哪十件事我们永远不应该做(下)
正文翻译
Which 10 things we should never do?
哪十件事我们永远不应该做(上)
Which 10 things we should never do?
哪十件事我们永远不应该做(上)
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Jeshua Aswin, Author | Rationalist | Writer | Speaker | Reader
Never behold anyone with prejudice.
Never trust the system or religion, but humanity.
Never predict the future, create it.
Never listen to respond, but to comprehend. Value others perspectives.
Never be so busy striving to make a living that you forget how to live a life.
Never get stuck on the regrets of what should have happened.
Never let go too soon, but don't hang on too long.
Never take your parents for granted.
Never repeat the same things every day and except a change in the results.
Never wish for fewer problems, but start searching for greater wisdom.
不要带着偏见看待任何人。
永远不要相信制度或宗教，而要相信人性。
永远不要预测未来，要创造未来。
永远不要听别人的回答，而是去理解,重视他人的观点。
永远不要因为忙于谋生而忘记如何生活。
永远不要为本该发生的事后悔。
永远不要过早放手，但不要坚持太久。
永远不要认为你的父母是理所当然的。
不要每天重复同样的事情，除非结果有所改变。
永远不要期望出现的问题会更少，而是开始寻找更大的智慧。
Never behold anyone with prejudice.
Never trust the system or religion, but humanity.
Never predict the future, create it.
Never listen to respond, but to comprehend. Value others perspectives.
Never be so busy striving to make a living that you forget how to live a life.
Never get stuck on the regrets of what should have happened.
Never let go too soon, but don't hang on too long.
Never take your parents for granted.
Never repeat the same things every day and except a change in the results.
Never wish for fewer problems, but start searching for greater wisdom.
不要带着偏见看待任何人。
永远不要相信制度或宗教，而要相信人性。
永远不要预测未来，要创造未来。
永远不要听别人的回答，而是去理解,重视他人的观点。
永远不要因为忙于谋生而忘记如何生活。
永远不要为本该发生的事后悔。
永远不要过早放手，但不要坚持太久。
永远不要认为你的父母是理所当然的。
不要每天重复同样的事情，除非结果有所改变。
永远不要期望出现的问题会更少，而是开始寻找更大的智慧。
Ritu, ba programma from Maiteryi college,DU (2021)
Never try smoking.
Never compare yourself to others.
Never underestimate yourself.
Never ignore your parents.
Never avoid your health.
Never be judgmental.
Never trust anyone easily.
Never argue with teachers just to act smarter in front of your classmates.
Never ever compromise on your goals and dreams.
Never talk to rude anyone.
I hope you like it!!
Thnk you for reading ????
永远不要尝试吸烟。
不要拿自己和别人比较。
永远不要低估自己。
永远不要忽视你的父母。
永远不要逃避你的健康。
永远不要妄下判断。
永远不要轻易相信任何人。
永远不要为了在同学面前表现得更聪明而与老师争论。
永远不要在你的目标和梦想上妥协。
不要和粗鲁的人说话。
我希望你喜欢它！！
谢谢你的阅读。
原创翻译：龙腾网 https://www.ltaaa.cn 转载请注明出处
Never try smoking.
Never compare yourself to others.
Never underestimate yourself.
Never ignore your parents.
Never avoid your health.
Never be judgmental.
Never trust anyone easily.
Never argue with teachers just to act smarter in front of your classmates.
Never ever compromise on your goals and dreams.
Never talk to rude anyone.
I hope you like it!!
Thnk you for reading ????
永远不要尝试吸烟。
不要拿自己和别人比较。
永远不要低估自己。
永远不要忽视你的父母。
永远不要逃避你的健康。
永远不要妄下判断。
永远不要轻易相信任何人。
永远不要为了在同学面前表现得更聪明而与老师争论。
永远不要在你的目标和梦想上妥协。
不要和粗鲁的人说话。
我希望你喜欢它！！
谢谢你的阅读。
原创翻译：龙腾网 https://www.ltaaa.cn 转载请注明出处
Marcella W. Mullen， lives in Melbourne, Victoria, Australia
Marcella W.Mullen，居住在澳大利亚维多利亚州的墨尔本
Marcella W.Mullen，居住在澳大利亚维多利亚州的墨尔本
Trying to persuade someone to like you: love and romance should develop naturally, rather than as a result of you having to oversell (beg) someone to like you.
Smoking: I don't smoke, but I know others who have been smoking their entire lives and are unable to break the habit.
Expensive weddings should be avoided at all costs. You aren't a member of the royal family. It puts a lot of pressure on you for the celebration as well as the wedding.
Staying up late: just because you can doesn’t mean you should. Turn off the TV. Get some sleep.
A friendship is not worth it if the person makes you feel bad about yourself even if it’s only from time to time.
Driving your car fast to impress friends: I know folks who are confined to wheelchairs for the rest of their lives as a result of this.
Winning an Argument: Is there a reason to win this argument? Is it for your ego's sake?
Stop defining yourself before you've even tried something. Because if you try something that you think is impossible, it will become possible.
Doing it later: nothing in this world destroys more potential than procrastination. Stop it before it stops you. Do it now.
Using drugs, alcohol, and/or pills to escape reality. If you can't learn to live with yourself, you aren't growing. "All of humanity's problems stem from man's inability to sit quietly in a room alone.” - French Philosopher Blaise Pascal - written in 1654.
??WARNING: This Can Change Your Life ????
If you've ever been curious about who you truly are, then this is something that you NEED to see...
To me, it felt a little bit surreal - almost too accurate to be true, even.
But as I delved deeper into my archetype, I just couldn't help but think how true everything was.
试图说服某人喜欢你：爱情和浪漫应该自然而然地发展，而不是因为你不得不过度推销（乞求）某人来喜欢你。
吸烟：我不吸烟，但我知道其他人一生都在吸烟，无法改掉这个习惯。
应该不惜一切代价避免昂贵的婚礼。你不是王室成员。这会给你的庆祝和婚礼带来了很大的压力。
熬夜：仅仅因为你能熬夜并不意味着你应该熬夜。关掉电视，睡一会儿。
如果一个人让你感到不好，即使只是偶尔，也不值得发生友谊。
开快车给朋友留下深刻印象：但我认识一些人，他们因此而被限制在轮椅上度过余生。
赢得辩论：有理由赢得这场辩论吗？是为了你的自尊吗？
在你尝试之前就不要定义自己。因为如果你去尝试一些你认为不可能的事情，它就会成为可能。
晚点做：这个世界上没有什么比拖延更能破坏潜力了。在它阻止你之前停止它，现在就做。
使用药物、酒精和/或药片逃避现实。如果你不能学会与自己相处，你就不能成长。“人类所有的问题都源于人类无法独自静静地坐在房间里。”—法国哲学家布莱斯·帕斯卡，1654年。
警告：这可能会改变你的生活。
如果你曾经对自己的真实身份感到好奇，那么这就是你需要看到的。
对我来说，这感觉有点超现实—几乎太准确了，甚至让我感觉不真实。
但当我深入研究我的原型时，我忍不住想，一切都是真的。
Smoking: I don't smoke, but I know others who have been smoking their entire lives and are unable to break the habit.
Expensive weddings should be avoided at all costs. You aren't a member of the royal family. It puts a lot of pressure on you for the celebration as well as the wedding.
Staying up late: just because you can doesn’t mean you should. Turn off the TV. Get some sleep.
A friendship is not worth it if the person makes you feel bad about yourself even if it’s only from time to time.
Driving your car fast to impress friends: I know folks who are confined to wheelchairs for the rest of their lives as a result of this.
Winning an Argument: Is there a reason to win this argument? Is it for your ego's sake?
Stop defining yourself before you've even tried something. Because if you try something that you think is impossible, it will become possible.
Doing it later: nothing in this world destroys more potential than procrastination. Stop it before it stops you. Do it now.
Using drugs, alcohol, and/or pills to escape reality. If you can't learn to live with yourself, you aren't growing. "All of humanity's problems stem from man's inability to sit quietly in a room alone.” - French Philosopher Blaise Pascal - written in 1654.
??WARNING: This Can Change Your Life ????
If you've ever been curious about who you truly are, then this is something that you NEED to see...
To me, it felt a little bit surreal - almost too accurate to be true, even.
But as I delved deeper into my archetype, I just couldn't help but think how true everything was.
试图说服某人喜欢你：爱情和浪漫应该自然而然地发展，而不是因为你不得不过度推销（乞求）某人来喜欢你。
吸烟：我不吸烟，但我知道其他人一生都在吸烟，无法改掉这个习惯。
应该不惜一切代价避免昂贵的婚礼。你不是王室成员。这会给你的庆祝和婚礼带来了很大的压力。
熬夜：仅仅因为你能熬夜并不意味着你应该熬夜。关掉电视，睡一会儿。
如果一个人让你感到不好，即使只是偶尔，也不值得发生友谊。
开快车给朋友留下深刻印象：但我认识一些人，他们因此而被限制在轮椅上度过余生。
赢得辩论：有理由赢得这场辩论吗？是为了你的自尊吗？
在你尝试之前就不要定义自己。因为如果你去尝试一些你认为不可能的事情，它就会成为可能。
晚点做：这个世界上没有什么比拖延更能破坏潜力了。在它阻止你之前停止它，现在就做。
使用药物、酒精和/或药片逃避现实。如果你不能学会与自己相处，你就不能成长。“人类所有的问题都源于人类无法独自静静地坐在房间里。”—法国哲学家布莱斯·帕斯卡，1654年。
警告：这可能会改变你的生活。
如果你曾经对自己的真实身份感到好奇，那么这就是你需要看到的。
对我来说，这感觉有点超现实—几乎太准确了，甚至让我感觉不真实。
但当我深入研究我的原型时，我忍不住想，一切都是真的。
Alexandra Sigg, works at Texas Parks and Wildlife Department
Alexandra Sigg在德克萨斯州公园和野生动物部工作
Alexandra Sigg在德克萨斯州公园和野生动物部工作
Never yell in a fight. The only thing it will accomplish is escalating the matter, and making things worse. You'll get much farther by trying to resolve an argument than trying to win one.
Never compare yourself to others except to measure how far you have come. You won't always be the smartest, strongest, or fastest. But you can always be the toughest, and push yourself farther and harder than they ever will. That is how you become stronger, faster, smarter. That is how you succeed in life.
Never stop asking questions. Curiousity is a gift, you will enjoy life much more if you engage yourself in it, and learn about it. A world you understand is a much more interesting place.
Never drink the most. Reserve yourself to drink only as much as the people you are with do, if even that. It's very easy to impress a drunk person, and very easy to look like a fool when drunk yourself.
Don't live in the ghost of a relationship. Break ups are hard. You may cry. And if you do, that's okay. Even good, because the fact that you are crying means that what you had must have made you really happy. And if you've been happy like that before, you can be happy like that again. Give yourself time, heal, remember the laughter and smiles, and create new ones.
不要在打架时大声喊叫。它唯一能做的就是把事情升级，让事情变得更糟。解决争论比赢得争论会让你走的更远。
永远不要把自己和别人进行比较，除非是衡量你已经走了多远。你不可能永远是最聪明、最强或最快的。但是你可以永远是最坚强的，并且比他们更努力地推动自己。这就是你变得更强、更快、更聪明的方式。也就是你在生活中成功的方式。
永远不要停止提问。好奇心是一种天赋，如果你投身其中并了解它，你会更享受生活。你所了解的世界是一个更有趣的地方。
永远不要喝得太多。只允许喝到到你酒量上限为止。醉酒的人很容易给人留下深刻的印象，而你自己喝醉的时候也很容易看起来像个傻瓜。
不要生活在一段关系的阴影中。分手很难受，你可以哭。如果你这样做了，没关系。甚至哭出来挺好，因为你哭泣意味着你所拥有的一定让你非常快乐。如果你以前曾经这样快乐过，你可以再次这样快乐。给自己时间，疗伤，记住笑声和微笑，创造新的感情。
Never compare yourself to others except to measure how far you have come. You won't always be the smartest, strongest, or fastest. But you can always be the toughest, and push yourself farther and harder than they ever will. That is how you become stronger, faster, smarter. That is how you succeed in life.
Never stop asking questions. Curiousity is a gift, you will enjoy life much more if you engage yourself in it, and learn about it. A world you understand is a much more interesting place.
Never drink the most. Reserve yourself to drink only as much as the people you are with do, if even that. It's very easy to impress a drunk person, and very easy to look like a fool when drunk yourself.
Don't live in the ghost of a relationship. Break ups are hard. You may cry. And if you do, that's okay. Even good, because the fact that you are crying means that what you had must have made you really happy. And if you've been happy like that before, you can be happy like that again. Give yourself time, heal, remember the laughter and smiles, and create new ones.
不要在打架时大声喊叫。它唯一能做的就是把事情升级，让事情变得更糟。解决争论比赢得争论会让你走的更远。
永远不要把自己和别人进行比较，除非是衡量你已经走了多远。你不可能永远是最聪明、最强或最快的。但是你可以永远是最坚强的，并且比他们更努力地推动自己。这就是你变得更强、更快、更聪明的方式。也就是你在生活中成功的方式。
永远不要停止提问。好奇心是一种天赋，如果你投身其中并了解它，你会更享受生活。你所了解的世界是一个更有趣的地方。
永远不要喝得太多。只允许喝到到你酒量上限为止。醉酒的人很容易给人留下深刻的印象，而你自己喝醉的时候也很容易看起来像个傻瓜。
不要生活在一段关系的阴影中。分手很难受，你可以哭。如果你这样做了，没关系。甚至哭出来挺好，因为你哭泣意味着你所拥有的一定让你非常快乐。如果你以前曾经这样快乐过，你可以再次这样快乐。给自己时间，疗伤，记住笑声和微笑，创造新的感情。
Don't break a promise. Your words are your honor, and people will be much more willing to help those who help them.
Don't stop doing what you love. A sport, a hobby, a passion in school - chase, by gosh, CHASE IT. Things that make you happy are worth holding onto with both hands. Don't choose an occupation that doesn't make you excited to be there. Don't worry about money, you can always find ways to make it.
Don't judge based on looks. Some of the best and most impactful people I have met were homeless out on the streets, or the types of kids who I wrinkled my nose at in disgust before I really met them. You'll be amazed how much you can learn and love about people who differ so much from you.
and lastly, Don't assume, ever. and Don't forget to enjoy life, while you are here to live it.
不要违背诺言。你的话是你的荣誉，人们会更愿意帮助那些帮助他们的人。
不要停止做你喜欢做的事：一项运动，一种爱好，一种在学校里的激情—追逐，天哪，追逐它。让你快乐的事情值得你双手紧握。不要选择一个不会让你在那里感到兴奋的职业。别担心钱，你总能找到赚钱的方法。
不要以貌取人。我见过的一些最优秀、最有影响力的人都是流浪街头的流浪汉，或者是那些在我真正见到他们之前，我对他们嗤之以鼻的孩子。你会惊奇地发现，你能从那些和你有很多差异之处的人身上学到很多东西，也喜欢上他们。
最后，永远不要假设。当你在这里生活的时候，别忘了享受生活。
Don't stop doing what you love. A sport, a hobby, a passion in school - chase, by gosh, CHASE IT. Things that make you happy are worth holding onto with both hands. Don't choose an occupation that doesn't make you excited to be there. Don't worry about money, you can always find ways to make it.
Don't judge based on looks. Some of the best and most impactful people I have met were homeless out on the streets, or the types of kids who I wrinkled my nose at in disgust before I really met them. You'll be amazed how much you can learn and love about people who differ so much from you.
and lastly, Don't assume, ever. and Don't forget to enjoy life, while you are here to live it.
不要违背诺言。你的话是你的荣誉，人们会更愿意帮助那些帮助他们的人。
不要停止做你喜欢做的事：一项运动，一种爱好，一种在学校里的激情—追逐，天哪，追逐它。让你快乐的事情值得你双手紧握。不要选择一个不会让你在那里感到兴奋的职业。别担心钱，你总能找到赚钱的方法。
不要以貌取人。我见过的一些最优秀、最有影响力的人都是流浪街头的流浪汉，或者是那些在我真正见到他们之前，我对他们嗤之以鼻的孩子。你会惊奇地发现，你能从那些和你有很多差异之处的人身上学到很多东西，也喜欢上他们。
最后，永远不要假设。当你在这里生活的时候，别忘了享受生活。
Aristotle Manolakos, lives in Austin, TX
亚里士多德·马诺拉科斯，居住在德克萨斯州奥斯汀
亚里士多德·马诺拉科斯，居住在德克萨斯州奥斯汀
Never compare hardships. Hard is hard. It isn't relative to anyone else.
Never handle a situation while emotions are high. Focus on trying to resolve the situation.
Don't talk yourself down. Don't be too hard on yourself after a bad day. You're human. Be human.
Don't judge others. You don't know their story.
Don't spend more than you earn.
Don't forget to tell your friends and family you love them.
Never be afraid to admit when you're wrong.
Never be afraid to apologize.
Never let the past control the future.
Never gossip.
不要比较困难。难就是难，它与其他任何人都没有关系。
千万不要在情绪高涨的时候处理事情，集中精力解决问题。
不要贬低自己。糟糕的一天过后，不要对自己太苛刻，你是人类，就有人性。
不要评判别人，你不知道他们的故事。
不要花得比挣的多。
别忘了告诉你的朋友和家人你爱他们。
永远不要害怕承认错误。
永远不要害怕道歉。
永远不要让过去控制未来。
永远不要说闲话。
Never handle a situation while emotions are high. Focus on trying to resolve the situation.
Don't talk yourself down. Don't be too hard on yourself after a bad day. You're human. Be human.
Don't judge others. You don't know their story.
Don't spend more than you earn.
Don't forget to tell your friends and family you love them.
Never be afraid to admit when you're wrong.
Never be afraid to apologize.
Never let the past control the future.
Never gossip.
不要比较困难。难就是难，它与其他任何人都没有关系。
千万不要在情绪高涨的时候处理事情，集中精力解决问题。
不要贬低自己。糟糕的一天过后，不要对自己太苛刻，你是人类，就有人性。
不要评判别人，你不知道他们的故事。
不要花得比挣的多。
别忘了告诉你的朋友和家人你爱他们。
永远不要害怕承认错误。
永远不要害怕道歉。
永远不要让过去控制未来。
永远不要说闲话。
Marcos Sheldon Padilla, International Federation of Living People
1. Don't play football.
2. Don't let rage dictate your actions.
3. Don't go back on your word. If you change your mind, say so, and why.
4. Don't be mean to children and animals.
5. Don't look down on the less fortunate.
6. Don't assume you know what everyone is thinking and why.
7. Don't forget to brush your teeth.
8. Don't think you will live forever. Or anyone else, for that matter. Life is fleeting.
9. Don't lie to the IRS.
10. Don't listen to bad country music.
不要踢足球。
不要让愤怒左右你的行为。
不要食言。如果你改变了主意，就说出来，并说明原因。
不要对孩子和动物刻薄。
不要瞧不起那些不幸的人。
不要以为你知道每个人在想什么以及为什么。
别忘了刷牙。
不要以为你或者其他任何人会永生，生命转瞬即逝。
不要对国税局撒谎。
不要听糟糕的乡村音乐。
1. Don't play football.
2. Don't let rage dictate your actions.
3. Don't go back on your word. If you change your mind, say so, and why.
4. Don't be mean to children and animals.
5. Don't look down on the less fortunate.
6. Don't assume you know what everyone is thinking and why.
7. Don't forget to brush your teeth.
8. Don't think you will live forever. Or anyone else, for that matter. Life is fleeting.
9. Don't lie to the IRS.
10. Don't listen to bad country music.
不要踢足球。
不要让愤怒左右你的行为。
不要食言。如果你改变了主意，就说出来，并说明原因。
不要对孩子和动物刻薄。
不要瞧不起那些不幸的人。
不要以为你知道每个人在想什么以及为什么。
别忘了刷牙。
不要以为你或者其他任何人会永生，生命转瞬即逝。
不要对国税局撒谎。
不要听糟糕的乡村音乐。
Mursal Juya, Humanitarian
Mursal Juya，人道主义者
Mursal Juya，人道主义者
1. Don't judge people.
2. Don't make promises you can't fulfill.
3. Don't treat people differently based on the biases.
4. Don't get involved in demeaning or bullying others.
5. Don't stay neutral/silent when you see unjust happening.
6. Don't be hesitant to say sorry when you know it's your fault.
7. Don't compare yourself to others.
8. Don't bother about what others think about you.
9. Don't hesitate to reach out to the underprivileged for help and support.
10. Don't live life for yourself alone; life becomes meaningful when it's based on giving and contributing, and thereby, inspiring others by your actions.
不要评判别人。
不要许下你无法实现的承诺。
不要基于偏见而区别对待他人。
不要参与贬低或欺负他人。
当你看到不公正的事情发生时，不要保持中立/沉默。
当你知道这是你的错时，对说对不起不要犹豫。
不要拿自己和别人比较。
不要在意别人怎么看你。
向弱势群体寻求帮助和支持时不要犹豫。
不要只为自己而活；当生活建立在付出和贡献的基础上，从而通过你的行动激励他人时，生活就会变得有意义。
2. Don't make promises you can't fulfill.
3. Don't treat people differently based on the biases.
4. Don't get involved in demeaning or bullying others.
5. Don't stay neutral/silent when you see unjust happening.
6. Don't be hesitant to say sorry when you know it's your fault.
7. Don't compare yourself to others.
8. Don't bother about what others think about you.
9. Don't hesitate to reach out to the underprivileged for help and support.
10. Don't live life for yourself alone; life becomes meaningful when it's based on giving and contributing, and thereby, inspiring others by your actions.
不要评判别人。
不要许下你无法实现的承诺。
不要基于偏见而区别对待他人。
不要参与贬低或欺负他人。
当你看到不公正的事情发生时，不要保持中立/沉默。
当你知道这是你的错时，对说对不起不要犹豫。
不要拿自己和别人比较。
不要在意别人怎么看你。
向弱势群体寻求帮助和支持时不要犹豫。
不要只为自己而活；当生活建立在付出和贡献的基础上，从而通过你的行动激励他人时，生活就会变得有意义。
Tahmin Ra, works at Ford Foundation
1)Don't be discouraged when failing.
2)Don't measure your success by the times that you have won. Measure it by how many times you have fallen and gotten up.
3)Don't haste in your work when you know you can do a better work later.
4) Don't wait to hear a wise word to start, start your action and you create wisdom.
5)Don't let go of the time to study yourself, you are the best book to explore.
6)Don't let go of the chance to speak to yourself when in doubt.
7)Don't take it difficult on yourself when you know it is a challenging phase.
8)Don't forget to open your heart when you meet someone wiser than you.
9)If you don't understand the meaning of something, save it for when you can.
10) Don't think over the missed shots. Every time you miss a chance, you missed the chance. And every time you think about it, you miss another chance.
失败时不要气馁。
不要用你赢了多少次来衡量你的成功。用你跌倒和爬起来的次数来衡量它。
当你知道你以后可以做得更好时，不要匆忙工作。
不要等到听到智慧的话才开始行动，只要开始行动，你就会创造智慧。
不要放弃去研究自己的时间，你是一本去探索的最好的书。
当你有疑问的时候，不要放弃和自己对话的机会
当你知道这是一个充满挑战的阶段时，不要为难自己。
当你遇到比你聪明的人时，别忘了敞开心扉。
如果你不明白某件事的意思，就把它留到你能理解的时候。
不要考虑错过的机会。错过就错过了。每当你再次想到它，你就会错过另一个机会。
1)Don't be discouraged when failing.
2)Don't measure your success by the times that you have won. Measure it by how many times you have fallen and gotten up.
3)Don't haste in your work when you know you can do a better work later.
4) Don't wait to hear a wise word to start, start your action and you create wisdom.
5)Don't let go of the time to study yourself, you are the best book to explore.
6)Don't let go of the chance to speak to yourself when in doubt.
7)Don't take it difficult on yourself when you know it is a challenging phase.
8)Don't forget to open your heart when you meet someone wiser than you.
9)If you don't understand the meaning of something, save it for when you can.
10) Don't think over the missed shots. Every time you miss a chance, you missed the chance. And every time you think about it, you miss another chance.
失败时不要气馁。
不要用你赢了多少次来衡量你的成功。用你跌倒和爬起来的次数来衡量它。
当你知道你以后可以做得更好时，不要匆忙工作。
不要等到听到智慧的话才开始行动，只要开始行动，你就会创造智慧。
不要放弃去研究自己的时间，你是一本去探索的最好的书。
当你有疑问的时候，不要放弃和自己对话的机会
当你知道这是一个充满挑战的阶段时，不要为难自己。
当你遇到比你聪明的人时，别忘了敞开心扉。
如果你不明白某件事的意思，就把它留到你能理解的时候。
不要考虑错过的机会。错过就错过了。每当你再次想到它，你就会错过另一个机会。
Vlado Stoenchev
I am not a preacher,You create your own list. Just make sure targets are affordable and lawful. I do not remember the title of a movie in which Jack Nicholson and Morgan Freeman, both playing dying patients whose days are numbered, decide to create a "bucket list" of things to do. Watch it and it will help you solve your problem.
我不是一个传道者，你创建自己的列表。只要确保目标是负担得起的和合法的。杰克·尼科尔森(Jack Nicholson)和摩根·弗里曼(Morgan Freeman)在一部电影中饰演生命垂危的病人，他们决定列一个“遗愿清单”，列出要做的事情。看这部电影吧，它会帮你解决问题。
I am not a preacher,You create your own list. Just make sure targets are affordable and lawful. I do not remember the title of a movie in which Jack Nicholson and Morgan Freeman, both playing dying patients whose days are numbered, decide to create a "bucket list" of things to do. Watch it and it will help you solve your problem.
我不是一个传道者，你创建自己的列表。只要确保目标是负担得起的和合法的。杰克·尼科尔森(Jack Nicholson)和摩根·弗里曼(Morgan Freeman)在一部电影中饰演生命垂危的病人，他们决定列一个“遗愿清单”，列出要做的事情。看这部电影吧，它会帮你解决问题。
Ferya Kahn, Was a victim of intense competitiveness at a really early age. Suffered from OCD and anxiety trying to satisf…
1.Never be mean to people even if they are mean to you. You meet the same people on your way up that you meet on your way down.
2. Never let people take advantage of you.Being nice to people and letting people take advantage of you are two different things.
3.learn from everyone. All ages and cultures. All walks of life. Dont focus on the person you are learning from. Focus on what they are teaching.
4.dont trust the same person twice. Unless they really prove they can be trusted.
5. Embrace and give importance to people who come to you .
永远不要对别人吝啬，即使他们对你很吝啬。你在上升的路上遇到的人和在下降的路上遇到的人是一样的。
永远不要让别人利用你。对别人好和让别人利用你是两码事。
向每个人学习。包括所有年龄和文化、各行各业。不要把注意力集中在你的学习对象身上，关注他们所教的内容。
不要再次去信任同一个人。除非他们真的证明他们是可信的。
拥抱并重视那些来到你身边的人。
1.Never be mean to people even if they are mean to you. You meet the same people on your way up that you meet on your way down.
2. Never let people take advantage of you.Being nice to people and letting people take advantage of you are two different things.
3.learn from everyone. All ages and cultures. All walks of life. Dont focus on the person you are learning from. Focus on what they are teaching.
4.dont trust the same person twice. Unless they really prove they can be trusted.
5. Embrace and give importance to people who come to you .
永远不要对别人吝啬，即使他们对你很吝啬。你在上升的路上遇到的人和在下降的路上遇到的人是一样的。
永远不要让别人利用你。对别人好和让别人利用你是两码事。
向每个人学习。包括所有年龄和文化、各行各业。不要把注意力集中在你的学习对象身上，关注他们所教的内容。
不要再次去信任同一个人。除非他们真的证明他们是可信的。
拥抱并重视那些来到你身边的人。
6.when you meet people who are more accomplished than you. Dont find ways to bring them down. Infact try to be an assisstant. Let them mentor you.
Example
Kim kardashian owes her whole career to the exposure Paris Hilton gave her. They were best friends at a time. With Paris being more accomplished having better things and money. More fame. Kim kardashian was a nobody. Paris used to insult her. Make her clean her closet. Now Kim kardashian could have been sulky and find ways to damage Paris but she didn't she went with it. She knew a few insults were worth the experience. Today she is earning money for doing nothing. All because of the people and the observations she met and made while with Paris. Also Kim kardashian is smart she had some resources those helped but still it doesn't matter.
I dislike them both but this example is legendary.
当你遇到比你更有成就的人时。别想办法把他们打倒。事实上，试着做一名助手，让他们来指导你。
实例：金·卡戴珊的整个事业都要归功于帕丽斯·希尔顿对她的曝光。他们曾经是最好的朋友。帕丽斯·希尔顿的成就越来越高，拥有更好的东西和更多金钱、更多的名气。金·卡戴珊是个无名小卒。帕里斯过去常常侮辱她。让她打扫壁橱。金·卡戴珊本可以生气，想办法破坏帕丽斯·希尔顿，但她没有放在心上，她放下了。她知道这段经历是值得的。如今她不用做什么事就可以赚到钱。都是因为她在帕丽斯·希尔顿身边时遇到的人和观察到的情况。金·卡戴珊也很聪明，她有一些资源，但这并不重要。
她们两个我都不喜欢，但这个例子是传奇。
Example
Kim kardashian owes her whole career to the exposure Paris Hilton gave her. They were best friends at a time. With Paris being more accomplished having better things and money. More fame. Kim kardashian was a nobody. Paris used to insult her. Make her clean her closet. Now Kim kardashian could have been sulky and find ways to damage Paris but she didn't she went with it. She knew a few insults were worth the experience. Today she is earning money for doing nothing. All because of the people and the observations she met and made while with Paris. Also Kim kardashian is smart she had some resources those helped but still it doesn't matter.
I dislike them both but this example is legendary.
当你遇到比你更有成就的人时。别想办法把他们打倒。事实上，试着做一名助手，让他们来指导你。
实例：金·卡戴珊的整个事业都要归功于帕丽斯·希尔顿对她的曝光。他们曾经是最好的朋友。帕丽斯·希尔顿的成就越来越高，拥有更好的东西和更多金钱、更多的名气。金·卡戴珊是个无名小卒。帕里斯过去常常侮辱她。让她打扫壁橱。金·卡戴珊本可以生气，想办法破坏帕丽斯·希尔顿，但她没有放在心上，她放下了。她知道这段经历是值得的。如今她不用做什么事就可以赚到钱。都是因为她在帕丽斯·希尔顿身边时遇到的人和观察到的情况。金·卡戴珊也很聪明，她有一些资源，但这并不重要。
她们两个我都不喜欢，但这个例子是传奇。
7.always be ready. Opportunities come when you are not ready. So be flexible. Know that things should be given a chance. Dont expect things to be perfect. Your happiness should be how things make you feel from inside not how they look from outside.
8. Whatever you have or are surrounded by. Never say there is no way out. Never sit down on the floor and cry. Stay awake and find what to do next. Dont cry to cope. When a door closes another always opens.
9.dont lose faith. There is a higher power. Simply believing him activates strenght like any thing. If you don't know him. Look for him.
10. Dont feel guilty for what happens to you. Feel guilty for how you react. Give yourself a break though. You are only human and no doubt life is 90% how you react and 10 % what happens. That 90% is sometimes not easy to control. Irrational reactions will happen sometimes but you can stop them.
时刻准备好。机会总是在你没有准备好的时候到来。所以要灵活，要知道凡事都应该有机会。不要期望事情是完美的，你的幸福应该是事物带给你的内心感受，而不是外在的样子
不管你有什么，或者你周围有什么。永远不要说没有出路。千万不要坐在地板上哭泣。保持清醒，找出下一步该做什么。不要哭着面对，一扇门关上了，总会有另一扇门打开。
不要失去信心。有一种更高的力量。只要相信，它就能激发力量。如果你不认识他，就找到它。
不要为发生在你身上的事感到内疚。对自己的反应感到内疚。给自己一个喘息的机会。你只是一个人，毫无疑问，生活中的90%是你如何反应，10%是发生了什么。这90%有时是不容易控制的。非理性的反应有时会发生，但你可以阻止它们。
8. Whatever you have or are surrounded by. Never say there is no way out. Never sit down on the floor and cry. Stay awake and find what to do next. Dont cry to cope. When a door closes another always opens.
9.dont lose faith. There is a higher power. Simply believing him activates strenght like any thing. If you don't know him. Look for him.
10. Dont feel guilty for what happens to you. Feel guilty for how you react. Give yourself a break though. You are only human and no doubt life is 90% how you react and 10 % what happens. That 90% is sometimes not easy to control. Irrational reactions will happen sometimes but you can stop them.
时刻准备好。机会总是在你没有准备好的时候到来。所以要灵活，要知道凡事都应该有机会。不要期望事情是完美的，你的幸福应该是事物带给你的内心感受，而不是外在的样子
不管你有什么，或者你周围有什么。永远不要说没有出路。千万不要坐在地板上哭泣。保持清醒，找出下一步该做什么。不要哭着面对，一扇门关上了，总会有另一扇门打开。
不要失去信心。有一种更高的力量。只要相信，它就能激发力量。如果你不认识他，就找到它。
不要为发生在你身上的事感到内疚。对自己的反应感到内疚。给自己一个喘息的机会。你只是一个人，毫无疑问，生活中的90%是你如何反应，10%是发生了什么。这90%有时是不容易控制的。非理性的反应有时会发生，但你可以阻止它们。
Andrew Siviter, 58 years and counting!
Never expect other people to behave the same way you would in the same situation. I think this is the one thing in life that leads to the most disappointment. You can hope they will, just never expect it. It is far better to think people will be stupid/selfish/rude etc and have a happy surprise when they are actually nice, than to assume they will be nice and be saddened when they are not.
Never confuse realism and idealism. The world is not, and probably never will be an idea one, and while principles are great, you can’t eat them, they won’t keep you warm or dry or healthy. Be prepared to compromise when not doing so would cause you or your loved ones harm.
Never look down on anyone else. We all have our story, and unless you know what they have been through, you have no right to make decisions about them.
Don’t have children accidentally. Take personal responsibility for contraception. Decide if and when you want to create life, it’s a huge responsibility.
If you don’t have anything good to say, better you say nothing at all.
永远不要期望别人在同样的情况下会和你的表现一样。我想这是人生中最让人失望的一件事。你可以希望他们会，只是永远不要期待。认为人们会愚蠢/自私/粗鲁等，当他们真的很好时，你会感到惊喜，而不是假设他们会很好，当他们不友好时，你会感到悲伤。
永远不要混淆现实主义和理想主义。这个世界不是，也可能永远不会是一个理想的世界，虽然原则是伟大的，但你不能吃它们，它们不会让你保持温暖、干燥或健康。当不这样做会对你或你所爱的人造成伤害时，要做好妥协的准备。
永远不要瞧不起别人。我们都有自己的故事，除非你知道他们经历了什么，否则你无权对他们做出决定。
不要意外地生孩子。对避孕负个人责任。决定是否以及何时创造生命，这是一项巨大的责任。
如果你没有什么好说的，最好什么都不说。
Never expect other people to behave the same way you would in the same situation. I think this is the one thing in life that leads to the most disappointment. You can hope they will, just never expect it. It is far better to think people will be stupid/selfish/rude etc and have a happy surprise when they are actually nice, than to assume they will be nice and be saddened when they are not.
Never confuse realism and idealism. The world is not, and probably never will be an idea one, and while principles are great, you can’t eat them, they won’t keep you warm or dry or healthy. Be prepared to compromise when not doing so would cause you or your loved ones harm.
Never look down on anyone else. We all have our story, and unless you know what they have been through, you have no right to make decisions about them.
Don’t have children accidentally. Take personal responsibility for contraception. Decide if and when you want to create life, it’s a huge responsibility.
If you don’t have anything good to say, better you say nothing at all.
永远不要期望别人在同样的情况下会和你的表现一样。我想这是人生中最让人失望的一件事。你可以希望他们会，只是永远不要期待。认为人们会愚蠢/自私/粗鲁等，当他们真的很好时，你会感到惊喜，而不是假设他们会很好，当他们不友好时，你会感到悲伤。
永远不要混淆现实主义和理想主义。这个世界不是，也可能永远不会是一个理想的世界，虽然原则是伟大的，但你不能吃它们，它们不会让你保持温暖、干燥或健康。当不这样做会对你或你所爱的人造成伤害时，要做好妥协的准备。
永远不要瞧不起别人。我们都有自己的故事，除非你知道他们经历了什么，否则你无权对他们做出决定。
不要意外地生孩子。对避孕负个人责任。决定是否以及何时创造生命，这是一项巨大的责任。
如果你没有什么好说的，最好什么都不说。
Don’t be afraid to put yourself first sometimes.
Don’t blindly follow leaders, religious, political, social or cultural. Be your own person, uate what they say , challenge them if you feel they are wrong, or at least, find your own path.
Never ignore your inner voice, instinct, gut feeling, or whatever you call it.
Never mistreat animals, they are innocent and depend on your good nature.
Don’t pass up an opportunity to have fun, adventure, or love.
有时候不要害怕把自己放在第一位。
不要盲目追随宗教、政治、社会或文化领袖。做你自己，评估他们说什么，如果你觉得他们错了，挑战他们，或者至少，找到你自己的道路。
永远不要忽视你内心的声音、本能、直觉，或者你所说的任何东西。
永远不要虐待动物，它们是无辜的，这取决于你的善良本性。
不要错过享受乐趣、冒险或爱情的机会。
Don’t blindly follow leaders, religious, political, social or cultural. Be your own person, uate what they say , challenge them if you feel they are wrong, or at least, find your own path.
Never ignore your inner voice, instinct, gut feeling, or whatever you call it.
Never mistreat animals, they are innocent and depend on your good nature.
Don’t pass up an opportunity to have fun, adventure, or love.
有时候不要害怕把自己放在第一位。
不要盲目追随宗教、政治、社会或文化领袖。做你自己，评估他们说什么，如果你觉得他们错了，挑战他们，或者至少，找到你自己的道路。
永远不要忽视你内心的声音、本能、直觉，或者你所说的任何东西。
永远不要虐待动物，它们是无辜的，这取决于你的善良本性。
不要错过享受乐趣、冒险或爱情的机会。
Bhavya Bansal, former Member at National Service Scheme (2019-2021)
Hurting your parents.
Disrespecting a teacher.
Betraying true friends.
Becoming a traitor.
Ignoring someone who really cares.
Lie to yourself.
Snoop into others’ matters or life.
Having excuses or blame others for your own failures.
Not taking good care of your body.
Thanks for reading!
（永远不要）
伤害你的父母。
不尊重老师。
背叛真正的朋友。
成为叛徒。
忽视真正关心的人。
对自己撒谎。
窥探他人的事情或生活。
为自己的失败找借口或责备他人。
不会好好照顾你的身体。
谢谢你的阅读！
原创翻译：龙腾网 https://www.ltaaa.cn 转载请注明出处
Hurting your parents.
Disrespecting a teacher.
Betraying true friends.
Becoming a traitor.
Ignoring someone who really cares.
Lie to yourself.
Snoop into others’ matters or life.
Having excuses or blame others for your own failures.
Not taking good care of your body.
Thanks for reading!
（永远不要）
伤害你的父母。
不尊重老师。
背叛真正的朋友。
成为叛徒。
忽视真正关心的人。
对自己撒谎。
窥探他人的事情或生活。
为自己的失败找借口或责备他人。
不会好好照顾你的身体。
谢谢你的阅读！
原创翻译：龙腾网 https://www.ltaaa.cn 转载请注明出处
Tanya Saboo, works at Indian Oil Corporation Limited
Tanya Saboo，在印度石油有限公司工作
Tanya Saboo，在印度石油有限公司工作
Never
let your parents down.
tell your weaknesses to anyone.
trust anyone blindly.
let others rule your life.
ignore the people who love you unconditionally for the fake ones.
judge anyone because each person knows their own pain and renunciation.
lose your self respect whatever maybe the situation and it's consequences.
do reckless driving. Think about your loved ones.
underestimate yourself as well as others.
prioritize professional over personal or the other way. Learn to manage them.
Thanks for reading!
从不
让你的父母失望。
把你的弱点告诉任何人。
盲目地相信任何人。
让别人主宰你的生活。
忽略那些无条件地爱你的人，因为他们不真实。
评判任何人，因为每个人都知道自己的痛苦和放弃。
失去自尊，不管是什么情况和后果。
不要鲁莽驾驶，想想你所爱的人。
低估自己和他人。
优先考虑工作而不是个人，学会管理它们。
谢谢你的阅读！
let your parents down.
tell your weaknesses to anyone.
trust anyone blindly.
let others rule your life.
ignore the people who love you unconditionally for the fake ones.
judge anyone because each person knows their own pain and renunciation.
lose your self respect whatever maybe the situation and it's consequences.
do reckless driving. Think about your loved ones.
underestimate yourself as well as others.
prioritize professional over personal or the other way. Learn to manage them.
Thanks for reading!
从不
让你的父母失望。
把你的弱点告诉任何人。
盲目地相信任何人。
让别人主宰你的生活。
忽略那些无条件地爱你的人，因为他们不真实。
评判任何人，因为每个人都知道自己的痛苦和放弃。
失去自尊，不管是什么情况和后果。
不要鲁莽驾驶，想想你所爱的人。
低估自己和他人。
优先考虑工作而不是个人，学会管理它们。
谢谢你的阅读！
Sarika Sethi Singh, works at Homemaking
Sarika Sethi Singh，从事家政工作
原创翻译：龙腾网 https://www.ltaaa.cn 转载请注明出处
Sarika Sethi Singh，从事家政工作
原创翻译：龙腾网 https://www.ltaaa.cn 转载请注明出处
Never take revenge on neone u will dig graves for urself and for the other person.
Never dwell in the past. U will only get hurt. Learn to move on.
Never get disorganised (ur daily routine) hard times will come n go. Things shud remain in order.
Never deal ur relationships lightly. If they get sour u will have a lot of doing.
Never forget to say sorry and thk u.
Never hurt someone it will always comeback to u. Easier said than done.
Never take ur money matters lightly. U can go bankrupt or find urself on the streets.
Never eat stale or undercooked food.
Never meet someone who has bad history with u.
Never forget a good morning to the most loved person in ur life.
永远不要去报复，因为你会为自己和他人挖坟墓。
永远不要停留在过去。你只会受伤，学会继续前进。
永远不要打乱（你的日常生活），艰难时刻会来也会去。一切都应该井然有序。。
千万不要轻视你的人际关系。如果他们变糟，你会有很多事情要做。
永远不要忘记说对不起和谢谢你。
永远不要伤害别人，它总会反馈到自己身上来。说起来容易做起来难。
千万不要轻视金钱。你可能会破产，也可能会流落街头。
永远不要吃不新鲜或未煮熟的食物。
永远不要和你有不良历史的人去再次会面。
永远不要忘记向你生命中最爱的人问好。
Never dwell in the past. U will only get hurt. Learn to move on.
Never get disorganised (ur daily routine) hard times will come n go. Things shud remain in order.
Never deal ur relationships lightly. If they get sour u will have a lot of doing.
Never forget to say sorry and thk u.
Never hurt someone it will always comeback to u. Easier said than done.
Never take ur money matters lightly. U can go bankrupt or find urself on the streets.
Never eat stale or undercooked food.
Never meet someone who has bad history with u.
Never forget a good morning to the most loved person in ur life.
永远不要去报复，因为你会为自己和他人挖坟墓。
永远不要停留在过去。你只会受伤，学会继续前进。
永远不要打乱（你的日常生活），艰难时刻会来也会去。一切都应该井然有序。。
千万不要轻视你的人际关系。如果他们变糟，你会有很多事情要做。
永远不要忘记说对不起和谢谢你。
永远不要伤害别人，它总会反馈到自己身上来。说起来容易做起来难。
千万不要轻视金钱。你可能会破产，也可能会流落街头。
永远不要吃不新鲜或未煮熟的食物。
永远不要和你有不良历史的人去再次会面。
永远不要忘记向你生命中最爱的人问好。
Yati Ghosh, former Volunteer at 7 Cups
I will quickly let you know about the 10 things we should never do. I will list them below in short without describing the points in details.
Never bully anyone!
Try your best to Never judge anyone negatively for their deeds, you may not know their side of the story.
Trust on your augury.
Try to never lie. Hiding the truth at times, if done for a good cause without harming anyone can be done though.
我会很快让你知道我们不应该做的10件事。我将在下面简要列出它们，而不会详细描述要点。
不要欺负任何人！
尽量不要对任何人的行为做出负面评价，因为你可能不知道他们的观点。
相信你的预言。
尽量不要说谎。有时隐瞒真相，如果是为了一个好的目的而做的，而不伤害任何人，那也是可以做到的。
I will quickly let you know about the 10 things we should never do. I will list them below in short without describing the points in details.
Never bully anyone!
Try your best to Never judge anyone negatively for their deeds, you may not know their side of the story.
Trust on your augury.
Try to never lie. Hiding the truth at times, if done for a good cause without harming anyone can be done though.
我会很快让你知道我们不应该做的10件事。我将在下面简要列出它们，而不会详细描述要点。
不要欺负任何人！
尽量不要对任何人的行为做出负面评价，因为你可能不知道他们的观点。
相信你的预言。
尽量不要说谎。有时隐瞒真相，如果是为了一个好的目的而做的，而不伤害任何人，那也是可以做到的。
Don’t make promises when you’re happy. Don’t reply to anything when you’re angry. And don’t make decisions when you’re sad.
Do not listen with the intention to reply. Instead, listen with the intention to understand.
Do not talk too much. When you talk, you are only repeating what you already know. But if you listen, you may learn something new.
Do not stress yourself by over thinking. Relax! Life will get better soon. Set a goal and work towards it calmly. :)
Do not let your past dictate who you are. Try to make peace with it and move on!
当你高兴的时候不要许下承诺。当你生气的时候，不要回答任何事情，不要在你难过的时候做决定。
不要为了回答而听。相反，带着理解的意图去听。
不要说太多。当你说话时，你只是在重复你已经知道的。但是如果你倾听，你可能会学到一些新的东西。
不要想太多而给自己压力，放松点!生活很快就会好起来的。设定一个目标，然后平静地朝着它努力。
不要让你的过去决定你是谁。试着与它和睦相处，继续前进！
Do not listen with the intention to reply. Instead, listen with the intention to understand.
Do not talk too much. When you talk, you are only repeating what you already know. But if you listen, you may learn something new.
Do not stress yourself by over thinking. Relax! Life will get better soon. Set a goal and work towards it calmly. :)
Do not let your past dictate who you are. Try to make peace with it and move on!
当你高兴的时候不要许下承诺。当你生气的时候，不要回答任何事情，不要在你难过的时候做决定。
不要为了回答而听。相反，带着理解的意图去听。
不要说太多。当你说话时，你只是在重复你已经知道的。但是如果你倾听，你可能会学到一些新的东西。
不要想太多而给自己压力，放松点!生活很快就会好起来的。设定一个目标，然后平静地朝着它努力。
不要让你的过去决定你是谁。试着与它和睦相处，继续前进！
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