哪十件事我们永远不应该做(上)
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Which 10 things we should never do?
哪十件事我们永远不应该做？
Which 10 things we should never do?
哪十件事我们永远不应该做？
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Divyansh Mundra, Bestselling author, Screenwriter, TEDx speaker
Smoking. I have friends who started with “nothing will happen with one puff” and now smoke so many cigarettes that their monthly cigarette expenses exceed 10–15k. Yikes.
Cheating in a relationship. I have a whole other level of disdain for unfaithful people.
Catcalling or passing derogatory remarks about/to any woman.
Arguing with people in the comments. There was a time when I loved grappling with the trolls in the comment section but it’s bad for your own mental health and is a giant waste of time.
Checking up on people (read: exes) who aren’t in your life anymore.
Be rude to waiters, servers, delivery boys etc. You might be living in a palace of gold but the moment you open your mouth, the world knows what kind of a person you are.
Be in a relationship just because of the looks or the money. Been there. Done that. Never again. Exes do be crazy.
Impose your ideology, religion, political views on strangers on the internet. Two baboons with half-baked knowledge and fragile egos sparring in comments is the new circus after all.
Live your life by how the society or your family or loved ones dictate. You’ll be 40 and look back to realise that if you’d have been courageous enough to take your own steps, your life would be so different.
Not sacrificing your dreams and ambitions to settle for something less.
抽烟。我有一些朋友从“吸一口什么都不会”开始，到现在抽了这么多香烟，他们每月的香烟费用超过 10-15,000 美元。诶。
在恋爱中欺骗。我对不忠的人有另一种蔑视。
辱骂或对任何妇女发表贬损性言论。
在评论中与人争论。曾经有一段时间我喜欢在评论部分与巨魔搏斗，但这对你自己的心理健康有害，而且是在浪费时间。
查看那些不再出现在你生活中的人(前任)的消息。
对服务员、服务员、送餐员等无礼。你可能生活在黄金宫殿中，但当你张开嘴时，全世界都知道你是什么样的人。
仅仅因为外表或金钱而建立关系。我曾经就这样，我再也不会这样了。前任确实很疯狂。
将您的意识形态、宗教、政治观点强加于互联网上的陌生人。毕竟，两只知识不成熟、自负脆弱的狒狒在评论中争吵才是新的马戏团。
按照社会或家人或亲人的指示过你的生活。当你 40 岁的时候，回首往事，你会发现如果你有足够的勇气迈出自己的步伐，你的生活将会大不相同。
不要牺牲你的梦想和抱负来满足于更少的东西。
Smoking. I have friends who started with “nothing will happen with one puff” and now smoke so many cigarettes that their monthly cigarette expenses exceed 10–15k. Yikes.
Cheating in a relationship. I have a whole other level of disdain for unfaithful people.
Catcalling or passing derogatory remarks about/to any woman.
Arguing with people in the comments. There was a time when I loved grappling with the trolls in the comment section but it’s bad for your own mental health and is a giant waste of time.
Checking up on people (read: exes) who aren’t in your life anymore.
Be rude to waiters, servers, delivery boys etc. You might be living in a palace of gold but the moment you open your mouth, the world knows what kind of a person you are.
Be in a relationship just because of the looks or the money. Been there. Done that. Never again. Exes do be crazy.
Impose your ideology, religion, political views on strangers on the internet. Two baboons with half-baked knowledge and fragile egos sparring in comments is the new circus after all.
Live your life by how the society or your family or loved ones dictate. You’ll be 40 and look back to realise that if you’d have been courageous enough to take your own steps, your life would be so different.
Not sacrificing your dreams and ambitions to settle for something less.
抽烟。我有一些朋友从“吸一口什么都不会”开始，到现在抽了这么多香烟，他们每月的香烟费用超过 10-15,000 美元。诶。
在恋爱中欺骗。我对不忠的人有另一种蔑视。
辱骂或对任何妇女发表贬损性言论。
在评论中与人争论。曾经有一段时间我喜欢在评论部分与巨魔搏斗，但这对你自己的心理健康有害，而且是在浪费时间。
查看那些不再出现在你生活中的人(前任)的消息。
对服务员、服务员、送餐员等无礼。你可能生活在黄金宫殿中，但当你张开嘴时，全世界都知道你是什么样的人。
仅仅因为外表或金钱而建立关系。我曾经就这样，我再也不会这样了。前任确实很疯狂。
将您的意识形态、宗教、政治观点强加于互联网上的陌生人。毕竟，两只知识不成熟、自负脆弱的狒狒在评论中争吵才是新的马戏团。
按照社会或家人或亲人的指示过你的生活。当你 40 岁的时候，回首往事，你会发现如果你有足够的勇气迈出自己的步伐，你的生活将会大不相同。
不要牺牲你的梦想和抱负来满足于更少的东西。
Flavian Mwasi, Personal Development | Life Coach
Don’t advertise your happy marriage on social media. You could attract the wrath of a jealous ex-turned-villain.
Don’t post your private family photos all over the internet. Someone could use them to ruin the lives of your loved ones.
Don’t discuss your private matters on social media. You don’t know who is reading or listening.
Don’t befriend everybody who requests to be friends with you on social media. Cyber-stalkers have ruined privacy and the reputation of the internet.
Don’t store your passwords or security credentials online. The database could be hacked.
Don’t fall in love with anyone on social media. They could easily be predators prowling on you.
Don’t advertise your pregnancy on social media. A deranged lunatic could do the unthinkable and trigger a miscarriage.
Don’t advertise your kids' achievements on social media. Malicious people could ruin their lives.
Don’t advertise your expensive buys on social media. You could attract thieves or even robbers.
Never share any compromising photos on social media. They’ll definitely be shared all over the internet.
不要在社交媒体上秀你的幸福婚姻。你可能会引起一个嫉妒的前任的愤怒。
不要在网上到处发布你的私人家庭照片。有人可能会利用它们来毁掉你所爱的人的生活。
不要在社交媒体上讨论你的私人问题。你不知道谁在阅读或听。
不要在社交媒体上和所有要求加你为好友的人加为好友。网络跟踪者已经破坏了隐私和互联网的声誉。
不要在网上存储密码或安全凭证。数据库可能遭到黑客攻击。
不要在社交媒体上爱上任何人。它们很可能是潜伏在你身上的捕食者。
不要在社交媒体上宣布你怀孕了。一个精神错乱的疯子会做出不可思议的事，引发流产。
不要在社交媒体上展示你孩子的成就。恶意的人会毁了他们的生活。
不要在社交媒体上晒你昂贵的商品。你可能会吸引小偷甚至是强盗。
永远不要在社交媒体上分享任何有损名誉的照片。它们肯定会在互联网上分享。
Don’t advertise your happy marriage on social media. You could attract the wrath of a jealous ex-turned-villain.
Don’t post your private family photos all over the internet. Someone could use them to ruin the lives of your loved ones.
Don’t discuss your private matters on social media. You don’t know who is reading or listening.
Don’t befriend everybody who requests to be friends with you on social media. Cyber-stalkers have ruined privacy and the reputation of the internet.
Don’t store your passwords or security credentials online. The database could be hacked.
Don’t fall in love with anyone on social media. They could easily be predators prowling on you.
Don’t advertise your pregnancy on social media. A deranged lunatic could do the unthinkable and trigger a miscarriage.
Don’t advertise your kids' achievements on social media. Malicious people could ruin their lives.
Don’t advertise your expensive buys on social media. You could attract thieves or even robbers.
Never share any compromising photos on social media. They’ll definitely be shared all over the internet.
不要在社交媒体上秀你的幸福婚姻。你可能会引起一个嫉妒的前任的愤怒。
不要在网上到处发布你的私人家庭照片。有人可能会利用它们来毁掉你所爱的人的生活。
不要在社交媒体上讨论你的私人问题。你不知道谁在阅读或听。
不要在社交媒体上和所有要求加你为好友的人加为好友。网络跟踪者已经破坏了隐私和互联网的声誉。
不要在网上存储密码或安全凭证。数据库可能遭到黑客攻击。
不要在社交媒体上爱上任何人。它们很可能是潜伏在你身上的捕食者。
不要在社交媒体上宣布你怀孕了。一个精神错乱的疯子会做出不可思议的事，引发流产。
不要在社交媒体上展示你孩子的成就。恶意的人会毁了他们的生活。
不要在社交媒体上晒你昂贵的商品。你可能会吸引小偷甚至是强盗。
永远不要在社交媒体上分享任何有损名誉的照片。它们肯定会在互联网上分享。
UNDERSTAND THIS ABOUT LIFE…
Not everyone is going to be happy for you.
Most of the “nice” comments you get on social media are fake.
You are just attracting the evil eye on you and your family.
There are people who just hate you for no apparent reason.
People are not what they seem like. The internet has been infiltrated by cyber-stalkers who could be your ex or your next-door neighbor.
Up to 50% of social media accounts could be fake according to some statistics.
You are just attracting jealous people into your life every day you look attractive.
You don’t know who is saving your pictures and checking your upxes.
Social media is sometimes the devil’s eye, ears, and mouth.
The more you expose yourself publicly online, the more you are treading on dangerous grounds since this could attract evil people who could ruin your life, family, marriage, and career.
你要明白这些……
不是每个人都会为你高兴的。
你在社交媒体上得到的大多数“好”评都是假的。
你只会把邪恶的目光吸引到你和你的家人身上。
有些人无缘无故地讨厌你。
人不是他们看起来的那样。网络已经被网络跟踪者渗透，他们可能是你的前任或者你的邻居。
根据一些统计数据，多达50%的社交媒体账户可能是假的。
你每天看起来都很迷人，这只是在吸引嫉妒你的人进入你的生活。
你不知道谁在保存你的照片，谁在查看你的更新。
社交媒体有时是魔鬼的眼睛、耳朵和嘴巴。
你在网上暴露自己越多，你就越危险，因为这可能会吸引坏人，他们可能会毁了你的生活、家庭、婚姻和事业。
Not everyone is going to be happy for you.
Most of the “nice” comments you get on social media are fake.
You are just attracting the evil eye on you and your family.
There are people who just hate you for no apparent reason.
People are not what they seem like. The internet has been infiltrated by cyber-stalkers who could be your ex or your next-door neighbor.
Up to 50% of social media accounts could be fake according to some statistics.
You are just attracting jealous people into your life every day you look attractive.
You don’t know who is saving your pictures and checking your upxes.
Social media is sometimes the devil’s eye, ears, and mouth.
The more you expose yourself publicly online, the more you are treading on dangerous grounds since this could attract evil people who could ruin your life, family, marriage, and career.
你要明白这些……
不是每个人都会为你高兴的。
你在社交媒体上得到的大多数“好”评都是假的。
你只会把邪恶的目光吸引到你和你的家人身上。
有些人无缘无故地讨厌你。
人不是他们看起来的那样。网络已经被网络跟踪者渗透，他们可能是你的前任或者你的邻居。
根据一些统计数据，多达50%的社交媒体账户可能是假的。
你每天看起来都很迷人，这只是在吸引嫉妒你的人进入你的生活。
你不知道谁在保存你的照片，谁在查看你的更新。
社交媒体有时是魔鬼的眼睛、耳朵和嘴巴。
你在网上暴露自己越多，你就越危险，因为这可能会吸引坏人，他们可能会毁了你的生活、家庭、婚姻和事业。
Vaishnavi Sam, Former Intern
Stop expecting from others. Expectations only lead to disappointments.
Never ignore the people who make an effort to check on you.
Never ever judge people before knowing their side of the story.
Learn to say NO and prioritize your sanity over anything else.
Always stand up and fight for yourself because no one will come to help you.
Never ever sabotage and compare yourself. You are precious and unstoppable.
Don’t rush into things such as losing virginity, drugs, smoking and excessive drinking just to look cool or cause of peer pressure. Even if you smoke/drink make sure it does not become an addiction.
Quit procrastinating and being lethargic. These will cost you a lot in future.
Never ever compromise on your goals and dreams. I repeat, NEVER!
Always stick to your words and don’t break your promises.
不要指望别人。期待只会导致失望。
永远不要忽视那些努力检查你的人。
在了解别人的情况之前，永远不要妄下定论。
学会说不，把你的理智放在首位。
永远要站起来为自己奋斗，因为没有人会来帮助你。
永远不要破坏和比较你自己。你是珍贵的，不可阻挡的。
不要为了看起来很酷或引起同伴的压力而急于做一些事情，比如失去童贞、吸毒、吸烟和酗酒。即使你抽烟/喝酒，也要确保它不会上瘾。
停止拖延和昏昏欲睡。这些将在将来花费你很多。
永远不要在你的目标和梦想上妥协。我再说一遍，永远不会！
要遵守你的诺言，不要违背承诺。
Stop expecting from others. Expectations only lead to disappointments.
Never ignore the people who make an effort to check on you.
Never ever judge people before knowing their side of the story.
Learn to say NO and prioritize your sanity over anything else.
Always stand up and fight for yourself because no one will come to help you.
Never ever sabotage and compare yourself. You are precious and unstoppable.
Don’t rush into things such as losing virginity, drugs, smoking and excessive drinking just to look cool or cause of peer pressure. Even if you smoke/drink make sure it does not become an addiction.
Quit procrastinating and being lethargic. These will cost you a lot in future.
Never ever compromise on your goals and dreams. I repeat, NEVER!
Always stick to your words and don’t break your promises.
不要指望别人。期待只会导致失望。
永远不要忽视那些努力检查你的人。
在了解别人的情况之前，永远不要妄下定论。
学会说不，把你的理智放在首位。
永远要站起来为自己奋斗，因为没有人会来帮助你。
永远不要破坏和比较你自己。你是珍贵的，不可阻挡的。
不要为了看起来很酷或引起同伴的压力而急于做一些事情，比如失去童贞、吸毒、吸烟和酗酒。即使你抽烟/喝酒，也要确保它不会上瘾。
停止拖延和昏昏欲睡。这些将在将来花费你很多。
永远不要在你的目标和梦想上妥协。我再说一遍，永远不会！
要遵守你的诺言，不要违背承诺。
Adarsh Gupta, Humorous Writer
Never date someone for just having sex.
To all those 18+ guys who wanna date a 16 years old girl; date her, love her, make her smile but please don’t spoil her. It’s her growing stage and just don’t date her because you want to have sex with a virgin girl.
Never fall in love with someone who’s still not over his/her ex.
It will act like a slow poison which will lead you to a silent death of your soul.
Very rare chances are there that he/she might overcome the memories of his/her ex but it’s 100% sure that you will get hurt in all these.
Never feel ashamed of your parents if they are illiterate or don’t know something.
If two illiterate people can raise an educated child like you, then imagine how capable they are.
They taught you how to walk on your legs so it’s your responsibility now to teach them how to walk and cope up in this era of modern life.
Never choose love over career.
Between love and career, you chose love. And then you both can sit on the footpath, holding hands, carrying a begging bowl. Sounds romantic? Exactly, now choose a career and shut the f*ck up.
不要约炮。
致那些想和16岁女孩约会的18岁以上的男人：和她约会，爱她，逗她笑，但请不要宠坏她。这是她的成长阶段，不要因为你想和处女上床就和她约会。
永远不要爱上一个还没有忘记前任的人。
它就像一种缓慢的毒药，会导致你的灵魂无声的死亡。
他/她很难克服对前任的记忆，但你百分百肯定会因此受到伤害。
如果你的父母是文盲或者什么都不知道，永远不要为他们感到羞耻。
如果两个不识字的人都能抚养像你这样受过教育的孩子，那你想想他们有多能干。
他们教会了你如何用腿走路，所以现在你有责任教他们如何走路，如何应对这个现代生活的时代。
永远不要选择爱情而不是事业。
在爱情和事业之间，你选择了爱情。然后你们俩可以坐在人行道上，手牵着手，拿着一个碗乞讨。听起来浪漫? 没错，现在选择一个职业，然后闭上你的臭嘴。
Never date someone for just having sex.
To all those 18+ guys who wanna date a 16 years old girl; date her, love her, make her smile but please don’t spoil her. It’s her growing stage and just don’t date her because you want to have sex with a virgin girl.
Never fall in love with someone who’s still not over his/her ex.
It will act like a slow poison which will lead you to a silent death of your soul.
Very rare chances are there that he/she might overcome the memories of his/her ex but it’s 100% sure that you will get hurt in all these.
Never feel ashamed of your parents if they are illiterate or don’t know something.
If two illiterate people can raise an educated child like you, then imagine how capable they are.
They taught you how to walk on your legs so it’s your responsibility now to teach them how to walk and cope up in this era of modern life.
Never choose love over career.
Between love and career, you chose love. And then you both can sit on the footpath, holding hands, carrying a begging bowl. Sounds romantic? Exactly, now choose a career and shut the f*ck up.
不要约炮。
致那些想和16岁女孩约会的18岁以上的男人：和她约会，爱她，逗她笑，但请不要宠坏她。这是她的成长阶段，不要因为你想和处女上床就和她约会。
永远不要爱上一个还没有忘记前任的人。
它就像一种缓慢的毒药，会导致你的灵魂无声的死亡。
他/她很难克服对前任的记忆，但你百分百肯定会因此受到伤害。
如果你的父母是文盲或者什么都不知道，永远不要为他们感到羞耻。
如果两个不识字的人都能抚养像你这样受过教育的孩子，那你想想他们有多能干。
他们教会了你如何用腿走路，所以现在你有责任教他们如何走路，如何应对这个现代生活的时代。
永远不要选择爱情而不是事业。
在爱情和事业之间，你选择了爱情。然后你们俩可以坐在人行道上，手牵着手，拿着一个碗乞讨。听起来浪漫? 没错，现在选择一个职业，然后闭上你的臭嘴。
Never boast too much of yourself.
How the hell can you feel pride of yourself if you can’t even pick up your own body after your death and need the help of someone else for lifting it.
Never demean someone due to their caste or color.
You ask the caste of a person before marriages and you ask the caste of a person before entering into certain temples; then why don’t you ask the caste of that person whose bottle of blood is consumed by you in the hospitals when required.
Never always be honest and straightforward.
Straight tress are chosen to be cut first while honest people are meant to be screwed first.
Never underestimate failure.
Only a failure gives you the proper perspective of success.
Never tease someone for their physical appearance.
So what if she’s fat, she doesn’t feed on your father’s money.
So what if he has a dark complexion, his heart might be brighter than yours.
Never always try to explain people.
They will only believe what they want to.
Life becomes much simpler when you stop explaining yourself to people and just do what works for you.
不要吹嘘自己。
如果你死后连自己的尸体都抬不起来，需要别人的帮助，你怎么能感到骄傲呢?
永远不要因为种姓或肤色而贬低别人。
你在结婚前问一个人的种姓你在进入某些寺庙前问一个人的种姓;那你为什么不问问那个在医院里被你喝光血的人的种姓呢。
不要总是诚实和直率。
笔直的头发被选择先被剪掉，而诚实的人则被选择先被拧死。
永远不要低估失败。
只有失败才会让你正确看待成功。
永远不要取笑别人的外表。
就算她很胖，又不是靠你父亲的钱吃饭。
如果他的肤色较黑，他的心脏可能比你的更亮。
不要总是试图解释别人。
他们只会相信他们想相信的。
当你停止向别人解释自己，只做对你有用的事情时，生活变得简单多了。
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How the hell can you feel pride of yourself if you can’t even pick up your own body after your death and need the help of someone else for lifting it.
Never demean someone due to their caste or color.
You ask the caste of a person before marriages and you ask the caste of a person before entering into certain temples; then why don’t you ask the caste of that person whose bottle of blood is consumed by you in the hospitals when required.
Never always be honest and straightforward.
Straight tress are chosen to be cut first while honest people are meant to be screwed first.
Never underestimate failure.
Only a failure gives you the proper perspective of success.
Never tease someone for their physical appearance.
So what if she’s fat, she doesn’t feed on your father’s money.
So what if he has a dark complexion, his heart might be brighter than yours.
Never always try to explain people.
They will only believe what they want to.
Life becomes much simpler when you stop explaining yourself to people and just do what works for you.
不要吹嘘自己。
如果你死后连自己的尸体都抬不起来，需要别人的帮助，你怎么能感到骄傲呢?
永远不要因为种姓或肤色而贬低别人。
你在结婚前问一个人的种姓你在进入某些寺庙前问一个人的种姓;那你为什么不问问那个在医院里被你喝光血的人的种姓呢。
不要总是诚实和直率。
笔直的头发被选择先被剪掉，而诚实的人则被选择先被拧死。
永远不要低估失败。
只有失败才会让你正确看待成功。
永远不要取笑别人的外表。
就算她很胖，又不是靠你父亲的钱吃饭。
如果他的肤色较黑，他的心脏可能比你的更亮。
不要总是试图解释别人。
他们只会相信他们想相信的。
当你停止向别人解释自己，只做对你有用的事情时，生活变得简单多了。
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Puja Jain
Never underestimate anyone.
Yes, the girl that you made fun of for her looks is now working as a model.
The boy who you thought was a nerd, is living a luxurious life in a developed country.
Never tell people you understand when you don’t.
The girl who was suffering from depression thought you were her friend until she overheard you saying that she is exaggerating.
Never make people wait.
The dream job you were waiting for is given to someone who made it on time and earned those extra points.
Never tell anyone your deepest secrets.
The day you were shocked when your so called true friend was spreading your secrets as a breaking news.
Never disrespect people who are financially weaker than you.
The old lady selling pens on signal who you shooed away, has a son suffering from a life-threatening disease.
永远不要低估任何人。
是的，你取笑过的那个女孩现在当模特了。
你认为是书呆子的那个男孩，在发达国家过着奢侈的生活。
如果你不懂，千万不要告诉别人你懂。
那个患有抑郁症的女孩以为你是她的朋友，直到她无意中听到你说她在夸大其词。
不要让别人等待。
你等待的理想工作是给那些及时完成并获得额外分数的人。
永远不要告诉任何人你内心深处的秘密。
当你所谓的真朋友把你的秘密作为突发新闻传播时，你感到震惊的那一天。
永远不要不尊重经济实力不如你的人。
被你赶走的那个卖笔的老太太，她的儿子得了致命的疾病。
Never underestimate anyone.
Yes, the girl that you made fun of for her looks is now working as a model.
The boy who you thought was a nerd, is living a luxurious life in a developed country.
Never tell people you understand when you don’t.
The girl who was suffering from depression thought you were her friend until she overheard you saying that she is exaggerating.
Never make people wait.
The dream job you were waiting for is given to someone who made it on time and earned those extra points.
Never tell anyone your deepest secrets.
The day you were shocked when your so called true friend was spreading your secrets as a breaking news.
Never disrespect people who are financially weaker than you.
The old lady selling pens on signal who you shooed away, has a son suffering from a life-threatening disease.
永远不要低估任何人。
是的，你取笑过的那个女孩现在当模特了。
你认为是书呆子的那个男孩，在发达国家过着奢侈的生活。
如果你不懂，千万不要告诉别人你懂。
那个患有抑郁症的女孩以为你是她的朋友，直到她无意中听到你说她在夸大其词。
不要让别人等待。
你等待的理想工作是给那些及时完成并获得额外分数的人。
永远不要告诉任何人你内心深处的秘密。
当你所谓的真朋友把你的秘密作为突发新闻传播时，你感到震惊的那一天。
永远不要不尊重经济实力不如你的人。
被你赶走的那个卖笔的老太太，她的儿子得了致命的疾病。
Never let anyone decide your self-worth.
The acid attack survivor who was told that her life is worse than death, is now walking the ramp for a international fashion event.
Never stop learning.
The 90 year old man you saw trying to take pictures from a smart phone still did not give up on learning.
Never chase people who don’t want you in their lives.
The girl who rejected you for your looks, is now divorced because all her husband had was just good looks.
Never judge people on their outer appearance.
The girl you thought was too fat is going through depression and starving herself to match the so called beauty standards.
Never give up.
The man who was rejected 10 times by Harvard and from 30 jobs is now one of the richest man in the world.
永远不要让任何人决定你的自我价值。
被告知活着比死亡还痛苦的硫酸袭击幸存者，现在正走在国际时尚活动的大道上。
永远不要停止学习。
你看到的那个试图用智能手机拍照的 90 岁老人仍然没有放弃学习。
永远不要去追那些不需要你的人。
那个因为你的长相而拒绝你的女孩，现在离婚了，因为她的丈夫只有美貌。
永远不要以貌取人。
你认为太胖的女孩正在经历抑郁和饥饿，以符合所谓的美丽标准。
永不放弃。
这位曾被哈佛 10 次拒绝并从 30 个工作岗位中脱颖而出的人现在是世界上最富有的人之一。
The acid attack survivor who was told that her life is worse than death, is now walking the ramp for a international fashion event.
Never stop learning.
The 90 year old man you saw trying to take pictures from a smart phone still did not give up on learning.
Never chase people who don’t want you in their lives.
The girl who rejected you for your looks, is now divorced because all her husband had was just good looks.
Never judge people on their outer appearance.
The girl you thought was too fat is going through depression and starving herself to match the so called beauty standards.
Never give up.
The man who was rejected 10 times by Harvard and from 30 jobs is now one of the richest man in the world.
永远不要让任何人决定你的自我价值。
被告知活着比死亡还痛苦的硫酸袭击幸存者，现在正走在国际时尚活动的大道上。
永远不要停止学习。
你看到的那个试图用智能手机拍照的 90 岁老人仍然没有放弃学习。
永远不要去追那些不需要你的人。
那个因为你的长相而拒绝你的女孩，现在离婚了，因为她的丈夫只有美貌。
永远不要以貌取人。
你认为太胖的女孩正在经历抑郁和饥饿，以符合所谓的美丽标准。
永不放弃。
这位曾被哈佛 10 次拒绝并从 30 个工作岗位中脱颖而出的人现在是世界上最富有的人之一。
Sean Lana, studied History & German at University of Hamburg
Never expose your ex-partner nudes, videos. Don’t destroy someone else life, after breakups move on.
Never waste your time pursuing unrealistic goals.
Never destroy someone else happiness. If a girl tells you that she is currently in a serious relationship, accept this fact and move on. The game will always rotate itself if you ruin her current relationship.
Never try drugs for once because once, twice leads to addiction.
Never make the wrong choices about life because your choice determines your future and happiness.
Never lie to someone who trusts you, never trust someone who lies to you.
Never belittle anybody, treat everybody you meet with love.
Never say that won’t happen to me ‘’Life has a funny way of proving us wrong.’’
Never take actions without thinking. Always think before making any decision.
Never trust someone who takes hours to text you back, but when you hang out with them they check their phone every minute.
Never reply or give responses anytime you are angry.
Never make a promise when you are happy.
Never make decisions when are sad
Never force yourself on anybody, a person that truly want you will walk with you.
Never, I repeat again never! never give up
永远不要暴露你前任的果照、视频。分手后不要毁掉别人的生活。
永远不要浪费时间追求不切实际的目标。
永远不要破坏别人的幸福。如果一个女孩告诉你她目前正处于一段认真的关系中，接受这个事实并继续前进。如果你毁了她现在的关系，到时候有人会毁坏你们的关系。
永远不要尝试一次毒品，因为一次、两次会上瘾。
永远不要对生活做出错误的选择，因为你的选择决定了你的未来和幸福。
永远不要对信任你的人撒谎，永远不要相信对你撒谎的人。
永远不要贬低任何人，用爱对待你遇到的每一个人。
永远不要说这不会发生在我身上“生活有一种有趣的方式来证明我们是错的。”
永远不要不假思索地采取行动。在做出任何决定之前，请务必三思。
永远不要相信那些花几个小时给你回短信的人，当你和他们在一起的时候，他们每分钟都在看手机。
生气时切勿回复或作出回应。
永远不要在你开心的时候做出承诺。
悲伤时永远不要做决定。
永远不要强迫任何人，真正想要你的人会和你一起走。
永远，我再一次重复永远！永不放弃。
Never expose your ex-partner nudes, videos. Don’t destroy someone else life, after breakups move on.
Never waste your time pursuing unrealistic goals.
Never destroy someone else happiness. If a girl tells you that she is currently in a serious relationship, accept this fact and move on. The game will always rotate itself if you ruin her current relationship.
Never try drugs for once because once, twice leads to addiction.
Never make the wrong choices about life because your choice determines your future and happiness.
Never lie to someone who trusts you, never trust someone who lies to you.
Never belittle anybody, treat everybody you meet with love.
Never say that won’t happen to me ‘’Life has a funny way of proving us wrong.’’
Never take actions without thinking. Always think before making any decision.
Never trust someone who takes hours to text you back, but when you hang out with them they check their phone every minute.
Never reply or give responses anytime you are angry.
Never make a promise when you are happy.
Never make decisions when are sad
Never force yourself on anybody, a person that truly want you will walk with you.
Never, I repeat again never! never give up
永远不要暴露你前任的果照、视频。分手后不要毁掉别人的生活。
永远不要浪费时间追求不切实际的目标。
永远不要破坏别人的幸福。如果一个女孩告诉你她目前正处于一段认真的关系中，接受这个事实并继续前进。如果你毁了她现在的关系，到时候有人会毁坏你们的关系。
永远不要尝试一次毒品，因为一次、两次会上瘾。
永远不要对生活做出错误的选择，因为你的选择决定了你的未来和幸福。
永远不要对信任你的人撒谎，永远不要相信对你撒谎的人。
永远不要贬低任何人，用爱对待你遇到的每一个人。
永远不要说这不会发生在我身上“生活有一种有趣的方式来证明我们是错的。”
永远不要不假思索地采取行动。在做出任何决定之前，请务必三思。
永远不要相信那些花几个小时给你回短信的人，当你和他们在一起的时候，他们每分钟都在看手机。
生气时切勿回复或作出回应。
永远不要在你开心的时候做出承诺。
悲伤时永远不要做决定。
永远不要强迫任何人，真正想要你的人会和你一起走。
永远，我再一次重复永远！永不放弃。
Judy Wanjiku J?rgensen, Kenyan living in Denmark
Never date a married man/woman - I have watched some people get into this kind of affairs, and I couldn’t imagine going out with someone who goes home to his Spouse. I can’t!
Never loan money to people - instead give them what you can afford without expecting anything back.
Never come to work sick - you might want to prove how diligent you are, but your colleagues will hate you if you infect them.
Never befriend your ex - especially if they hurt you. Some things are best left to the past.
Never nap for more than an hour - you will wake up feeling more tired. Instead, choose shorter power naps.
Never tell your deepest secrets to anyone (unless you have leverage) - some secrets are best taken to the grave.
Never let a poor upbringing dictate your future - I was brought up in an underprivileged home, but it gave me the motivation to get as far away from poverty as I could.
Never touch a black woman's hair without asking first- unless you want a smack on your forehead.
Never assume that Africa is a country- Africa is a continent and just because we are black doesn’t mean we share the same languages or cultures.
Never be afraid to ask for help - it may make you feel vulnerable, but in the end, you will be glad you asked if things work out well for you.
永远不要和已婚的男人/女人约会，我看到过一些人陷入这种婚外情，我无法想象和一个回到家里配偶身边的人约会。我不能!
永远不要借钱给别人，而是把你能付得起的钱给他们，不要指望还钱。
永远不要带病上班，你可能想证明自己有多勤奋，但如果你把病传染给了同事，他们会讨厌你。
永远不要和你的前任做朋友，尤其是当他们伤害了你的时候。有些事还是过去的好。
不要小睡超过一个小时，你醒来时会觉得更累。相反，选择短暂的小睡。
永远不要把你内心深处的秘密告诉任何人(除非你有筹码)，有些秘密最好带进坟墓。
永远不要让贫穷的教养决定你的未来，我是在一个贫困家庭长大的，但它给了我动力，让我尽可能远离贫困。
除非你想让别人在你额头上拍一下，否则千万不要擅自摸黑人女性的头发。
永远不要认为非洲是一个国家，非洲是一个大陆，仅仅因为我们是黑人，并不意味着我们拥有相同的语言或文化。
永远不要害怕寻求帮助，这可能会让你感到脆弱，但最后，你会很高兴你问过事情对你有好处。
Never date a married man/woman - I have watched some people get into this kind of affairs, and I couldn’t imagine going out with someone who goes home to his Spouse. I can’t!
Never loan money to people - instead give them what you can afford without expecting anything back.
Never come to work sick - you might want to prove how diligent you are, but your colleagues will hate you if you infect them.
Never befriend your ex - especially if they hurt you. Some things are best left to the past.
Never nap for more than an hour - you will wake up feeling more tired. Instead, choose shorter power naps.
Never tell your deepest secrets to anyone (unless you have leverage) - some secrets are best taken to the grave.
Never let a poor upbringing dictate your future - I was brought up in an underprivileged home, but it gave me the motivation to get as far away from poverty as I could.
Never touch a black woman's hair without asking first- unless you want a smack on your forehead.
Never assume that Africa is a country- Africa is a continent and just because we are black doesn’t mean we share the same languages or cultures.
Never be afraid to ask for help - it may make you feel vulnerable, but in the end, you will be glad you asked if things work out well for you.
永远不要和已婚的男人/女人约会，我看到过一些人陷入这种婚外情，我无法想象和一个回到家里配偶身边的人约会。我不能!
永远不要借钱给别人，而是把你能付得起的钱给他们，不要指望还钱。
永远不要带病上班，你可能想证明自己有多勤奋，但如果你把病传染给了同事，他们会讨厌你。
永远不要和你的前任做朋友，尤其是当他们伤害了你的时候。有些事还是过去的好。
不要小睡超过一个小时，你醒来时会觉得更累。相反，选择短暂的小睡。
永远不要把你内心深处的秘密告诉任何人(除非你有筹码)，有些秘密最好带进坟墓。
永远不要让贫穷的教养决定你的未来，我是在一个贫困家庭长大的，但它给了我动力，让我尽可能远离贫困。
除非你想让别人在你额头上拍一下，否则千万不要擅自摸黑人女性的头发。
永远不要认为非洲是一个国家，非洲是一个大陆，仅仅因为我们是黑人，并不意味着我们拥有相同的语言或文化。
永远不要害怕寻求帮助，这可能会让你感到脆弱，但最后，你会很高兴你问过事情对你有好处。
Fateh Nazmul Islam， Sales Training Manager at Nestlé Bangladesh (2005-present)
Expect weight loss from 1 day exercise.
Give loan to a drug addict.
Go to work without brushing your teeth.
Go to work without shower & without body spray/ perfume.
Talk to some one so close that you spit on them.
Boast about your powerful relative & friends.
Spend all your earning.
Start a day without three glass water in the morning.
Sacrifice on your daily necessities.
Miss the chance to laugh in a day.
Bonus : Like an answer , but dont up vote & share !
指望一天的锻炼可以减重。
向吸毒者贷款。
不刷牙就去上班。
上班不洗澡，不喷身体喷雾。
和某个人说得太近以至于你的口水溅在他们身上。
夸耀你有权势的亲戚和朋友。
花光你所有的收入。
开始一天不喝三杯水的生活。
牺牲你的日常必需品。
错过一天大笑的机会。
奖励: 喜欢某个答案，但不要投票和分享!
原创翻译：龙腾网 https://www.ltaaa.cn 转载请注明出处
Expect weight loss from 1 day exercise.
Give loan to a drug addict.
Go to work without brushing your teeth.
Go to work without shower & without body spray/ perfume.
Talk to some one so close that you spit on them.
Boast about your powerful relative & friends.
Spend all your earning.
Start a day without three glass water in the morning.
Sacrifice on your daily necessities.
Miss the chance to laugh in a day.
Bonus : Like an answer , but dont up vote & share !
指望一天的锻炼可以减重。
向吸毒者贷款。
不刷牙就去上班。
上班不洗澡，不喷身体喷雾。
和某个人说得太近以至于你的口水溅在他们身上。
夸耀你有权势的亲戚和朋友。
花光你所有的收入。
开始一天不喝三杯水的生活。
牺牲你的日常必需品。
错过一天大笑的机会。
奖励: 喜欢某个答案，但不要投票和分享!
原创翻译：龙腾网 https://www.ltaaa.cn 转载请注明出处
Sahana M
So here are a few pointers :-
Mind your own business, never hamper people's privacy.
If a person says no, don't force them, you did your part convincing, now it's upto them
Never, I mean Never involve in other people's life. May it be your best friend. Give a great support but don't direct their life.
Try to be independent on all aspects of your life. So you don't need to beg if the day comes.
这里有一些建议:
管好你自己的事，不要去涉及别人的隐私。
如果有人说不，不要强迫他们，你已经完成了说服的部分，现在就看他们的了。
永远，我的意思是永远不要介入别人的生活。也许他你最好的朋友，给予他们极大的支持，但不要指导他们的生活。
在生活的各个方面都要独立。所以你不会出现需要去乞求的那一天。
So here are a few pointers :-
Mind your own business, never hamper people's privacy.
If a person says no, don't force them, you did your part convincing, now it's upto them
Never, I mean Never involve in other people's life. May it be your best friend. Give a great support but don't direct their life.
Try to be independent on all aspects of your life. So you don't need to beg if the day comes.
这里有一些建议:
管好你自己的事，不要去涉及别人的隐私。
如果有人说不，不要强迫他们，你已经完成了说服的部分，现在就看他们的了。
永远，我的意思是永远不要介入别人的生活。也许他你最好的朋友，给予他们极大的支持，但不要指导他们的生活。
在生活的各个方面都要独立。所以你不会出现需要去乞求的那一天。
Learn to “love by detachment”, it basically means , love people but don't expect things from them. Ex: you give a gift to your friend on their birthday, but you should be ready not to expect the same from them. I know this is a little harsh, but it gives you the strength to accept the reality and love by all means.
Accept the fact that not everyone is going to like you. You may be the favourite in you place, but once you're out of your place, you can't tell.
Try to be diplomatic with people who are not close to you. You never know what their intentions are.
Guys this is so important, people overrate success so much, but I feel people who work hard and fail are the strongest. We all put in hardwork but only a few get the results. Now in this case we all start blaming things, but remember it's fair. Because it's how nature works. So may be it wasn't our day. It's fine. Let's just appreciate ourselves for giving our efforts and gracefully accepting the failure.
Stop hating people. When you say 'I hate that guy' you are actually harming yourself by spoiling your mood, also the one who is hearing it while adding negativity into your life.
This is all I've got guys!
学会“超然地爱”，它的基本意思是，爱别人，但不要期望从他们身上得到什么。你在朋友生日那天送了礼物，但你应该准备好不要期望他们也送你同样的礼物。我知道这有点苛刻，但它给了你接受现实的力量，让你不择手段去爱。
接受这个事实:不是每个人都会喜欢你。你可能在你的地方是最受欢迎的，但一旦你离开了原来地方，就不知道了。
对那些与你不亲近的人要圆滑一些。你永远不知道他们的意图是什么。
伙计们，这很重要，人们总是对成功者高看一眼，但我觉得努力工作但失败的人是最坚强的。我们都付出了努力，但只有少数人得到了结果。在这种情况下，我们都开始指责，但记住这是公平的，因为这是自然规律。也许今天不是属于我们的日子。让我们欣赏自己付出的努力，优雅地接受失败。
停止憎恨的人。当你说“我讨厌那个家伙”时，你实际上是在伤害自己，破坏了自己的情绪，同时也伤害了那个听你说话的人，给你的生活增加了负面影响。
伙计们，这就是我要说的全部内容了!
Accept the fact that not everyone is going to like you. You may be the favourite in you place, but once you're out of your place, you can't tell.
Try to be diplomatic with people who are not close to you. You never know what their intentions are.
Guys this is so important, people overrate success so much, but I feel people who work hard and fail are the strongest. We all put in hardwork but only a few get the results. Now in this case we all start blaming things, but remember it's fair. Because it's how nature works. So may be it wasn't our day. It's fine. Let's just appreciate ourselves for giving our efforts and gracefully accepting the failure.
Stop hating people. When you say 'I hate that guy' you are actually harming yourself by spoiling your mood, also the one who is hearing it while adding negativity into your life.
This is all I've got guys!
学会“超然地爱”，它的基本意思是，爱别人，但不要期望从他们身上得到什么。你在朋友生日那天送了礼物，但你应该准备好不要期望他们也送你同样的礼物。我知道这有点苛刻，但它给了你接受现实的力量，让你不择手段去爱。
接受这个事实:不是每个人都会喜欢你。你可能在你的地方是最受欢迎的，但一旦你离开了原来地方，就不知道了。
对那些与你不亲近的人要圆滑一些。你永远不知道他们的意图是什么。
伙计们，这很重要，人们总是对成功者高看一眼，但我觉得努力工作但失败的人是最坚强的。我们都付出了努力，但只有少数人得到了结果。在这种情况下，我们都开始指责，但记住这是公平的，因为这是自然规律。也许今天不是属于我们的日子。让我们欣赏自己付出的努力，优雅地接受失败。
停止憎恨的人。当你说“我讨厌那个家伙”时，你实际上是在伤害自己，破坏了自己的情绪，同时也伤害了那个听你说话的人，给你的生活增加了负面影响。
伙计们，这就是我要说的全部内容了!
Ankit Srivastava
Never share your ATM Pin/CVV or other bank credentials with anyone.
Isn't that obvious?
Never share your intimate moments with your bf/gf to anyone.
You never know it might spread faster than COVID among your peers.
Never ever beat your younger brother/sister.
No matter what at the end it would be your fault.
永远不要与任何人分享你的银行卡取款密码或其他银行凭据。
这难道不是显而易见的吗?
永远不要把你和男朋友/女朋友的亲密时刻告诉任何人—你永远不知道它可能会在你的同龄人中比新冠传播速度更快。
永远不要打你的弟弟/妹妹。
无论结果如何都是你的错。
Never share your ATM Pin/CVV or other bank credentials with anyone.
Isn't that obvious?
Never share your intimate moments with your bf/gf to anyone.
You never know it might spread faster than COVID among your peers.
Never ever beat your younger brother/sister.
No matter what at the end it would be your fault.
永远不要与任何人分享你的银行卡取款密码或其他银行凭据。
这难道不是显而易见的吗?
永远不要把你和男朋友/女朋友的亲密时刻告诉任何人—你永远不知道它可能会在你的同龄人中比新冠传播速度更快。
永远不要打你的弟弟/妹妹。
无论结果如何都是你的错。
Never get into a relationship without meeting in person. (My opinion)
You have no idea whether that person actually exists or not.
‘She understands me very well'. Bro you don't even know whether she's a girl or a boy
Never disclose your salary to someone.
The moment you do get ready for some charity work.
Never disclose your future plans and wannabes of life.
The moment you do you'll smell negativity all around.
‘ You are becoming way too ambitious dude stay grounded. I know of a guy who had the same plans and he failed miserably.
没有见过面就不要谈恋爱。(我的观点)
你不知道那个人是否真的存在。
“她非常了解我。”兄弟，你都不知道她是男是女。
永远不要向别人透露你的薪水。
等你为慈善工作做好准备的时候。
永远不要透露你未来的计划和你想要的生活。
当你这样做的时候，你会闻到到处都是消极的味道—“你变得太有野心了，伙计，脚踏实地吧。我知道有个人也有同样的计划，但他悲惨地失败了。
You have no idea whether that person actually exists or not.
‘She understands me very well'. Bro you don't even know whether she's a girl or a boy
Never disclose your salary to someone.
The moment you do get ready for some charity work.
Never disclose your future plans and wannabes of life.
The moment you do you'll smell negativity all around.
‘ You are becoming way too ambitious dude stay grounded. I know of a guy who had the same plans and he failed miserably.
没有见过面就不要谈恋爱。(我的观点)
你不知道那个人是否真的存在。
“她非常了解我。”兄弟，你都不知道她是男是女。
永远不要向别人透露你的薪水。
等你为慈善工作做好准备的时候。
永远不要透露你未来的计划和你想要的生活。
当你这样做的时候，你会闻到到处都是消极的味道—“你变得太有野心了，伙计，脚踏实地吧。我知道有个人也有同样的计划，但他悲惨地失败了。
‘Never become a philosopher until you are rich'- Shahrukh Khan
‘Never preach philosophy to someone until you are rich'- Ankit.
Never end your life because of any possible fcuking reason.
You'll get more chances in life then you ever imagine right now.
At least think of your parents!
If you ever feel alone and there is no one to speak with you just know that there is a guy named Ankit Srivastava who writes on quora and will always be there for you. Feel free to reach me but do not take your life.
Please it's a request.
“致富之前永远不要成为哲学家”—沙鲁克·汗
“永远不要向别人鼓吹哲学，直到你变得富有”—安基特。
永远不要因为任何可能的原因结束自己的生命—你会得到比你现在想象的更多的机会。
至少想想你的父母吧!
如果你曾经感到孤独，没有人可以和你说话，你只需要知道有一个叫Ankit Srivastava的人，他在quora上写道：永远在你身边。尽管来找我，但请别自杀。
‘Never preach philosophy to someone until you are rich'- Ankit.
Never end your life because of any possible fcuking reason.
You'll get more chances in life then you ever imagine right now.
At least think of your parents!
If you ever feel alone and there is no one to speak with you just know that there is a guy named Ankit Srivastava who writes on quora and will always be there for you. Feel free to reach me but do not take your life.
Please it's a request.
“致富之前永远不要成为哲学家”—沙鲁克·汗
“永远不要向别人鼓吹哲学，直到你变得富有”—安基特。
永远不要因为任何可能的原因结束自己的生命—你会得到比你现在想象的更多的机会。
至少想想你的父母吧!
如果你曾经感到孤独，没有人可以和你说话，你只需要知道有一个叫Ankit Srivastava的人，他在quora上写道：永远在你身边。尽管来找我，但请别自杀。
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