QA问答：关于成年生活，有什么是谁都不会告诉你的？
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What is it that nobody tells you about adult life?
关于成年生活，有什么是谁都不会告诉你的？
关于成年生活，有什么是谁都不会告诉你的？
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Dushka Zapata
Being an adult is glorious. You have a car and a credit card and the one who gives you permission is you.
Sex gets better. If you think it’s fun in your twenties, just wait and see what’s in store for you.
Everyone will judge you, but nobody cares. Think about that the next time you let what others think determine what you decide to do.
Love does not conquer all. It’s actually quite fragile.
There are many many battles you cannot win with optimism or “the right attitude.”
Sometimes you won’t be happy. Sometimes everything will suck.
There is no such thing as your soulmate or your other half. Stop looking for something that doesn’t exist.
成年是光荣的。你有一辆车和一张信用卡，你自己给自己做主。
性变得更好。如果你觉得二十几岁的时候很有趣，那就等着看看会有什么。
每个人都会评判你，但没人在乎。下次你让别人的想法决定你决定做什么时，请考虑一下。
爱并不能征服一切。它实际上很脆弱。
有很多战斗是你乐观或“正确的态度”无法赢得的。
有时你会不高兴。有时一切都会很糟糕。
没有你的灵魂伴侣或你的另一半。停止寻找不存在的东西。
Mukul Royy
The internet isn’t the best place to find your wife . Many men make this mistake & later regret it ,
You can’t impact anything of significance in this world if you’re broke ,
Don’t overcompensate for silence by talking too much. It’s a mark of a man who’s insecure ,
If you’re not ready to handle a woman, it doesn’t matter how much she loves you . Your sissy nature will suffocate her love & she’ll leave you ,
Sometimes you don’t like knowing things all the time . Being self-aware is exhausting ,
Learn to control every part of yourself that you can. The more control you’ve , the more powerful you become ,
Don’t get confused between the internet & the real world . There’re no community guidelines in the real world ,
It’s more important to make your children proud than your parents proud .The responsibility of each generation is not to please their predecessors. It’s to improve things for their offspring,
A very large number of individuals keep failing in life because they’re not brave enough to accept that they’re not good at something which they must improve ,
Just Chill.!!
1、互联网不是找到你妻子的最佳场所。许多人犯了这个错误，后来后悔了。
2、如果你破产了，你就无法影响这个世界上任何有意义的事情。
3、不要说太多来补偿沉默。这是一个缺乏安全感的男人的标志。
4、如果你还没有准备好应对一个女人，她有多爱你并不重要。你懦弱的天性会窒息她的爱，她会离开你。
5、有时候你不喜欢一直知道事情。自我意识是令人疲惫的。
6、学会尽可能控制自己的每一部分。你控制得越多，你就越强大，
7、不要混淆互联网和现实世界。现实世界中没有社区指南。
8、让孩子骄傲比让父母骄傲更重要。每一代人的责任不是取悦他们的前任。这是为了改善他们的后代。
9、很多人在生活中不断失败，因为他们没有足够的勇气去接受自己有不擅长的事情。
10、放轻松！！
Tavit Nisanyan
It never really comes.
For your entire childhood, you wait. One day, you will be an adult, right?
You see the first strand of hair appear on the corner of your mouth. Maybe I am growing up?
Nothing feels different. You keep waiting for that change.
Years pass.
16, 17, 18.
它从未真正到来。
你整个童年都在等待。总有一天，你会成为一个成年人，对吧？
你看到第一缕头发出现在你的嘴角。也许我正在长大？
没有什么不同感觉。你一直在等待改变。
几年过去了。
It never really comes.
For your entire childhood, you wait. One day, you will be an adult, right?
You see the first strand of hair appear on the corner of your mouth. Maybe I am growing up?
Nothing feels different. You keep waiting for that change.
Years pass.
16, 17, 18.
它从未真正到来。
你整个童年都在等待。总有一天，你会成为一个成年人，对吧？
你看到第一缕头发出现在你的嘴角。也许我正在长大？
没有什么不同感觉。你一直在等待改变。
几年过去了。
16, 17, 18.
So long, high school. And so you move out. This is the first time you left home.
So long, university. Now you need a job. You never really wanted to be an accountant, but hey, you have to make the ends meet.
You make your first real bit of money.
You don’t go home that often anymore.
And then suddenly, there is three of you. Maybe four, maybe five. You are a father now.
And still, you are a child. Life changes, but you, you still find comfort in your mother’s voice.
But she’s gone now. And you are still here.
In fact, you just came back from school.
This time, no one’s making pudding.
再见，高中。现在你搬出去了。这是你第一次离开家。
再见，大学。现在你需要一份工作。你从来都不想成为一名会计师，但嘿，你必须收支平衡。
你赚到了第一笔真正的钱。
你不再那么经常回家了。
然后突然，有三个人。也许四个，也许五个。你现在是个父亲了。
尽管如此，你还是个孩子。生活发生了变化，但你仍然能从母亲的声音中找到安慰。
但她现在走了。你还在这里。
事实上，你刚从学校回来。
这一次，没有人在做布丁。
So long, high school. And so you move out. This is the first time you left home.
So long, university. Now you need a job. You never really wanted to be an accountant, but hey, you have to make the ends meet.
You make your first real bit of money.
You don’t go home that often anymore.
And then suddenly, there is three of you. Maybe four, maybe five. You are a father now.
And still, you are a child. Life changes, but you, you still find comfort in your mother’s voice.
But she’s gone now. And you are still here.
In fact, you just came back from school.
This time, no one’s making pudding.
再见，高中。现在你搬出去了。这是你第一次离开家。
再见，大学。现在你需要一份工作。你从来都不想成为一名会计师，但嘿，你必须收支平衡。
你赚到了第一笔真正的钱。
你不再那么经常回家了。
然后突然，有三个人。也许四个，也许五个。你现在是个父亲了。
尽管如此，你还是个孩子。生活发生了变化，但你仍然能从母亲的声音中找到安慰。
但她现在走了。你还在这里。
事实上，你刚从学校回来。
这一次，没有人在做布丁。
Dushka Zapata
Being an adult is glorious. You have a car and a credit card and the one who gives you permission is you.
Sex gets better. If you think it’s fun in your twenties, just wait and see what’s in store for you.
Everyone will judge you, but nobody cares. Think about that the next time you let what others think determine what you decide to do.
Love does not conquer all. It’s actually quite fragile.
There are many many battles you cannot win with optimism or “the right attitude.”
Sometimes you won’t be happy. Sometimes everything will suck.
There is no such thing as your soulmate or your other half. Stop looking for something that doesn’t exist.
成年是光荣的。你有一辆车和一张信用卡，你自己给自己做主。
性变得更好。如果你觉得二十几岁的时候很有趣，那就等着看看会有什么。
每个人都会评判你，但没人在乎。下次你让别人的想法决定你决定做什么时，请考虑一下。
爱并不能征服一切。它实际上很脆弱。
有很多战斗是你乐观或“正确的态度”无法赢得的。
有时你会不高兴。有时一切都会很糟糕。
没有你的灵魂伴侣或你的另一半。停止寻找不存在的东西。
The more comfortable you are alone, the better your relationships.
The more open you are, the less vulnerable.
Feelings are fickle.
Thoughts are just thoughts.
Your perception is not reality.
Your opinion is not a fact.
Your expectations will sink your relationships. They will sink you.
You will have less of whatever you chase.
Waiting is a form of inaction. Don’t confuse it with a virtue.
Action begets motivation - not the other way around.
你自己活得越舒服，你的人际关系就越好。
你越开放，就越不脆弱。
感情变化无常。
思想就是思想。
你的感知不是现实。
你的意见不是事实。
你的期望会破坏你的关系。他们会把你弄沉的。
你得到的会比你追逐的少一些。
等待是一种不作为。不要把它与美德混为一谈。
行动产生动力，而不是相反。
The more open you are, the less vulnerable.
Feelings are fickle.
Thoughts are just thoughts.
Your perception is not reality.
Your opinion is not a fact.
Your expectations will sink your relationships. They will sink you.
You will have less of whatever you chase.
Waiting is a form of inaction. Don’t confuse it with a virtue.
Action begets motivation - not the other way around.
你自己活得越舒服，你的人际关系就越好。
你越开放，就越不脆弱。
感情变化无常。
思想就是思想。
你的感知不是现实。
你的意见不是事实。
你的期望会破坏你的关系。他们会把你弄沉的。
你得到的会比你追逐的少一些。
等待是一种不作为。不要把它与美德混为一谈。
行动产生动力，而不是相反。
Disappointment is an inside job. So is happiness.
Blame is a decoy. You do things to yourself.
You will betray yourself.
A white lie is a lie.
Your purpose is not something you find.
The time when you have it all figured out does not exist.
The point when you become an adult does not exist.
Everything changes.
Nothing is yours to keep.
You are going to die. So is everyone you love.
The meaning of life is up to you.
失望是一种内在的工作。幸福也是如此。
责备是一个诱饵。你对自己施加显著影响。
你会背叛自己的。
善意的谎言就是谎言。
你的目的不是你发现的。
你弄清楚一切的时候并不存在。
当你成为成年人的那一刻并不存在。
一切都变了。
没有什么是你可以保留的。
你会死的。你爱的每一个人也是如此。
生命的意义取决于你。
Blame is a decoy. You do things to yourself.
You will betray yourself.
A white lie is a lie.
Your purpose is not something you find.
The time when you have it all figured out does not exist.
The point when you become an adult does not exist.
Everything changes.
Nothing is yours to keep.
You are going to die. So is everyone you love.
The meaning of life is up to you.
失望是一种内在的工作。幸福也是如此。
责备是一个诱饵。你对自己施加显著影响。
你会背叛自己的。
善意的谎言就是谎言。
你的目的不是你发现的。
你弄清楚一切的时候并不存在。
当你成为成年人的那一刻并不存在。
一切都变了。
没有什么是你可以保留的。
你会死的。你爱的每一个人也是如此。
生命的意义取决于你。
Adarsh Gupta
Back in my teenage years, I was a completely different guy.
Imagine a guy with zero attitude, zero ego, zero arrogance, completely down to earth, always loving and helpful to others.
Yes. That was me. Dream guy na? Nope.
I proposed a girl. She rejected. I proposed another. She too rejected.
In a span of 3 years, I proposed somewhat 7–8 girls. All of them rejected me.
Reason they gave: You're good but I don't like you.
Actual reason: You're only good to be used.
Also, a lot of my friends betrayed me. I won't go into the details for now. And due to all this, I also faced an academic failure.
Overall, I was dejected and depressed for weeks.
But I vowed to change myself completely. I was dedicated enough to improve my looks, my confidence and my personality.
And I guckinf did it in a year. And now, here I'm.
Imagine a guy with a blend of attitude and arrogance, down to earth and humble only to those who deserve, a selfish who helps himself before helping others, and with a humorous and charming personality.
在我十几岁的时候，我是一个完全不同的人。
想象一下，一个没有态度、没有自我、不自大、完全脚踏实地、总是爱别人、乐于助人的人。
对那是我，理想中的人？不。
我向一个女孩求婚了。她拒绝了。我和另一个提议。她也拒绝了。
在3年的时间里，我约了7-8个女孩。他们都拒绝了我。
他们给出的理由是：你很好，但我不喜欢你。
实际原因：你只适合被利用。
还有，我的很多朋友背叛了我。我现在不想再细说了。由于这一切，我也面临着学业上的失败。
总的来说，我沮丧了好几个星期。
但我发誓要彻底改变自己。我致力于改善自己的容貌、自信和个性。
我在一年内做了这件事。现在，我在这里。
想象一下，一个既有态度又傲慢的人，脚踏实地，只对值得尊敬的人谦虚，一个在帮助他人之前先帮助自己的自私的人，性格幽默且迷人。
Back in my teenage years, I was a completely different guy.
Imagine a guy with zero attitude, zero ego, zero arrogance, completely down to earth, always loving and helpful to others.
Yes. That was me. Dream guy na? Nope.
I proposed a girl. She rejected. I proposed another. She too rejected.
In a span of 3 years, I proposed somewhat 7–8 girls. All of them rejected me.
Reason they gave: You're good but I don't like you.
Actual reason: You're only good to be used.
Also, a lot of my friends betrayed me. I won't go into the details for now. And due to all this, I also faced an academic failure.
Overall, I was dejected and depressed for weeks.
But I vowed to change myself completely. I was dedicated enough to improve my looks, my confidence and my personality.
And I guckinf did it in a year. And now, here I'm.
Imagine a guy with a blend of attitude and arrogance, down to earth and humble only to those who deserve, a selfish who helps himself before helping others, and with a humorous and charming personality.
在我十几岁的时候，我是一个完全不同的人。
想象一下，一个没有态度、没有自我、不自大、完全脚踏实地、总是爱别人、乐于助人的人。
对那是我，理想中的人？不。
我向一个女孩求婚了。她拒绝了。我和另一个提议。她也拒绝了。
在3年的时间里，我约了7-8个女孩。他们都拒绝了我。
他们给出的理由是：你很好，但我不喜欢你。
实际原因：你只适合被利用。
还有，我的很多朋友背叛了我。我现在不想再细说了。由于这一切，我也面临着学业上的失败。
总的来说，我沮丧了好几个星期。
但我发誓要彻底改变自己。我致力于改善自己的容貌、自信和个性。
我在一年内做了这件事。现在，我在这里。
想象一下，一个既有态度又傲慢的人，脚踏实地，只对值得尊敬的人谦虚，一个在帮助他人之前先帮助自己的自私的人，性格幽默且迷人。
That's me now.
Not so good a guy, right? Who cares!
But the irony is, people like me now.
Not only on Quora, but in real life too. They like me.
But do I wanted to be like this? No.
Then why did I change?
Because the outside world demands it. Everyone will tell you that they like people with zero attitude, arrogance, and blah blah kinda things.
But in reality, they don't even care to notice them. They are treated nicely only when someone want something from them.
Be a nice guy and you will be used, demotivated and rejected every guckinf time.
But once you change yourself and make yourself somewhat worthy, people will start noticing you and consider you as an ideal person even if you don't have the aforementioned traits.
这就是我。
不是一个好男人，对吧？谁在乎！
但讽刺的是，现在人们都喜欢我。
不仅在Quora上，在现实生活中也是如此。他们喜欢我。
但我想这样吗？不
那我为什么要改变？
因为面对外面的世界需要它。每个人都会告诉你，他们喜欢没有态度、不傲慢和诸如此类的人。
但事实上，他们甚至不想注意到他们。只有当有人想要他们的东西时，他们才会受到很好的对待。
做一个好人，你每次都会被利用、被淘汰、被拒绝。
但一旦你改变了自己，让自己变得有价值，人们就会开始注意到你，并认为你是一个理想的人，即使你没有上述特质。
Not so good a guy, right? Who cares!
But the irony is, people like me now.
Not only on Quora, but in real life too. They like me.
But do I wanted to be like this? No.
Then why did I change?
Because the outside world demands it. Everyone will tell you that they like people with zero attitude, arrogance, and blah blah kinda things.
But in reality, they don't even care to notice them. They are treated nicely only when someone want something from them.
Be a nice guy and you will be used, demotivated and rejected every guckinf time.
But once you change yourself and make yourself somewhat worthy, people will start noticing you and consider you as an ideal person even if you don't have the aforementioned traits.
这就是我。
不是一个好男人，对吧？谁在乎！
但讽刺的是，现在人们都喜欢我。
不仅在Quora上，在现实生活中也是如此。他们喜欢我。
但我想这样吗？不
那我为什么要改变？
因为面对外面的世界需要它。每个人都会告诉你，他们喜欢没有态度、不傲慢和诸如此类的人。
但事实上，他们甚至不想注意到他们。只有当有人想要他们的东西时，他们才会受到很好的对待。
做一个好人，你每次都会被利用、被淘汰、被拒绝。
但一旦你改变了自己，让自己变得有价值，人们就会开始注意到你，并认为你是一个理想的人，即使你没有上述特质。
Tejasvita Apte
That adult life is much, much better than childhood.
If you find yourself thinking the opposite, you are romanticising “not having any responsibility” while ignoring the other side of it, which is not having any freedom!
As a child, your happiness was totally dependent on the adults around you. Whereas as an adult, you are responsible for your own happiness and it's simply great!
While it's true that things are simpler in childhood, that's also because your perception of things is simpler, primarily because you are a child and aren't capable of grasping life in all its nuances. As an adult, this changes. You realise the context of most things sometimes to your own peril. You also risk complicating things.
But that's the best part of being an adult. That it's all on you. If you complicate things, you are free to sort them out instead of depending on someone else.
Life only gets better steadily! With experience.
成年人的生活比童年好得多。
如果你发现自己的想法与此相反，你就是在浪漫化“没有任何责任”，而忽略了另一方面，那就是没有任何自由！
作为一个孩子，你的幸福完全取决于你周围的大人。而作为一个成年人，你对自己的幸福负责，这简直太棒了！
虽然童年时期的事情确实更简单，但这也是因为你对事物的感知更简单，主要是因为你是一个孩子，无法把握生活的所有细微差别。作为一个成年人，这种情况会发生变化。你意识到大多数事情背后的原因，有时会给你带来危险。你也有使事情复杂化的风险。
但这是作为一个成年人最好的部分。这一切都取决于你。如果你把事情弄复杂了，你可以自由地把它们整理出来，而不是依赖别人。
生活只会越来越好！经验之谈。
That adult life is much, much better than childhood.
If you find yourself thinking the opposite, you are romanticising “not having any responsibility” while ignoring the other side of it, which is not having any freedom!
As a child, your happiness was totally dependent on the adults around you. Whereas as an adult, you are responsible for your own happiness and it's simply great!
While it's true that things are simpler in childhood, that's also because your perception of things is simpler, primarily because you are a child and aren't capable of grasping life in all its nuances. As an adult, this changes. You realise the context of most things sometimes to your own peril. You also risk complicating things.
But that's the best part of being an adult. That it's all on you. If you complicate things, you are free to sort them out instead of depending on someone else.
Life only gets better steadily! With experience.
成年人的生活比童年好得多。
如果你发现自己的想法与此相反，你就是在浪漫化“没有任何责任”，而忽略了另一方面，那就是没有任何自由！
作为一个孩子，你的幸福完全取决于你周围的大人。而作为一个成年人，你对自己的幸福负责，这简直太棒了！
虽然童年时期的事情确实更简单，但这也是因为你对事物的感知更简单，主要是因为你是一个孩子，无法把握生活的所有细微差别。作为一个成年人，这种情况会发生变化。你意识到大多数事情背后的原因，有时会给你带来危险。你也有使事情复杂化的风险。
但这是作为一个成年人最好的部分。这一切都取决于你。如果你把事情弄复杂了，你可以自由地把它们整理出来，而不是依赖别人。
生活只会越来越好！经验之谈。
Relationships get better with experience. Communication gets better with experience. Sex gets better with experience. You understand that love is a practice and a verb. It is also hard work.
With age, your edges smoothen and you learn the value of kindness and compassion above intelligence and logic. You realise that more things are likely to work out with love than with arguments, however brilliant! This makes you a better person.
Your manner of dealing with conflict gets better with age. Your manner of handling disappointments, hardships and sorrows gets better with age.
You realise how temporary most of your feelings are, with age. With a little more of age, you realise the same is true of your thoughts. With age, you learn to therefore take yourself much less seriously.
With age you also learn one of the biggest lessons your younger self usually misses - there is no ultimate meaning to life. Your life will be what you make of it. It is on you to give it meaning.
As an adult, you don’t need anybody’s permission and you can live your life on your own terms. You have complete freedom along with the intelligence and maturity to understand that freedom comes with responsibility - something I am sure your teenage self would love to realise.
Adult life is great. I'd rather be an adult than a child. Any day.
有了经验，关系会变得更好。有了经验，沟通会变得更好。性随着经验而变得更好。你知道爱是一种练习和动词。这也是一项艰苦的工作。
随着年龄的增长，你的边缘会变得光滑，你会学到善良和同情的价值，而不是智慧和逻辑。你意识到，无论多么精彩，用爱比用争吵解决问题的可能性更大！这会让你成为更好的人。
随着年龄的增长，你处理冲突的方式会变得更好。随着年龄的增长，你处理失望、困难和悲伤的方式会变得更好。
你意识到，随着年龄的增长，你的大多数感觉都是短暂的。随着年龄的增长，你会意识到你的想法也是如此。随着年龄的增长，你学会了不那么认真地对待自己。
随着年龄的增长，你也会学到年轻人经常错过的最重要的一课——人生没有终极意义。你的生活将是你对它的理解。你有责任赋予它意义。
作为一个成年人，你不需要任何人的许可，你可以按照自己的方式生活。你拥有完全的自由、智慧和成熟，明白自由伴随着责任——我相信你十几岁的自己会很想实现这一点。
成人生活很棒。我宁愿做一个成年人而不是孩子。任何一天均如此。
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With age, your edges smoothen and you learn the value of kindness and compassion above intelligence and logic. You realise that more things are likely to work out with love than with arguments, however brilliant! This makes you a better person.
Your manner of dealing with conflict gets better with age. Your manner of handling disappointments, hardships and sorrows gets better with age.
You realise how temporary most of your feelings are, with age. With a little more of age, you realise the same is true of your thoughts. With age, you learn to therefore take yourself much less seriously.
With age you also learn one of the biggest lessons your younger self usually misses - there is no ultimate meaning to life. Your life will be what you make of it. It is on you to give it meaning.
As an adult, you don’t need anybody’s permission and you can live your life on your own terms. You have complete freedom along with the intelligence and maturity to understand that freedom comes with responsibility - something I am sure your teenage self would love to realise.
Adult life is great. I'd rather be an adult than a child. Any day.
有了经验，关系会变得更好。有了经验，沟通会变得更好。性随着经验而变得更好。你知道爱是一种练习和动词。这也是一项艰苦的工作。
随着年龄的增长，你的边缘会变得光滑，你会学到善良和同情的价值，而不是智慧和逻辑。你意识到，无论多么精彩，用爱比用争吵解决问题的可能性更大！这会让你成为更好的人。
随着年龄的增长，你处理冲突的方式会变得更好。随着年龄的增长，你处理失望、困难和悲伤的方式会变得更好。
你意识到，随着年龄的增长，你的大多数感觉都是短暂的。随着年龄的增长，你会意识到你的想法也是如此。随着年龄的增长，你学会了不那么认真地对待自己。
随着年龄的增长，你也会学到年轻人经常错过的最重要的一课——人生没有终极意义。你的生活将是你对它的理解。你有责任赋予它意义。
作为一个成年人，你不需要任何人的许可，你可以按照自己的方式生活。你拥有完全的自由、智慧和成熟，明白自由伴随着责任——我相信你十几岁的自己会很想实现这一点。
成人生活很棒。我宁愿做一个成年人而不是孩子。任何一天均如此。
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Frank Bell
A really good friend of mine, Adam, hung himself last year. He was the happiest guy in the world. His father left for work in the morning and came back to find him in the hall of his family house, hung from the ceiling fan with a belt. No-one has any idea why, nor will anyone ever know why Adam did what he did. Adam's parents have nothing to go on, no closure for why Adam did what he did, but they're slowly learning to accept it and move on with life.
Adam's dad said something quite poignant to me at his funeral:
"Know one thing. Life is terminal. It is going to end, and you have absolutely no idea when, how or why it will end. And for that reason, live each day like it's the last."
And that's just it... life is temporary - death is a taboo and a lot of people don't talk about it. Whether you do, or you don't - make the most of every day and absolutely every moment, because there'll be a day when a person/people you love aren't around, for whatever reason, and you'll want to say 'I made the most of my time with X' rather than starting a sentence off with 'I wish...'.
As they say, life may not be the party we hoped for, but while we're here, we should dance.
我的一个很好的朋友亚当去年上吊自杀了。他是世界上最幸福的人。他的父亲早上去上班，回来后发现他在他家的大厅里，用皮带吊在吊扇上。没有人知道为什么，也不会有人知道亚当为什么会这样做。亚当的父母没有什么可以继续的，也没有关于亚当为什么要做他所做的事情的答案，但他们正在慢慢地学会接受它，继续生活。
亚当的父亲在他的葬礼上对我说了一句很辛酸的话：
“知道一件事。生命是会终结的。它将要结束，而你完全不知道它何时、如何或为什么要结束。因此，把每一天都过成最后一天。”
就是这样……生命是暂时的——死亡是一种禁忌，很多人都不谈论它。无论你是否这样做，都要充分利用每一天，每一刻，因为总有一天，你爱的人会因为某一个原因不再在你身边，你会想说“我充分利用了我和X的时间”，而不是以“我希望……”开头。
正如他们所说，生活可能不是我们所希望的聚会，但当我们在这里时，我们应该跳舞。
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A really good friend of mine, Adam, hung himself last year. He was the happiest guy in the world. His father left for work in the morning and came back to find him in the hall of his family house, hung from the ceiling fan with a belt. No-one has any idea why, nor will anyone ever know why Adam did what he did. Adam's parents have nothing to go on, no closure for why Adam did what he did, but they're slowly learning to accept it and move on with life.
Adam's dad said something quite poignant to me at his funeral:
"Know one thing. Life is terminal. It is going to end, and you have absolutely no idea when, how or why it will end. And for that reason, live each day like it's the last."
And that's just it... life is temporary - death is a taboo and a lot of people don't talk about it. Whether you do, or you don't - make the most of every day and absolutely every moment, because there'll be a day when a person/people you love aren't around, for whatever reason, and you'll want to say 'I made the most of my time with X' rather than starting a sentence off with 'I wish...'.
As they say, life may not be the party we hoped for, but while we're here, we should dance.
我的一个很好的朋友亚当去年上吊自杀了。他是世界上最幸福的人。他的父亲早上去上班，回来后发现他在他家的大厅里，用皮带吊在吊扇上。没有人知道为什么，也不会有人知道亚当为什么会这样做。亚当的父母没有什么可以继续的，也没有关于亚当为什么要做他所做的事情的答案，但他们正在慢慢地学会接受它，继续生活。
亚当的父亲在他的葬礼上对我说了一句很辛酸的话：
“知道一件事。生命是会终结的。它将要结束，而你完全不知道它何时、如何或为什么要结束。因此，把每一天都过成最后一天。”
就是这样……生命是暂时的——死亡是一种禁忌，很多人都不谈论它。无论你是否这样做，都要充分利用每一天，每一刻，因为总有一天，你爱的人会因为某一个原因不再在你身边，你会想说“我充分利用了我和X的时间”，而不是以“我希望……”开头。
正如他们所说，生活可能不是我们所希望的聚会，但当我们在这里时，我们应该跳舞。
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Sherry Cam
1. An adult is not a dead child, but a child who survived.
2. The average adult spends more time on the toilet than they do exercising.
3. People always want candy, whether you’re a kid or an adult.
4. Time goes by so slowly when you’re a child, and then, as an adult, it goes by in the blx of an eye.
5. Don’t say maybe if you want to say no.
6. The toughest thing to do as an adult is to keep your screaming on the inside.
7. You can be a good person your entire life, and still have a shitty life.
8. Maturity is a bitter disappointment for which no remedy exists, unless laughter could be said to remedy anything.
9. A child cries 99% times due to physical pain, an adult cries 99% times due to emotional pain.
10. You are the total of your own decisions.
And, welcome to adulthood, where you’ll be constantly tired except for when it’s time to go to sleep.
1、成年人不是死去的孩子，而是活下来的孩子。
2、一般成年人花在厕所里的时间比锻炼的时间多。
3、无论你是小孩还是成年人，人们总是想要糖果。
4、当你还是个孩子的时候，时间过得很慢，然后，作为一个成年人，时间一眨眼就过去了。
5、如果你想说不，不要说“也许”。
6、作为一个成年人，最难做的事就是保持内心的尖叫。
7、你可以一辈子做一个好人，但仍然过着糟糕的生活。
8、成熟是一种痛苦的失望，对此没有补救办法，除了笑声可以用来补救任何事情。
9、一个孩子哭的时候，99%是因为身体疼痛，一个成年人感到痛苦的时候，99%的时候是因为情绪。
10、你所有的一切，都是由你做的决定决定的。
而且，欢迎来到成年，在那里，除了该睡觉的时候，你会一直感到疲倦。
1. An adult is not a dead child, but a child who survived.
2. The average adult spends more time on the toilet than they do exercising.
3. People always want candy, whether you’re a kid or an adult.
4. Time goes by so slowly when you’re a child, and then, as an adult, it goes by in the blx of an eye.
5. Don’t say maybe if you want to say no.
6. The toughest thing to do as an adult is to keep your screaming on the inside.
7. You can be a good person your entire life, and still have a shitty life.
8. Maturity is a bitter disappointment for which no remedy exists, unless laughter could be said to remedy anything.
9. A child cries 99% times due to physical pain, an adult cries 99% times due to emotional pain.
10. You are the total of your own decisions.
And, welcome to adulthood, where you’ll be constantly tired except for when it’s time to go to sleep.
1、成年人不是死去的孩子，而是活下来的孩子。
2、一般成年人花在厕所里的时间比锻炼的时间多。
3、无论你是小孩还是成年人，人们总是想要糖果。
4、当你还是个孩子的时候，时间过得很慢，然后，作为一个成年人，时间一眨眼就过去了。
5、如果你想说不，不要说“也许”。
6、作为一个成年人，最难做的事就是保持内心的尖叫。
7、你可以一辈子做一个好人，但仍然过着糟糕的生活。
8、成熟是一种痛苦的失望，对此没有补救办法，除了笑声可以用来补救任何事情。
9、一个孩子哭的时候，99%是因为身体疼痛，一个成年人感到痛苦的时候，99%的时候是因为情绪。
10、你所有的一切，都是由你做的决定决定的。
而且，欢迎来到成年，在那里，除了该睡觉的时候，你会一直感到疲倦。
Anonymous
1.You are always judged by your looks. No matter how much talent you have
2. Life is expensive.
3. Take ownership of your own life. Nobody is here to rescue you.
4. Life doesn't owe you anything. If you want something you have to work hard for it — not make excuses as to why you don’t have it, or whine and complain.
5. If you believe that you’re truly one in a million, there are still approximately 7,184 more people out there just like you.
6. The most important relationship in life is the you have with yourself. Without a positive relationship with yourself, every other relationship in your life will suffer. It always starts with you.
7. It's not about what you have done ,but what you are currently doing.
8. Believing in your hype is dangerous. No matter what you achieve, or how externally successful you get, you have to always remember the kid that started out on his or her path out of pure curiosity. You should never lose that childlike sense of wonder
9. Being Single sucks. Not always but most of the time.
10. My favourite.
1、人们总是根据你的长相来评判你。无论你有多少天赋。
2、生活是昂贵的。
3、拥有自己的生活。这里没有人来救你。
4、生活不欠你任何东西。如果你想要什么，你必须为此努力， 不要找借口解释为什么你没有得到它，或者发牢骚、抱怨。
5、如果你相信自己真的是万里挑一，那么还有大约7184人和你一样。
6、生活中最重要的关系是你和自己的关系。如果你和自己没有积极的关系，你生活中的每一段关系都会受到影响。它总是从你开始。
7、重要的不是你曾经做了什么，而是你目前正在做什么。
8、相信你的炒作是危险的。无论你取得了什么成就，或者你在外部取得了多大的成功，你都必须永远记住那个纯粹出于好奇而踏上自己道路的孩子。你永远不应该失去孩子般的惊奇感。
9、单身很糟糕。不总是如此，但大多数时候如此。
10、我的最爱：
坏消息是：你无法让人们喜欢你、理解你、认可你、接受你或对你好。你也无法控制他们。
好消息是：这无关紧要。
1.You are always judged by your looks. No matter how much talent you have
2. Life is expensive.
3. Take ownership of your own life. Nobody is here to rescue you.
4. Life doesn't owe you anything. If you want something you have to work hard for it — not make excuses as to why you don’t have it, or whine and complain.
5. If you believe that you’re truly one in a million, there are still approximately 7,184 more people out there just like you.
6. The most important relationship in life is the you have with yourself. Without a positive relationship with yourself, every other relationship in your life will suffer. It always starts with you.
7. It's not about what you have done ,but what you are currently doing.
8. Believing in your hype is dangerous. No matter what you achieve, or how externally successful you get, you have to always remember the kid that started out on his or her path out of pure curiosity. You should never lose that childlike sense of wonder
9. Being Single sucks. Not always but most of the time.
10. My favourite.
1、人们总是根据你的长相来评判你。无论你有多少天赋。
2、生活是昂贵的。
3、拥有自己的生活。这里没有人来救你。
4、生活不欠你任何东西。如果你想要什么，你必须为此努力， 不要找借口解释为什么你没有得到它，或者发牢骚、抱怨。
5、如果你相信自己真的是万里挑一，那么还有大约7184人和你一样。
6、生活中最重要的关系是你和自己的关系。如果你和自己没有积极的关系，你生活中的每一段关系都会受到影响。它总是从你开始。
7、重要的不是你曾经做了什么，而是你目前正在做什么。
8、相信你的炒作是危险的。无论你取得了什么成就，或者你在外部取得了多大的成功，你都必须永远记住那个纯粹出于好奇而踏上自己道路的孩子。你永远不应该失去孩子般的惊奇感。
9、单身很糟糕。不总是如此，但大多数时候如此。
10、我的最爱：
坏消息是：你无法让人们喜欢你、理解你、认可你、接受你或对你好。你也无法控制他们。
好消息是：这无关紧要。
Mukul Royy
The internet isn’t the best place to find your wife . Many men make this mistake & later regret it ,
You can’t impact anything of significance in this world if you’re broke ,
Don’t overcompensate for silence by talking too much. It’s a mark of a man who’s insecure ,
If you’re not ready to handle a woman, it doesn’t matter how much she loves you . Your sissy nature will suffocate her love & she’ll leave you ,
Sometimes you don’t like knowing things all the time . Being self-aware is exhausting ,
Learn to control every part of yourself that you can. The more control you’ve , the more powerful you become ,
Don’t get confused between the internet & the real world . There’re no community guidelines in the real world ,
It’s more important to make your children proud than your parents proud .The responsibility of each generation is not to please their predecessors. It’s to improve things for their offspring,
A very large number of individuals keep failing in life because they’re not brave enough to accept that they’re not good at something which they must improve ,
Just Chill.!!
1、互联网不是找到你妻子的最佳场所。许多人犯了这个错误，后来后悔了。
2、如果你破产了，你就无法影响这个世界上任何有意义的事情。
3、不要说太多来补偿沉默。这是一个缺乏安全感的男人的标志。
4、如果你还没有准备好应对一个女人，她有多爱你并不重要。你懦弱的天性会窒息她的爱，她会离开你。
5、有时候你不喜欢一直知道事情。自我意识是令人疲惫的。
6、学会尽可能控制自己的每一部分。你控制得越多，你就越强大，
7、不要混淆互联网和现实世界。现实世界中没有社区指南。
8、让孩子骄傲比让父母骄傲更重要。每一代人的责任不是取悦他们的前任。这是为了改善他们的后代。
9、很多人在生活中不断失败，因为他们没有足够的勇气去接受自己有不擅长的事情。
10、放轻松！！
Himabindu Veerabomma
Money matters: If you have money, life becomes much easier. If not , you will either have to compromise or struggle untill what save on what you want. But, if you have money, you can have some comfortable life.
No more friends: People change and they get busy as well. You will have to learn to live without many friends. Though they are were very close, most of them end up in our social media.
Responsibilities: We will realize that we have been a great and hard Responsibility for our parents. And, we get into those responsibilities as well. Sometimes liabilities too.
Nothing makes sense: we realize that we have worried too much about people around us but in reality they may not even remember us today.
Life is all about your choices: The choices you made will lead you to a place where you will be in.
1、钱很重要：如果你有钱，生活会变得容易得多。如果没有，你要么妥协，要么挣扎，直到你省下足够的钱买下你想要的东西。但是，如果你有钱，你可以过上舒适的生活。
2、没有更多的朋友：人们变了，他们也变得忙碌起来。你必须学会没有很多朋友的生活。虽然他们非常亲密，但大多数人最终都只出现在我们的社交媒体上。
3、责任：我们会意识到我们对父母的责任是巨大而艰巨的。而且，我们也承担了这些责任。有时也是债。
4、没有什么是有意义的：我们意识到我们太担心周围的人了，但事实上，他们可能甚至不记得我们。
5、生活就是你的选择：你所做的选择会把你带到你所处的地方。
Money matters: If you have money, life becomes much easier. If not , you will either have to compromise or struggle untill what save on what you want. But, if you have money, you can have some comfortable life.
No more friends: People change and they get busy as well. You will have to learn to live without many friends. Though they are were very close, most of them end up in our social media.
Responsibilities: We will realize that we have been a great and hard Responsibility for our parents. And, we get into those responsibilities as well. Sometimes liabilities too.
Nothing makes sense: we realize that we have worried too much about people around us but in reality they may not even remember us today.
Life is all about your choices: The choices you made will lead you to a place where you will be in.
1、钱很重要：如果你有钱，生活会变得容易得多。如果没有，你要么妥协，要么挣扎，直到你省下足够的钱买下你想要的东西。但是，如果你有钱，你可以过上舒适的生活。
2、没有更多的朋友：人们变了，他们也变得忙碌起来。你必须学会没有很多朋友的生活。虽然他们非常亲密，但大多数人最终都只出现在我们的社交媒体上。
3、责任：我们会意识到我们对父母的责任是巨大而艰巨的。而且，我们也承担了这些责任。有时也是债。
4、没有什么是有意义的：我们意识到我们太担心周围的人了，但事实上，他们可能甚至不记得我们。
5、生活就是你的选择：你所做的选择会把你带到你所处的地方。
Sylvie Aimée
You will spend the first 40 years growing up & the next 40 years getting over it.
You will turn out pretty much the same as your Mother/Father no matter how hard you try.
You will spend your adult life wishing for the hair you complained so much about in your youth.
You will hear yourself saying those same dreadful things your parents said to your own children.
You will tell your kids that the music they listen to is junk.
You will find your best friends more like family than family.
Your Mom was pretty much right about most everything.
You will love and have your heart broken many times and survive.
You will pass your reflection in a window some day and ask who’s that old geezer.
You will end up being fed vanilla pudding while in diapers some day just like you did when you were young.
1、你将在头40年里成长，在接下来的40年里恢复。
2、无论你多么努力，你都会变得和你的母亲/父亲一样。
3、你将在成年后的一生中，都希望拥有你年轻时抱怨过的头发。
4、你会听到自己在说，父母对自己孩子说的那些可怕的话。
5、你会告诉你的孩子，他们听的音乐是垃圾音乐。
6、你会发现你最好的朋友，比家人更像家人。
7、你妈妈对大多数事情的看法都很正确。
8、你会陷入爱情，心碎很多次，然后活下来。
9、总有一天，你会从窗户里看到你的倒影，然后问那个老家伙是谁。
10、总有一天，你会像年轻时一样，包着尿布吃香草布丁。
You will spend the first 40 years growing up & the next 40 years getting over it.
You will turn out pretty much the same as your Mother/Father no matter how hard you try.
You will spend your adult life wishing for the hair you complained so much about in your youth.
You will hear yourself saying those same dreadful things your parents said to your own children.
You will tell your kids that the music they listen to is junk.
You will find your best friends more like family than family.
Your Mom was pretty much right about most everything.
You will love and have your heart broken many times and survive.
You will pass your reflection in a window some day and ask who’s that old geezer.
You will end up being fed vanilla pudding while in diapers some day just like you did when you were young.
1、你将在头40年里成长，在接下来的40年里恢复。
2、无论你多么努力，你都会变得和你的母亲/父亲一样。
3、你将在成年后的一生中，都希望拥有你年轻时抱怨过的头发。
4、你会听到自己在说，父母对自己孩子说的那些可怕的话。
5、你会告诉你的孩子，他们听的音乐是垃圾音乐。
6、你会发现你最好的朋友，比家人更像家人。
7、你妈妈对大多数事情的看法都很正确。
8、你会陷入爱情，心碎很多次，然后活下来。
9、总有一天，你会从窗户里看到你的倒影，然后问那个老家伙是谁。
10、总有一天，你会像年轻时一样，包着尿布吃香草布丁。
Sean Lana
Nobody tells you that life will really get tough at some point in life and you are left alone to fight your battle.
Nobody tells you that the more you grow, the more you need to be responsible.
Nobody tells you that it is easy to make friends when you are still young, but get difficult when you grow up.
Nobody tells that you when you have a full-time job, you make money but you might not get enough time to enjoy it.
Nobody tells you that alcohol, sex, and drugs can be destructive.
Nobody tells you that divorce and baby mamas are expensive and destructive, so marry your best friend
Nobody tells you that empathy, self-confidence, self-awareness,social skills, and motivation are what you really need to grow and network in life.
Nobody tells you that the world is full of stereotype people.
Nobody tells you that your best friend might be your worst enemy.
Nobody tells you that the world is full of jealous people.
1、没有人会告诉你，生活中的某个时刻真的会变得艰难，只有你一个人在战斗。
2、没有人会告诉你，你越长大，就越需要负责任。
3、没有人会告诉你，在你还年轻的时候交朋友很容易，但长大后就变得困难了。
4、没有人会告诉你，当你有一份全职工作时，你会赚钱，但你可能没有足够的时间享受它。
5、没有人会告诉你，酒精、性和毒品会造成破坏。
6、没有人会告诉你，离婚和生孩子是昂贵和破坏性的，所以嫁给你最好的朋友吧。
7、没有人会告诉你，同理心、自信心、自我意识、社交技能和动力，是你在生活中成长和建立人际网络所真正需要的。
8、没有人会告诉你，这个世界充满了刻板印象的人。
9、没有人会告诉你，你最好的朋友可能是你最大的敌人。
10、没有人会告诉你，这个世界上充满了嫉妒的人。
Nobody tells you that life will really get tough at some point in life and you are left alone to fight your battle.
Nobody tells you that the more you grow, the more you need to be responsible.
Nobody tells you that it is easy to make friends when you are still young, but get difficult when you grow up.
Nobody tells that you when you have a full-time job, you make money but you might not get enough time to enjoy it.
Nobody tells you that alcohol, sex, and drugs can be destructive.
Nobody tells you that divorce and baby mamas are expensive and destructive, so marry your best friend
Nobody tells you that empathy, self-confidence, self-awareness,social skills, and motivation are what you really need to grow and network in life.
Nobody tells you that the world is full of stereotype people.
Nobody tells you that your best friend might be your worst enemy.
Nobody tells you that the world is full of jealous people.
1、没有人会告诉你，生活中的某个时刻真的会变得艰难，只有你一个人在战斗。
2、没有人会告诉你，你越长大，就越需要负责任。
3、没有人会告诉你，在你还年轻的时候交朋友很容易，但长大后就变得困难了。
4、没有人会告诉你，当你有一份全职工作时，你会赚钱，但你可能没有足够的时间享受它。
5、没有人会告诉你，酒精、性和毒品会造成破坏。
6、没有人会告诉你，离婚和生孩子是昂贵和破坏性的，所以嫁给你最好的朋友吧。
7、没有人会告诉你，同理心、自信心、自我意识、社交技能和动力，是你在生活中成长和建立人际网络所真正需要的。
8、没有人会告诉你，这个世界充满了刻板印象的人。
9、没有人会告诉你，你最好的朋友可能是你最大的敌人。
10、没有人会告诉你，这个世界上充满了嫉妒的人。
Nobody tells you that unsafe sex is dangerous.
Nobody tells you that your bill comes first.
Nobody tells you that your mom might be jealous of your wife. So please don’t keep both your wife and mom under one roof.
Nobody tells you that waking up around 5 am should become a habit and lights out should be 10 pm.
Nobody tells you that health care is expensive, so take care of it and do exercises.
Nobody tells you that attitude is everything in life.
Nobody tells you that saving money will never make you a millionaire, taking risks and opportunity are necessary.
Nobody loves to talk about death but it is inevitable
Nobody tells you to live, love and laugh because life is too short.
Nobody tells you that happiness is free and it's not out there but in you. Be happy!
11、没有人会告诉你，不安全的性行为是危险的。
12、没有人会告诉你，你的账单是第一位的。
13、没有人会告诉你，你妈妈可能会嫉妒你的妻子。所以，请不要把你的妻子和妈妈都关在一个屋檐下。
14、没有人会告诉你，早上5点左右起床，晚上10点熄灯，应该成为一种习惯。
15、没有人会告诉你，医疗保健费用昂贵，所以要注意它并进行锻炼。
16、没有人会告诉你，态度是生活的一切。
17、没有人会告诉你，存钱永远不会让你成为百万富翁，冒险和机会是必要的。
18、没有人喜欢谈论死亡，但这是不可避免的。
19、没有人会告诉你，要生活，要爱，要笑，因为生命太短。
20、没有人会告诉你，幸福是免费的，它不在外面，而是在你心里。开心点！
Nobody tells you that your bill comes first.
Nobody tells you that your mom might be jealous of your wife. So please don’t keep both your wife and mom under one roof.
Nobody tells you that waking up around 5 am should become a habit and lights out should be 10 pm.
Nobody tells you that health care is expensive, so take care of it and do exercises.
Nobody tells you that attitude is everything in life.
Nobody tells you that saving money will never make you a millionaire, taking risks and opportunity are necessary.
Nobody loves to talk about death but it is inevitable
Nobody tells you to live, love and laugh because life is too short.
Nobody tells you that happiness is free and it's not out there but in you. Be happy!
11、没有人会告诉你，不安全的性行为是危险的。
12、没有人会告诉你，你的账单是第一位的。
13、没有人会告诉你，你妈妈可能会嫉妒你的妻子。所以，请不要把你的妻子和妈妈都关在一个屋檐下。
14、没有人会告诉你，早上5点左右起床，晚上10点熄灯，应该成为一种习惯。
15、没有人会告诉你，医疗保健费用昂贵，所以要注意它并进行锻炼。
16、没有人会告诉你，态度是生活的一切。
17、没有人会告诉你，存钱永远不会让你成为百万富翁，冒险和机会是必要的。
18、没有人喜欢谈论死亡，但这是不可避免的。
19、没有人会告诉你，要生活，要爱，要笑，因为生命太短。
20、没有人会告诉你，幸福是免费的，它不在外面，而是在你心里。开心点！
Flavian Mwasi
When you were a little child, you learned to trust everyone. When you are an adult you leaned to trust no one.
当你还是个孩子的时候，你学会了信任每一个人。当你是一个成年人时，你倾向于不信任任何人。
When you were a little child, you learned to trust everyone. When you are an adult you leaned to trust no one.
当你还是个孩子的时候，你学会了信任每一个人。当你是一个成年人时，你倾向于不信任任何人。
Lokesh Kumar
Porn is not real life sex.
Life is harsh to everybody, not just you.
People interested in your story not in your problem. So don’t share your problem with everyone.
There is only one way out of pain - go through it.
Change with changes otherwise change will change you.
You define your own success.
Health and time are the most important things.
Relationships are voluntary. Your partner has a right to leave you. The best way to keep your partner is to be an awesome person, so they don't want to leave.
Nobody can help you except yourself.
Money is simply a tool. Make as much of it as possible but don’t sacrifice your health and of course, never lie, cheat or steal to get it.
You have to find your own way.
Everyday improve yourself.
Patience is power!
Read read and read.!!
1、小黄文不是现实生活中的性爱。
2、生活对每个人都很苛刻，不仅仅是对你苛刻。
3、人们对你的故事感兴趣，而不是你的麻烦。因此，不要与所有人分享你的麻烦。
4、摆脱痛苦只有一条路——闯过去。
5、随着变化而变化，否则变化会改变你。
6、你定义了自己的成功。
7、健康和时间是最重要的。
8、关系是自愿的。你的伴侣有权离开你。留住你的伴侣的最好方法是做一个很棒的人，这样他们就不想离开。
9、除了你自己，没有人能帮助你。
10、金钱只是一种工具。尽可能多地利用它，但不要牺牲你的健康，当然，千万不要为了得到它而撒谎、欺骗或偷窃。
11、你必须找到自己的路。
12、每天提高自己。
13、耐心就是力量！
14、阅读！阅读！阅读！
Porn is not real life sex.
Life is harsh to everybody, not just you.
People interested in your story not in your problem. So don’t share your problem with everyone.
There is only one way out of pain - go through it.
Change with changes otherwise change will change you.
You define your own success.
Health and time are the most important things.
Relationships are voluntary. Your partner has a right to leave you. The best way to keep your partner is to be an awesome person, so they don't want to leave.
Nobody can help you except yourself.
Money is simply a tool. Make as much of it as possible but don’t sacrifice your health and of course, never lie, cheat or steal to get it.
You have to find your own way.
Everyday improve yourself.
Patience is power!
Read read and read.!!
1、小黄文不是现实生活中的性爱。
2、生活对每个人都很苛刻，不仅仅是对你苛刻。
3、人们对你的故事感兴趣，而不是你的麻烦。因此，不要与所有人分享你的麻烦。
4、摆脱痛苦只有一条路——闯过去。
5、随着变化而变化，否则变化会改变你。
6、你定义了自己的成功。
7、健康和时间是最重要的。
8、关系是自愿的。你的伴侣有权离开你。留住你的伴侣的最好方法是做一个很棒的人，这样他们就不想离开。
9、除了你自己，没有人能帮助你。
10、金钱只是一种工具。尽可能多地利用它，但不要牺牲你的健康，当然，千万不要为了得到它而撒谎、欺骗或偷窃。
11、你必须找到自己的路。
12、每天提高自己。
13、耐心就是力量！
14、阅读！阅读！阅读！
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