望我学到的是一个忠告，而不是一个教训。
不要试图改变别人
每个人都是独一无二的。即使是同卵双胞胎也不会对所有事情都有相同的选择和想法。个性使我们成为人类!你不想像羊群一样盲目跟从。所以不要试图改变别人。我们在这里谈论的变化是核心价值观信念的变化，不是外在的微小变化。如果你试图这样做，你只会破坏你们的关系。你必须学会接受和容忍。不过，如果你无法处理这些差异，最好还是退出这段关系。一个足够爱你的人会为你改变很多，但我觉得这样做是不对的。
Mari Macmr, INTP Mensch with a passion for 烏龍茶
But I wish I learnt somethings earlier.
I wish I learnt is as an advice rather than as a lesson.
Do not try to change others
Every human being is unique. Even identical twins don't have the same choices thoughts about everything. Individuality is what makes us human! You don't want to be a blind follower like sheeps. So just do not try to change others. The change we are talking here is changing of core values beliefs. Not outer minute change. If you try to do so, you will just ruin the relationship. You have to learn to be accepting. Tolerating. Still if you just aren't able to cope with the differences it's better to leave that relationship. A person who loves you a lot many change for you. But I feel it's just not the right thing to do.
我会一直学习到老，我们都会的。
但我希望我能早点学到一些东西。
我希望我学到的是一个忠告，而不是一个教训。
不要试图改变别人
每个人都是独一无二的。即使是同卵双胞胎也不会对所有事情都有相同的选择和想法。个性使我们成为人类!你不想像羊群一样盲目跟从。所以不要试图改变别人。我们在这里谈论的变化是核心价值观信念的变化，不是外在的微小变化。如果你试图这样做，你只会破坏你们的关系。你必须学会接受和容忍。不过，如果你无法处理这些差异，最好还是退出这段关系。一个足够爱你的人会为你改变很多，但我觉得这样做是不对的。
Mari Macmr, INTP Mensch with a passion for 烏龍茶
1) there′s a difference between being busy and being productive
2) family is part of who you are, you shape it as well
3) meetings are a waste of time , 88% is mostly ego posture, 10 % excuses and 2% delaying solutions
4) most people unconsciously deceive themselves and others
5) emotions crush or elevate businesses
6) everybody wants money, one way or other
7) people wrap their core money issues in all kinds of beliefs
8) never underestimate the meanness of people for the most stupid reasons
9) ignoring your gut instincts is one step to hell, no matter how much you analyze the situation later on. Sometimes the only logic is gut logic
忙碌和富有成效是有区别的
家庭是你的一部分，也是你塑造的
开会是浪费时间，88%的人主要是展现自我姿态，10%的人是借口，2%的人是拖延解决方案
大多数人无意识地欺骗自己和他人
情绪会摧毁或提升企业
不管怎样，每个人都想要钱
人们用各种各样的信念来包装他们的核心金钱问题
永远不要因为最愚蠢的原因低估人们的卑鄙
不管你以后如何分析情况，一旦忽视直觉，离地狱就近了一步，有时候唯一的逻辑就是直觉。
2) family is part of who you are, you shape it as well
3) meetings are a waste of time , 88% is mostly ego posture, 10 % excuses and 2% delaying solutions
4) most people unconsciously deceive themselves and others
5) emotions crush or elevate businesses
6) everybody wants money, one way or other
7) people wrap their core money issues in all kinds of beliefs
8) never underestimate the meanness of people for the most stupid reasons
9) ignoring your gut instincts is one step to hell, no matter how much you analyze the situation later on. Sometimes the only logic is gut logic
忙碌和富有成效是有区别的
家庭是你的一部分，也是你塑造的
开会是浪费时间，88%的人主要是展现自我姿态，10%的人是借口，2%的人是拖延解决方案
大多数人无意识地欺骗自己和他人
情绪会摧毁或提升企业
不管怎样，每个人都想要钱
人们用各种各样的信念来包装他们的核心金钱问题
永远不要因为最愚蠢的原因低估人们的卑鄙
不管你以后如何分析情况，一旦忽视直觉，离地狱就近了一步，有时候唯一的逻辑就是直觉。
10) not talking
11) to really listen is a treasure
12) don′t waste your time arguing over someone′s phoniness. You will end up being perceived as a weirdo.
13) even your closest friends never fully listen and that′s absolutely okay
14) Running is the most effective way to stay healthy. So is meditating.
15) if you don′t like groups or cliques, you don′t have to explain it to anyone
16) there′s no analytical approach to small talk, you think the chit-chat is over that′s when the other person suddenly warms up and there′s no escape
17) many business are one step away from being scammers
18) a title is just a pairing of letters
19) to evolve you have to leave your comfort zone
20) sadly, having morals is often more of a hindrance
21) ask questions
22) showing emotions can be helpful
23) asking for help is okay
24) there`s a difference between funtioning and living
25) never take anything for granted
26) take care of your health
27) the key to personal richness is education
28) thank your parents
不要一直说话
会倾听是一种财富
不要浪费时间为某人的虚伪而争论。你最终会被视为怪人。
即使是你最亲密的朋友也不会完全倾听，这绝对没关系
跑步是保持健康最有效的方法，冥想也是如此。
如果你不喜欢聚合或派系，你不必向任何人解释。
闲聊没有分析性的方法，你认为闲聊结束了，这时对方突然变得热情起来，无法逃避。
许多企业离成为骗子只有一步之遥
标题只是组合在一起的字母
要进化，你必须离开你的舒适区
可悲的是，拥有道德往往是一个更大的障碍
提问
表达情感会有帮助
寻求帮助是可以的
娱乐和生活是有区别的
不要想当然
照顾好你的健康
个人富裕的关键是教育
感谢你的父母
11) to really listen is a treasure
12) don′t waste your time arguing over someone′s phoniness. You will end up being perceived as a weirdo.
13) even your closest friends never fully listen and that′s absolutely okay
14) Running is the most effective way to stay healthy. So is meditating.
15) if you don′t like groups or cliques, you don′t have to explain it to anyone
16) there′s no analytical approach to small talk, you think the chit-chat is over that′s when the other person suddenly warms up and there′s no escape
17) many business are one step away from being scammers
18) a title is just a pairing of letters
19) to evolve you have to leave your comfort zone
20) sadly, having morals is often more of a hindrance
21) ask questions
22) showing emotions can be helpful
23) asking for help is okay
24) there`s a difference between funtioning and living
25) never take anything for granted
26) take care of your health
27) the key to personal richness is education
28) thank your parents
不要一直说话
会倾听是一种财富
不要浪费时间为某人的虚伪而争论。你最终会被视为怪人。
即使是你最亲密的朋友也不会完全倾听，这绝对没关系
跑步是保持健康最有效的方法，冥想也是如此。
如果你不喜欢聚合或派系，你不必向任何人解释。
闲聊没有分析性的方法，你认为闲聊结束了，这时对方突然变得热情起来，无法逃避。
许多企业离成为骗子只有一步之遥
标题只是组合在一起的字母
要进化，你必须离开你的舒适区
可悲的是，拥有道德往往是一个更大的障碍
提问
表达情感会有帮助
寻求帮助是可以的
娱乐和生活是有区别的
不要想当然
照顾好你的健康
个人富裕的关键是教育
感谢你的父母
Swamini Upadhyay, Economic honours Studying & I Love Reading Books, Gurur Ghasidas Vishwavidyalaya (2020)
Life is a continuous learning experience . Through out our life we keep rising and falling and we learn so many things along the way. Although I'm not very much experience yet I have learned some of the important lesson .
You don't have to win every argument stay true to yourself .
It's never too late to be happy .But it's all up to you and no one else do.
Don't try to change others learn to accept them the way they are, it's really hard to change some one.
Don't take your self so seriously . keep it simple.
Be good in real life not in social media just to show other .
Curb your expectations - As long as you put high expectations on another person you are bound to be disappointed.
Don't let fear of embarrassment stop you from being your self.
生活是一种不断学习的经历。在我们的一生中，我们不断地起起落落，一路上我们学到了很多东西。虽然我没有多少经验，但我已经学到了一些重要的教训。
你不必赢得每一场辩论，要忠于自己。
快乐永远不嫌晚。但这一切都取决于你，而不是其他人。
不要试图改变别人，学会接受他们的现状，改变别人真的很难。
不要把自己看得太重，保持简单。
要在现实生活中表现出色，而不是在社交媒体上表现出色。
抑制你的期望——只要你对另一个人抱有很高的期望，你一定会失望的。
不要让对尴尬的恐惧阻止你做你自己。
Life is a continuous learning experience . Through out our life we keep rising and falling and we learn so many things along the way. Although I'm not very much experience yet I have learned some of the important lesson .
You don't have to win every argument stay true to yourself .
It's never too late to be happy .But it's all up to you and no one else do.
Don't try to change others learn to accept them the way they are, it's really hard to change some one.
Don't take your self so seriously . keep it simple.
Be good in real life not in social media just to show other .
Curb your expectations - As long as you put high expectations on another person you are bound to be disappointed.
Don't let fear of embarrassment stop you from being your self.
生活是一种不断学习的经历。在我们的一生中，我们不断地起起落落，一路上我们学到了很多东西。虽然我没有多少经验，但我已经学到了一些重要的教训。
你不必赢得每一场辩论，要忠于自己。
快乐永远不嫌晚。但这一切都取决于你，而不是其他人。
不要试图改变别人，学会接受他们的现状，改变别人真的很难。
不要把自己看得太重，保持简单。
要在现实生活中表现出色，而不是在社交媒体上表现出色。
抑制你的期望——只要你对另一个人抱有很高的期望，你一定会失望的。
不要让对尴尬的恐惧阻止你做你自己。
Get rid of anything that isn't useful.
Forgive but don't forget what it taught you.
Learn to express yourself .cry with someone .it's more healing then crying alone.
Don't be afraid to ask for help
Treat your self with love and respect. Self love is the most important thing in the world.
Learn to put your ego in check . control your anger .
Envy is a waste of time . Accept what you already have
Family matters the most.
Sacrifice you make now for your betterment will pay off in future.
Hope it will help you ..
扔掉任何无用的东西。
原谅，但不要忘记它教会了你什么。
学会表达自己。和某人一起哭。这比独自哭泣更能治愈创伤。
不要害怕寻求帮助
用爱和尊重对待自己。自爱是世界上最重要的事情。
学会克制自己。控制你的愤怒。
嫉妒是浪费时间。接受你已经拥有的。
家庭是最重要的。
你现在为自己的进步所做的牺牲将来会有回报的。
希望它能帮助你。
Forgive but don't forget what it taught you.
Learn to express yourself .cry with someone .it's more healing then crying alone.
Don't be afraid to ask for help
Treat your self with love and respect. Self love is the most important thing in the world.
Learn to put your ego in check . control your anger .
Envy is a waste of time . Accept what you already have
Family matters the most.
Sacrifice you make now for your betterment will pay off in future.
Hope it will help you ..
扔掉任何无用的东西。
原谅，但不要忘记它教会了你什么。
学会表达自己。和某人一起哭。这比独自哭泣更能治愈创伤。
不要害怕寻求帮助
用爱和尊重对待自己。自爱是世界上最重要的事情。
学会克制自己。控制你的愤怒。
嫉妒是浪费时间。接受你已经拥有的。
家庭是最重要的。
你现在为自己的进步所做的牺牲将来会有回报的。
希望它能帮助你。
Rahul D Souza, Life lessons
That it’s never too late to learn something in life.
Cribbing about what you cannot do is harder than putting your mind to it and doing it. You are successful sometimes at the first attempt but mostly it’s many attempts and many failures. Success is usually the culmination on several failures.
Everyone will motivate you but everyone may not want you to do better than them. They give you the ladder and when you are halfway there they will pull you down.
Life will give you a 100 reasons to quit. You need to find that one reason to start again. Trust me that one reason is the hardest but it’s a lot easier than regretting it a few years later. Stand up and fight !
Sex, relationships, marriage, success; everything comes in its own time. Rushing into it isn’t going to help.
Invest more in yourself than anybody else. Finding the success you lost through somebody else is sweet, but getting there yourself is sweet too.
You may have many best friends, but when shit is in the air, all you have is yourself and your hand over your head as a roof. Being dependent on yourself in most cases is the best thing to do because that way you are atleast sure that you won’t get betrayed.
在生活中学习永远不会太晚。
剽窃你不能做的事情比用心去做更难。你有时在第一次尝试时就成功了，但大多数情况下都是经历多次尝试和多次失败。成功通常是几次失败的结果。
每个人都会激励你，但每个人可能都不希望你做得比他们好。他们给你梯子，当你走到一半时，他们会把你拉下来。
生活会给你100个理由让你放弃。你需要找到一个重新开始的理由。相信我，有一个原因是最难的，但这比几年后后悔要容易得多，站起来战斗！
性、关系、婚姻、成功；每件事都有它自己的时间。仓促行事是没有用的。
对自己的投资要多于对别人的投资。通过别人找回失去的成功是甜蜜的，但自己获得成功也是甜蜜的。
你可能有很多最好的朋友，但当大便弥漫在空气中时，你所拥有的只是你自己和你头顶上的手。在大多数情况下，依靠自己是最好的选择，因为这样你至少可以确信自己不会被背叛。
That it’s never too late to learn something in life.
Cribbing about what you cannot do is harder than putting your mind to it and doing it. You are successful sometimes at the first attempt but mostly it’s many attempts and many failures. Success is usually the culmination on several failures.
Everyone will motivate you but everyone may not want you to do better than them. They give you the ladder and when you are halfway there they will pull you down.
Life will give you a 100 reasons to quit. You need to find that one reason to start again. Trust me that one reason is the hardest but it’s a lot easier than regretting it a few years later. Stand up and fight !
Sex, relationships, marriage, success; everything comes in its own time. Rushing into it isn’t going to help.
Invest more in yourself than anybody else. Finding the success you lost through somebody else is sweet, but getting there yourself is sweet too.
You may have many best friends, but when shit is in the air, all you have is yourself and your hand over your head as a roof. Being dependent on yourself in most cases is the best thing to do because that way you are atleast sure that you won’t get betrayed.
在生活中学习永远不会太晚。
剽窃你不能做的事情比用心去做更难。你有时在第一次尝试时就成功了，但大多数情况下都是经历多次尝试和多次失败。成功通常是几次失败的结果。
每个人都会激励你，但每个人可能都不希望你做得比他们好。他们给你梯子，当你走到一半时，他们会把你拉下来。
生活会给你100个理由让你放弃。你需要找到一个重新开始的理由。相信我，有一个原因是最难的，但这比几年后后悔要容易得多，站起来战斗！
性、关系、婚姻、成功；每件事都有它自己的时间。仓促行事是没有用的。
对自己的投资要多于对别人的投资。通过别人找回失去的成功是甜蜜的，但自己获得成功也是甜蜜的。
你可能有很多最好的朋友，但当大便弥漫在空气中时，你所拥有的只是你自己和你头顶上的手。在大多数情况下，依靠自己是最好的选择，因为这样你至少可以确信自己不会被背叛。
CM Lim, Epidemiologist, likes science and art.
I should have eaten all those ice-creams when I was a kid, instead of saving the money.
The pocket money I saved was such small amount, and inflation ate them all up anyway. And as I become older, my metabolic rate drops and I can’t eat much ice-cream anymore without putting on weight.
But then if I look at it from another perspective: I had manage my finances responsibly since the day I started work, lived below my means, and had the freedom of choosing to be an unemployed bum for an entire year… all these might have developed from those days when I learned to eat less ice cream and saved money.
I also learned the effect of inflation early, in my teens looking at my childhood savings half evaporated.
Still wish I had eaten those ice-creams though.
当我还是个孩子的时候，我应该吃掉所有的冰淇淋，而不是存钱。
我存的零用钱是如此之少，通货膨胀把它们都弄没了。随着年龄的增长，我的新陈代谢率下降，如果不增加体重，我就不能再吃很多冰淇淋了。
但如果从另一个角度来看：从我开始工作的那一天起，我就负责任地管理我的财务，过着低于我的收入的生活，还有选择当一整年的无业游民的自由，这一切都可能是从我学会少吃冰淇淋和省钱的那些日子开始的。
我还很早就知道了通货膨胀的影响，在我十几岁的时候，看着我童年的积蓄蒸发了一半。
但我还是希望将那些钱买成冰淇淋。
I should have eaten all those ice-creams when I was a kid, instead of saving the money.
The pocket money I saved was such small amount, and inflation ate them all up anyway. And as I become older, my metabolic rate drops and I can’t eat much ice-cream anymore without putting on weight.
But then if I look at it from another perspective: I had manage my finances responsibly since the day I started work, lived below my means, and had the freedom of choosing to be an unemployed bum for an entire year… all these might have developed from those days when I learned to eat less ice cream and saved money.
I also learned the effect of inflation early, in my teens looking at my childhood savings half evaporated.
Still wish I had eaten those ice-creams though.
当我还是个孩子的时候，我应该吃掉所有的冰淇淋，而不是存钱。
我存的零用钱是如此之少，通货膨胀把它们都弄没了。随着年龄的增长，我的新陈代谢率下降，如果不增加体重，我就不能再吃很多冰淇淋了。
但如果从另一个角度来看：从我开始工作的那一天起，我就负责任地管理我的财务，过着低于我的收入的生活，还有选择当一整年的无业游民的自由，这一切都可能是从我学会少吃冰淇淋和省钱的那些日子开始的。
我还很早就知道了通货膨胀的影响，在我十几岁的时候，看着我童年的积蓄蒸发了一半。
但我还是希望将那些钱买成冰淇淋。
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